WillfulGrapefruit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	For a bisexual woman, do men have low sexual market value?		WillfulGrapefruit	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 03:23 AM

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1	Gifting a massage and saying the therapist has to be a certain gender What I'm getting from a lot of these comments is that too many people sexualize massage therapists and...ffs people, please don't. It's just a job. They wanna go to work, do their job, get paid, and go home. Stop making shit weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 08:49 PM
1	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? Together 18 years, married 14, mid-late 30s. I feel awful for saying this, but I've never understood the "relationships take a lot of work" maxim. We just developed into really good communicators and grew together as we got older, rather than apart. We've had stressors in our lives, but that's been external to our relationship, never caused by it...and our relationship helped to hold us together during hard times, rather than being a liability. Honestly, I think a lot of it was just luck and nat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 11:35 PM
19	Your partner should be your best friend. Everything else is just details. It's true. That's why bisexuals can't have any close friends. We tried, but we kept trying to fuck them when no one was looking. It kept getting so awkward...we had to have a whole meeting about it. There was a special edition of our monthly newsletter and everything. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 09:31 PM
2	Ladies, how would you feel if a guy you were dating ended up giving you his grandmother's engagement/wedding band as a purposal? I've always found "surprise" proposals incredibly weird. Getting married is something two people need to actually discuss. It's not a decision that should be sprung on someone out of the blue...in a situation that gives them only a handful of seconds to decide. I feel similarly about engagement rings. Unless you know someone SO well that you know for certain what they want, why leave that up to chance? It's too much pressure to expect someone to get that perfect... especially for something they'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 10:18 AM
30	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior Straight people, amirite? More bisexual men for the rest of us. Cowards. :P	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 12:59 AM
11	Why do some women want an equal relationship but a dominating man in bed? They're two completely different things. I'm an empathetic person. I cry at the drop off a hat at sappy commercials, I feel like a piece of shit if I hurt someone's feelings, I have to fight back tears if a loved one is crying. Buuuut, I enjoy topping for degradation play and consider emotional sadism to be part of my toppy toolbox for people who are into receiving that. The one has nothing to do with the other. There are probably better subreddits to be asking this question in. It's a good ques…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 06:36 AM
7	What is the worst thing about being a woman? Biggest one that comes to mind is getting catcalled and receiving sexual comments from adult men starting at a really young age. It's upsettingly common. The most I've been catcalled and had sexual comments made at me in my entire life was between 10-16 years old. To clarify for the Devil's Advocates, I was not an overly "developed" child or anything like that. I looked like a child. I wore what were very obviously children's clothes. If men want to know why a lot of women have a gut instinct ki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 12:17 PM
1	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts This sounds too much like a logical fallacy to me..."I feel it, so it must be true.". Or, in this case, "I feel icky about women who have what I consider to be too many sexual partners. Therefore those women are icky.". I've absolutely met people who had a lot of sex because they were working through some trauma. But I've also met people who have lots of sex because...it feels...good? And they have a great relationship with themselves, their body, and other people. I know it fits into the narrat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 07:38 PM
1	Why would people attracted to the Red Pill philosophy listen to you when you claim it doesn't work? I think the reason women might offer cookie cutter advice is either: they don't know the person well enough to give them specific advice, or they DO know them well enough...but are concerned about being too direct and therefore hurtful. If you ask a friend for advice on a topic like this, you'll get more honest responses if you give them permission to hurt your feelings with their honesty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 03:18 PM
1	What is the male equivalent of daily sexual harassment as a child? I wonder if you've hit on something there. Women tend to underestimate others' sexual interest in them and men tend to overestimate. I wonder if it's because each group's barometers are broken. Women receive a lot of (often unwanted) attention. So when someone is trying to show interest in a respectful but subtle way, it sometimes doesn't register as interest for women. They're just used to people generally being kinder to them. Similarly, men are often given very little attention (if at all), s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:25 PM
1	Women of Reddit. Have you ever agreed to a date or gave a guy your number from cold approach? No, but only because most of the people I've been approached by have been excellent at gauging body language and interest. Someone will cold approach/flirt, I'm friendly but not flirting back, the conversation wraps up, and they move on. I've always been shit at picking up on flirting, though. Usually a friend who was with me will say, "You know he/she was flirting with you/checking you out, right?"...and I always insist, "No no, they were just being nice!". 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 04:00 PM
1	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating "According to one study that assessed 720 couples, the chances of a woman being taller than her partner was low." On average, most men are taller than most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 04:12 PM
