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being short really ain’t all that big of a disadvantage if you’re a nice normal fucker in every other aspect I agree its not the end of the world. But its a big disadvantage. What do you consider to be short. When I say short im talking 5 foot 7 or lower. Im not one of those guys that thinks anything under 6 foot is short.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 12:35 AM
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So then for all the people working full time jobs that dont make 100k are choosing not to. It's not the economy or the job market or the way that our society set up. Just individual choices. The majority of the population is choosing not to make 100k.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 12:32 AM
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You seem fairly smart and you are fairly engaging with these points so im curious, do you think that making 100k is a choice? I know that's not relevant to what you commented but id like to know Men at least have the option to become more attractive. True Women's attractiveness doesn't change much if they have a really good career or the other things I mentioned. They are judged almost purely on looks. Women are for sure judged on looks alot more but a good career, inteligence, fashion, good val…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 09:48 PM
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I was trying to provide an example that men have an advantage in the dating market Men that are attractive, rich and/or status have a massive advantage. The other men do not. A horribly, physically unattractive men have the option to become more attractive through hard work and discipline. 100% most men can become more attractive through diet and the gym, but some men have genetic disadvantages that "hard work" wont fix. If you are 5 foot 6 you will have a harder time dating. For sure there are …
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 09:33 PM
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have a good career that makes 100k+ annually, have a lot of friends and a very active social life, For the other 90% percent of men that makes under 100k do you believe they dont deserve dating partners. Making 100k a year ridiculous bar to set. Having a good circle of friends is something that everybody should have , but it's something that a lot of women don't really have. Most women i know personally dont have ANY friends. And that's from women i've dated to older women I work with. Most wome…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 08:56 PM
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People on this subreddit and in our culture right now cannot criticize women as a group. They wont do it. So if they were to acknowledge that looks matter to women alot, and the men that don't have those conventionally attractive attributes (Muscles, low-fat, height, white skin, blue eyes etc.) will have a much harder time dating. They would have to be critical of women. So they deny the claim in the first place. Our culture has no issue telling men today to date fat or unattractive women. We ca…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 08:48 PM
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Lol, based on what?
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 09:27 PM
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This sub is horrible for deradicalization. Most people here won't even admit that if you look better as a man that you'll have a better and easier time dating.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 09:26 PM
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These people are projecting very hard on to you. I would just ignore this whole thread.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 09:50 PM
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So you cant read or dont want to. Got it. Once again I dont understand why people on a deraticalization sub reddit but don't want to or cant engage with any of the ideas of the redpill.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 01:40 AM
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Being seen as unattractive can definitely change the way that people interpret things that you do. This guy definitely has self-loathing and loser energy. But he isn't wrong on this topic. If you can't acknowledge things like this you probably shouldn't be on a sub for deraticalizing red pill people. People on the left and in spaces like this have to be able to acknowledge these sort of truth's, The inability that do so is why the right has a death grip cultrually on these topics.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 12:01 AM
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Are you asking me to explain to you what I have explained in other comments and how he responded? Because you could just click on my post history and go read what he said there I have read this entire thread, I don't think anything he said has belied any sexist beliefs or that he only wants sex. That's why I asked if you'd be willing to point something out. I just don't have the energy to do this emotional labor right now. My mother is ill and I hold a lot of people's emotions during my work wee…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/24 12:24 AM
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Do you personally know women in their 20s that have never gone on a date or had a man show interest in them?
/r/ExRedPill25/02/24 12:19 AM
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Everything he's said elsethread. If you would care to indulge me could you specify, I'm only curious because I found one of the issues with this sub and all other people that attempt to do this "Redpill Deradicalization" seems to be some of the internal biases that the people trying to help have with the people in "the redpill" and the incels. In his initial post along with not having sex, He spoke about not getting dates and also having to sit on the standby while his friends had conversations …
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 11:36 PM
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Your desire for sex -- don't call it intimacy, you don't want to actually be intimate with us -- overrides all other desires you currently have. How do you know he doeant want intamacy?
