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Willkuer_/r/askTRP28/12/16 10:53 PM
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Willkuer_/r/askTRP19/10/17 10:44 AM
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MontBlanc Explorer. IMO a pretty good long lasting perfume with strong character. I use it during autumn/winter times. Smells like seriousness, darkness, secrets, strength. CalvinKlein Euphoria Men. Very interesting soft touch. I often got told I smell great but nobody can really grasp what it is. It's very well rounded. Doesn't last as long. My choice for spring/summer times. Smells like good feelings and memories, excitement, youth, happiness. But typically you need to test the perfume on his …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 08:08 AM
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Upgrade by providing funny dick pics. Put glasses or a red clown nose on your dick to stand out.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:00 PM
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Not sure what your question is but typically like: https://ibb.co/8bHHfzQ
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:03 PM
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I do as you described: give the number in online dating take the number offline Regarding online dating, my ~ third message is: "Gonna be free on Thursday", "I can drag you around the city on Friday", "Let's have a coffee on Saturday" If they answer in some positive way. "Cool hit me up on WA: ...."
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:24 PM
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This is the moment you discovered nihilism. Sure you can think like that and nobody can tell you that you‘re wrong. However there are other ways to cope with life and its challenges. Since you seem to like the rational and not spiritual way of thinking about life I‘d suggest you read into stoicism ideally starting with Epictetus IMO. Stoic teachings tell us to take things for what they are. The person passing away was a living person. Every living thing inherently has to die at some point. This …
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:09 PM
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Why do you care whether she possibly thinks she‘s above you? I mean just consider your best mate comes to you and tells a story about his plate and he‘s unsure how to handle the gold stars he gets from his girl. You‘d call him retarded.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:18 PM
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Sounds like a good progress. How long are you on your journey of improvement? Might sound harsh but dead bedroom after two years screams for severe problems. As long as children are not involved ejecting yourself and restarting can be a valid choice. Don‘t fall into the sunk cost fallacy. If there is however a general improvement I‘d consider keep on going. There is this 100ft rope analogy. Reactions are always delayed. Positive improvements are much slower and harder to achieve than a downwards…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/19 12:30 PM
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Ok let‘s go on. Why do you think he did? Let‘s stop the philosophy about why men and women can not be happy and instead face the hard facts. What are your stats? If you can honestly say about yourself that you are a top-tier partner, wife, girlfriend, mother, friend, slut and first-mate then possibly something is wrong with his sexual drive. But first we solve our own issues before we aim to fix other‘s.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/19 12:10 PM
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Taking the mrp approach here: You are asking philosophical questions instead of providing facts. What are your stats? Age, children, body, style, qualities, issues? How did you improve while starting this journey? How‘s your reading doing? How did he react so far on the changes you did over the last months? You want to save a dead bedroom? These questions are the recipe. Answer these questions honestly and you know what to do. Regarding your philosophical question: Are you desirable that you exp…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/19 11:15 AM
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Just go your way. If it works for you it‘s great. It‘s kind of a dominant way to communicate because you set the frame. Just as a recommendation from my experience: Don‘t try to have meaningful conversations. Basically you should talk like this: https://tenor.com/2GlH.gif : Nothing is serious, everything is fun, content is not the message. The way you communicate is the message.
/r/seduction13/06/19 05:30 PM
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Just read what OP was answering to my post. He‘s having emotional and meaningful conversations. Not exactly aligned with what you just said. Nevertheless I made clear that I would be annoyed but girls could actually like that. Try to be offended about stuff that actually actually disagrees with your opinion.
/r/seduction13/06/19 05:24 PM
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Never tried but I would be so horribly annoyed if somebody calls me just to have a chat. You automatically put your time schedule over mine if you do it. Possibly the girls you called liked exactly that or never had any schedule to begin with but if you’d do that to me it would really annoy the fuck out of me.
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:00 PM
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You must be fucking kidding me. I admit I never had issues to get matches but I am really rarely opened. (like once a month or maybe even less?) I saw that there was some correlation with the bio I had but I was never really getting through to write a significantly good one. I read this post some days ago when you posted it and thought I might try it. Today before I went to sports for two hours I finally did it and just typed some stuff together similar as yours. Two hours later I check my profi…
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:42 PM
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Imagine being triggered when somebody tells you it’s harder to find good restaurants in the north of Germany.
/r/MGTOW01/06/19 09:47 AM
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In the south they know how to cook. Much harder in the north. Big cities typically have all kinds of quality for all kinds of prices.
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 11:00 PM
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Choosing your own path and following through on it is a strength. He loves white chicks with stars on the ass that he can ride all day. You define your own definition of success, strive for that success, and hence go your own way. This is what this sub is about. Find and go your own way regardless of what others claim is the “right thing to do”.
/r/MGTOW26/05/19 07:12 PM
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That statement is not in agreement with the sidebar. At least no part that I read.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:03 PM
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80/20 is typically referred to when talking about visibility. A top 20% guy is visible to most at least low tier girls just by appearance without any interaction. That doesn’t mean he can get laid anytime and that doesn’t mean he’s going to fuck top tier girls. If top20% means you get low tier girls rather easily top10% means you get average girls relatively easy. When you start to become top5% the real fun starts. Top20% means in average you find four guys around you that are superficially belo…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:09 PM
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You know what the police says when they arrest you? 'Anything you say can and will be held against you' Don’t expect anything less in social interaction of any kind. There’s a reason why being mysterious is something good. There is one rule: shut the fuck up. Just shut it up. Keep your mouth shut. You wanna say something emotional? Just shut up. Repeat that every time your head is foggy and all the shit wants to escape from your mouth as emotional vomit. Shut the fuck up! This is the basis. Then…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:41 PM
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“Why would you do such a retarded thing?”
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:50 PM
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Read that sentence again.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:37 PM
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Should have been posted as top level comment. Definitely a correct answer.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:27 PM
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„How many girls I slept with? [weak smile] You mean today? [sweat] I am a virgin [smile intensifies] Actually if you are counting with condoms then two.“ „Once I am going to have a gf I am not going to fuck you anymore“ „Wanna go for real?“ „Which condom do you prefer? The red one or the one with banana taste?“ „You want to leave? I think that‘s a reasonable decision adult people have to do for themselves. Let me walk you to your car to extend this moment of awkwardness.“ Yes you are right. Over…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:10 AM
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Him owing her money also means investment. She already gave him a few hundred bucks. Burning bridges with him will make this money disappear. Flirting with him might yield better responses. At least in her mind. This is a shit show and I bet it didn‘t start with this situation. She is too much into the whole drama. Nothing good comes from meeting exes. Nothing good comes from people wanting to meet exes.
/r/askMRP31/03/19 09:18 AM
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As others said performance anxiety in combination with a negative loop. You are under some stress because it‘s been a long time and it doesn‘t work out. You panic and now for sure it doesn‘t work out. Get over it. Happens to the best of us. Can happen several times. Can become worse before it gets better. Is temporarily healed by viagra so consider to go to an urologist. Tell him performance anxiety and he‘ll give it to you. As others said. Stop playing with yourself for now. Masturbation is not…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:52 PM
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Don‘t ever do something just to impress her. Completely wrong approach. The other comments were good. Just relax and let it come to you. There is no reason to be worried. Whats the worst that could happen? You learn a new sport?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:24 PM
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If you are at least moderately fit you probably enter any sports activity on a completely different level than she did. So while she might be better than you now you just showed her that you skipped over her first year of struggling. So first question: are you moderately fit? But honestly what matters more in most circumstances (hypergamy) is whether she got the best she can get (the guy who is actually just slightly out of her reach but for some lucky coincidence meets her). She evaluates wheth…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 07:17 AM
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And here you got it. She is framing the whole thing in the color she‘d like to see. Maybe you‘d go along an fulfill the prophecy. I‘d expect another more indirect talk soon. Possibly she‘s even stepping up her game if you are worth it.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:37 AM
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After the breakup he will be back to „insecure asshole manchild“.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:33 AM
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I can‘t and from my POV it‘s not necessary. But it‘s a good example because cold approach is dominated by your action. Not sure if I would count bar game as cold approach though. For a 5 min cold approach on the street the goal is to get a number. Numbers are easy nowadays because it means nothing. 5 min is no investment so nothing to loose. No real push/pull here. This is slightly above having a match in tinder. In a bar context so far I have a 100% „success rate“ with just letting go and doing…
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:28 PM
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That‘s why it is push&pull. Giving an attention seeker attention is pointless. Figure out whether she just looks for attention before you invest too much. Offer yourself and see wether she bites. If she doesn‘t the reason basically is not of importance anymore.
/r/seduction26/03/19 07:54 PM
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You understood that this is not about her but about the other girl that could‘ve been part of the community and being cheated on?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 06:16 AM
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Offtopic This is actually an interesting question and you derailed it by moralizing. Something that I seldom see as top comment in RP subs. You could‘ve posted this in private or when she asked why she only finds bad men.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 06:14 AM
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Covert contract: I will wear stockings and next time he will take me out to do something special and desire me. Both of you are building up expectations which are covertly communicated and unmet and are facing the consequential grief. Desire is not negotiable. It can be enhanced via action and self-improvement. Athol Kay who teaches men methods how to become better men and prefaces this in one of his books with the words: “I can promise you that you can have a wife that wants you passionately; I…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 09:49 PM
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So you just read something and you instantly “become alpha”? Because I would expect that from a cheat code. I’d say RedPill can be approximately summarized as: put work into stuff to make it improve don’t follow emotionally/empathically given advice but trust science and experience (this includes the famous “men and women are not the same”) situations in our life are not unique, people and experiences are replaceable expect from life what you are willing to give - don’t underestimate yourself an…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 09:29 PM
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To use your words: Lol how can you believe that US landwhale misandrist femisists fighting for more income than a man after taking one course in gender studies and divorce-raping men is what the left wing was about? Seriously US has a huge political problem. You put lefties and liberals into one party although these are completely opposite tendencies and everyone who has no opinion apart from “the good old days” is in the other only party. You can only choose between hysterically stupid and ridi…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:25 AM
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Well that’s the definition you US guys have. And even in it’s amazing simplicity it fits to what I said: If lil tyrone is growing up in a household where nobody reads, speaks another language or can perform basic calculations, has a social circle where education is frowned upon, and goes to a school where even the children deal with drugs where and when should he pick up the idea to study engineering. It’s just much more reasonable to just steal a car. Easy money. Yes a lot of people are in trou…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:48 PM
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I believe personal responsibility fits in to my lefties thinking. I believe everybody should have the same opportunities and life-determining topics like education and health care should not depend on whether your parents are rich or not. I believe public transport in bigger cities should be free for everybody especially children who have zero income because it’s a more rational way to transport people. The opposite on the countryside. I believe basic infrastructure as water and electricity shou…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:07 PM
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It’s as easy as you describe it: connect IRL - maintain level through text if really necessary. Tbh this whole internet/meme/messaging/stories stuff really fucked up our social abilities. If you are one of the few ppl who are great face to face then do it like that. All desire is built face to face... exactly as relationships, sex, romance or whatever drives you. On to of that: She’s not your best friend. Don’t talk to her like she is if you don’t want to send out best friend vibes. Reasons are …
/r/seduction20/01/19 12:24 AM
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shhhhh let it happen
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:25 PM
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As I understood she has been around fucking him. She‘s just pulling one ultimatum after another. That‘s why it‘s on/off. Seems to me like her investment lowers with every off though. I don‘t think the girl and the OP want the same though. It‘s not worth thinking about it. Why putting effort in a girl if there is no other reason to do so than lack of options? Lacking of options is never tackled/solved by monogamy.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:14 PM
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Not sure about your definition of orbiter but she basically made clear she‘ll open her legs if he shows beta traits. That‘s the definition of a beta and not an orbiter imo. Orbiter means she has a carrot on a stick and mostly wants attention. OPs girl is most probably looking for security.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 09:17 PM
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She‘s looking for commitment. You don‘t. She hopes you show some beta behavior so that she can have a relationship with you (she’ll eventually resent). Every time you pull your flat alpha moves she‘s pushed away because your alpha game is too weak to be honest and she wants a beta that knows how to beta. Apparently you are neither a good alpha nor good beta.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:14 PM
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Just curious: why would you want to do 18 approaches? I mean sure it can be fun to approach but typically if I approach a girl I am interested in I stay with her. Sometimes I lose interest and approach another one which appears better. I guess there are more social guys who like to have not so deep but rather many connections but 18?
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:08 PM
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So are you going to tell us what you want to achieve or should we guess?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:56 PM
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I mean why don’t you just write what you want and let the community/mods decide whether it’s ok? This post is completely pointless.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:30 AM
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Bitchy thing to say.
/r/seduction28/12/18 01:19 AM
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Context not contest So she knows you are after her, she was fine with it and you didn‘t creep after her sticking in the friendzone for years. Then the same applies: be more specific, do the planning not the questioning: ‚Planning to go to event xyz on <day> early evening. Tag along?‘
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:17 PM
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How did you get the girls number? Was it a sexual context?
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:21 PM
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She is no 10 don’t put her on a pedestal. Girls don’t like that. There are no 10’s. And then there are many 9’s. What kind of relationship would that be? Do you want to continue like that? Two dates and you didn’t have sex AND she is not eager to meet? Do you always want to reinitiate, redo the plans? Do you always want to beg her for dates? What hapoens if she ‘friendzones’ you after the next? Or the one after? Or after you are completely heads over heels for her? It’s your choice but to me tha…
/r/seduction21/12/18 11:54 PM
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So girls have nowadays direct game too? Not bad. Your goal: in one year from now it’ll be the opposite. A girl’s opening your friend to get with you. (It won’t happen because your friend will cut contact to you once the power dynamics shift and he’ll not getting laid anymore but you’ll get the point.) This guy is apparently some years of game in advance to you. Why should you be able to catch up in one week? Learn from him. Having a wing with game is great. You got the tools to make everything o…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:07 PM
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These are shit tests. Rule of thumb: if it’s about you it’s a shit test, if it’s about her it’s a comfort test. “You are such an asshole you never pay for me” “Can’t you at least once behave more mature? That you don’t let me sleep at your place is not manly at all.” Vs. “I feel lately very insecure because I fear that some you might leave me because of some younger chick.” “I sometimes have the feeling I am invisible to you. When we go out you are all around the room while I’ll just want to hav…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:29 AM
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Read a bit from u/VasiliyZaitzev . As far as I know he has some MLTR’s or one OLTR and plates. Also BlackDragon wrote some theory. Also have a look into u/Rollo-Tomassi ‘s theories. In summary: anything that adds some value to your life shouldn’t be rejected. Having an LTR doesn’t mean you live in a fairy tale. LTR is a word for many different things.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 07:19 PM
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The fuck is this comment history. You ask asktrp for complete online dating scripts once every two hours and are not able to read a single post to answer the most basic questions yourself? After not being successful for another five days you’ll post how bumble’s shit and 90% of men are invisible to women. Why do you think is a reasonable strategy?
/r/askTRP13/12/18 10:12 PM
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In this context nothing positive. Ignore it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 03:33 PM
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How can you otherwise brag if nobody reads it?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:33 PM
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Sorry to be harsh but to me it sounds like you live exactly the life you deserve and want. Sex is important to you but you didn‘t put it on your urgent agenda apart from some days before the 5 years mark? Read all your cons. You are aware of that and still they exist? How many of those exist for the last five years? How many existed even before? Reading your pro list I don‘t see how you are exceeding the average. You want plentiful sex which is according to the 80:20 rule reserved for one of fiv…
/r/seduction04/12/18 05:09 PM
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So where exactly is the problem? Why do you care when she buys what with what context? If she want‘s to see you she needs to get a flight ticket. Done. She gets a flight ticket => she wants to see you. She doesn‘t get a flight ticket => she doesn‘t want to see you. She wants to see you => you continue your life with open eyes for opportunities and self improvement. She doesn‘t want to see you => you continue your life with open eyes for opportunities and self improvement. So what are you actuall…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:23 PM
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Then ask him to do it to you. You sound so vanilla you do not even talk about these kinks you share. If you discuss together which kinks to do and he doesn’t do them he is afraid to break your relationship. You are probably a nice girl always behaving and he thinks if he would slap your ass that would reduce the relationships value. But what you actually want is to create a deeper bond. You can explore sexually all kinks that are not off the table because you two are the only ones who will be pa…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 11:48 PM
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A girl that ‘makes fun of your low smv’? You mean a shit test? Let’s correct that: Q: ‘Would you be with a girl that shit tests you?’ A: Yes. I am only with girls that shit test me.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:17 AM
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Doesn‘t work for me (iphone)
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:27 AM
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What is a long distance plate?
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:11 AM
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Stoicism also helps you with approaches.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:51 AM
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That‘s exactly the meaning of don‘t shit where you eat. It will always end. How probable is it that even if your approach was ‚sucessful‘ it doesn‘t end in the same way?
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:00 PM
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It’s definitely not about becoming the best man for her. Dread can do what you want to achieve but if you just google it and apply it like ‘I will fuck many girls if you don’t let me come on your face’ you’ll fuck it up. So what I said was more of a joke depending on where you are. Passive dread is the way to go. Just consider what she might think if you start working out, dress better, be more social, smile at other girls and let other girls smile at you while not saying anything. Just shutting…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 08:25 PM
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Ask for her mobile because your battery is low. Open this page in her browser. Close the page. Next day go out look for better girls. Either she’ll get it or she isn’t worth your time. Honestly, sounds to me like you’re not worth her time atm. But you can become a better man if you want. I don’t expect her to change for you though. There are probably better men available for her.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:01 PM
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SL makes you focus on only a few exercises and aims for strength increase - which you need as a newbie. It is sufficiently short to not skip it because of sudden realization that going to the gym now would totally kill your time plan. It creates very clear goals which you accomplish if you stick to the program. I started with body weight and basically lost some months because everything I learned was how to properly do push up variations. Then I did SL and achieved some goals but somehow did not…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 10:47 PM
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Damn how do you always come up with this stuff...
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:20 AM
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Throw her around in the water without acting like a thirsty 13 y/o but as if it the most normal thing to do. After some fooling in the water: ‘Did I tell you that they have sharks here?’ pretending to be a shark, pretend to attack her ‘But actually there is something much much worse.... the air flipper’ take her by her hips or carry her on your arms and flip her into the air so that she splashes into the water She’s angry because her hair’s a mess or sth? Apologize without meaning it with a devi…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:58 AM
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Well she apparently is into clitoral stimulation induced by vibration. This is her field IMO. You could get a vibrating penis ring but I don't get the point. If she wants to play with her clitoris while you fuck her just let her. It's her toy. She can buy it. A set of anal plugs of different sizes is for you. Together with good lube this will be around 30-50 bucks. (I'd suggest to not get silicon toys because then you can only use water-based lubes because you are wearing (latex-)condoms, aren't…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:20 PM
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The point is that you show it without verbalizing.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:09 PM
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The use of sex, hm?
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:04 PM
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Relax. This whole stuff needs time. For him following RP means he has to progress until he dies. As long as he is sufficiently emotionally invested in you and your relationship to actually care and improve it will work out. Depending on where you are with regards to where you actually have to be defines the timeframe you are talking about. It takes decades of social programming and years of fucked up relationships and you want to achieve your goal after a few weeks? You on the other hand really …
/r/askMRP23/06/18 08:47 PM
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Fibonacci is the best. Apparently I am not the only one. Multiples of 7 is also quite good.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:40 PM
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Same situation for me. I was ultra-low invested because I knew it would end rather sooner than later. She fell in love and I felt it which made me push her further away. For sure she liked that. Overall I treated her kind of bad. That happened almost two years ago. Yesterday I got a message through a channel where I did not block her. Apparently she made some personnel progress and wants to share a beer - 'but just as friends!!' Sure. It's sad because she could be a quite good wife to some other…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:35 AM
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Obviously prepare the stuff as early as possible. It really depends on your cultural background but there are some dishes that get only better over time. For example - corean carrot salad - red and white cabbage (with cranberries and bacon respectively) - all kinds of soups (just put a chicken with some vegetables into a big pot - et voila) There is stuff that doesn't spoil easily although it doesn't get better - most of bakery as bread (in wet-ish cotton can survive for days) and cakes - proces…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 10:48 PM
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That three strikes rule didn't work out for me most of the time so now it is a one and a half strike rule. If she apologizes (not necessarily by words) and puts effort into adding value to my life she gets another chance. Same applies to men. There are just too many worthy people to hang out and rely on. So I'd rather not stick to only one person projecting some fantasy of happiness or opportunities onto him/her that is possibly never met.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 07:20 AM
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I was born and raised in Berlin. Yes, the people are more liberal but the tendency goes more and more into the direction of tolerance/'live the life you chose' and not as liberal-fascistic as it has been well-known from the movements of the US. That allows to live a quite conservative life in Berlin without interfering much with others. I have a lot of friends from high school who married before 30 and I also know people who live in polyamory. Regarding dating life the same applies. You can find…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 01:19 AM
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It's all inside your head: Unmet expectations yield grief. Release all that shit and rely only on what you really can control.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 06:44 PM
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I already suggested a message. It's not very strong but you want to come from a place of independency and abundance, have an interesting life and still be chill and relaxed. It's hard to communicate that without writing and essay which is again a nogo. From my experience such round 2 meets are not very probable depending on your first impression. I met girls telling me to really want to meet again and at the end never saw them again. Don't invest too much energy in figuring something out which i…
/r/askTRP14/01/18 12:22 PM
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For sure one shouldn't stand up just that somebody who is not in need get's your seat. And every person expecting exactly that is not worth your time or attention.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:49 AM
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Should've written it on the same evening half an our to one hour after you parted. Then she will answer while still being in the high. No you don't know in what kind of mood she is and how her day was. Everything out of your control plays in as well. I'd not make the past experience as main topic but how amazing you are. 'Planning to meet some friends on the weekend. There are two locations we might want to check out. Want to join?'
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:46 AM
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Well you didn't ask. In this world nothing of value will just be given to you by strangers. You want a seat? Ask for it. If there was a way to just move two seats and everybody is happy I'd do it if she was requesting it politely.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:34 AM
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I don't know. They can always ask. But they should accept a no where it is dropped. Your story is worse. One should never interrupt a workout.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 08:08 AM
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So you start by an ultimatum. She gives you the 'no' and invites you to Walmart and you actually do it. You can tell how often you want that this is plausible deniability but this is a clear breaking of frame. You distanced yourself from your own ultimatum, you had a 'date' that she organized in time and locationwise. She gives you some kisses and looks to keep you hooked. Basically still zero investment from her side. You went home with her and get the 'We won't have sex because I am on my peri…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 11:21 PM
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I would make it more forward than you but not as strong as the other comment: "I'd like to see you again." or "I'd like to continue where we stopped last time. " followed up by a "Are you free on Saturday evening?". Don't be like "Let's meet whenever it fits you in case this is what you want." Instead tell her what you want (beware of ASD early in the relationship) and when exactly it fits you. Depending on the context I however believe that commanding to meet her is too strong or creepy for tex…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:09 AM
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I think having sex absolutely helps regarding successful ONS and plating. Soft dick won't give her the hormones she was looking for. Don't burn bridges but don't expect much outcome. Probably she will flake you till death.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:01 AM
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Honestly it's kind of great. Like a relationship diary. I really like how it started by 'She can not get over her ex'. It's like a full cycle.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:53 AM
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'Dude, wtf happened to your nose??' 'Well recently I had some problems breathing properly which stopped me from doing cardio. I was basically unable to breath while I was sweating. I told a physician and he told me the only way to fix it is a rhinoplasty. And since he was already fixing my nose I told him to reshape it as well. Double-win for me. Looks good, or?How was your weekend?'
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:08 AM
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Problems? You tell a girl you barely know that you have problems? You tell any girl you have problems? I mean here it obviously doesn't matter because she is done...
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:01 AM
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He basically gave you all advantages of a relationship. He actively invested into the relationship. And you care for words? Just consider the opposite: he calls you 'love', 'gf' or whatever but never let you join his life. He never introduces you to friends. You meet him on a weekly basis and you are only having sex. So what do words count other to stimulate our ego? How does he behave when you meet new people? Does he show other people that you are his gf? Does he touch you, put his arm around …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 08:52 AM
1

