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WifeyGoals/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 05:57 PM
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Oh my goodness! Thank you so much for such a detailed reply! It sounds like you know a lot of Japanese, and I definitely learned a lot from your post. I didn't realize that there was so much to it but it sounds both challenging and rewarding. That sounds like a wonderful system. I'm really glad you mentioned it because I was obsessed with the Harry Potter series and remember the books frighteningly well. They would be perfect to start in another language. (Plus I can up my nerd game by having co…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 04:45 AM
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Thank you for mentioning that because I always thought Rosetta Stone would have been perfect for any language. I will definitely keep that in mind. So far I really like Duolingo but I haven't had a chance to try any of the sources mentioned here for Japanese. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 04:41 AM
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Oh my goodness, that sounds so awesome!! I bet they were all so impressed! I imagine I would feel like I had a hidden superpower if I could do that as well. And its awesome that they responded so quickly to you. They must have thought you would've kept up and that's such a honor. Great job for that!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 04:38 AM
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Aw that's great! And yes, she was such a total sweetheart. I really hope she comes back to the hotel again.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 04:36 AM
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Hello! I'm glad you found your way here! I felt the same relief that you described. Its amazing to be around like minded women for once. I'm not sure about "Surrendered Single" but I have just started "Surrendered Wife." It has helped me so much. I used to be a crazy nag, but the book really helped to straighten me out. My relationship has definitely prospered from it. Anyways, before I give you my life story, I just wanted to say hello back and welcome you to rpw!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:45 AM
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I will look into that as well! Thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:40 AM
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That is great to hear! I will definitely be looking into japanesepod101.com. I've had two recommendations for it in this thread, so its got to be good! I like the idea that they have a podcast. That's something I could listen to in the car on the way to work. That would make my drive a lot more bearable! (I live in the mountains and I don't get any kind of radio single on my drive into town where my job is.) It's great that you were able to use it at the airport! Did it go smoothly?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:33 AM
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It's great that you have friends that can speak those languages with you! I don't know anybody IRL that speaks any other languages than English so I'm going to be spending a little more time on the computer finding people to practice with. I could see how French could help you with cooking certain recipes. I've noticed a couple of recipes I have looked at had words I didn't understand and I've had to google them for the meaning. I can't help but wonder now if they were French. I just thought the…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:30 AM
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What a great idea! I never thought to ask my boss. Perhaps he can give me a good idea of what to learn for work. Also, you hit the nail on the head. I want to work on my overall self-discipline and I figured that it would be best if I spent my time building a more feminine frame of mind. I would also love the opportunities to meet other feminine women that can introduce to me their culture. Passing a proficiency test sounds like a great goal! Later on tonight I will check into it as well as Japa…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:22 AM
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I'll have to make a note of this method as well. Every little bit helps!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:17 AM
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That's so awesome that you know Russian! I have to agree with you. When I was in school, we learned both the basics of French and Spanish and almost everything I learned has evaporated without any use.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:17 AM
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That's really great advice. I should try to learn the basic phrases of as many languages as I can in case of an emergency or in case I do decide to travel. How neat that people helped you practice your Mandarin! I may take you up on your offer to practice French. I'm really tempted to look into learning basic Japanese first though. (I would be really excited to watch an anime without subtitles!) Thank you for your great offer and awesome advice!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:15 AM
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That sounds perfect! Thank you for the heads up!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 12:12 AM
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Thank you! Both sound good. And that would be beneficial if I do decide to travel.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 08:29 PM
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Thank you for your reply! I'm honestly not too excited about traveling. I'm a homebody and even though there are some places I want to visit overseas, it probably won't be for an extended period of time. I'm looking to learn other languages to broaden my horizons. I would love to be hospitable to a guest and be able to speak their native language instead of having the awkward translating moments. But I wouldn't say that kind of practicality would be the reason why I want to learn another languag…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 08:26 PM
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That's a really good point. I want to learn another language so I can be hospitable to incoming guests. (Am also an anime fan and would love to watch a show without it being dubbed/subbed.) I guess it would be to broaden my horizon on languages. Thank you for the advice! :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 08:21 PM
