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No but you dont get it like, patrarchy is like a vibration. We're all hurt under patrarchy. But men are privileged under patrarchy. Patrarchy pigs!!
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/26 08:56 PM
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Yeah we're all human.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/26 08:17 PM
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I asked someone why, and she was like "it's against Gawd's will" or something
/r/EverydayMisandry18/07/26 11:05 PM
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Apparently, things have been improving in Brazil in terms of economically. But this new law is anti free speech. Really bad.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/26 07:44 PM
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Apparently intimacy is 'labour'.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/26 07:43 PM
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Personally, I'd rather have feelings validated. And don't pretend that you want the best for these folks. You just admitted that you dont have empathy. Im not red pill. You clearly are just attacking people for lacking "confidence". This has nothing to do with the politics of those individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:28 PM
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That's so dishonest and dismissive. Cmon. Often it's just venting. People overuse and misuse the word 'entitlement' all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:24 PM
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Such lack of empathy, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:21 PM
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Cmon now. Plenty of men who are non-nasty, get called eNtItLeD. It's such an overused and misused word
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:19 PM
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Thanks for the empathy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:14 PM
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No, it's not. Cmon. Often times it's just venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:10 PM
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But men get called entitled a lot, just for venting and things like that. People really overuse and misuse the word 'eNtItLeMeNt'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:06 PM
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I mean if you go on Feeld, you will see so many women saying they're a "size queen" or that they want a "fit, well hung guy". It's not fair to just say this is all in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:45 PM
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"confidence" I suppose that was included in my definition. So tiresome to hear about 'dominance', 'confidence' etc all the time. Just wanna escape all these expectations of what a 'real man' should be. Dating advice always telling me I need to become someone who's the complete opposite of who I am. So tired of it all. I can only hope I can find women who are different. Women who aren't into these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:20 AM
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Using terms like 'alpha male', 'beta male' etc is so toxic. It's a great example of toxic masculinity. "Being good at your job or hobby or having a leadership position even if it's a support group is sexy" It seems to be an incredibly common thing for women to find 'dominance' etc to be attractive. I wonder if I could ever meet a woman who's different. I can dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:41 PM
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There's a lot of issues here. "They come off too friendly and too agreeable and hardly take the initiative." Im so tired of the anti-niceness coming from all angles of society. It's such a toxic masculinity thing. That we're always told that men should never be nice, never be insecure, never have feelings, never be a human being, etc. It's so toxic. "In her mind he’s just being an ordinary friend." If she was attracted to him, she wouldn't see him as 'an ordinary friend'. "All you have to do is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:24 PM
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"But if you hop online and say that hypergamous bitches need to have their freedoms rolled back because they like tall men" Of course, but there are lot of people who don't express any kind of hate at all, yet they get attacked. I feel like when men express their loneliness/rejection w dating, they always get attacked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:15 PM
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Everyone, men and women, are allowed to have whatever standards they want. We should stop telling people that their standards are too high "you're ugly so you should go for ugly people". Standards are personal. It's not our business to tell others how they should date. Both women and men get attacked for their personal standards, and it's not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:52 PM
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What about video calls?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:59 AM
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Healthy dating advice as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:26 PM
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"I didn't say you CAN'T betray anyone" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:23 PM
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"And as far as distain for less successful men goes, why should anyone be expected to settle for a bum, male or female." You had me until this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:21 PM
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Who hurt you? Were you bullied by autistic jocks in school or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:01 PM
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'Cause I wanna date women who find me attractive? I want those women to lust after me, from the get go. I don't want to date women who think I'm ugly, average, or I had to "win her over" with my personality because my looks weren't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:43 AM
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True dat. But the same is true for women in this thread. They perpetuate toxic masculinity. "Insecure men are weak and useless" "Insecurity is unattractive" "Insecure men are violent" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:41 AM
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"Because it always leads to women being the victims of abuse, violence and murder." As an insecure man, this is straight up offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:30 AM
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"There are plenty of men who could and would treat me decently and satisfactorily (is that a word) even if it’s not necessarily instagram model treatment. I just need to find them!" Yeah, just like men need to find women who treat them like "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:23 AM
