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You might be over doing, if they act receptively then they probably see value in you but you either do weird pick up shit that drops it, you come of with a bad vibe and adgenda like you need it to work taking instead of giving or with time they see through your facade and see you don't have value. Either way you might be doing everything perfectly but because we are all human beings we might not click together for what ever reason. Sometimes you need to accept people do want to connect with you.
/r/seduction09/07/19 11:51 PM
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Depending on how far you got with her IMO tell her you should do something when she gets back, small talk enquire into it like how is her vacation then ask around when she's getting back, then wish her a good time and tell her you'll hit her up once she's back around that time. If she's on vacation her mind will be on it and it might be to far away to plan, so just plant the idea and talk to other girls. When she is back you push for something more substantial.
/r/seduction09/07/19 11:41 PM
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Watch rsd Tyler and lie to yourself daily. They exist and instead of trying to pretend like they dont be a man and get better in terms of your smv. Fix the problem dont put a band aid over it. Which option would your future son look up to you for pursuing, being a bitch or a man who stepped up?
/r/seduction06/07/19 05:49 PM
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its plain regular thing to look at people you find attractive, doesn't mean shit. They are women and they dont approach only give invitations so if a dude really wants to make it happen its his role to do so she will just go along influencing but never directly dictating things. feel need to disrupt a date just so you can see if you're better than some other guy, No dude its an opening and a warmish lead that potentially saved you an hour or Friday night trying to find you an interested dtf girl…
/r/seduction06/07/19 11:37 AM
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For all you know this is some idiot her friend matched her with or some loser who tried to pick her up and she is there just to be nice and never see him again. Clearly her biological and hormonal instincts have already made a decision. You take a shot, get her number for later and let the date go no where just as it would if you never talked to her. Its not a ego thing lol, its the way that x% of kids having a different biological father than the one they were raised by statistic comes about. I…
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:51 AM
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Read 6 pillar or self esteem. Or check out the audio book version on youtube. Confidence is your projected success rate and should be based off of previous successes at the same exact task where as your self esteem is your projected success rate you use for everything so for example if you have high self esteem from girls giving you good reactions you will walk in to a deal or interview thinking "never done this before but anything else I came up against I aced this will be no different". Its th…
/r/askTRP06/07/19 01:19 AM
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she won't look me in the eyes, am I doing something wrong? If you don't know the answer to this you need to get better, if you need to get better then practice on women in a anonymous place who you are likely to never see again not your sister's friend. She is not giving you any eye contact because she sees no value in you or wish's not to display an IOIs subtly telling you she is not interested in talking to you. Probably because she came with your sister and not to be your friend. No offence b…
/r/seduction05/07/19 09:56 AM
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I was referring to negative narratives set by society not what you like to do in spare time. Regardless these fun activities are not going to fill the whole which is created by lack of love and as soon as you finish indulging in them or get bored the truth will return to you. So again how about changing your circumstances and not being lonely instead of going the completely opposite direction so you don't have to face it. There is a lot of dudes who did that and they are the types to be the old …
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:06 PM
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Such as?
/r/askTRP04/07/19 08:41 PM
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From the limitations of your spelling and detail regarding your illness I can only say you should focus on over coming your problems rather than avoiding them. You talk about becoming numb like a sociopath because your alone but would it not be a better life to live by focussing to solving a problem instead of putting a band aid over it. By numbing yourself from the pain you will also lose the love and joy. Most importantly stop listening to RSD they are absolute fucking cancer for your brain lo…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 07:02 PM
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"I do not negotiate with hoes"
/r/seduction04/07/19 05:37 PM
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That's what I mean just like in fitness where a guy sells you on a method to build muscles by doing more sets with less weight which results in a total work load being the same you are not doing anything better and possibly this is less optimal than the conventional method everyone is already using. Fundamentals don't change and RSD pushes this type of bullshit distracting people from handling them to chase stupid fads like this. It sucks to see dudes wasting their time with this bullshit and co…
/r/seduction01/07/19 06:48 PM
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In that case learn from real markers as self promotion of a business, an art/content or your dick is not different. Understand your target market, communicate your message, demonstrate value your target market is interested, maintain attention/eye balls on your messages and have a call to action that will result in a conversation you define. Check out Gary vee for starters to get the right mindset for it and then start applying similar marketing techniques to what you are doing.
/r/seduction01/07/19 06:39 PM
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Never watched it but I cringed from how cancer the title and thumb nail was. I'll go on a whim and say that the video is trash trying to spin some marketing angle type bullshit which will yeild zero real results. Just like majority of RSD content post juliens pimp. This industry is just as bullshit as the fitness industry, just learn real fundamentals of game.
/r/seduction01/07/19 05:43 PM
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People who fuck
/r/askTRP01/07/19 08:22 AM
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Wtf is wrong with people these days using social media for validation? - thats what women do. Use it like a tool the same way you would alcohol, caffeine or any other substances where it helps you or boosts your abilities to accomplish goals. Be conscious of yourself while you use it so if you feel like you are on it to make yourself feel better or validated instead of using it to increase your results you are like an alcoholic drinking to escape pain rather than some cool guy drinking to have a…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:23 PM
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And probably a beta will think that he has a chance with her
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:47 PM
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This is good and the university is doing you a favor. Unlike everyone else in this sub who will blindly give you encouragement to be an idiot this can be a reflect on what to improve. Most likely they will just do a mini scare warning and give you a formal talk of bro this shit is weird and girls/people are complaining so stop pestering them and save yourself the bad reputation. Listen to what they say as feedback which most likely will be you are way to obvious drawing all this attention. They …
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:20 AM
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Or watched a DVD movie
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:51 PM
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Tl:dr op is obsessed with the black and white rule of you must not give a fuck to be alpha and even if you are the president of USA acting like a real man in a world super charged with sjw collectivist Marxists hating on you by the hour, if you care one bit you are a beta. Not everyone is perfect and we are not here to idolise chads, we respect him because he is getting results despite his flaws. The net gain is what matters. Idgaf is not the definitive factor of being alpha just like talking ab…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:20 AM
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Watch fight club
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:02 PM
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I tried to downland 🙂🙂🙂 with my iPhone 😂😂😂
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:18 PM
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To first point pretty much yeah idk if its the idgaf attitude but women (and men) have a sexual market place value. Women primely ping of off it to determine self worth so you holding out yours means either you pursue girls of higher value than her making her want to win you over or she is lower value than she thinks hence making her want to fall for her. Second point all this shit is about value and how much you bring her. That's why the meme of girls cry on shoulders of nice guys but fuck assh…
/r/seduction04/05/19 12:32 AM
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Value and validation. You are just minding your own business not being needy or leaching in your value give to take ratio. To answer number 4 women are not total ADHD sluts, they also are human beings with standards and value progression. Just because some loser is talking at her she won't like him almost like even if you are the only car manufacturer but your car is total garbage some people will say fuck the lack of supply I just won't buy one at all its not a worth it. The hotter they are the…
/r/seduction03/05/19 08:47 AM
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Common sense either stop giving a fuck or drop that look. Unless its your thing why are you talking to girls in a suit if they respond poorly to it. Its too formal and up tight imo unless again its a real reflection of your personality. You don't have to go the full mile when out just drop the tie or something. If they say shit just be yourself and show your personality hopefully they say that because they see value in you now just show some comfort and humanity so they can experience you. If a …
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:11 PM
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she wouldve hear that atleast 5 times that day Yeah from losers but when high value man says then she will listen. Your compliment and validation spike works if you have value, other wise its like a homeless beger begging for change talking to you, you ignore him but if it was a wealthy person you wouldn't since there is no value leaching agenda. Normal shit like hey my name is, nice x or you're hot works when you have real value and aren't relaying on flashy bullshit to distract the girl with a…
/r/seduction30/04/19 01:54 PM
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Wtf bro, you make sure that's handled in the interaction before the number/what ever you communicate with close. If you have to do that you do it later if the objection does come up and not waste her interest and attention span with that filer. Who are you getting advice from?
/r/seduction30/04/19 10:27 AM
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Just checked a back up channel for julien videos someone shared here maybe like a month ago. All content deleted lol, good luck trying to find anything of value from those money hungry fucks, I don't even like Todd that much but you're better off following his content than the flawed bullshit rsd has put out.
/r/seduction20/04/19 08:12 PM
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You don't convince women into sex who don't want to have sex with you. There is maximisation of smv to make them attracted and then the skill is about retention like a sales funnel. So skill doesn't get more gross girls like smv or taking action but net from ones who would drop off from lack of it eg having no structure with nothing leading into a close and then asking yourself "what do I do next? I made her laugh?" or saying some dumb shit you saw in a rsd video and not knowing it pure cancer.
