WildcatAlba Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
124	Misandry surrounds the conversation about dating apps and hookup culture	Social Issues	WildcatAlba	/r/MensRights	21/10/24 11:16 PM
0	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago?		WildcatAlba	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 11:46 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Why do incels seem obsessed with the idea of virginity? There are two big aspects to it. Firstly, "virgin" is a pejorative for men, and a neutral thing for women though it used to be a considered a good thing. So "incels" feel shamed by society. There's no obvious way out of that shame either (from an "incel" 's point of view). Even if they married they'd always be less experienced than their wife. It's a real psychological force for men. Secondly, and more importantly, a lot of incels are more morally minded than non-incels. They think about right a…	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/25 02:54 AM
1	What can we guys do to stop Mysoginy? Here's my two cents. Misogyny and misandry are two sides of the same coin. They reinforce each other. We can't combat misogyny alone, we can only try and improve the relationship between the two sexes as a whole. This means addressing misogyny and misandry at the same time. Be a good man, command respect for being a good man, call out our brothers for bad behaviour, and call out our sisters for bad behaviour. Repair the damaged link between man and woman	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/25 11:07 AM
3	How does a guy navigate being short(er) in todays dating world? I'll give you my thoughts mate. Firstly, western men aren't any shorter today than in the past. If anything we're slightly taller. It's perceptions and priorities that have changed. Fortunately though, perceptions and priorities aren't always the same between individuals. Even if the average woman were a size queen, you would find women who didn't mind your height at all. My advice to you is to find women in the middle; women who would prefer a taller man but who think your other positive qualit…	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/25 01:56 AM
2	How does a guy navigate being short(er) in todays dating world? You shouldn't presume to know what OP's irl experience has been like. Irl experiences are different, even for two people who are similar. Pure chance makes big impacts. All the woman in his life might be messed up in the head. He might not have much time to go meet new women because of his job. It's too extreme what you are saying. See my comment for what is a more reasonable, pragmatic piece of advice	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/25 01:51 AM
1	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? That's a worthwhile insight. Thank you	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 11:32 PM
0	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? Yeah that makes sense	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 09:52 PM
1	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? Just give your own opinion. You're as intelligent as the next person. See if you can come up with an insight that is useful in some way	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 09:50 PM
1	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? I don't have any of those reward thingies to give you, but well done on being the only person so far to actually answer my question! I appreciate it. It is probably worse in the USA yeah. My yankee friends tell me as much. I'm Australian.	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 01:10 PM
0	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? I asked a question. I didn't claim women were promiscuous or not promiscuous. Please actually read the question so you can give me a straight answer	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 01:07 PM
-1	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? Work's no problem for me but I don't know how to get it rolling. I'm so busy I can't manage my own tasks without a schedule, and these days flaking is so bad I find it exhausting trying to wrangle people. I need an already existing environment that offers social connection not social connection I need to chase down	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 01:06 PM
-8	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? What I want is a straight answer to my question and for strangers to not waste their time attacking my character	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 12:23 PM
-3	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? I refer you to the other comment regarding this matter of my going outside and how I do in fact engage in this behaviour	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 12:21 PM
2	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? If one could click one's fingers and manifest a strong community full of normie family and friends interested in helping each other get married, one would not have any difficulty. I appreciate your advice of course. But it's kinda like, yeah, I can't turn back time to before the loneliness epidemic. It's circular. The goal is to expand my social fabric, and the method is to expand my social fabric	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 12:16 PM
-12	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? I disagree that it should seem terminally online to ask this question. Why? And why this assumption that by daring to think about women's dress standards there is any temptation to go back to Puritan dress codes? Not that I'd have any power to enforce dress codes on women anyway. It's kind of a moot point. I also know that gen Z is having less sex. That doesn't make the women you say you've met easy to find though. If you could point me to this parallel dimension of normalcy and common sense ple…	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 12:12 PM
