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GeneralWiiWynn/r/MensRights29/12/22 05:36 PM
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Approach women when they don’t have a big pool of immediate comparison for you. That’s why dating apps are the worse. You’re immediately compared to the top matches that she’s had in a 30 mile radius. But cold approach women at the grocery store or coffee shop? You’re being compared with the general population and the odds are that the men nearby that are dateable are average. And if you’re above average, you’re golden.
/r/seduction25/09/24 06:49 PM
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It’s the same, it’s just the market to which you’re competitive changes. A 10 year Tacoma is super attractive, but to a certain niche group of people. Lots of folks like a brand new BMW. But hardly anyone is interested in a 10 year BMW.
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:49 PM
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For you to be able to be honest and women be fully accepting of casual relationships with slim possibility of a future, you have to be way above their league. Either your body is a 9+ (aesthetic and 6 foot+ tall), your wealth is top 1% (and also you LOOK top 1% with car, clothes, watch, etc), or they’re way bottom tier women (cum dumpster moms, fat, ugly, etc). Even if you go international, rules still apply. What raises your attractiveness to locals is simply your perceived wealth from living i…
/r/seduction22/09/24 03:19 PM
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Don’t be goal oriented. Just flow man. You’re not a man with a plan. You’re just meeting someone. If you see her, and she meets the ‘can smash’ criteria, just start your play. Be fun. Playful. Flirt. Talk a little dirty without being a creep. But if she’s giving you some bad vibes, walk away just as easily. This works for me. No expectation relieves so much pressure to do anything or be anywhere. I’ve had a blowjob in the backseat of my truck on the first night, another night I’ve had a threesom…
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:51 AM
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It’s overrated. The guys with success on apps just spend all their time focused on gym + roids. And the hookup lifestyle honestly doesn’t get you anywhere. You’re not investing in your future in any way. I was on a tear a while back and it’s fun, but it’s like video games or drugs. You’re feeding an addiction, which is really a hole in you you’re trying to fill but you can’t. When I look back, out of all the chicks I was with, there were a handful of them I really remember fondly, wether it’s be…
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:02 PM
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No, but we all know that’s what’s happening. I don’t tell them that because they’re just mentally more fragile. I’m telling you that because I’m thinking maybe you can do a little self reflection there.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:44 PM
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Your algorithm is feeding you some weird shit man. It happens for sure, but it’ll seem like an ‘epidemic’ if the algorithm feeds it to you.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:39 PM
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Get some experience. Don’t walk up to women you’re attracted to just yet. Start with ones you’re not. Then when those interactions are good (whatever you’re considering as good eg numbers, dates set up, whatever), start moving up to more attractive women. Eventually you’ll have no issue walking up to any women. I’ve seen some broke heavy set guys have no issue walking up to 8&9s. They’ve got a hilarious personality and so their chat game is on point.
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:55 PM
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I blame Taylor Swift. Lol.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 05:14 AM
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Surprisingly, I get you. And yeah, femininity has been infected by a mind-virus that creates and promotes narcissism and anti-family/anti-community behaviors. Sorry you’re going through all this, but frankly it’s a bit nice to know another woman out there ‘gets it’. But just don’t be surprised when you get branded an ‘incel’ now. Lol. Maybe you can go the whole ‘passport bro’ route.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 05:03 AM
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She doesn’t want kids at 30? There’s literally no point to marriage if you’re not going to be having kids. Just be partners with none of the financial risks. I suggest you move in and get more experience with women. She’s on the decline and you’re approaching your prime. Go have some fun and understand what women you prefer.
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:21 PM
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Why would you dismiss “working on yourself” then immediately start to advocate “working on yourself”? Yeah everyone needs to work on themselves. But what they’re working on matters. If you’re lonely and you want companionship and to get laid, you’ve got to do things to attract women. That doesn’t mean you do things only to attract women. But thankfully, women are attracted to very general demonstrations of competency and effectiveness (as well as some dumb things like being 6+’ tall). Playing an…
/r/MensRights28/08/24 01:07 AM
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Talk about excluding all context. There’s literally paragraphs on both sides of that quote. What a twat.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 03:23 PM
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We’re in a bad time right now. So much changing so fast. Cultural and societal expectations have historically kept people in ‘check’ from basic desires and detrimental community behaviors. But we’ve lost that sense of community in exchange for this vapid psuedo digital online community. Hang in there buddy. I’m slowly seeing young women recognize this in Gen Z (and soon Alpha). It seems to be self correcting as there’s so many lonely 30 and 40 somethings and the next generation is observing why …
/r/MensRights27/08/24 03:00 PM
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Think of it like a video game. There’s 10s and there’s 1s. Start low where there’s 0 interest in them. You’ll notice you have no problem speaking to them. Then move slowly towards more and more attractive women until you start having problems. Then stay there and practice until you have no problems. So you’re just gaining experience points and the battles are getting easier as you level up. It works, promise.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:32 PM
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You’re not fuckable enough. Women do flings with really buff/jacked guys or really rich guys. You’re just a cute guy with long term prospects. You might also have no game and come off as a nice guy. Flirt more, be naughty do they don’t have to be the one leading it. If they want to be a slut that night, you’ll have to make it seem it was your idea and they were just going with it.
/r/seduction24/08/24 01:06 AM
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There are ‘father wounds’ and ‘mother wounds’. Mommy issues are a thing. It’s somewhat fairly understood psychology so you may want to look it up. Not sure got it related to relationships, but rather how they view themselves and their ability to love themselves respectfully.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 03:23 PM
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I’ve definitely noticed this. I’ve seen some hoes when they met some Chad (though maybe naive) completely melt into a submissive woman. They start to ‘behave’. I have no idea what they act like at home, but what I’ve observed is they start falling in line with their gender role. It somewhat changed my perspective a bit. That the behavior I observe in a woman also is a function of how they perceive my masculinity. Pretty interesting.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 03:19 PM
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Hard to tell bud. She’s still 26. If she’s smart, she’s looking to settle down at this point. But if she’s not so smart (which is 90% of modern women), she’s riding that cock Carousel. Best not to get one-itis with a girl playing games. You’re just playing yourself. Move on with your life and demote her to FWB. Or just play her and string the ‘potential relationship’ card as long as you can. Just don’t catch any feelings or else finding yourself ghosted is the best scenario, the worst of it bein…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 05:25 PM
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I wish my game was as good as your formatting game. That’s next level. 👏
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 06:55 PM
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I really think you have body image issues. You’re average height, and at your weight, if you’re lean, you’re probably pretty aesthetic. If you want to put on some mass, do some heavy lifting. Powerlifting and Strongman type stuff. Then eat a shit ton of calories while you’re doing it. I have small wrists too and am shorter than you by a few cm (I also was very unathletic growing up). But I packed slabs of muscle with heavy lifting. My body didn’t respond well to body building type stuff. But ult…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/23 12:59 PM
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We’re all victims of something in life. Given your aggressiveness, I’d suspect you’re a victim of something yourself. But you’re coping with some aggressiveness and toughness. But just because someone is tough doesn’t mean they haven’t found themselves a victim of some injustice in their life. Also true, just because you’re a victim doesn’t mean it’s not your job to get yourself out of a situation either.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/23 06:15 PM
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No. I’m also familiar with psychotic breaks. This isn’t it at all. Not even close. People really suffer mental trauma. Don’t insult them and associate this with them. This lady is suffering more from poverty, growing up with poor and not so bright people of several generations, and constant brainwashing of liberal politics. She’s definitely a victim, but not the sort of way that you’re trying to associate with. More of a victim of being at the very bottom of the US social economic class.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/23 11:57 AM
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It’s just how they basic women are, which are the single ones primarily. When given arguments and rationale that undermines and doesn’t serve their goals, they will deny, insult/name call, gaslight, play the victim… almost in that order. Blue pillers don’t see this and buy into those narratives you’re referring to. There’s some ‘awake’ women that get it, but they’re rare, particularly when young and after a tremendous amount of work that resulted in compassion and respect in men.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:22 AM
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Ladies? As in the formal “ladies and gentlemen” greeting during formal events? This is virtue signaling. Someone in the school board came up with this stupid idea. Then said it out loud that ‘ladies’ was insensitive, motivated by attempting to appear superior in their evolved modern sensibilities. Now everyone else in the room has a choice. You can say something and contest the notion as absurd, but then risk appearing as insensitive. OR you can just go along with it and not risk your job. We’re…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 10:58 AM
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A couple is a team of 2. A family, more. Household chores and family activities are just part of the responsibilities of the team. There’s also income and futures income growth thru business or careers. If the woman doesn’t contribute to the income, then where she can most effectively contribute is at home. There’s a ‘mental load’ associated with work. And someone who asserts that there isn’t probably isn’t very good at their job or has a pretty low effort job. Real jobs and professions require …
/r/MensRights31/03/23 01:03 PM
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Wonder if that judge arranged for some side action from that woman. Only reason I can think of why anyone would let this behavior slide.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 09:12 AM
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This worked for me. Maybe it will your friend. I started with low effort women. Your 5’s and 6’s. I really didn’t care what the hell they thought about me. So there was no approach anxiety. Got a few lays and practice approaching. Then moved onto the 7s. They’re harder because they know they’re cute. But eventually you dial in the confidence. Eventually work your way up to any attractive girl. And if she’s an 8 or 9, I’d make sure I had my A-game (nice watch and outfit, clean groomed, at a place…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 04:47 PM
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Why would people be upset with him? Man has boundaries. She crossed them. He walked. Very reasonable thing to do. The fact that other men are gaslighting him is pretty lame. If you want to cuck that’s on you and it’s a free country. But leave other men alone that don’t.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 08:00 PM
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Insane. Glad you screenshot this stuff.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 07:11 PM
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This isn’t a bad idea actually. You could have an app do reverse image searches and have guys rate them on different measures. 1-10, hoe to trad wife material, pics accurate, temperament. It works be epic. Or build a dating app that allows for reviews. God it would be epic. Every man would have terrible ratings and every woman would actually have honest ratings (because guys aren’t sad spiteful psychos generally). So no one works trust any of the guys reviews but only the reviews on women would …
/r/MensRights24/03/23 01:40 AM
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Lol. One quick read of my post history will make you look even more of an idiot than you already look.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 11:31 PM
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You’re using a throwaway account so you can criticize this person for criticizing how women who are against toxic women get criticized for defending men? Cowardice and ironic. She posted on this sub something that is completely aligned to this sub. You’re basically trolling right now with a throwaway account. It looks to me that you’re the ‘odd duck’ here and one that doesn’t belong.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 10:54 PM
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It’s not proof, but highly likely that they dropped the charges for reasons other than what the DA claimed. You think the DA would drop a high-profile case like this without absolute proof that he was innocent? Even with proof of innocence, the DA still pushes for a plea bargain so that they don’t look bad. They worded it in such a way to make it look like they weren’t sent on a wild goose chase by some insane ex, wasting taxpayers resources. It doesn’t take much intelligence to figure this out.…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:47 PM
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And he won’t be able to sue for defamation and lost income because likely, bitch has no money. But more importantly, that women ought to be charged for false allegations. This was extortion weaponizing the legal system.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 01:22 AM
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No one comes to a subreddit to troll and survives very long. It’s exhausting. Constantly downvoted, argued with, dismissed, etc. I’d like to believe that many of them might be here pretending to troll for their own ego-sake, but deep down has some doubts about feminism. Imagine living your life aligned with a doctrine and dogma that, over time, doesn’t seem to fit with what you’re observing in reality. “If men are so terrible and toxic, why am I attracted to dominant and masculine men?” “If men …
/r/MensRights22/03/23 08:46 PM
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Sorry you had to go thru that son. If at all possible, find yourself a mentor you feel is a good role model and spend as much time with them as possible. You’re at a very delicate transition time right now and you need support, and not the feminine touchy feely emotional kind. You need old school masculine energy. The kind that can guide and condition you for the savagery of the world.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 07:13 PM
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No. I don’t agree. My opinion, the fundamental grievances, as you put it, is just how HARD it is to compete in a free market. Women for a few generations now have experienced equal opportunity, and although some have admirably performed swimmingly, the many loud and unsuccessful women have been struggling and play victim. Many men, having had to compete in nearly everything in their lives are more conditioned. An average man will encounter adversity and conclude they need to work, grind, and hus…
/r/MensRights22/03/23 07:05 PM
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We don’t need a men’s day in my opinion. We all know which gender made the most significant achievements that elevated humanity to what it is today. More and more, I think men are collectively just looking at the ‘woke’ and rolling their eyes and just saying, “that’s cute” in collective condescension. Comedians are already having so much material to work with here.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 02:16 AM
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Social media has ruined this generation. It’s ruined a lot of other things, but the worst I believe is this current generation of virtue signalers. Everyone is looking to out virtue signal each other and who can appear more virtuous towards the underrepresented and other victims.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 10:39 PM
