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Good tip, thanks
/r/MensRights26/02/19 07:19 PM
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Oh boy...
/r/MensRights26/02/19 04:38 AM
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Agreed, this isn't evidence of a feminism culture anymore than it's evidence of a rape culture. These anecdotal stories are not evidence of inequality, but rather specific circumstances.
/r/MensRights26/02/19 01:36 AM
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Yeah, that was just an example of the biological changes trauma produces, for those who relegate psychiatric illness to "weakness." Someone getting stressed out is vastly different than systematic emotional abuse from the motivation of the abuser to the effects he or she produces. Emotional abuse is always present with phsycial abuse, because the person has to be controlled into staying in that situation. All abuse carries negative psychological effects, which has been well studied and in childr…
/r/MensRights25/02/19 06:47 PM
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A human one? The same insight a man can have into a woman's experience?
/r/MensRights25/02/19 04:55 PM
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It sounds like you don't agree emotional abuse exists because you don't understand how it works. Emotional abuse exists and works and there is plenty of scientific backing for this. A few examples are long term blood pressure changes after trauma, and structural changes to the brain after PTSD. I could go into the resulting psychiatric issues, but that should all be familiar. Additionally, anyone who has experienced trauma is at an increased risk, by quite a bit, for cancer, obesity, and autoimm…
/r/MensRights25/02/19 04:54 PM
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I think it's really not ok that men are not encouraged to have opinions about the experience of women. Part of progressing is learning how to talk to eachother and listening to other experiences. Other people, especially those you are close to, can have valuable insight regardless of gender. Part of strength is listening to things that make you uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights25/02/19 10:02 AM
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Ok so I think you should read the case a little more in depth. The guy had a history of suicide attempts and mental health issues. She urged him over and over, the most important person to him, to commit suicide, and I quote, "She admits in ... texts that she did nothing: She did not call the police or Mr. Roy's family" after hearing his last breaths during a phone call..." I'm not really sure how much clearer this can possibly be. She told him to commit suicide, and did nothing as he did it. To…
/r/MensRights25/02/19 08:26 AM
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I think this is a really great point, thank you for taking the time to write it! So I think the difference here is establishing operations. The definition of establishing operations is it's easier to get someone motivated to do something for food if they are hungry, as an example. It's probably going to be a lot harder to get someone to kill or rape someone else than what abuse entails, which is more insidious. It's easier to play off someone's low self esteem than convince them to rape someone,…
/r/MensRights25/02/19 05:26 AM
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Ok, so you obviously didn't read the long and dedicated reply I wrote to you below. That or you fundamentally did not understand it, so let me put all of it more plainly and try to use examples. So let's talk about training animals, going back to BF Skinner and the reason behaviorism exists. You can train animals, and humans, to do what you want if you are sadistic (fucked up) enough. An example, animals can be trained to sniff bombs and even walk off dangerous heights. I'm going to talk about t…
/r/MensRights25/02/19 04:14 AM
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I have to be this asshole, but you are butchering the use of the word nuance if you are using it to gloss over offensive terms. Nuance refers to suble shades, not incorrect word usage.
/r/MensRights25/02/19 03:17 AM
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Ehhh, I'm going to take the middle ground on this one. I think there's something to be said for learning how to stand up for yourself and leave that type of relationship, but the mechanisms of abuse make this quite difficult. I also agree that once you are out of that kind of relationship it's important to reconcile where you betrayed yourself, and what patterns led you there. That being said, you can't rationalize yourself out of being human, including the ways that social relationships effect …
/r/MensRights25/02/19 03:04 AM
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I wish I had a silver to give you
/r/MensRights25/02/19 02:48 AM
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No, do you have a link or more info?
/r/MensRights25/02/19 02:26 AM
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Good!!!!
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:52 AM
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Ugh. I know my better half is going to want to see this because he loves ANYTHING marvel.
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:47 AM
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Yep, my entire point from the beginning.
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:42 AM
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Yeah that's a fair point, I was trying to loosely joke that there are more important things to worry about than some trolling.
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:39 AM
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Not if people are pissed off about the meta.
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:36 AM
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That there are obviously more important things for them to worry about. Edit: nevermind, I read your original comment wrong, my bad dude
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:33 AM
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If they could focus a little more on balancing the champions that would be great.
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:28 AM
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I whole heartedly agree, if you can't develop a thick skin as a female gamer, that's your problem. Also if you don't want people to know you are a female, maybe consider not putting "sexy" or "kitten" in your name. Also why is a team exclusively all female with support mains, how is this a strategical idea?
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:25 AM
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Female league player here. I don't get the point, honestly. Even if it was a dick move, if you have to resort to that in order to win, it's not like you're going to get far in league anyway. I mean I can get that they want players to be nicer to eachother, but unless you can prove what they did was sexist, I'm not sure it's justified banning them even if it was purposely a dick move.