A threesome is a shitty way of spending an evening?
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:48 PM
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Which part? Maybe I should mention that I always ask for a number while we are still interacting and not while saying good bye. That puts some time between the exchange of numbers and my first text. I believe I have a 100% answer rate on the short 30 min message. And it has always been overly positive. And I do it independently on the close. I also write the same simple short message after an f-close as after k- or #-close. The direct call to confirm correctness of numbers I would do as well to …
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:56 AM
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I typically just open the "new contact" dialog on my phone and tell her to give me her contact details because I'd like to meet her again. Then directly call her on that number to confirm she didn't "accidentally" give out the wrong number and that she has my number as well. 30 min after you separated you write her that you enjoyed meeting her. She will answer that she like it as well. No direct or indirect invitation here. One to a couple of days later write her again to make the date.
/r/seduction16/10/17 04:26 PM
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The one who gets contact information is the one building up a network. Never just hand out contact information. It's the same for business.
/r/seduction16/10/17 04:02 PM
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That's not very stoic. Which is per se not meant in a critical way. But most people consider stoicism as one of the fundamentals of the RP mind... I would still call it a weakness if some random bitch can make me lose control. Stoicism doesn't mean to be emotionless but control of emotions. A bar (or wherever) is not the best place to cope with the depressive past.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 11:18 PM
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Maybe too aggressive but: 'Wow. You are making fun of me because my son died? Thanks for your contribution. Now play with your barbies again.' Honestly the question is why does it matter what somebody else is thinking of you? Just assume she came and called you gay, that you are fucking your own sister or whatever. How would you have reacted? If somebody calls bullshit don't take it serious. This is basically some free DHV. Every time somebody wants to harm you and fails you score. I experienced…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 05:46 PM
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Absolutely correct. The question however is in both cases how she perceives him. Idealized low value alpha and low value beta both suck. The pure alpha buddha would be invited to weed by the girl or beat it out of some beta. Abundance is the key here. As always. If you are abundant in weed and pussy sharing some weed and fucking afterwards is not a problem. If you are scarce im both it will become a disaster.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 09:14 AM
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Most girls I know don't know how to get weed. Or they are - maybe for logical reasons - afraid of the dealers. So they ask others for weed instead. Many women know how to trade sex or a possible prospect on sex for stuff they like. Your weed indeed makes you a possible provider. Giving them weed is part of beta game. However there is a difference between provider and orbiter. However if you are attractive as well you also have alpha traits. Obviously there is more about you than muscles and weed…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:18 AM
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It will but it needs time. I just didn't want to repeat what you wrote about self-improvement. Game is also practice. You can not learn game in the gym.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:41 AM
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The point is that 'healthy' needs a definition. What does healthy mean? It can be used to shame others into social conformity. 'You are not psychologically healthy if you don't date single moms over 40.' Just find your goal and go for it.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:38 AM
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Universities have places to get coffee. These are good places to meet people. Daygame without confidence however is hard. Just step-by-step improve your game (as you do in the gym). First talk to some strangers - most people I talk to are always happy to meet somebody new. You don't need to find them attractive. Try to get into new social circles.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:33 AM
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Not much info here. Are you possibly the mirror image of your mating partners? Maybe something is wrong with you and not all women? Try gaming other women. Try gaming in other places. Get out of your comfort zone. Obviously nobody will tell you here that your soulmate is just around the corner but there is some gradient in quality regarding women. Might be a cultural/regional thing but IMO the most "dateworthy" women are typically 24-26 years old (depending on genes that can be extended to highe…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:51 AM
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Imo spinning plates exactly means maintaining them. The spinning part is not about the rotation of women but about the plates spinning in the air and you need to use sticks to stabilize them. Spinning plates is not ONS-culture. It's about keeping a girl although you don't offer an relationship. On the other hand spinning one or two plates is for sure not the original idea. If a plate breaks because you were not able to keep her spinning there should always be some replacement.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:57 AM
1

And according to your username you have common children?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 12:55 PM
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Comfort tests are reserved to relationships. If you are in a relationship with a girl without having sex with her you do something wrong. Also if the test is about you it is typically a shit test, if it is about her it is typically a comfort test. You answered well. Independent of you being pissed of (which you should never be but that's another topic) or not you don't communicate your feelings. Your feelings are reserved to you and are present to improve your effectiveness above the rational le…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 09:35 AM
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Stay sober. If you master your anxiety your game is as good or better than those of slightly drunken and always better than of fully drunken people. You feel better on the next day. You can drive home/around by car. About club game IMO the kind of night club is important. EDM scene is completely different to hiphop/rnb, AllTimeFav's, or rock scene. Where are you heading?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:35 AM
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How do you define official? MGTOW and MRP are clearly evolving from the same origin. Still there is a lot of hate between these subs.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:21 AM
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Hey... Anal and oral sex are not really sex. And if he only puts the tip in and cums on her tits it's also not really sex...
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:18 PM
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'I don't kiss and tell.' Then STFU about this subject.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:15 PM
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What if we are anxious? Really? What about we solve our problems before we try to drill holes into girls? Get your shit together and start tackling your anxiousness.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 12:26 AM
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Dropping her to plate while cohabiting? Solid plan.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:33 PM
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Girls approach me This is where you went wrong. You approach. You set the frame.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:17 PM
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Great. You summarize my mental work of the last year in a small blog post. Maybe I wouldn't have understood you a year ago though. I feel like this feeling you describe can not be taught. The epiphany comes from the inside. I deeply hated my father for his weakness as he was always showing off his powerful side to others. The weak side was reserved to his family. He could not keep posture after his divorce and I left him as well as my mother. I might have had to be more loyal. On the other hand …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 11:21 AM
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I see your point but keep in mind women do indeed like emotions as described above. There are possibly better ways to induce them but cheating on her might be one option as well. It might hurt her less than you think. On the other hand you are absolutely right claiming that the real high-value husband should own his decision and can be open about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:27 PM
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Why not having the best of both worlds? According to BlackDragon everybody has his own relationship-specific monogamy lifetime. For some people it might be longer and for some shorter. Also who said that being in a relationship disallows to fuck other women?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 08:59 PM
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Still... to use PUA language for your relatives is odd.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:17 PM
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Great guide!
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:14 PM
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Alternatively she is an emotional wreck because of an ex or abusive behavior in her past.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:01 PM
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Did I just read correctly that you apply Kino on your sister and cousin?
/r/askTRP15/08/17 04:56 PM
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Honestly, I'd like to see you interact with people in real life. If you keep what you promise it would be amazing.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:43 PM
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It's your shared secret if you enjoy kinky sex with him. It puts you together and above all couples with bad sex. Variety can be amazing in sex.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 12:20 PM
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3) Never ever ride him while facing away, always ride facing him. Wut? Reverse cowgirl is a nice position...
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 11:58 AM
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It's really hard to say without knowing your profile and messages. I'd say the image you represent in your profile and the vibe you send through text are not in agreement. You appear incoherent and thus girls flake. But girls will always flake because they often use online dating for validation only. They only use it to let the match number increase because this will yield some artificial self-worth. Then they also like to flirt with strangers because it is fun. But meeting you was never part of…
/r/seduction08/08/17 12:42 PM
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The point is that it is not your duty to recognize relatives of all of your one-month-flings after 12 years of separation. I'd consider that creepy if you tell her that you recognize her sister in her. If I was her I'd cut contact to you not because you did sleep with my sister but because you still think of her - after 12 years.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:21 PM
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"plate" means you had sex with her. Several times. How can a girl write you "miss you" when you did not even have sex with her? Do you know the idea of how to keep an orbiter hooked?
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:10 PM
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So you remember all of the 200 women you slept with and their relatives? Cool.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:07 PM
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Life is just repetitive. As OP I am attracted these girls and can be sure that I find exclusively them in a crowded bar. (Well I am actually attracted to two different types of girls with psychological disorders.)
/r/askTRP06/08/17 11:42 AM
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Go out yourself. Make clear that you don't like her going out without telling it. Mild form of dread by increasing your own SMV (especially directly before going out). You could get a fresh hair cut, get new clothes as short-term.measures and for sure as always: Go lifting.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 11:02 AM
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Wow. What a great example of doing the emotional "rational" best thing by clarifying a problem by overt communication and finding a closure. For the future trust your gut feeling on such stuff. If you really need evidence because you indeed care: get evidence and STFU. Why communicate it overtly? Why seeking a closure? Did you expect some angel or fary coming around the corner removing her long Pinocchio nose? What you can learn from it is that many people you want to stick your dick in are mani…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:18 PM
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A positive statement/compliment overshadowed by a negative statement/insult used as conditional. It will make her insecure and often lead her to qualify herself and afterwards shit test you. It will feel natural for her but at the same time her emotional investment increases. She is hooked. (Both shit testing and her qualifying herself are great IOI's) In this example: "You are an impressively good dancer for your age." "The way you misspell some words is really cute."
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 01:56 PM
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Which is nothing bad per se. Its basically a requirement for LTR's to have beta traits. No strict AF can keep a woman. He will fail the comfort tests. On a physical level that means that the regarded woman will be low on oxytocin as AF will induce dopamine and BB oxytocin. The dual mating strategy of women will always lead to her searching for both, alpha and beta traits. As long as her needs are not satisfied she won't stick to you (Briffault's law) or she will have men satisfying her needs in …
/r/askTRP26/07/17 12:34 PM
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I am a total bitch to my time. My time constantly uses dread game on me. Sometimes she just disappears for some days without a notice. When we remet I am always happy af. Sometimes she is wasted and I feel slightly off. On the other hand who am I to tell her how time has to be spent? I think she will always stay with me and never disappear for a longer time. We are happy in love.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 11:24 AM
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Your SMV in comparison to his SMV? His SMV now (perceived by you now) vs his SMV in the past (perceived by your past self)? In TRP there are very simple solutions to very complex problems. First try to fin a simple answer.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 11:41 PM
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Did not really watch the show but it seems to me that the brother is not BB. He is a weak beta but he has no means (money, property, long-term stability) to be a real BB. You may call that incel, omega or whatever. Accordingly ashton is the real BB. And that's the reason why charlie and asthon get the girls. They represent the dual mating strategy - AF and BB.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 10:15 AM
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Here only people with interest in each other smile. For sure I also met a lot of guys and girls without mutual attraction in bars. Sometimes they opened me, sometimes by friendly eye contact. However >90% of female->male eye contact is the female version of approaching. If you know each other in some sense (met several times in the same bar without further interaction) you often start acknowledging each other by smiling or greeting. However, "In life everything is about sex. Except for sex which…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 08:40 AM
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Eye contact makes even game unaware men approach you. Especially if you smile while doing it. Just practice: look some strangers in the eye. Look the ones who can not approach you first in the eyes and smile (cashiers, waiters, people sitting in a train/bus that is leaving the station, ...). Then transition to people who walk past you. Only few man are brave enough to talk to a smiling girl walking past them. Then look and smile at people who you are attracted to and will be able to approach you…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 09:40 PM
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It depends on were you live and where you go out. I am from Berlin, Germany, and I prefer Eastern European women for an LTR for exactly the reasons you mentioned. I know people who do as me. It's a quite common thing here that "traditional" (that sounds horrible) Germans date Eastern European women. We neither like the rioting lesbian feminists look-a-likes. Just go on. You will find one. Stick to bars. Get a girlfriend to meet you there. Every guy (possibly + wing) approaching you two deserves …
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 09:16 PM
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I think there are three issues that you defined: You want to have a bf You want to have a large (female) social circle You want to be less socially awkward even under stress To 1: You are looking for a cool bf and you want him to be attracted to you? The most important factor for the determination of a woman's SMV (from a man's POV) is her physique. After you build attraction other factors weigh in as well and that's the moment you prove you are worth a relationship. However it sounds like the f…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 12:56 AM
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Read the title; don't omit quotation signs.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 08:27 AM
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This post basically describes at least 90% of my social circle. Was the discription that vague or does it just prove that I have a PD and am only befriending people with PD's?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 12:57 PM
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If you are jacked (physical health) and confident (mental health) she won't see you as weak independent on what you say. Do you lift?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 01:39 PM
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The point is not to pedastelize a memory. Your mind will work in a way that you keep more positive than negative memories about him. If you'll eventually die at an age of 80 you spend something like one percent of your whole life with your SO. Even if he wouldn't have died you have no confirmation it would have been much longer than that. Look at all the women in this sub and any other relationship advisory board. Relationships break eventually. Yours did it in a very hurtful way. As almost all …
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 01:27 PM
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Jim is her orbiter and she gave him a bit of carrot to keep him around. I don't think she fucked Jim but the way she plays with men indicates she slept with some other men (probably some more alpha-type than her BB and Jim). She now has the confirmation that nothing bad happens if she sleeps around. She just needs to cry and everything will dissolve. Btw. I think I read somewhere that crying women will change your hormonal system so that it is easier for you to start your own hamster. He is not …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:13 PM
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Just make sure not to use condoms. In this age the hormonal stability of the female body is really low. Any external influence like the lube and content of your condoms can affect it. Ideally for the moment you just cum in her because later you'll switch to anal and then sex is safe. A real alpha always considers a challenge and does not avoid it. Her father is in the same house? Try to fuck her into screaming ecstasis. Next time you'll meet him he will respect you and offer a permanent position…
/r/askTRP05/07/17 08:40 AM
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It doesn't matter. Don't expect it as you can not control it. Unmet expectations only create grief. Be outcome independent. But that also means that if she doesn't follow your lead she won't be the last women of your life. Also 90% of having a healthy weight is proper diet. Even if she dislikes the gym she could handle her weight. She would be skinny fat instead of fit but still skinny fat is better than fatfat.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:06 PM
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90kg 1,60meters. (☉_☉) Honestly, this is your problem here. Her BMI is 35! And I guess she is not a bodybuilder... How does she compensate being in that state? Btw. you can't fix her. But if you really continue your path you shouldn't accept it either. Why are you supposed to do all these workouts while she is lazily victimizing herself in front of her friends?
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:54 AM
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Does it matter? You had your fun. Clearly she is not going to stick around forever as she kicked your balls within the first interaction. She owns you now and will continue doing it if you LTR her. She seems to me to be too much of trouble. I think telling her 'Ok. There's the door.' would be the appropriate answer. It wasn't about the info. It was a power game and she went all-in. You can fold and comply as you did and lose basically everything but stay on the table. Or you just call her bullsh…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:46 AM
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Bad relationship with her parents/wasn't raised by them/her parents fled from the responsibility. Maybe it would not have worked for a lifetime in any case but if I would've been a better captain it would have worked out at least longer. The largest red flag was my own unawareness and my own weakness. Being raised by a desperate weak alcoholic father and protecting and shielding mother I probably couldn't turn out differently. Needs some internet strangers to make me wake up. Whether your relati…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:39 AM
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I don't understand this world. How could this be a thing? How can living such an artificial life be attractive to any human being? Don't you hate how much you waste your time?
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:07 PM
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"I'm slightly autistic hehe" That sounds a lot like asperger which exists and describes a lot of the behavior of the best students in STEM fields.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 07:22 AM
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Others get kind of conscious about their body, and it's actually funny to see them trying to hide their defects. Game better women. Most women are somehow insecure but typically they are able to hide it. Is this normal with girls that used to know you as the "unfuckable beta"? It's simple attraction and it doesn't have a context. A girl acting relatively shy is almost always in some sense attracted to you.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:02 PM
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The common misconception is that if you just invest into a relationship - especially with HighQualityWomen™ - your investment will be rewarded by fulfillment or happiness. While that might be a viable short time solution it doesn't create lasting fulfillment as its degree depends on external factors. (And the depression after the highness can create a negative or only slightly positive total outcome) If you interpret relationship in an abundant selfish way and only consider the internal factors …
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:08 PM
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You should not go to the gym to not become injured. As you implied your body is external. To rely on its healthiness is foolish. But indeed you do not go to the gym to not become injured. There is a huge bunch of reasons why you go there. And I bet you have some reasons that nobody can take from you and that nobody except for yourself can manipulate. And that's the internal root of your desire to go to the gym. Same applies to the career. However, some stoics claim that being a philosopher is th…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 03:59 PM
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Basic stoicism. I just cite Epictetus here: All human beings seek the happy life, but many confuse the means - for example, wealth and status - with that life itself. This misguided focus on the means to a good life makes people get further from the happy life. The really worthwhile things are the virtuous activities that make up the happy life, not the external means that may seem to produce it. Happiness and personal fulfillment are the natural consequences of doing the right thing. Relationsh…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 03:35 PM
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Seeking fulfillment in relationships is also not the wisest idea.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 08:04 AM
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What you really say does not really matter. The question is how you say it and how serious you take yourself/how much ego-invested you are. If you don't feel butthurt you won't act butthurt. Canned responses are always strange. It needs to fit to the situation. Often I just start laughing. I am so amused that a stranger believes she can crack my shell just by telling me I am in whatever sense low value. Often they project their own insecurities. Here some canned stuff that probably won't work be…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:53 AM
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It's interesting that you think that your life is represented by the choice between two unfavorable options. Don't you think there is a third option? (Not to talk about the million other ones)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:08 PM
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I dont hate you. Well... Don't do that. That's not going to make your position stronger.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 12:18 PM
1

