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WildGirlofBorneo/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 09:22 AM
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I went through an emotional journey not too different from yours, due to my somewhat feminist upbringing (thanks to mum) and negative self perception about my looks. But I got lucky (in hindsight) that I met a wonderful man when I was twenty (he was low SMV being just 22 with a dead end job when I met him). When I found someone to love whom I also respected (more and more as I got to know his personality), it wasn't as difficult to accept that I have a supporting role in our lives together.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/15 12:28 AM
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tl;dr 5 Cynical Marriage Tips Every Couple Needs to Learn 1. Remember You're Never Safe From Divorce 2. Think of Your Marriage Like a Business 3. Realize Marriage isn't a 50/50 Deal 4. Know Your Partner CAN'T Complete You 5. Drop Your Grudges as Fast as Humanly Possible
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 01:44 PM
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This is a really good idea, I wish I did something about it sooner. Definitely going on my list. Despite being together for 4.5 years now (married for 1 year), we haven't started on anything yet. I always blame it on us not having any common interest except for the love of good food. It's changing though, we're both interested in entrepreneurship and I'm learning to code too. I'm excited by the prospect of us building something (other than IKEA furniture) together.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 04:28 AM
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What I learnt from spending years in an all girls' school: Don't be a pushover. Establish your personal boundaries and stick to it. That said, I have no problem with friends who aren't RPW. Others may choose to live differently and that's their prerogative.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 11:25 AM
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Randomly find a photo online of a delicious looking dish (food porn, anyone?) > Google variations of the recipe > Decide which recipe to follow > Buy ingredients > Read the recipe one more time > Start cooking > Hope for the best > Serve to husband (a.k.a. my guinea pig) > Wait for his verdict > Take mental note for improvement > Enjoy the meal :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 01:44 AM
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Buy an experience, memories last forever.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 12:19 AM
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Sorry for your loss. I hope you get all the support and love from your close friends and family during this difficult times.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 12:45 AM
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I keep my nails short for practical reason and because I play the guitar and piano. I usually paint my finger nails in pastel colours (my favourite colours are light pink and lavender) and toe nails in brighter colours (e.g. orange and yellow). In my previous workplace, there are guidelines on hair and working attire but none is mentioned about nails. My ex-coworkers used to flaunt their nail art designs during water cooler chat. To be honest, I don't have a good impression of people who spend T…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 11:24 PM
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I married my husband after 2 years of LDR. I've always had dating for marriage mindset so after about 6 months of "assessing" him, I knew he was LTR material. Because I was (still am) convinced that he is a prize, it justified the extra efforts I made to keep the LDR going. I'm not sure what exactly that I did that kept him interested, I just aimed to be the best girlfriend that he ever had eventhough we were 3000 miles apart. I knew he loves getting snail mails so I sent him letters with my per…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/14 10:43 AM
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Hey, great to see you making plans to make better use of your free time. I quit watching tv years ago. Some of the things you've listed above are on my to do list as well. Maybe you can start up a blog as an online journal. I'm planning to start a one too, but it's specifically to document my sewing skill as it progresses.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/14 08:19 AM
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My SO and I were in an LDR for 2 years, during this time, the longest we were apart was 6 months. 1st Q: accept that this will be a challenging time for your relationship. Check out /r/LongDistance and see how other people in LDR are coping. Do you trust yourself and your partner? If yes, then trust that this LDR will work out. I know it's easier said than done but once you've set the expectation that LDR is difficult, you will work harder for it. 2nd Q: Communicate with your partner. Open commu…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 10:20 AM
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Lastly, I just want to say that being raised by your mom is infinitely better than being raised by a nanny. I believe there is no substitute for a mother's love, and by being a housewife you are ensuring that your children receive much of it. A major reason why I support traditional gender roles is because of my own experiences growing up raised by live-in nannies. What I know about housekeeping I learnt from the various nannies my parents employed over the years (still had one when I left for c…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 02:27 PM
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Try asking at /r/makeupaddiction or /r/femalefashionadvice.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 10:45 AM
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marriage without the contract Did you mean de facto relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 11:37 AM
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It's been raining a lot where I live too. Too protect my hair from dampness, I wear a parka with faux fur hood. I'm also wearing heeled ankle boots. I followed Andrew of The Rules Revisited's advice in his post 5 Winter Fashions Men Like. Edit: Link formatting
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 03:53 AM
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I can usually tell if people are just fishing for "likes". If I think they're doing something worth complimenting, I wouldn't just stop at liking their post/photo. I'd tell them what I like about it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 11:34 PM
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This is the reason I refuse to give out false compliments. At the same time, I wouldn't tell them what's wrong with them unless they're a close friend. I find that most people are not receptive of constructive criticism if it doesn't come from their inner circle or anonymous online forum (reddit!). It's the people who tells you discreetly that there's something stuck to your teeth that you can trust to give honest feedback so if this has happened to you and your girl friend didn't say a word, sh…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 11:05 PM
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One of those skills should be cooking skill.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 10:39 AM
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