/r/MensRights23/02/19 01:18 AM
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It's not reckless, or offensive, it's breathtakingly ignorant. It's not exactly challenging to find empirical data supporting how detrimental rape is to the human psyche. Financially and emotionally the cost is massive. We're talking PTSD, other lasting psychological conditions, higher rates of obesity, cancer, and autoimmune diseases. Trauma has lasting effects on the body and the nervous system. The brain physically changes in brains with PTSD. And then there are lasting relationship issues, a…
/r/MensRights20/02/19 11:41 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MurderedByWords/comments/astvis/d_grade_troll_murdered_in_rmensrights_when_he/
/r/MensRights20/02/19 09:22 PM
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This is murdered by words material right here
/r/MensRights20/02/19 08:13 PM
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You're not a sociologist, you're a garden variety league of legends troll. Angry and full of lifechanging phrases such as "gg noob," or "gg top fed." I'm sad we play the same game, because you're the neanderthal telling your team mates they suck as you feed a soraka harder than your family at Thanksgiving.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 08:11 PM
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It doesn't have to be rape for it to be damaging. I'm sorry this happened to you, people can be terrible.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 05:58 PM
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Emotional reasoning isn't your strongsuit I take it?
/r/MensRights20/02/19 05:57 PM
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In states where it's becoming more equalized both genders are able to get away with these things. It was something I found shocking going through the court system because I had always assumed they were biased towards women, but oh no, I've watched friends shell out thousands to hundreds of thousands of dollars to get rid of the world's grimiest male specimens, and have a bitch of a time doing so with clear evidence of abuse/neglect/and weird sexually inappropriate behavior towards children- i.e.…
/r/MensRights20/02/19 05:17 PM
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That is a good place to go ^
/r/MensRights20/02/19 05:05 PM
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Projection, not just for movie theaters any more!
/r/MensRights19/02/19 09:17 PM
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Let's not forget the tree huggers in the corner. Some of those people are douchebags.
/r/MensRights19/02/19 09:16 PM
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Geez guys, stop being so seme-sitive
/r/MensRights19/02/19 09:15 PM
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"The comments eruped after that." Sir I'm going to need you to put your wea-pun down and back away slowly. Any further action will result in immediate backup from r/punpatrol
/r/MensRights19/02/19 09:12 PM
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Careful, r/punpatrol is on the lookout
/r/MensRights17/02/19 01:15 AM
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Well I think it's clear you identify with certain aspects of feminism, which is what I implied when I said the movement. No I don't have a tribal mentality, and like I said, discussing those things would require openness on your behalf which is not being conveyed.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 08:43 PM
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Hmm, I certainly think that hormones can sort of propel the emotional train into full steam ahead, but I wouldn't say the cause is a biological one. Perhaps biology makes it easier for men to cling to logic (I don't have any evidence for this as a heads up), but I think logic is a great deal of practice, and I say this as someone who used to be very emotional and has reigned it in to the point of detriment by coming across as coldly rational. Periods still make me sad, but I'm also aware that th…
/r/MensRights15/02/19 07:38 PM
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Fair enough, I could keep going back and forth about about the commercial but there's nothing that indicates to me that you are open to other opinions. If I'm reading you correctly it seems that you are interested in men's rights, but you also identify as a feminist or with the modern feminist movement which means we are disagreeing at a level that is probably too complex to tackle and would also require openness on your behalf. This is why I asked you what it means to you, when debating I like …
/r/MensRights15/02/19 07:21 PM
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I didn't say that, I asked you what you think about men's rights and what it means to you
/r/MensRights15/02/19 07:01 PM
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"Do women really like men opening up?" Call me crazy but I like my men to be human. But I agree, opening up does put anyone at the risk and I think anyone should be judicious about it. Our emotions are ours to protect, and it's up to each person to decide when and if they feel comfortable enough to do that.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 06:45 PM
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Of course <3
/r/MensRights15/02/19 06:00 PM
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Agreed in this example, she is either hateful of him or hateful in general, either way there's not a lot to work with there, she's too far down the rabbit hole.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:55 PM
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Well I didn't think of it as a proverb, but sure. I think as normal functioning people we tend to project our value system onto others, which means searching for ways to explain things through what I think of as a lens of normalcy or normal colored goggles. This is going to be difficult to show at the societal level because things at the macro tend to be less concrete so I'm going to use a real life example because it really on applies to normal people who tend to assume that other people are al…
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:51 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily jump to that, for one because I think anyone who is abusive is not going to be successful in doing that. Yelling at someone to be emotional is not going to elicit that sort of response. Abuse is probably going to be more insidious and specific i.e. like someone elses example of a guy crying when his grandpa died and the woman calling him a pussy. That's a good example because that woman is telling him to deny his feelings, those same feelings that are going to be eating aw…
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:43 PM
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Conversely, you should never attribute ignorance to what could be malice.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:37 PM