She is sexually submissive. . Sounds like mum mhm...
/r/askTRP19/06/17 12:10 PM
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First of all: there are 3.5 billion women on this planet. Bad logistics are always a problem and do not stop after the opener. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out. I had a similar situation recently in a bar. The hottest girl there was sitting in a group with three jacked as shit "alpha" males. I'd say I am decent, tall, moderately muscular, and low bf but these guys already peaked physically and if you like this kind of guy they were above my level regarding body shape. Still she looked …
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:42 AM
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I really like that shit testing is part of almost all human interaction and how easy it is to break through the moment you realize it is a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 08:22 AM
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Isn't 'that bitch' a bit too emotional from your side? I guess you should suck up the emotions and not throw them back to her? Or are you doing this in an amused way with a wink to distract her from her initial angry emotions towards the bitch and pull her into some fun/teasing emotions towards you?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 10:16 AM
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Negging works for young semi-hot to hot low-personality superficial girls (<22). It's just extremely risky and unnecessary for older, more confident and smarter girls (<28).
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 10:30 AM
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Independent on the opinion on negging this doesn't help people who have problems to open. Most beginners have a huge confidence and investment problem while approaching. That's why they are looking for openers in the web. However even if you have the opener it wouldn't make everything easier. It's still a lot of stress for the beginner: His head turns red, he is stammering one of your openers and will shyly smile afterwards. She will look in disbelief what he just said and either laugh or just t…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 10:25 AM
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Why so? Period of MGTOWing or exclusive LTR/marriage?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:39 PM
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So ten years till you reach your peak SMV. Ten years ago you found out that there is something like sex. So how do you plan to use the next ten years to rock your life? Start today by going in that direction. Never stop progressing.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 12:34 PM
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I think there is some misconception probably induced by me: But don't expect to be in an LTR after the third date. By the third date, I knew I wanted an LTR with him And that's exactly the difference I wanted to point out. You can find the intention to build an LTR within three dates (or earlier) but you are not within an LTR after three dates. In the OP it sounded to me like 'You should wait to have sex until after you entered an LTR'. And that wouldn't have been a healthy mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 11:56 PM
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If you date seriously in a focused manner, utilizing the "why not" mindset described in the linked post - it shouldn't take you longer than a few weeks to decide whether this person is suitable for you in the long run or not. Suitable doesn't mean LTR. LTR means history. It means afforded work. It means memories. It even means more than that. You can not have any of these after a couple of weeks. But I guess I get now your point. You want to say that you should check out wether a partner appears…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 11:45 PM
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Sorry but I wholeheartedly disagree. but vetting for a LTR is a big decision which cannot be done in a single day. It takes time and contemplation to determine whether this person is a good fit. Exactly. I don't know how you define timespans of an LTR but for me an LTR is something that lasts at least a year. Everything else is a positive experience that adds to your life but not an LTR. I think an LTR has to be at least of one year duration because the vetting process takes around one year. For…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 08:50 PM
1

So the only reason to marry somebody and to stay in a marriage is to reward somebody for earning your trust? You probably trust at least one other person as your mother, father, siblings, best male friends? You would instantly marry that person?
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:24 PM
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I don't think so. If a marriage is either perfect or bullshit your advice would be sound. However there are more shades of good or bad. If you consider marriage on a rational level you don't need to trust her at all if it doesn't belong to your idea of marriage. Honestly I think trusting is neither necessary nor reasonable.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:08 PM
1

That's a valid question but not necessarily solving OP's problem.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:01 PM
1

I think it would help. It is a theory, it is concise and in agreement with TRP philosophies. IMO it deserves a post in the main sub.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 07:43 PM
2

Honestly, next time you find out he is below your league just ignore him. Why do you even answer in this chain? Do you gain anything? You are now an EC and that is absolutely correct considering your great posts recently. Still you should behave like one in the comment section as well. As something like a guru of emotional investment you should check your own investment in this culture/subreddit/subject/your ego.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 10:46 PM
1