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I think he specifically referring to cases where the woman is not experiencing that feral attraction to the man from the get-go, but yet is still willing to give him a chance for an LTR anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:20 PM
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And whats wrong with that? I want to date women who find me sexy. I don't want to date women who think I'm ugly. The people in these comments cant seem to understand that. "You are not as sexy as those other guys, but you have the sweetest personality." That's such a heartbreaking thing to hear. I don't know why nobody can understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:41 PM
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I think men definitely want to be desired. Men are human too. But presumably, they don't get sexually turned on by it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:44 AM
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Why do you support Trump though? Did you see how they ganged up on and yelled at Zelensky at the meeting earlier this year? And Zelensky was completely calm and civilized the entire time. And the media called it a 'shouting match', which is so unfair and dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:09 AM
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Sure hope you yankees can get free health care soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:05 AM
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It's none of your business what people do in their private dating lives. Mind your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:43 AM
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Seems also like gay guys are more likely (than straight girls are) to be 'chubby chasers'. I wish there were more female chubby chasers out there. But they seem very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:29 AM
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Dogs are so overrated. Why not get a goat or pig instead? You know, the animals we treat so badly. I really admire those people who get pets from the farm, to give them a long and nice life. I know someone who has a pet goat. I really admire her for that. The dog business is popular and overrated. How I wish it would be shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:22 AM
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Where does the perceived masculinity come from? It doesn't come from their looks, right? (since you find women better looking than men). So where does the perceived 'masculinity' come from, if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:18 AM
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Sexual attraction is a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:17 AM
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You make a great point. That's something I never understood about those men. I want women who lust after me. I don't want to be with women who think of me as 'oh don't worry my sweet guy, I don't care about looks. I don't care that you're ugly'. I want women who think I'm hot, not women who 'don't care about looks'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:30 AM
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I can see that you've been hurt. Perhaps by traumatic sexual experiences. Your feelings are valid. However, I don't think that there's anything immoral about finding someone sexy and wanting to f*** them. Let's be sex positive. There's enough sex negativity and shame on this planet. Let's not make people feel guilty just for having sexual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:30 PM
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"You can have whatever preference you want, but if you express it to the broader public, you're going to get opinions about it. I don't like bodybuilders, they give me the ick. I think they look like balloon animals, and yet, I've never had anyone tell me that I'm being mean or something for thinking these dudes look absurd. That's because I don't advertise my preferences to people." But there are times when it might be relevant to express your preferences. Like you just expressed yours. Like I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:32 AM
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It's not necessarily about the money. It's about the principle. Feeling used is not a good feeling. And the expectation that the man must be the one to pay, simply because he's a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:15 AM
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Here we go again with the sex negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:36 AM
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"French inches" Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:23 AM
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People have the right to have whatever preferences they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:22 AM
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"You probably wouldn't be in a relationship with someone you wouldn't want to have sex with." I seem to have heard a lot of women say that they have had boyfriends whom they did not find physically attractive (at least at first).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:56 PM
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I guess I politely disagree with the first part of your comment. I think having an uncomfortable conversation such as telling a woman "Im sorry, I don't want commitment. But if you want to have casual sex sometime I would definitely be down for that." That can be very difficult conversation to have. Of course it is a conversation that definitely SHOULD be had, but it takes time and discomfort, so I believe it falls under "you owe me your time and discomfort," if you want to get technical. Which …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:28 PM
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You're saying that people are entitled to the truth? Which I agree with. People are entitled to certain things. It's not true that "nobody is entitled to s***", " nobody owes anyone anything"... that is untrue. It is wrong to lie or manipulate. It is wrong for a man to act like he wants commitment and then abandon her once he gets a night of sex. Just like it's also wrong for a woman to accept a man to spend money on her dinner or drink if she knows that she does not want to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:10 PM
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He's not saying that dishonesty and manipulation is okay. He's just using Rezboy's own logic against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:54 PM
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Yes OP, I think you hit the nail on the head on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:39 PM
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I thought you were talking about men who are lonely virgins? I'm not exactly pilled but I am a lonely virgin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:38 PM
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Again, like the other commenter said, it's for them to decide if past experiences is a deal breaker or not. It's not for others to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:19 PM
