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Willbo/r/seduction23/03/18 10:02 PM
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Willbo/r/seduction07/04/18 06:49 PM
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Yep this lol. I dated a Japanese ABG that was very good looking, but both mentally and financially taxing. The world really does revolve around them, these women get treated like princesses and you have to constantly assert that you are the king. I'm talkin' like, call off of work just because she wants to try a new flavor drink at her favorite cafe type shit. Every weekend drive her 8 hours away to see an event, go to the beach, go do this and that. Stay up until 2 am arguing because someone me…
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:52 PM
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Texting is ass. It's only 255 characters, it's a small ass keyboard and screen, you have to type with your thumbs. Every time you text someone they imagine you hunched over a tiny keyboard and screen. It minimizes what you have to say and your presence, it makes you look like ass. The most meaningful text message you can get is to talk on the phone or to meet up in person, so just do that instead. What's valuable is safety, meaning, and validation. Can you accurately do that in 255 characters or…
/r/seduction18/10/25 04:43 AM
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Crabs in a bucket. Some people are at ground zero, at the bottom of a bucket, still understanding themselves, finding their way in the world, clawing at any bit of leverage. They are on those initial phases of inner game, addressing their own concerns of fear, uncertainty, and doubt that has pervaded their lives to a point they're not even aware of it. During their day to day they take on coping mechanisms to settle this and feel a sense of control, but when they get drunk and out into the world…
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:34 PM
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Not entirely true. You can have the right lure in the wrong lake. For example, if you have extreme charisma but hang out at McDonalds, you probably won't find a hookup... but you'll definitely meet tons of women that like cheeseburgers 😂
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:31 PM
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In Thinking, Fast & Slow, the author defines two types of thinking: System 1 - fast, automatic, a heuristics-based intuitive system that is very error prone. This is what you might consider the primal side. System 2 - slow, deliberate, logical system of thought used for math, analysis, and decision making. This is the "intellect" side. Everyone spends varying amounts of time in each system of thought, using these functions to get through everyday life. Stimulus always has to go through System 1 …
/r/seduction15/03/24 07:54 PM
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The opposite of an engineer is a salesman, there's so much we can learn from them. Try to spend time with good salesmen that value your analytical nature, or if you're lucky, a good presales engineer that can show you the ropes. Be emotional with everyone in your free time This is the right idea, but I want to tweak the vocabulary. Share ideas you care about with everyone. Engineers are so detached from emotions they hear "Be emotional" and start thinking they should cry on people's shoulder, do…
/r/seduction01/02/24 02:49 AM
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Attraction is constantly fleeting, like all other emotions. The only problem is that her attraction fleeted before yours (probably due to a demanding career, constantly traveling, intense stimuli/obligations in life). You need to find something to spend your emotional energy on, something you find meaningful that will benefit you in the long run.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:45 PM
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Yeah I should clarify it's an emotional response done subconsciously in attempt to get an emotional reply back. It's not because I'm some incel on here who believes women's brains are too tiny to realize what they're doing. Naturally most men will reply subconsciously too, either taking offense to her comment or being intimidated by it, but when you become aware of it, you're less likely to fall into your own traps. The most appropriate emotional response is humor, and agreeing and amplifying is…
/r/seduction10/12/18 09:01 PM
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Although your intentions are good, she won't see through anything you have to say right now and you're better off waiting for her to cool down. You have very little to gain and a lot more to lose since you work together. At most, leave a small chocolate on her desk and pursue other efforts.
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:05 PM
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Super quiet girls aren't comfortable getting asked out so as soon as you asked her, it became a crucial moment for her, she perceived a threat to her character and became nervous, fight or flight kicks in, and she tried to overthink an answer rather than saying yes or no. This is when she's most dangerous and it's best to leave them alone so they realize you're not a threat. When you texted her again and tried to tease her, it only confirmed her suspicions that you were a threat (ah great now th…
/r/seduction10/12/18 07:14 PM
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A lot of times women aren't even aware when they're doing it, so it can be hard to tell. Either way, your response should be the same: agree and amplify. If she is giving a shit test, you will pass. If she is being rude, she will either laugh along with you or escalate her anger and you can call her out on it.