Some lube is fine though. Depends on the brand. IMO your own immersion is the most important thing about having a nice orgasm. If you are not immersed into the act you are going to become limb or not having an orgasm as you described. The problem is that if you recognize your missing immersion during the act you are becoming less and less immersed. It's really some annoying stuff. Tbh I don't necessarily believe anymore in dead grip although I did before. I believe you just steal all the fun fro…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:29 AM
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First OYS ever. Need to tackle my shit. It's still a long way. Physic: Back to training. Still doing BWF which already improved a lot but at some point I need to visit the gym. Finances are just not sufficiently stable so I use what I have. Instead I now have to kill the BWF routines. Diet: I am back to zero. I eat inconsistently and not enough. I need to follow my diet in a more strict way. I was there already but slipped through some chaos that ultimately led me to go back to bad patterns. Sti…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 01:22 PM
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I'm 30, she's 26, how does this figure to you Sounds bad. I'd expected you are both ten years older. 26 y/o, has a child, on tinder, openly criticizes her ex? Doesn't sound good, mate. Don't trust her words but her actions. She tells you she has no options but she is on tinder. What would you expect to be more true? I wouldn't say run as fast as you can but having parachute around could be helpful. She will highly probably manipulate the shit out of you over the next months to make you take care…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 12:09 PM
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She has a kid, that's not an issue for me but it is a complication Not necessarily a red flag for me depending on your/her age. she mentions her ex frequently but in a negative content Remove the 'but'. To talk about an ex in a negative context means that she is still not over him and that there is still unresolved stuff and emotions. To do it frequently is even worse. she interrupts, could be nerves but I find that disrespectful, I've told her she's being rude Needs to be observed. I am struggl…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 11:49 AM
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Can somebody please explain what happens/what you feel when you say 'I am weak'? I don't really feel anything but maybe my 'I am weak' is just hidden deep inside of me behind a lot of shields. I tried 'I am weak', 'I am utterly weak', 'I am disgustingly weak', and 'I am quite weak' but nothing resonates. They are just sentences.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 01:31 PM
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There's this one girl... ------>
/r/askTRP06/05/17 02:35 PM
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TBH I am more on the other side. What did you lose by answering? The problem is that you advanced too fast. Let her set everything up but don't expect anything. Why you invested again time to create a date is something you need to ask yourself. If she invites you into her bed than you can go. But you don't organize a candle light dinner. Always just ask yourself whether your action rather goes towards candle light dinner or bedroom and decide accordingly to do it or not. Don't invest anything in…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 02:29 PM
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Going solo is tough in places where social circles are expected. In the seddit sub there was the advice to tell the girls that your friend just left you alone with a girl under his arm. I think 'I am a tourist can you lead me around?' might also work. Also 'my friend is late' and afterwards 'we will go <somewhere else> when he arrives' might work and adds a false time constraint. In general sport clubs, meetups and stuff like that might be more of your thing. Try to find common interests. Then y…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 02:22 PM
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I don't see the advantage to explicitly tell a girl what she is confused about. Maybe you take muscle enhancing drugs, maybe you are part of an astronaut training program, maybe you wear other clothes and they just never observed your muscles, maybe you work out. Just let them create a nice interesting story in their head. Don't destroy their fantasy.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 02:19 PM
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Stay NC. You might get the ego-boost of her crawling back. Does that help you to progress? No. Improve yourself to progress. If you feel bad analyze what made you feel bad and which steps led you to feeling bad. I think 4 years of LDR sounds already like a nice starting point. At some point you need to leave her fb alone. It doesn't help. I know the desire to check out how she is doing and while you are in anger/self-pity phase you can do it. But recognize that you do nothing but feeding your an…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 01:59 PM
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I don't believe that you were happy with your life when you took the red pill and broke up. If you were taking TRP for 10 years you probably wouldn't consider going into an LTR as BB and after 5 years quitting just because TRP tells you to be AF. If you want to be BB just be BB. BB is your natural form. It is easier for you. If you want to learn to be AF stay calm and take your time. It sounds like you have at least 10 years of BB behind you but only 5 months of try-to-be-AF. What did you expect…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:16 PM
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That actually sounds like a nice life. I guess we'll all get there at some point.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:11 PM
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You are still in the beginning of your journey. You need to read more. I'd suggest Rollo Tomassi's Rationale Male. But actually you can just as well read the main sub. Maybe just as a thought: Who are the most dominant secretly or obviously world changing leaders? 18 y/o boys or rather 30 y/o (and older) men? Maybe just take one of the youngest most influential men you know... Mark Zuckerberg? Sergey Brin? Elon Musk? We are not even talking about Warren Buffett and Bill Gates here. How old is Tr…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:00 PM
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As already said there is not enough info. Most probably it is an issue with inner game. Maybe you are confident but your inner game still sucks. That you didn't have sex for 5 months probably doesn't help. You are probably in some sense too desperate. You escalate too fast or too slow. Something is odd in your behavior and girls see that by instinct. I don't think that it is a physical/facial issue. Attraction by women towards men is much more complicated than just facial symmetry. If that is in…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:47 PM
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That she says she wants to keep it doesn't necessarily mean that one can not convince her to do an abortion. That she doesn't expect anything from him is as well unlikely to stay like that.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:53 AM
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That's high-risk gambling. Tell her something like: "You are so young. There are so many opportunities to get little babies. Did you ever consider if you'd rather like to have a daughter or a son? Maybe both? You know it is really optimal when everybody is financially stable. That would create a really nice stable family environment. It would stand out against all these broken families nowadays. Most nice LTR's break because of getting babies too early just because of biological reasons. We are …
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:33 AM
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Why is abortion out of the picture and adoption his only choice?
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:25 AM
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why is abortion the absolute worst way and adoption is preferred in your opinion? IMO adoption is gambling till the last minute and I'd say losing with a large probability.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:24 AM
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I think the idea mentioned above is one of the most ridiculous approaches ever and probably worked out not because of his solid frame but rather because the girl knew from the beginning that it is absolutely possible that he is not the father. On the other hand how do you know that you are the father? Why should such an approach be too late for you?
/r/askTRP25/04/17 09:18 AM
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The point is not the value of the outcome of the decision as a response to the ultimatum. It is that you give the choice to somebody else. The cop is powerless. He does not decide anymore whether he is going to shoot him, whether he has to do the paperwork, is attacked by media because of police violence, is left by his wife because of depression, put into office work because of mental instability. Or maybe the suspect drops the knife in front of little disabled children and he is filmed and con…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:12 AM
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You define your sex life. Why don't you do different positions?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 11:31 AM
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Be careful of mate guarding though. If you haven't internalized a strong mind and if your girl didn't internalize an image of your strong mind teasing her about her attraction can yield an impression of being butthurt. It will make you appear weaker. I think having this huge realization is enough for one evening.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/17 10:42 AM
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The fuck is wrong with your post history? You got a number from a stripper and wanted to date her before 'plating'. Uncle Vasya tells you how the story has to start, will progress, and how it ends. There are just some simple rules you have to follow. I am just citing his first sentence: 'When you date a stripper, you have to be careful, or you will find yourself in for a Hurricane of Pain.' You married up the stripper, made her pregnant (after ~2 months dating), you merge finances and let her qu…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 07:32 AM
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It's a shit test. Do you take yourself too serious and value her comment that high? She is a child. She talks stupid shit all night long. If a small girl tells you you are short are you insulted by the lack of respect? For sure not. You are amused by the lack of social intelligence.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 10:37 PM
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Maybe you should start making your own day, friendo.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 09:07 PM
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Why? Do almost no or all people claim to be ENTP? When I did the test some months ago I was ENTP but my 'E' was highly washed out towards 'I' and I am quite sure I am very often more of INTP style. Edit: ah... I saw another comment. ENTP's always critize these tests?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 07:44 AM
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So your gf is invested? Doesn't sound that bad. Just do what you want to do and game your gf as you desire her. Game her more than all other girls. That should be fairly easy because you desire her, don't you? I think I'd just ignore her jealousy. You can take it as a compliment but you are not living your life to get such cheap compliments. Just rock your life and you won't have such considerations at all.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:24 PM
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Scientist here. You are partially right, partially mixed up different terms and notations, and partially wrong. However, independent on your content all of that sounds rather irrelevant to me. Also 'If you think laws exist, you are BP' sounds like a law (a strict implication doomed to be true for all times and situations) to me. Maybe you shouldn't apply your models on your environment before you didn't check that your model is applicable. To determine whether somebody is BP or not (whatever tha…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:51 PM
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Not sure about the situation in the US but in europe a football/soccer player doesn't publicly tell that he's gay. Some do it after their carrer ends with something like 40 years. But then you can be sure that they'll never be employed as trainer or manager. It is also not part of the open discussion or a subject in any related show. Actually clubs are still struggling with open plain racism. The whole culture is at least 50 years behind.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:22 PM
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It's really hard for football/soccer player to openly show that they are gay. They instantly lose a lot of marketvalue. Some clubs they can never play for and hardly play against. To show the world that you are gay is the most stupid thing a player can do. I think even journalists respect that. I don't know it for him but I know that some famous player in my national league are gay (through common friends) and they always arrive with a new girlfriend at social events.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 09:41 AM
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This is a rant/venting labeled as rant/venting. Does venting show that you are already at your goal? No. But it is part of the unplugging process. Give him a possibility to vent if he needs it. He should rather vent here than in his social circle.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 09:30 AM
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The fuck did I just read? Is this the way how you collect information? Can you not simply cite the criminal statistics? Do you need to follow this stupidness?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 10:14 PM
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I like the post and believe I can learn from it but maybe you shoud've written a field report and labeled it as field report if your intention was to write a field report? Tbh I like the failure parts of field reports the most. For me success in field is a combination of a lot of positive steps. To really grasp which one was the most important one is sometimes hard. You say it is eye contact and spinning/leading the girl but maybe it was your posture, sunglasses, eye color or the way your hair l…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 10:28 AM
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She probably will consider to return to him at some point. If she stays in contact with him she probably wants to keep one foot in the door. If the escalation happens and he will take her back/she will take him back you are out. If the escalation happens and either of them refuses you are the hero. Don't invest too much and enjoy the time with her. It can be over quite fast.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:21 PM
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Weeks? I think days is more appropriate.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:17 PM
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Either he missed something in his narrative or she is keeping a part of the narrative secret/for herself. Maybe she feels remorse of something she did when he is good to her. Or she feels manipulated when he is good to her because she believes that he is manipulative. Or maybe her strongest desire is to be treated like a bitch. Or... In any case finding the origin will be almost impossible. And probably it doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/17 06:07 PM
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I think you should learn all mindsets that TRP can provide. For me the stoic meditational mindset is something like my natural one (in a sense that I most often use it). But I can easily switch to a more emotional/fun/energetic mindset if the situation requires it. Although in a rational view I completely understand and logically can follow the IDGAF-mindset I haven't internalised it in a way that I can easily utilize it. I just give a fuck from time to time. The PUA stuff is something I disrega…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:43 AM
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love songs?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:31 AM
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this seems to be a very sad truth
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:00 PM
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I don't like the make-your-wing-weak game. I think you appear stronger if you and your wing are strong. I am only doing wing game. I have two wings and we are completely different and have different taste in girls. It makes everything easier if you don't fight over girls. Still we are flexible and sometimes switch the approached girl. For me the wing is not an active part of the conversation you vs girl. He is there to distract the friends so that you can more easily open large sets (and especia…
/r/seduction03/03/17 02:00 PM
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You need to excuse yourself to talk to a girl? Well it's just my point of view and thus highly subjective but I call BS. Every conversation I started with 'excuse me' at best insta-friendzoned me. I am doing night game. In night game almost everyone is looking for mating partners. You don't excuse yourself in such a situation. You just say: Y(ou): 'Hi, are you as well celebrating a birthday?' S(he): 'No, why? Are you?' Y: 'No but the group over there and I thought you belong to them. So what are…
/r/seduction03/03/17 01:36 PM
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A nice reminder and motivator about you defeating your weakness is taking cold showers. If you enter the shower you have two options: warm and comfy or cold and badass. There is no way you can rationalize why you took the warm water although you decided a couple of days ago that you only want to take cold showers. I did not struggle even one time over a period of 7 months during winter time. You would have to accept that you are defeated. So you keep it going. Every fucking time a fucking cold s…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 11:30 AM
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Please elaborate on that.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:41 AM
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I always thought time passes by faster when you grow older. I am almost 30 and considering what I experienced and achieved during the last 10-15 years it's impossible to derive what I can expect from the next 50 years. If you say that it's the same with almost 40 this will be an extremely ling timespan...
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:33 AM
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It's an endless discussion. It really depends on you. For some people NoFap heals for others it destroys their libido. I actually would always put priority on no alcohol and/or no pot and not consider the masturbation thing as longs as it is not a problem. A lot of people agree on that instead. Btw doing 100 pushups is the same. It's not advised at all by the bodyweight comunity to do 100 pushups. You train nothing else than doing 100 pushups. It is highly inefficient training with regard to mus…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 08:03 AM
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You know stoicism. Every example you mentioned belongs to the outer sphere. They are out of your control. If you try to control what happens in the outer sphere you'll be unhappy. 'The food you just got' - I don't think we are talking about food here 'the relationship you are in' - She's not yours, it's just your turn. You can not control her. It's absolutely impossible. The more you try the less you'll earn. Just enjoy it as long as it lasts but don't make her to be the center of your life. 'th…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:01 PM
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You already have the result. You decided to go running for a mile every morning and you did. Your body transforms by itself but fighting the lazyness every morning is exactly your achievement. I recently was introduced to /r/theXeffect and think its a great idea to visualize your success. Do 49 cards with running a mile every morning. Draw the crosses. See your achievement. That you are willing to change is already improving you. Do not eat simple sugar (sweets, soda, ...) for 49 days.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 02:22 PM
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Sounds very robotic to me. Hard to guess from here but maybe everything was too strict according to some plan. She saw your plan and saw directly through you and saw your insecurities. If that's the case probably the case is lost. Or...: If you go out in groups the group dynamics are really important. What kind of standing have you in the group? What about her? Does it feed her hypergamous nature to be with you? Was she ever attracted to you? If you are not in the top category of your group prob…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 02:15 PM
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For me, the winter 5 pounds I've put on are making me feel not sexy at all Reflection leads to the solution? Maybe lose these 5 pounds? I started a new job, it's dark when I get home, I just don't feel sexy Light depression? To me it sounds like you should try to get up one hour earlier and go running for 20 minutes outside, in the park, where the rising sun shines on you... This would fight the 5 pounds and your depression.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 01:51 PM
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I play video games with a girl ;) Although only like once a month. I never touch games otherwise.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 01:46 PM
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You have oneitis for him. He has oneitis for psycho. Now psycho needs to get oneitis for you and you are in a drama by Satre... Best thing is to cut drama. Don't try to make him stuff he doesn't want. Don't acknowledge the existence of psycho. He doesn't want to talk about her? That's just great because now you can talk about important stuff. Do not pedestalize psycho. She is also just a girl. If your friend gets destroyed it happens only due to self-inflicted damage. He is your friend while you…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 01:40 PM
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Really depends.. depends on the location and the kind of girl. However, independent on the situation: always assume attraction. IMO: the higher the SMV of the girl the lower the amount of eye contact with strangers. If your SMV is high and a high SMV girl has eye contact with you it's a good sign. If your SMV is low and a low SMV girl has eye contact with you I wouldn't guarantee for anything. The other two cases are obvious keeping hypergamy in mind.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:41 PM
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Ah great.. the update. I think this was only token resistance. If you would've retried you might have gotten her. As you said 45min is awkwardly long. As rule of thumb: if a girl reacts awkward around you she is probably attracted/DTF. Girls are often worse in overt communication/flirting than guys in covert communication. But I know the feeling when you just fucked another girl almost effortless and you don't know why you should invest in such a 'lost case'.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:09 PM
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However dancing for an hour next to a girl trying to send a playful sexy intense eye fuck leads you nowhere. Not sure where you are from or what kind of clubs you frequent but typically only the ugly chicks in a club are looking for eye contact. The ones you are interested in try to avoid it as much as possible as everytime they have accidential eye contact with a dance orbiter these instantly try to grab them by the pussy. I'd say a girl in a club has to fight back ~20-100 guys per evening. My …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:15 AM
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Oneitis is not the only reason to get back with your ex. I rather think 80% of the time it is plane lazyness. Living the RP way is hard. Investing energy in new girls makes you tired. Being 'alone' after living a nice comfy BP life for many years is depressing. Just getting back to your ex is easy. She is already offering it. If you ask 'how to get my ex back' it is a clear indicator of oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:03 PM
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? You know that they are bleeding from time to time out of the same hole you want to have sex with? Also girls typically tell you when they are on their period. And a period often happens... Well... Periodically.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 01:49 PM
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I see I am not the only one. I also have a child which eats 50% of my non-work/non-sleep time. Not sure how to improve everything in my life with just some hours per week. Maybe not the RP way (sot sure if there exists something like that) but I think the solution is a compromise: Just neglect/reduce some stuff for some days but try to keep everything up on a high but not maximized level. You can not go lifting three times a week? Then do it twice. I also mediate in the subway towards my work an…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:47 PM
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Btw. according to 'thinking, fast and slow' making a happy face will make you happier. In the book it's called 'priming'. So maybe try to make a more happy face everytime you notice that your face is frozen. But actually becoming happy without using primers would be obviously the best idea. Meditation can work.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:30 PM
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That's one solution (according to the article the 'beginner solution') but not the only one. Here is it btw: Don't fix her problem..Fix her feelz™
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 12:32 PM
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I think this is one of the top posts in MRP: Don't fix her problems, fix her feelz!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 07:44 AM
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https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bodyweight.fitness.free&hl=en The app is really good.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:40 PM
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Outcome independence is the key. You might fuck her or not. If it is not wasting too much of your time just have fun. Relax, meditate (if you know how to) and have a nice day. If I read it correctly you were not open with your strong sexual desire the last dates. Possibly the reason why she flaked before. Now you are either in the friendzone and she really wants to drink beer (unlikely IMO) or she is reaching out to you because she currently has no better options. If she has no better options sh…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:38 AM
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Your content is mostly correct. 17 years are a game changer because you are getting older and develop and thus change your own perception in women and requirements in sexual relationships. However these 'lol's and 'loll's just completely kill your post. You are no silly little girl. You are a man now and men do not 'loll'.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 08:44 AM
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Thanks for the list. I tried to improve with these things during the last weeks. Sleep is my weakest point as I have no real routine. The other parts are more or less in order. Sometimes I skip a meal and feel like shit. Sometimes I miss a bottle of water and feel the same. You are right it is important.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:47 AM
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There is still improvement with regard to the aspects you mention. However for me currently it is the point to live like that. Metaphorically speaken: I can sleep once I am dead. Sleep is my weakest point but it was also always my strongest ability. I can easily remove some hours within the week and put them on the weekend. I can basically sleep everywhere and I am falling to sleep within seconds. Still there is so far not much structure and I believe it holds me back in my everyday's performanc…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:43 AM
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For me it is resignation. It means allowing others to take care of your life. It results in lower longterm happiness but it is the easy way. Ever considerer to remove half of your IQ because dumb people are easier to make happy? Or start taking heavy drugs to escape the responsibility? It's tempting but nothing that I want. I was just addicted to the BP life for many years.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:38 AM
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Indeed I just had a brave moment. Just talked to some guys there sitting at the bar. Don't know about what exactly. Probably regarding the bar, 'it's nice here' 'people are cool'. Then it transfers to more meaningful stuff. But tbh no clue what exactly. But if you know one he will greet you the next time you enter (and he is there as well). He introduced me to others. Suddenly I knew 20 people from the bar. They are not really friends though. I also have met real friends from my social circle th…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 12:01 AM
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Seems like your definition of comfort tesrs hit the core and is in agreement with relevant TRP posts. My definition of just covered the symptoms. I stand corrected. It still makes the question somewhat reasonable as we assure that we can keep the girls we want to LTR but it was not really the intial intention to interpret it like that. I am going to remove the post. Thanks for the words.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:52 PM
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More like circumstances and properties: independence variation/progress inner clamness (stoicism) reliability for myself and for those I offer it borderless/restrictionless life selfreflection killing my fucking ego
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:37 PM
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Sometimes life has aspects that do not lead to much relaxing. For sure my goal would be to improve while having fun. Currently it is sometimes exclusive though.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:32 PM
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That's the answer I wanted to get I guess. Not 40 but end-20, just finished my fast track PhD possibly with excellent grade, having a daughter, going through divorce, sports, friends, unrelated hobbies. Got a promotion, looking for a new job. I am still not you but I will have overtaken you when I am 40 - and then I will steal your plates ;) I hope I get into the zone of not giving a fuck. I could also live a nice calm BP life.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:31 PM
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Basically every girl is in a bar to meet men. Girls meet at home if they want to talk. They often show you directly if they are interested or not. I would indeed try to meet the regulars first. The bar I frequent I know the people who often hang out there. I made something like friends there. It's kind of stupid because I neither drink nor smoke but I have a lot of fun there meeting friends or bar regulars and there I find the kind of girls I like.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:10 PM
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Please elaborate. I was talking about a specific part of the plate theory that tests girls. It was discussed in one of the most upvoted posts of the main sub. I know that Rollo's plate theory discusses other aspects as well that's why I specifically hinted the upgrade part) Maybe I am indeed missing something in the comfort test but the female->male case would be the test for long term stability often as a way to upgrade or define the relationship if not properly defined before. Often the comfor…
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:04 PM
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It's sad but probably the right answer. Currently it is not the case for you but pussy gets more and more meaningless. Especially after some time not seeing a specific one. Your education will last forever. IMO this would be a valid monk mode. Just keep the possibility open. Social circle gsme might be more reasonable for you. Probably you'll still meet friends from time to time and there are often as well single girls. Just not as much as in a bar. Bit if you don't have time gor bar game better…
/r/askTRP20/01/17 10:48 PM
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Everbody who cares afterwards loses. Everyone moving on wins. Sometimes both lose, sometimes both win, often one appears as winner and another as loser. But as RP male you always win.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 10:14 PM
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OP you are crazy cool. This thread was already so full of shit (especially starting with your opener but as well the comments) and you still wrote it deeper into the ground. And all of this as RP theory post. Made my evening, thanks. Would like to get an erection with below-6 (normal scale) or below-4 (your scale). Might make my life easier. Do you use viagra?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 10:05 PM
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No, you don't, the research is out there. So you trust in research? Microchimerism seems to protect from breast and colon cancer Microchimerism seems to protect from some autoimmune diseases To be honest I don't trust in research at all as I am a researcher/scientist and know that most studies show exactly what the scientists want to show and what earns the most money for future research. Never trust a scientist. The system is corrupt. Not a low-value stranger. Are we snowflaking our own mom? Di…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 10:02 AM
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Doesn't. You don't know. Someone else's DNA permanently in her brain is disgusting. You probably have your mother's DNA in your brain. 'Disgusting' is a matter of definition. Micro-chimerism is real, accept it. I never claimed something else. The implications you draw are just not necessarily true. We just don't know.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:44 PM
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It's actually really disgusting when you think about it. She's permanently assimilating someone else's DNA (it's called micro-chimerism, yes it's documented), she is permanently lowering her value, and permanently lowering her ability to pair-bond. It's disgusting yes. But only because of your (and my) social conditioning. Maybe it even increases her physical value by increasing the strength of her immune system. Or it decreases her physical value because of the higher likelihood of autoimmune d…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 01:48 PM
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bald with goatee
/r/askTRP18/01/17 01:29 PM
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How can you not buy the feminine/masculine nature but in the same sentence write that it works (at least for 20%)? To me it sounds as if at least 20% are driven by their feminine nature. As all agree that men are just animals that makes a huge part of the society. Just have a look into fashion/style. How do male models nowadays look like? Do they have baby faces or are they bearded? Do they show muscles or are they thin? The problem with equality of genders is that the mainstream doesn't want to…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:35 AM
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About 5) Women are not only attracted to the perfect alpha male examples. Attraction is much more complicated than just telling a woman wants to fuck an alpha and that's it. All human's have desires and most of these change over time for different reasons. TRP is a global optimization strategy. The girls you as a man typically physically desire in your twenties to thirties/forties are those who often prefer the typical alpha male over the typical beta male. These girls are peaking in their SMV d…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 02:12 PM
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Even more unclear to me why something like TBP exists is why somebody from TRP (or any other subreddit) is reading it. Why wasting time?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 11:15 PM
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The main problem here is that you needed to say 'excuse me'. Like do you need to excuse yourself for being raped? This is exactly the reason why our society is that bad. It's like we are still living in stone age.... Really go to the police. This needs to stop.
/r/MGTOW29/12/16 10:01 PM
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Sounds good... Maybe I should focus more on my career and hobbies first and maybe I'll find the magic of women again. Thanks for the guidance.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 05:06 PM
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Like spanking or like opening their heart and then shitting in it? The former I do and like but the girls as well. Nice to know that they think of you every time they sit down on the next day. The latter is not my style.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 05:05 PM
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This sounds so much like depression phase (4) of the five stages of swallowing the pill. I have the feeling with all the energy I have I should bang the girls left and right, stacked on top of each other and put in a row. I feel like when I am end-30 or end-40 I will miss the times when it was easy for me to get chicks. But maybe not. Maybe I'll find some more interesting girls or I attempt some LTR...
/r/askTRP29/12/16 12:27 PM
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You are still young. According to some SMV theories your value will peak with around 35. So you have another 10 years to improve yourself. Read the sidebar; it is full of important information. I think for you the push through lifting will be the best starting point. You will soon see first results in the mirror and by others treating you differently. I had a strong case of oneitis and stoicism was my biggest help. But I think that would only slow you down. You can consider it later.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 11:52 PM
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I think 'I like to be alone' is not one of the best flirts.. Why not being playful? Actually without context 'let's have breakfast tomorrow' sounds like an invite to sex the night before. Why not misinterpret and playfully response?
/r/askTRP28/12/16 10:40 PM
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Depends on what you call smart. First of all you don't know how smart she really is. You perceived her to be extremely smart. You think you have some objective measure to do so but in reality you just see what you want to see. Sounds like she is your unicorn. Nothing to be ashamed of but please try to understand that you are manipulating yourself to increase her value. I never met a really smart woman. I am still hoping to do it one day. The problem is blatantly spoken that I am much smarter tha…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 02:27 PM
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Some guy was dancing with me. He wanted to grind. I wanted him to leave but didn't know how to communicate that. I am normally the one who opens not the one who closes. My gf was nearby and was highly amused. Well, I was a total beta. Not wondering that some guys wanted to rape my ass.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:21 PM
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Went to a gay bar. Gays were hitting on me. Not going to gay bars again. (Nothing against gays but I really don't like becoming the female part of communication... just not my style... well and dicks are disgusting except for my glorious love maker)
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:15 PM
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Probably the point was that the variance is is so large that the countrywide average is meaningless. I am not from US but this fits into my image of coast/non-coast splitting of the US. It seems you are living almost completely different lifes regarding culture, religion, economy, politics and so on that it sounds reasonable to get different judges/divorce rapes in different states.
/r/MGTOW26/12/16 10:47 AM
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Not at my place. I work in a small group and it doesn't make sense to split such a small group into even smaller groups of popular and not so popular people. Still we have a clear hierarchy even on the same job level. Some people are just more leader-like while others like to follow. Where I work (mostly on my level) productivity and creativity to solve problems are higher valued than sociability. That might however change when climbing up the job hierarchy.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 10:53 PM
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When she comes to mind, and she will, picture her lips around the cock of another dude. Because that's what's happening. This kinda helped me but also kinda backfired. It's depressing as hell if you are still in oneitis/love/breakup-depression phase. This thought was haunting and almost killed me me. Later, with more distance it is much easier to picture something like that and use it as a distance keeper.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 10:40 PM
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Btw the dynamics of all three approaches (which are complementary and not exclusive) are actually embedded in sociology and philosophy. GFTOW is a field experiment. Sidebar provides the theory. Time is needed to internalize/comprehend the model. The result is always the same and it is easy to summarize: Your perception of her was close to perfect. You saw all her pro's and even some of her minor con's and you would've been happy to spend your future life with somebody like her. That you'll ever …
/r/askTRP25/12/16 10:30 PM
1

It came out of the bladder not out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 09:36 AM
1