-7	How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago? I defined normal according to an older standard. I don't mean today's normal. If I did I would've specified that instead	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/25 12:04 PM
1	My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with that Personality traits can be changed. You can't change a whole personality at once, but you can change a few aspects at a time. Our brains are malleable. Expose yourself to longer and longer social interactions, and you will adapt to have a longer social battery. In two years' time from now, you could have a way different personality. That wouldn't make you a different person. You'd still be capable of acting how you act now. You'd just have the option to be sociable. You'd be more free	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/24 11:37 AM
1	Misandry surrounds the conversation about dating apps and hookup culture This applies to both rude men and rude women	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 09:24 PM
6	Misandry surrounds the conversation about dating apps and hookup culture Separate question. Why are there so few women on dating apps? And why can a good looking guy not get any good looking girl?	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 11:37 AM
-3	Misandry surrounds the conversation about dating apps and hookup culture I have to disagree with this particular instance. Men should be strong enough to deal with disrespectful behaviour from others whether it's a woman or a man being disrespectful. Misandry is a problem when it has harmful effects. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words may never hurt me	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 11:35 AM
4	Misandry surrounds the conversation about dating apps and hookup culture Women no longer have the option to not work. The negative impacts are real like you describe, but it is the rich who control us. Women aren't organised enough to make collective decisions as a sex. Women are manipulated into wage slavery just like men	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 05:52 AM
1	Misandry surrounds the conversation about dating apps and hookup culture That's fair. I would watch the podcast if I had enough time on hand. I only watched the first little bit	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 05:48 AM
2	Misandry surrounds the conversation about dating apps and hookup culture Some women are complicit. Definitely. And many more women are a little too hedonistic and take advantage of the unlimited free sex on offer, at the detriment of others. But women as a whole are fine. I love women	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 05:45 AM
8	Misandry surrounds the conversation about dating apps and hookup culture No thanks mate. I'm not interested in a podcast about "intersexual dynamics". Men and women aren't so different, but our increasingly depraved culture highlights our differences in order to play on them. We need men and women to come together again	/r/MensRights	21/10/24 11:32 PM
3	A disturbing trend in my social circle: This is very widespread. It's ironic because it's such a common retort to say that old school marriage and social norms were oppressive of women, so anything done today must be empowerment. But women are ending up in these loveless marriages anyway. It's a real shame and a problem that can't really be avoided with the cultural phenomenon of having a hedonistic, hyperpromiscuous 20s	/r/MensRights	21/10/24 10:50 PM
-5	How do you deal with your insane envy of promiscuous people? Just out of curiosity, why did he not have as much sex as you before marriage? The discrepancy does seem a little unfair (not judging or justifying his bad behaviour ofc)	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/24 06:36 AM
3	How do you deal with your insane envy of promiscuous people? Be kind to yourself. Understand you're allowed to have these gripes. You could even write an essay about them. There's no chance of changing the past but you can always analyse it. P.s. A LOT of men secretly feel similarly to you	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/24 06:35 AM
1	USA Defenders of the Free World There are no socialist countries still in existence. Please don't fall for the "it collapsed therefore the whole concept doesn't work" fallacy. Dozens and dozens of capitalist states ceased to exist. And socialist states were under constant threat from capitalist invasion. From its creation until the end of WW2 the Soviet Union was almost always being invaded by one capitalist state or another. You can't blame socialism for it being attacked by capitalist empires. Also, the Soviet Union had way …	/r/MensRights	20/10/24 10:59 AM
1	USA Defenders of the Free World Liberal feminism is not truly socialist at all. They may use socialist symbols sometimes but that does not mean anything. They're lying. The CIA changes its Twitter logo to rainbow during Pride Month. The CIA is the world headquarters of capitalist wars and coups. The rainbow movement is clearly not socialist or revolutionary. Don't be fooled	/r/MensRights	20/10/24 10:55 AM
1	Can anyone explain? I was downvoted because I dared to criticize Gerbert Johnson's content. Something, that this subreddit should be actively against (red/black pill). Why? Gerbert Johnson is simply not a blackpiller. He is a young man who talks about what he has observed. His observations are similar to the observations blackpillers make but this does not by any means mean he promotes the blackpill. His views are his own, definitely inspired by the ideas from "the pills" but not part of any one of them. In his more recent videos he is trying to be uplifting. He is very open about not having the answers	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/24 10:25 AM