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I don't think this is a women problem, I think this is an abuser problem. My ex was very emotional, but my emotions were never valid to him, which makes sense because part of abuse is controlling the other person in their entirety. I would never use my fiance's sadness against him, when he cries I treat it very seriously, and I think the strength of our relationship comes from that ability/goal to be open with eachother. Not that either of us are all that great about it given our histories, but …
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:34 PM
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There are lots of things some women need to stop doing as well but we don't have commercials about it. Bear in mind, I have no stake in this, because I don't have a stake between my legs. I also don't find the commercial offensive, but that doesn't mean I can't see the biases and problems with it. So if you don't mind me asking, what does men's rights mean to you, and why are you here?
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:27 PM
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It is a strong word to use, and I'm probably biased. I think modern feminism preaches inclusiveness to the point of detriment. As an example we are supposed to be attracted to every gender, every sex, and every body type. I think that inclusiveness extends to people who are abusive/toxic because everybody is valuable. I don't think anyone who is abusive or toxic is ever worth keeping around for any reason. You could be right in that perhaps there is something to be said for making an example of …
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:17 PM
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Why would you want someone part of your community that is polluting it?
/r/MensRights15/02/19 04:25 PM
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Nothing exists in a vacuum my guy. At face value it says a lot of positive things about men, which is notably warm and fuzzy, especially during the parenting moments. And like I said, it's definitely not a negative ad overall, underlying message being men can be amazing, which shouldn't exactly be a surprise to anyone. But the purpose of the ad is that men need to be better. Men need to stop....selling drugs? Are men the only ones who perpetrate crimes? And men need to stop sexualizing women, ok…
/r/MensRights15/02/19 03:40 PM
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I think you are missing the overreaching themes that people are reacting to
/r/MensRights15/02/19 04:07 AM
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I get where you are coming from, but I think everyone is offended because of how it intersects with modern feminism, and it ignores issues men face while telling them they need to be better. It's not an entirely negative commercial, but it is a biased one. That being said I'm going to break down some of the things that I think are plausible enough to seem "sensible." Which I think modern feminism tends to do by the way, the ideas can seem reasonable when they get diluted enough, except the funda…
/r/MensRights15/02/19 04:01 AM
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Yeah. I read a nice long article defending him and his marriage toward her, but imo, if you need to paint a rosy picture of it, there's probably a reason why. Not that Christianity isn't fraught with its own issues, but I don't really see why we need to glorify something, or anyone really.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 06:29 PM
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I don't actually think that will penetrate the delusion
/r/MensRights14/02/19 06:27 PM
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Wait, go on, I can smell information I don't know
/r/MensRights14/02/19 02:15 AM
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I hate that day without a woman strike so much.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 02:14 AM
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But at what point does it become arbitrary as human breeding/making sweet love/whoopie make more babies that have mixed heritage?
/r/MensRights14/02/19 02:12 AM
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I find people who speak of truth don't usually have to resort to poor debate tactics such as bringing up feelings.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 10:31 PM
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Lmfao, I like you too
/r/MensRights12/02/19 10:22 PM
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" Sorry, I am one of those people and I often forget that other kind of people exist lol" Me too, I get bitched out occasionally, lol
/r/MensRights12/02/19 10:11 PM
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Yep, I 100% agree. If I had a fit friend I would fully expect them to be up my ass about getting fit and exercising just like I'm always up my friend's asses for things I think would help them.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 10:07 PM
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To be fair, most people don't want advice, some of us strive for constant self improvement and willingly welcome feedback, but then other people just seem to want to wallow in the misery. That whole learned victimization, and they lash out at you when you threaten their small, angry little place in the world.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 10:04 PM
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Idk, I mean yeah you probably shouldn't be harassing anyone that is fat, but harassment is already illegal. People are assholes, and if someone feels offended by other people that's something they need to work on with in themselves. You can't correct the world, but you can correct your perception
/r/MensRights12/02/19 10:00 PM
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Agreed, but I don't think everyone makes that distinction, and models deserve to be healthy and unstarved too. And I also agree that brands are adapting to this, which is the natural progression that will be based on consumer demands. So I hate to say it, but the fat movement is doing...something...even if it is for the wrong reasons...
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:51 PM
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This is why I often hate physchology, because it can be twisted to fit the situation.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:42 PM
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Thank you, I skipped to the next part.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:38 PM
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This is true! I think women who are sensitive about their weight and need to compensate by being "inclusive" are really just afraid of getting rejected. But like my previous example, you can get rejected for anything. Can't say I would ever date a fit doctor, what would we have in common? Maybe if they focused a little less on their looks and a little more on themselves as people and being healthy, they wouldn't need to cry fat-shaming from the roof tops. The only part of the movement I can kind…