You are a victim of social conditioning enforced on you to steal your power and options and give it to somebody else. Breaking the social conditioning instantly promotes you to one of the best of your kind.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 09:10 AM
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Good point. Everything is allowed if it is part of your game.
/r/seduction16/12/16 02:37 AM
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You really think too much. Yes I'd probably do. I did it today again in a bar with a stranger girl. Although it was a special occasion. But that's just how I am. I am just very social when I am socializing. Maybe it would be awkward for you because you appear too much introvert. Depends as well on the girl.
/r/seduction16/12/16 02:35 AM
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I think the reminder not to state but to act is what I forget. I thought maybe I can accelerate this low effort shit test phase by communication. It would be nice to get some real shit tests. Just for practice reasons... But as you said I need to act not talk. I need to figure out my plans for this plate. Maybe some months are already a good lifetime.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:29 AM
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I always hope I see a response from you when I consider a question is interesting. I think this plate is due... It's not enough fun anymore.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:26 AM
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Sure always possible. But from my point of view it's rather the other way around. She is really low effort for me as she knows she can't pull something better. She tries all the time to upgrade the relationship. Spending more non-sex time together, vacation, shitty stuff like that. I have zero interest in doing that and can drop and replace her anytime. She knows, I know, life's easy. I know it's lazy but I have more important stuff in my life than her pussy.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:24 AM
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It depends on the context. 16 years old and party sounds like your own extended social circle is there. I would hug in that case. If you are talking about cold approach I would neither shake hands nor hug. But I always hug to say goodbye. (Don't ignore the girls you are not willing to date. It's always beneficial to be sociable to everybody. You never know who the girls will introduce you to.) If there is a small common past between you and the girl (talk, text or friends) I'd go for a hug as in…
/r/seduction15/12/16 07:02 PM
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Probably depends on the nation/culture. Here is a German point of view: Always hug. If somebody introduces you and she gives you the hand show that you have the feeling that it is awkward. Most girls are happy to hug you because they never shake hands. Only guys do that.
/r/seduction15/12/16 06:03 PM
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When I am not talking to her for some days she typically reaches out. Often with some condition: "Do we want to meet? If not today or tomorrow I have only time end of next week." Shit I am busy. I neither have time today nor tomorrow. So I tell her "end of next week." I really don't believe that she is constrained in time (I think she barely does something) so this is just another part of her game. She constantly tries to pull me in her frame I guess.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:53 PM
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I feel like I need to vomit.
/r/MGTOW15/12/16 12:06 PM
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Obviously there is no possibility to find something we can agree on. You are disqualified from my point of view and I am from yours. OP might read both opinions and can decide which one he wants to follow. But really. Jack Daniels? At the age of 50 you should really prefer a nice single malt scotch.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 01:09 AM
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Life's extremely long, can be impressive and more complex than you'd ever will be able to predict from your current point of view. Condoms are your tool. They give you power. Seatbelts suck, life vests suck, windows updates suck, exams suck, working hard sucks. It's a personal choice that might remove a lot of choices from your future life. You might restrict yourself.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 12:27 AM
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Don't even consider it. Get better condoms. Do you really gamble with lifetime consequences just for some minutes more fun? If you always use condoms you will get used to it.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 11:56 PM
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How crazy are you? You give it out of your hands. Both birth control and health protection. Why should you do that?
/r/askTRP14/12/16 11:55 PM
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Great! Congrats! 100% conversion rate from stranger to #-close. You should consider stopping to approach to not destroy this rate. :D I'd suggest to never give a 10. A 10 is something like a limit. But you don't have limits. There is always a girl even better out there. Just leave some space for improvement. The probability that this is the last girl you ever met is close to zero. So no need to make her the subjectively best partner for you. Oneitis often yields a 10/10 rating. You opened a new …
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:24 PM
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But then we are talking about different definitions. You're talking about an average a posteriori measure of the SMV. Something you could couple to your confidence and experience. However no girl will get your SMV. You need to transfer it into her brain. If you fucked only supermodels and later on have a car crash where you lose one eye (or whatever) it will weaken your game. The same if you gain 200lb fat. I'd say your definition is like the time-averaged version of mine. Also then the question…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 10:11 AM
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It's hard to say whether one is delusional or not. People that I know, friends, family can probably lie to me. However I believe that I satisfy all requirements for a handsome face. I can ensure you that I am not necessarily good everywhere where I go. The two examples of a punk club - where a not so attractive girl told me to 'please just fuck off' - and the club where my natural aproach just doesn't work are completely different to bar situations where I can select the girls and have an almost…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 10:00 AM
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The beta life is easier. It's literally just be yourself. The beta that transforms into an alpha needs to be the best version of himself. There is an obvious difference in investment. Also some people spit the pill out.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 12:08 AM
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This sounds like a nice cross post to mgtow.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 09:24 PM
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Same situation for me. I had like zero drive. It's slowly increasing but still far from what it was before the breakup. I only see all the flaws of all the girls. Currently I am just dating because I don't want to remove myself from the sex market (as I did during my LTR). I considered going monk mode several times now. On the other hand my sex drive seems to recover and as I am having sex the lack of sex in monk mode sounds a bit unpleasant.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 06:47 PM
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Guys don't know, girls hamster everything away. What kind of answer do you expect? More important: why do you invest time and energy in asking yourself and the web these question?
/r/askTRP03/12/16 07:30 AM
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Question?
/r/askTRP01/12/16 09:20 PM
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Why does this shit makes so much sense... Every day something new to learn.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 09:15 PM
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Great! Good luck. I still need to wait half a year. Hoping not to pay anything after that.
/r/MGTOW01/12/16 08:49 PM
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It's a bit mean to start during the winter. I started in summer where the water wasn't that cold. Just don't give up. It's the fight that matters.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 08:48 AM
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And that's the actual point.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 08:45 AM
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Maybe AA would be better but for this shit I typically don't invest. I'd completely ignore it. Do you think AA is better in such situations? I recently got like 2-3 shit tests per week from the same girl and I just completely ignore these. Sometimes I laugh. Would it stop if I'd use more AA? It's just getting annoying.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 08:17 AM
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To be honest in some sense (beta) men sometimes do the same. I'd say the one who was left or is in a worse position after the breakup sometimes kills himself by looking at his/her ex' social media.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 08:07 AM
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While every girl is able to show such a behavior there is a certain kind of emotional threshold for each one. Some girls will branch swing just because another guy is better looking. Some girls need to be depressed, have invested a lot into the relationship without any outcome, consider their man as much lower on the SMV scale than what is offered. At some point every girl will snap. You probably want to look for the one's who did not so far because they are more stable.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 08:00 AM
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If you can get hard in the beginning drop the foreplay. Just drill a hole into her. I had similar problems. It seems like I solved them like that. After you fixed your dick/mind you can also invest more time and energy. . I'd suggest edging when you are not dating. Increases your sexual desire and makes you even more motivated. Stay nofap/noporn though. I think noporn might be even more important. If you arouse yourself do it with memories or desires you have. Not something somebody else created…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 01:20 AM
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Do you have a normal erection in the beginning but you can't hold it or do you have problems to even get there?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 11:04 PM
1

Do you know the post in female red pill advising males not to post there? Do you know the reason why males are not allowed to post there?
/r/askTRP27/11/16 11:58 PM
1

I like the mindful meditation guides by sam harris on soundcloud. There is a short ~9 min version and a longer one spannong something like 21 minutes.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 11:52 PM
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Possibly a depression. 11 hours sleep every day is too much. Edit: The fuck is this thread?
/r/askTRP27/11/16 11:42 PM
1

Oh shit, this sounds good. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 10:14 PM
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I like this approach. However it can also be summarized as girls are inherently stupid and only following their biology. You remove any kind of intelligence or soul from them. You remove their humanity. Can this really be a satisfying answer? Are girls just animals?
/r/askTRP27/11/16 10:09 PM
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Actually for the gatekeeper of sex it should be rather boring - we know it's not. However I'd say (as some other trp-ler) for a girl the physical part is much less important than the context and emotional part. But for sure girls love sex as well. Just not like men. But again, when he fucks her she gets the fullfillment but when he is gone she should feel like shit. So why reinviting him? Why making him a meal? I'd totally get why a girl goes for ONSs but plate is still a mystery to me.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 09:53 PM
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I get the sharing thing. But it's not like she has ownership about something she can share. At least not in the most basic plate arrangement. He comes when he wants and does what he wants as long as he wants and leaves as he wants afterwards. There is like zero ownership here. You can barely call that sharing. The only thing you get is his attention and time for a short moment. Can that be enough for a girl that could basically get somebody else within an instant?
/r/askTRP27/11/16 09:44 PM
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I think we all agree on that. The question is rather what is the meaning of this statement? Why is the value of an unreachable object important? Why is it stronger than most of her other desires?
/r/askTRP27/11/16 09:39 PM
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The point of the placebo effect is that it has an effect... I am not sure if it only coincides with meditation but I am more calm in discussions that formerly hit my core. I'd say that's due to meditation. I never feel sadness or anger for more than 10 minutes.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 09:06 PM
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I must confess that I don't count how many strangers I am talking to and I don't feel like I need the therapy. However if you want to set goals I think you need some distribition: Maybe something like 20 strangers a week for one or two sentences (one- or bidirectional). 'Cool hat/bag', 'I am new here. Can you recommend something to eat?' 5 strangers about a story (bidirectional). Probably evolving from the two-sentence sets. 1 real talk including more than one story. The last long talk to a stra…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 08:47 PM
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I had problems with nofap and ED. Had like zero sexdrive although I haven't been a heavy fapper for at least 5-10 years. I went from nofap to edging with real memories. Works like charm. If you are fapping a lot try to go nofap for at least a month. Better three. If after some time that's too much go a bit back towards edging.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 08:37 PM
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Irrationality can always be a reason. I believe though that if you are not in front of her and don't get her into your frame she should be able to see her bad decision. She should be able to see that this relationship leads nowhere.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 08:28 PM
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I know. A plate however has like no access. It's like the beta orbiter equivalent for women. However a beta orbiter has no options. That's why he will live the dream. He will follow his master girl till death. A plate however has options. She can get access to another man (that might be lower value but at least she gets access). Maybe it is the hope to get access to the male. To breed his younglings. A hope that doesn't get fulfilled.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 08:24 PM
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5 hours sounds a lot. Like one hour per person? I guess I have some friends I talk less to. Talking to five strangers a week however is much too low.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:52 PM
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I think those who hate seduction hate the people who try to use it without effort. It's not against trp to know the game. I'd even say it's recommended to know all about it. More precisely /r/TheRedPill dislikes /r/seduction redditors. I think nobody hates people like mystery although he might not be entirely red pill by putting too much focus on women and not enough on himself.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:47 PM
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/r/asktrp ?
/r/ThankTRP27/11/16 06:35 PM
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Oha.. What happened here? Can not even say a small stupid thing without being downvoted...
/r/seduction27/11/16 03:45 AM
1

I totally agree. However sometimes it feels like English is just a better language to say such stuff. For me the flirting part is much smoother when meeting foreigners speaking English. A German 'Sieh mir in die Augen' or 'Guck mich an'/'Guck her' sounds completely stupid in comparison to the smooth 'Look at me!' Same for the text game sentence 'What do you want?' It's simple and not too precise. It's barely translatable.
/r/seduction27/11/16 03:27 AM
1

Yeah that was the idea. It's a nice read.
/r/MGTOW27/11/16 03:18 AM
1

You know what to do. Save your daughter. Nobody except you will do it.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 08:12 PM
1

Could be a nice post on trp as well. I think it would help to find a better balance if more mgtow content would be on trp.
/r/MGTOW26/11/16 08:08 PM
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Don't talk about shit other people do wrong. That sounds obviously manipulative. That decreases only your own value to the company. The point was not to help these idiots but to act like an adult with a bunch of children. You should show your superior value and they should show their inferiority. Then the boss will see that they are full of shit and might react accordingly. But never tell your boss directly that another coworker was mean to you. Because then you are the child.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 08:01 PM
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Not helping but respect for calling and consequent ghosting. Makes a solid impression. At least to me.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 07:57 PM
2

IMO you are the one providing the solution. You are not going to fire someone. You tell nobody to fire someone. You want to solve the problem so that the situation is better for everyone. You stay calm. You don't say anything bad about a person. It was just a bad development. They will start to attack you but you stay calm. You ask them how they would like to solve the problem. Either they are smart and playing along or stupid and going rampage. In both cases you win. If you win your bosses will…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 07:45 PM
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I rather meant the purposeful adjusting of frame to make her fall for you while you keep your rational thinking. The last part about LTR's is for sure an example of non-manipulative behavior. I am not exactly sure about the definition but for me manipulation includes doing it on purpose to yield some predicted reaction that is preferential for you. Authentic bonding thus as you say doesn't fall into my definition of manipulation.
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:41 PM
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Maybe I am naive but just comparing with my workplace: I'd tell the bosses that there is for some time now a large disharmony that yields lower enthusiasm in the team and that it might eventually become a large - possibly financially significant - problem if everything continues as it is. That the fight between the owners was a result of misbehavior on the employee-level. That I'd like to discuss with them and possibly afterwards with the whole team how to improve the situation. I know that my b…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 07:33 PM
1

Well I guess both bosses should trust you after some years, or?
/r/askTRP26/11/16 07:26 PM
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Be careful what you are saying here if you are not fishing for numbers. Guys like us visiting this subreddit are typically a bit more focused on sex and a poor helpless maid requesting dominance could yield strong reactions.
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:23 PM
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Well that's part of the goal. Bind the girl. You do it on purpose if you are the little machiavellian manipulative shit that makes girl's panties wet or you want to become one by reading seddit.. But I guess it really shouldn't hurt to incorporate it in your LTR. Puts some new spice in.
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:19 PM
1

Ever had bad experience or are you playing it through in your mind and you dislike it? Also who is insecure? The guy or the girl?
/r/seduction26/11/16 05:29 PM
2

There can be so much truth in two lines...
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:23 PM
1

During text she can rationalize. And she is clearly not in your frame. Maybe she just chatted with her potential mother-in-law and like it. And now you come around as needy orbiter and ask for a date. Bad idea. If your impression is as you describe you should be able to pull her into your frame when you meet her. When she sees you she doesn't think about her potential mother-in-law or future-husband. She thinks about you. If you misinterpret everything and she just likes you as orbiter she'll ma…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:21 PM
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Not through text. Next time when you see her invite her for a coffee. Or tea. Or pizza. Something small that she can hamster away as 'we were just hanging out and having some nice chat but I felt so nice when he looked at me and at some point he just kissed me. It's totally not my fault. Also my relationship with the other guy was a dead end... It's impressive how you developed a slight oneitis for a girl you barely know and that you are not even dating.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:08 PM
1

Dread? What should be afraid to lose? He is only plan b not plan a.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:06 PM
1

Reduce texting. It doesn't help you. Typically you should text less and more delayed than the girl in text game. It seems like you do the opposite. Reduce text to minimum. Make an impression in real life. You can ask her on a spontaneous coffee next time you meet. Not through text! Ideally you combine some kino. She needs something new. Something interesting. Something she didn't feel for a long time. When you smile on her. When you touch her lower back just because you wanted to go around her. …
/r/askTRP26/11/16 03:22 PM
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Even if I just let on a little just to let her know that I'm not so dumb, ie 'c'mon, you have to be seeing someone?' or 'so who did you spend Thanksgiving with, the extended family, friends, the boyfriend?' No! You are a man. You have your own life. You have your own problems. She can follow you. You don't follow her.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 03:14 PM
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The knowledge about her boyfriend gives you power. Don't give it out of your hand. I'd not talk to her about her boyfriend if she doesn't start it. And even then I'd keep it minimal. He is a guy, you are a guy. She can have fun with him or fun with you. No drama. Everything simple. If you are the one with the higher SMV showing interest she has to evaluate her life taking into account the amount of commitment she got from the other guy with the probability to get the same commitment from you wei…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 03:11 PM
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Don't contact the boyfriend. You have no prove. She essentially did nothing wrong in a BP world. It will obly create drama. As the other guy said you are the backup and she might be branch swinging. I'd see that behavior as a red flag. So keep some distance. She might not be better material than for plate status. If you meet her on a daily basis and have interwined social circles nasty breakups can have nasty consequences. But a bit AWALT is in every girl. Just to rule her out by following her n…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:59 PM
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Some background? How old are you? Have you had sex? Have you had kisses? Dates? Is it possible that you are gay or bisexuell? Why do you think it is not ok to live without a girl? Is something missing in your life? Do you want to have a significant non-family person in your life? Do you want to have kids?
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:54 PM
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Ahhh shit. I should re-read what I write. I guess I keep it like that.
/r/seduction26/11/16 01:30 PM
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He is probably working 8 hours and adds another 6 in front of the tv or pc in his free time.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:50 AM
2

Give it secretly to jenny. The source shall not be known. I guess the two bullies are long-time employees and he is new.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:46 AM
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The same applies to sex. Tell her to look at her during sex to increase the tension.
/r/seduction26/11/16 10:36 AM
1

Wtf? Why don't you just do what you want to do? If you feel uncomfortable with her where is the problem to just end it? You are not her first one. She'll find another one.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 12:30 AM
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Typically condoms have an anti-whatever-it-is-called-in-english-sperm lube. However as always there is a slight probability that you fuck up. It's just really tiny if you didn't have a huge load of cum on your dick while putting it wrong way. Sperm doesn't like cold temperatures. If you put on trousers, pee and draw small unicorns on rainbows the sperm will die. But also this can take some time. Don't worry too much but make it better the next time.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 12:27 AM
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Yeah and just look on the bright side of life. And just be yourself. And just enjoy your life as you only live once. And don't get overly sad because you are rejected. They just don't understand your value. . It just doesn't work like that if you are desperate. All these sentences are meaningless if you have no success. It might feel for you like you don't give a fuck and are more succesfull but a fat neckbeard that doesn't give a fuck is still a lonely fat neckbeard that doesn't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 09:30 PM
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It's deleted: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5ega5b/case_study_how_to_get_laid_on_tinder_pics_proof/ His page is http://hookupsonautopilot.com Click on articles to get to the tinder post.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 08:37 PM
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If you consequently leave her you might be able to reframe after around a 6 months to a year. (Not that reframing is really reasonable though) Reframing requires you to improve your SMV significantly. This is only possible if you have the potential. Now considering you just leave her. Then the redpill advice #1 is maximizing your SMV according to your potential. You see independent on the approach - reframe or next - you need to maximize your SMV. Just do that. If there is a possibility to refra…
/r/askTRP25/11/16 08:33 PM
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That's not the recommended behavior in most guides. You'll never lie but you also don't confront her with such an information without any reason. If you are honest and show her that she is a plate she'll eventually figure out by herself. I'd stay at don't kiss and tell.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 07:34 PM
4

So a female orbiter?
/r/askTRP25/11/16 07:32 AM
2

Also true. I guess I have to accept that there is no way to really get the truth. Probably it doesn't matter though. Who really cares if she understands, or not.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:38 PM
1

To me this sounds like she doesn't even barely know her plate status. Also the 'I love you' line. If a plate tells me something like she wants to do a life-changing thing together with me I rather feel disturbed. Or if she plans something with me which is further away than a week. I am happily releaved if she doesn't do meaningful stuff with me. She can have fun with me but I am not the future father of her children. Edit: you already found that out by yourself as I see in your other comments.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:33 PM
4

Robert Greene 'Mastery' talks about that. I guess OP didn't follow his vocation so far (using the notation of Greene). I on the other hand can not understand how you can invest 8 hours a day for a job that you only do to have fun for another 6 hours a day and during vacation. You don't do your job to attract women. It is a much larger part of your life. Normally much more important than a plate or fwb. This is where you spend a lot of time and energy. I'd never waste this energy on a shitty job …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:02 PM
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Although I never really experienced the former and am still questioning if they exist this is indeed a correct answer. Friends will help you. A girl that friendzoned you is not a friend. The notation 'friendzoned' is highly misleading.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 09:40 PM
2

First time drinking or first time sex? I somehow don't get the point.. If first time drinking: is that something special for you folks from US? Do you offer the everlasting gift of the first shared drink only to special persons in your life? If first time sex: how is she a plate if you never had sex? Also did she have sex with a cousin?
/r/askTRP24/11/16 09:32 PM
6

I had already exactly the same question as OP and have seen the same behavior as you. And that's the dead end. How can one ever find out if it is real reflection or just another part of the game? It's impossible. I am always asking myself if women ever will stop this behavior. Maybe they start using rationality after becoming 50 or 60? Maybe we should ask our grandmothers.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 09:26 PM
48

She could've been honest from the beginning. First showering in beta attraction and then kicking in the balls is not nice. Sure, better than orbiting forever but there's still room for improvement.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 03:13 PM
1

Rationale male around 60% into the book chapters called 'there is no going back' and the previous chapter 'winners and losers'. I think there are also some paragraphs in the 'beta game' sections.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 06:21 PM
1

Unfortunately hypergamy + branch swinging ensures that she is more happy than you shortly after the breakup. However what happens afterwards is in your hand and she doesn't matter anymore. I'd recommend mindful meditation to get over the depression. Google sam harris meditation 9min to get a nice tutorial how to do it.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 09:25 PM
1

I guess you could say it is the same as red pill awareness but inconsequently application of blue pill theories. E.g. somebody knowing the red pill and still engaging in beta game. Rollo describes this as well without calling it red pill beta.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 08:55 PM
1

