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This is the best guide I've come across. https://markmanson.net/std-guide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:09 PM
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Because they value themselves, which shows the men to value them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 07:36 PM
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Dude, I haven't even talked about the bad stuff. Don't really want it out there. Most of this sub is just "Huh, why did I accept so little from him when I held myself to such a high standard of giving so much?" And what's interesting about this sub is that we are realizing that WE ARE ALL EXPERIENCING THE EXACT SAME THING. It's eye opening. So, yeah. We're trying to figure out what we can personally do to change that dynamic. It's not easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:28 PM
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My love language is gifts and those socks would be a wayyyy better gift for me than expensive jewelry! It. Is. About. The. Effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:50 PM
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I'm too busy laughing at my own dumb jokes. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:38 AM
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If what you have is what you want, then it's all good. If you want something else and what you have is not actively leading to that, then that's not good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:55 PM
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Yeah, DC is... oof. The egos are large and the dating pool is fugly. When I'm out, I get told at least six times a night that I'm gorgeous. I say thank you and keep walking. Sometimes I wonder if there's something about me that only attracts LVM, even though I don't entertain their attention. But maybe that's just all that's around me. I don't even date very often! No one has been interesting enough. It's okay. Better to be single than dragged down to their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:51 PM
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Oh, lord.... that's even bad math.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:32 PM
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I love wild parties and I love to dance. But I dance alone. Hate when someone tries to control me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:01 PM
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And he makes it quite clear that the love language of touch DOES NOT MEAN SEX.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:00 PM
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Anyone who doesn't acknowledge their role in a failed relationship is LV. Even if it is just "why did I put up with that?" it is never adequately explained away with "lol the other person was crazy, nothing to do with me." We all have flaws. That's okay. Trying to be perfect is a flaw too. But hand-waving away an opportunity to grow is definitely LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 09:53 PM
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Corallary thought: He needs to be putting in 90% of the work on himself. And you should also be putting in 90% of the work on yourself. You can't convince a man to have ambition or drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:48 PM
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I was in your shoes once and I wish I'd broken it off when you did. It hurts because you are human and you have emotions. It's healthy to hurt. You are allowed to be sad, to miss him, to grieve the loss of the future you hoped to have with him. But know this: it would hurt a whole hell of a lot more if you continue with him. He's told you who he is. Believe him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:55 PM
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Most, true. But now there are toys that can. And they are just delightful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:05 PM
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"Oh, so you must have a small dick. Men with small dicks are the only ones who seem to care about anal." (This is not an exaggeration. Men with small dicks want anal so they can feel what guys with big dicks feel. Guys with big dicks don't care about anal. They just assume it's not possible.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:49 AM
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FDS is becoming my daily affirmation that to keep my self-worth clearly fixed in my mind! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:48 PM
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I like that you took the "why" behind the rules and held that intact even if you deviated from a rule. I think that the sex one is very personal. If you are capable of having sex without it increasing the attachment and without thinking it implies some sort of commitment, then I don't really see an issue with having it early. But maybe that doesn't describe most women? As another recent post points out, men are expecting you to want commitment once having a sexual relationship and are shocked if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:07 PM
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I don't think it's necessary to agree with everything. But the stuff here really helps me keep my self-value high and keep my "pick-me" bad behaviors to a minimum. And those behaviors aren't actually attractive to men! So it's a win-win!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:48 PM
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True. You know, that brings up a good response to the walk suggestion. "Like a picnic?" And then see if he thinks you are the one bringing the picnic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:42 PM
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Also, him bringing a picnic is effort. Walking is not. But yeah, not for the first date. For safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:34 PM
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Please do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:26 PM
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My profile says: "Looking to date and get to know each other to find someone special that I want to be in a relationship with." This is to make a few points clear: I expect dates. Getting to know each other is the point of the dates, not sex. My end goal is a relationship. But.... I'm not so desperate to have a relationship that I'll take any man who agrees. But more importantly, my behavior and engagement is consistent with these values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:33 AM
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That's what happened to my marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:10 PM