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 10:55 PM
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You won't get many good faith answers on this sub. This sub has fall for the ideological trap of being against an idea (s), and then consequentially becoming knee jerk anti-that idea. They won't engage with any idea that seems like it even could be redpill.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 11:29 AM
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You know this sometimes happens with younger immature women, right? Usually out of jealousy, sometimes the dude may have legitimate issues that they warn each other of.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 10:50 PM
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The initiator should probably be whoever feels like doing it. It will most of the time be the man, but women are slowly starting to make the first move more often, and we will likely see women make the first move more often in the future. As of right now, the man is usually expected to be the initiator.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:31 PM
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Are you actually ex red pill? If I said yes, would you engage with what I said said. I'm guessing not. You've already dismissed everything I've said by assuming I'm misogynistic. The answer to your is no, I'm not ex redpill because I was never redpill to begin with. Most of the redpill ideology is dogshit. That doesn't mean I'm "bluepilled" either. I made my post partially to criticize a running narrative on bluepill (this sub included) communities. Women can not be criticized or analyzed in our…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:34 AM
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has nothing to do with a girl showing signs of attraction But what is it teaching girls? We are taught how to prevent our rape all the time— this is one of those things. Unless it is called out in the moment, this still teaches girls that there are men who will use their attraction to them against them. I'll have to speak to women I know personally about this topic because I flat out refuse to believe that more that 1% women are hiding signs they are attracted to men because they are afraid of b…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 08:02 PM
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“she was flirting with him the whole night now way man she just regrets it” That's rape apologia and has nothing to do with a girl showing or not showing signs of attraction. A rapist and his friends will always victim blame and lie about a rape they commit. Or the classic “you’re such a tease” and “you’re leading him/ me on”. That could and probably does happen. We do know that some women do lead me on tho right. Not every case of that is a lie. There is definitely ways they can be used the sam…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 06:38 PM
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Men are out here behaving terribly though. Its just a fact This sentence is an example of a part of what OP is asking with this post. We know that some men are shifty, and it gets discussed and exposed very often. Women behave in very bad ways too, but thats never discussed in dating culture conversation. It seems that men are blamed for everything. Why is it that bad things women do can't ever be discussed. Could you or anybody reading this, even name 2 or 3 bad things women do?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 05:09 PM
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Bro this a scam. I'd be better off watching Andrew Tate videos.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 05:01 PM
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They’re also taught that any sign that your attracted to someone will be used against them, either physically or socially I've never heard any woman say they were taught this before. Also, couldn't a man liking a woman be used against them in the same way?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 04:57 PM
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This was a good effort post, but you will likely get bad engagement for 1 reason. To the majority of people criticizing or looking at how women behave is off limits and not allowed. This is the biggest issue. Discussions about men are allowed. Most people aren't able to be open to the idea that there may be broad things women do that are bad and toxic. It’s like woemn’s attraction is indeed immediate and visceral, it rarely grows and if ti does it is extremely rare. Pretty redpilling to be hones…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 03:37 PM
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Focus on the not hating women part and not the embracing feminism part.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 08:21 PM
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Crazy that in all these comments nobody actually awnsered your question. Thats crazy.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 08:31 PM
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When most people age they will grow to be attracted to different things. If they have a partner unless there's drastic changes to that person's body they will likely grow to like some of the things that change about them. I've personally seen this somewhat play out with women who give birth and have natural weight gain assoicated with the birth process. Almost every woman I've known who's gone through pregnancy has been very self-conscious about their body before, during, and after. Yet every ti…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 03:16 PM
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So? The comment basically just said cold approaching inst great and then said to socialize.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 12:44 PM
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If they aren't willing to help you those people aren't your friends and you need to either deprioritize those relationships or leave them entirely. If they have single friends and they won't even do something as simple as inviting in the group activities for you to interact with them they really don't give a fuck about you.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 06:32 AM
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Society definitely shouldn't look down on those people but even if somehow we normalized it those men in that situation due to internal personal reasons are going to feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled anyway. If we could somehow control Society enough to destigmatize male virginity, would really be better off just making the entire dating market magically 50/50 on gender expectations. Meaning women and men approach to ask the other out 50%, costs on dates are 50/50, more women on OLD. Sadly neith…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 11:32 AM
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I cant see the intial comment you're responding to due to deletion but from that last section you quoted, how would men complimenting men help with that/his problem.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 01:31 PM
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I dont have any self confidence issues but the last time a woman complemented me was in high school. It would be cool to hear any sort of complement from a woman.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 01:20 PM
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Not a redpiller. But IIRC the arguement is that women wont be attracted to men that cry and will throw it in their face in later arguements. Not that they would be repulsed instantly.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 05:32 PM
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I honestly think this is just a troll/joke post. Unless the guy has a crazy ass post history.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 04:06 PM
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Id agree but you dont think dotoxification would help.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/22 11:43 AM
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The redpill at best is like 300 to 500 thousand men. In a world with almost 4 billion men. Assuming you live in america 165 million men are here. Most guys havent even heard of it and even less care to listen to it.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 01:45 PM
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This isnt redpill at this point, this clown is just a nazi.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 01:26 AM
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Not sure why this is downvoted this is pretty true.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/21 01:04 PM
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Alot of women have experienced or heard bad times of being approached by men so they are scared of it.