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:29 PM
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I'm probably biased but I had a hard time believing they really believe that.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:18 PM
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But this makes perfect sense, personally I wouldn't date a fit guy for this very reason. I want to be healthy, but when it comes to video games or mountainclimbing, the games will win every time.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:15 PM
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Fellow fat chick here, and agreed.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:13 PM
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Honestly, you can't project being kissed on a dance floor to all sexual assault. Or hey, I bet you'd feel pretty differently if it was the elderly librarian.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 07:30 PM
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Yeah you definitely made a good point about the advice and the grandparent rights. I am not a therapist, just a person with different experiences. I think you misinterpreted something I said because I didn't comment on the grandparent rights, I don't know a lot about it, but what you are saying regarding the slow consistent attempts makes sense to me, and I would suspect that you are probably right. I'm not sure what you are referring to in the last paragraph, but I don't think your intentions a…
/r/MensRights12/02/19 07:16 PM
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CT won a lawsuit for discriminating against candidates with higher IQs, so I can't say I'm surprised.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 06:57 AM
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Guys, can we call women spreading labia lunging?
/r/MensRights11/02/19 10:09 PM
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r/thathappened
/r/MensRights11/02/19 09:59 PM
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Same here
/r/MensRights11/02/19 03:56 PM
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As a woman I gotta tell you, I love when a man thoughtfully articulates a novel viewpoint to me, or even just tosses an opinion in there. Preferrably long ranty ones.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 08:30 AM
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Life is scary, and all relationships are risks. Good for you and your wife, I hope I can say the same about my husband someday <3
/r/MensRights11/02/19 07:48 AM
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D'aww <3
/r/MensRights11/02/19 07:33 AM
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That's a valid point, I do that with racists because they are either stupid, assholes, or have some sort of disordered thinking. I feel like giving them a label makes it about skin color when it's not about skin color at all. Thanks my guy
/r/MensRights11/02/19 06:08 AM
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Yeah that self-protective rage is always telling. Almost a guarantee you are reading something illogial when there is all-caps used unhumorously. But yeah, anytime we get to hating feminism it does detract from the message, I'm guilty of doing that too. EDIT: I just wanted to put it out there that MRA has given me a little more appreciation for certain aspects of feminism.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 05:58 AM
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The system is onviously riddled with problems and can be worse or less worse depending on your area. But in mine there is a strong push for reunification or children staying with extended family. There's no denying it's a huge problem, but when I did my internship there there were families helping other families get back their kids and social workers intervening with a known sex offender. It's a necessary evil because we don't have a better system.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 05:47 AM
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I just don't understand how it has 12k followers. I mean I get there's a fair amount of red pill detritus over here, but that's to be expected. I tried to read through some of the posts and it was like sinking into a wormhole. A wormhole filled with lots of mental instability. I mean I think MRA does a good job of breaking it down, it's not so different than what feminism should be in that it promotes equality for everyone.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 05:38 AM
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.....you do realize that CPS takes kids AWAY from pedophiles.....right?
/r/MensRights11/02/19 05:21 AM
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This reasonability warms the cocles of my heart. You can't fight crazy with crazy
/r/MensRights11/02/19 05:10 AM
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Agreed.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 05:09 AM
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God. Damn.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 04:59 AM
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I agree with you, but I think this specifically refers to the appreciation for the working male spouse. Personally I think women working helps correct this problem so there is a better family balance. Nobody should be overworked, but I can understand when a man wants a housewife, I know a guy like this, very traditional spanish family. But I get what you are saying, work is not everything, and everyone's needs have to be met.
/r/MensRights09/02/19 02:29 AM
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I don't care if you're Siddartha Gautama, if you are a human, you have flaws, it's the nature of being human. To think otherwise is grandiose and denying yourself the full experience of what it means to be human.
/r/MensRights09/02/19 01:57 AM
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Well, I was trying to help, I'm sorry you are too "amazed" to see that. But your condescension doesn't dissuade me, I know what I am talking about, which is why I am responding to you calmly and rationally. I wish you the best of luck.
/r/MensRights09/02/19 12:44 AM
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I don't know you, but I do know thinking, and I know patterns. I also know heavy defensiveness and that it usually indicates something is hiding behind it.
/r/MensRights09/02/19 12:41 AM
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Given your latter comment which is more defensive, I would suspect probably not. Defense is always a good indicator I am hitting that squishy spot that matters. Identifying faulty thinking patterns is something I tend to excel at. Nobody is perfect and there are all things we can do to improve. I think there are things you can do to improve your outlook or the relationship should you decide it's worth continuing. Your daughter may never be able to return what you have given, but that doesn't mea…
/r/MensRights09/02/19 12:39 AM