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Hello! At the risk of sounding rude, just shut up and do it. Nagging has been the hardest thing to overcome for myself. Like you, I constantly have an ongoing mental list of things that need to be done as well as stresses that are related to those things. I used to find myself completely losing it over small things. One time my SO didn't clean out his pockets in his work pants before I threw them in the wash. The nag rant that came started with that little thing and progressed to a full on bitch…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 06:35 PM
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Hello! First, I just wanted to say that I'm the same way. If I don't stick to a strict schedule, it seems like everything falls apart and nothing gets done. I'm left feeling lazy and it depresses me that I didn't do my very best that day. I don't think you should get rid of your schedule. If it helps you to meet your goals, stick with it. I would suggest scheduling time for your SO in. It seems like the only thing missing. I would let the members of your project know that you'll be altering the …
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 06:20 PM
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I'll have to check for some! I know my SO will love that as well. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 05:46 PM
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Sorry for the (very) late reply! I'm a couple days shy from finishing up my finals week. I start with a mental list but then I'll prepare a physical list in word. I printed off a copy of it, put it in a plastic sleeve and taped the opening so it wouldn't fall out (I don't have a laminator) and hang it on my fridge. I have daily chores at the top, then the weekly chores thats followed by monthly/seasonal chores and at the very end I include stuff that needs to be done yearly. (Checking the roof, …
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 05:45 PM
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Congrats at moving in with your SO! I'm in a similar situation. What I find that works for me the best is to split up certain chores for certain days. I have a daily list that includes sweeping, surface dusting, dishes, spot mop the floor and put things back in their designated places. (Putting dirty laundry in the basket, putting books and magazines on the proper shelves etc) I clean toilets, sinks and the bath tub on Monday, I clean out the fridge on Tuesday, I swiffer all of the floors Tues a…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 02:25 AM
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I'm so happy to hear of your situation! It's something most women would dream about! I understand your discomfort with it though. I think you should just show him how grateful you are and how serious about the future you are. I would feel more comfortable by taking on the housework and the cooking. I would also great him with something frisky (I believe I saw a blowjob mentioned here) or even a neck massage. I also think that you should use the time to find says to be frugal. I understand that m…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 03:38 PM
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Thats a huge success! I was having that issue as well. I know I need to get healthier and I want my SO to get healthier as well. But I've been nagging him instead of focusing on myself. I kind of thought that by focusing on myself I might inspire him to work on himself and your comment validated that. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 06:39 PM
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The idea of after work dresses is wonderful! I unfortunately get out of work at midnight so when I get home its straight into the shower then jammies. I should pick out some cute jammies though, something more than sweatpants. Maybe leggings and a flattering shirt. We only see each other for a few minutes before its time for bed, but that is probably better than hanging out in ratty sweats. Thanks for your input! I'll start instituting this in my life as well.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 06:37 PM
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Unfortunately, no. The only ladies that are rp that I talk to are in the irc chat. I would love to know one in person though. I would never let her go!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 03:27 AM
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That sounds so lovely! I hope to find a friend like that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 03:19 AM
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I absolutely love this! What a wonderful way to combat negativity!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 03:15 AM
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I've been reading that and it is helping me so much. It helped me to see how my controlling ways appear to W and it was a really big eye opener.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 02:50 PM
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I agree. I was raised being told to keep all family affairs to the household only.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 08:38 PM
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Do they live far enough away that you'll be staying with them? If so, I'd recommend mentioning sleeping in separate rooms unless they've already said that they'd be okay with you guys bunking together. But I think it would be considerate to their rules and they would respect that. When staying there, whether visiting or spending the night, help his mom around the house with the cooking and cleaning. Definitely take care of your boyfriend needs but don't step on his moms toes if shes using the oc…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 03:56 PM
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Good for you! I'm also struggling with friends that aren't really people that I want to surround myself with now that I've been changing for the better. Its definitely a struggle but well worth it. I think its great that you deleted your profiles for online dating. I've tried that before (even before I started going rp) and it didn't work out at all. Meeting guys in the real world has been better for me. I think its wonderful that you plan on using meetup.com to join a soccer team. I think thats…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 02:23 AM
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I think your passion is admirable! I saw that you mentioned that you wouldn't have access to certain hygiene products and I would suggest to just do what you can. Maybe take an extra minute to do a more complicated braid or updo. Something that isn't just throwing your hair up to do whatever. You'll be out in nature! Maybe pick a flower everyday to just stick in your braid! I would suggest wearing comfortable but well fitting clothes. (Not sure if you'll have a uniform) but make sure your look i…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 07:51 PM
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