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Not sure I follow, but may I ask u a question? What is the purpose to you of making someone wait for sex? What is it you would lose by having sex early on (that you wouldn't lose by having sex early on with a hookup partner)?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:12 PM
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I know. It hurts when everyone wants commitment and if you dare to mention the word casual then they drop you like a hot potato. It hurts to be seen as an apple rather than an ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:04 PM
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I'm not conservative at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:58 PM
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So much shaming in your comments. And like the other commenter said, it is up to them to decide. IMO, people have a right to know their partners history. It's not about forcing anyone to do anything. If there is a certain things she doesn't want to do anymore then that's her right, but it's also her partner's right to leave if they want to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:54 PM
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I dont think it's quite that simple. Because if you're dating online (long distance) then you cant put out anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:18 PM
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Bingo. Great solution. If she doesn't want cheap dates then she's taking advantage of you. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:22 PM
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" This mindset is a great way to find yourself unmarried at 35 only for your boyfriend to dump you for someone else." Yes because sex negativity and trying to force marriage upon me will definitely make me commit to her. ( that was sarcasm )
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:56 PM
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I'm glad the universe revolves around you and that you have all the answers for how half the human population should live.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:27 PM
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I'm not necessarily an incel. But I am a lonely, involuntary celibate. If that makes sense. I went to the incel website earlier this year, with an open mind and an open heart, hoping they would prove the media wrong. How wrong I was. Calling that site 'toxic' would be an understatement. They seem very hellbent on proving the media correct. And they bring a bad name to lonely people everywhere. I miss the days when us lonely virgins were just seen as socially awkward people who were too shy to as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:19 PM
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Not necessarily women in general. But certainly a lot of people online and in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:10 PM
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Sure. "This leaves me feeling resentment for having been blamed for something I didn't do." Totally understandable. That's how I feel when people blame and shame lonely people for the actions (violence, misogyny, etc) of a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:02 PM
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Oh yes I do have another example. Here is an example of someone calling me a 'sort of bad person' when I express my loneliness (without my blaming women, of course). https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1df9c2r/comment/l8o1uqs/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:41 PM
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That's a reasonable stance, unlike many of the others here in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:28 PM
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It has happened to me. Here is an example. I don't have the full context though, but hopefully you get the idea. I wish I had an example with the full context, but it's the best I can do for now. Hopefully someone can give a fuller example. But it's hard to find these examples, 'cause you'd have to save the links. Imgur: The magic of the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:22 PM
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You are vilifying them right now, stereotyping lonely people as violent. Our society is so cold and cruel. I hate this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:29 PM
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If you don't feel empathy for lonely people, I don't know what to tell you. What a cold and screwed up society we live in. (Sigh).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:26 PM
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That's a stereotype. Not every lonely person does that, but they still get shamed and attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:19 PM
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Why are you vilifying lonely people like that? Screwed up society we live in. These people are struggling, and society only chooses to vilify them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:18 PM
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Not every lonely person blames others. Yes I feel bitter at the world for rejecting me, but I also acknowledge that women have the right to reject me. We all reject people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:13 PM
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Not sure I follow. Yes there's violence, sexism, racism, etc. But we also see perfectly innocent people being shamed and called 'entitled' simply because they are struggling with dating and venting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:11 PM
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It's no one's fault. People aren't in the wrong for rejecting someone, and people are not in the wrong for being rejected, lonely and venting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:06 PM
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Not every lonely person is violent or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:05 PM
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He didn't necessarily say the severity was the same. He is saying the principle is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:02 PM
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I may be picky, but I have also faced more rejection than I can possibly count. So it's both my pickiness as well as my unattractiveness. As well as some other reasons. So there are several reasons for my virginity. How is it sort of bad? People can't help what they're attracted to. Some people are more easy to please. Some people are more snobby and hard to please. I happen to belong in the 2nd group. I'm also picky and snobby about other things too. Such as music. If someone shows me a song th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:30 PM
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No, I confess that I wouldn't. But that's different from being a misogynist or a bad person. It just means I'm picky (I confess that I am, guilty as charged). "I have yet to meet someone who didn’t struggle for very specific reasons." Doesn't mean they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:20 PM