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Oh that's right! That will be interesting to see!
/r/MensRights09/02/19 12:16 AM
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So is your ability to take constructive criticism
/r/MensRights09/02/19 12:14 AM
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Yeah dude, that's a big sign you're getting it wrong, you need to rethink your approach stat. Kids are naturally going to think the world of their parents, it's a protective factor and you can see this even in kids that have been abused. As an adult it's like "do I have the energy for this," or "is this person worth my time?" Your daughter probably operates differently than you do, and I think it's good she knows what a boundary is, this means she is probably less likely to be influenced by her …
/r/MensRights08/02/19 04:44 PM
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You can't browbeat that into someone and guilt them into treating you the way you feel you deserve. If anything opting for the lighter approach is going to be more successful. Think about making it rewarding and fun.
/r/MensRights08/02/19 04:40 PM
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That's all you can do, and pray your child doesn't turn out like that soul sucking leach you left. Sigh. My ex is like that, he's very narcissistic, and I am just trying to train out those shitty qualities.
/r/MensRights08/02/19 04:37 PM
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No parents inherently deserve love from their children, children deserve love from their parents. Keeping score like that in any relationship is not going to work, especially with children. Imagine telling your best friend you deserved a phone call to them answered and that they were required to show you love and affection. Anyone would naturally be aversive to those kinds of demands, and they don't work subtly either. Your children don't owe you anything because it was your choice to bring them…
/r/MensRights08/02/19 04:35 PM
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I feel badly for saying this, but I think it needs to be said. No parent is entitled to a relationship with their child because that is not the purpose of parenting. The purpose of parenting is to sufficiently provide for your child and steer them into a functional individual. As a mother I fully expect the outcome you are experiencing as a real possibility because people are people. I have two siblings I dont talk to for whatever reason they have contrived. Granted, both are feminists and have …
/r/MensRights08/02/19 04:25 PM
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One of the things I appreciate about MRA from what I have seen is the lack of PUAs/incels/regressives, but now that I'm reading your comments I'm not sure I understand why that is.
/r/MensRights08/02/19 04:07 PM
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Very interesting, thank you for sharing and linking! This is purely speculation, but I'm not surprised the community is more libertarian and also educated, because there has to be a capacity to think outside of the norm, so I would expect more free thinkers in general. It is refreshing to read though, because it feels isolating to hold less popular ideas in the professional realm. Especially as a female in human services where casual jokes about the inequality of women are the norm.
/r/MensRights08/02/19 03:59 PM
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Well, I had an arguement with my best friend about rape culture tonight and how it wasn't real, and there was no fact, no statistic I could use that helped her look at the situation objectively. On a personal level it's isolating and frustrating. So although I agree with you, I get how the culture has contributed to that, I'm just at the point in my life where I feel like people who need excuses will always need excuses, and frankly I don't feel like it's deserved. An ideaology shouldn't justify…
/r/MensRights30/01/19 11:38 PM
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Yeah you're probably right. At this point I think it's me having a problem with it, and being so sick of the ideaology. Sick of reading about how feminist women think anti-feminist women just need the "magic of sisterhood." Sick of arguing with people who cant argue objective reasoning.
/r/MensRights30/01/19 11:18 PM
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You know, I just refuse to accecpt those excuses from people anymore.
/r/MensRights30/01/19 11:01 PM
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I really don't think some people are capable of separating their emotions from...anything. I just argued with my best friend for thirty minutes about why rape culture doesnt exist to no avail. Ugh. I should, go do some math or something, to remember the world can be a peaceful and happy place.
/r/MensRights30/01/19 09:06 PM
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And furthermore, this picture keeps with the feminist paradigm of everything revolving around them, like whether or not men are good because women raise them. I was raised by a dad who molested me and a mom who was falling apart because her husband cheated on her multiple times, but I still know there are a lot of good men out there, becuase men who are raised without fathers and had female role models are not doomed to a life of feminimity any more than I was raised to be a feminist by shitty m…
/r/MensRights30/01/19 03:33 PM
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Exactly my point, what is wrong with her in that she cant open her eyeballs?
/r/MensRights30/01/19 03:27 PM
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I mean honestly though. There are good men everywhere, it's not like they are hiding. Go to work and I guarantee you will find at least a few. Sometimes it's hard to find a good partner, but that's a process that always takes time and if you are blaming men being different instead of taking a cold honest look at yourself or taking the forward steps to increase your exposure that's on you. I don't like when men see themselves as not being relevant or that they have to do something different becau…
/r/MensRights30/01/19 03:17 PM
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Men need options for birth control too
/r/MensRights30/01/19 12:17 AM
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I've held a lot of dead fish in my life. Yeah you might want to wait until that rapport is established, solid thinking.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 10:59 PM
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I think in cases where a woman lies, and abuse is not present, damages and fines certainly make sense but it honestly doesn't seem like enough. Mandatory prevention with genetic testing might be better. I disagree with the primary physical custody automatically given to anyone, but custody should immediately be considered. One reason is that the father who raised the child might want custody. But I think anyone who has invested in a childs life should be included, i.e. if my husband and I divorc…
/r/MensRights29/01/19 08:24 PM
5