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I’ve only seen the terms ‘toxic masculinity’ applied in the workplace. In that context, celebrating behaviors such as ‘never having taken sick days, or vacation, or be at your children’s birth for work’ are considered toxic. Casually objectifying women sexually in the break room is also an example. The irony is, aggressive and competitive women in the workplace ALSO exhibit these behaviors. They’ll proudly work crazy hours while pregnant, try to get back into work as soon as they can after child…
/r/MensRights21/03/23 11:56 AM
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I was there as a young man. Hope he takes the pill one day. Maybe give him a book or send a redpill YouTuber his way or something. Honestly breaks my heart because I see myself in him. I took the pill later in my life, but it was after some really awful abuse. But once I accepted the pill, all the pieces fit. And the world and humans all made sense, and I was all the better for it. Good luck to your roomie.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/23 07:40 PM
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Men and women are different and have different standards. That’s just how it is. There’s arguments for evolutionary biology and psychology at work, but even if you ignore that, Men and women have different standards. Women like their men tall, men like their women thin and fit. Best not to worry about why and just play the game. If you’re a guy without a whole lot of experience, go figure out ways to get it. It’ll be uncomfortable and difficult, but that’s the point. Men have to prove their wort…
/r/MensRights18/03/23 07:30 PM
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This is for I view films. A large part of what makes a film popular is its story (duh). Particularly, what theme and idea they’re proposing to the audience. If that idea resonates and the film is executed well from an artistic craft point of view, it’ll be a hit. I don’t believe that films ‘push’ a narrative. Rather, they find narratives they believe will make a lot of money. Tons of female empowerment movies do terribly (i.e. Ghostbusters, Captain Marvel). So Hollywood found out that doesn’t ma…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 01:46 PM
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Poor guy. But lesson learned for him I hope. Young women with low body counts still have value and don’t let anyone know they partake in hookups. And she may have been genuinely interested in him, so to be clearly filed under ‘cum bucket’ by a guy she felt was in her league was a blow to get ego.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/23 01:27 PM
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Did he reply back? It’s a misunderstanding. And of course, shows some insecurity on the part of that woman jumping to conclusions. My advice would be for your partner to avoid having to associate with that woman as she likely is a toxic feminist. I’m not sure if it’s all the women that jumped to that conclusion.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 01:09 PM
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Fuck yeah. Definitely an interrogation or job interview. If anything, it’s the reverse. The women the ones looking for the job. At mid 30s, guys don’t NEED a woman and are looking for good reasons why they should mature a relationship with someone older. There’s certainly advantages to having a more intellectually and emotionally mature woman. But just because you’re mid 30s doesn’t mean you matured into anything people want. Some women mature into fine wine. Some women mature into sour cream.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 12:20 PM
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Some women… not all. And the ones that do, well, equal rights, equal lefts [they hate that].
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/23 01:19 AM
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You REALLY want to know what it’s like to be Chad or Tyrone? Once you get a taste of it, you’ll understand what the abundance mentality is like and how true AWALT is! In my mid-30s, I was fortunate enough to begin traveling and working as an expat on my company’s dime. South America and Southeast Asia to be precise. I was already hitting my stride in the US, meeting women with maybe average success in closing the deal and juggling plates. But holy shit. When I worked in those other countries, I …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 01:46 AM
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So if it was a pedo man, would you have the same thoughts? Not sure about you but pedo’s are pretty universally hated. I mean, you’re not wrong, but would a male rapist received your sympathy? I’d wager not.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/23 08:05 PM
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Fuck, that was too real. Keep up the good work.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/23 08:03 PM
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Because hypergamy is a thing. And modern times have romanticized it as natural (which it is) and out to be acceptable (which it shouldn’t). When men cheat, the guys an asshole (which he is), but by no means should a woman accept it (which there ARE circumstances where a woman ought to consider if that’s the best course of action, particularly if there’s children involved). Modern culture has it backwards right now.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 07:52 PM
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Wow, she’s pretty vanilla in looks department. Flat… everything. I figured she’d be a bombshell. But she’s just just an exemplary example of visual mediocrity. If you’re going to get a side piece, let the risk be worth the reward at least.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/23 07:09 PM
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Nothing wrong with being content brother. As long as you’re saving for a comfortable retirement, and you’re content, keep trucking. I do not believe in chasing money. Like women, if you chase it, it’ll run from you. What had worked for me is not considering ‘money’ as a thing. I have been viewing money as the ‘debt society owes me for service to the community’. What I mean is, the more valuable and consistent my service and contribute to society and my community is, the more wealth I’ll have. So…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/23 02:36 AM
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Just get International Women. No games. It’s expensive in time and money, but if you’re serious, it’s safer and cheaper in the long run playing these western games. Hell, even looking for a western woman, just from another country, still puts you in a different league. I find they’ll actually evaluate you as a human because they really can’t compare you to their local guys.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/23 10:55 PM
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I think it’s possible to have alternative interpretations and judgements of the same observation. In your example, Men’s labor is just expected and not a sacrifice to many. But it doesn’t need to be. It just needs to be appreciated by those you labor for, your family. And personally, that’s all I care about. For a woman, their labor is vitally important to them. The more prestige and stats from that labor, the more valued. The irony is, it’s a rat race. And after all the shine and lister begins …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/23 04:09 AM
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Several women I’ve slept with tried this shit on me. ‘I’m on birth control’. ‘I’m too old’. ‘Infertility runs in my family’. Lol I’m no idiot. There’s some women that have taken the condom, but I always get the spermicide kind. Be careful out there fellas. They get real desperate at some point and will resort to all sorts of toxic behaviors knowing full well there will be absolutely no repercussions.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 07:12 PM
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Well, some people are like this, and sometimes grow out of it. More mature folks understand it’s possible that good people can have a different perspective on things, sometimes opposing their own. And that might mean that possibly that view they hold is too narrow. Immature people hold their views as righteous and any disagreement of it can only mean the other person is wrong, or worse, they’re not a good person. Also, sometimes egos are part of it. Where the ideas and opinions they hold aren’t …
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:04 PM
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No. Jobs become less valuable (I.e. less compensated) when there is more supply and less demand. So if you flood any labor market with MORE people (I.e. women) that can also do the job, you wages go DOWN. It’s just supply and demand. You’re projecting your worldview into the pattern. And a very well understood classical pattern. You’re also wildly rationalizing how men end in labor jobs. Everyone that has worked a trade knows a newby knows absolutely nothing. You start as a ‘helper’. You just do…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 08:19 PM
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I believe you just refuse to look at the patterns as they are. You have a predetermined lens at which you’re viewing the world. If 99.99% of men are pouring concrete and welding beams in construction outside in the heat, you’re asserting that’s due to a preference that men like those jobs and women dont. You’re asserting that if an office programmers and developers are 90% men, that’s evidence of discrimination. What you’re doing is cherry picking stats to validate your own worldview. There’s no…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 06:40 PM
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In a free society, you can observe behaviors of people when left to their own devices. Men don’t get hired as nanny’s or anything in childcare, are discriminated as teachers/educators unless in university, male nurses and flight attendants are seen as less attractive by women (as agreed by my friends in those professions). It’s not ‘oppression’ as it is ‘preferences’ from free people. Women opt to be in HR because it’s a field that requires a high degree of empathy and relationship savvy (assumi…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 02:53 PM
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It took me just a few dates with women to figure out some of their game. Then proceeded to make every first date a coffee and walk. If they didn’t like walking out in the weather, they’re not my type anyway. My wife and children do hikes with me in the rain. They love it. Make them work men and weed them out.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 02:26 PM
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Not sure what you’re upset about. The patterns are rather clear. If you like thin and athletic bodies, you’re fat-phobic and have been programmed to be attracted to unattainable bodies by porn. If you prefer younger women in their 20s, you’re an agist, a creep, and just want immature impressionable women to control. If you prefer women without kids, you’re discriminating against mothers. If you want to enjoy your 30s and sleep around, you’re a menace to society and should date your age and stop …
/r/MensRights24/01/23 06:42 PM
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You can look up how much the WNBA makes. They always operate at a loss. No one goes to the games or watches it on television, including women. I’ve worked at several large companies as a consultant. I see the numbers. Women gravitate towards certain fields / roles. Large cities, the numbers are very skewed towards ‘gender roles’. HR has had the most predominate female workforce but IT is the next to be dominated by women. Hardly ANY field folks are women, but if they are, it’s in safety or some …
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:00 AM
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Which part?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:38 AM
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Because the prevailing thought is that it’s no longer up for debate. It’s up there with racism now to be a MRA, in spite of any facts or personal experience. I just roll with it in everyday life. Don’t engage in debate. It’s not worth the social damage. Just make sure you don’t drink the kool-aid where it results in ACTUAL damage to your net worth. People who actually have to manage things and show results all know what’s up. The WNBA is a charity for women. Companies balance their female to mal…
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:34 AM
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I agree. But I refrain from totally demonizing women. My view is that Women are both the offender and the victim. The older generation indoctrinates and poisons the younger generation when they’re impressionable and generally rebellious anyway (which is natural). The younger generation become victims of this faulty and toxic worldview. They lose in life and become angry and vengeful. They then repeat the process to the next generation, becoming the villains and completing the cycle. Young women …
/r/MensRights23/01/23 12:39 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that. I feel there’s this pandemic of lonely men and women. It’s significantly harder to connect and bond as we get older. Especially with past failed relationships. It’s a self perpetuating death spiral. Young men get burned sometime in their 20s in some dramatic injustice, promoted by a free spirit and promiscuous lifestyle for young women. These men are damaged in their 30s and either work hard to become high value bachelors or antisocial emasculated men. The former ‘free sp…
/r/MensRights23/01/23 12:04 AM
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I still feel great sadness for them. They’re lonely. And that loneliness is causing them pain that is manifesting in anger. But they don’t realize they need to get out of their own way.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 11:45 PM
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To actually help women. I was on those ‘dating over ##’ subreddits and gave advice. Got banned. Any indication that men have preferences that are counter to feminist narratives are just accused of being misogyny. No matter how cordial I was, or the sympathetic manner in which I expressed other perspectives, the victim mindset was just too strong. And that sadness just gets confused with anger.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 11:34 PM
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By the time you’re 50 and still choose not to change your worldview if it means getting what you want, there’s no helping them. Their ego is to thick to allow anything in. Change is difficult and can be painful, especially for a worldview you’ve been cultivating for decades, even if that worldview has resulted in your own unhappiness. I’ve been banned from “datingover30/40”. Same reasons, any perspective from a man’s point of view results in downvotes to oblivion and banning. Spinsters all wanti…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 09:32 PM
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Should have just kept agreeing with her then smashed afterwards. Like that one scene in Its Always Sunny…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 11:34 PM
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High body count women, not going to lie, are just killers in the sack if they’re into you. They know what they’re doing and really want to please a guy. But they’re just undateable. Long term relationships require skills to maintain and be successful. These skills take time to develop. If they’ve been just hoe-ing around, they’ve not developed any of these interpersonal relationship skills and by the time they’re 26+ but still behave like an entitled brat, they’re just insufferable, pent up all …
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:19 PM
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Bro, you must be some sort of stud to have a bunch of women you alpha widowed. Good on you! Lol. But seriously, I bet if you REALLY looked at this trend of man-hate, in spite of all the rhetoric, it’s all just alpha widowed post-wall women that can’t come to terms that they’re used goods now and can’t accept that they’re no longer ring material. And seriously, in a large city of 1 million + bachelors on these apps, if flood of near or post wall women are dating the same guys, that alone should v…
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:12 PM
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“Dating”? It should read, “Is she a good lay?”. That’s all the dating apps are good for.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:04 PM
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Nope. In fact, it’s the best sex we ever have. Women that hold out are really missing out.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:13 PM
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I’ve been saying this for a long time. They claim there’s an epidemic of men not wanting to commit. No, it’s an epidemic of spinsters. Lol.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 02:53 AM
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I think it’s healthy. SOME of them will realize at least some of the redpill is true, that all the women are dating the top 10% of dudes. That maybe they aren’t as hot shit as they think they are and just allowing themselves to be played by the same guys. Most will just blame the men blah blah blah. But a few smart ones will figure it out and make some life changes before they hit the wall.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 02:51 AM
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There seems like there’s a rather insidious conspiracy at work here. Is Vice (and parent organizations) attempting to influence public opinion? Or are they simply trying to stay ‘popular’ and pander to majority sentiments and avoid any ‘truths’ that may be too controversial, offends, and loses viewers. There’s no telling. But capitalism + social media + general lack of critical thinking of humanity = narrative control apparently… But there’s a growing number of women supporters in the Men’s Righ…
/r/MensRights12/01/23 03:26 PM
1

