WildFemmeFatale Archive

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2	My long distance bf of 4 years said he doesn’t know if he will be ready to propose 4 years down the road. Should I end it? The only excuse for him so far is maybe military, other than that 0 excuse, and certainly doesn’t excuse 4 more years whatsoever. You may as well be in a relationship with an AI chatbot waiting this long that’s how lonely that seems to me. And I’ve done 1-2 years long distance with dudes before, it’s not ever been worth it in my experience. Please rethink what your time is worth and what you deserve and what needs you’re not getting fulfilled due to his actions.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/03/25 12:32 PM
14	My long distance bf of 4 years said he doesn’t know if he will be ready to propose 4 years down the road. Should I end it? EWWWWWW He can’t make up his mind after 4 years and can’t see himself choosing you after 4 more years aka 8 yeaaaaars ? He’s older than you and is struggling with decision making ? I don’t think he’s being reasonable, and in fact you’ve been way overly patient. And the fact that he hasn’t moved you in with him by now is very concerning to me, even aside from the fact he’s only visited you 6-7 times. Your time is more valuable than his, you lose your fertility quicker. Within 2-3 years expect a r…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/03/25 12:27 PM
1	Husband told me he is asexual and never wants to have sex. Unsure of what to do? If you think you could enjoy some level of bdsm x fingering combo it’s worth asking Ask him if the problem with sex is penetration specifically and if so, would he mind fingering you and working on non penetrative sex options to have some semblance of sexual fulfillment for you in your marriage Hell, penetration alone ain’t usually what gets women to orgasm. Just look at the lesbians, they have extremely high sexual fulfillment rates even though many of em don’t even use strap-ons. Anyways, I’m …	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/25 11:00 AM
1	Husband told me he is asexual and never wants to have sex. Unsure of what to do? High testosterone can also cause men to grow boobs and such or whatever that one fact was, I forget Using steroids can throw your hormones too high and cause issues More testosterone doesn’t mean “better” nor does it mean “healthy/normal”	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/25 10:53 AM
6	I didn't follow my bf's lead because it felt wrong and now he's mad - wanting other perspectives Prior demonstrations/impressions can be “a mask”, keep it in mind going further, he is on thin ice here. Integrity needs to not only be consistent but also accomplished far in the long term to be reasonably determined. If I had a penny for every human being that has done a ‘switch up’ months in.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/25 02:58 AM
–	I didn't follow my bf's lead because it felt wrong and now he's mad - wanting other perspectives Abusive or not, he’s CLEARLY a dumbass who doesn’t think things through. I’m concerned about his sense of rationality, and inability to take responsibility to recognize his wrongdoing. His thought process is frankly not only dangerous but also immature. HES THIRTY YEARS OLDDDDDDD ? And he still doesn’t know that soap CANNOT be used as lube ? He obviously didn’t research it and LIED saying “he knows for a fact it wouldn’t be a big deal” ? What a man baby 🤮	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/25 02:54 AM
–	I’m insecure about dating Chad You know that stage fright trick “imagine them in underwear” ? It applies to relationships, imagine their weaknesses in order to feel okay about your own. If you’re scared that you’re a burden, he doesn’t mind, he’s not perfect either. What matters is that you’re both genuine with taking care of eachother. In fact, many dudes adore providing because it gives them a sense of purpose and safety that you won’t leave them because they take good care of you, vice versa ofc. If you’re scared of potent…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/25 07:16 AM
2	I’m insecure about dating Chad Yep just look at any royal historical figure “Oh I wanna date a king” but even kings have their limits Same with celebrities Celebrities usually have crazy drama for example He’s a person like any other, wether she realizes it now or not, she will I’m not implying there’s anything bad about him in particular, just that he likely has weaknesses and such like any human does	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/25 03:19 AM
3	I want to find a rich man that is loyal That question is unpredictable It’s up to you to vet the man as loyal which you need experience for Does he act like a genuine loyal man ? Or is he vain and just looking for fresh pussy ? 🤢 As a barely legal person you likely will not know, and those stakes are high Most of all, people of that class often are snooty and vain indeed, so the odds aren’t in your favor And there’s so many experienced gold diggers that are going to be targeting them already It’s best to keep that idea as some vague k…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/03/25 11:58 PM
12	How to best support investment banker husband? Food is often the best medicine for stress If he’s working really long hours, imo best way to support him is with his fav foods Diet has significant impacts on mood Just keep him well fed and if he vents to you (if he’s the venting sort) that surely hugely helps him as well If he likes massages, maybe that’ll help regulate his stress as well	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/25 08:58 AM
3	Do daddy issues affect relationships? Parental issues are real but there’s not much difference in the effect of mommy issues and daddy issues. Parental issues result in things like lack of boundaries, impulsivity to risky behaviors (like sex and drugs), attachment issues (clingy or avoidant), emotional regulation issues, etc. You can heal this with CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy) for the most part. Teach yourself to uphold boundaries, not let people walk all over you, and not settle for less than amazing. I had mommy and daddy issu…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/25 10:01 AM