I would probably be really blunt about it and tell him that you weren't sitting down until he tried to shake your arm off, or something he would find humorous. I find kids of all ages respond well to obstinance and humor. And idk man, that sounds like every woman I've ever shook hands with. As a woman who shakes hands like a male CEO I've always wondered if I was doing something wrong...
/r/MensRights29/01/19 02:23 PM
2

Is it the handshake you find repulsive or is it another reason like drool etc? Either way I wouldn't exit my comfort zone to do it, but when I worked with disabilities I wore gloves all the time, even though my superiors didn't like it (the smell of saliva is repulsive to me). Not sure if he is disabled but if so you might consider having him exercise it for a while.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 02:13 PM
1

Thank you for correcting me and providing this link
/r/MensRights29/01/19 01:46 PM
1

I didn't realize sharing nudes was already a punishable offense. So, nevermind. Agreed with the rest.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 12:53 PM
1

Definitely not what I said
/r/MensRights29/01/19 12:52 PM
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Not sure I would call female genital mutilation or child marriage "value." Sounds like fear to me.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 06:10 AM
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So a couple things. One I find it odd that this is in India, none us may love feminism, but there is some shitty crap going over there, and as far as I know it's very much a patriarchal society. So I'm wondering if the lover has been charged with the murder instead. Because of their, different, cultural views they might see him as more culpable.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 05:54 AM
1