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Indeed, the Red Pill and society in general tells us that we age like wine. I'll turn into a sex object when I'm 50. How I wish that was true. But I don't think it is. We see now how negatively women speak about older men. I feel like society sold me a lie that I have time, that (unlike women) I don't have to rush. That women don't care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:56 PM
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"Maybe there is a place for therapy but on reddit it is ultimately one of the derail tactics to stop discussing men's dating problems and reframe them as "men's mental health" problems" Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:52 PM
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"But, anyone I have personally ever met who truly struggled with women to that extent, have always been raging misogynists and sort of bad people." Don't you think that that's a bit cold to just dismiss a whole group of lonely people as simply 'misogynists and sort of bad people'? It's not necessarily someone's fault that they get rejected. The world is screwed up. Being unpopular doesn't make someone wrong. If that was the case, it would be a bully victim's fault for being bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:14 PM
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"It’s a way to not feel bad about being rejected for your own shitty qualities." Being rejected doesn't necessarily mean you have shitty qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:31 PM
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"that won’t get me physically turned on." "won’t make it long term." Isn't there a difference between physical arousal and long term compatibility though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:28 PM
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I hear you, my dear sister. Communication is very important, and there's a lot that can be known about someone (sexually and otherwise) through talking about it. But aren't there also some things that can't be figured out until you do the deed? E.G. "I didn't know they looked like that naked. I can't get over it. I can't date this person anymore, sorry." "I didn't know they smelled like that down there. I can't get over it. I can't date this person anymore, sorry." "I didn't know their oral skil…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:53 PM
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That's hot. I wanna find my predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:34 PM
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Interesting. I've never had sex so I don't know. But aren't there some things you can't foresee until you have sex with them? Like the way their naked body looks, how they moan, how they thrust, how they taste, how they smell, how they perform oral sex, the general bedroom chemistry, etc.? You can't know these things until you have actual sex with them, right? Also, what is unethical about having sex with someone you're not sure about? Nothing is necessarily lost, right? You may have gained a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:28 PM
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"You shouldn't use a person's body unles you are 100% sure you love them." But how can you be sure you love someone if you haven't even had sex with them yet? Sex is a big part of compatibility, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:08 PM
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Couldn't sex be a way to figure out how you feel about someone? How can you be sure about someone if you don't even know what they're like in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:01 PM
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I just feel like the manosphere are the types who will call people soy boys, alpha males, beta males, and all that childish macho talk. Spreading the soy myth is very harmful, and all that macho talk... I'm just allergic to it. It's also quite ironic that a sphere that claims to care about men will be the first to attack not only women, but also feminine men (men who they don't deem to be masculine or 'alpha' enough). Such as Jordan Peterson's attacks on feminine men, or Paul Joseph Watson sprea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:31 AM
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The manosphere is the people who think soy messes with your hormones, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:47 AM
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What is the point of marriage anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:28 AM
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Male here. Music and sometimes other creative pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:32 AM
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"Men just need to find an interesting passion or develop something interesting about themselves and find some way to share it" If only it were that easy. I'd be swimming in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:18 AM
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When you're lonely/undesirable, you get demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:49 AM
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There is no way to stop the heartbreak. There is no cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:31 AM
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No one likes me. Women call me an incel & misogynist. The manosphere call me a soy boy beta libcuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:28 AM
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I got banned from hinge. But I remember the women on there were all very slim. 80% fat? Whaaaa? Where the hell do you live? The U.S or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:29 PM
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I feel like 90%+ of the time when a woman brings up sex in her profile, it is to say something negative about it. Where are you finding these women who are looking for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:51 PM
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I think for me if it's casual dating I Guess It Doesn't Matter. But if it's long-term dating ( I guess I still think subconsciously in terms of long-term, I blame the commitment culture we live in) then I would prefer a woman who was young, personally. If I was to date women my age at 35, I start to feel worried. She might still be beautiful and fertile but how long is that gonna last? I'm not proud of it but this is how I think. If I were to date a 18 year old girl I would feel much more relaxe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:21 PM
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There was a study that said that women on average want their male partners to be 21 centimeters taller than them. And men on average prefer their female partners to be seven centimeters shorter than themselves. The average height difference between a man and a woman is somewhere like 10 to 15 centimeters, for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:09 PM
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I dont know. I almost never see a woman place an ad "looking for a man with average/small penis. But I've seen plenty of ads saying "looking for a well hung man" Also, https://looksmax.org/threads/200-porn-stars-admit-size-matters.598536/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:37 PM
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