/r/seduction18/04/19 10:47 AM
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Short, hank moody from californication But overall not to sound cliche I think you have to start being your own hero and not idolising other dudes. Being calm and collected as a man comes from confidence which is based off past success experiences so if you just make yourself higher value and become a better man over all you will be that instead of putting on this character persona.
/r/seduction16/04/19 09:42 AM
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Not if you're a porn star
/r/seduction12/04/19 01:40 PM
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Do you even talk to girls?
/r/seduction12/04/19 01:31 PM
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Yeah sorry I wrote this on a go and the correct terminology may be wrong. Either way its a automatic no waiting to happen. She didn't give him a number so I didn't know what to call it haha.
/r/seduction06/04/19 10:28 AM
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I'm not being negative :/ I'm bringing rational reason to this sub where everyone is always a cartoon character meme of a smiley face that gets no where with women :// Seriously through, those where false positives and the odds of success from what I read where very slim based on my gut feeling of it all. Just giving my view point in the noise of blind cheers.
/r/seduction06/04/19 10:26 AM
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What post are you reading? Don't want to shit on op but from what he wrote his game was weak and she already made her mind up about him before he even made a push for the close. This was a job interview equivalent of we'll keep in touch.
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:22 PM
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"Then we'll do it another day you are here" and she agreed. Sorry to burst your bubble but you just got flaked on and she was being nice.
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:52 PM
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Idk man if the end goal of it is to get her thinking about sex with you why not just save time and say it straight up with more direct and sexualised stuff while being cool about it. you have to pounce on the opportunity and move quickly Again sounds like this tactic relays on artificial value and your chasing her to the cart before she changes her mind instead of having her chase you for the man you are. Cool tactic but not sure if its the best and most efficient method.
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:44 PM
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Sounds like this tactic works because you are with drawing sex from her to make her want to have sex with you. But if you ask for sex you lose all the attraction and her interest. This seems really paradoxical to the goal kinda like bit coin investing. What happens when you play that game saying you don't want to have sex with her and then a better dude steps up who is clear about it takes her from you? Does this work for you to get the girl or to get her attention?
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:24 PM
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Look into the fundamentals of value and smv in women's psychology. Rsd juliens pimp first video on it is good if you can get it. Rest is common sense shit like looking attractive and sexy basically smv. You're in sales so treat it like market and customer profile research looking at what women respond to (judge it by real shit like actual lay not laughing at your jokes) and what other successful dudes that hit KPIs do aka fuck bois or your equivalent. You then just sexualise, make them horny and…
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:15 PM
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"Stealing girls from other guys" that's the post. On phone idk how to share or link to them.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:35 PM
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It should be at the top of results for this sub today with triple digit up votes and comments you won't miss it. I was joking and trying to see if you are shit posting in response to that cancer post. I agree with your view point.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:25 PM
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Q for the AMA Opinions on the recent post that got a lot of attention this sub about how stealing other dudes girls is pathetic? Lol
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:53 PM
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Yeah. Its more of a structure than routine where its almost like having 5 play moves ready then picking them and adjusting them to the girl/situation. If I approach I'd pick a topic or in subject which I feel would work best in that situation then do the usual routine of topics, logistics, compliance testing and closing. Its like a sales or a job interview pitch in advance. A lot of same questions and shit comes up so you can prepare in advance for most if you can't come up with something witty …
/r/seduction02/04/19 11:03 AM
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Its hard to study when you need to get off he is doing them a service.
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:09 AM
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They can't choose to not like you but they can't change that they are attracted to you as its to different variables. Kinda like a really annoying girl you hate for her personality and would talk shit to yet still would love to fuck. Her boyfriend is the reason and if she breaks with him she can easily 180 on you just to get back on him. Either she is not interested in you or she really is and doesn't talk for that reason. Persist, be a man, be available. Just be there and if circumstances are r…
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:01 AM
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Thanks for spreading his old shit was the best advice you could find on youtube prior to the scandal. Subbed.
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:46 AM
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Escalate verbally to lead into it physically if its like a coffee date or some quiet chill stuff
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:56 PM
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I hate woo woo bullshit but defiantly check out Joe rogams mma podcast episode 25 Michael Chandler talks about how he used it for mma fighting and if he said its legit I will give it objective thought. He reference a book called mind gym and is super interesting to watch even if you are not into mma. Basically he said it has a dream like simulation effect.
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:43 PM
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I know what you mean and better yet I had a girl do it to me. She was giving me iois and lots of eye contact like every time I turn towards her I feel like she is watching me. Funny thing is she wasn't even super hot or the stereotypical idea of what I would exact myself to go crazy for. After a while my I felt attracted to her like a dog in heat where I could rationally justify it to myself. I think its your brain sensing that she wants you and you want her too so it tricks you into creating or…
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:33 PM
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Which have you found getting you more girls?
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:23 PM
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This show can teach you more about seduction and real inner game than most of pick up coaches.
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:44 PM
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These are trash. I only sub to like 3 seduction/pick up channels and non are on that list. LFA Single guy Old rsd julien and Brad reuploads Also the show californication
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:34 PM
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Sounds high risk, go up and talk to her while you stand make up some shit like hey you reading x and if she cool with you sit next to her. If you go all in and sit next to her to approach or whatever then false time constraint to give her a out if she doesn't want to talk to you and not forcing her to move away from you out of awkwardness.
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:21 PM
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That sound like some stupid shit from a rsd video. You don't you are yourself and accept if people won't like you. Fuck them you do you. Also drink.
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:16 PM
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Typical blue pill delusional optimism.
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:10 PM
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Yeah I agree with that. It will help to show case value in your character and personality that the girl may have misjudged you on but if you don't have value she won't care. Game doesn't bring in more girls pare say only retains more that would be lost even if they like you enough kinda like optimising the bottom line and obviously going out to get more leads.
/r/seduction29/03/19 11:38 AM
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Because she is human like you and understands the desire for love. You approach to show your value kind of like if a hot girl approached you and you didn't find out she was hot till she stripped of in front of you. Since they are not attracted to you because other external value indicators like looks or wealth you use your alpha and dominant personality. Would you complain if a hot / high value girl showed you interest? You are not wasting their time if you are smart, screen them, look for iois …
/r/seduction28/03/19 09:54 AM
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Women want value. Times have changed with them having more freedom and safety resulting in men losing their worth and value. Before they would value for having a stable job now they earn same as you so unless you have something else to out do the next guy like good looks you are done. Value dynamic has changed with all the over abundance of living in the western world, instead of christian family unit, they want degeneration, molly and casual sex with stimulating men (I'm not complaining about t…
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:15 PM
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They understand their worth and are holding out for a guy that really makes them feel something not some beta who approached them or happened to be in their circle. Essentiality "there are no good men".
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:53 AM
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This right here should be a post of it's own. Great way to put it.
/r/seduction25/03/19 11:50 PM
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if you don't show interest that behavior goes away They behave like it because that's exactly how they would react to someone whom they perceive as low value, whom they don't respect and see nothing they can get out trying to leach value from them. If act like you don't want them they don't have to set up a shield as they blow you off, you blow yourself out. You would have the same attitude if a ugly fat girl approached you. Like lol, no. If you don't show interest you fail and are playing to no…
/r/seduction25/03/19 11:48 PM
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In women? They're turning the darn women anxious?!?
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:48 PM
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I honestly prefer find own style good pua coaches Care to share who you consider good pua coachs or you take advice from?
/r/seduction24/03/19 07:09 PM
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Too bad game cares none about your opinion. It is what is just like weight cutting as a mma fighter.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:12 PM
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You think wrong. You think when a girl is in the mood to fuck and fantasises it she sees your fat ass slob physic as that guy? Women want value period. It doesn't have to all come from one guy so when you confident dad bod idiot tricks are getting looks from girls for being a 8 seat family wagon she will go after a guy who looks like a Ferrari when she is horny, adventurous and looking to fuck. This is human nature and hormonal response. Enjoy these red pills.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:09 PM
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This is wrong. Game is like applying for jobs. You're value determines your sexual worth and value to the woman like it would to an employer. Game is the process you follow to get the job, like networking or sending out resumes so you can show case your value. Even if its lying so you can get your foot in the door and developing the skills on the job. You don't give a fuck about the outcome as its out with your control but what is in you're control is executing, optimising and refining the proce…
/r/seduction22/03/19 02:46 PM
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Lol you are just not getting any love from sensitive soy boys judging by the down votes. No matter how much you sound like an asshole your replies are correct.