/r/seduction10/12/18 06:26 PM
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This is very nice of you to take her comfort into close consideration. Some people are just not comfortable with intimacy. Maybe they weren't exposed to hugs and kisses with their parents, maybe they're not comfortable feeling vulnerable, for whatever reason it takes more time for them to open up. All you can do is take it slow, communicate well, and demonstrate that she can be comfortable around you. There will eventually come a limit though. There will come a time when you have to be assertive…
/r/seduction29/11/18 11:22 PM
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Damn glad you're still alive. It's easy to forget everything else going on when you're focused on a woman, but there's so many sketchy people at clubs hoping to take advantage of drunk people.
/r/seduction12/10/18 10:10 PM
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Dressing nice as a guy is easy compared to what women go through. Just wear a shirt with a collar that fits well and groom your hair/face. That alone and you'll stand out from other guys.
/r/seduction23/09/18 07:16 PM
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I struggle with this too and have tried everything short of a cocaine habit. Trying to entertain women and keep them interested while being an introvert is one of the hardest things ever! Here are a few things that have helped me: Reading more books. I've noticed that when I don't read for months on end and just listen to my inner dialogue, I find it hard to verbalize my thoughts and figure out the correct vocabulary of what I want to say. Reading increases your vocabulary and trains your commun…
/r/seduction25/06/18 08:17 PM
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How to draw an owl. This article gives low effort, excessively vague advice that is practically useless.
/r/seduction18/06/18 05:48 PM
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For anyone interested, a translated repost of it can be found on this forum here: Link.
/r/seduction13/06/18 06:23 PM
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If you can't upload it, can you tell us the title of it?
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:32 PM
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If you're browsing this sub, I'm assuming you want to build sexual relationships with women and have them value you. Resenting them is only going to do the opposite, but trying to understand them will help. Women are people just like you, they just grew up with different conditions and roles. Place yourself in their shoes and try to understand why they would be attracted to a guy and you can be that guy. If you were a girl would you be attracted to an manboy who thinks all women are useless cunt…
/r/seduction30/05/18 10:12 PM
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You think those toxic thoughts because you're frustrated things haven't gone well, despite your efforts, and you're becoming disgruntled with women. I get it. But even if those thoughts were true, they aren't going to help you in anyway, they just distance you further from women and make you more miserable. You're free to have your own opinion, as toxic as I think they are, but don't expect anything from women if you only resent them. You can indulge in misery and die a lonely life from the stre…
/r/seduction30/05/18 06:18 PM
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Hey man, the other advice you got here wasn't great so I just wanted to pipe in. You're very lucky to get feedback from her so that you can improve your game with the next girl: "You didn't make any moves" When a woman tells you this, it means you didn't escalate fast enough. From the first moment you meet a girl, sexual attraction is dwindling so you have to keep her interested. You do this by constantly escalating with her and it usually looks like this: greeting > small talk > flirting > deep…
/r/seduction30/05/18 05:52 PM
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You could go halfway, add her on social media, say it was nice running into her, and see where it goes from there. Resisting thoughts requires attentive effort and will only make you think about her more, especially when you're not paying attention. If you really want to stop the thoughts from nagging you, reduce their power by dedicating 15 minutes or so for just thinking about her, the feelings she made you feel, the dreams you had, the sensations you felt in your body. Live it out in your hea…
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:59 PM
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Breaking it down into sexual, emotional, and logical connections actually makes a lot of sense... but it's also making me realize I'm fucked as a guy working in tech.
/r/seduction15/05/18 11:27 PM
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Do yourself a favor and escalate as fast as possible. The girls that turn you down are looking for a relationship and would only have wasted your time. The girls who are looking to hookup want you to escalate as fast as possible and the longer you wait, the harder it becomes. Trust me dude, I fucked up on this. One of my coworkers hinted that she wanted to hook up but didn't want a relationship. I knew that it would fuck up my work life so I just kept her as an office flirt. Now that she's left …
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:58 PM
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I guess I shouldn't tell ya that I also needa pinch a log...