1	Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity Fraud Canadian Children's Rights Council (established 1991) isn't a children's rights organisation, it's a men's rights organisation appropriating the discourse of children's rights. They use the same acronym as the Canadian Coalition for the Rights of Children (established 1989) to confuse people between the two and add an air of legitimacy, since the original group was already established and respected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 02:53 PM
1	CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to them rolls eyes in vers	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 01:47 AM
4	Is the overall resistance towards the n count, promiscuity, casual sex, etc. argument due to the hypocrisy for saying it’s ok for men to do, just not women? Or is it that you believe these things really are good things to pursue and/or have no negative consequences? I said it in a different thread, but a lot of people in these comments seem to have a very narrow idea of what a person who's had "lots" of sexual partners is like...and it's fucking weird. I don't know if it's projection, bitterness, popular media, or if the people in your friend group are in desperate need of therapy. For those who think that there's no conceivable way to have a healthy and robust sex life outside of a committed relationship...why? Is because you pursued sex in an unhealthy wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 01:30 PM
17	are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pill Reading these comments, a lot of people here seem to have a very narrow idea of what a person who's had "lots" of sexual partners is like...and it's fucking weird. I don't know if it's projection, bitterness, popular media, or if the people in your friend group are in desperate need of therapy...but, fucking hell y'all...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 01:42 PM
5	Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of men I think you're reading a lot into this story. Someone "masquerading as conservative sexually"? Maybe she didn't enjoy the threesome, maybe she regrets it, maybe she's changed and not looking for that kind of thing anymore. Your take is a little too dramatic and conspiratorial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 07:16 AM
1	What is it about erotica that makes you gravitate towards it vs other kinds of porn? I don't watch porn or read erotica. The acting in porn is too terrible. The amount of time I have to waste before I find something half decent is crazy. The most I can tolerate are short clips and gifs so I don't have to use 90% of my brain power trying to ignore the terrible acting or dialogue or fake noises. My imagination is way better. The participants aren't acting, it's entirely customizable, it can ignore the laws of physics and biology, and has an unlimited budget.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 03:07 AM
2	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? Yes, this is bigotry and biphobia. Definitionally it is. If that fact makes them feel some sort of way, that's something for them to sort out on their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 05:16 PM
1	If "men want only sex" why do you then shame them for paying for it and not getting in relationships? I think that the sorts of people who shame others about paying for sex do so because they believe that sex work is shameful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 09:21 PM
2	Imagine your most controversial reddit account, posts and comments become publicly linked to you. How would your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend react, as well as friends and family? Would you lose any relationships? I wouldn't lose any friends or family, but it would be awkward if they knew I was giving advice on the BDSM subreddits since I sometimes give real-life examples. I've deleted a lot of those out of paranoia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:02 PM
4	When people say they're not monogamous, what do they mean? People who are non-monogamous are describing their current relationship style. People can be non-monogamous whether they're currently seeing more than one person at the same time or not. Calling themselves non-monogamous in this situation just means that they're open to additional partners. People can go from monogamous to non or the other way around. Some people feel that they're incapable of monogamy, some people feel they're incapable of non-monogamy. Some people switch or are kinda fluid abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 08:15 PM
25	if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship I'm sure there are straight people out there with no friends of the opposite gender who are in relationships. But I agree that the odds of a healthy, romantic relationship are better if you know how to value the opposite sex outside of a romantic context. I think seeing the humanity in people (empathy) is important for relationships beyond the surface level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 05:44 PM
0	What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"? 1) I can only speak to FWB material because hookups seem like too much energy for an unknown. Looks aren't a good predictor of satisfying sex. FWB qualities: Actively discusses and is knowledgeable about safer sex practices. Regular testing. Open about number of partners, what protection is used with each. Open about whether or not they engage in hook-ups and what protection they use. Collaborative about sex. Experimental. Communicative. Some overlaps in kinks. Political alignment. Hygiene. Empa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 07:43 PM
6	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) I joined this sub for entertainment. It's wild what people believe. I oscillate between finding it hilarious and finding it depressing. If I had to get into dating again, I'd have to either give up this sub or give up dating. Get off the internet, go outside, meet people irl. It'll be okay. This sub will continue being a garbage fire just fine while you're gone. And you'll be better off without it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 04:05 PM