/r/seduction22/03/19 11:38 AM
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Assume strong frame that they like you before you approach and have strong sub communications. If your attractive, cool and into edm you should be like a fish in water. If they come close you try to make eye contact to check for iois and then just get right up infront of them. Keep the conversations more brief and expressive while you dance and if she is receptive get physical with her. Its socially acceptable to be physical on the dance floor just watch out for her friends blocking so if you go…
/r/seduction22/03/19 11:33 AM
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real happiness you would be reading books and wikipedia and have a curious mind to things around you. Look here, nerd. Most on here are not here to be happy they are on here to learn an important skill which plays a big part of their life would you post this shit on a sub for learning how to swim or ride a bike. Stressing about checking mirrors on a driving test is bullshit but you have to do it till you pass. Nice projection onto others of your own failures and mental state. Seduction is no dif…
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:03 AM
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after a good chat Lol they are on tinder for a good dick. If you want to spice it up hit them with a can't wait to see you in person ;)
/r/seduction18/03/19 04:58 PM
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Rsd is garbage you should be happy you can't find it. 2 hours of filler trash. You would learn more about seduction watching Jersey shore. Invest your time into learning better shit than this.
/r/seduction18/03/19 12:37 PM
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If higher value you mean non party girls approach in non party environments. If higher value you mean above 5 which is what most pick up artists get best case scenario then learn how increase your sexual market place value. This is like business and all these game techniques are like sales techniques. No matter how good you get at peddling garbage you are still peddling garbage, become a better product that sells it's self. Then apply game to increase efficiency.
/r/seduction18/03/19 12:31 PM
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To add onto that it is a free country, but if her kids are involved your actions will affect their lives not just the consensual relationship between the two of you and her cuck husband.
/r/seduction18/03/19 10:41 AM
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I listen to misogynistic rap music that reminds me I am above women and take into account that anything external such as her being on her period or having a bad day can be the reason not me. Seriously though you accept rejection is a part of the game like failing prs in weight lifting. You look at what you did wrong and either improve what is within your control or you let it go and only care about executing the motions as results have an element of luck hence you can't blame yourself for stars …
/r/seduction18/03/19 10:35 AM
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Get Spotify and listen to what ever featured top playlist there is for a specific genre or mainstream. When your done ask yourself how knowing these songs will help you with seduction and why you are wasting your time doing this other than for enjoyment. :(
/r/seduction18/03/19 10:28 AM
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Lol you reselling on here?
/r/seduction18/03/19 10:21 AM
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Agreed. You can acknowledge you have a problem or at least you don't act like an idiot pretending it doesn't exist but that's all you do. You don't go any further make her a part of it. If she mentions it you say you dealt with that before or you can relate but you move on from that. People who down voted you are morons.
/r/seduction18/03/19 10:17 AM
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Yeah that is true. His point though is that op would rather drop to the lower leagues or take smaller bets to have more shots and play the number game than to become higher value man and go after bigger fish developing his effectiveness.
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:34 PM
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make her feel like she won you and you are in her pocket This is the bullshit mentality I had when following rsd and their shit game advice. Pussis who don't go direct know deep down they can't get women without playing this game. Its a lose -lose as you are withdrawing validation but as soon as you shoe it you lose attraction. It will work for getting attention but not for actually banging them. Learn to be attractive without all these supplicating game tactics. This will work on 5s but when wo…
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:22 PM
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Bully him. Don't seem like a dick but make him the butt of jokes and point out his bullshit behavior to the group.
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:08 PM
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Fake phone call, "sorry its really important I have to go"
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:00 PM
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Because logistics.
/r/seduction17/03/19 12:58 PM
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Reading this makes me sad :(
/r/seduction16/03/19 11:12 PM
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Idk how close / cool you are with her but do some verbal foreplay and get the get her in the mood and ready for it so its not a shock to the system again it will help to gauge awkwardness and not seeming like a r pist. Right if you are already playfully touch feely with her and you can sense the tension especially in your eye contact its on bro. If not complement her and take things more sexual. Then you just lie or make bullshit up with the study pretence. Like "hey look do you understand what …
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:13 AM
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Were you trying to smash there and then? That's a bit risky. After re reading I'm assuming you like her and want to talk to her. Relax and assume you are awesome and that she will like you. You then want to talk about her and gauge how she responds amplifing the intensity on good responses so its not 0 to 100 awkward situation. If she blows you out you laugh it off or change the topic framing it like it's not a big deal or it never happened. In the pauses of seduction you fill it with either fun…
/r/seduction15/03/19 11:49 PM
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Is that the JRE with Alex Jones? Jk. For real though it's all about value just like with women. Abundance is having so much value you are still good if you lose some and people can see it in you. Its basic economics that you won't be able to make much profit from exchanging value with those who have none so why dafaq would a people looking to have fun loiter around a depressed loser or than for moral charity. Start living like a rock star or whatever that you find cool and people who resonate wi…
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:57 PM
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Sorry man don't really know of any. Its mostly trail and error for me as well as reading other peoples examples on places like this, also those cringe ass tinder posts most dudes do. After that I just analyse it and look for patterns and correlations. Most of this is common sense so if you can get your hands on data and run split tests you will get an idea of what works better refining it. I heard of dudes making girl tinder profiles to test for good responses and examples maybe I'll make one to…
/r/seduction15/03/19 04:48 PM
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That's weak. To over analyse. Opener questionable but since she like you cool. She tells you that she is not sure yet so not judging she may not be that cool to have a cliché to hit the clubs with and now you pressure her about it. Also gives off bit of needieness. Transition out to music question, ok makes sense and relevant. Her reply shows little investment. And then you change the subject out of the blue again to something that is not relevant or sexual at all. If I was her I would think her…
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:31 PM
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1 either they see you as hella value and let you smash or you get them horny. You escalate verbally and then set up a date or other event where the circumstances are better with no people slut shaming around and you being able to start turning her on without her having to go attend a class in half hour. Dates are not intensive its just you chilling in spare time with a girl, give her a reason like drink or meal then attempt to pull back to yours later or start asking for them to come straight to…
/r/seduction15/03/19 11:17 AM
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L O L. Dude is having a meltdown (not judging) due to external circumstances. He doesn't seem to have a foundation of shit together as a man to survive on his own and needs a girl to feel good which only makes it counter productive and lowers his odds of getting one creating a downward spiral. No woman will want to enter his life because of his negativity and because he believes he can't stop it till he gets one is a catch 22. He needs unconditional love not a woman that's his real problem. I ga…
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:24 AM
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If they find you attractive / of value enough and circumstance are right the boyfriend doesn't mean shit. They will cheat. Sorry if it makes you feel paranoid but same applys to the next guy that is more attractive / of value than you and the bf. If they don't find you attractive / of value enough they will still lead you on talking to you for attention and validation leaving that part out so they can suck as much out of you out as possible before you figure out their game. Enjoy!
/r/seduction14/03/19 10:07 AM
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Be a man apologise. Meet her face to face or over the phone and tell her you were a retard, that what you said came out wrong, emphasise that you understand why she is angry, how you made a mistake and that you don't want to hurt her feelings. Then you stand your ground and hold frame that if she wants to be angry so be it you can walk but you care about your friendship/relationship and would want that to happen.
/r/seduction14/03/19 12:17 AM
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Next time dont make it open ended inviting a no, give dates and times to chose between. If she can't accommodate those give alternatives and if she still doesn't then she clearly isn't into you enough.
/r/seduction14/03/19 12:09 AM
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Lie. At least give them the decency of not seeming like a slut if they engage with you. Frame it as it just happened on its own you couldn't control it.
/r/seduction14/03/19 12:05 AM
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Well unless you can somehow close her there and then by proceeding to fuck her on the table infront of everyone you should be a man and ask her out on a date which will ultimately lead to the sex location. Duh.
/r/seduction14/03/19 12:00 AM
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Improve your smv and stfu with that entitled shit, yeah god didn't give you the best hand or parents achieve success for you at least your dick and legs work.
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:52 PM
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Bf gf is exclusivity. When you both like each other to the point where you dont want a side man or woman fucking your relationship up.
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:57 PM
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6 pillars of self esteem. Get friends to hang out with and do cool shit or a dog I heard they are the only person who will be loyal to you through the thick and thin. If you need women you will not get women that's how it works. Bankers don't give money to people who NEED money. Handle your shit as a man.
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:53 PM
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Hey man all this shit is about conveying value to women that's why you approach. But when you are in a non anonymous environment and you get a rep for it the opposite may happen as not only there is nothing showing value off the bat like good looks or money but you also now have a negative preselection where a girl you approach weak saw you as low value telling others so even on the next girl you approach they assume you have no value rejecting you automatically. Don't blow your street cred Besi…
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:00 PM
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blocked me on insta another girl from HS Please tell me you are not cold approaching in high school smh :(
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:51 PM
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I would drop that message and then ghost her if she sends any more messages.