/r/seduction30/04/18 10:13 PM
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Hmm same, I've never really brought this to my attention. Maybe I'll have better results solo or with no more than 2 friends along. Conversely, I don't think I'd be comfortable succeeding with a girl in front of my group of friends either... I know they would put the spotlight on me and be like "Ooooh look at Willbo!" They hooked up another friend of mine and wouldn't shut the fuck up about it the entire night "See look at [friend] he's getting along with her so well, he's no pussy, never say I …
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:05 AM
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There's entire escalation ladders that people have made as a checkpoint list, but it's just about building it up and incrementally making it sexual so she says comfortable. You should already be making a lot of eye contact and getting into deeper conversations, but you can start playfully touching her on her shoulder or knee, progressing to sexual conversations, and start touching her more intimately (neck, waist, thighs, etc). If she doesn't back away you have the greenlight to kiss her, and it…
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:46 PM
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Every action you do doesn't have to have the sole intention of getting laid. Women will see your desperation and you will close off so many options with a one-track mind. Bringing her to his kickball event would allow them to build rapport with each other and have fun. Isn't that the point in all of this? From there the option is his, he can still bring her back to his place.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:45 PM
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He's placing them on a pedestal and needs to improve his own self esteem. Unfortunately there's not much you can do to help him in that regard because it's his own personal journey. All you can do is lead him to situations where he can improve himself such as gatherings where he's around women (even if platonic), having a shared hobby where you accomplish goals, or any activity where he improves his self image.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:36 PM
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I agree, but I think leaving it ambiguous such as "sometime" doesn't show initiative and won't get great results. OP should invite her to something he's already planning on going to, his kickball philanthropy would have been good. "Hey I'm playing a kickball charity at [date] you should come"
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:26 PM
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I started establishing understandings of social value. I started noticing patterns of socially successful people and how they had something other people valued (or at least appeared to). The lucky ones had beautiful faces, beautiful bodies, dressed well, some had confident personalities, prestige, money, interesting hobbies, etc, and I had none of that so I had to work fucking hard. It turns out "being yourself" is shit advice, nobody is going to inherently value you unless you invest in yoursel…
/r/seduction16/04/18 06:06 PM
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Tbh it's a little harder for you since most people will be drinking/smoking and it's a good social activity to break the ice. However you should maintain your own values and can just carry around a soda. Hardest part to be social will be early on when everyone is still sober so conversations are usually tame and introductory. What school do you go to? How's the party scene there? Etc. Once everyone gets a little drunk you can bring out more outrageous topics and get a little wild. Ya ever go dow…
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:48 PM
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I agree. Pursuing women is primarily an emotional endeavor, not a logical one. You can spend thousands of hours crafting the perfect pickup line, however it's success will still rely upon your tone and emotional context. This is why innergame and real world experience is so important.
/r/seduction12/04/18 09:42 PM
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Really good points, especially about letting my friends know my plans. They're good friends, they will try to wingman and help out, but sometimes it backfires and makes it awkward. Example: sitting on a lawn with a girl at 3am when a friend brought a blanket for us. He was saying "You both should really share the blanket" but she resisted, later I learned because she thought it was too romantic and boyfriend-like. I also like the activities you listed out, good tips on keeping it sexual while in…
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:38 PM
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I agree, this post tells us how a woman would LOGICALLY approve a partner when in reality, a relationship is primarily an EMOTIONAL pursuit. It's still has good information on how to align with a woman's logic which is still important, but it's not entirely accurate. If you align with a woman's logic, she will consider you a friend that she can be comfortable with, but she will not have any emotional connection or compelling reason to have sex with you.
/r/seduction03/04/18 05:31 PM
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Yep, in the spirit of your comment I will list quick ways to be attractive: Get plastic surgery Pay for a personal wardrobe stylist Film a sex tape with an A-list celebrity Win the lotto Become a drug lord of sex drugs Brainwash a cult following Those are probably the quickest ways of being attractive, but I'm betting you aren't willing to make those sacrifices.