Keep living young man. I hope you never feel the pain that some do. I’ve been at that place where there was so much betrayal and injustice that I’m sure if that went long enough, my mind could rationalize nearly anything just to make it stop. Luckily the situation changed for me where I incrementally was able to climb out, but not everyone is so fortunate.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 03:36 AM
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This was removed? It’s a personal account of his experience. Gears are a-grinding for sure. Mods are cowards on a power trip.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 06:58 PM
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Jordan Peterson makes a point of this, and we see similar rationalizations from other conclusions of non-scientific approaches. Basically, you can isolate statistic outliers of especially offensive cases, then make those cases visible and ‘proof’ of a pattern or behavior of what you’re trying to assert. The other method is anecdotal experience and making a rationalization of how your observations support a conclusion that is aligned with already held worldview. So in women’s cases, the claim is …
/r/MensRights09/01/23 05:59 PM
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You’ve got no idea what you’re talking. Grappling a woman you’ve got 50+ lbs on is like handling a toddler. Just mount, sit, control the wrists, and let her wear herself out. If you’re worried about others, then transition to knee on belly and watch for others while you’re trying to deescalate. Stop listening to ignorant people who think they know how to do anything on the ground. If you’re REALLY worried, you can easily just get up once you’ve easily demonstrated dominance with extremely little…
/r/MensRights08/01/23 08:10 PM
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Well, at the risk of sounding Joe Rogan-y, if you’re legitimately concerned about this, take Jiu Jitsu. In a couple years of consistent training, you’ll know the basic minimum to control someone and pin them without any injury other than their ego. Of course that won’t stop her from screaming assault, but it’s certainly less jarring to the public than striking.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 06:21 PM
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When you’ve dated a lot of very suitable men, with looks, charm, money, fame, etc. and STILL ask, “Where are all the good men?”, you should really be asking, “What’s wrong with me?”. Certainly everyone else is asking that.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 11:46 PM
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Wow, this drove it home. Never looked at it like that. They’re all the same thing. Basically an attempt at gaslighting folks that they’re wrong for having preferences.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 04:43 PM
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What are they liking? It’s a site for ‘raw confessions’. Is the like for ‘this is one hell of a confession’ or like as in ‘I approve’. It’s disgusting and she ought to be investigated and tried like every pedo, but not convinced the likes are of approval, more like ‘this meets the intent of the site’.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 04:00 PM
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Getting laid is the least of your problems I think. Reading and action is the difference between knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge is learned, wisdom is earned. If you’re reading a ton but not actually applying anything, trying things, doing things, failing, internalizing the failures to improve on the next try, etc. things aren’t going to work out well for you. And at 39, it’s going to be tough to break old habits and just get a break in life in general. But you’ve got to do. And know failure is …
/r/MensRights06/01/23 01:56 AM
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Sounds like you got an ex gf to me She’s either been cheated on real bad in the past OR she’s cheating on you and frustrated the other guy blows her off (she might be there side piece). Either way you should walk. Know what’s not your job? Fixing psycho chicks’ problems.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 12:53 AM
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Both men and women can have frail egos. But in narrow contexts. Men with how many women they’ve slept with. But women are particularly concerned when it comes to the quality man they end up with. Women don’t see their quality being in any relation to their body count. But men DO. Higher the better for a man. Lower the better for a woman. Men don’t put much value in relation to INCOME. They’ll just as easily marry a beautiful waitress (like Matt Damon did) over a very successful average looking w…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 08:25 PM
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We make sure to split chores. The decision is not based off gender roles on who does what, but who is GOOD at what. I’m meticulous in washing dishes. I do it well and fast. So that’s my chore. I sweep floors as efficiently. I hate bedtime routines with the kids other than reading to them and tucking them in. She handles the hygiene stuff because she enjoys that time with them. She cleans toilets because it doesn’t bother her. I fix stuff in the house because I’m good at it. She helps kids with H…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 07:03 PM
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It’s anecdotal. My parents divorced. All my friends parents are divorced. 50% of my peers are divorced and on a second marriage or chose to stay single. It’s not abuse. If I had to draw a common thread, women are fantasizing that they can do better out there on their own. They’re building a story of some sort where they can handle it. Initiate the divorce. Then find out it’s really hard to be alone. Many try to get back with the ex, but they’ve moved on. My mom cheated on my dad, left him, then …
/r/MensRights05/01/23 06:57 PM
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Women have the power with regards to dating and sex in there 20s. That’s the context here. If you’re conflating other contexts, those aren’t topics related to relationships. Women can choose to be POWERFUL and have AGENCY in this modern time. But a relationship is by definition between two people. So anyone that puts their own personal needs above that of family will doom the relationship eventually. Given enough time there will be something that will stain and test the relationship. And if eith…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 06:49 PM
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I’m sorry for your experience. But as a guy that’s been married to a highly successful woman that gave it all up (entirely her decision), we’ve been thru so much pain, but always ended up together. We reached this really blissful happiness when she quit her job and went thru a sort of internal transformation. From her perspective, she realized that all that she was working for wasn’t what she wanted inside. Money represents freedom and options for a woman. This is rooted in fear by being too dep…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 03:25 PM
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I didn’t say there wasn’t abuse. What I said is that it’s a rare occurrence, rare enough to where the divorces I’ve personally heard accounts of, there was no abuse. Women claim abuse as the PREDOMINANT reason for divorce in order to attempt to shut down any real discourse on the subject. Like when someone pulls the race card naively. To use statistic outliers to justify and argument is intellectual laziness or willful ignorance.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 03:13 PM
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I know many divorced families. Grew up with them and know them as an adult. I’ve never heard a woman claim ‘he was abusive’. That is a rare occurrence in my anecdotal experience. Most. Are just plain ‘unreconcilable differences’. But all the stories of divorced I’ve heard personally are related to careers (both partners not willing to give concede climbing their respective career ladders for the sake of the family), infidelity (equal numbers I’ve seen men and women, more of a function of their o…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 03:03 PM
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I believe ONE parent needs to have a ‘just do the job’ type job. That can certainly be the husband. I would advise that there are risks involved in that as well, and I’ll touch on it below. But pure practical ‘making the family work’, one needs to have a less demanding job because raising just one child (well) is a full time effort. But a man that makes less and has a lower ‘status’ than the woman is risky because of the female ego. Women want to date UP. That sentiment often persists well into …
/r/MensRights05/01/23 02:54 PM
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My opinion is that most feminists these days are those with legitimate trauma. We poke fun at the ran thru girls that hit the wall, but between their prime and the wall and finally acceptance, it’s a rough time for them as they get rejected over and over by men. Effectively, their own society failed them. Gave them a narrative and playbook on how to live that ultimately undermined their overall success in life. There’s a bitterness there that if unresolved gets unfairly directed at all men, when…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:50 PM
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Yeah just got banned today for stating a personal anecdote and some stats. Apparently the pairing offended the subreddit mods enough and got me banned. Basically some 30 something guy wanted to know if he should date a late 20 something woman in med school. I advised that as long as he’s not thinking marriage or kids it’s fine. Reasons being that educated successful women don’t stay in marriages statistically, she’ll be too busy for anything too serious, and kids are difficult to raise on dual d…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 04:47 AM
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That’s a sure fire sign it wasn’t his kid.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 06:51 PM
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Travel to a country that allows for dual citizenship. Find a woman there that has no interest in moving. Raise a family there and find some sort of income that allows you to have a reasonable amount of time with them. If I had to do it all over again in this generation, that’d be what I’d do knowing what I know now.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 07:41 AM
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Lol too right.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 01:51 AM
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Honestly, you can’t troubleshoot the problem without her being honest. Here’s a really REALLY nasty thing about women. If they would rather be with someone else (either already seeing someone else or think they can do better out there) or DOING something else (travel, work on their career, ride the cock carrousel, etc) they’ll project that resentment onto you. I’ve been there and so has many men. I’d recommend, if there’s even a shred of love for you, to ask if what’s going on. Really get to the…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 12:38 AM
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I’m sorry bud… this is a tough one. But we’re only hearing your side to be fair. If it is what you say it is, my read is that you guys are really young. She’s also likely not matured and not self aware. But for this to work, either she’s going to have to mature really quickly and start working with you constructively, or you need to get the hell out of dodge. If you don’t have any wealth, that’ll be easy. You’ll just be another daddy that never came back with the milk. But if you’ve got a career…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 12:20 AM
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I’m sorry but this is naive. No amount of evidence will change the mind of someone that isn’t open to different perspectives and appreciate nuance. In my long experience with Reddit, it just isn’t a common occurrence. It use to be a place for open discussion but has devolved into a kind of group think echo chamber space, especially when they moved to aggressively monetize the platform. Even subreddits that were deemed too controversial just got labeled as toxic and then removed. I now use Reddit…
/r/MensRights01/01/23 11:33 PM
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My opinion… this pandemic of detachment and lack of compassion is unfortunately more from certain cultures, particular secular Western cultures. Jews, Muslims, and in some Catholic communities, from my experience, have comradery and male compassion. Veterans have support systems for each other as well. I am not entirely sure why this is (or if it’s strictly just my anecdotal experience) but I suspect is how men build relationships and that’s thru common struggles. Each religious group suffers fr…
/r/MensRights01/01/23 01:43 AM
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I like to separate what makes a man a good human vs an attractive human. The qualities that make a good human are gender neutral. Intelligent, honest, loyal, etc can be shared between men and women. But there are some qualities between men and women that make each generally more attractive. Being STRONG is attractive as a man, but less so as a woman. Doesn’t mean a strong woman is unattractive, just means that a woman with a good deadlift doesn’t do anything for me as far as wanting to sleep wit…
/r/MensRights01/01/23 01:07 AM
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I’m not totally convinced of this. Absolutely women will verbally and outwardly show more empathy. I believe that. But in my experience, even it came time to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, Men and Women behave pretty much the same. There’s a risk reward assessment if it’s worth helping someone. My more nuanced opinion of what empathy is, having emotions towards another’s situation that actually compelled you to somehow help in any capacity. The more energy and effort applied and the less return on that …
/r/MensRights30/12/22 07:40 PM
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I think I did that right. Sorry not a big poster on Reddit.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 06:13 PM
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Well, I hope you get this health stuff resolved. But seriously, this nurse is the least of your problems. I really think you need to reevaluate your life choices. You’re young and nothing but potential. Don’t squander it on all this stupid shit.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 06:00 AM
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I think you’re still missing my point… there is no issue with women these days being able to make abuse allegations and it being acted on. More accurately, there’s no issue with ATTRACTIVE WOMEN being able to do this. If it were an poor overweight woman making the claim, I am not certain we’d see the same response from the police and legal system. I know someone personally that’s a victim of this, a young man that effectively was extorted for money. She films herself fucking this one guy at her …
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:46 PM
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Wait, you’ve managed to still make this about women somehow being victimized? False reporting is in no way making it harder for any women to weaponize the police. There are no shortage of white knights looking to pounce men unable to defend themselves, physically or legally. The takeaway here should be that women have the capacity to be just as evil and abusive. In this scenario, the man dedicated to his family and his wife had a heated argument and she, in an action that is the man’s equivalent…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:03 PM
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I was saying that just because it’s a double standard doesn’t make it wrong. My point was that I feel it’s ‘wrong’ (if that’s the context we’re making here) because it’s classless and tasteless, regardless if you’re man or woman, not that it’s a double standard. Extreme case is if a woman swings her tits out in public or a man is letting his wang dangle about.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 06:26 PM
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Might want to see a doctor about that.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 06:23 PM
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I think certain double standards are fine. Like men go to war to defend a country, women nurture children with food and warmth, that sort of thing. Men and women are different so should have different standards. I just think as a culture though, to accept open sexual objectification, just feels tasteless and classless to me. Other countries have red-light districts and parlors for that sort of thing. Recognition that that men and women have biological needs, but allows it in narrow contexts. I t…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 01:59 PM
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“Life imitates art, art imitates life.” My observations, as a man in his 40s. There’s likely no ‘conspiracies’ to control thought when it comes to making money. They just want to make money. Political motivations are different, but generally companies just want to make money, including the entertainment industry. Those scenes you mention are written to further demonstrate how characters behave in certain context, not a conspiracy to influence the public. It’s art imitating life. But the ‘life’ w…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 01:48 PM
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Meh. Fuck em. Reddit isn’t real life. And the folks looking for advice on dating on here is doomed, like I was. Nothing on reddit except the late r/redpill really worked in the dating scene. Everything else was shit and left me wondering ‘what’s wrong with me? I’m literally doing everything that’s being advised’. When I took the pill, all of a sudden everything worked, slowly. I understood women at a deep level. For example I didn’t judge them as ‘gold diggers’ but instinctually looking for reso…
/r/MensRights23/08/22 10:50 PM
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This happened to you? What a world we live in…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 07:40 PM
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To be playing texting games at 37 with grown men. Just sad. Wondering if women ever go thru a mid-life crisis like men do. This is where I’d think she’d get a reality check for what’s really making her unhappy and how to fix it. There’s only so many guys you go thru before you have to wonder maybe it’s something you’re doing wrong.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 06:59 PM
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Don’t forget that blind man they tried to go after. Hilarious.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 05:32 PM
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I don’t know about that. From the comments it sounds like they’re just as tired of the woke shit from these entitled young Karens.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 05:31 PM
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I feel a big part of feminism going off the rails is that they’re seeing just how unhappy they are when they’re expected to work and provide. When you’re no longer privileged based on Birthright. Men are now evaluating women on what they can bring to the table. If all you bring is another mouth to feed (and perhaps another kid as a single mother), you’re income isn’t comparable, you’re future potential income isn’t attractive, and you’re not emotionally intelligent (I think women use to get a pa…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 03:12 PM
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The incel term is being thrown around just flippantly these days. I usually just reply with my body count and BOOM, insta-ban because I was just replying to a personal attack. So it’s ok to be called an incel. Not ok to give them any indication that you’re the opposite of one (basically fuck at will) and have success as a man rejecting feminism.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 08:18 PM
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My experience when dating around in my mid 30s. No… single parent women are some of the most miserable people around. It’s partly why I couldn’t really commit to them. No life outside their children. Every outing had to be planned because childcare needed to be arranged, so literally no spontaneity. They wake up at 4am after sex because they need to get their kids ready for school. Get close enough to them and they’d rather have you change their oil than to go have an experience doing something.…
/r/MensRights21/08/22 02:45 PM
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I agree. You can see it permeating in popular culture. Music in our day was tasteful and respectful towards each other. Finding love. Searching for it. Losing it. Now you have a bunch of music that’s about juggling partners, not giving a shit about them, treating each other as expendable. Feminists are literally creating a world of single mothers who are raising a generation of emasculated men and aggressive and narcissist daughters. These women are either ridiculing men as incels or passing the…
/r/MensRights21/08/22 02:15 AM
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Well, censorship. I’ve attempted to argue on Reddit and get the comments routinely removed or banned. Most platforms aren’t free speech platforms and to be viewed as supporting or enabling misogyny in this political climate is a bit of corporate suicide. Jordan Peterson (and Joe Rogan) has amassed a following and somewhat difficult to censor because of that. Censoring him would be too blatant of an attack who’s motive is censorship, which is also generally despised in supposed free countries. So…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 06:27 PM
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This has happened to me a lot. What typically happens is I give them a little of my history where I manwhored around a slept with a bunch of women in a short amount of time. I will typically get the comment removed shortly after or banned from the subreddit because the femnazi got really offended and reported me.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 06:21 PM