I didn't read a lot about RP-LTR/marriage but I think I am currently one of those who claim you can never maintain frame for such a long time. Maybe if you are autistic or a psychopath or whatever. But I haven't tried so far so I don't know. Maybe that could be an interesting goal. Maintaining frame would equally require training to maintain it. Thus, a lot of short relationships and conquering RP-LTR's in mid- to late-30s. It just feels a bit BP to follow the endgoal of marriage. I must not sli…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:53 PM
1

For me the mom said/dad said thing was solved really early. If there is a question about allowing something my exwife and child are looking simultaneously to me. Somehow this seems to be the frame of paternal dominance I was easily providing and still provide. But maybe that'll change over the years. But how to incorporate the whole feminism/positive mascularity/power of law/BP vs RP thinking into education of a fragile teenager mind. Especially since my ex will tell the opposite.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:46 PM
1

Probably the perfect girl to share a perfect life. I know neither exists. To build a life on such dreams was a horrible failure. I just don't need much money to live my life and I already earn sufficiently. I had a BP marriage and don't need another one. Maybe not even a RP-LTR. I have a child I don't need more. I have the highest acadamic degree I can get but equally am not interested in science anymore and thus start company life. It feels like in comparison to everything I already achieved a …
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:34 PM
1

This is actually my only remaining long-term goal: Raising my child. I am a bit confused on how to do it properly considering the knowledge of TRP but I have enough time to figure it out as it gets more important during puberty. The early childhood I'll manage. Still you should be the center of your life. I think your children highly profit if you don't put them in the focus. I can't become 24h-dad and expect that my child will have all opportunities as if I have a strong life where they are tak…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:11 PM
1

I didn't decide so far. The three paragraphs represent three possibilities. I'll probably decide spontaneously.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:55 PM
1

The first part is probably true. However I have a child and still play provider a lot of time. Nevertheless this yields no satisfaction anymore. To be honest I couldn't care less about others. It was just oneitis that made me that way. Oneitis gone I don't feel the need to provide anything for anybody (except for my child). I think it's rather the acknowledgement that is missing. I always thought that I am the new evolutionary step of the human race and now I realize that I am just a random fuck…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:53 PM
1

I plan to travel in February. Currently I am in a new position and can't take vacation. Indeed money isn't a big issue. I actually considered walking from my home to the next sea coast which is like 200km away. Probably ~10 days. But it is quite cold and the trip would be really solo only checking in on hotels/motels/whatever during the evening. So not much socialization. Other idea was to fly somewhere south and go hiking/camping there. Another idea would be to travel from city to city in Europ…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:40 PM
3

Ask this question in 10 years again. You probably figured out till then by yourself.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:25 PM
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Sounds like an interesting deal. She washes your clothes, makes you a sandwich and you fuck other girls. Win/win.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 05:15 PM
1

She is a single mom and eventually hits the wall. She doesn'r have options. That's probably why she is still available. Or less probable: your game/confidence is better than you described.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 08:12 AM
1

How old are you? How old is she?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:56 PM
2

The whole emotion strategy is mentioned in pua guides regarding building rapport to enable post-ONS relationships and to avoid buyer's remorse. I'd considered that the flaking situation might be similar and that you need to make a longer lasting impression than a profil pic. So there is the emotional approach. People make life-changing decisions e.g. moving into another city or country, changing majors, whatever... And often mention it in the profile. My idea is to guess the character of these e…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 07:19 PM
3

This stuff should be 30% of the content here. Just some men doing their thing. And they really know how to do it. Impressive.
/r/MGTOW05/11/16 09:36 PM
1

It's similar but slightly more flexible. If you are a loser at highschool you are barely able to change that impression as everybody keeps this information about you. In the adult world you are interacting with more people on a short time scale and thus you can reframe quite often. It's like all kids would change their highschool after one year.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 09:34 PM
1

That's obvious. The question is how to start the interaction. E.g. just take her/grind without further or prior signaling, or first look into each others eyes and then dance with her, smile inbetween, initiate by chat... What happens if she shows IOD's? Being persistent, restart later or just next? There are different approaches and probably it depends on the club (especially nationality) and girl which method yields the best result. That you finally have to make her dance with you is clear. Thi…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 08:34 PM
4

There is probably not much that attracts a woman more than a man who knows what he wants and doesn't ask when he takes it. If she did what you told her you should consider treating her nice afterwards. Maybe some nice rough sex.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:52 PM
1

Yeah bar game is imo much easier. Language gives a major advantage. Club game however shouldn't be neglected. I think it should be more efficient and should yield a higher outcome/investment ration. I will try being more direct. I had some not so good experiences with bold approach but maybe something else was wrong. I give it another try.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 03:37 PM
3

Text game requires nothing more than repetition. You'll typically get better and better. And as dating platforms provide hundreds of girls you can practice a lot. Most important is your profile pic. For me 'Hi' doesn't work as good as a reference to the profile or a light neg as opener. I answer at maximum one of her questions if she ask any. If I answer a question I am very unspecific. Never explain yourself, always advance to the next topic. Sarcasm and irony barely work. Girls doing online da…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 03:23 PM
6

Holy shit, this is really a thing! I also experienced this sentence.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 03:04 PM
3

In Germany women actually have to pay more. (At least in the private insurance - but in the gouvernemental system is coupled to your income so rich people pay for poor people)
/r/MGTOW01/11/16 08:13 PM
3

IMO that's it. It is only the moment. Isn't that already sufficient?
/r/askTRP31/10/16 10:56 PM
8

She is 19 years old? She started thinking like an adult when she was 14/15? So she is like 4 adult years old? You spent half a year with her? And now you consider she won't follow AWALT for the next 50 years? That's some heavy extrapolation. I was in a very similar situation. It went perfectly for 10 years. Then suddenly AWALT out of nowhere. You never know how the relationship evolves. But who cares? Just have fun and enjoy the moment. I did. I do.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 10:52 PM
11

The fuck? Really! What the fuck? It's just impossible to understand girls...
/r/seduction31/10/16 07:59 PM
9

Somehow this was really a nice read. I will think of this the next time I am going solo (wednesday).
/r/seduction31/10/16 07:18 PM
2

Another approach is very strict stoicism. Hard to get there within a short time. Spinning plates is faster.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 05:31 PM
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(Friendzone) (Sex zone) ^--- you are here Reframing is one of the most complicated things. Maybe you need to show off with some hottie to make her clear that you are a sexual-active male. (Actions matter more than words)
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:23 PM
6

Talk?
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:01 PM
5

I had actually problems to cum the first time I had sex. Everything is quite awkward. So there is no need to worry about that. And even if you fail in some way. Who cares? Nobody is watching you or recording you and the girl will disappear out of your life. Do you consider something more than ONS with her?
/r/seduction31/10/16 04:56 PM
1

What is the source of your hate? Can you give some example where you lost your stoic behavior and why you lost it?
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:53 PM
2

I am just reading what you wrote - I wasn't there. But assuming that you are a more honest writer than high-quality pua: Sounds like she was sending IOI's to you for the last two years and was sick of you not getting it. Then she decided to make the first step by inviting you making everything obvious and you still didn't escslate. Probably she sent you obvious signs through the whole evening, looking deep into your eyes, laughing at your jokes. And you interpreted this as 'the date went well'. …
/r/askTRP31/10/16 12:39 PM
2

First of all it seems like there is something like redpill-love. Just look at the threads of married rp. These guys claim to love their women. But this kind of love is something completely different than bluepill love. I can't answer the first question as I never experienced redpill-love. I think it is rather loving your life than your wife. But she is part of it. 2) You experience the 'shallowness' and reason of relationships. It's all about maximizing your (and IMO her) joy. That however doesn…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:32 AM
2

First of all don't judge people according to their first impression as worthless. Almost all people on this planet have some ability or information that would be preferential for you to adapt/gain. Try to find everybody on this planet in some sense fascinating. If you do this you'll easly find acquaintances. Meet them to learn their philosophy. Some people will automatically make you feel better. You have fun with them or you discover similar interests and have really good discussions. These can…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:26 AM
3

Maybe you should just have escalated? Then your room would've been the one she was leaving at midnight. I don't really get your point here.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:09 AM
2

And if you get a child you are in the worst case paying 18 years. In the best case you have a new mission and source of satisfaction in your life. If you have HIV you are just fucked till the end of your life.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 11:58 PM
1

I think TRP is only a (optimization) strategy. It's not a philosophy and not intended to tell you what to do in your everyday's life. I keep my morals high because they are part of me and no social interaction should interfere with my personality. I use TRP as a tool. I would not do it. But you can do it. It only depends on your ethics and morals. However it should not depend on the opinion of those within this thread.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 06:13 PM
1

Apply stoicism. I am in a very similar situation. Stoicism plus meditation healed the anger within two months. I still feel occasional emotions towards her but it happens seldomly and I can always meditate and make it vanish within seconds if it doesn't disappear by itself. Outbursting emotions are your strongest killer. I have the general schedule that I never discuss her needs/wishes via text but always suggest to talk in person. Seldomly I give her information through text though but only if …
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:58 PM
1

What is the alternative?
/r/askTRP29/10/16 11:55 AM
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Fuck that shit. It's not about children. Children are not the worst although already changing your life dramatically. It's about HIV, hepatitis, and friends. Never fuck a girl without condom without knowing that she is clean. And this you only can estimate(!) in exclusive LTR's (which are probably not even real). A girl fucks ten guys a week? Without condom? Fuck that. Everytime a girl says 'let's fuck without' for whatever reason, run as fast as you can. Because you are neither the first nor th…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 11:19 AM
2

Touch her while greeting her (hug). Touch her while leading her around (hand on back). Never look where you touch (except she is naked on your bed). Just do it because it feels so damn natural to you to touch people you are interacting with. And repeat his words! Really! All you need is mindset. Just copy the minset by repeating his words!
/r/askTRP28/10/16 10:29 PM
1

Watching movie is a synonym for sex. Plausable deniability is the reason you chose to say 'movie' instead of sex. (And do what is written in the other comment about physical escalation! This is the point. You already set everything up. You only need to escalate.)
/r/askTRP28/10/16 10:25 PM
3

How are you able to take one beer while she is eating a full meal? This sounds like a hilariously awkward situation. My dates are definitely too boring... (As all others said you did everything right. Maybe except for the disregard of the red flags and time/energy investment. But it sounds like a nice experience)
/r/seduction28/10/16 07:01 PM
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This whole approach only works if you feel absolutely no need or strong interest in being with her because you already have alternatives. If you have no alternatives after the no contact time this will horribly fail and leave you even more suffering. Please don't try to fix it. If you follow every others advice you go the safe route and are still compatible to this special solution. IMO some weeks or months are not enough to change a girls mind. You need around a year with a lot of self-improvem…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:23 PM
2

Location makes a big difference though. Berlin is optimal for low cost high quality lifestyle. Munich, Cologne and Hamburg are more expensive but can be exciting as well. I think I woudn't aim for smaller cities.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 04:52 PM
1

I think this describes quite precisely my way out of depression. I would only add 'socializing'. I didn't write a diary but planing to do it now. Although I don't plan to write about my daily shit but rather my pua field reports and theories.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 02:12 PM
2

I guess there are hundreds of strategies. This would be mine: Being the most sociable person on the table/in the room is the key. Talk to all people especially males. You should appear like you are not there for dating/hunting but because you want to have fun. And everybody joining you this evening has fun as well. Take 1-2 hours to get into the zone. Approach women afterwards. A lot of them will be tipsy and open for approaching. Especially if you made a good impression so far. Then it is typic…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 10:08 AM
1

Sports. Join some sports activity club (maybe best would be team sport). Maybe gym. What about work? Coworkers (not bosses, no female coworker) can be a very good choice.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 11:36 AM
1

Actually the whole story sounds good to me. Yes you showed beta behavior but it seems like you are learning. Don't confuse breakup sex (which can be really good) with plating. Before considering to plate an ex stay no contact for something like a year to avoid complications.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 11:16 AM
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I wouldn't say that women are more emotionally driven. I'd even say the contrary in a relationship. One of the symptoms of AWALT is related to the drop of emotions during an LTR. You'll barely find the same behavior for men. IMO men have stronger emotions. My own experience shows that cuddling after sex is the most effective way to bond a girl by making her happy with diffuse impressions. A nice rough fucking is something that is more solid and something she can remember. But bonding is diffuse …
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:15 AM
2

Currently I am mostly looking for women with academic background because I can't handle stupid persons. I guess I am also not as superficial as others here. Sure it's nice to fuck a hot girl but if I see hysterical little girls talking about how bad it is to have domnestic animals because it's against nature (or some other irrelevant shit with opinions that change every 2 weeks) I vomit and leave. I was married to a really hot girl and it didn't mean that the sex was better or there was more fun…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:05 AM
2

Exclusive FWB sounds like a really complicated structure. What is the difference to a LTR? You are not falling in love? I think you need to slowly incorporate a new structure closer to the textbook examples of plate, FWB or LTR. Stop sleeping at her place if you do. Tell her to leave if she visits you (because you have to work, meet a friend). Stop talking to her about heavy shit (as one of the current TRP articles points out). Improve yourself. She's not yours. It's just your turn. Don't expect…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:58 AM
2

Do you have sex? One point of nofap is to replace fapping by sexual encounters. For me it's easy. I am nofap for 2-3 months now. But I have sex so it's not that hard.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 01:19 PM
1

I am a bit puzzled about the answers here. It might be a matter of nations and if you are from the US you should probably listen to the others - as the fem rape culture seems to be something strong over there. If you are not from US and don't see hundreds of feminists claiming rape everyday just go silent on the friend and your gf until she gets better mood. She might apologize in a direct or indirect way while approaching you via text or in real life. If she does, continue as if nothing has hap…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:07 AM
7

Do you know if she meets him? Or is it only txt? Btw there is always a hard next. In the moment you are not able to hard next you are lost. This is exactly the time your gf will feel your neediness and codependency and if she meets a better alpha she will consider to fuck him instead. This is really important! Have options! Doesn't mean to fuck a hundred girls if you established exclusiveness but keep the occasional flirting high and don't mix financials.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:50 AM
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I'd say this is really delicate in the short and long term. To do this discussion without showing jealousy is really hard. And an orbiter will always be there for her when you are fighting. So everytime you fight and she runs crying to her orbiter you have a shitty time.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:48 AM
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I read once a scientific article by two australian psychologists about this subject. In general staying in contact with your ex means something between being selfish and beeing a psychopath. The reason why women stay in contact is a different one than why men stay in contact. Also girls like their orbiters.
/r/MGTOW24/10/16 10:08 PM
1

Exactly. He already is somehow in danger. She can confess at any time calling him a rapist. But I think this whole discussion is just a matter of taste and ethics. I would inform him. Others wouldn't. Both opinions are imo completely valid.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:40 PM
1

She could do that now as well. But OP can just save their IM conversation (and send it to husband). He can be well-prepared. The husband can be well-prepared. I still don't get your point. Fucking cheating wives is a risk. He already is in this position. The question is why do you want to let the husband suffer?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:39 PM
1

What are you talking about? Also it's not about the wife. Who cares which cards she is playing? Also the wife is just typically AWALT. There is no point to be mad on her. It's about the husband. He is currently wasting his life. And that's because society never gave him a chance to not waste his life. I just suggest to make this world a slightly better place by helping others when they are in trouble.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:06 PM
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I just know what I did and what I wanted to happen. I know it's a potential risk. But fucking a married woman is the same risk. What happens if the husband enters with a shotgun? I'd not date married women but everybody has to make the choice by himself. He doesn't need to inform the husband. But I would do. I am not enforcing laws here. It's just a matter of ethics in an amoral world. I decided to stick to most of them (excluding the largest part of the female-male interaction rules).
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 01:43 PM
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I'd write a letter. I'd explain him the situation and that I didn't know that she was married. That I feel sorry for his situation. I'd tell him to keep calm and reevaluate his life to get the optimum out of the situation. (Saving money and emotions)
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 01:02 PM
8

I was the husband once. Not as beta as what you describe but who knows if she tells the truth. Probably only half of it is truth and the other half is just complimenting you... I was always wondering how you can be the guy that is fucking the wife while the husband pays. You can be amoral to her but not to him. He did everything the society taught him. He is exactly how he is supposed to be. But he doesn't know the real rules. He doesn't know that everything is fake. It's not fair to keep him in…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 12:24 PM
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May I suggest to tell the husband?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:37 AM
1

What kind of bf% do you have? Instantly aiming for 10% sounds to me like you don't know what you are talking about. You need to improve your game. Physical attraction is like 50% of game but when you manage to get hot chicks while being fat you own the tens when you achieve your physical goal. Take it as challenge and don't be emotional if it doesn't work out. Every moment you spend approaching girls will pay off once you are physically attractive.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:33 PM
3

Typical answer: fuck ten girls. A faster and IMO more efficient/futureproof approach: Meditation. Do mindful meditation (e.g. soundcloud: sam harris 9 min track) at least once a day and everytime you think of her and after some days you can move on. After some weeks you don't think about her at all. In the meantime fuck 10 girls but not to forget her but to live your life.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:28 PM
4

Aquire information from her (if she watches Netflix) I love this subreddit. Typical situation: you go into some shop, talk to a girl and try to attract her by asking her if she is netflixing.. As always just be sociable. Can you talk about more than your order with the cashier? Can you talk to the olderly lady in the line behind you? If not you probably don't need to approach girls. Cold approach is hard and needs a lot of social intelligence and abundance. You don't want to fuck the olderly wom…
/r/seduction23/10/16 10:18 PM
1

Kino is important. Without physical escalation there is no physical progress. You don't end up in bed suddenly and by accident.
/r/seduction23/10/16 10:07 PM
-1

New girl and wife material? Sounds like you never had an LTR or consider 2 month of relationship as LTR. Just have fun and enjoy every moment. She'll not be like that forever. She'll drop all this shitty effort if you lose frame or your job or put a ring on her finger or make her a baby or... Also some independence for you might be good. I think I wouldn't allow a girl to enter my appartment to clean it. Neither to wash my clothes. That's my task.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:04 PM
1

According to mystery method you need to wait in average around 7 hours between approach and sex and you need to use this time to build (attraction, interest, and) comfort. If you don't build up comfort you only produce buyer's remorse feelings in your girl. I think it's really hard to spend around 7 hours with one girl on one evening... So maybe you try not fucking on the first date?
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:48 PM
1

Online dating is only useful for really high SMV-males. Typically, the females matching with you are 1-2 points below you on the SMV scale. I did it and got some more or less positive outcome but it requires a lot of time and energy investment and IMO it is much easier to get positive feedback in a bar. The investment-outcome ratio is just really poor.
/r/seduction23/10/16 03:03 PM
1

?
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:52 AM
2

I think this is really the main problem here. I took too much care of her emotions and let the relationship drift into some FWB-like status - which was not my intention. According to The Bitch Management Hierarchy study guide I already upgraded the relationship to FWB. And by doing so I'll probably do exactly what I wanted to avoid - hurting her on the long term. I guess I am not immune to oneitis but in my current state I am really far away. I just had a horrible breakup of a BP-LTR. I don't se…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:05 AM
1