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:18 PM
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Oh ok I never realised I was dealing with a fucking expert here. Hey sorry for giving you mediocre feedback based on your drawn out story with no real question to focus on and rsd level of cringe ass game but if you already know all of this why are you not working on fixing this or pointing it out so people give you advice on that. You failed on the fucking approach. That's all there is to take from it. I gave you clear indicator of what area most likely has to be improved and knowing this you a…
/r/seduction13/03/19 08:37 AM
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Agreed when someone labels themselves an introvert it means they are timid, incapable or afraid of putting themselves out there. Whether its nature or nurture stfu and get better social skills and character. You're not born social, like with any other skill you don't change who you are to get it you GROW as a human being overcoming your weakness to achieve your goals. Its like people who suck at reading calling themselves dyslexic.
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:24 AM
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Idk if this is day time or night time but... Bro you sound like you are a homeless man or a street salesman except you are begging for pussi. First off the way you described it all it sounded creepy and girls were giving you clear indicators of disinterest. When you opened them at the toilets did you transition to direct or just end up following them like an uninvited 3rd wheel? If I was a girl and a stranger offered me alcohol with it seeming like a party environment after he already stalked me…
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:10 AM
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Well there is no attraction without value.
/r/seduction12/03/19 11:30 PM
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Idk if its good advice but if you said in other comment that its in high school then: A if you feel like fighting or getting aggressive thats your justified reason to do so. B stand your line and defend your honor by threatening you will fuck him up and if challenged resorting to A. C you show him you ain't cool with that and fuck with him back next time you see him by throwing shit at him or shoving him when you walk down a corridor till he submits or fights you resorting to A. D you let him wa…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 06:11 PM
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Wtf is your point or question? I don't understand the relevance of this response.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:53 PM
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Your chances are only as high as the consensuality the girl gives you. This is seduction you are influencing a want that is already within her to bang you. Posts like this is the reason schools and hr give anti rape classes smfh.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:46 PM
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If I'm right them it's doing something so you the person either loves or hates you. So a very crude example to show you are a man and able to get away with it you call her a bitch. She will either be find respect in that or think its disrespectful and hate you for it. Either way you made an emotional impact instead of just exchanging logical information back and forth. Don't recommend you call her that through hahaha.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:40 PM
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What you described is building sexual tension not attractiveness as a man. That's key as it primes women for sex but its not being attractive. Attraction is building your smv.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:31 AM
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I think around the message of sushi and what do you dance you have been blown out and mentally swiped left on. You didn't rush a number you threw it when ship has already sunk there was no real investment on the girls side and you spent so much time and lines of text she probably got board of your pussi-footing game.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:21 AM
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Lol yeah reading his encyclopedia I was thinking when is the girl gonna stop being nice and end this let alone give him the number.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:18 AM
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Either they are not desperate for the hook up or you don't appear as someone they would want to hook up with in your profile. Do you verbally escalate during coffee dates? Say something like sorry I work in the morning/throughout the day or whatever. If you have a date say you will run late and reschedule for a dinner date with wine later in the day, from there you can progress the night to drinks or pull if its on.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:12 AM
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Being able to get laid and being successful at it are two different things. The fuckboy look is in with chicks. Wearing a business suit doesn't make you a better businessman but it will help you be perceived as one. Girls will mentally swipe you to the left from first impressions, if it doesn't impede on your self integrity why not give yourself an advantage.
/r/seduction11/03/19 12:12 AM
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The same way you would become a edgy emo kids in high school. Its all culture and the social traits people have in those groups. Look at dudes killing it by those standard and copy them to mold yourself more into that stereotype and look. Easiest way is to be immersed in the culture. You hang out at the gym you will probably get into wearing beater vests.
/r/seduction11/03/19 12:03 AM
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You fight fear by confronting false evidence appearing real (I know it's cheesy AF). You need to face those thoughts and either disarm their validity or come to acceptance with them. Accept that possibility and the idea that you may have to live like that and there is no escape from it. Like cold showers they suck but you don't fear them after a while its just a part of life. Then focus on process over result. Do the right thing to make yourself higher value in the eyes of your woman and society…
/r/seduction10/03/19 05:50 PM
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Lit af 🔥🔥🔥
/r/seduction09/03/19 06:45 PM
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What I said was common sense. If you don't understand it I feel sorry for.
/r/seduction09/03/19 06:19 PM
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This video is biased trash. Majority of people don't have the luxury to spend all day wondering nyc like a bum begging for spare numbers n pussi and cringing girls out with those shit openers like James does. If anything it only showed you don't have to waste time playing the number game as you can do this at your day job.
/r/seduction09/03/19 06:15 PM
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Autistic question. People go there to drink and up the vibes. If I want to sit and drunk at home all alone that would be just depressing. Alcohol takes all your inhabitants and let's you take the passenger seat of where every the night takes you. Wtf kind of an adventure will you have alone at home? What makes it appealing for others to congregate at your place? We go to bars, clubs and parties for the sense of adventure hoping that the human variable makes some crazy shit happen and we can bond…
/r/seduction09/03/19 06:11 PM
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If you mean pick up tactic then yeah. Most of these bullshit coaches travel to a different country every month so the 1/100 chance of people seeing you again gets multiplied by a 1/100 as they go to a different high population city. Basic principles and fundamentals of seduction don't change but the flashy high risk bullshit you see will get a normal person socially ostracised. Stick to learning real game, increasing smv and gaming under the radar. Celebrities, athletes and high value profession…
/r/seduction08/03/19 12:02 PM
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If she doesn't answer the call bring breakfast... And wine to hers. Now you are at the sex location.
/r/seduction08/03/19 11:49 AM
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Lol yeah is it even a pick up product?
/r/seduction07/03/19 09:36 PM
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Why are people over thinking shit like this? It doesn't matter that much. Sup mami If you cant come up with anything that has a reference to her last message why are trying so hard. That's not a real shit test.
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:22 AM
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Stop the gym for a week and see what happens. Most likely you are being a bitch.
/r/seduction07/03/19 01:01 AM
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Vape game. By 2 vapes and show her how cool they are then she will be going on vape breaks with you. But seriously just be normal and talk to her to see if she is interested in you clearly we know just as much as you do cause you haven't even really talked to her.
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:57 AM
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Learn comedy or be high value if she is attracted she will laugh regardless of how trash your joke is. Why the fuck are you doing it though? Being a beta retard pouring drink over your head could make her laugh doesn't mean she will find you attractive. Are you doing this to get laid or be an entertainment for women whom they will laugh at and then say good night to as they go to bang the alpha guy?
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:49 AM
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Please me lady I'm a poor beggar and need a number warm up my heart and feet. Care to spear me but one it can be fake for what I care.
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:36 AM
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If I was in your shoes I would use more body language and try "caveman" game as cring as it sounds.
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:31 AM
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Is this a joke? Reselling a digital pick up product most people pirate for free? And its from RSD. Do you take bitcoin?
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:29 AM
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IOIs are important. His point is to approach regardless of them being present instead of taking the passive and safe approach waiting for the girl to give you a signal. Just so no one gets confused with the hyperbolic title.
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:26 AM
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Hardest thing to do as a man: acceptance. Facing the reality and not running from it. You got rejected, feel it in your gut and stop trying to escape it with rationalisations or search of the unknown that can undo what has happened. It will happen and its apart of the game get used to it. Let go of how it should be. When you accept the truth and move on from there as you stop giving a shit losing the fear and limitations you placed upon yourself. You no longer give a shit because there is nothin…
/r/seduction05/03/19 10:01 PM
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Verbally escalate and show her you want to bang her and not be her gay best friend???
/r/seduction05/03/19 05:20 PM
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Amogs bruh. He lives in Columbia and not a western country where majority of men are soft as vaginas but this is still legit advice you can apply to yourself.
