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I'm a woman and fluctuate from 170 - 200lbs (health issues but working on getting to a stable/healthier weight). I've no issue with fat guys and can find them attractive. Weirdly though, fat guys tend to hate me. I'm guessing it's out of insecurity, but they have been absolutely vicious towards me calling me a whale, etc. Even though they are bigger than me but insist they're "stocky" and it's okay for them. They tend to go for thinner women. I've never had an issue attracting skinny, dad bod ty…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 10:48 AM
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I mean you don't have too, you can live a happy single life. Plenty of people do. However redpillers aren't happy, they try coerce women into dating them rather than living a happy single life.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 03:26 PM
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Sure, but it's not guaranteed. Whereas never even trying is guaranteed regret.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 02:06 PM
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Life is full of risks. When you get in a car, you risk getting into an accident. When you go swimming, you risk drowning. When you just step out of your door, you risk getting mugged or whatever else. Every relationship comes with risk, not just romantic ones but friendships, too. You could live a very isolated life and not endure any of that risk, but on your death bed, I'll guarantee you'll regret it. I've experienced heartbreak, rejection, getting cheated on, domestic violence, and sexual abu…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 03:25 AM
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Women get their looks absolutely scrutinised, and it is what we're valued for first. You're experiencing 1% of what women go through their entire lives, starting before you even go through puberty.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 02:47 PM
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I know there's men who will fuck anything that allows it. Men have sex with corpses, animals and children. That isn't the same as being loved. The fact redpill men can't understand that is a big part of their problem.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 11:16 PM
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How do you think it is being a woman where we're taught our entire lives our looks matter above everything else, we're shamed for ageing and the ideal body for women changes every 10 years or so? Yet women manage not to become extremists.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/25 07:22 AM
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I think the truth of the matter is they're angry they weren't born super rich and attractive, they want to be the Brad Pitts and Henry Cavils of the world. It is an extremely spoilt brat mindset you're correct, as the vast majority aren't like that yet we all manage. Comparing yourself to the 1% is completely pointless.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 01:24 AM
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Women like that also don't typically look how they want either. They don't wear much makeup or fashionable clothes, they pretend not to care about things like that but are awful to women who don't partake in fashion. They also want a woman who will do anything in the bedroom and give it to them straight away which isn't realistic either if they want a conservative virgin.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/25 11:02 PM
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You have absolutely zero experience of dating as a woman, and I can tell you we're not only going for the best-looking guys. I've dated short guys, tall guys, fat guys, thin guys, and fit guys. Body type isn't a big deal to me, and it isn't to a lot of women, but men are very picky when it comes to body type unless it's just for a one night stand. You're allowed to be picky, but please stop projecting and blaming women for it. While women might have more options, it doesn't make all those option…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/24 12:30 PM
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You're assuming women think like that, most of us don't lol. Most women don't have extremely rigid physical standards, men are more likely too. You project how you think onto everyone else.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/24 02:01 AM
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But she stills needs to have an attractive face though lol. Admit it, you wouldn't want to date someone you have absolutely zero attraction too but expect women too. I'm not sure why you think it's only "good looking" guys that behave that way either.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/24 07:53 PM
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Okay go out with a fat woman then, as good looking women tend to be more picky.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 07:51 AM
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Lauren Southern was a far right darling of the internet around 2014 - 2018. She would put out a lot of content mocking career women and single women, even the audience pandering to her gave her shit for being a woman with a career back then. She eventually got married to a "trad guy", only to end up being abused, getting divorced and being a single mum. Despite all the horrendous hateful content she put out, I do still feel bad for her. This is the reality of where these women will end up, if no…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 07:05 PM
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I've seen many posts on that subreddit utterly freaking out over turning 30 and still being single too. As well as posts regretting a promiscuous past. Ironically, a lot of them are the stereotypical "left behind women" if they stop setting their sights on completely awful men, they'd probably realise a lot of guys out there don't care about those things. I actually see more desperate single pick mes online than I do feminists. I think pick mes feel special if they're picked by the guy who hates…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 05:10 PM
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You need to stop approaching relationships with mind games. To keep a relationship going, you both talk. Someone who gets mad at you for not replying for a few hours or spams you is definitely insecure. Just talk when you want to talk, before I lived with my partner we weren't texting the whole day as we both work and have lives but we'd check in on each other, do things like send memes we knew would make the other laugh etc. If you can't talk naturally and at ease, then it's a no go.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/24 12:30 AM