No. She is really indirect. I think she is curious if I have other girls. She asks sometimes in a really vague manner. I am quite open with going out into bars or clubs to socialize. So I guess she has an idea that there is no exclusiveness. But still she seems afraid to ask. And asking me to become exclusive probably takes some more years...
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:15 AM
2

Be careful. Gambling like this can end your relationship. Be sure that everything is in your control. And crazy bitches are often out of control. I'd still say they are checking for your intentions. It seems you made clear as well that you are interested. They are asking themselves what happened to his girlfriend? Is he a player? It's kind of vague and one would need more background info... If the pattern repeats it is however not the girl but you enforcing these reactions.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 11:12 PM
1

Are you the girl or the man? Do you get approached or do you approach? Maybe have a look at /r/seduction in parallel. Your game is the problem here. Not your height, steroids or money...
/r/askTRP22/10/16 11:08 PM
1

Do you want to show your salary when you enter a bar? It seems like you have problems with approaching/hooking the girls you like. Money won't help much except you might have slightly better clothing and more confidence. But these things you can also get with low money. Salary is more important for LTR's I'd say.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 10:46 PM
1

Don't you think they just ask if you have a girlfriend?
/r/askTRP22/10/16 10:42 PM
1

You need to be independent. That's should be an important goal for the future. This includes getting money and education. She is fucking others? Who cares. You will in any case never marry her and in the moment you are independent and free you can dump her. It seems as for you she's nothing more than a plate. Sure it's kind of stupid to live in one apartment with your plate but you are still young and there is no real co-dependency. Next time do it better. Fuck her (and others) and develop yours…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:15 PM
1

Don't hide your situation from your fellow christians; you made a mistake and you regret living in sin with a whore. He lived in sin? How does showing his situation to other christians will help?
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:10 PM
14

Actually it shows the wrong (a more extreme) SMV pecking order. Or at least not the same as in a bar or club.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 08:52 AM
1

3 secons rule. The moment you acknowledge the existance of a girl by eye contact you have three seconds left to approach her. Talk to all people not only datable girls. Don't look around in a bar lile a predator but just have fun. In the beginning don't try to only approach women.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 09:03 PM
2

Foreplay and lube. And as already said let it heal. Actually when something remotely happened to me I always got a blowjob instead. Takes away all the negative feelings. You are happy. She is happy that you are happy. Sounds like a story ending in 69.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:51 PM
1

Where I live the unmarried father will be written into the birth certificate if the mother accepts. This automatically gives you all rights. She can only get your money if you are the official father. But again that gives you 50% of all decisions. So marrying is really not needed. But both marriage and getting children leads to some co-dependency. And, thus, you always have problems after the relationship died. Just consider you get a really nice job somewhere else but can't go there because you…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:46 PM
0

You are the postgrad. No need to hide yourself. Be confident. And if you sound stupid who cares? Talk to all undergrads. Not only girls but as well guys. You need to be the most sociable person in the room. Because of your education you are already something like the alpha. You just need to embrace this position.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:20 PM
12

Actually you should consider that a breast operation often comes with the problem that the breast doesn't look nice afterwards. Something you need to treat with plastic surgery. It's really horrible. For prostate carcinoma you only need to do a prostatectomy which often leads to impotence and sometimes to incontinence. So man up! Don't be such a whiney little creature.
/r/MGTOW20/10/16 01:28 PM
1

I am currently learning as well and coming from a quite introvert position but I found out that socializing with everybody in a bar appears to be a key (this is mostly what is written here and there on redpill and in pua guides). Just had the situation that I was chatting with some guys at a bar when a girl from a 4-set (HB7, 2xHB8, HB9) came to the bar to get some drinks. I chatted with her about some stupid random stuff - no obvious sexuality but just represented myself as being sociable and h…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 11:36 AM
4

Can't you just tell us the fetish? Maybe create a throwaway and delete the answer later if you fear consequences. I'd say girls are open for many fetishes. But if you want to wear a bunny costume and she should fuck you with a carrot it might not be the best for a LTR.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 08:38 AM
5

I think that's the point. You make an obviously stupid comment to break the ice. You need to smile while doing it. However I am not sure it is the best idea to approach like that.
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:21 PM
2

Lifting has two main consequences: you look better and you feel better. The latter might be even more important if it is just about getting girls at all. The former is important if you aim above HB8. So you need other ways to feel better, to get more confidence. Just follow the remaining sidebar material and you'll be fine. Your plan sounds solid but might take a bit of time to yield results. Keep on improving.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:20 AM
2

I'm 29, average height, handsome (thankfully), going bald (grr -- shaved for now, will have to bic in future), in shape, good career, building my own business vs these insecurities take one. So what kind of insecurities are you talking about? Women nearing 30 or over always want me in a relationship You set the boundaries of the relationship. Stay strong and she will follow your lead.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:15 PM
2

What does 'hook up' mean in this context? Was there any physical contact or not? Are you friendzoned? Typically you need to show more value than you had while she befriended you. You need to show value that she knows or believes to know you don't have. You need to break the patterns to do that. Take her somewhere where you never have been together and show value that she never considered. To get from friend status to attraction is harder than from zero. Also she is not yours. It's just your turn…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:06 PM
1

Mystery method describes this situation as 'buyers remorse'. You escalated faster than you built comfort. She feels slutty (and shows it to the whole bar) and thinks you are not a proper candidate. Although there is attraction you don't provide any comfort. After you separated all attraction is gone as you are not physically available anymore. She starts thinking whether you are a reliable cave man. You are not. She doesn't answer texts/is cold. If you trust MM is your choice but your situation …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 07:37 AM
2

What are you texting? How do you #-close? How would you describe your whole game?
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:15 AM
2

Also you can turn on popups. Shows you the content but doesn't count as 'read' if you don't answer or click on show. If you turn off notifications you as well care less about her reaction time as you don't know when she read it. Less drama on your and on her side.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 01:56 AM
1

I'd say the emotional approach works for young women. The higher the SMV maybe n count the younger she has to be. I wouldn't bet on it. It sounds like she is typical AWALT. She likes the determined independent player, she apologizes after your ghost, you show emotions and the relationship instantly gets cold again. I think you need more abundancy. You need alternatives. She only exists for you while you see her. You don't spend time thinking about her as you are the only person who can significa…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:20 PM
1

There is no text game after sex. After you hooked her you only make appointments via text. Now consider yourself getting on your knees telling her your feelings. Does that sound about right? Unless she wants to upgrade to LTR, which she has to earn, she doesn't get LTR status from you.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:02 PM
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She found him days/weeks before the breakup. A girl doesn't put herself in such a bad position without having a backup.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 03:48 PM
1

From a scientific point of view your experiment is flawed. You know the outcome. You probably are telling yourself that this is your problem before it even exists. At least it sounds like you are thinking too much.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:30 PM
2

... ? What happens after the comma?
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:14 PM
2

For most men sex=fun. Typically it should make you happy. For you it does the opposite.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:12 PM
1

What kind of sex do you have?
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:47 PM
4

He became fat after being married and can't take the ring off anymore even though he is divorced.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:51 AM
1

It's the place where he hides his drugs.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:49 AM
1

He won a poker tournament.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:49 AM
1

He likes rings.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:49 AM
1

It was a gift.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:49 AM
3

Why telling your LDR about your network? Just do it. She will eventually figure out when you are not available for her emotional calls day and night.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:51 AM
2

Dread game. More or less how you described it. But if he is not initiated he won't listen to you...
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:44 PM
1

Update?
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:22 PM
1

Either you just follow what everybody says here and read the sidebad or you just fall again for it and feel the hard depression in the end. It's your choice. Both will make you smarter. Just don't regret the decision.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:21 PM
1

I absolutely agree on the last part. Never start with TRP but with a nice romantic relationship that makes you the happiest man alive while it lasts and completely destroys you after it's gone. It's one of the most valuable experiences one can make. All relationships end. Either by death or breakup. Every fully commited relationship leaves you destroyed after the end - independent on how it ends. Heartbreak is inevitable. Nowadays relationships don't last as long as 50/100 years ago. That's not …
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:48 PM
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I wouldn't care as well. In your case it would be close to a soft-next from exclusive LTR to either FWB (that's probably what you want) or plate. Co-dependency is a bad thing btw. and forbidden according to TRP rules. I had the same co-dependency and this yielded essential problems during the breakup. Try to build your own independent life, social circle, hobbies and so on. It also is the intial part of dread game and might lead to less 'cheating' by your FWB.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 12:41 PM
1

Why do you accept to bring her into your house? The answer is 'no, we'll meet at yours'. How do you expect that this is going to work out? Probably you have a childroom in your parents house. Does she want to date a child? You can go for a concert or other event close to her appartment and try to convince her (maybe alcohol for her, water for you?) that her place is a better choice. I still don't believe that this situation has any positive outcome. You played yourself into a very weak position.…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:39 AM
2

Not sure if I have to upvote because it made me laugh or downvote because this sub actually is supposed to be serious.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:32 AM
3

I fully agree. That's why you set up the dates, control information flow through text and speech and define the rules of the relationship. When you are around they can just float. No worries, no need to follow the rules of society. When you are not around they have to work. Appears to me absolutely reasonable.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 08:05 AM
2

How does your former romantic view help you after some years when the marriage is broken and all the love is gone? It's not only the time during the marriage that matters. I can ensure you that it is not easy to recover from a bad oneitis divorce. It potentially destroys you (have a look at /r/mgtow). Sounds like a bad strategy to me.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 10:16 PM
1

Due to my divorce I am actually in emotional sleep mode. I'd say I am currently closer to mgtow than oneitis. But for sure one needs to keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 09:01 PM
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No marriage. Visit /r/mgtow to see all the divorce raped guys. As already suggested consider an inofficial marriage. Why should the state be between you and her if everything that matters is your love? (Or whatever BS is needed to convince her) Also maybe consider seeing a lawyer or read about the subject to save your life from your future possible/probable ex-wife. Divorce is just a matter of time nowadays.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:50 PM
3

Which nation? USA?
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:41 PM
1

What could be the point to ask such a question or to answer it. Better meditate or lift.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:38 PM
2

How much do you know your plate? How much of what she wrote is true? To get her back requires imo high level gaming. Something not worth for a plate or maybe a girl in general. Investing further into her sounds really bad. I'd either write nothing as you just don't care or if you want split as 'friends'/in good terms because you want to plate her friends or fear her negative input on gaming I'd tell her I enjoyed the time and wish her luck for the future. The ladder only applies of your plate re…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:25 PM
2

My kitchen still needs work. Some years of female control over the kitchen are hard to remove within a short time. I love cooking and thus I rebuild the whole kitchen from scratch. All counters on my height and empty to be used.
/r/MGTOW08/10/16 12:44 PM
2

Then move her out of your personal space in an unemotional and determined way. It sounds like you lost frame. You showed a nuclear reaction. She thinks you're drama with skin and bones. If that was the point I don't know why you want to discuss it. If yoh however want to feel less anger you need more IDGAF mentality. Who is she that she can upset you like that?
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:25 AM
2

Shit. I feared that. Taking cold showers now for 3 months every other day and its ok-ish in total but really torture-like while doing it. And not a positive torture like workout but a bad torture. Only the afterglow endorphins help to continue it.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:13 AM
21

This is the best part of the break up: getting rid of all this useless shit. My bathroom looks so nice now...
/r/MGTOW08/10/16 10:36 AM
5

Every time you move you accomplish something. Only if you stay on your couch watching tv you'll procrastinate. And then you'll feel crap when you are 50.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:43 PM
6

The fuck?
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:42 PM
1

How often did you have sex per week? How often now? Do you live together? Is your life settled down? You have a solid job, appartment, dog, whatever?
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:31 PM
3

This is what is called 'maintain frame'? I would probably be amused for a second let him the only glory of his day and continue living my life. I think there is nothing more ridiculous than fighting for a position in a line. You lose like 20 seconds.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 10:14 PM
3

You had piv sex before or only anal/oral?
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:23 PM
1

Tbh I have no idea. Never experienced or observed such a behavior. Seems like you really make a bad impression. Take a photo of yourself and analyze it. On the other hand for a single girl-> IDGAF Try to further improve yourself including appearance and social interaction. It should then work out by itself.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:51 PM
2

Maybe the girls you are interested in have a too high SMV? (With other words... Maybe your SMV is too low?)
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:13 PM
1

Example?
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:11 PM
1

Huge dick is probably a strong turn off. I think there is some bigdickproblems subreddit. Above avarage dick is probably optimal. But if you don't show it in public and you don't know her how could she know? Yes, it might boost your self-confidence but that's just one possible way to do it and it's a way you can't control.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 07:44 PM
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Might be a question of definition but fwb contains for me the friends part and thus is something like the highest reasonable status of a relationship. You do stuff together that is not sex (and enjoy it) and you have sex (and enjoy it) but you ignore each other in your everyday life and there is no dependency. I think using 'boytoy', 'fuckboy' or just 'plate' sounds better to me. FWB status needs to be earned.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 10:05 PM
1

I am still unsure about the MGTOW way-of-life. I have the feeling that knowing that a woman does not significantly improve your life if you have the right mindset is sufficient. So I don't really see the point of LTR's tbh. On the other hand the question is if you really need women if it is just for sex. I think it is reasonable to stay open-minded. A bit of MGTOW coupled with a bit TRP and stoicism appears to be a solid frame to build your future upon. If you want to meet women you need to deci…
/r/MGTOW04/10/16 11:42 PM
2

You need to understand you failures. You have a long life that eventually exactly develops as you want. You however need better self-reflection. If you are an emotional wreck imo meditation is the easiest way to solve this problem. You need to understand your emotions and how they currently control your life. You don't need to turn them off but they just belong to you. They teach you and will show you new ways to observe things (in an emotional way). But you always have the possibility to choose…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:21 PM
2

You could ask them for support during you lifting routine. But being needy is a big turn off so it should just be about support. Counter-offer support (they probably don't need it but anyway). Don't do more. Still finding friends outside of a closed circle might be a better approach.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:01 PM
1

I might write this onto my wall and every day in the morning I will read it and start my day smiling.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 10:35 PM
5

$585? Holy shit. US health system is really fucked up. (Sure it's not necessary for your health... Here it is free/paid by insurence IIRC)
/r/askTRP04/10/16 10:28 PM
1

Possibly pregnancy test still can be false positive after one week. Both pregnancy and abortion are a rollercoaster of hormones. You should check reliability first. Good luck that everything turns out ok! Request for update btw.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 10:17 PM
1

Well act as a man and don't give a shit. I'd actually love it if I wouldn't be asked to fix stupid things. It's just wasting time. I get your point but you really don't need their respect.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 09:32 PM
1

-> IDGAF Why do you care at all? Want to get them into your bed? Better spend your time with stuff you like.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 09:10 PM
1

I'd even say simple insemination like that doesn't work nicely. You really need to inject it deep into her vagina. Do you think her fertility was peaking when you had anal sex? Do you by luck know when she had her last period? This whole story screams like BS. Keeping frame for the moment though sound like a solid idea. I'd still dump her afterwards. In any case she sounds crazy.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 09:07 PM
2

Break eye contact by nodding when the other is telling/explaining/discussing something. In a group it is easier as no eye contact is mandatory. If you talk I'd not stop eye contact though. Again in groups it is easier as you have to maintain eye contact to all with equal share. Distance between you and the other is also important. It's less awkward if your tounges are not touching.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:52 PM
3

Never had bad experiences with girls? Never observed AWALT? Are you to needy and thus the girls flee and you barely manage to get a relationship (with whazever status) or are you afraid of getting hurt?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:43 PM
1

You shouldn't pity yourself for making a bad decision. Sure now you know it better but giving a shit about your exwife is surely not improving your life. Also a marriage is not nearly as deadly as shooting yourself. She is a woman. What kind of control can she have about your life?
/r/MGTOW04/10/16 08:01 PM
2

Anal sex? Also maybe I never saw a real loose pussy but what about steeper angle? It's kind of hard to imagine that you can not come.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:53 PM
0

Divorce will not shatter you. You can believe that it does but then you are not very far in your progress. In the end it will - if it affects you - only make you stronger. Becoming MGTOW because you believe to be destroyed right before you die is probably the most unsatisfying situation. Because then you can not use your new strength.
/r/MGTOW04/10/16 04:42 PM
1

You should never cut people out of your life if they improve it. The question is just if she does. As you probably know a good relationship doesn't mean it'll be a good friendship as well. Give it a try but don't be sad if it doesn't work out. I was in a similar situation and was heavily disappointed afterwards. Most ex's are just a really bad influence. And many here do not consider women (especially those who you had or would have sex with) to be a reasonable choice for friends.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 01:23 PM
2

What do you want to get from her?
/r/askTRP03/10/16 07:49 AM
1

Update?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:07 PM
1

Never become dependent on her in any sense. Never give her every ressource she wants.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:31 PM
1

Freeletics. Actually just any bodyweight app in the app store. I'd suggest a bar for what I believe are called pull-ups (but might be wrong translation) to train your upper body (shoulders, arms, breast).
/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:28 PM
1

I'd maybe explain your hobbies more like being partially from the past if you feel uncomfortable with telling them to a date. Extrapolate optimistically. 'Some years ago I dedicated a lot of time to a youtube channel. Nowadays this dedication slightly decreased and was partially replaced by other hobbies. However I got a lot of video editing knowledge out if it and have some ongoing or planned side projects with friends where I need that knowledge. Ever did some media-based project yourself?' Li…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:21 PM
1

Through school, work and hobbies. Some were friends of friends. It's tough to find real strong friends but the friendship can enhance over time. If you spend a lot of time in a social situation were you are not isolated you eventually get friends (if you are not too much of a psycho). Thus seeking social interaction is your only way out. I would not try to make friends via internet. Such friendship is really easy to create and feels right at times but is much to shallow and doesn't really improv…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:32 AM
1

If that is the case he should rather know that the memory he has is spoiled and not reflecting the truth. It's still a nice memory worth to keep and not to destroy.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:26 AM
1

Why do you want to get over her? Do you have negative aspects in your life due to the memory?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:10 AM
2

Why should you trust us on answering this question? If trp is evil or not depends on the standards you set as your morals. Trp is nothing that should be spread into the world. If there is someone needing advice and agreeing with our philosophy he can join.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:06 AM
1

You tell a girl you are going to kill yourself? I fear I never experienced a context where that is appropriate.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:28 PM
1

ITT only one opinion how to react...
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:11 PM
1

I think social interaction helps you to develop 'better' and faster. If you want to know what is lacking/needs improvement in your life you either need to reflect or observe others. Self-reflection is hard, requires knowledge and is always limited. Observation is cheap, requires social skills and its limitation depends on your skills. Best example is this sub. All questions are asked by men trying to understand behavior they are lacking knowledge of. The only way to get the knowledge by autodida…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 10:07 AM
3

Flaking is imo no reason for nexting. Either she nexted you or she will be apologizing and do everything you want. Meeting after flake often ends in bed.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:45 PM
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Sometimes it might make the girl question your interest as all orbiters around would love to write essays through text. However a bit of confusion on her side is probably never wrong. Her answer sounds absolutely positive to me.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:42 PM
7