/r/seduction05/03/19 05:12 PM
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Hi I'm op, im stalling you on social media and thought you are cute, also your shoes look ugly (neg). JK Really though go the extra mile and find out more logistics about her like parties or things she regularly attends. When you get there don't be a beta who only shows up like a cliche cartoon character. Say you are trying it out and then make it you didnt like it but she was the only good thing about it. Once you have your coincidental encounter set up its basic shit. Look for iois, add to the…
/r/seduction05/03/19 11:59 AM
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If you can't approach, run game and number close / pull it will make a difference just like having a drink would. But once you are past that stage the aid it provides is insignificant and how will you scale it? Spend more time in the mirror and say you can do it or drink more? I wrote this for the noobie - intermediates who are being held back by it because we treat confidence like more than it is. Its bullshit you are supposed to be selling to the girl not yourself and is unquantifiable pseudo …
/r/seduction04/03/19 07:54 PM
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By how you described your role its retail... And at a university :/ From my experience working retail you can be replaced FAST and you are basically hired to be a beta subservient cuck (not saying you are just what employers hire you for), you work on the customer facing side of things and at a university where rape culture is a hot topic these days. So yeah idk all your circumstance but if shit goes sour and she reports you or makes up lies about you, you may be affected or make your job awkwar…
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:53 PM
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Unless you are good don't shit where you eat. Go a party she is going to or find some other coincidental event you both were going to and start talking to her to see if she is interested. If not don't push it too hard to avoid awkwardness.
/r/seduction04/03/19 09:39 AM
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Do you. Are you going out to get girls or dance? I can relate and seriously unless I feel like it I won't approach at those if I'm there to have fun. Maybe I'm jaded because I know how game works and that I would be micromanaging shit instead of dancing. Anyways stick to the process open, vibe / dance and if you don't care number close as clearly you are doing something or close them at the end. After that let chips land where they may. I'm a man not a slut lol. Dance with chicks for fun and enj…
/r/seduction04/03/19 09:34 AM
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Hell No! Don't become know as a pick up loser and get socially ostracised in them. The same process attraction and game process is the same, girls are still going after value. The environment and vibe is different so don't be too intense like some idiot in a RSD video. Shit is slower and depending on size if you get a hard blow out it can be awkward as shit the same girl is in the room with 20 other people. And yeah they will talk about you with each other. Don't run any flashy shit or spam appr…
/r/seduction03/03/19 04:22 PM
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Lmao. We're one year away from 2020 and this dude is still stuck in mid 2000s.
/r/seduction03/03/19 12:06 PM
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Is that a reference to that cringe compilation videos where a kid trys to look cool by explains memes?
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:43 PM
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Be attractive lol. If she likes you she will laugh at your jokes no matter how shit or meta they are if she is bought into you. So if you want to make girls laugh stop trying to learn supercilious bs and focus on what really matters which is improving your smv and holding frame. Overall actully learn game. Or you can watch some rsd videos LoL.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:41 PM
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The same way I plow through my friends conversations (no homo). I KNOW and assume I am high value and its automatic that she will stay and talk. I don't run flashy shit I act like a man with strong body language and sub communications. You either sexualise, work logistics, bond by getting to know one another, say things that show you are of value or have fun for you not her entertainment. When you are secure with yourself and others can see your value its automatic either girls or they are not. …
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:02 PM
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Go out to have fun. Drink. Approach, logistics, pull / number close. Idk what you are expecting to hear?
/r/seduction02/03/19 06:41 PM
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Its a be a man in the relationship. If she says no to every possible time you propose or flakes second time she may not be interested.
/r/seduction02/03/19 06:21 PM
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Having good social medias can up your smv and keep you communicating with girls through not texting. Bare minimum have a Facebook. If they look you up its there and you look like a normal person. Just fucking around with the settings, add the photos that present you in the best light public and make your small friend list hidden and if asked say you only use it to keep up with friends and family through messenger.
/r/seduction02/03/19 06:04 PM
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The rsd of 2012 - 2015 I found pick up through is dead. Seriously after the julien scandal the golden days ended. Brad left. Alex left on bad terms. Todd got fired LoL But worst of all julien: one of the best abandoned pick up to be a self help cult leader (also ten game sucked and I wish he kept his old youtube content up.) Seriously RSD has no present with watered down content, no real technical game and most of their inner being bullshit too. There is no future for them if max or jeff leaves …
/r/seduction02/03/19 05:56 PM
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Don't cut him off but do talk shit and confront him about bit. If he does something you don't approve of you roast him, tell him its gay/lame/you I think its pathetic or lightly bully him so he either stops, stops doing it around you or you two stop being friends. Don't just ditch him out of the blue that's how you start being seemed as a dick.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:16 PM
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I'm not really using it but doesn't insta have DMs? If she is interested either hit her directly or play it more subtly "I'm doing cool thing x on x day, you're welcome to come along" or something among those lines. Either way if she finds you high value she might give you a shot for a date or what ever you want and if not then you play it cool and move on hoping she comes back once your profile gets bigger and cooler. Then again I don't use it so its purely hypothetical ¯_ (ツ) _/¯
/r/seduction28/02/19 12:46 PM
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I like way of the superior man. Masculinity isn't that complicated simply stand for what you believe in even if it means pain because of pursuing it. Get results and provide to your community, friends, family and most importantly your kids. Die on your feet don't live on your knees. Either being around other leaders in fields, watching competitive sports or reading autobiographies of winners like Marcus Aurelius or George Washington will be good for your masculinity.
/r/seduction28/02/19 12:32 PM
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Man up confidence is bullshit if you have no experience, be courageous and take risks even if you have no certainty of success. You have to start somewhere. If you don't have the balls for it go with less attractive girls or something. You need to lead. All the social skills you mentioned you have unlike most of this sub are a pre requisite. Game really starts when you are build and maintaining attraction with the girl and managing logistics to set up a lay. Thats the gameification part of it ev…
/r/seduction28/02/19 10:18 AM
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Just like you I agree that someone of the stuff sounding iffy but I'm with him on that point. It is a power struggle in terms of attraction. They are with you because you provide a value for them his being validation and once you start to inflate it you will start losing her. Thats what happens with marriages as both people start losing smv which brought them together in the first place and with women being told 40 is the new 30 as well as feminism they don't need the provider and the man is no …
/r/seduction27/02/19 09:18 PM
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when a woman is into you Ok so this whole thing is like sales or salary negations. You present your value with you sub and vocal communication. The girls who are more in demand holding more smv subconsciously understand it and its almost like someone pitching to them to invest into that man like a business yet he comes off sloppy af, now these women not only have higher standards they also have more options so the margin for error gets smaller because if you don't the next guy who doesn't will g…
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:33 AM
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By level of entry I'm talking about competing not just kicking the ball around. Everyone on here shits on tinder/online cuz their looks, social life and photography sucks ass. All it takes to do cold approach successfully is be a man while tinder requires more investment to get results. Abundance lmfao 😭😭😭. Unless you are a model or on that level when using tinder you have no abundance. Abundance like confidence is previous experience or acquired resource. You trick girls with it like you would …
/r/seduction26/02/19 04:38 PM
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Both. Approaching is your bread and butter. You then set up an optimised profile and swipe in free time to increase volume. There is a level of entry for online as you need good photos and a degree of looks since that's the only form of value communication. Don't listen to loser telling you not to use it.
/r/seduction26/02/19 01:06 PM
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Yeah I agree, just feel like it has to be said with the amount of bs in this sub and seduction in general. What he says is true but if not corrected the problem arises when a pua like rsd spins it to promote false ideas like what you say does not matter. Being social is an important factor of it all but its not game. Just like game is not being social so thinking "you need to work on your game more" when in fact it's your poor social skills holding you back will only waste your time. This post i…
/r/seduction26/02/19 11:19 AM
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Go to a club and practice going very sexual/direct. Literally talk to a girl and hit her with your ass is so hot or even getting very touchy feely with her (consensually of course). Your aim is not to get laid so expect to get blown out. Just practice hitting that extreme of being sexual so you can do it more chill in regular interaction. Don't go 0 to 100 on approach, build it up and get progressive so you are not a creep unless you are trying that out too cuz there are girls who will respond t…
/r/seduction26/02/19 09:11 AM
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You just act social, have fun and vibe with the chick and her group then get real saying she is hot when the friends aren't looking. Say what ever that is not socially uncalibrated or make you seem like a dweeb.
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:34 AM
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Unless he gets more girls than you he is just a person with a view point not an expert. Fix your self esteem or image about it cause if its hitting you this hard it may fuck with your frame especially if another dude is competing with you over a girl and saying that type of shit, oh yeah also jealousy can be a bias.