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Well, I can’t comment on a body count of 100s, but what I observed was that I removed the emotional association I have to sex. It was just a fun thing people did. And a woman willing to sleep with me just felt mildly flattering rather than some massive rollercoaster of emotion. And even better, I replaced other activities I’d consider as an emotional connection. For example, when a woman put in some ‘work’ towards the relationship and towards me. They were putting in effort to grow something. Th…
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:19 PM
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The act of consensual sex is a non-verbal agreement that both parties are agreeing to the risk of a child. The decision to have a child can be made solely by the woman. If the woman chooses to exercise the right to have the child, the man has, prior to the child being born, the right to decide if he wants to be in that child’s life or not. If not, he is not obligated to financially support the child. If he does, then he has full access in exchange for his financial support. All marriages must ha…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 06:02 PM
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Yes, 3. Young at the time. Quite older now.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:18 PM
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I don’t agree. I’d argue you understand women more than they understand themselves. At least the primal not so PC side of them they pretend doesn’t exist. Kind of like being able to stimulate a subconscious clitorus.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:49 PM
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I went thru a separation period in my life where I manwhored around for a few years. Before this separation, I slept with 4 women. I was in my mid 30s and went thru a rough patch in my marriage. Well, started dating and had to clean myself up a bit. Worked out, learn to dress again, etc. Well, when I ended up getting my game together, I’d say I slept with 40-ish women in just 2 years, getting easier as time went on. I learned I could only juggle 2 at a time before I started forgetting details of…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:42 PM
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What a class act that dad. Chose not to incriminate and shame guilty party (likely insane ex) and just be the better man. Hopefully, he has supportive folks in his network to call out the idiots guilty of this circus.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 02:29 PM
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Yeah. I believe to have a well developed personality (sense of humor, can maturely discuss disagreements, etc) you have to be kind of be unattractive for some period of your life. If you’re hot you can get away with all sorts of shit and not get challenged by it. Best women I’ve known were once fat chicks that made a change and got hot, but still kept their dark sense of humor and grounding. Worst women I’ve known are the ones that use to be average or hot and age caught up with them. Started bl…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:54 AM
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The sad thing is that the new expectation is that they want the average man to ‘up their game’. The problem is that there will only by 10% of men who will be 10% of men. They rate their men comparatively against other men, not some sort of absolute expectation. They’re basically giving it up to the top 10% who aren’t ‘emotionally available’ themselves, then start dropping standards. But everyone knows what’s up and that they’re giving it up without much effort, so why bother being in a relations…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:26 AM
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Only hard for 90% of men. They give it up pretty easily if they’re high value.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:29 AM
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Turning gay suddenly seems rather attractive now.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 12:43 AM
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You can’t leave us hanging. Did you follow up?! Meet your boy? Kind of shitty thing for your ex to do to hide him.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 11:23 PM
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My experience, Scots are less ‘gamey’. And I don’t even think folks in the UK date? You just meet and hang out. When I was over there all the women claimed dates were a very American thing.
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:17 PM
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You’re entitled to your opinion. I’ve never been asked that question, but then again, I’m comfortable walking away from ‘high maintenance’ as well. I’ve been asked VERY OFTEN what are you looking for. I always just answered, it depends. And they ask, ‘on what?’. And I’d say, ‘on you. If you’re amazing one in a billion, I’d propose. If you’re great to hang out with, but can’t see anything long term, then FWB’. Sometimes they’d accept that, sometimes they’d claim, ‘I could never do that’. And I’d …
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:38 PM
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I agree. But there’s also a possibility it’s both. But not living your authentic self is absolutely a reason why people fall into depression and living your authentic self and being rejected by society is also a way to fall into depression. Both are fixable. Learning to integrate one’s ego with their true selves is a journey that most people may never go thru, but doable with intention and commitment. And if your authentic self is rejected by your local community and networks, then finding and m…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 04:29 PM
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That wasn’t in my experience. I just sat at a bar sometimes and got approached. Well, a woman’s equivalent of an approach. Sit close and accidentally bump into me. Other times, get togethers to coffee, friends of coworkers. The ‘referral process’ (friend of friend) was the best I found. Only consistent success I had with apps was when traveling. Same pictures and profile except added ‘traveling from out of town/country’. And noticeably the matches just shot. Not sure what that was about.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:57 PM
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I’m sorry if it came across as rude or disrespectful. Glad we understand each other. I think online dating is a cesspool for men and women and it is a terrible way to meet people. And it is really damaging both party’s perceptions of what average and typical is. The longer a person is meeting people over apps, the more resentful they grow over the other gender. And resentment is an AWFUL place to be in when meeting anyone for the first time. There should be some sort of metric or % of successful…
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:47 PM
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I’m a married guy that had a separation where I dated again. Learned the ropes in a modern world, but implemented classic down to earth strategies because frankly, I’m just too old to bother with the new interpretations of things. What worked was being attractive. Being healthily masculine and unapologetic about what I am. I had a lot of success and it was NOT what women are saying what they want. Wife and I made up, but I did get a bit depressed at what I witnessed firsthand. Many women wasting…
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:23 PM
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In my experience, the I often encounter two types of women. Those that live as a ‘prisoner of their ego’, and those that have fully accepted who they are and their ego more closely resembles their inner self. To be offended, an ego and their deep self must be in conflict. For example, if a man is called a ‘pussy’, and he does deep down feel he’s weak, but his public portrayal is that of a strong masculine man, they will overreact in anger because they want to over-compensate and protect for the …
/r/MensRights19/08/22 02:08 PM
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If I’m dressed well, approach you with a friendly and respectful vibe, and offer to buy you coffee, you’re free to say no and we have our 15 minutes to get to know each other. A prerequisite of that offer was that your attractive. That’s it. You’re put together, there’s no man around you, and we’re in a setting where an invite like that makes sense. In the coffee meet, there’s no other expectations. I’m not selling myself, at least that’s never my position. The ‘product’ sells itself, meaning wh…
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:57 PM
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When did I say that? You’re free to quote it. Edit: I was referring to the instinctual nature of being attracted to physical beauty
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:45 PM
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If you want a man to deny his primal instincts, then you don’t want a man. We can’t control it. It’s primal and instinctual for most men. You can judge it, or believe the lies the men are telling you that they’re above it. 🤣 I dont judge women that are attracted to me because I’m fit and have my shit together. It’s natural.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:43 PM
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Yes. She’s hot. So getting to know each other is a process. Learning about each other is the fun of that process. For me, interview questions are a bust because you’re looking to circumvent that process and I don’t really need anyone in my life like that. That question could easily be asked for platonic relationships. It sounds corny and narcissistic when you ask in that context. It’s just as cringe for a person you don’t know and provides an air of ‘are you worthy for me?’, which again is a big…
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:38 PM
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This is such a turn off for me. If you want to know what I do for fun, ask. If you want me to interview for a position, fuck off. I don’t need a woman’s approval. I want to know if we’re a fit. Any man looking for the same will automatically see red flags with an interview question like this and think, “not one of these again…”
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:30 PM
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“Now why would I spoil the mystery? Would you ask the author how the book ends? You ask a friend how a movie ends? You’re going to have to invest the time and energy to find out. Same expectation I have of you. So far you’re interesting, and I’m willing to continue the journey if you are.” Start cheeky, then add a little spice / counter shit test. Most chicks are looking for a chance at long term, and ‘journey’ is a bit of a cue for long term, but by no means committal. Give that a shot.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:27 PM
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Yeah. A loaded question for sure. I’ve not seen that myself.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 01:20 PM
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Good work here. But those rates of rape victims, 1.7%, is still alarming. Must be a global figure that includes third world countries. But if it includes developed countries, not a good figure and I’d say a valid concern for women. Would you fly on planes with a 1.7% of some sort of failure?
/r/MensRights19/08/22 01:03 PM
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I like giving advice on here. There’s so much… misinformation? Out there. Figured I’d help some young men out.
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:25 PM
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I’ve used nanny’s, day cares, and worked rotations where I’ve had the kids alone with a spouse that works (meaning a lot of handing the kids off) and a period of separation. We mended things and then she quit and became a full time mom. There’s definitely a difference in quality of life and quality of their care. Before we were in terrible shape physically and emotionally, though wealthy. Kids were just being kept alive in my opinion, not really being developed to be good people. After the chang…
/r/MensRights18/08/22 05:10 PM
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It takes a VILLAGE to raise children. A community. It’s hard when you do it has a couple alone (no extended family, close family friends, network of neighbors for kids to run around). And it’s just survival for one parent. Women doing this are either desperately trying to find a guy to accept her baggage or slowly sliding into a depression from all the stress.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 12:47 PM
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Lol absolutely. Girl in college was a bit of a hoe. She rejected me (after some hookups and a situationship scenario) and I moved on. Got a better gf. She gets jealous and tries to start a relationship. I moved on, but we stayed friends. She was at my wedding and apparently cried, according to my cousin. It occurred to me she figured she fucked up.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:08 PM
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I believe you missed my point. I was comparing motives, not severity of crime (or if it shouldn’t be one). One being a primal instinctual fit of rage and the other is some sort of modern unnatural motivation to live a carefree life without responsibility.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 01:24 PM
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I couldn’t read on. I’d rather depressing to hear a bunch of women somewhat defending mothers killing their children. I understand their argument. I can understand a man being filled with such rage for infidelity that he’d kill his wife, but that’s a primal emotional response. For a woman to despise her own children enough to murder them so she can what, go and be free? Go out clubbing and drinking? To go get rammed by Chad? To go and become her own career woman? There’s no answer I can think of…
/r/MensRights17/08/22 01:40 AM
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They’re the same. It’s their perception of you and then your experience that’s different. After living in BKK, I came back to the US. But in BKK I was able to workout a lot and was in the best shape of my life. Coming back, my market value reduced (compared to in BKK) but still met some women that considered me real high value and treated me like a king (especially in bed). That was NOT the case when I first lived in the US. I was just amazed at the difference. The women didn’t change, it was my…
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:29 PM
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It’s a great idea. You’ll begin to understand women way better. And also, your fear of them will just disappear. The women over there are no different than the women in the west. Only over there, you’re high value as a western guy. Your mindset will open up to what the few high value men in the west get to experience with western women. The Thai women will treat you like a king, but treat their own men like shit. And guess how western women treat western men, like shit (unless you’re high value)…
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:35 PM
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Didn’t Elon Musk’s dad do that same thing too?
/r/MensRights16/08/22 01:34 PM
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What a gem of a woman. I swear 99% of women’s problems with men are really a problem with their own ego. What they think they deserve in life vs. what really is going to be afforded to them. In this case, the woman can interpret her situation in a few ways. But her ego is too dense. If ALL men cannot accommodate to your expectations, then it can’t possibly be your expectations are too high or unachievable. It has to be all men are shit.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 12:34 PM
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I was doubling down on what I assumed was a pedantic theme you were going for from your comment. I could have replaced ‘animal’ with maybe chipmunks and the point is the same. The stat I’d challenge the OP with is of all men in existence, what percentage of them have raped? And you’d find it’s something statistically very small. And maybe a trend over history, you’d find women are far better now than Roman and Genghis Kahn times, so current moral and judicial strategies seem to be working.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 11:02 AM
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But have there been police reports and convicted animals?
/r/MensRights16/08/22 01:43 AM
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100% of rape victims are human. 100% of rapists are human. There have been 0% of reported rapes by animals towards animals. Clearly, we need the animals to demonstrate to humans how NOT to rape. Stats… they don’t work the way people think they work.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 09:37 PM
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I don’t agree it was murder, but definitely don’t agree she had full decision making authority there either. My wife and I had a similar situation, but she did it with an extremely heavy heart after having an excruciatingly painful complication filled 3rd child. I fully supported the decision, but she ASKED me how I felt and if I supported her, which I did. I can’t understand how some women can just turn off such a primal instinct as wanting to be a mother and what’s best for the child. It sound…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 02:27 AM
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Jeez, how long before they understand that folks are just tired of the feminist bullshit. Most of the content of this sub are women acting like shitheads getting a reality check of some sort. Like how could you possibly get offended by shitty people getting checked.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/22 09:13 PM
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It’s crazy. I even attempted to soften the language (but not the point) to many comments and still, downvote into oblivion. It seems that there’s just this willful ignorance or rejection to classic routes to dating success going on that is just highly offensive to progressive communities. I honestly really pity this generation of young people that are ‘waking themselves’ to some failed ideas and strategies.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 02:11 AM
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I’ve been banned there giving advice to a young man along the lines of “workout, build your wealth, don’t plan on having anything serious in your 20s or risk being ruined later in life”. I’m actually glad because everything I contributed there was downvoted into oblivion.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 01:49 AM
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Keep it FWB. Date others. If she catches you and gets strong feels from it, that’s your opportunity. You can say something along the lines of ‘well I’d prefer to give us a real chance, but I thought you weren’t into that’. She’ll have to figure out what she wants. And for women, that’s like 90% of what they have problems with.
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:02 PM
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What’s wrong with manual labor? If that’s what you get, get after it. Be GOOD at it. There’s tons to learn out there. You’re so young, and any initial judgement you make should be treated with skepticism. Because you simply don’t know enough of the world yet and should be more of a ‘sponge’ for knowledge and life experience. If you’re smart and hungry, no matter what you go into, you’ll climb high. But you’ve got to ‘empty your cup’. You can’t control the insanity of the artificial handicaps bei…
/r/MensRights13/08/22 03:34 AM
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I was once told, “if you want to find an easy way to have your woman divorce you, get her a boob job”. I feel it’s the same thing to fund her education in a field where she’ll make more than you. Women will fill you with all sorts of sentiments of nobility and gratefulness while they’re being educated. But once they get out in the market, they feel they’ve now ‘upgraded themselves’ and need the ‘higher quality Men’ they’re exposed to daily in their field. I’ll definitely advise my children to av…
/r/MensRights13/08/22 02:00 AM
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For anyone who wants to pay attention, just look at how well children of single parents or absent parents end up. Sure there are success stories, but from experience, most are really struggling in adult life. Young men are emasculated and lack agency (and are susceptible to the same type of women that caused the single parent scenario in the first place) and young women are susceptible to really worthless men. Then there’s life skills like how to make friends, how to grit thru things for longer …
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:51 PM
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Social media is not real life. It’s its own meta community of people that don’t have enough real life friend circles and activity full schedule. So it’s it own echo chamber not much different than a mega church. And feminism has become a religion that has locked down its own dogma. Any indication or attempt of dialogue that could introduce nuance, complexity, and exceptions to the endorsed narratives are threatening to ‘the movement’. It’s an act of solidarity. For them, it’s for the good of the…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 08:42 PM
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Agreed. If there was some pill men could take, then stop taking, with no long term effects, there’d be many happy men. And I’m not convinced at all that there are no long term effects from birth control for women. There’s been this huge rise of women having trouble having children ‘when they’re ready’ even as early as their 20s. I’m convinced it’s hidden information from big pharma.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 05:35 PM
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There are some concepts and patterns in life when you see them, it’s opens the world up incrementally from the socially advertised veil and illusions. And really allows a person to rise above the drones and sheep of society. Recognizing hypergamy (or any evolutionary and instinctual influenced behaviors) and that humans are animals like the rest of every species on the planet, is one of those epiphany concepts. But understanding and accepting these truths ultimately will make you very lonely as …
