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When I was a child/teen, I absolutely idolised my father. His opinion meant everything to me. He raised me to despise anything he considered to “uncouth” and would often denigrate women he thought were unintelligent or crass. When I was about 15, a family friend and her 15 year old daughter visited us for a holiday. The daughter was very street wise compared to little innocent me and although very switched on, was pretty mouthy and confident. She intimidated me greatly and Dad and I got to talki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:38 PM
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There’s a FB group called The Bar is so low for men it’s a Tavern in Hades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:32 PM
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Stop telling someone that your interpretation is the only correct one. If you can’t understand something that’s not meant for you anyway, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:03 PM
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No they want men who are attractive to them (in height and looks), who earns enough to be self-sufficient (apparently that’s alpha) and men who are emotionally intelligent and caring (apparently that’s beta). Those entitled bitches! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:18 AM
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I’ve yet to meet a male engineer with a personality or sense of humour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:37 AM
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I had a guy tell me that being with me would be “hard work but worth it”. Byyyyyeeeeeeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:31 AM
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It’s that whole Madonna/Whore thing with a bit of age-inappropriateness thrown in. It’s absolutely vile no matter what spin you put on it. And it just sounds so gross to me it’s an automatic turn-off. I’m a fully grown, adult woman and no, there is nothing “naughty” about anything sexual. The fact that a man frames it like this tells me everything I need to know about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:20 AM
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Ugh if any man uses “naughty” in any context it just reminds me of my pathetic ex and his upskirt kink, from being a “naughty little boy” and looking up his Auntie’s skirt. He was 4 and yes of course he was British. I’m surprised he had a chin at all. 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:14 AM
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I had a guy who was a friend of a friend of my parent flash me when I was about 11. We were sitting around a fire in the back yard (this was 35 years ago) - the dude, his 11 year old son and me (my parents were in the house with their friends). I looked over - he was sitting with his legs spread wide and all of his junk was hanging out the side of his shorts. It wasn’t an accident because they’re were tight football shorts. I excused myself and went inside. I was too frightened to tell my Dad fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:05 AM
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I have a similar friend from college days who has three kids under 8, while I have only one about to turn 18. We live in different states but she can never be arsed to call me because she’s just so “busy being a mum”. When I do call, she’s one of those irritating mothers who does not teach her children that they will have to wait if she is talking to someone on the phone - she always responds to every thing they say/ask and all three of them start when people call because they don’t like not hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:23 PM
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Another little saying: Pay attention when people get angry when you set a boundary. You just found the edge of where their respect for you ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:17 PM
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Givers need strong and clear boundaries because takers have none at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:15 PM
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This is correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:57 AM
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Absolutely. The longer I know men, the closer the B gets to an L.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:47 AM
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Reminds me of that movie line: A slut is a woman who sleeps with everyone. A bitch is woman who sleeps with everyone but you. Edit: not a movie line but just an old joke “What’s the difference between...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:18 PM
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I honestly can’t understand how there isn’t going to need to be a societal shift if we are to keep partnering at all. Honestly, what do most men bring to the table? Women are often better educated, more skilled, not in need of income and more and more, not in need of a man to raise children. They get their emotional needs met by their women friends and extended families. That’s not to say a lot of het woman might not like a relationship with a man but their certainly no longer need one so they c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:29 PM
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I thinks probably more about down regulation of dopamine than “wasting life force”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:58 AM
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Porn strikes again. There is nothing submissive about caring about your partner’s pleasure or engaging in an act that doesn’t directly involve your dick. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:41 PM
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I don’t think it either toxic or mean. It’s pretty human to want things others have and you didn’t say you wish other women didn’t have the ability, only that you wish you did too. The only thing toxic about this is that women are often so unwilling to demand their partners equally consider their pleasure and not be selfish bastards out of fear of offending them or seeming too needy. I remember seeing a thread a while back (not sure if it was FDS or elsewhere) where someone asked why so many men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:53 AM
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The part that bothers me the most is where you say he accuses you of “stirring shit up” by asking questions. I read that as “Why you gotta ask questions about something that I believe is the natural order of things? (men always orgasm, women are optional and I have no intention of changing my behaviour - only shutting down your questions about it). He’s clearly trying to shut you down because he doesn’t want to alter his world view one bit. That would be the end for me - the invalidation of your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:21 AM