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:26 AM
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Not a shy guy but probably when I was more timid I would like if a girl would just be in my presence for an extended period of time so we both get comfortable with each other knowing and know that there is no wrong answer or thing either of us could say that would make the other person react badly. Also it may sound cheesy but you putting your hand on his in a relaxed manner when you're sitting watching a movie almost like you're already a couple would make me feel like yeah I can't fuck this up…
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:10 AM
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Bro (not trying to be a dick) you are not gaming. That's the lesson here. You were just having a normal conversation what you say doesn't matter because your end goal is not to get in her pants but to just enjoy the moment in life along side another human being. What you say does matter. You were just having a conversation hence it didn't matter. The only lesson for newbies is understanding you don't need to say anything jaw dropping to connect with someone you need to put out your personality a…
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:01 AM
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Brah I was skeptical when I saw the picture and after your comment I had to watch it. Idk what is funnier the fact that he is telling you to give them your number so they hit you up first... Online where girls have options thrown at them 😂 or that this is advice I would expect from a model looking chad yet he looks like a homeless person 😭😭😭
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:15 PM
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Look dude chill this stuff is a tactic a tactic not a fundamental if you don't understand why it works once the tactic stops working you are going to lose. LEARN FRAME CONTROL. That's what you need to understand all this stuff you are talking about is frame control. So go research it before ask about this stuff again. All of this is done to make the girl follow his frame and not her own. She gives him shit he plays it off with a joke to make it seem not serious, she says something he goes challe…
/r/seduction24/02/19 04:11 PM
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Amen brother. 100% unnecessary. Its sure extreme and only real benefit in pick up is to confront her with a challenging frame to show you have balls as a man or take this sexual from robotic plutonic. It only works if we are talking about REAL pimpin. Hustling low self esteem prostitutes on the street corner by making them addicted to your personality and frame because the can't handle living in a world without it. Julien's old material was good, arguably the best in most of pick up. This emotio…
/r/seduction24/02/19 03:15 PM
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my autism knocked in No dude its your timid boy that knocked in. She was giving you sex on a silver plater and you had doubt that you were not up to pare for the job. A real man would take it instinctively with no flashy bullshit just sure let's go. Let's go seems awkward AF because you cant lead, you have no fundamentals and relay on that bullshit because of fear of failure. Get horny and more dominant that line about you pretending to be a bad boy was a tease, she wanted you to say something l…
/r/seduction24/02/19 11:16 AM
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Jesus thank you for being the only normal person on this post. Yeah that's all you say let's go or ask if the there are any other logistical problems preventing you from leaving with her as its fucking clear as day its on.
/r/seduction24/02/19 11:00 AM
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That's terrible advice. Why would you do that exactly? What is the rationale behind it?
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:53 AM
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Women are emotional and do things for many reason. Don't stress about it, it could literally be her think she has to do it or else she will cheat cuz she likes you so much or even the extreme of her being board. If she responds well in person that's your real indicator.
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:48 AM
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she actually got caught messing with some dude at work while with the same guy Lol wot that's your answer right there. She is in a relationship and barely knows you why would she tell you the ugly truth let alone admitting it to herself. Women's actions hold more weight than their white lies. If she is responding well that means she is giving you compliance and likes you especially since she is going out of her own way instead of you to make it work. She is giving you mad iois so decide what you…
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:46 AM
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Open up a microsoft word and title it thoughts. Write your thoughts and feelings about it till you get past the writers block and you are in the zone were it all flows. You want to go after what hurts or is causing you those feeling the most. It may take a couple of sessions (maybe months) to get down to the real cause but once you get it you will feel if its the right one. It will be like a jab in the heart when you think of it causing that emotional response. Once you know what it is you analy…
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:27 AM
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You're young and impressionable. I won't judge a book by its cover but I have doubts: if you are sixteen and that should be disregarded its because of what? Lay count of over 100? Your immense experience of day game since you can't get into clubs or do online without lying about your age? Fam you are not ready. If you care about this then make it a journey experience sharing with people what YOU are learning or teaching YOURSELF. There already is enough blind faith and delusional feel good advic…
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:11 AM
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Every one here is playing and bullshitting their time away. Most people on here sound like timid boys and not real men. You are not in the seduction game, its like everyone who picks up a skateboard and can't even do an ollie calling himself a skater. Number 1 problem: not doing any self analysis or reflection. Everyone asks for common sense questions that they could answer is they picked up a pad and a pen thinking about it logically for 2 minutes but instead look for others to take the lead an…
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:39 PM
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Tell her what you are willing to do for her and what you will not let her do in your relationship, she does it cut her off.
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:10 PM
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I think you mean pre-selection. Basically you cold approach to show value as a man to the girl or you simple are good looking walking around with a watch that says you make 100k/year while you are high fiving people who treat you like a celebrity. Either way girl sees value and gets attracted to you.
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:06 PM
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Yeah like he said either throw some light conversation during class to gauge her interest in you or go direct and find her after class and start talking to her she will know what is up and either reciprocate or reject you. Either way you need to be able to handle the likely chances she will reject you so you don't come playing not to lose give all your bargaining power away. Hence like mentioned above get more chicks out side of class or even in other classes if your in high school or something …
/r/seduction23/02/19 12:07 AM
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Jesus. Because your boring and plutonic gay best friend conversation isn't as stimulating and attention grabbing as physical contact between a man and a woman.
/r/seduction23/02/19 12:00 AM
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Bro your autistic.
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:41 PM
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Nice aggregate of buzzfeed articles bro.
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:29 PM
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Hey man idk if you are saying that you are just starting to hit up clubs and bar in general but if that's the case fuck the bullshit you are seeing here and just go there and have a blast with your friends getting a feel of how it all works for normal people. Its to stop you from seeming like a weirdo and being labels as such unconscious by others there. Approach them with a simple hey may name is if they don't care they will blow you out regardless of what you say so just do that don't be flash…
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:28 PM
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Look up 6 pillars of self esteem audio book on youtube. Seriously that book changed my life. Idk if a weird social anxiety issue or just getting girl but if its girls stop with the pick up/ seduction bullshit and be man: handle your life responsibilities and get a career going. If you really struggle with your anxiety or whatever pick up a pad and break down entirely your anxiety. "If go outside I feel x why? Why do I feel x? Cuz of y. What is causing y?" And then just build up the foundations a…
/r/seduction22/02/19 11:53 AM
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Women only care about one thing in men: value. Sexual marketplace value. Things can be different country to country just like markets in different industries so you have to look what these women real value and respond well to. Look at who is winning or killing it in your culture. Idk any better but I assume those Bollywood actor who clearly take gear to have their body are doing it. That may be an indicator and again no idea how important money is there. In the west survival is covered so stuff …
/r/seduction18/02/19 04:02 PM
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Why are people down voting this comment? Like it or not this is the ugly truth. He's not calling you losers just stating how the rest of society who does not browse here thinks of you when you roll up to a social place without friends or at least you appear to be ESPECIALLY to do game. If you wish to be ignorant and butt hurt about it I have no respect for you scrubs.
/r/seduction18/02/19 03:27 PM
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Hey man height doesn't define you as a man. If they blow you out yolo. Napoleon ruled France n wester Europe (maybe not a historian) he must have got so much ass no matter height. Or Lars Ulrich from metallica.
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:24 PM
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Idc if they blow me out I take the shot in case they do like me. Worth it.
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:19 PM
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Glad this post helped others. I'm not sure if I'm wrong or the standards are considered different for women but I'm 5'10 and through that was average. You are good its the around 6' mark that I would think tall and 6'2-6'5 mark for TALL. Play to your odds DON'T WEAR HIGH HEELS, dress and act more feminine and if you find a guy attractive laugh and talk let your personality out so that they see you for you and not your frame.
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:14 PM
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I agree that it does make men feel intimidated / emasculated. Best you can do to offset it is be more feminine with the way you dress and act. Don't think of yourself as a freak :( I'm a man so maybe I'm getting it wrong but if it was freak like then why are all those other bitches wearing high heels when their out. Have self worth and develop yourself to become that 10 in terms of looks and personality/character. Height is just a trait and not what defines you as a person or a woman. Focus on t…
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:06 PM
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I was thinking that may be the case, but if thats the case I guess its better than something weird like being turned on by feet.
/r/seduction09/02/19 05:45 PM
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people will see it There, that's your fault in logic. Its 2019 its not like people are out all the time socialising, most don't even do their shopping in person they use shit like Amazon. Everyone is too busy and attention deprived to give a fuck about you and unless you play to the game you will be another underappreciated loser. I get the whole Bushido of being a man but if you want to get laid you do what works. You set shit up and swipe on designated times so it doesn't interfere with your s…
/r/seduction06/02/19 07:56 PM
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You run game n get sexual and when you are not either you enjoy life in the moment or bond with her. Mindset = assume you are awesome and no matter what you say she will still like you, none of those is this good enough to say thoughts, do you ask yourself what should I say when interacting with people who's option of you won't affect you or matters to you like a homeless person or the timid kid in high school? You are the one with the bargaining power holding the cards. If she leaves so what yo…
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:18 PM
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Cut her off.
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:56 PM
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Pre-selection. She see you with other girls, clearly you must have value in their eyes for them to be around you or vetting you for a non serial killer, she goes along and assumes what they do.