/r/MensRights10/08/22 04:36 PM
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There’s a third pattern I see. There are some really attractive women (because they take care of themselves) because they are with the man they wanted to be with and are grateful for. He is also likely taking care of himself, grateful for her, and high value. They’re both effectively high value and are content and grateful for each other. Neither is hunting for others, are committed to each other, and always ‘dating’ each other. They have a enviable healthy sex life and could go on for decades k…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:15 PM
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I don’t follow any of these people. But I’m thinking I’m probably of the generation. The original Redpillers come in two camps in my opinion. Those that had somewhat of a resentment and disdain for the observed nature of women (likely having been a victim of that behavior). And those that just sought to understand the nature of women and accept it, even if women didn’t accept it themselves. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. I don’t judge what I’ve accepted as the nature of women thoug…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 03:33 PM
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It’s a good question. Hers also my observations. Women have 2 modes. Those that are actively looking to attract a mate and those that are ‘turned off’. The ones that are still ‘in the game’ will take care of themselves, are concerned about their image, still look for validation from men in some way or other (fishing for compliments, social media likes, etc). Even when married these women may take care of themselves solely to ‘be attractive’ rather than health reasons. They are the ones that tend…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 03:17 PM
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I’ll explain things in other words then and entertain the pedantic criticisms of semantics. The crux of it is that it’s a model to navigate the very apparent incongruent observations of what women ‘say they want and are’ and what women actually do. The model has an underlying premise that humans are animals that evolved in the natural world not unlike the rest of the animal kingdom. And like every other animal on earth, there are observable mating behaviors between men and women. When humans, Me…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 02:35 PM
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The fact you’re spending time trying to instigate rather than understand is telling me you’re offended somehow. And that should tell you that maybe some if not all of it is based on reality. Bit dogs tend to bark.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 07:01 AM
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I could use smaller words and shorter sentences if that could help?
/r/MensRights02/08/22 06:53 AM
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Here’s my observations and theory on this. Women who are married to high-value men (compared to their market value) rarely will find the marriage boring. They’ll do what they can to ensure excitement in the bedroom and a functioning and peaceful family. Modern women are mostly all alpha widows. Odds are they’ve got a high body count and have been used up by several high value men, only to ‘settle’ for an average guy with high ‘dad’ energy. And given that these alpha widows didn’t stick long enou…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 06:21 AM
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I’ve started to comment in Reddit after long time lurking. Holy crap the insanity of the average Redditor. They don’t live in the real world. I’m so glad I went thru the exercise. At first I was very uncomfortable being downvoted into oblivion. But I refused to change my perspective based on REAL WORLD experiences and observations. Over time I noticed I attracted more intelligent Redditors in dialogue. Though they may not have fully agreed on my opinions, they respected how well formulated they …
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:07 AM
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You’re young. You’re not ‘average’. You’re below average. That’s because you’re being compared to people who are older and have had more time to build wealth and value for themselves. So maybe that helps change your frame a bit. You might be considering yourself average to save your ego a bit, but build your body, your wealth, and get some life experience away from a too much bad addictions (like gaming). Then you can complain about being ‘average’. I love gaming btw, but it’s got to be in moder…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 12:21 AM
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Civil suits don’t have to be ‘unlawful’ and you can still get compensation / Justice. I’m not a lawyer but I think that’s hope it can work.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 02:03 PM
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99% of Men have to create their value. There’s a small number that don’t have to work for it. 99% of women are of value to most men, but all chase the 1%. Those top 1% women retain their value even at later stages in life due to genetics. The rest will be humbled around the 30 year mark. Point is, upon birth, there’s a genetic and spawn location RNG that determines just how difficult your life playthru will be. Jury is out whether playing things on harder difficulty even get you more rewards in …
/r/MensRights01/08/22 04:33 AM
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Well, when already take half of everything even for legitimate reasons for divorce. So it’s not much of an incremental net consequence. And my opinion, it takes a really depraved woman to refuse sex but still be attentive enough to catch a cheater (assuming cheater isn’t careless). Point is, one offense is socially accepted but more damaging to health, one is socially offensive but a healthier alternative. It’s just not socially understood just how important a heathy sex life is and not fulfilli…
/r/MensRights01/08/22 04:08 AM
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If there weren’t any kids, that would be an easy decision. With kids it’s really a tough call for a man. Very rarely have I heard a man say, ‘it was the best decision of my life’. Those are only comments I hear from divorcees that are women. And I’m convinced from every scenario I’ve ever known personally that it’s just no good for the kids. Every boy grown into a man becomes the very incels women fear and every girl grown into a woman has a slew of distasteful personality traits (aggressiveness…
/r/MensRights01/08/22 03:11 AM
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Well I didn’t look at his other posts. If it’s recent, then he should understand that his wife just went physical trauma (and if a C-section, surgery), and needs to cut her some slack. But it’s not selfish to want sex. Men need sex to be physiological balanced and function. Deprivation of it causes unhealthy behaviors, and abundance of it really promotes healthy living and mindset. So yes, I’d advocate cheating if the man has done all he could (work out and not let himself go, be available emoti…
/r/MensRights01/08/22 02:56 AM
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It could entirely possible he’s not really a guy, but just some fem-Nazi trying to masquerade as one on the internet.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 04:33 PM
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Sorry buddy. Looks like you’ve got a dead bedroom. Could be for any number of reasons. Best thing you can do now is get some side-piece for some action, but it comes with a ton of risk
/r/MensRights30/07/22 06:21 PM
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I’d not heard this about them being labeled as ‘pick me girls’. It’s ridiculous. A woman free to love life on her own terms and critically think to come to her own conclusions is actually what feminists are fighting for.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:39 AM
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For legitimate inequities or problems, I’m sympathetic. For example, they should have the right to abort and contraception (but just because you have that right, I’m not in favor of it being funded by the community). But there’s some things that should be ‘’equalized’ by men and women. If women can have maternity leave, Men should too. If women can opt to abort, a man should be able to opt out of financial support if he didn’t want the baby. If a woman opts to divorce a man, but cannot financial…
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:32 AM
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These stats sound accurate. But you know, less than 1%, and probably closer to .001%, of the population is trans. So we probably are spending an inordinate amount of time talking about their rights too. OR maybe the takeaway here is that 10% of the population is still a large number. And the issue is that the female perpetrators are no where near as severely punished, if at all. And that boys are just as victims as girls when someone is abusing their power and position to commit sexual assaults.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:19 AM
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Carl Jung said something to the order of ‘the individual is the most dismissed demographic’. Jordan Peterson asserts the same. I’m inclined to agree. There’s all sorts of biases and preferences that are unfairly prejudiced in society. But we allow some shadowy presence to decide which identities we should align with. I know a number of gays that really don’t support the trans movement. They’re just as perplexed by the sudden attention. I know several black people that understand the difficulties…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 03:00 PM
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Just my personal belief. Women who lurk or even want to participate here are here for any number of reasons. But some are curious. Some don’t quite like the feminist pill they’re taking. At least not everything. They might be wondering why some men they want to have a relationship with are repulsed by them. Or why is it that ‘all men are assholes’, yet she loves her dad and brothers. She might be wondering about the inconsistencies between what’s she told and what she’s observing. So they might …
/r/MensRights28/07/22 11:11 AM
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Thanks for the compliment. I’ve grown accustomed to downvotes into oblivion, so it’s a welcome change. Lol.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:40 PM
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This is a good approach, but hard to even be in the same room when I’m supposed to be grateful she isn’t decapitating me. My opinion, these radicals have unresolved trauma that may have more to do with poor life decision and a failure to reflect than actual grievances. So these questions would likely probe into some personal experiences that basically boil down to, for example, a guy cheating on her for a younger blonde, or maybe she’s attracted to assholes because of daddy issues and just keeps…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 10:56 PM
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Holy shit man… I’m sorry. Hopefully someone on here has had a similar circumstances and can advise. But that’s a hard thing to do and probably has no right answers.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 08:28 PM
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In any cultural discussion of ethics and policy, you have ‘moderates’ whose perspective is valid, insightful, and can inform on what the best approach to society as a whole. But you also have radicals that look to incite discontent, stonewall healthy discussion, and swell their numbers to influence that ‘sides’ position to more extreme policies. The ONLY people that can marginalized radicals from corrupting the base are the moderates of that side. ‘Their own people’ so to speak. But the extremis…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 08:01 PM
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Strong jaws are really just a sign of fitness in my opinion. You can only have a strong jawline when you’re lean. And lean men and women are attractive. It’s not masculine or feminine, but a sign of health and fitness. Androgynous traits being more attractive? Yeah, that’s why the fully clothed butch women and the ladyboys on IG get all the followers and likes right? Jesus what lunacy. Couldn’t keep watching after that
/r/MensRights26/07/22 05:51 PM
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Don’t ask is my preference. Then you’re putting her in a position where she either has to lie, tell you she’s seeing lots of guys and defend herself from being viewed a slut, or whatever. Rarely will you meet a girl that’s really just single. This day and age girls definition of single is so broad and nonuniform. I mean, they’re literally fucking guys, but ‘don’t have a bf’. Like what do else do you need to declare relationship status, matching tattoos? ‘Deep emotional connections’? Give me a br…
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:11 PM
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Building code and laws, also discounts from buying in bulk. I wouldn’t have drawn too many conclusions from it.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 03:03 PM
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Exactly what you said, but not walk away. Just laugh. The balls in her court at that point. If she doesn’t laugh at the ridiculousness of her comment and really expected you to prove yourself, then at that point I’d would have walked away. The problem is that she basically created a scenario where only a simp would comply with that request because of its unreasonableness. So she’d NEVER find anyone ‘worthy’ because of the question. Sort of a ‘loaded shit test’. Effectively she doesn’t know how t…
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:19 PM
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I have a somewhat rags to riches story myself. Holy shit do I get some hate from Reddit for it from (I suspect from the fem-nazis and bluepillers). It’s crazy. It’s literally my life and unbiased observations from success I’m sharing, but my existence offends certain folks because I dare not accept I’m a victim and look forward to the grind that’ll forge me into someone better. At first I was just really confused at this bizarre behavior, but eventually I learned to accept that losers don’t want…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 07:55 PM
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His conclusions are a bit off, but his observations are spot on. Probably more insightful than a one sided perspective as originally born men. Thanks for the share and absolutely needs to be more widely consumed.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 04:31 PM
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You sound rather judgmental of the ‘dance’. Treat it like a mini game. It’s not fun because you’re not very good at it. And the only way to get good is to practice. So start chatting up EVERYONE with small talk. Experiment. You’ll find your stride.
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:07 PM
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I’m advocating for all young men to build relationships abroad. Find some traditional women somewhere out in Latin America, South or Pan Asia, Eastern Europe, or Africa and try to vet them and build a relationship. They’ll treat you well, be grateful for you pulling you out of their rut life, and will carry a sense of pride in being feminine and shame for being a slut. Finding good western women is so difficult these days I feel. If you find a young one, they turn on you mid-30s when they ‘redis…
/r/MensRights18/07/22 09:44 PM
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Women don’t think logically when it comes to sex. I.e risk vs. reward. Why they use to not sleep around so much was due to social stigma and judgement. Due to the modern feminist movement, the lifestyle is now encouraged and there’s no shame associated to it. Besides, I think it’s kind of always been this way and the world just didn’t know about it. Chad has always been leaving alpha widows in his wake since Casanova’s days and before. I don’t think this will do anything to level things in the s…
/r/MensRights18/07/22 04:43 AM
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I laugh when women use that term online to insult me. I racked up almost a 40 body-count in a fuckboy run during a pretty emotional tough and stressful time in my life and was just banging bitches left and right. Some people do lines of coke. Other slam whiskey. My vice was women. It took me a bit of time to figure them out but when I did it was pretty easy to know to say, what buttons to press, etc. But women just have no idea that it’s really not that hard to sleep with them in spite of their …
/r/MensRights17/07/22 01:26 AM
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Yeah I’m not much into team sports. But I can see what you mean. If that’s the case then, maybe it’s just a bad idea to have an inter-gender league in a full contact sport. Just a recipe for some really bad times for all participants.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 01:14 AM
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I do Jiu Jitsu and here’s what I learned that I think is relevant here. Unless you have been completely outweighed and out-strengthed in a physical exchange regularly, both being on the dominant side and the inferior side of that force equation, you don’t know how it feels to simply just BE completely outgunned by sheer weight or even know how YOU feel against someone you outweigh by significant margin. So for women, I don’t try to be the least bit competitive. I just work on technique and let t…
/r/MensRights16/07/22 10:25 PM
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I don’t agree but feel I probably won’t change your mind either. My worldview is informed by my personal experience and the fact that there are trends across cultures universally that in history largely developed independently from an anthropological perspective. So it’s not ‘culturally influenced’ because if it was, then you’d see even distributions in the power and hierarchical dynamics. You can observe differences even from a hypothetical scenario of a modern relationship. Suppose you have a …
/r/MensRights16/07/22 09:15 PM
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Oh I believe there are fundamental ancestral instinctual differences. But people should be free to explore their unique play-through of life without judgement. But at the same time, I should be allowed to explore my play-through as well. In the professional workforce and labor market I’d agree with you it needs to be as egalitarian as possible. Men and women are both capable of making value driven decisions. At home is where I’d disagree that things should be equal across the board. In my experi…
/r/MensRights16/07/22 08:31 PM
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Good for you for having an open mind. I feel Men and Women are two sides of the same coin. And to be fulfilled in life, the two needs to be one. The Yang and the Yang. My opinion is that there are powerful interests that benefit from pitting people against each other. I find social issues distractions from real material issues that the powerful interests use to divert attention. How can we address the few rich and powerful manipulating policies and representatives with their money and access if …
/r/MensRights16/07/22 08:08 PM
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I get where your coming from. I feel modern women are all collectively undergoing some sort of existential/mid-life crisis. In popular culture, the LinkedIn success women are all happy and fulfilled with tons of articles ‘making it’ against the patriarchy. That’s their ‘dragon to slay’ so to speak. But in my adult life with REAL women that share their feelings, they aren’t getting any happier. Even as they further succeed in some sort of workforce hierarchy, their instinctual fulfillment lies in…
/r/MensRights16/07/22 08:01 PM
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You know honestly I am more inclined to say this is the case. If the man is the breadwinner, then from a man’s perspective, the home duties ought not to be equal as she is either making significantly less or nothing at all. But home duties include childcare as well as everything in the home with cooking, cleaning, laundry. There’s plenty of guys out there that had their mothers do all the work at home and they have a base expectation that that’s how it ought to be and don’t help as much as they …
/r/MensRights16/07/22 02:11 PM
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I wish that was the case for me. But it just wasn’t. Long time ago, I entered the dating market after being tied down for a long time. Being myself got me a few 2nd or 3rd dates, the women all seemed to want to string me into a relationship and not go all the way. I started working out, getting into powerlifting, diet, hiking, whatever. Made a massive body transformation. By the end of my fuckboy run I have a ‘body count’ close to 40, just from that run. I stopped because I couldn’t sustain the …
/r/MensRights16/07/22 01:48 PM
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I’ve been banned on so many advice subreddits with men and women asking for honest advice on ‘why can’t I attract quality men/women’ or whatever. My advice is always the same, for men and women. Work on your body. Seek mastery in some sort of physical hobby. Likely any athletic endeavor will favor being lean to perform well. So you win in all fronts. Good mental and physical health from pursuing a hobby/sport. And you start looking good and attracting quality people. Men will always respond with…
/r/MensRights16/07/22 01:36 AM
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It’s funny. This behavior is considered ‘dismissive’ and ‘gaslighting’ in a toxic relationship. So it’s effectively being performed at a societal scale, i.e. first world western society. So, my opinion advising young men here, find yourself an international woman that celebrates femininity. Latin, pan-Asian, south-Asian, Eastern European. They don’t apologize and feel ashamed for being a woman. But also, they expect their men to be masculine. That’s the catch, if you want a happy life with an in…
/r/MensRights15/07/22 12:36 PM
6