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If it’s any consolation, hearing about women who orgasm from PIV pisses me off too. Not the women themselves - best of luck to you and have at it! - I’m just jealous AF. When pleasure also takes a lot of effort, it seems pretty normal to me to feel a little hard done by. First world problem I guess but I feel you. Also, might explain why on the rare occasion I have flying dreams, I actually have to flap my arms to stay up. Even in my dreams I have to work hard. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:13 AM
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I’ve got into lengthy arguments about this on Reddit so many time that I’ve now given up on the grounds that you can’t argue with stupid. The second you choose to put your dick inside a woman, contraception of any kind or not present or not, was the moment you accepted the risk of a possible pregnancy as a result. The second your genetic material leaves your body, regardless of contraception being used and it enters a womb in someone else’s body, is the moment you ceased to have any part in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:08 AM
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In Australia, we’ve added “crawly” for effect: He’s a crawly bumlicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:28 PM
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This is also perpetuated by those stupid memes about relationships these days being disposable and that “in my day, we worked to FIX IT!” Sure, Jan, that’s great but there’s a difference between working on your communication skills and pretzeling yourself to justify staying in a relationship with a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:51 PM
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There’s a lyric from the musical “A Chorus Line” that immediately jumped into my head after reading your comment: “Daddy always thought that he married beneath him That's what he said, that's what he said. When he proposed he informed my mother He was probably her very last chance. And though she was twenty-two, Though she was twenty-two, Though she was twenty-two... ...She married him.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:47 PM
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This word triggered the hell out of me in my job as a primary school counsellor. I shouldn’t have let it get to me because it’s my background as a woman who was in a coercive marriage so that’s on me to to work through in supervision but here’s the story: A popular, all round talented year 6 girl (school captain even) got asked by a popular year boy if she would “go out with him” during class. He told her “Don’t answer now - tell me at lunch and I promise I won’t get mad if you say no”. Ask unco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:10 PM
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Because they’re generally meat headed morons to begin with. If they had any talent, they most likely would have become footballers and you know what a great track record they have for respecting women and consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:58 AM
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I’m a former high school teacher and I’ve had a few girls confide to me that a male teacher waited exactly 2 months after they graduated before telling them they had “nice tits” on Social Media. Creepy motherfuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:56 AM
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Or entitled men complaining because you don’t send immediate replies to their canned “Morning, beautiful 🌹” and the million other texts they send during the day. Sorry, some of us have jobs we can’t just ignore to respond to pointless messages, let alone families and other commitments to attend to. If you want to know more about me, arrange a date. I am not your boredom filler at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:38 AM
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I had a boyfriend for a year who turned out to have been RSVP and other platform surfing the entire time we were together. I should have paid more attention when he told me he left his wife after she was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia (he said it was with her “blessing”). In a neat twist, about a decade lasted, he was arrested and charged by by the Feds for downloading porn containing child exploitation images. Once a creep... thank God. I was actually considering marrying him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:31 PM
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I thinks it’s often any kind of boundary holding that often gets reimagined by the man who is currently trying to boundary stomp as “drama”. Any conflict arising from holding someone accountable for their behaviour, no matter how calm and reasonable, quickly turns into gaslighting behaviour (“She be crazy, all this drama”). I once literally heard a nearly 50 year old man say to a mate “All women are fucking crazy. You just have to decide who has the pussy worth putting up with it”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:01 PM
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So are men who say “I don’t do drama”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:01 AM
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Nothing infuriates me more than smug bitches on FB who post that nauseating meme about why marriages don’t last (because it the old days, you didn’t throw broken things out, you fixed them). Always posted by some humblebrag mole skiting about their “fabulous” marriage. (social media fabulous, that is). I always want to say - most people work damn hard to make relationships work and often long past the point where they really should have left. It’s guilt like this that makes women stay in dysfunc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:24 PM
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So what we’re really discussing here is values. Similar values are the foundation for healthy, functional and long lasting relationships. The values you’re expressing in that seem to be personal responsibility (caring for your body to carry a healthy pregnancy), conscientiousness (knowing you have to take proactive steps to manage your mental health) and selflessness (wanting be around for as a long as possible for the sake of your family). Ultimately, a lot of the things men want to call petty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:55 AM
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You’d be amazed how many people will argue this until they’re dead though. “I NEED SEX”. No you don’t fuckhead. You’ll notice sex is not on the bottoms rung of Maslow. Reproduction as a concept of human survival, yes - you getting your end wet is not a need that you will literally die without.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:15 AM