6	Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom? Depends on the number and ages of the kids. If we're talking teenagers, they're almost completely self sufficient and 100% of the housework should go to the stay at home parent. If we're talking very young children who are still nursing, unless the working parent is in the minority of highly stressful jobs or unusually long work weeks, the stay at home parent has the more stressful and time consuming job and the household labour should adjust accordingly. I've been helping a friend of mine and m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 06:24 AM
6	Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing? Well put. 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 04:51 AM
2	Q4women: You’re out with a male friend and your purse gets snatched in a mall, do you expect him to chase after the thief? Agreed. Sounds like a dumb way to die for nothing important. I don't carry cash, credit cards are insured against theft and I can cancel them. The id is a pain in the ass but not worth getting stabbed over. I also wear cross body bags for this reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 03:26 AM
14	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Abortion is healthcare. Opinions to the contrary are either religious zealotry or anti-science drivel. Grow up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 04:41 PM
6	Is it true that deep down men are seeking wholesome relationships while women are looking for unpredictable and drama-filled relationships? Yup, I married young too. Not religious, just found my best friend. Why would I want drama in my own personal life? That's what movies and Reddit are for. :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 04:50 PM
75	Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from men I already did. Aged into my 30s (so, you know, basically a withered crone), got a gay-ass haircut, dyed it green, and it's like I'm invisible. chef's kiss Would recommend. ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 07:02 AM
3	Women of PPD. How many of you are single? 35F, married for 14 years. If my husband dies before me (even if that day is tomorrow), I'm defaulting to cat lady because dating looks like such a goddamn nightmare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 01:44 AM
3	Are men just not as attractive as women? Every time I see an “attractive man” I just see an average dude. Bisexual woman here. Women catch my eye more often than men, but I'd consider my attraction between men and women to be pretty well split down the center. The only thing I can think of is that, on average, women tend to put more effort into their appearance and also express themselves more with their presentation. Plus, women's clothes have a lot more options and allow them more range of expression. Since my sexual attraction is heavily dependent on personality/character, I get a much better sen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 02:27 PM
1	What do small penis guys do? Have the straights not heard of fisting yet? In all seriousness, "what do small penis guys do?". They have a more extensive sexual repertoire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 03:35 PM
1	What is the minimum standard for a man’s body to be attractive? This probably isn't the answer you want, because it requires context and nuance...so it's squishy and nebulous...but here goes... I'm often aesthetically attracted to different men. Their body is pleasing to the eye or their style is interesting or maybe something I can't quite put my finger on. I have a bit of a wide range for different body-types. Sexual attraction comes later. I've sometimes seen someone from across the room at a party, found them aesthetically pleasing, talked to them later,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 02:01 PM
8	People who say men aren't vulnerable/don't open up emotionally/aren't as good at expressing/processing their emotions: what are examples of what this would actually look like? My husband (40M) and I (35F) have been married for 15 years. We've been through a lot together. Here's some examples of my husband being vulnerable, opening up, and expressing emotions: -Venting to me about a crappy day he had at work. -Smooching me on the top of the head when he passes by me when I'm working (I work from home). -Spooning (either big or little spoon). -Expressing that he's feeling self conscious about his appearance (like, if we're getting ready to go out somewhere) -Crying at s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 06:54 PM
1	For people who have partaken in threesomes/foursomes; would you date someone who has also had that experience in their past? I've had 3/4/5somes and I would have them again if the circumstances were right. It would be weird and hypocritical if I made it a disqualifying factor in dating someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 11:32 PM
19	Is the only reason to get married now is to procreate? Thank you for this much more reasonable reply. A lot of the other ones are...overly dramatic, to say the least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 11:10 AM
5	What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers? I mean, I know a guy who's on his 4th wife. I wonder if there's enough people like that to skew the stats...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 01:41 PM
1	Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result? I like this explanation a lot and it was an angle I hadn't considered. I prefer tight over baggy so that I don't get clothes caught in the machines. I also generally find it physically more comfortable in tight vs baggy clothing. I wear tank tops or just a sports bra because I like seeing my muscles flex when I'm lifting. I like how I look. I dress that way so I can catch myself in the mirror and go, "goddamn!" and maybe do a little flex for myself. Also, my workout gear is my workout gear. I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 06:04 AM
2	What kinks are a dealbreaker for you? Fwiw sounding isn't inherently a dominant act. It's not supposed to hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. I don't have the anatomy to describe what it feels like for someone with a penis, but I've been told it feels like a handjob coming from inside your dick. For anyone out there keen to give it a whirl, please do your research first since you can obviously harm yourself or someone else by doing it wrong. The stakes are higher if the person has a vulva since the urethra is much shorter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:00 AM
