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$ Bailout $WillDonJay/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/17 12:33 AM
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I imagine it's more about the emotional connection and contentment from that intimacy. <3 A turkey baster wouldn't leave you with the same sort of glow.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/24 02:14 AM
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Start with something, anything. You'll learn about yourself as you do so. Once you start moving, you can find things to steer towards. It's a waste of energy to stress about steering a parked car.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 11:29 AM
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"Comparison is the thief of joy."
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/23 11:09 PM
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No matter how you spin it, this shows a massive fault in character and ethics. If you suddenly don't care about the character and ethics of the man that you want to spend your life with... 1) Wow. No way you would've said that a week before this. 2) He -has- been caught before, just not recently. When he inevitably gets caught again, what are you going to do? Hide it so friends and family don't know? What if he goes to jail for something so petty? You're going to get angry at the system instead …
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 12:00 AM
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Personally, I wouldn't be able to respect a woman that hated to work. For me, that'd be a sign that she had a weak personality and wouldn't be able to handle difficult times with me. (I'd be on my own to get through hardships.) That's not a partnership. Based on what you've written, it sounds like the main thing you add to his life is being attractive and meeting some physical needs of his. If that's the case, then your relationship sounds like it could end up rather similar to the typical wealt…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 12:44 AM
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OP’s role models for relationships seem to be her own parents and RomComms. My worry is that she’s been with him for less than four months and the entire relationship is based on the fact that they are both attractive. Doesn’t seem substantial enough to build a life together on. We can only guess at her boyfriend’s thoughts but I think it’s safe to say the majority of people will feel similarly. I remember when I was 14 and working at a restaurant. A female employee who was incredibly attractive…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 12:30 AM
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My take from going through your posts is that you've lived a very sheltered life where everything you've needed has been handed to you without you really having to do much for it. You're 32, and you've held a full time job for 2 of those years. Not because of a disability or something, but because you're so well off you don't need to. For most people, that is not relatable. With gentle honesty, it sounds like you'd be incapable of living on your own without your family's money or a man to suppor…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 07:10 PM
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What does it mean to gain the upper hand? You keep saying that. Do you have the upper hand right now and you'd lose it if you did affectionate things? Why is a relationship you plan on investing your future into with this partner so adversarial?
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 06:53 PM
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I can't imagine how he'd disrespect you during/after pregnancy if this is something he'd say to you now. Either he's stupider than you believed him to be, or he made that comment to hurt you. Know your worth and don't settle. If he isn't willing to realize what an idiot he's being, again, he's too stupid or manipulative to give your life to. Someone working hard on improving themselves shouldn't be cut down by the person they're most vulnerable to.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 12:45 PM
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He's 100% gas lighting you and making his personal sins your responsibility. You were handed a get out of jail free card when you walked in on him, take it. Discourse is useless, he'll just twist words around until you feel like you're going crazy or can't remember things properly. OT, woman were treated like property and men had multiple wives. OT, they also sacrificed goats regularly and never wore mixed fabrics. You know he's picking and choosing verses to justify his sins, let me validate yo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 03:08 AM
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For a low libido male, moderate porn use will still mean he's getting that sexual release without his partner being involved. A day where he climaxes to porn by himself is very likely another day where he and his partner are not sexually intimate. If he only feels the desire to orgasm a three or so times a week.... you can see where that would go. That's the frustrating thing for her. If he's already not a very sexual person, being involved in activities that reduce the amount of sexual connecti…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 09:26 PM
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Adding on to say, if she loses him despite being the best 'her' she can be, no amount of nagging or cageyness or putting her foot down would've been enough to stop that from happening.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 04:54 AM
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Go to the gym. Do squats. Be athletic. Play sports. Have fun with it! The habits and discipline you learn will set you up for success later on in life. Having fun while doing it will maintain a healthy balance and keep you away from the pitfalls of eating disorders.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 02:14 PM
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For the kind of person you'd want to marry, being black will either have no effect or a positive effect on your SMV and RMV. NEVER be vulnerable to an asshole who sees you as less for the color of your skin.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 02:10 PM
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He likes you. He has fun with you. He wants you to live with him. He's just leaving himself an emotional escape hatch. If he doesn't say he loves you, he's not officially fully committed and still has that out if things go sideways. Guys are likely to use moving in together as a trial period for an LTR. That said, you have to be careful to ensure that after you're already living with him and sleeping with him, he doesn't have everything you can offer him. He might not feel that he needs to give …
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 05:01 AM
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Trying to manipulate affirmation out of him. Your average worthwhile guy will do all sorts of things to show a girl he cares about her. But because he might not be expressing that fact in a particular way that she wants... She may insult herself hoping that he'll reassure her with compliments. (Self Deprecation) She may make unfavourable comparisons of him to other men. ("Tanya's boyfriend got her flowers last week. How come you never get me flowers?") She may withhold affection or tasks that sh…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 11:33 PM