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I’ve told this story here before but I went to male Endocrinologist after some low cortisol levels (with a previous history of unmedicated MDD). He did do a lot of tests but seemed to think it wasn’t a big deal. I went back a couple of years later because I finally had the MDD properly medicated but was still dealing with chronic fatigue and my hair falling out. He said and I quote “I think you’re still grieving the loss of your marriage” (I had divorced since I last saw him - over two years lat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:01 AM
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That’s why I love the witty humour of Alaska Thunderfuck. Way to insult your ex without them having a reasonable comeback: “He crossed me like the River Styx But the sex was good 'cause I like small dicks”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:34 PM
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That is exactly it. ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:56 AM
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My friend and I are in our late 40s and we often talk about the cost/benefit analysis of sex. Like, I could deal with the bullshit of messaging with guys to make a date, do my hair and makeup, go out on a date then end up with shit sex and no orgasms. Or I could stay home with no bra, drink wine in front of Netflix and get a guaranteed orgasm with my amazing range of toys. I’m only 50% joking. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:28 AM
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Ha, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:39 PM
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God it’s hard not to get behind the old “canon them all into the sun” school of thinking when you think about that too hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:28 AM
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It honestly baffles me how they compare this sub to the Incel subs. How is learning how to create boundaries around acceptable behaviour and learning your own value equivalent to “all females are bitches and they owe us sex”???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:25 AM
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Naw, I got a lovely direct message for this comment from a short man that said “F*** YOU, C*** WH***”. Poor little baby. I hurt his fee fees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:21 AM
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It actually sucks. I dated a guy shorter than me in my 20s because I knew, intellectually, it was a ridiculous way of thinking. Unfortunately, the same thing happens for me. I also feel very uncomfortable dating small framed/skinny men because I’m a larger woman and I feel so huge next to them. It’s not rational at all and I feel bad about it but attraction is not always rational. I don’t mind if they only a couple of inches taller than me (5’ 8”) and even the same is tolerable but I just can’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:37 AM
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Yes but “wE cAn’T CHANGE tHaT!”. Men always whine about the fact that they can’t change their genetics. Well, there’s a hell of a lot we can’t change about ours too - boob size and shape, ass size and shape. They seem to think that if we just “looked after” ourselves, we’d all look like JLo. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:33 AM
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I keep saying to her, “Look, I’m well aware I may end up alone but at least I know I won’t end up with someone who treats me like an afterthought”. My boundaries took a coercive marriage and some solid therapy to come to life but now I have them, I look back on myself with compassion and sorrow - why did I think the very least was all I was worthy of? I hope my friend gets it one day too. She’s just so terrified of being alone and hasn’t done the work in therapy to find out why she keeps getting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:40 AM
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That’s why the sooner you gently move their hand or tell them what works, the better. Otherwise, it becomes so much harder to extricate yourself later. (Always bearing in mind to trust your gut - women often report they’re scared to upset or offend a guy in case he becomes violent and/or abusive).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:21 PM
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Yep. Ceilings become very interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:07 AM
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Oh I totally get it. There were many times in my 20s I would think “Oh, FFS, just cum already because this is doing nothing for me, I’m bored, you’re heavy and it’s bloody hot”. I just refused to ever lie about in a way that “saved their feelings”. I would sometimes moan etc. but when they asked afterwards, I wouldn’t say that I came. I would say I enjoyed it anyway if it was true but would just leave it hanging if it wasn’t. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:53 AM
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I know, I have a very similar friend. I say to her, “Why is your heart so big for everyone but yourself? Why do you keep accepting the lowest value for yourself when you wouldn’t stand for that for others?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:57 AM
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I’ve NEVER understood this. Why do we reward men for doing something that doesn’t work for us? I know sometimes it’s just to “get it over with” but we are just training men to think that their hopeless skills and lacklustre pumps are enough to get you off. Why are women so ashamed of the fact that we don’t cum on sight of a penis or the merest touch of a tongue? You don’t see men pushing us away saying “It’s ok, this is taking too long, you don’t have to keep going”. Make them work for it, sis a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:56 AM
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This buys into the whole “I’m the only woman who can save him/help him reach his potential” mindset, too. Fuck that noise, you are the only woman WILLING to put up with that bullshit in the hope that there’s a salvageable man at the end. (Your friend, not you).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:52 AM
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It’s absolutely amazing what happens when you just cut them dead like that. I used to get angry at guys who were clearly trying to manipulate me into doing things 100% on their terms. Then I would have a go at them and that would give them an invite to engage in arguing or rationalising. Now I do exactly them same thing. Refuse to respond at all or maybe sometimes, “That doesn’t work for me”. I can feel the jaw drop over a text - they are totally not used to women calling them on their crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:36 PM