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As a woman, my friends and I have never sat discussing our "types," nor do we even talk about men much. I honestly think this is a projection from men, as I see things about the way women look absolutely everywhere, and I've lost count on how many men have commented on my appearance unsolicited. Actually speak to women instead of just listening to what men on the internet say we're like.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/24 10:14 PM
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I definitely feel like it's changed since Andrew Tate and other creators like him started appearing on tiktok. Extremists always existed, of course, but you'd have to dig deep to find people debating whether or not women should be allowed to work or vote, etc. Now it appears on your tiktok fyp with millions of views, likes and comments agreeing.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/24 11:16 PM
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Most people marry within their class, so no hypergamy is this hugely common thing.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/24 07:09 AM
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I understand that and didn't downvote him. I was just saying calling women plates isn't a good look if you're trying to move away from redpill shit.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/24 12:54 PM
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I've seen them post couples who happen to be different weights, different races or have kids from previous relationships just happily living their lives and be utterly brutal. If you see a couple getting heavily trolled for an innocent social media post I would honestly place money on it being shared in some misogynistic space somewhere. I think they view themselves as having done "everything right" I.e. they go to the gym and have a flashy car or whatever. So when they see people who don't fit …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 10:52 PM
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Because women can get casual sex easily, and they believe those women are undeserving of it. Edit: Just to clarify, I'm not agreeing with this mindset. It's how redpill men think. They regularly go on about women getting ego boosts from dating apps and casual sex while men have to try harder to get laid. As a woman I don't believe a guy sending the same DM to me and 100 other women to give us the worst 3 minutes of our lives is actually all that flattering.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 09:13 PM
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The fact you're still calling women "plates" indicates you're not out of it.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 10:34 AM
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Definitely leave him when he's next out the house so you don't have to talk to him. I'd leave a note or something to make sure he knows he ruined the relationship with his nonsense and that only he's to blame.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 10:33 AM
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It definitely is a societal expectation. A lot of women are starting to go against it but it doesn't mean it isn't without criticism. Margot Robbie is currently being slammed for being an "older" mum at 34.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 09:44 AM
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I view these redpill influencers as borderline groomers to be honest. They prey on young naive, insecure men and deliberately give bad advice so they'll not be successful but say its their fault or women's fault to keep them hooked. It's predatory.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 10:04 AM
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Of course, be aware of red flags and have standards - I'm not saying, just take anyone who will have you.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:52 AM
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It exists. Getting into a relationship is a risk you take. However, it doesn't mean it'll necessarily end badly. I'm in a happy relationship. Violence against women has just been declared an epidemic in my country, yet I and most of my female friends are in relationships. That is proven statistical facts not anonymous posts on reddit yet women are still willing to be with men.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:48 AM
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People in happy relationships aren't often posting online. Doomscrolling subs like /r/confessions for posts like that is only feeding into your own misery.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:41 AM
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They're meant for meeting people but not particularly successful evidently and the data will always be skewed due to how many more men are on there and men matching everyone, even people they have no intention of talking too let alone meeting. Men treat it like a game, so it will never be a reflection of real life.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/24 07:35 AM
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Nope, because there's far more men on dating apps compared to women and many men admit to swiping right on literally everyone. The data will always be skewed due to that and doesn't reflect real life. Go outside.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/24 11:26 PM
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In a way I can kinda understand. After going through a lot of trauma at a young age, I sought support via online feminist forums. While a lot of the advice on there is valid and stuff I still agree with. I fell into the trap of doomscrolling, constantly reading about women and girls being harmed, women on forums saying you can't trust any man at all, that they're all misogynistic and can never be good people. It made me very afraid of men and very bitter. Consuming yourself with hatred makes you…
/r/ExRedPill10/09/24 12:45 AM
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I grew up with a misogynistic dad, too, so I get it. Growing up hearing you're basically inferior by the man who's meant to love you unconditionally and then seeing all this shit when you're an adult, it's difficult to not be affected and feel angry. I try my best not to look at content that could bait that, not read comments on articles/videos, etc. That involves women in any way. I can't resist arguing sometimes, but I try to keep that to more neutral spaces like this one.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 11:29 PM
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That is definitely the vibe I get too, and it's ridiculous. Most people do not live like millionaires yet most of us manage to have relationships, probably more satisfying and meaningful than Dicaprio as his end so quickly and they seem more like business arrangements. If they want casual sex, that's fine as you said. But they're not going to get hoards of beautiful women begging for it.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 08:00 PM