3	Am I (28F) letting the provider (28m) comments get to me? Save up a bunch of money, invest, and then when ur tired of it start homemaking and lowering cost of living through home efforts while starting your family if you want kids, and he can still work while you manage the stocks/finances/home/budgeting Get into gardening and canning etc, sell jams and jellies, sell extra produce, selling knitted items, etc	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/25 12:52 PM
34	Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment? So you’re saying he’s 40 years old with a stable career and yet is stingy as fuck and yet wants you to be his mommy ? Girl you can get a way better partner than that man child. He’s giving me the ick the whole way through reading that. He’s 40 and doesn’t have his life together AT ALLLLLLLLLLL. If he’s FOURTY and can’t provide for you, then he never will !!!! Partners rarely ever improve, let alone significantly change. Get one that treats you good from the START and is consistent with his actio…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/01/25 06:38 PM
9	I’m abrasive and want to be sweet Try to take note on the times or experiences that are specifically running you down and contributing to the deregulation of your system It may be things that you haven’t noticed are doing it Does it happen an hour after being in a heavily populated loud space etc ? You can be getting tensed up but not realizing it (the body is complex) Your emotional regulation and well-being being uplifted will give you the energy and happiness you need to “be sweeter” It’s hard to “be sweet” innately when you’…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/24 12:38 AM
3	My fiancé wants me to address him by a term of endearment Pick one He doesn’t care which otherwise he’d specify And if you don’t like any of them Make one up, anything, make one about his name even and see if that’s okay Let’s pretend his name is Brad Call him Bradybunch Or Steve would be Stevey Todd could be Toddypoo Travis could be TravTrav Rocko could be Rocky Etc My name is heavily linked to negative emotions and trauma to me, I don’t like when ppl call me by my name I prefer a nickname, and my bf has several pet names he uses for me and I love and…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/24 07:27 AM
1	should i save myself for marriage? You don’t know my opinions on men, ma’am. Nor do you know my opinions on women. It’s actually a very valid understanding that the fwb hookup culture is extremely rampant these days. I’m surprised you object ….? Cuz that’s the only thing I directly expressed. Not only that, but I’m not repelling “the good ones”. The dating pool is full of fwb people at my age. The face you’re unaware of that…. Are you older than me then…? Even then that’s odd cuz in my experience every woman is aware of how many …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/23 12:14 PM
3	should i save myself for marriage? Hi 21 year old virgin here, saving herself for marriage I’m demisexual, I have 0 interest in fucking people who do not truly to the depths of their soul care about me For you I would say Think about it Do you actually want to fuck some guy who is probably just lying to you about what you are to him and only being nice to you for sex ? This isn’t to say anything of your worth darling whatsoever. This happens to celebrities. Celebrities get used for sex as well. If you don’t care about the idea of…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/23 10:48 AM
2	The Potential Killers Of Men I was fucking worried that it was somehow real LMAO thank god LOL	/r/RedPillWomen	25/11/23 07:21 PM
5	31 and want marriage and kids, but am not happy in my relationship of about a year The quicker you dump him the quicker you find your real husband 31 isn’t too late in my country Many single 30 year olds here	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/23 07:45 PM
5	What is your game if you are mid 30s (never married, no childen) dating someone from 2 months? What should you tell them, or how long you should wait? Hey I’ll give u the real answer ur looking for since others r confused by ur question Yes there is a certain amount of time where u should stop trying Arguing a lot in the beginning 1-2 months ? Dump Good relationship but it’s been 2 yrs and he is older than 27-ish and hasn’t proposed ? Dump He’s younger than 27-ish ? And the relationship is perfect and he seems genuine ? 3 yrs max. No proposal ? Dump 4th piece of advice ? Keep an eye out for difficulties and immaturities in their personality. S…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/23 12:23 AM
12	What could a childless-homemaker wife offer a man over a working wife? Imo it’s EXTREMELY IMPORTANT to only have ONE stressed out person in a family. If the wife isn’t stressed there will be less arguments, more energy, and better mental health for them both	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/23 02:18 AM
6	How long does it take for a man to realise he wants to get married to you? If a man takes longer than 2 years I’d say move on Why ? Ur biological timer is ticking boo Ik a LOTTTTT of women who stayed loyal to multiple MULTIPLE wishy washy indecisive men who they dated for 4 years If u keep dating men like that, like themmmm, then next thing u know u r 34 yrs old, barely any decent time for fertility left Do not screw yourself over just to people please and trust wishy washy men Yes the young ones (early twenties) will prob take a long time, but they’re gambles and imo …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/10/23 10:24 AM
12	Fearing reaction from my mom after telling her that my boyfriend is Arab The fact he lives a whole hour away is A BADDDDDDDDDDDD predicament. BAD. Very bad !!!! I’ve done many long distance relationships!!! NOT WORTH IT !!!!!! Also darlin you only went on one date with him you can easily discover he ain’t worth ur time cuz he could easily be a shithead….. ppl r rly good at hiding how they rly are for a bit at minimum. Vet tf out of his soul	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/23 08:53 AM
2	Youth Struggling with Sexual Sin Sex is not as good as you imagine it to be. Keep that in mind please that if you did do it you will not only commit sin but also be so disappointed in every way if you did mess up Sex is a great bonding act like a hug it’s only great if it’s with someone who makes you feel safe and loved And I say this as an atheist When you get ur heart broken it will naturally discourage you from sex cuz ur body will see potential mates as undependable pricks like they are instead of potential mates I encourag…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/23 05:18 PM