/r/seduction19/03/18 10:05 PM
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Hmm I'm in the same boat as well and I'm also a recent grad with a 9-5 schedule. I used to leave work and would stay busy with homework, but now I struggle to keep myself busy after work and usually end up smoking bricks of weed. I've noticed that these periods of feeling stuck usually mean a big change is on the horizon. Something in your life is preventing you from feeling fulfilled and you aren't making as much progress as you would like. Do you have a goal that isn't making much progress, or…
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:54 AM
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Good FR. That dude who let you get his girl's number and smoke you out was a true brother. Best of luck.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:43 PM
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It doesn't matter man. This sub is here to share techniques to build confidence and improve yourself, not get tangled up in your own insecurities. Stop fueling your insecurities with thought and they will die.
/r/seduction03/03/18 08:02 AM
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She has the power to walk away or say "no" at any point in the conversation, so until you reach that point (or she is unable to) don't even consider it a worry. People are forgiving, so keep doing you, say what you want to say, and if you step on a few toes it's easy to apologize or joke it off.
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:00 AM
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Hmm if it's been 2 weeks I think you need to demonstrate value without seeming desperate. Invite her out to somewhere fun you're already planning on going. "Hey I'm having a game of ultimate frisbee with my friends, would you like to join?" "Hey I got tickets to X show, would you like to go?" etc.
/r/seduction27/02/18 12:30 AM
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Women don't like to think of themselves as a slut, they would rather fuck a guy that is persistent than a nice easy going guy because that relinquishes the burden of judgement. Usually when they say they're not going to make it easy for you to fuck them, your odds of fucking are higher because they've already thought it over and are just looking for justification that they're not a slut.
/r/seduction26/02/18 11:28 PM
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Asking them to take charge rarely ever works in your favor. If you are going to text her again, text her "Since you're indecisive, lets go do X at Y date and time."
/r/seduction26/02/18 11:17 PM
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This is because you equate women with success and happiness way too much. You may think you hide it well, and you may not even be aware of it, but women are experts in seeing right through the bullshit and analyzing your emotional disposition. From now on, every time you talk about yourself in a bad way or have a negative thought, it goes right out the fucking window and you replace it with something good about yourself. If you can't come up with a good thought about yourself within 10 seconds, …
/r/seduction01/02/18 10:54 PM
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Get creative with topics that allow you to touch her. One of my good friends pulls in ladies because he's heavily into MMA. Practicing that hobby alone will pull in women, but once he brings MMA up, he will talk about the different pressure points on the body and it gives him an excuse to touch them. He will start explaining pressure points on the arm while demonstrating them on her, then advance to places on the neck and face to get them comfortable with intimate touch. It's also important to u…
/r/seduction16/01/18 11:55 PM
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Whenever you feel this sadness, use it as fuel to reach happiness. If being single makes you unhappy, do activities that help you meet women. Work out, go out and be social, develop a hobby, make money, or anything else that you think would attract a woman. If you do this every time you're sad, you will become a very attractive person.
/r/seduction14/12/17 12:36 AM
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You can't expect people to be interested when you don't know how to make yourself interested, and when you view yourself as a lonely stick in the mud. Work on your inner game, love yourself, be in an interested and excited mindset, and your outer game will be much much easier.
/r/seduction02/09/17 11:50 PM
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As a suggestion, tell her you're going to cook her homemade lasagna and watch a movie. Bitches love lasagna.
/r/seduction25/08/17 06:46 AM
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Easiest place to start a conversation with a random person are at work, school, parties, festivals, clubs/bars, but even outside of that people are willing to have a conversation depending on how you break the ice and portray yourself. Obviously don't go talking to a girl that has headphones on or is reading a book, but a simple smile and hello goes a long way.
/r/seduction15/03/17 04:34 AM
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Alcohol.