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You fell in love with someone who you paid to spend time with you and be friendly/supportive. Someone who is not relationally or sexually compatible with you. You want advice? Run. Lose his number, never talk to him again.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/18 09:29 PM
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It sounds like you've been demoted to plate though. He doesn't respect you enough to commit to you any more, but you still seem worth having around. You might be able to fix things... if he doesn't find a local girl comparable to you. You can't compete against someone who can be around him multiple days of the week and if that happens you'll either get fully dumped or stay plated indefinitely.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 06:56 PM
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You were two days late, does that mean he spent two days in a location that wasn't what he expected by himself? Personally, I'd be more pissed about that. The other details just aggravate that. His expectations were up here, your delivery was down here, then you stomped it even lower.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 06:46 PM
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She's venting a bit of resentment here and hasn't said a single thing about how he's responded to her expressing these feelings concerning the excessive "full time sex maid" she thinks he sees her as.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 05:30 AM
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Often in situations with mismatched libidos, from one partner's perspective the desire for sex is "excessive" and the partner is "preoccupied" with it. At the same time, the other person can have the perspective that the sexual relationship is normal and healthy, right where they want it to be. I mean, is his desire for sex a detriment to his other responsibilities in his life? We don't know what the two of you have communicated to each other on the subject matter. It's worrying however that you…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 05:24 AM
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What cause has he to think that his desire for sex is to the detriment of the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 03:42 AM
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I think if a man has a background like that, if the woman broached the subject of a prenup and was wholeheartedly offering one, that would be a viable option. Lots of guys don't want to have that conversation because of the potential backlash. "You don't trust me! You don't love me! You think I just want you for your stuff! How can we be intimate with something like that hanging over our heads? You think the marriage is doomed to end in divorce! You're not fully into this relationship!" is a nig…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 09:09 PM
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She said she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, so I highly doubt she wants to be seen with you let alone have her family find out how she got a place and a car and some cash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/17 02:12 PM
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So I read the whole thing. And what confuses me the most... She's a masochist who wants someone who will be sadistic. Slap her and throw her around without being a pussy about it. But, she doesn't want a sadist who will actually enjoy causing her pain? "You can't slap me and then apologize - it's fucking weak. But if you want to see me cry, you're the wrong kind of sadist and I don't want to affiliate with you." It's like she's asking for someone who cooks, but fuck them if they want to eat dinn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/17 02:23 AM
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Found it while poking around my local backpage for events. If it is satire, there's no indication of that. My town doesn't really have the population for a troll's audience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/17 01:17 AM
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Sex without passion, creativity, intimacy and excitement? Certainly. But to fall into a rut of passionless, predictable heartless and boring sex is a choice that reflects ones priorities. Couples can consciously avoid that if they put the effort in. :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 07:07 PM
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I'm involved in kink and BDSM, and -some- feminists have vocally taken great issue with woman /wanting/ to be beaten or degraded or enslaved by a man. (Or heaven forbid, indulge in a safe and consensual rape fantasy.) To sum up the main points I've run into, they see such woman as a threat to the progress and current status of feminism, as if they are undoing years of hard won activism by somehow reinforcing the patriarchy. Therefore, their choices are harming woman as a whole. It sucks because …
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 11:55 PM
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Feminism should be about empowering women to make the choices for their lives that make them happy. Pursuing a career or caring for a home should be equally supported if it's what you really want!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 03:17 PM
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Isn't your entire account dedicated to making "womyn" out to be inferior? Just seems like a laughable degree of hypocrisy to accuse someone else of that.
/r/MGTOW16/10/17 05:35 AM
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All of this assumes that the only thing of value that a woman can offer a man is a golden ticket to her cunt. Your arguments are based on a faulty premise.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 05:56 PM
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Guys are problem solvers. He saw something he knew how to help you with and gave you a practical remedy for the situation. It might be a concern if he never demonstrated any other loving gestures, but since that's not the case just accept it at face value.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 12:08 AM
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To become a teacher though, don't you need several other degrees? Which means more schooling? Sounds like you don't really have a plan. He may be frustrated that you're waiting for the perfect opportunity to fall into your lap. Your degree may appear to him to be an impractical waste.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 06:14 PM
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There is ample research that smoking weed while your brain is still developing (under the age of 25) may disrupt that development. http://www.apa.org/monitor/2015/11/marijuana-brain.aspx If OP isn't aware of that, she should consider it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 02:51 AM
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Not only do you feel disrespected, but you no longer respect him. That seems like a deal breaker in and of itself. If it was going to get better, you would've seen progress by now. You need to accept that the man he is today, he will also be next year.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 07:12 PM
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Two weeks to make a habit. You just do it, because it doesn't get easier, so you have to grow to match that which is required of you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 01:27 PM
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