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:50 PM
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Lol wot? That's where the girls are at and if you set up things optimally in advance you can efficiently get more qualified volume than if you tried cold approaching begging on the street corner to get laid. What does a high value man do with his mental energy then? Inefficiently hit up night clubs or day game malls wasting hours of the day that can't scale? Knocking door to door instead of putting an ad on TV?
/r/seduction05/02/19 10:47 PM
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Personal experience If its a long depression where something real is bringing you down prioritise fixing it. What you are asking is how to put a patch over a problem. Stop multi tasking and do the most important task instead of bullshiting your time and spinning plates fixing nothing. If its a one off that some times happens and you read to rebound low after: Bullshit yourself. Being social is about what you can do for the other person and more importantly what you think you can do. Depression a…
/r/seduction05/02/19 08:31 PM
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Women seek one quality partner and men many quantities of partners so yeah its a simple economic principle and psychological wiring that only the best may get girls. Either you get good or get rid of people better than you. Idc if you find it rude. Its not intended to hurt your feeling it is the truth and if you cant handle it you will struggle in seduction. Your not pretending to be someone your learning. You couldn't walk as a baby are you pretending to be an adult now that you are? See what t…
/r/seduction04/02/19 04:05 PM
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Not to sound like a dick but you shouldn't. As you said your self you are average and hence receive the results you are worth. Get better. Look at the dudes around you crushing it and mould yourself to do and be like they are. You can't change looks, height or race but you can get a good skin care routine, dress cool and try mewing (whatever the jaw thing is called) to raise your smv. Get cool, awesome and high value in society that's what women want. Winners. Dating changed cuz of tinder. And e…
/r/seduction04/02/19 03:20 PM
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Ok so check for iois either she will gibe them as she finds you attractive from pre selection or you approach her and show her you are of value. -keeps looking at you or better into your eyes -touching you -proximity coincidentally always being close to you or in same area as you -general receptiveness after you make a move and show its not just plutonic If you get them its a sign she is interested but let's say you approach cold you say your opener and start interaction. If she stays n talks yo…
/r/seduction04/02/19 02:37 PM
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Yeah man most people go in thinking rejection is bad and their life depends on it almost like a woman measuring her attractiveness or smv based on the reaction. Their ego, identity and self worth is crushed and they fear it instead of understanding that they are the prise if they really work on themselves outside of pick up and in relation to society. When you don't go in thinking this person is above me, I have nothing to give her and I cant get girls then it actually works. Any way not an expe…
/r/seduction04/02/19 01:55 PM
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If your scared it's a mindset thing. Think of it as sales or a job interview you go in strong knowing your value and self worth giving her a chance for something to happen. If she says no cool and move its just a part of the process like only 1 out of 5 interviewed getting the job or a 10% conversion rate on a sale hitting. Only blame your self for not doing what you should do and never for rejections that's external and out of your control. Follow the process and up your smv that's all you can …
/r/seduction04/02/19 11:07 AM
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Good on you for keeping a journal, I hope you also keep a personal one or word or something cuz trust me you will learn more doing your own conclusions based on that data than asking people here.
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:49 AM
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Maybe your doing this with the wrong mindset of execute approach instead going for sex/love. If you hide and numb out your feelings of fear you may not feel it. Idk how that's possible I get hard talking to girls while I look them in the eyes. Maybe check your hormones test.
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:34 AM
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Bring him up to her and say he texted you that to possibly dig at if he might have texted her something. If she still acts cold then walk away and hope she sees you cool and killing it with other girls and will want you again. Show you have options, she disrespected you and blew it for herself. If she really likes you she will show interest or iois if not comeback later done the line. Idk how good of a friend he is or are you look to cause commotion with him but if you don't give a fuck use him …
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:27 AM
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Try compliance tests.
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:18 AM
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Never realised how puas can make any money from this community till I started reading and posting on this reddit. I pray for the people who don't even attempt to think how to do basic tasks in their lifes :/
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:14 AM
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Stop being a helpless idiot. no girls around me and I don't go out Then go out wtf else do you expect us to say? Increase your exposure to them through either being around them in situations like parties, events or going out on sat night with friends to get drinks. Do online game as its becoming more normalised and learn it properly instead of complaining like other incel retards about not getting matches expecting their personalities and game to come through instead of getting high quality phot…
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:08 AM
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Good post
/r/seduction30/01/19 10:28 AM
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Good points man, biggest problem most dudes have is they don't get into the flow of dancing as they think instead of just being what they are feeling. Then it just seems like try hard poser shit and leeching of fun you need someone else style and approval to feel you are doing it right and "having fun". Also being little boys and not knowing its ok to get physical and touch her. Like I hope it wasn't awkward that our butts touched. Hope she won't slap me for it.
/r/seduction22/01/19 10:25 PM
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If by not even 2s you mean total interaction that's disinterest but if its 2s every other time turn to the side when dancing the yeah that's how dancing work you move your head to the beat your not there to have a conversation. Proximity can be an IOI. If they are rubbing their butts on yours thats more likely than not an IOI. Depending on your smv, their compliance and balls open by grinding your back / bump into them while dancing and then step in front of them while dancing (intensity depends…
/r/seduction22/01/19 10:18 PM
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A metric for your perceived odds of success just like in gambling. I'm confident this hand will do good but have no certainty all I can do is see how confident I am about putting money behind it and then use my balls / courage to do it. If you need confidence to make a move your either smart or a pussi. It does help with frame control simply for the bluff effect.
/r/seduction21/01/19 02:19 PM
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This just me projecting but it sounds like your doing it from wrong place in your heart. Like you don't care about the time and experience with the girl but being able to say you did it and your the man. Maybe your even afraid and would rather not get rejected than get the girl. If your not then just get horny that will refocus your motivation and mind to text her to hang out.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:15 PM
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Agree with this but would add a bit. Don't play games but treat it in a gameafield way so start of small with hey (like your actually talking to him) if he complies and stays drop a compliment or sign of interest if he is still cool with it push for a number or way to stay in touch. Male perspective but if a girl talks to me and says a non plutonic complement i ll know what is up. At that point its just up to if they like you there is no tricks to it.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:03 PM
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Hey man I've been following him for a while and so far from his free youtube I have got a lot of net positive value. Care to elaborate as to what makes him a fraud so I can look out for then?
/r/seduction19/01/19 01:08 PM
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He is the realest in the game right now. His youtube videos which are free can teach you majority of game if you don't want to spend any money on this, legit I haven't seen this much advice which isn't just some vague theory since the pre scandal RSD Julien videos on his original channel not the garbage himself one. His 5 hour video was way too long but after watching it you honestly can't say you don't know what to do next in an interaction again. He's got sociopathic personality traits, idgaf …
/r/seduction19/01/19 01:06 PM
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In recent years trash. After Alex left and julien reformed from the scandal there was no good content (can't speak for Max never liked his personality). When Todd got axed I lost any remaining respect. Best content by RSD are the free youtube vids on juliens original channel (rsdjulien not the himself) before and around the pimp product. Everything else by them is a waste of time and money.
/r/seduction17/01/19 07:36 PM
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Know your smv and act accordingly. From there your mindset is this girl is a done deal and she wants you (consensually). Get horny thinking about her and experiencing her; her skin, her curves, her smile, feminine energy in her voice, her eyes, her tongue on yours, her private parts if its the right time and place. She will feel you feeling it and feel the same at which point she will either blow you out or go with it and increase the tension. You need to be able to stare a girl down saying noth…
/r/seduction17/01/19 02:51 PM
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1) she's not interested in making anything happen at that point, hey makes her do all the work. If she was down she would keep talking not necessarily you blew it but more likely. 2) Idk what direct means to you but if its "I want to fuck you" don't. Be direct that you are interested like touching her or making complements, if she shows interest (compliance) amplify and push for more to eventually hint at sex. Have an end game plan of what you want and where to take it, if she is down where is t…
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:29 PM
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Because like a consumer they want sex but the product you are pedaling to them sucks. If they wanted you they would come to you and so you (just like a lot of men they are used to) try to give it a shot like a sales person on the street people avoid. How would you react if you saw that every day? Probably go unconscious and develop a muscle reflex of be polite and move on because your busy.
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:01 PM
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Touch her hand or something if she is cool with it then for next date do something that is less what other person described as an interview so you have more opportunity for escalation. Or with you are a mad lad and its going well with the hand touch where you see you can do more make an excuse and invite her over to your place, you can't really do it at a coffee shop unless its verbally.