Excellent share and analysis. Shows how they manipulate data to express the answer they want. This isn’t science or statistics. It’s propaganda.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 04:26 PM
2

I’m sorry bro. I’ve been thru similar circumstances. If she cheated, likely she felt ‘trapped’ by your relationship. She wanted out because ‘she felt she could do better’, but couldn’t break it off because frankly, that would make her the bad guy. So she put you thru hell trying to get you to just quit her so she’d move on guilt free. I really don’t think women do this intentionally, but they have inner conflict that they’ll take out on their SO. But unless you understand what’s going on, you’re…
/r/MensRights13/07/22 04:41 PM
1

How is that statistically possible? Australia isn’t fighting perpetual wars or anything. Not denying it, just curious how something like that could happen.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 01:42 AM
1

I couldn’t read past just a few lines. Just leave her. You don’t need a project gf. She’s obviously has issues with someone or something in general to be open about hating men but feels the need to have a bf. You’re just setting yourself up to be hurt, manipulated, depressed, etc.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 12:25 PM
2

An example, and these of course are broad generalizations. Men are concerned with ‘things’ how things work, how things can be used as tools, how powerful things are, how fast can things be. Women are concerned with people, how they are perceived by other people and how they perceive other people. What does my family think of us. What does his family think of me? What does my boss think? Are these behaviors acceptable to my social group. Another one is what makes men horny vs women. Men are gener…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 07:13 PM
1

I meant low value humans. I use the phrase often in my head to characterize of someone is worth my time in some sort of relationship (‘just say hi’ to ‘this person needs to be in my life’)
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:34 PM
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This is a reach. Most women that use this phrase regularly are low value, damaged goods that really need to do some inner work. So nobody that’s worth your consideration anyway.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 10:15 PM
1

If the game is rigged, just don’t play. The culture War is rigged against men. Social media and popular culture is really polluting some folks. Best to just understand that the people that are active in these platforms only represent a minority of certain people. And those people are predispositioned to be too heavily influenced by the majority opinion, which is why they’re overly concerned with social media. My opinion, if I were dating in this day and age trying to find a woman, I’d completely…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:56 PM
3

I can walk at night on the street just fine, as long as I look broke. The generally higher expectations for success helps me be better. I like lifting heavy shit.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 02:54 AM
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I can’t speak for all men, but I am just really irritated at the inconsistencies. There’s tons of them. Some just stereotypically comedic but others with real world damages. A man can be shamed for being short but a woman cannot be shamed for being fat A man is invited to be vulnerable, compassionate, emphatic, but those same traits will for the vast majority of women be unattractive in dating. In fact, it’s the assholes with dark triad behaviors that get laid A man cannot be healthily sex posit…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 02:38 AM
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My read is that you’re attracted to her. She’s got a bad girl vibe and lives real close to you. I’ll be honest, if I’d were in your situation I’d say ‘fuck it’ and see where it went. Of course no where near when your daughter is around. Sometimes, bad girls are just sweet things inside hoping a guy can make her feel safe enough to show it. But also likely, she’s a dumpster fire and can make your life pretty miserable. But that’s life bro. To live is to take some risks.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 06:38 PM
2

Jordan Peterson makes a solid argument about this. The top .1% are of the white patriarchy. They’re constantly used as examples or proof of the patriarchy’s existence. Whereas the mass majority and average man does not benefit from such a privilege and is quantitatively and qualitatively perform, constantly having expectations to work harder and demonstrate competence. The ‘benefit’ is that the average man, being socially expected to perform in such a competitive environment, is by nature harder…
/r/MensRights04/07/22 12:02 AM
5

Just start flaming like you’re gay. Just make it a big joke. “Girl friend don’t flatter yourself honey.” And prance away. You’ll laugh your ass off, and she’ll feel real silly (but safe). Everyone’s happy.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 11:59 PM
1

Find something that feeds your soul. You won’t find it at first in women. To answer your question, there’s some that believe it’s a primal thing in women. When women are in prime mating mode / open to long-term partnership, they will need to be available and also present themselves as high-quality for the high-quality males. So when low quality males make attempts, they have this strong instinct to repel these advances. If a high quality male observes that she is entertaining low quality males, …
/r/MensRights26/06/22 08:00 PM
1

Maybe I’m old. Is raw dogging during hookups a regular thing these days? I know when I was young dumb and full of cum, getting some chick pregnant was the worst possible thing that could happen to me at that stage in my life. Any girl that told me to take the condom off, I immediately made sure she was a ONS. The risk of her getting pregnant with my kid or worse, pregnant with somebody else’s kid but trying to pin as mine, was just too scary for me.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 09:38 PM
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Well, maybe this can help the narrative go from “My body my choice” to “Our future, our choice”. That’s what was missing from the start. The decision effects both parties and the deeply intimate case to case circumstances and decisions should be left to the couple, not the state, federal or local.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:28 PM
1

I go with this. I’m looking for something real. And when they ask what I’m looking for, one of those things is that they’ve got to be amazing in bed and spontaneous. Most women who are asking that question are looking to settle down and unlikely to hook up. And the dates feel like interviews. So my answer helps combat the urge for them to seem like the good girl next door during the dare but gives them motivation to commit to the first date.
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:39 PM
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I agree that women who feel men want to skip foreplay just demonstrates the men they’re finding themselves with. I like foreplay. Love receiving and giving. I find nothing sexier than making a woman practically beg for it. The anticipation leads to greater experiences where you get the kind of sessions where they can barely function afterwards. 🤣
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:29 PM
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Well I hope that helps you. I learned to not resent the nature of things as that was a source for mental health issues and toxicity for me. I learned to not resent women for getting easy passes (depends on context of course). That in turn has me treat most women like normal people and evaluate them on their character (on a scale from basic to outstanding), which makes me likable, respectable, and even attractive (because women want to partner ‘up’).
/r/MensRights18/06/22 05:44 PM
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I’ve often considered this. Here’s my approach, though it could just be mental gymnastics. I just accept I’m better. I earned everything I have and work harder to get the same as others often. I don’t resent that. There’s lessons in life that generally forge a better human when you’re playing life on higher difficulty settings. It’s hard to find good women because they generally have to get older before they start having hardships that compare to the average man. Before that they’re likely being…
/r/MensRights18/06/22 02:48 PM
33

She’ll never find work again. She’ll be lucky to be able to do commercials. Maybe a pharma commercial for a pill to help bowel control. Edit: I’m stupid.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/22 08:25 PM
7

Making a girl ‘happy’ and making a girl ‘horny’ are effectively independent goals/outcomes. If you want to get laid, focus on the things that make them horny. Don’t listen to what they say they want in a guy, but actually observe the kind of guys they have one night stands with. Start with your body, then work on the behaviors that get them excited. Just keep working and over time, the hard work will pay off.
/r/seduction30/05/22 10:52 PM
474

Is there no irreparable consequence that a woman can cause and still believe ‘being drunk’ is an acceptable defense? And why the fuck is it still being accepted in this day and age?
/r/MensRights22/05/22 03:28 AM
1

What are your goals? If you’re looking for love, you will work on different things than if you’re looking to get laid. That might be the context to which you’re missing. If you’re just looking to be loved deeply and find someone of quality to love, it’ll be a lot of inner game, existential stuff. If you’re looking to get laid, it’s about more superficial, appearance, flash, and being ‘exciting’ stuff. So maybe before consuming advice, consider the context.
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:50 PM
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I agree with this. And I think men having rights here would have a secondary benefit in women having heavier consequences to a promiscuous lifestyle. They’d have to really consider who the hell they let inside them, because rich or poor, any man could just nope the hell out of long term commitment unless secured by legal like a marriage.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 09:30 PM
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Who’s saying pro-choice is bad? I haven’t really heard a Men’s Rights position on abortion? I see it the way you do, men should have the ability to opt-out of financial responsibility if the woman chooses to have the child.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 09:03 PM
1