6	If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here? This! Until a few months ago, I didn't even know what red pill was. I came across an offhand mention of it on Reddit. Honestly, at first I thought it was satire. I found this group and have been mostly watching from the sidelines since. So, like, anthropology kinda?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 04:27 PM
1	Thoughts on the Gender Spend Gap? Split the bill. Anything other than that would weird me out in the beginning. Later it could be "you pay this time, I pay next time".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 04:56 AM
1	Ladies, which would you rather die than date? Hyperbolic answer: If my husband died tomorrow, I'm just gonna be a goddamn spinster. Fuck dating; y'all sound exhausting. Real answer: I'd rather date a short guy. I've dated/fucked guys the same height or barely taller than me (5'5"). Made no difference to anything important. Been with shorter guys who fucked better than the tall ones. Been with shorter guys who could've put the taller ones through a wall. Doesn't matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 04:37 AM
20	Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill? Woof. That's a hard no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/21 03:28 AM
4	Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again? So far, so good. Haven't done anything I wouldn't do again. I haven't had a partner request something I wasn't at least curious about to begin with...though that might just be lucking out in the alignment department.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 05:21 AM
6	[Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do? Everyone goes to goddamn (free, quality) therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/21 11:51 PM
2	What birth control method do you use? Yup, he volunteered. He's pragmatic like that since a permanent solution was our ideal scenario. Much less risk than the equivalent surgery for me. Our family doctor warned us that we might get pushback, but we went for it anyway. We live in a large liberal city so I'm not sure if the odds were in our favour or we just lucked out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:04 AM
–	Q4W: have potential partners/partners asked for your body count? I've never asked or been asked. Seems gauche. Asking seems to correlate with either age (young), insecurity, social conservatism, or sex negativity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 09:58 PM
2	What birth control method do you use? I was on the pill for a long time. Thankfully, no ill effects. Plus I loved being able to have 4 periods a year instead of 12. Husband got a vasectomy in his early 20s while we were married since neither of us want children. I told him if we both miraculously changed our minds somehow, we're adopting because I'm not going through pregnancy. If it wasn't so invasive, I'd just remove my uterus. It'd be nice to donate it to someone who wants one. All it's doing now is taking up space and giving me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 06:13 PM
8	What birth control method do you use? That's so gross, I'm sorry that happened. I understand a doctor being hesitant and being concerned that the patient may regret the procedure later. But there's also something really gross and patronising about telling a patient that they are incapable of making decisions about their own body in this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 06:04 PM
2	Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts? 1) I'm sure there's some kind of cutoff point between reasonable and ludicrous, but I have a hard time nailing down where that is, exactly. I think you're right in that context matters more. If someone has been in as monogamous LTR most of their adult life, a low count makes sense. If someone's a sex worker, a higher count makes sense. I don't much care about either situation. 2) 5-10 years ago someone with a higher count would have made me feel insecure. Now I don't have any strong feelings abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 02:03 PM
2	Q4W: How would you feel if you saw your male love interest/boyfriend/husband crying If I saw my husband crying I would be concerned, ask him what's wrong, and want to comfort him. Crying is normal. Excessive crying is normal if there are underlying issues that may require therapy. In either case, if you're romantically involved and emotionally intimate with someone...them reacting negatively to seeing you crying is a huge red flag and you may want to raise the bar in your expectations of a partner. You will have a much better time with someone who sees your humanity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 01:45 PM
15	Between these 2 types of men, which type do women find more attractive? A cold-blooded, serious, and narcissistic person or an empathetic, smart, and amiable person? Easy answer. Yeah, I'm picking #2 for both fucking or dating. #1 sounds like a boring lover and an unempathetic partner. Meh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 02:06 PM
24	"Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein? It's creepy. If you're a guy and having trouble understanding why, imagine a guy saying it to you and see if it still feels innocent and cutesy. You're probably not going to giggle and blush appreciatively at that. General PSA: Please don't initiate flirting with people at their jobs. They're paid to be nice to you. If you're very confident they're flirting with you, just proceed with some caution. It's also a good general rule not to flirt with someone who can't leave (someone at their job, in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 03:35 PM
1	Is it safe to assume that single women in their thirties haven't had their brains warped by porn? Lol, my (35f) brain was warped long before I found porn. I think a problem people run into with porn is using it as a manual rather than a fantasy...when people assume everyone is into x, y, or z because they've seen it so much in porn. Jfc, just talk to your partner! You're already doing adult things, you can at least have a adult conversation. The upside of porn is that it can help people explore their sexuality, desires, and fantasies...which can help start conversations with their partner or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 02:09 PM