I hate to be that person, and I'm always the first to bitch about feminism, and it's very sexist and shitty overall....but I don't think we should be trading nude pictures of men or women so I personally think that small, tiny, nearly unrelated piece of it is good...you know....would be significantly better if it wasn't so fucking sexist...
/r/MensRights29/01/19 05:47 AM
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Yeah and then you have one female friend and all of a sudden that's a problem too.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 05:37 AM
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You forgot a shitty attitude and bad grammar
/r/MensRights29/01/19 05:35 AM
4

It's just a flesh wound?
/r/MensRights29/01/19 05:33 AM
10

Agreed
/r/MensRights29/01/19 03:09 AM
1

Ohh haha, I mean, I feel like the disqualifying statement is, "I hate his face," but beyond that it doesn't matter
/r/MensRights29/01/19 02:31 AM
1

Well I don't suppose you have to, but it also makes me suspect your opinion is rooted in personal experience so I will counter with logic. Attraction is highly variable, and attraction does not equal cheating. With me so far? None of this in any way excuses small, transient, amounts of biological attraction leading to cheating and is a non-sequitor. Because attraction either leads to cheating or it doesn't. It should be somewhat obvious that it does not lead to cheating. It is my opinion that a …
/r/MensRights29/01/19 02:14 AM
3

Because I'm not sure why you think I'm missing the point
/r/MensRights29/01/19 02:03 AM
3

Go on...
/r/MensRights29/01/19 01:45 AM
2

*square jaws
/r/MensRights29/01/19 01:23 AM
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Biology is not an excuse for being a shitty person. Also not all women are stupid enough to be attracted to men's faces.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 12:33 AM
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I want to see this in action so I can troll that subreddit and tell them what shitty people they are.
/r/MensRights28/01/19 11:52 PM
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I used to have a very close friend in high school that didnt tell her husband the kid might not be his. I was young and didn't know what else to do except ditch my shitty morally inept friend. I've looked for the guy on facebook to try and get in contact, but to no avail. Women should be arrested for this bullshit.
/r/MensRights28/01/19 11:49 PM
1