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Lol yes, it's a very small pickle. About the size of a micropeen. I took a selfie holding it between two fingers and giving it a very skeptical look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 09:44 PM
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Absolutely! I have no fear of doing things alone. Hell, I drove cross country last year by myself. Wandered around and had a grand old time. But it really clicked with me when I was chatting with a guy from OLD (online dating). We were talking about meeting and he asked what I wanted to do. I found this great little wine bar and said that I wanted to go there. But the thing is.... I wasn't really that excited about meeting him. As I now realize, having me come up with all the plans and making it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 02:10 PM
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I like this New Year's resolution. Live a fuckboy free life! I'm in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:32 PM
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Puts an interesting spin on the "men tend to remarry faster."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:12 PM
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I understand, but I'm good! He's relegated to my memories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 07:01 PM
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G.L. Lambert talks about this in his book "Men Don't Love Women Like You." He lays out that men will stay with placeholders until they meet game changers (from the perspective of the man). He makes it clear that even if they marry the woman, he may still see her as a placeholder and would absolutely leave her for a woman he considers to be a game changer. Which is.... pretty fucked up... But hard to argue isn't true. I think a lot of what is advocated for in this sub is really just doing right f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:41 PM
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I'd reply "No" and then block him. The response would be for the dog's sake (provide time to find good care), not for his. He's not a FWB because he's not a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:29 PM
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My ex-boyfriend reached out like this recently. I did reply, but I was quite cool. No hopes or expectations on my end. Just a little curiosity. He started his pity story again. I responded that it sounded like he had a lot of work to do. His response? "Not really." Any curiosity I had was gone. Blocked. If your life isn't where you want it, there's work to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:25 PM
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What I like about this is that it is an example demonstrating that being a high value person is a choice. It is not an inherent quality. We are capable of leveling ourselves up, so it is a choice whether to do so or to not do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 06:04 PM
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So. Many. Red. Flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:28 PM
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Imho, that just means they weren't actually all that big. 😉 The REALLY well-endowed guys know that PIV isn't even physically possible without plenty of oral first. They've got work to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:20 PM
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Completely agree about dating apps. It's discouraging. I find myself wondering if I even want to date. I matched with one guy who at least seemed to have a personality, but when I asked if he thought there was a reason he's never been married (I'm 41, he was 39), he gave me this gem: "I don't have any interest whatsoever in convincing anyone to share my time, through material interests or otherwise." He wanted to be wanted just for him... as though how he treats a woman isn't part of who he is..…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:37 PM
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I'm actually a bit disappointed with myself that I discovered last night that a guy I'm attracted to is a hot mess. I never acted on my attraction so I have nothing to regret, but I had hoped my pretty pussy would have better taste. Oh well. Still leveling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:21 PM
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I'm older too. Well, 41, so not much older, but old enough that my goals are different from many others here too. But I'm appreciating that this sub reminds me that I already know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:11 PM
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good enough to fuck, but not good enough to date, let alone commit to I know this feeling so well! Go ahead, tell me I'm beautiful. You are the 6th person tonight and the 15th this week. And you know what? I am beautiful. Whether you notice is irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:06 PM
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Oh, hi ex-husband! Luckily life is better after recovering from the psychological breakdown. Funny thing, I bet he tells people that I left him after seeing a psychologist. Like she put crazy ideas in my head or something. Well, she did. It was the idea that my needs matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:30 PM
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I just got one of those last night!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:18 PM
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And obviously you would want to know which type of man you are on a date with so you don't waste your time. Rock those heels! You know you look good. :-0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:53 PM
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I agree. I'm not willing to commit to giving them such a big chunk of my time before meeting them. Second date? They know my worth. Bring it on. Impress me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:46 PM
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I used to play World of Warcraft. My guild has been around for about 13 years and we get together in person every year. In this group there are several HVM. One of them that I'm thinking of in particular is an amazing, doting husband. However, they treat video games as 1) something that is really only fun with friends and 2) just one thing in their life. Most people don't spend 3-4 hours every night on one hobby. Most people don't take one hobby and turn it into their identity. Most people don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:30 PM
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