Yeah it sounds like a lot of fun. The whole article is highly amusing. If it works the girl is going through a hell of emotions.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 11:05 PM
1

Thanks for the input. I need to think/read about that. I am absolutely happy now. I's just that I have the feeling that this might be simulated happiness and in reality I am just hiding something. It's kind of complicated to find out if you lie to yourself. But all proof that I have for claiming that something is wrong with me is my decreased interest in sex. Everything else works out nicely in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 10:43 PM
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I know this is no science here but as scientist stuff like this is hard to read. You claim really a lot; a huge amount of definitions, premises and implications. And nothing is backed up with references. In the end your epilog just gives us the most simple theory you made. Next time in the bar we will look at shoes, believe to see something like pointing to some guys (there are guys basically everywhere) and thus believe that everything you said is right. It feels like you explain how to manipul…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 10:31 PM
1

Exactly. Do you know a way out? I haven't seen any discussion on this subject except that some others feel the same. It might just be some light depression that doesn't perturb my life in other ways. I am checking hormones now. Maybe it is low-T. I think however the main problem is that I feel as happy as never. I really don't see that I need to change anything. It's kind of confusing.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 09:17 PM
1

Sure, women. But I don't feel the urge to fuck every day or spin plates. And to be honest fapping would always be a choice if it is only about sexual needs. Following RP guides I however now am part of nofap and noporn for some time. I have the feeling this rather lowered my sex drive. I really had a lot of sex in my life. I don't believe once more does improve the experience. So it is all just about blue balls. No brain involved. No magic. No significance. Sex is for me like fapping.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 08:45 PM
1

Also it's not reasonable to feel bad. What is the difference? Accept that she won't be yours. If you did does it really matter if she is falling for another man, her ex, a camel or cactus? No it does not matter because that's not your life. And your life is currently the only thing that matters.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:37 PM
1

Whenever you are horny she asks? How often have you answered this question already? Did the demotion work out? Is she your plate?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:34 PM
2

Don't think you are missing something out. If your concious mind started to be developed with ~15 you are like 5 to 6 years old. You still have around 70 years to live. Much of this time in a sexually active way if you want. Take any experience you can get but don't believe that you missed something when you actively lived your life. However you appear to do something that you don't like. And the question is why should you do that? There is no reason. Reflect what you want and do tat.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:29 PM
0

'Hey man, this is my friend dave. He is really.. ...funny." rolls eyes. I don't really see how being nothing else than funny is something to be proud of. But I am German. We define lack of humor. Do interesting stuff and talk to a lot of different people to be more able to contribute to a conversation. In a group the ones talking all the time are not necessarily the ones leading the discussion btw. Who's opinion is most important is often more than just defined by the content of the talk. The wh…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:18 PM
1

Never tell her how cool you are. She will find out by herself. The girl you are meeting was living like 20-30 years without you. Around 5-15 years rather independently. Don't you think she wants to tell you all this shit while you are looking deep into her eyes, laughing, nodding, being serious or sad?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:09 PM
1

I'd consider reflection more useful. Try to understand what happend, where you are now and where you want to go. If emotions are too strong do mindful meditation. In the meantime develop yourself, do interesting stuff (for your mind) and do sports (for your body). Keep connection to the society. Sitting alone at home reading a book until late into the night, crying, hating, will not help you. If you read do it in a constructive way.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:01 PM
2

Ahahaha Sounds exactly how my ex-wife would describe me, herself and our relationship. Don't believe a shit. You know what she wants you to know, see what she wants you to see. And you believe what you want to believe. Have fun with her. But do not let her control your life of money.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 08:51 PM
1

What about hobbies? Investing time into team sport seams resonable to me. You train yourself, learn how to work in a team and socialize.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 08:38 PM
1

Ideal would be if you build enough confidence to not give a fuck about the sexual experience of your girl. But I guess that's hard as a virgin. Keep in mind that we all have been virgins. We all had bad sex. Even if you completely suck in bed she won't keep that in mind. Just don't fall in love with the girl and you'd even not care how much she liked it. You'll have the best sex of your life later. And you might provide the best sex of a girls life even later maybe never. No need to be perfect f…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:33 PM
1

I did that already. Maybe one of my reasons to lose interest. Never considered that.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 07:28 PM
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It was a wording/translation issue. I am no native. I understood it as 'Once you can get her, you don't want her'. But now considering the exact choice of words here with proper translation: I really don't see the need for women I can't get. Why should I need a women that I can't get? Why should I need a woman at all? If this premise is not true what do I learn from this sentence? (I liked the body of the text. The header was just confusing.) Currently I rather don't see the gain at all from wom…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 11:30 AM
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According to TRP demotion can not be reversed. Also did she fail as FWB?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:55 AM
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This is not what I would define as LTR. This rather sounds like FWB. (although you seem to have rather few benefits in an exclusive relationship with sex every two weeks.)
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:46 AM
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Is it also against her morals to fuck other guys? But just do what you like and feels right. You are just in the wrong community if you don't like such advices. Maybe have a look into /r/relationships intead.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:45 AM
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Why should I invest in something that I don't need?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 07:43 AM
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If you know girls crave for text do you rather feed her small amounts of text keeping the addicition high or huge amount of texts oversatisfying the addiction? In an LTR you don't need many texts. You spend a huge amount of time together. You should always put more effort into the time spend with her in the same room and not while you are away. Otherwise she'll only like your absence. In the beginning/dating period texting is more delicate but I guess that's not part of this question.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:10 AM
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How do you define LTR? Doesn't sound like LTR.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 09:31 PM
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You want a very specific filet mignon and I tell you that they all taste more or less the same. Every piece is exciting. Everytime you eat it you get satisfaction. They can enrich your life or they do not. I actually put the 'better' in quotation marks because I don't believe in a comparison operator that takes two women as argument and returns -1, 0 or +1 depending on their 'betterness'. So I guess we have a similar opinion here. Yes, there are women that are important for you, that appear outs…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 08:28 PM
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I guess you are in the queue. She has other options and first tries those. If she fails she gets back to you. Or she nexted you already.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:58 PM
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And the unliking happened for sure just recently and not some months ago? Well women are irrational and as said by someone else have too much time. I can't answer why they should do that. Maybe she used some bot that destroys all her linkings. But who actually cares.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:53 PM
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You don't swallow the pill because you want to get a certain girl (well maybe you do in the beginning). You swallow it because you want to live a better life. You don't need a specific girl to be happy. You only need yourself. One of the most attractive parts on any alpha male is his independence. If he's going to fuck her or not doesn't change his life. There is no neediness. She can share the moment with him but doesn't need do offer anything except for sex. Also there is no woman in the leagu…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:50 PM
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Did she answer any text? Also 'Shook her hand'? 'Shock her hand again'? This is great. Probably lost game. Btw. I text them beforehand that I am going to hug them and there is no way to avoid it. Well or i just hug them without warning. Depends on the girl and how much energy I invested to online game her.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:40 PM
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I would always play 'k' and then silence. She has to offer the next date. You don't text anything.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:24 PM
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How did you find out? Do you get some notification?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:22 PM
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There are numerous examples on trp. Most people here chose to swallow because of an horrible breakup of a BP-LTR/oneitis. After application of RP theories the male increases his SMV by some uncommon large values in relatively short time. The ex regrets her decision, shows anger and frustration, and sometimes offers to return. Depending on the male she sometimes is rewarded with plate status and sometimes just ignored. Even though the male completely lost alpha status he regained it. This should …
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:19 PM
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Now I managed to find out that you are not the OP... You had the same problem or was this just theoretical discussion?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 02:26 PM
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Tough situation. Sounds like a downward spiral from here on. Depends on who you both are. Most of what I say is guessing based on what you wrote and can be completely inaccurate. First I'd suggest to analyze what happened. Why did she read? Why no sex although she showed interest? Just some shit-test or some reaction on your misbehavior from earlier? What happened during last week? As fast solution but probably it doesn't matter, I'd follow some hobbies, meet friends today. Keep communication du…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:27 AM
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How long are you trying now? It takes time to develop yourself.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 10:57 AM
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No idea. I guess specialist. I don't care much for these numbers. But I am also not aiming for excellence. Maybe there is even a kit available on amazon. You just need some (frequency dependent?) resistivity measurment set through your whole body (not just through the feet) Typically you don't have a sixpack with 15-20%. And actually 15% vs 20% already makes a huge difference. Consider how much of your body is almost purely water. Then you also have bones. A slight change in body fat is typicall…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:48 AM
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If you aim for excellence you need to go to a physician and measure body fat. Optimal is below 15%. BMI just relates height and weight and is an indicator for random folk.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:44 AM
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AWALT isn't something bad. It doesn't mean all women are bitches or all women are cheaters. It rather means something like all women try to get the best male they can get. Doesn't sound bad at all. They need to do it as a part of their nature. I'd generally consider a human to be driven by something like three parts: rationality, experience and nature; all in average equally strong however from time to time the importance of one of the three tends to be increased. As the nature part is inherentl…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:21 AM
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Were does this swelling come from. Where does it go while you focus on your breathing? It only exists as input for your conciousness. As all your other (physical) senses do the same. Everything is just input and you use this input, process it, and forward it somewhere else. Unfortunstely currently there is a direct almost uncontrolled tunnel from your emotional input to the action center of your brain. You'd like to act emotionally. You need to get your rationality inbetween again. Meditation ca…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:38 PM
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Maybe you plan too much into the future? I'll typically plan maximum one week in advance. A first/second date should be within something like 3 days. Girl's side get the information often one day later. Sometimes I tell her to keep some time slot free after she told me when she is free but needs more specific planing. The exact plan she get's rather late. How does it end for you if you don't confirm? They don't arrive? Do they message you?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:05 PM
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How is that related? Do you compare yourself with others or do you want to have a virgin or near-virgin to lose your virginity?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:01 PM
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I meant a final declaration of your beta status in her eyes due to some beta behavior by you as obvious needyness. If you ever were overly needy/clingy she'll probably never consider you worth anymore as you declared yourself to be below her level. If her social circle declared you as low level it is the same. I would really not think about that now. Rather try to find out what you did wrong.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 10:57 PM
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Never. Confirm. Dates. You set them once. The full planing is done before you txt her. Ideally the date is not too far into the future. You introduce her to your plan how to spend the evening. She can come or not. She is not essential to the plan. If she agrees to come but doesn't don't be angry. But now she has to propose something much better to compensate what she 'did to you'. Actually she didn't do anything to you because you had a nice evening anyway. You don't need her to have fun. Still …
/r/askTRP26/09/16 10:44 PM
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This question is just wrong. You didn't get the point so far. First improve yourself. You obviously need social training. Stoicism will help as well. Then live in the moment not in the future or past. You can't plan your relationship with her. You can't take the sex from her. She has to offer it. Maybe she'll be gay in half a year. Maybe you'll find something much 'better'. It doesn't matter. This is all not controlable by you. You can only control your own life. And now is the moment to start t…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 10:33 PM
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It's kinda funny how you kids define a relationship of less than a year as LTR. You know that you are still living like 70 years? To be honest I don't get your point. You are happy? Then enjoy. You know the truth. You now all relationship end. Yours as well. Either by death or by splitting up where latter is infinitely more probable due to your age. What a lot guys here don't understand is that a RP-LTR is much harder than a BP-LTR. That's probably one of the reasons why everyone is only talking…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 10:23 PM
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Does it really matter? Plate is plate. Upgrade needs to be earned. Sexuell history can be a red flag but I'd say there are hundreds of other indicators. (Although I never had a RP-LTR and might be wrong here)
/r/askTRP26/09/16 09:33 PM
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I've seen this behavior in clubs. These girls aggressively attack you with their 'dancing skills' and are overly confident. They're sending you 'looks' like 'lets fuck'. But actually it resembles more a horror show of facial destruction. I really would like to know why they believe that we are playing in the same league... I think they are looking for shy beta guys (which should make me overthinking my appearance) with underestimated SMV. Not sure if those exist though. Btw. I think if you rejec…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 09:26 PM
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Analyze what you did wrong. Is your SMV too low? Did you beta-txt her? Understand what you did wrong before you continue. You need to learn from failures. Bad response time should only be answered by even worse response time. She might game you as well to test you. You obviously lost. Never talk with anybody about your affection for a girl. Never show your girl affection over txt. Look into her eyes while you do it. If you didn't beta block yourself she might be interested again in half a year i…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 09:19 PM
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BMI is even controversial for non weight lifter. Hip height ratio or something like that appears to correlate stronger to overall health. Probably best indicator for lifters (e.g. for six pack) is body fat ratio. But why do you care at all? Are you healthy or not? Look into the mirror.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 09:13 PM
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Peeing trick helps me as well. sometimes I consider during sex how ridiculous this all must look like from some external objective point of view. I try to analyze my partner, look how the ribs move or some other shit. However I might look like some psychopath. Enumerating prime numbers also helps. Trp offen suggests deathgrip and porn as medicine. The pc trick from the others sounds nice as well.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 06:24 PM
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The fuck is this high school philosophy? This is the random shit every 15 year old goes through. And then it gets gold? I really thought this is a sub for men...
/r/MGTOW26/09/16 06:20 PM
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Do mindful meditation. What you believe to be misery is a concept only existing in your brain. It is not objective. There was a couple of days ago a post summarizing RP or stoicism key concepts: If your ex would become the murderer of her next bf would you be happy to have left her in the right moment? If yes, how do you value if something is bad or not? It is all about belief not reality. You believe that you miss her. That something is lacking. Try to understand that this is only some emotion …
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:59 PM
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It's hard. One needs to keep the balance. Only a Sith deals in absolutes.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:43 PM
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As already said chasing by girls only happens at larger differences of SMV's. For some reasons a lot of low SMV girls have a lot of confidence and will almost attack you if you are part of the higher league. However these are not the one's you want to date. Actively trying to being chased is laziness. And high-class women don't chase. And these are exactly those you want to date. Most important you are the only one to determine/control the relationship. You make the first and the last step. And …
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:07 PM
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/r/stoicism There is a huge amount of non-sex related articles on trp. I still did not manage to read them all. Use the flairs, select 'red pill theory' only (look at sidebar if you don't know how to). Sort by top and go through the list. Most are about relationships but there are also others regarding meditation, stoicism, grooming, fitness, job life, whatever...
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:54 PM
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I don't think anyone asking on asktrp can handle their ex. She is still under your skin. You are not indifferent, there is no abundance. Accept this truth and work on your frame. Even if it might work out for a short time (I don't believe it) it stops or hinders your development. There are more woman. Some are 'worse, equal or better' than your ex. You don't need her to fulfill your desires. It is just the cheapest and easiest way if it works out.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:38 AM
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I wouldn't invite her. OP's frame is still clearly not strong enough to handle an ex-LTR (probably oneitis).
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:32 AM
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Last point is important. First impression is already set. She already has evaluated and might have already friendzoned you in some sense. Still you can try.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 09:29 PM
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Don't gamble with her emotions. Don't believe to know what she feels and how you could use that to get yourself into a better position. If you want to get into a better position try to improve yourself. The hard and honest way. You shouldn't consider anything sexually for now. Thus she is asexuell. You can't get sex from her -> no investment of time or energy. She can't be your (male) friend -> no investment of time or energy. It's very simple. Your ex-oneitis situation is really not that bad if…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 08:05 PM
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What does 'slut' mean to you? AWALT doesn't mean all girls are sluts. It doesn't mean that they are inherently bad. They are just different. They are not male. Why should you hate somebody for not being male? Do you hate children, animals or trees? And actually AWALT allows you to predict their behavior. RP helps you to dominate your own life. You are however still ranting and thus are not close to your goal. I guess the 'talk to everybody'-rule could help you most. Meditation is important as we…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 07:32 PM
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How long? I know that feeling. It goes away by itself if you do two things: Improve your own life. Do everything you do only for you not to impress her. Accept that she is not who you believe her to be. You project all your ideals, hope and ideas into her but that's just how you want her to be. That's not how she is. She is no unicorn. Everybody of us would stare at a real unicorn. But they don't exist and thus we just look at ourselves.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 07:10 PM
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Additionally to what was said already about logistics and what you probably already know: texting needs baking time. Several days is probably too long if your SMV is sufficiently high as she thinks you're not interested anymore. I'd wait around 24 hours up to two days. But please don't look at your watch. Do it when you feel that the time is right, you feel strong and have time. I'd ask for an unspecific date in the closer future to meet again asking when she has time. Short precise sentence(s).…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 06:50 PM
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How is your normal sex live? How is your non-sex live together? How is your business role models? It's really hard to read anything with this kind of information. For sure you never do something that you'd never do if it wasn't for her.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 06:46 PM
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Read the how to be interesting guides. If you are interesting making conversation in a group is easy as hell even if you are not funny or smart or whatever. However everything needs to be trained. Talk to more people (outside the circle).
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:46 AM
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If fitness girl didn't tell you that she is in a LTR you don't know it. Escalate and see how she responds. If you keep it low for a long time you'll only get friendzoned. Probably she will like your interest and interpret it as compliment even if she is in an LTR. And maybe her relationship is shit and she wants to leave anyway. Coworker is hard. For me being chuck thundercock and taking the girl from the beta boy wouldn't be ok but for you it might be different. How long do you know her? Will y…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:43 AM
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Meditate! You are now no emotional wreck. You are a grown man. Handle your emotions by yourself and don't show her or any other girl there anything. If you used this year efficiently you should already be able to impress some girls there. Your ex might as well see you in a new light but probably will refuse to consider starting something new with you as it would degradate herself. If you are indifferent to her it will be the most impressive thing you can do.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:16 AM
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And even she reminds you of the unicorn you were once dating the memory is not real. She is not like you believe her to be.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:09 AM
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They want you to take the lead. You need to build up tension, fuck them roughly, spank them whatever they like. Most like to be led slowly into ultimative submission. That's hard work. If you meet her more than once you might be able to be ridden from time to time.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:56 AM
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Out of a single (!) personal experience... It means exactly what you consider. Under the assumption that you are close to a breakup... What is not working between you? What is the origin? If she would be 'happy' she wouldn't consider this.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:39 AM
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Does she thinks it's her fault or yours? Who has the higher SMV, you or her? Who initiated the contact after the bad sex experience? Who wrote the last message? I would suggest never to mix drinking and dating. Both are hobbies. One you do with friends or during/after drinner and another with women. I would suggest to focus on one of both at the same time.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:34 AM
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Sounds solid. I was just very calm beforehand. I was utterly suprised about my limpness. I even had an erection through foreplay but somehow lost it when initiating PiV. But it's still possible. I am currently thinking a lot. Probably I had as well hundreds of things in mind. Thanks. Well then back to meditation and living more in the moment.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:27 AM
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If she says she is busy but doesn't offer alternatives she is not interested. You somehow fucked up. Probably by texting insead of talking. Work on yourself be independent, don't acknowledge her existence more than others. Communicate more directly.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:23 AM
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Blowjobs can be impressively good. They watch porn and read all manuals in the web. They train it. However as already mentioned several times in other trp threads most woman looking for an alpha male behave shy/inactive in the bedroom. Sex is a lot of work for you and less for her.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:18 AM
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