I’ve been banned there. 🤣 Apparently I was too sympathetic towards men and didn’t treat every women over there as a victim and held them accountable where relevant.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 04:41 PM
3

Some women are just fucking drama queens. I feel sorry for the guy as she’s probably going to invite some pain in his life soon. There’s going to be dude who’s going to bite and they’re going to have some amazing sex (just feels better when it’s ‘wrong’)… but just isn’t worth it in the long run. Alternatively, they could have an swinger lifestyle and she’s fishing for a threesome.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:54 PM
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Well… it’s a subreddit to help folks figure it out. And ‘just be yourself’ is terrible advice. If being themselves was good enough, they’d not be on here. The key to the game (and it IS a game) is to change who they are and NOT fake it. To BE a man (or woman) that is desirable. And for some, that takes continuous conscious effort until they slowly evolve into that more attractive person.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:59 PM
1

This worked for me. Not saying it’s the only strategy. If you’re attracted to say 8s and above, start hitting on girls you’d say were say, a 5. Whatever you think you have no emotions regarding whether you succeed or not. You’ll likely see a lot of success. It’ll grow your confidence. As your confidence grows, start moving up the attractiveness scale to 6s, 7s, etc. You’ll eventually just go for whomever because as your confidence grows, even your ‘scale’ with whom you’d consider 8s and 9s will …
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:55 PM
5

Gradually move towards No contact, make some new friends, preferably masculine ones where you can pick up some of their traits. Good way to do this is pick up a sport. She might change her feelings and start chasing you. If she doesn’t, stop watering a dead plant my friend.
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:39 PM
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They’re all mythical (alpha, beta, sigma). Though there are general characteristics that are generally considered desirable, it is highly contextual. For example, a guy that doesn’t dance, in the club he is a fish out of water and won’t seem attractive (beta). But the same guy may be a champion all-American wrestler that completely dominated all competition and in that context is a beast and attractive (alpha). So a ‘Sigma’ male may have a quiet confidence walking around in an art gallery (prett…
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:04 PM
1

Hmm… you’ll never know of you did or not. Just learn from this. If I were in the situation, I’d ask if she wanted to do something before she got home (coffee, drinks, a walk). If she said yes, great sign. If she was DTF, she may have just skipped to inviting you up. One REALLY ballsy move that works sometimes is that I’d just up and ask for a kiss. Best case she says yes. Worst case she’d say, “NOOOOooo, what are you nuts?” To which id just play cool and say something like, “I won’t tell if you …
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:40 AM
1

What’s going on? Where’s the ‘him’? Looks like two girls, one really not into the other.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/22 11:09 PM
3

Someone once delayed for several hours because they had a last minute ‘interview’. I questioned them a little bit about it and it was pretty clear they were full of shit. Good advice here.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:44 PM
2

So… you’re married and lurking on here? Not going to judge your decisions, but the real question is what do you want to do? Are you happily married and have no interest elsewhere? If so, just be nice and keep that relationship where it needs to be for you to be faithful. If you’re looking for side-action, do whatever. But it definitely comes with super high-risks.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:09 PM
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Buddy if she knows you’re 20 there’s a pretty high chance she’s DTF. Unlikely she’s looking for a relationship with someone so young. So my read is it’s yours to lose. Just be flirty, fun, and keep escalating. I’m sure you’ll be fine.
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:39 AM
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Buddy. Just go no communication and see what happens. Maybe you’re watering a dead plant now and don’t know it. She may not like confrontation, but maybe she’s found someone else, or whatever. But the behavior you’re describing sounds like she’s moved on for whatever reason. If it’s the worse, let yourself grieve, learn, and move on.
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:22 PM
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Have her meet you at a place super convenient for you. If she flaked, then it’s up for her to make effort. This is the play for a real relationship. If she’s relationship material, she’ll put in effort and be accountable for flaking. If she’s a diva and just hops to the next option, she wasn’t worth it. If you’re just looking to play and smash, then yes, you have to accommodate her flakey shit, depending on your options. Get your opportunity to shoot your shot.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:22 PM
2

I felt immense pity reading his question. Like the absolute worst outcome from things like social media and dating apps…
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:14 PM
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I think it’s more about them wanting to feel small. Women like taking pictures from above. And men look more attractive to them with pictures taken from a slight lower tilt. It’s not conscious I don’t think, some primal thing. But that’s all just my bro-science.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:30 PM
72

6’ is some magical number for American women. They’ll get ran thru by a bunch before she realizes she’s not 6’+ stud wife material. Then the standards, height included, start dropping. But short guys know this. And they’re resentful. Coupled with likely aggressive and subtle bullying throughout life, I can figure where the ‘short man syndrome’ can come from…
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:54 PM
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Southern states are pretty barren. Not really open to different cultures for intimacy. I’ve traveled a lot and definitely you get a sense of the ‘markets’ at different places. But a hack I use is just say I’m from out of town and back from travels (which isn’t a lie for me). Then the girls you pull are somewhat intrigued that you’re from somewhere else and just work from there. I just talk about all the places I’ve been. Then the fact I’m not from around there is more of a positive and not so mu…
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:28 PM
1

Crazy chicks will always ask to go raw, especially when you’ve got wealthy good dad vibes going. Live and learn. Whenever a chick asks to go raw on a first time, I smash and ghost. She might get pregnant with some other dude’s kid and there’s drama because she wants to pin it on you.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:15 PM
1

I think you let them keep talking. It just raises your value. When others sing off your praises, you don’t have to. They make you out to be the edgy ‘bad boy’, but you show her that there’s some vulnerability there to be tamed (which is the female story arch they’re all looking to play out). Totally a good thing bro.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:33 AM
2

Women know absolutely nothing about you other than what you present. Being so self-conscious instead of having a fuck it attitude, just being in the moment, and lead her to your thrill-ride world, you’re probably thinking about every move you make and overthinking things. Work on your confidence. That’s how that one football player did it. With every game they won, the constant attention and validation just further his confidence. And when meeting women that know nothing about him, well he just …
/r/seduction05/02/22 02:10 AM
2

The Brad Pitt rule. If you were Brad Pitt, how would she act? If she really had to do something, she’d reschedule. If she made it to your place, she would have done the deed if she was really into you. Cut your losses, move on. The longer you dwell on it the more it’ll erode your confidence which will further erode your success with future women. Just keep working on yourself and it’ll just get easier and easier as your attractiveness grows.
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:01 PM
2

That’s a big wall of text with a lot of accusations. But clearly you were triggered to cast so much judgement from a fairly short comment. I’ve got an unpopular opinion. But it doesn’t make it untrue. If your girl sent a private selfie to one man she didn’t know, I’m SURE that would be morally objectionable for the reasons I proposed earlier. Two? Still the same judgement. Four? Twenty? 100? 1000? Everyone that’s following her? The number of people who are viewing a spicy picture of her doesn’t …
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:56 PM
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Interesting perspective. My opinion here is if she’s doing that sort of thing, she’s still shopping for a better fish. So I’d not consider us exclusive at that point. Women make a shift at some point. Where they’ve decided the one they’re with is the ride or die. At that point, you’ll see more and more couples posts, and posts about how ‘her man’ is this and that. Look at your own contacts. How many of them have boyfriends but don’t share any media about it. And how many do? The ones that don’t …
/r/seduction02/02/22 12:08 PM
3

This works for me pretty well. I just ask towards the beginning of a date. Not like immediately on introductions, but at some point where you know you can hold a conversation. I usually get a laugh, then a you’re serious? I run with it at this point, usually something like, “let’s get it out of the way” or “well if it’s bad, we can save us some time and end the date early, lol”. The best part is that once you do, the ice is broken and she lets you escalate a whole lot faster and easier after tha…
/r/seduction21/12/19 04:37 AM
2

I have this problem. But judging goes both ways. Rather than judging negatively, I force myself to judge positively. For example, “that hat is pretty loud. Good for her for OWNING that.” Or “man that fat old man is struggling in the gym. Good for him for starting. That takes courage”. Or “fuck that kid is loud and all over the place. If her parents could direct that energy, she’ll really go places”. Keep forcing yourself to think that way. In time, it becomes a habit. And that attitude will blee…
/r/seduction04/08/19 12:44 PM
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Really depends on the vibe you got from them before. And they’re flakey, so whatever you say may have no effect on the outcome. But my approach would be to give yourself an excuse to be with them (e.g. ‘I got free tickets to yadda yadda, would you like to go?’ Or ‘I had a date and I really don’t want to go out with her. You up for something?’) If they take the bait, you better already have something FUN in mind that involves some sort of drinking or body movement (dancing, rock climbing, run, et…
/r/seduction29/04/18 11:41 AM
1

This. Particularly, get yourself a steady with a good rack. Steady doesn’t mean anything committed necessarily, just let her know you’re still seeing others. I use to objectify women like crazy until I started seeing success (dressed better, exercise, charm, etc). Then, all the anxiety went away. Started seeing women like people. Some are awesome and aren’t particularly super attractive. Some are hot as hell but I wouldn’t even want to bother with a date due to the boring conversation I’d be for…
/r/seduction02/03/18 02:26 PM
5

I’m late 30s, minority, not tall, children, etc. But that’s shit I can’t control. Use your strengths. Turn weaknesses into strengths if you can, accept them if you can’t. I’ve adopted a ‘boxer’ like mentality. I’m not born with natural gifts, but I’ll outwork the opponent. Who’s the opponent? Maybe those other men who are getting laid more than you. If that drives you, use it. Maybe you’re looking to get your number up. If it motivates you, use it. The reason doesn’t matter as long as it makes y…
/r/seduction21/12/17 11:43 AM
1

I’m sorry you had to go through that brother. I’ve had a similar experience, except it was with my wife and my son was involved. Don’t blame women. You may want to protect yourself with AWALT, but that girl you were with was a POS. Improve yourself so that you attract higher quality women.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:10 AM
1

Hmm... it sounds like you have what you need to escalate except the confidence. I don’t want to be an asshole, but that’s my impression. I think you’re entirely focused on tactics and not being in the moment. Your mind isn’t in it. With that person. Just having a good time. You’re too goal oriented in scoring. Lose the fear, lose the expectations, take some risks, and whatever happens on the other side happens. When I started, all these thought popped in my head, “what if she thinks I’m an assho…
/r/seduction11/12/17 03:22 PM
1

She could just be playing hard to get if she’s looking for a long term thing with you. Girls may sometimes play innocent, but in my experience, if they’re thinking rationally, you’re likely not pumping the playful, sexual tension up. I haven’t been rejected in a while since I figured out that one trick, but it only works if you have the confidence. That’s really hard to fake. You’ve got to have this feeling that in the unlikely chance she says no, you move on, because it’s no big deal, because y…
/r/seduction11/12/17 01:45 PM
3

Buddy, I got you. I do this all the time and it works. You have a good vibe going. You’re exchanging conversation and you’re gazing at her eyes as she’s talking. Right mid-sentence, interrupt her and say something like this... “I’m really sorry. I can’t focus at all right now. I have to ask, may I have a kiss?” And be confident at this. Like it was a rhetorical question almost. She’ll get caught off guard, not being to assess it rationally because she’s expecting it at the END of the date. If sh…
/r/seduction11/12/17 03:23 AM
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I respectfully disagree. I’m no BPer mind you, but I think we have to accept how society will work against what you want her to grow into, particularly in the teenage years when they no longer seek validation from you. When a girl is cute and popular growing up, her reward system is built externally through attention. She will seek further validation from outward, basic things like appearance and not much else. I find the recovered fat chicks have much more depth and character because they had t…
/r/RedPillParenting05/12/17 07:19 PM
2

When women (really anybody) goes ‘ballistic’, it’s because they’ve been triggered. These triggers occur because there is some underlying resentment or trauma associated, often from childhood or past relationship trauma, or maybe your own behavior. Rather than act in a dismissive manner (she’s crazy), hold frame and try to understand how was she triggered. Often, when triggered, she will not think rationally and be defensive, verbally abusive sometimes, accusatory, etc. Once you two find the root…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 01:17 PM
1

Keep living. You will learn.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:08 PM
1

Nearly all women I met in London were doing well for themselves. You can assert that it isn’t the norm, or you can choose to believe that women are just as capable and society allows them the ‘easy pass’ far too often, thus enabling subpar human beings. The exceptional ones build depth in themselves in spite of the easy pass. Just as men, you have your alphas and you have your betas. I met the love of my life in London on a past trip. We had an amazing two weeks. In the end, she couldn’t do with…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 07:06 PM
2

Well, I’ll assert you have a limited view on things. I just came from London. I slept with a surgeon, two private equity wealth managers, and a project manager. Women there are far more successful on average. I’ll assert that in their own fields, their a lot more accomplished and intelligent than I am. I spent some time in Southeast Asia, where sex is just too easy. You become really numb to advances and really picky on who you spend your time with, so the women there are the ones that have to ‘…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 06:11 PM
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I appreciate your response. My observations are from doing a fair amount of traveling (and fucking) women of different cultures, social status, and education. Also having a very strong independent single mother, a strong career wife, and raising a daughter. For your first question, women got that way because of having the responsibility of child bearing. It is a significant milestone for anyone to grow another human being, but women uniquely bear the burden of actually serving as a vessel and gi…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:43 PM
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Not as different as you might think. Most of the ‘differences’ we perceive regularly is mostly from social conditioning. They’ve been conditioned to believe in fairy tale princesses, noble knights, etc. Gotten passes in life for just fluttering their eyes. Etc. There are women out there, generally with careers, some trauma/challenges from their life, etc. that have shaped and molded them into taking their own version of the pill. And they are generally better human beings for it with depth, wisd…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:08 AM
1