Thank you for finding my new spirit animal
/r/MensRights26/01/19 12:23 AM
1

Im afraid to ask what that means... .
/r/MensRights25/01/19 11:38 PM
3

I would say watch out for loud outspoken men who give no fucks, that's a good indication that something is right. Also professions that are more science based are always a better bet. I just changed from social work to behavior analysis, so much less crazy. And definitely businesses as opposed to non-profits. A healthy level of competition helps weed out people who are afraid of it. I've also found conservatives who are more moderate to be a nice balm of sanity. And definitely avoid places where…
/r/MensRights25/01/19 02:27 PM
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I just want to find a pocket of the world with a bunch of people driven solely by logic. People with normal, functioning, and healthy boundaries
/r/MensRights25/01/19 02:00 PM
2

Had to look that term up, exactly.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 01:54 PM
1

I wish I had an easy solution for this. I do think as the rhetoric becomes more extreme more people will start to drop off. I think education about manipulation and control doesn't hurt, but it is going to be difficult to explain to the layperson. Unless you have had your life burned to a crisp by someone manipulative it's going to be difficult to identify those tactics in modern feminism. But the rift that's being perpetuated between men and women is harder, and I think the over emphasis on fee…
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 01:41 PM
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I didn't mean to come off as dismissive of that fact, I just find the people actually spreading it interesting.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 01:09 PM
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Hey ladies, you know what really makes us empowered as the female gender? Assaulting other people like women you've never met have been assaulted! Maybe she will molest a child next to raise awareness about how many women are molested as children! That will show them!
/r/MensRights25/01/19 07:52 AM
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I just want to point out that the only people I know who post this shit are middle class white women on my facebook that I went to art school with.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 07:42 AM
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I honestly think the excessive terminology is just an essy way to shut down dissenting opinions. When you don't even allow someone to use language you cut them off at the root. This is something I've noticed in more niche and creepy corners of psychotherapy. Give it a new language and it's just another layer of coercion.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 07:41 AM
1

13 and 14 year old bodies have not even finished maturing. Labeling their sexual curiosity as consent is the same rhetoric every pedophile I have ever worked with has used to justify their crimes on children who are younger. 13 and 14 year olds have not yet descended into formal ooperational thinking and are intellectually not on the same level as adults.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 06:57 PM
1

Agreed, female here and I think this is appalling regardless of what set of sex organs perpetrated the crime.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 06:51 PM
1

Wow. Just. Wow. What a disgusting fetid waste of flesh. The disparity in sentencing is really crazy, even with men. I worked with sex offenders and I would get guys who had raped children and had gotten 2 years, and an adult rapist who had been in for 10.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 06:48 PM
2

Absolutely! No scale is going to be perfect, but I can see a lot of good inductive research coming out of this.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 06:36 PM
1

It's really sad that the division is happening. I have tried so hard to reach out to women I know in my life to try and unpack the 4th wave bullshit, and what I got in response was aggression and attacks on my character. I was told that I was turning against feminism because the guy I liked helped me unpack it. Die hard feminists by the way, are horrible friends. They will manipulate and eat you alive when you don't give them the emotional response they want. The lack of equality doesn't end wit…
/r/MensRights24/01/19 06:28 PM
1

And social work. Because you can't just believe people should live in homes and eat, you have to be a feminist.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 06:18 PM
2

My only criticism is that I feel like the questions were slightly biased. As an example, I said a man should sacrifice himself financially slightly for a woman (only if married), but likewise, the exact same should be expected of women.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 06:12 PM
1

I feel like anyone with a sufficient supply of brain cells should hate this
/r/MGTOW24/01/19 05:38 PM
1

Fair enough, I'll stick to tumblr in action. Thank you for the heads up
/r/MGTOW24/01/19 03:31 PM
5

As a female who hates this, can I be on this sub?
/r/MGTOW24/01/19 08:13 AM
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