/r/seduction12/01/19 11:01 PM
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Pimp shows the whole out line and process from approach to pull stages taking out the whole "ok what do I do now?" problems so many people still seem to be having. Also the first video on female psychology I thought was phenomenal when I first saw it.
/r/seduction12/01/19 10:42 PM
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Is the girl that gives you an IOI needy? Its your role as a man to initiate the interaction and take her, so its only needy if you give it a shot for the opportunity to occur but keep persisting despite her indicators of disinterest. She wasn't sold on your first impressions and so you try with showing her you are a man with balls. She's still not impressed but you keep trying to get her now its needy. Just because you are at an SMV disadvantage doesn't mean you will lose its just your more like…
/r/seduction12/01/19 10:30 PM
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Waste of money. His original pre scandal youtube videos are just as good if not better and free, ten game is all just inner game some of it is also wrong. If you buy his products go with pimp.
/r/seduction12/01/19 10:15 PM
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https://youtu.be/mfFUVnwCNVY six pillars of self esteem audio book. Helped me a lot and I end up buying the physical one too.
/r/seduction12/01/19 07:27 PM
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EXACTLY the cool guy in your high school didn't need what most ask here and still got better results than they do. Most are scared of handling the real work and so they avoid it procrastinating on the micros instead of improving the macros. Think of it as business with the 80/20 principal if a techniques can give you a 5% improvement only the 1bill/year will benefit. If you want to put on muscle what would you help you more taking that magical vitamin b pill so you are not deficient or getting e…
/r/seduction10/01/19 01:10 PM
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Ok first search up 6 pillars of self esteem audiobook on youtube or better yet get the book it changed my life. Similar to your experience. Second priorities money/career and fuck all the other bullshit like girls liking or not liking you. If you find that stressful or whatever imagine how much worse it will feel when the stress of financial uncertainty or being forced to work a life draining dead end job you hate will feel like ADDED ON TOP OF THAT. Seriously just sit down do nothing and listen…
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:29 PM
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Shy yes. Beta no.
/r/seduction09/01/19 12:39 AM
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Also insta thots who will be in their vids for clout.
/r/seduction09/01/19 12:38 AM
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Here's an idea if you end up hitting her up - Just have a normal conversation with her about what ever bullshit. If she stays and doesn't show she is super busy then give her that complement and lead into phone number because your doing x cool thing in your spare time and she is x quality so she qualifies to your standards and there for you want her to join you (date set up). She will either say no where you move on like its nothing and if you see her next time you act normal like you have moved…
/r/seduction09/01/19 12:34 AM
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This man sounds like he gets rejected a lot... but also gets his way more often than others just because he actually goes for it lol
/r/seduction09/01/19 12:19 AM
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Something I'm constipating on is that being social is just being positive and emotionally giving without being needy or validation seeking. Its when you have the mindset and energy that other see you will make them feel good and comfortable distracting them from the negative and shit side of life. Your not awkward killing the vibe or looking to have them like you and prove that's someone cares about you. You feel good and happy so they come to you to become the same so that's why they can follow…
/r/seduction09/01/19 12:15 AM
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Not a podcast but I follow jmulv on youtube he's got solid advice. Good luck with your life improvements.
/r/seduction08/01/19 05:52 PM
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Not advice you're looking for but stop chasing pussy and get your shit and self esteem together. All the anxiety and insecurities are justified would a woman want a man who is not financially secure in his 30s? Any advice that doesn't advocate improving you as a man is just bluffing and trickery bullshit. No top 10 tricks to get women number 7 will shock you will help if your fundamentals are weak. Handle your priorities and stop listening to lying pick up artists. Its hard to lie to women about…
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:07 PM
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Be conscious of why you act. Are busting jokes for you or others? Will you be affected by the outcome or just enjoy it and let the energy flow? Do you care about if others will like you more if the joke is funny and so try hard to make sure that its funny or just expressing yourself? Its only bad to think of a joke for an hour if you are dependent on others liking it and not for the art of humor. Get yourself esteem up and stop giving a fuck if people will laugh or not as long as you are not too…
/r/seduction08/01/19 01:41 PM
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This shit is like poker, even if you have a pair of 2s you can bluff like you hold a pair of aces. But chicks who ARE better than you on a smv level and not in scarcity will call your bluff all the way as they can afford it. The lmr and shit tests are exactly for that to test your bullshit/delusional confidence. Give it a shot but if your smv is low your just rolling dice hoping she has no better guys talking to her or is desperate (which is unlikely if she is hot that's why most pick up bullshi…
/r/seduction07/01/19 11:13 PM
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Most pick up advice is garbage and mainstream is even worse. You need to learn game and how to build attraction period then practice. You seem high value on paper hence you get dates but then you flat line and lose them IRL. There is no easy answer other than get güd. You need to learn to get a feel for women. The safe black and white thinking will stop you from doing good forcing physicality and escalating is recommended so you show the girl you have balls and what you are about in a short sale…
/r/seduction02/01/19 05:13 PM
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Even if its not hesitation you missed your shot, subconsciously she will think what if he disappears again. Clearly since she is not respective you have lost buy in and will have to rebuild it (if a girl likes you she will make it easy meme) and depending on your experience level / lay count you will most likely act desperate dropping your bargaining power. Your best option is start fresh with a new girl unless she is going after you, girls don't just stay put for 2 months like princes from shre…
/r/seduction02/01/19 04:48 PM
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Hey man gone through rough time too recently so this is fresh in my mind. Depression are just negative thoughts looping you need stop thinking them (meditate) and then have a plan of how to solve the problems so grab some paper and dig deep to what really is the problem - what is your desired goal/outcome then what will I have to do and most importantly stop doing to get there. What it sounds like is low self-esteem check out this audio book it really helped me and I end up getting the book vers…
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:57 PM
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Any 5x5 program if you dont have PRS of around 200 bench 250 squat n 300 something deadlift. Only way way to get bigger as a NATURAL is progressive overload. These are free and simple programs. Do overhead presses or any other exercises for shoulders (alt handstand press) + chin ups or pull ups. Shoulders + back will give you the v taper. Broad shoulders is the high test look girls are after. Most important factor : just be lean. Seriously "Brad Pitt in fightclub" is nothing special dude is low …
/r/seduction26/12/18 04:56 PM
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/r/seduction24/12/18 07:40 PM
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He's regurgitating pua theory from one company.
/r/seduction24/12/18 04:17 PM
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Lol being direct cuts the fluff and forces these guys to really be men and either show value or get blown out. Clearly if they did have value/smv they would not be hiding behind the make her laugh and have good emotions tactic. :(
/r/seduction24/12/18 04:14 PM
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Yeah isolation bro you dont do explicit stuff in public. Clearly the girl likes you giving you IOI by looking at you (or you'd hope) so you test her compliance which you maybe unknowingly did with the permission to make space so you can sit and what sounded like when I read it a cringy 80s movie when a guy puts his arm around the girl at the cinema. You do audacious move starting light and progressively amping it up to see if she likes you so if your in a face close hug then obv its an easier an…
/r/seduction22/12/18 04:51 PM
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Stop giving a fuck about it or just dont think about it. If youre good at talking when you dont know they like you then either keep that thought from running in your head or accept it for what it is and move on. Try meditation or just thinking and deeply writing about this issue so for example if boys being into you makes you feel x and that's not what you want because y then what do you want to feel instead and what would you need to do to feel z instead? Really get down to the root cause of it…
/r/seduction22/12/18 04:26 PM
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Bro what are you even asking here?
/r/seduction22/12/18 04:14 PM
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I'm assuming said girl is your friend or friend of friends. Have a game plan of what to do and how the night will progress so again assuming you will be at a bar followed by club followed by food place before heading home those are your opportunities to seed the pull. Get your friends to throw an after party or just do something after wards either at the sex location or from which you will get to it. Talk and bond with her, her group or near her through out the night. She will see you want to ge…
/r/seduction24/11/18 12:04 PM
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My bad misread the ugly in mirror part as a confirming statement instead of a question. Look at other guys that are really getting girls and compare that with what you do. If race is really an issue then you need to westernise yourself so you fit into and seem appropriate the world of those girls. You need to create a brand image and personality that over powers your ethnicity so when people see or talk about you they recognise you for "hey that's that [value] guy (that's also of this ethnicity)…
/r/seduction11/11/18 01:10 PM
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Not to sound cliche but you need to love yourself before others can. You said you look into the mirror with this negative outlook everyday so how do you expect others not to? Either you follow their frame that your ugly or they follow your negative frame that your ugly. You may have low self esteem which is very not only for getting chicks but the quality of your life. Research it and read the 6 pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Brandon I'm sure the audio book is on YouTube. From that point on…
/r/seduction11/11/18 09:21 AM
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