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Well, you didn't elaborate, so I had to hazard a guess at what you're talking about lol. Spousal maintenance as its called in my country, is dependent on who earns more and the courts aim for the couple to decide it for themselves, rather than the courts. If they can't agree then the courts will decide. Just don't get married if you're so worried about this or be with someone who earns more or the same. Nobody really cares what you do either way.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:45 PM
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Majority of men don't want custody so don't fight for it in court, most mediation is settled without the courts. The men that do fight for custody, mostly get it or get 50/50. Courts don't outright ban people from seeing their kids unless there's hard evidence of abuse or neglect.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:34 PM
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My partner has a son from a previous relationship. The mother of his child and him were both teenagers, obviously an unplanned pregnancy lol. They split when their son was a year old. They've always shared custody, remained friends and never needed to get courts involved. I never tried to replace his mum as she's very much an active parent, but he knows he can rely on me too as well as his mums partner. I have a son too, we all go on family days out together and get along amazingly. We also baby…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:27 PM
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Don't be in one then lol, nobody is forcing you. The "power' you think women have over you in courts isn't even accurate.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:23 PM
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Yes
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 11:25 AM
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Okay not all left wingers do of course (though i never claimed that in the first place), but some definitely do and don't want to hear it. I've seen former sex workers called swerfs for even being critical of the sex industry. Liberal choice feminism is obsessed with pushing it as empowering too.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 10:15 AM
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Yeah, I see a lot of similarities in my dad to redpillers even though he'd have no idea what redpill means. It's just boomer misogyny with a new label.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 05:47 AM
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There's a quote I seen "right wing men think women are personal property, left wing men think women are public property" I'm not against sex workers at all, they're just making a living. But the uncritical way left wingers often view the sex industry irks me, ignoring the exploitative aspects of it, lack of protection for workers and how risky it is, is plain ignorance.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 06:56 PM
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Yup. My parents are boomers in a miserable marriage. On paper, their relationship is perfect to redpillers. My dad is extremely controlling, he gripes at my mum even having female friends. My mum is 60 so very unlikely to be cheating on him lol. My dad was the same with me, wanted me in the house 24/7, had to know who all my friends were etc. Even when I was an adult. Growing up seeing a relationship like that made me scared to settle down and very picky.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 04:28 PM
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I've noticed a lot of the influencers they follow are also single, yet they'll listen to them for relationship advice rather than normal people in relationships. The whatever podcast guy is incredibly embarrassing to most people, a 30something year old guy interviewing 19 year old onlyfans girls about relationships and getting a kick out of making them rate themselves. He's successful financially, not bad looking yet still single. They all look for advice from the entirely wrong people, even if …
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 12:09 PM
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The transactional way a lot of these men view relationships is their own downfall. Most men in today's economy are not even wealthy enough to run a household on one income, so this fantasy of being a provider isn't realistic. They can no longer just throw money at a woman and get one. They need to actually be interesting, kind, empathetic, and treat women like people. They view women as some bizarre animals that all think and act the same, so treat every interaction they have with one like a gam…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 11:41 AM
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Listen to audio books instead. Fiction can be great escapism, and it's easy to put on while working, exercising, or whatever. It's a lot better for the mind than political podcasts.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 10:00 AM
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We're on a subreddit talking about the redpill community, so I'm going to talk about the redpill community, lol. There's millions of men all around the world part of that community, so it's hardly just a small selection. You didn't prove any point. You claimed I said women don't care about appearance when I never claimed that in the first place. I gave you reasons why women are rating men lower, its because a lot of them don't practice skin care, personal grooming, or find a style that suits the…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 12:14 PM
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It's easier for a man to be considered attractive in their eyes, all they need to do is not be excessively overweight or underweight. They don't pay attention to things like skin care, grooming, and style, then rage women don't find them attractive. They conclude this must mean women only want 6ft+ men with six packs, which isn't the case. You just refuse to listen to women about what they actually like and listen to men on podcasts, etc. Men see an attractive woman as a status symbol, they acti…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/24 09:12 AM
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Exactly this, they're mad they weren't born rich and insanely attractive. That is most people's circumstances. Most people can deal with it. It's bizarre to me, I think most people knew as children being rich and/or attractive means life will be easier, it feels like they've only just discovered this. They also think the dating market is so easy for women, imo it isn't but for different reasons. Women have to wade through a load of guys only looking for sex, and often men won't be open about thi…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/24 04:50 AM