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:37 AM
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I never said that bad men arent out there(if you look this thread you can see my comments acknowledging that). The thing is since most women won't approach men have to. Whats your solution to this? I dont like creepy men either.
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:54 PM
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I agree with this but some people dont have the right types of social groups for this. All the girls I know are friends with each other and are in relationships. My only option is to approach girls and people I work with.
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:50 PM
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Thats true and its bad that it happens, but at the same time if men continue to be the ones always expected to approach then nothing will change or get better. Women approaching more could help with this issue. There will always be creepy men tho.
/r/seduction25/08/21 06:28 PM
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My guess would be that there is more women on that sub, and women will usually be against approaching.
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:40 PM
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whats that rule?
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:50 PM
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I think he's trying to say if a girl is showing multiple of these signs.
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:38 PM
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Im in a friendship with a girl similar to OP and I havent made a romantic move on her because shes a liar and won't admit when she's wrong. Physically shes my exact type. I hang out with her because shes fun to go to bars with. I don't think your analysis is completely wrong tho.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:42 AM
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If a woman sees a guy with female friends its a stong indicator that the guy isnt a creep or weird. Girls like guys who arent creeps.
/r/seduction08/05/21 04:12 PM
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Only when I graduated did I realize everyone in high school is stupid.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 09:27 PM
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My exact thought. She misunderstood the purpose of your post and then made an essay responding to the strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 04:02 AM
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I'm on a daily routine thing an it says that I should exfoliate once every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:30 AM
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That's a completely fair and valid response. I was more criticizing the idea on this post that theres no way for a woman to deal with the risk of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:55 PM
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But their are ways around this condoms, plan b, birth control and abortion(if legal in your state). Pregnancy of course is a big issue that women have to deal with but there are ways that are to combat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:31 PM
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Yeah rejection sucks... and it can take a long time to build up strength to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:10 AM
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Because some of those men want actual relationships. Which sex workers dont fulfill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:45 AM
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after lurking on PPD and FDS I basically expected this sub to be filled with sexism and raging misogyny but honestly it's more tame than both of those.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 02:59 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 11:43 PM
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I'm glad I finally found the first post to accurately characterize the state of dating without being misogynic or incel like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 11:40 PM
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I think this is just true of all attractive people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 10:25 PM
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Not to be a dick but is Demisexuality real? I just have a hard time believing its legitimacy due to personal anecdotal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:07 AM
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What would you say to guys who have a hard time picking up cues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:54 AM
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Yes,Im saying ive heard people say those things here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 02:26 AM
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Let me be more specific, only this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 02:17 AM
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These are things ive only heard on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 01:44 AM
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Do you think there are other variables that could lead to people having scant opportunities later in life? Other than immaturity or poor sociability.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 04:59 PM
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You keep talking about risk but theres so many contraceptives that we have now that the risk is super low. Everybody can afford condoms and a decent amount of women can afford birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:41 AM
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She wasnt really blaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:08 AM
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Completely anecdotal but I've noticed that bi women tend to be alot better with dating and considering others feelings. Ive only been able to develop friendships with women that are Bi. Again anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:37 PM
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I read the post incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:25 PM
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The tone of the way you replied to this post gives me the inclination that you know you're going to break up with him but you know that you're in the wrong for doing it and you came here to look for other people to agree with you so you could not feel bad. If he is unmotivated and doesn't want to further himself break up with him or try to convince him otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:38 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 09:03 PM
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The more and more I think about it I cant help but think that dating is just a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 06:54 AM
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Thats fair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:01 PM
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Why do you say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:18 PM
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If they know that information then yes they should be. But that doesn't mean to just hate the other gender and get mad. You should talk it out and be reasonable. I personally have had more poorer experiences with women than positive. It began to cause me to have a few unsavory thoughts about women. I solved that by thankfully finding reasonable women and befriending them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:59 PM
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I think you may be misunderstanding the arguement. They are not say that she has to let guys pump and dumped for eternity. Its that some guys will know that girls who have been "loose" before all of a sudden arent willing to with them. To those guys it doesnt seem right or fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:48 AM
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