1	Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with? Nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 02:33 AM
2	Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates? I've always found the idea of one person paying for both meals incredibly weird. Like, this is the get-to-know-ya phase. Why wouldn't we split the bill? I don't know you. The only exception I can think of is if you're actively dating, then maybe you're taking turns who's paying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/21 03:20 PM
3	Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore? The belief that men should be hypersexual and want sex all the time or from whoever is fucking silly at best and damaging at worst. You're not alone in wanting an emotional connection before sex. You're really REALLY not. People's behaviour on the internet isn't the best place to gauge what's normal. People like to be performative about that shit and women have helped reinforce this idea too. When I was in university, I felt like a lot of people there were experiencing freedom for the first time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 01:53 PM
1	You shouldn't have sex with a person you don't want to have a kid with. I think I need OP to elaborate on what societal ills they think results from birth control. Otherwise it just sounds like a dull existence for the sake of dullness. Or sexual conservatism masquerading as concern. Thank fuck for modern medicine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:55 PM
6	Where does the line between "in shape/takes care of himself" and "gym bro/rat/etc" stand? Exactly this. It's about matching priorities and lifestyle. I appreciate the aesthetics of a gym rat bod, but I probably wouldn't want to date someone with the lifestyle required. If someone has to spend 3 hours a day at the gym most days, it would be challenging to have other hobbies and interests...not to mention the toll it might take on quality time together. The people who ruin it are the ones who don't realise what it takes to maintain a particular physique and then complain about that mai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 07:43 PM
1	The separation between the blue pill and the red pill is the belief in love Ah gotcha, thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:55 PM
3	The separation between the blue pill and the red pill is the belief in love Okay, I'm new to this...but isn't Blue Pill philosophy just looking at Red Pill philosophy and going "not that"? I've been with my husband for 17 years and, while we love eachother like crazy, there's no such thing as unconditional love. There are deal-breakers in all relationships. If I were to describe what I would be looking for if I weren't married...it wouldn't be this weird unconditional love soul mate nonsense. I just want to have a best friend who I can share my life with and fuck. But I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 03:27 AM
4	In your opinion what is the perfect male height? IDAF As far as sex, I'm 5'5" and I've been fucked well by men shorter than me and much taller than me. I've dated men shorter and taller than me. Height doesn't fix a lack of personality or a bad one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 03:12 AM
–	Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment? I have a loving husband at home and we've been together for 17 years. I think a lot of women learn to be distrustful of men pretty early. Most women I know started experiencing sexual street harassment starting at a very young age. I think there was actually a recent Two X Chromosomes post about it. I was surprised reading that thread because so many women had similar experiences to mine...that some of the creepiest and worst sexual street harassment they've received was when they were children …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 02:19 AM
1	Q4M Would you date a bi woman? Why or why not? The only thing I could guess they're inferring with that comment is that queer people tend to be more leftist. I feel like those odds are pretty good, but more recently this seems to be less of a predictor of politics now with organisations like Gays For Trump and several gay Republican groups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/21 09:28 PM
1	What is the male equivalent of makeup? I guess it depends what the makeup is for? If it's used as concealer for zits or dark circles under the eye, there's concealer marketed to men already. If it's decorative, I guess accessories?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/21 04:58 PM
9	Women’s interests and Hobbies. Current Hobbies: reading (sci-fi, fantasy), video games, running, weight lifting, coding, TTRPGs Things I've enjoyed that I would turn into a hobby if I had more time/money: rock climbing, scuba diving, reading (non-fiction), camping, canoeing/kayaking, surfing, taxidermy, leatherworking, archery, HEMA fighting, Jiu Jitsu, cooking/baking Fuck that second list is making me depressed now, lol. I feel like most people want a partner that has at least some overlapping interests...even if they're onl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 05:28 AM
5	For a bisexual woman, do men have low sexual market value? Ah, you know what, I may have been thinking of homicide statistics instead of assault statistics. Thanks for the correction!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 01:16 PM
1	Can men actually achieve the required standards or are they a little unrealistic? I feel like self improvement for the purpose of attracting a partner is best when you prioritise for yourself what you're looking for in a partner. Want someone interesting to talk to? Read up on the news, read fiction, watch compelling TV. Want someone fun to hang out with? Go out with your friends, try new things, volunteer, expand your social interactions. Want someone with a smoking hot body? Hit the gym like a motherfucker. There's no "Try This One Simple Trick!" for attracting all women. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 06:36 AM