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I am a woman lol. I'm aware women lie, there's good and bad women. Just like there's good and bad men. You redpilled and blackpilled men act like we're a different species from you who all think and act the same. Women care about being attracted to their partners of course, but they don't get actively angry at men who are unattractive existing like some men do. Dating apps don't reflect real life, they're essentially a meat market. Go outside and meet people organically, and you'll see.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 01:54 AM
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Attractive women also get more sex and in general have easier lives than less attractive women. Women understood this as children. Honestly, it feels like you're angry the world isn't Beauty and the Beast, where beautiful women will accept you even if you're hideous. Also, that is complete nonsense. Women are less concerned about physical appearance than men. There's literally a study out there about how men get actively angry when around women they find unattractive.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 12:58 AM
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You could do the exact same with a female model's picture lol. It is not news to anyone except manosphere types for some reason that attractive people get more attention on dating apps.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 08:02 PM
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I was wealthier than my boyfriend when we initially got together. I've stuck by him when he's been unemployed. Do you genuinely believe people can't truly love each other? He's taller than me, but I'm 5'4, so most men are lmao. Most men tend to be stronger than women too, it's literally just biology. You're clutching at straws here.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 05:39 PM
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Can you define a "nice guy" for me? I can't speak for every woman but I'll tell you about my boyfriend. When I met him, he was living with his dad, on minimum wage, and also has a child from a previous relationship. On paper, he probably wouldn't be considered a catch in the incel world. What attracted me to him was his sense of humour, kindness, selflessness, empathy, and the fact he'd plan fun dates, which do not need to be expensive. We've been together for years now, I know he's not a "bad b…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 05:26 PM
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Vast majority of men are not rich.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 04:45 PM
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They 100% do project and accuse women of lying whenever we try to explain to them, we don't view attraction and relationships the same way they do. It's funny as they're always screehing women and men are different whenever the narrative is convenient for them but insist we're exactly the same other times.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 03:20 PM
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They likely are. Physical attraction tends to be what initially draws someone to someone else. I know my bf and I aren't models yet he's perfect to me. By how he treats me he feels the same.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 01:17 PM
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In the real world, yes. Short men, fat men, men with big noses, bad teeth and whatever else is considered typically unattractive - get women all the time as do women with these flaws. Normal people do not live like celebrities.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 12:37 PM
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Honestly no, and keep in mind I'm not talking about the average guy. I'm talking about redpillers. Average women and average men do just fine relationship wise.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 12:10 PM
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These are male models picked by the modelling industry, which is mostly run by men lol. I couldn't even name a single male model and have never seen any of these guys in my life. Women are not obsessed with male models.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 10:41 AM
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Women don't typically enjoy being used for sex, even if the guy is super attractive. Even in hook-ups, women typically still want some respect and to feel attractive. Being told guys will fuck literally anything isn't the huge compliment you think it is. There is a huge difference in a guy who will fuck you just for the sake of it and a guy who is genuinely interested. Dating apps are not a reflection of real life and will always have skewed data. As there's far more men on dating apps and fewer…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 09:22 AM
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What is a "non-select" man?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 11:16 PM
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They are so bizarre about that. They can't understand that people have different preferences and think everyone only likes very stereotypically attractive people. Attraction and beauty is completely subjective.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 10:09 PM
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I've never understood this as men especially redpill men regularly talk about wanting 10/10 18 - 25 year olds even if they're 35+ year old average to below average men. Why is it only okay for them to have a fantasy but not women. I don't really know any women who actually do dream about "chads" but even if they did, they do the exact same thing. Redpillers are full of projection.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 09:20 PM
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I honestly think its partially because they barely even recognise the existence of average women. They only think in extremes. Either you're a 10/10 whose either an influencer/model/sex worker getting flown out to Dubai and shit. Or you're an 600lb single mum with 6 different baby daddies. Average every day women don't seem to register in their minds therefore they pay zero attention to our dating lives. Most women are not sleeping with or dating "chads" if anything I think women are less concer…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 09:13 PM
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The best thing you can do is stop watching content like that. They view women as some strange animal that all think and act the same. You're young, so you've got the world at your feet socially. I'd look up local clubs, events, etc. In your area and go to any that take your interest. I'd also be open to making friends too not just dating, as it'll build your confidence and experience. I'm not saying you'll make new friends, etc. straight away but getting out the house is far better than using ap…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:00 PM
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