Hey. I’ve been there. I know how you feel. I’m about to get a little existential on you, so be ready. For me, game doesn’t just refer to the dance between a man courting a woman. All of life is a game. You’re taking your relationships way too seriously. Let them be fun. Let the emotions ride thru you. Women will come and go, each one of them teaching you something about yourself. Until finally, you understand who you are and what you want. You sound young. My advice is to take a step back and pu…
/r/seduction22/11/17 11:39 PM
3

It’s the modern world. It’s a small town. Let them deal with it and not have you in the middle of them dealing with it. If they need to talk, then talk. But the expectation should be that you’re all adults. If you were supposed to be exclusive, then that should have been made clear.
/r/seduction22/11/17 11:28 PM
1

Run for the hills man. She did you a favor! If it’s bothering you, you’ve got some issues too I’m afraid. Go out and get some confidence. Achieve something of worth to you (not other people). The more you win from within, the more the outer world will respond.
/r/seduction22/11/17 11:22 PM
3

Brother. I’m sorry to hear about your old man. I never had much of a father. He’s a rather lazy shitbag that never taught me a thing. So I’m glad you had yours, and he obviously did things right. As far as your mom and sister... there could be a number of things. 1. They may not have the mental maturity to process grief. 2. They’re just shitty people. 3. Your father may have had a much different relationship with them than with you. 4. You’re processing your grief differently than they are. In a…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 08:10 PM
1

If they start things by lying to you (playing prude when they’re really a whore, lying about their wild past, etc.), just tell them what they want to hear, use them,... They’re trying to use you, except they’ll have you tied to them for the rest of your life if you let them. Asian girls who have let themselves get fucked over and over are the same way. They have way too high of an opinion of themselves (relative to what they can actually offer) and realize at some point in their life they have t…
/r/seduction18/11/17 10:06 AM
5

Lie to them. Promise their bitch ass your ‘safety’ and play them like the skanks they are. They lied to you first so it’s fair game now. Reserve a real relationship to the ones who actually are worth it.
/r/seduction17/11/17 10:37 PM
3

Don't fret, little one, you simply don't have the wisdom yet to understand it. No your previous response was horse shit. There was no wisdom in it. Where in my post did I say that women are inferior? I'm pretty sure playing dumb and innocent here works for many others. Your post reeks of male superiority therefore female inferiority. At first, perhaps not (although I have certainly met my fair share of shy 8's or 10's), honestly it depends on YOU. Are you man enough to make her feel shy? Vulnera…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 08:57 PM
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How is this remotely an intelligent response much less argument? For you to be alpha, does it necessarily follow for all women to be inherently inferior? Besides, if you're approaching a 8-10, do you think they will be 'shy'? Or will they be confident from years of conditioning of their market superiority and put you thru the ringer to prove your worth? Confidence is learned. It's one of the very cornerstones of this sub existing. I argue it has nothing with gender predisposition. Men are as lik…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 06:32 PM
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Everyone has the ability to NOT be shy. It's just customary. Many women send cues to make a man approach. Not because they're shy, but because it's the script. Woman attracts, man comes hither and gives her what she's got. It's just programming in western culture. In eastern cultures, say Indian, none of this happens and you're just arranged. There's no game, no subtle signals, etc. men don't approach and women don't do things to attract. In modern society, things are changing in all cultures, b…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 03:41 PM
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It goes more like this... Her: "So you're not at all jealous if I have sex with other men?" Me: "No. Not generally. And if they're important to you, Id like to meet them. Oh, and please don't have sex with anyone else less than 2 days before we do. I don't think I like the thought of sloppy seconds. I'd like you fresh for me. Haha. But seriously, I'm not joking there."
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 09:16 PM
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Sure. I have rules of course (must be an LTR, 48 hours between, showered after, and it helps if I've met him to make sure he's an alright guy). If you're casually plating a girl, she's likely seeing multiple men anyway. I've found that by being open and honest with your partners, women treat you like an LTR and don't want to see other men. It's weird. Also, for some women, it turns them on how 'popular' I am. On occasion, they meet each other.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 10:25 AM
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Single moms are great! And I generally like hanging with their kids. We have play dates often with the kids (a parent thing for sure). Thanks for the post and positive discussion.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 02:54 PM
1

Well, to each their own. But just from my perspective. Women are just people. Ive been successful, in my opinion, because I regard them with empathy, but still maintain my interests and assert what I want. Essentially, I reject monogamy. That's it. Each relationship can grow limitlessly as long as it doesn't become 'exclusive'. One of my LTR is totally fine with my man-whoring, in fact it turns her on a bit. She just wants a man to be at her house, fix things, and wake up with her for breakfast …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 02:44 PM
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So I see a lot of kid and female hate on this sub. That screams of 'I've been emotionally traumatized by a woman, now I hate all women'. I will offer an alternative. Here's a story. I once lived a typical married with kids life, until that stopped. Thru a series of events that could easily have scarred me to a typical red piller, I chose to not let the trauma change me. I did learn from the events that took place, but I still held firm on some core principles that define me. Children are wonderf…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 12:04 AM
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I had this problem. I went thru a divorce and literally went from dating nobody to what I have now (2 steady women I can reliably call and sex, 1 I'm nearly closing the deal with, and 2 on/off agains I sex with). I can only speak for myself, but what worked for me was embracing and accepting failure. Did all the easy stuff like grooming and dressing with style. Then worked on harder stuff like losing weight and learning to deliver the more interesting bits of my life. Then the hardest part, sell…
/r/seduction04/07/17 05:35 AM
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Just my opinion here. I never go for the 'take the girl home that night' homerun. Go for the knockout and you don't hit anything. I go for the number most of the time and work the long game with multiple plates thru slow escalation. It takes longer, but I've built a deep bench of plates I can call on but need regular maintenance texts. Every once in a while, you REALLY hit it off with someone. Conversation just flows. At that point, keep escalating. Take them somewhere else (coffee, impromptu so…
/r/seduction25/06/17 12:55 PM
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Whatever man. I don't have to make myself feel big by kicking folks who just have a different worldview. Your need to make yourself feel bigger because the world hasn't been fair to you is permeating thru your rant. And who said anything about me being religious. Trying to make yourself feel bigger still. It's okay. I get it. You've reached a higher level of consciousness. You and every 20 somethings on here bitter about not getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:02 AM
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WTF are you so mad about. Get over your enlightenment. Dude has a belief. He isn't in your face trying to convert you. You're the one in his face trying to convert him. Let me guess, mommy forced you to be an alter boy growing up? Oh the LIES! Get over it. Nobody cares.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:27 AM
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Dude... just... what?! This is some ignorant shit here. I don't play any sports, workout just enough, but play the fuck out of guitars and piano. Right now, I'm recovering from a threesome with LTRs. Every man has their strengths if they know how to use them. Don't hate because you're tone deaf.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 09:31 AM
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This. It's all about the way it's delivered. For example, every fucking person brings up in conversation, almost w/o prompt, "I've run a marathon". Now that's an amazing achievement. A personal victory that I applaud anyone for doing, as would many people. If you're working a women, a BETTER way to do it is to have it "discovered". So, you could have a finishing photo in your phone photos. As you're scrolling thru your photos to share something totally unrelated, there's a picture revealing that…
/r/seduction25/03/17 12:57 PM
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Their love is reserved for their children. If you want to know what love she's capable of, look at how they're devoted to their children. But you're never going to get any of that.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 10:29 AM
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Story time. About to go on a date with this girl. I got her number with some day game, but it was quite apparent she was near my height. Before our date, she asked if I would mind if she wore heels. I asked why I would mind that? She'd look stunning. She said she'd be taller than me. Without skipping a beat (because I don't care) I told her that I'd love to get on my toes to give her a kiss before the night was thru. I think it was likely one of the most badass things I could have said. She wore…
/r/seduction19/02/17 04:34 PM
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I've never done the group thing. You can walk in a joint with a group, but I separate soon. Any opportunity. Grab the bartender from the other end of the bar, where the hottie is. On your way to the bathroom, ask the hottie on the way if she knows where the bathroom is. Then talk her up. I found the group pack thing only works well with girls (cheerleader effect). For guys, I've found it only makes girls compare. If you're not visually the alpha, then better to separate. For me at least. My buds…
/r/seduction11/02/17 04:15 PM
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I say schedule another date, and go hunting this Saturday you're free. It'll help your mind not get fixated on the one success you're having at the moment.
/r/seduction28/01/17 12:36 PM
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Many times, you can notice something flashy or loud. Is it an interesting scarf? Suede boots? Tats? Earrings that are meant to be noticed? These are good ones for me because a guy will rarely compliment on "girly" things, and when you do, you look more confident being able to do it and they likely like whatever thing they have that makes them stand out. I especially like complimenting tats. They usually have some sort of meaning and you can get a good conversation just from them talking about th…
/r/seduction21/01/17 05:48 PM
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Betablockers if you REALLY need help. Then start to ween off of them as you grow more accustomed and confident to the situations. It may just be performance anxiety you have. The beta blockers will calm you enough to perform well, which helps you grow more confident with each interaction. I've not used it for game, but I used this technique for public speaking. I'm now very comfortable in front of a crowd.
/r/seduction21/01/17 05:15 PM
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You're not missing out on anything. Work on yourself. It'll add depth to you that will make you even more attractive. I've never known "nice" to draw women in. But rather, how much depth do you have. I have a buddy that is an ER PA. Dude saves lives for a living. He told me that he was having trouble with women. He's got a lot of insecurities, issues with his height, and no real hobbies other than sports and cars. I told him that he should learn to tell stories, particularly about the ones where…
/r/seduction01/01/17 04:46 AM
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I was an introvert. I'm now an ambivert I think. I shared (and still do) some of the same thoughts in social settings. I think for me, it use to be fear. I was so concerned about what others thought of me that I put myself in a corner and found myself just "observing" everyone else. Yes. You pick up on all the obvious stuff (this guy's trying too hard, this girls totally wants to get laid, these guys are some of the most boring folks, etc) but that's because I wasn't really participating. I'm ol…
/r/becomeaman26/09/16 03:22 AM
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Sucks for that guy. But it looks like it was the state of Kansas that was pushing this. So they can get out of child assistance. And why the hell did a couple of lesbians want a child only to find out they couldn't afford one?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 11:59 AM
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Wait. What? I'm new to this sub. Any instances/articles you know of this happening? This is pretty fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:28 PM
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So, is this figurative or does this person exist?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:25 PM
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I think you hit it right when you say 'cope'. There's some good constructive discussions here, but definitely some destructive ones too, seemingly motivated by resentment or spite for maybe some past transgression. But the good ones are out there. They just don't frequent the clubs, bars, parties, etc. They might choose to spend their spare time at church, book clubs, or just work. It's like hunting anything. If you consistently hunt for the weak, sick, or wounded, that's what you'll catch. In m…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 08:00 PM
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Fair comment. But it's not a "leadership/follower" dynamic. In some areas, I lead (investment portfolio, budget) and she leads others (schooling for kids, insurance, trip planning). It's interdependence. There's such a thing as a successful marriage. Don't take too much of TRP that you later deny yourself a fulfilling life. Be aware of the tramps, but don't be so dense as to pass up a good thing. Feminism destroyed the modern woman. TRP could do the same to the men in its community if you adopt …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 07:22 PM
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If you say so. Good luck in life. Sounds like you're the type to resent others' success. I'm sure that'll work out for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 07:11 PM
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Disagree. Big city liberal girls maybe. There are some legit southern bells or career women without time to bother with boys that exist. You don't find them at bars or clubs. They're likely at work, helping out with the family business, med-school, whatever.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 05:18 PM
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There's some weak ass marriages here I'm reading in the comments. Here's my take. My wife banks. She makes slightly more than me (and I make plenty) and has a great career. She speaks 4 languages (well). Without me, she'd be just fine. Together, however, we're great. We have kids. We share responsibilities. She cooks, I wash dishes. She grocery shops, I put them up and stow. Being alpha is shit compared with being alpha with an alpha wife. I'm with her because we are far stronger than the sum of…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:36 PM
1

Things have changed since I've gotten my degree. I still think you could have picked a better class. Something exists to which you can get SOMETHING out of.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:37 PM
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Yeah. But you're paying money for that class... our somebody is...
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 02:24 AM
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Great list. I'd also add to lose cynacism. You think you're being clever, and you might be, but it's almost always at someone's expense - worst if it's your own. You're not helping yourself or anyone else. It's a drain.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:45 AM
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I'm married and have been for a long time (older than most here I think). I'm new to this sub, but generally enjoy it for all the commentary and hilarious insider jargon. I've been rejected before in bed. It lasts about 10 minutes. This includes past girls back during ancient times. For me, it's always been a challenge. As if she's saying, "what are you going to do about it?". If you want sex and she doesn't fold like a lawn chair right away, that's where the fun starts. Try going down on her. W…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:28 PM
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