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Yeah I hate to break it to you but it’s the new threshold of sex. It’s become so normalised through excessive porn consumption, some boys don’t even care that much about regular sex - it’s all about ass play. Nothing wrong with it but terrifying that girls tell me they feel pressured - it’s the new limit of “If you loved me, you’d...”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:21 AM
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I’m passionate about helping young women know that it’s ok to say no to anal sex. Boys/men will pressure you no end but you DO NOT HAVE TO DO IT to be loved or desired. Go ahead if you actually want to but don’t let men convince you’re the only one who isn’t doing it or that you’re a “prude”. When is it enough????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:53 AM
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“I’m too intelligent for most people and that’s why I can’t find a girlfriend” = “I’m an edgelord asshole with zero people skills so obviously the problem has to rest with someone else”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:53 PM
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What’s terrifying to me is how coercive young men can be about this. When I was working with early teens, I had a handful of young women with fairly low self-image dating boys who insisted they must have the passwords to all the girl’s social media accounts. They also insisted on having the ability to track their location at all times. What was scary was how incredibly easy it was for them normalise this to young girls. They would say that it’s normal for boyfriends and girlfriends to have no pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:13 AM
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God this is my experience too. Late 40s men are either just getting ready to settle down so are still looking for breeders in their 30s or they look like absolute shit, they look worn out and like “old men” and they have zero pride in their appearance. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:54 AM
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The worst part about that is it’s absolutely true. I hate that I’ve had to teach my 17 year old daughter about consent and that you can withdraw consent anytime but you also need to be mindful of your safety if you do. Some men absolutely would hurt a woman for being denied when they’re horny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:04 PM
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God I needed to see this today. I just potentially cut someone out of my life that I have known for 30 years for treating me like an afterthought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:26 AM
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There’s a girl on there currently who has posted before and admitted she struggles with an ED. Her most recent post suggests she is still struggling with body dysmorphia. To be fair, most comments have been kind (for them) but the fact that a sub like that even exists plays right into women have such low self-esteem about their looks. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:14 PM
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This kind of “bleak” thinking about the future can also a feature of depression and dysthymia. That feeling the best days of your life are over and nothing good will ever happen again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:52 PM
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I love Adele but she was definitely obese. She’s 175cm tall and she’s lost 45kgs. Even if she’s 60kg now, at 105kg, her BMI would have been 34.3. Anything over 30 is obese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:44 AM
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WTAF????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:29 AM
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I have been on so many dates where the guy just talk endlessly about himself. He’ll listen if I offer something of my own but they NEVER ask anything about me. I get nerves may play some part but it’s not just about you, dickhead. I get the feeling they go on these dates just to spew at you and see if you’ll accept it and then that, combined with whether or not they think you’re fuckable, determines if you ever hear from them again. Edit: Ok scratch that. I read the linked article below and seem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:52 PM
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My ex-husband was 19 years older than me and had been in a previous long marriage. He used to tell me that he “knew” how a marriage was supposed to work (I.e. that I was doing something wrong) because he’d been in one before and I hadn’t. I used to say “I thought our marriage was ours to construct?” But he always though he “knew better”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:58 PM
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I’ve said all my life that the difference between men and women is that women always know what “shelf” they’re on (in terms of attractiveness). For example, I’m middle shelf and that’s just the way it is.. Men, on the other hand, either don’t know what shelf they’re on at all or KNOW they are middle shelf at best but think they deserve “top shelf” anyway. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:43 AM
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Thank you! I guess I just wish these were things someone had taught me. I was a Pickmeisha for a loooong time and it took an abusive marriage to open my eyes. I don’t want that for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:19 AM
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My 16 year old daughter had her first boyfriend late last year. It was very short-lived but he seemed like a nice kid - nerdy and introverted like my daughter. After she decided she wasn’t ready to have a boyfriend, she gently broke it off (face to face). Now he’s started sending her messages like this and following her around school like a kicked puppy. She’s a gentle soul and was becoming highly anxious about her responsibility for his behaviour until I intervened and said “Fuck that noise”. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:23 PM
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Sorry to be that girl, but the word is “wary” not “weary”. Wary means cautious; weary means tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:13 PM
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I know this won’t be popular but I do and always have enjoyed it. I absolutely detest the way it has become an “expectation” from men and I worry about our young girls being made to feel like prudes if they a) don’t consent or b) consent but don’t enjoy. I just think it doesn’t help the conversation to insist that “no women like it - it’s all pressure” because it’s patently not true. Let’s attack the real problem which is the impact porn has on people’ perceptions and expectations of sex in gene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:58 AM
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