/r/seduction15/03/17 03:57 AM
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Just from the first 5 words I know that you're not approaching this correctly. Because of her I've changed She didn't do jack shit, it was all you buddy. You need to stop placing her on a pedestal and start creating your own value. Women don't like needy leeches that suck up to them, they like providers that make their life better. If I can detect this over the internet, she's definitely going to detect this in person and realize you never changed. You're not going to like what I have to say, bu…
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:41 PM
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This comment speaks truth. You'll always want to be validated, it's an innate human need. The only thing you can change is where your validation comes from. Meditation helps with this, but I feel self-affirmation helps the best. Everyday you should set aside some time to remind yourself that you're great and to actually feel it. Raise your arms above your head, put on a big smile, and repeat a mantra such as "I am fucking awesome." This creates validation for yourself and you'll seek it less fro…
/r/seduction18/12/16 11:12 PM
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I think it also depends on many other factors too though, such as your personality and tolerance.
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:08 PM
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I get older, they stay the same age.
/r/seduction24/09/15 08:10 PM
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Hmm good question. I think it relies upon learning yourself and demonstrating your worth. Explore your interests and spend time doing something you love. Build skills and be fucking great at something, whatever it is. It's not really about ignoring girls, but becoming so content with yourself that you don't look to others for satisfaction. Instead of asking others for happiness, find happiness in yourself and people will ask you.
/r/seduction08/09/15 06:21 AM
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I think it helps when you define what creepy/desperate behavior actually is. I've spent a lot of time thinking about this, and I think it all depends if she believes the behavior provides for her or deducts from her. If you say something with the sole intention of getting in her pants, she will probably believe it's creepy because it's a needy act. You are asking her for sex and deducting from her instead of providing. However, if she believes you are valuable and that you can improve her life i…
/r/seduction21/08/15 09:55 PM
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I agree. It's like going to the supermarket for apples and buying ones that show signs of rotting in the hopes that they're edible. There's no point in wasting time on this stranger when there's plenty of other women who are open to the idea of a simple date.
/r/seduction21/04/15 09:34 PM
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Congrats and happy New Year. Hopefully your year will be abundant with similar experiences.
/r/seduction01/01/15 08:33 AM
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Hey, it's better than the backseat.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:03 AM
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Where do you bring them? I live with my parents and share a similar issue.
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:36 AM
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They forgot number 9, snort a line of coke.
/r/seduction08/09/14 08:04 AM
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It reminds me of The Most Dangerous Game, a story where a hunter was so good at hunting animals that he got bored and started hunting humans instead. As a serious answer, I think that now that you have the width and range, you should go for depth. Try to build deeper relationships instead of jumping over to the next one. Now that you have the experience, you should know what you want and what you don't want. Change your arena. Instead of spitting game at bars or clubs, develop hobbies and try to…
/r/seduction23/06/14 08:06 PM
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Turn gay.
/r/seduction23/06/14 07:25 PM
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How I imagined OP.
/r/seduction06/04/14 08:33 AM
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NICE BUTT YOU GOT THERE. DO YOU WIPE IT?
/r/seduction01/04/14 12:06 AM
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I don't understand why coworkers and neighbors go down. Can anyone propose an explanation?
/r/seduction01/07/13 06:20 AM
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Great post. I've always wondered how to keep the mystery alive while staying relevant. I've experienced the flip side of the coin when I was younger and had a girlfriend who loved to be mysterious (she must have read it in her mom's Cosmopolitan or some shit.) She was able to keep me wondering and I wished to see how deep the rabbit hole went. Long story short, I grew tired and realized that the relationship was going nowhere. The hotdog I was chasing had a string on it, and I would never get it…
/r/seduction21/06/13 08:24 PM
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Sherman Oaks has a number of cafes and bars, but is always a short drive away from downtown, SM, and Malibu. I haven't heard anything bad about the women except for "valley girl" but hey, ditzy girls are easy game!
/r/seduction12/05/13 06:55 AM
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Although I've never lived directly in Los Angeles, the girls have been described as snobby and pretentious. I would strongly recommend that you avoid Hollywood due to this. I think your best bet would be to move out a little north, possibly around Sherman Oaks.
/r/seduction12/05/13 06:19 AM
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