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Older guy here. In my experiance it really doesnt matter. Depends on how far you wanna take things. I think we live in an age where a guy really doesnt have to open up that much about his personal life. They are so all about themselves all you need to do is put the spotlight on her. Also if it helps remain a mystery. Dont be an open book.
/r/seduction21/08/25 09:01 AM
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I vote ghost week or two. If she is interested then she will hit you up. If not NEXT.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:35 PM
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If you want the simple answer its women have at least 7 guys they can be entertaining in they DMs so ghosting is nothing to them nowdays. but if you want strategy then the best way to go about it is to next her or go about your business. The more you chase her the more you give her the dominant role in the interaction/relationship.Need her less and explore more options. Raise your value as a man. Hit the gym, work on your money. Pre-occupy your mind with other things even if its tv series or mov…
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:31 PM
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Long ass post about one girl. Lets hope this doesnt turn into oneitis. For your age good progress though.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 01:17 PM
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I think you are asking the wrong question. Rather be worried whether you are the type of man that inspires this behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 09:13 PM
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Right here's what to do. 1. Find a gym. And on your way there buy some creatine.You are lacking a very vital hormone in your system called testosterone .It's a man's hormone. You need it. It will clear your head. Being a man isn't toxic as society wants you to believe. Being a man is a role that you just haven't been taught how to play. We are taught to get in touch with our feminine side but guess what. You are not female. You are male. It's time to act as such. Do you like men. Would you like …
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:27 AM
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Its best to find a long term solution. Fill your day up with activities and keep your mind busy. Literally. Like ok what should I be thinking about right now. Typing that report. Ok whats next. sending that email. Ok I need to prepare to go to the gym. Whats my routine today. Never talk to a woman after dick destroying session. You will be a mess. I learnt the hard way. Your system is flooded with oxytocin which makes you emotional and neurotic. Avoid calls or texts for the rest of the day if ne…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 07:18 AM
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Smiling a lot comes across as you trying to be accepted in the social group. Trying to get approval from the tribe. People tend to see you as a push over. Thus beta. It makes sense. Smiling helps you to look approachable which is true but also tends to make you look goofy. I noticed most lead alpha characters in movies smile less if not at all.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 10:53 AM
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You're not alone man. Sometimes I think lust is better than love, if there is such a beast. Or maybe its a chemical called oxytocin in ones brain. Offering commitment was maybe a bad idea. She should have begged for it the way we beg for sex. I think all said and done thats a man's lot in life.A curse somehow. One woman comes and shits in our hearts one time or another in our lives.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 01:21 PM
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I honestly feel for the guy trying to get their ex back because i was recently in such a situation.I can honeslty say that I have only just gotten over my ex in the last two days and yet we broke up about 3 months ago. Its the worst feeling in the world and its not my first time. I lost frame and began getting oneitis after we got into a reltionship. She adored me at first and actually told me she thanked the heavens that her prayers were answered and she was sent a man who gets it. The pain you…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 05:02 PM
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I think if you are going to get married you have to have your shit together. Its not enough to be redpill aware but really be alpha. Maybe that's when you can at least think of marriage. I thinks its just about being able to handle it not whether its good or bad.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 11:59 AM
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You need to confront her and talk to her like a man.Talk to her like a grown up to a child because she is acting like a child. Dont play her games and be direct like a man should be. I'm not saying shout at her. just be firm.Hold a serious face.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 03:34 PM
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Usually girls who want their homework done just want to manipulate you. Sorry. That's why its called the "bitter taste of the redpill". Do some self introspection and be totally honest with yourself what type of guy she sees you as. Attractive or just a tool. Just say you are kinda busy and maybe next time. If she give's you negative feedback ignore her. Dont put her on a pedestal. If you want to be with her ask yourself whether it would be enjoyable if you knew the only reason why she was with …
/r/askTRP26/01/18 03:18 PM
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You need to do more work when it comes to DHV and comfort.Go out.Dance. Have some drinks in public. Maybe she likes you but the fact that you were already meeting to get the lay on day one makes her feel slutty and uncertain.She will never contact you again because it only means you want to continue towards sex which makes her feel like a slut. READ UP ON ANTI-SLUT DEFENSE...PLEASE....DONT KEEP ON MAKING THE SAME MISTAKE...Don't escalate too quick without getting to know her and more importantly…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 12:41 PM
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As soon as you stop being a bitch made ass motherfucking asshole I will.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:18 AM
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i like the dgaf attitude you are conveying. Yes I have read the book of pook but not its entirety.I must admit..
/r/askTRP14/01/18 02:01 PM
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Well I have more than touched the side bar. Been on the redpill almost three years but I guess my post and questions are more out of frustration than anything. But like here is a good example.Women are covert communicators and men are overt.I got that from rollo tomassi. But that means I now have to read between the lines of what women are saying. I mean like what the fuck. if you have something to say then say it. That's why you have a mouth.Why do I have to be telepathic to talk to a woman.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 12:33 PM
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The most important question a man can ask himself is "Is she the only one with puss" Okay maybe not the most important but like Blackhawk2479 says this is a oneitis issue and the fact that you have to see her everyday at work makes it worse.which makes nexting this person difficult. Remember the problem is not her but the emotions you are feeling in you.Your emotions are a reflection of your thoughts. Change your thoughts and then you will change your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 02:40 PM
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Not hanging out with the "other men". This potential social circle could lead to some opportunities.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 07:49 AM
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Establish frame.Your life doesn't revolve around her.Dont try and fit into her world or her program.Develop the mindset of a someone who is going somewhere and knows what he wants from life. You should not give a rats ass about what that white knight perceives of you even if they are your superior.Just do your work and continue doing you. The moment you become smiley and act needy around these people the more you become a pushover and you will be treated like trash.If she is going to interact wi…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:57 AM
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The Sex God Method read this book..........
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:33 AM
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Get a job. Thats best way your character will change. You will become more responsible. More sociable. Especially if you are constantly making calls.Maybe work at a call center for a bit. I was a very introverted guy who didn't socialize much.I had no interest in talking and felt it was out of my way. After college and moving into the job market you realize society doesn't give a fuck about you and you have to get in tune or you go hungry. What I mean by that is when you grow older you are force…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:30 AM
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Try coffee.Caffeine helps me focus....
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:52 PM
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Hit the gym Get another woman in your life.even if you dont love her Persue your hobbies seriously
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:44 PM
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Begin with your mind.Literally your mind.There is a lot of gold in the comments especially something on outcome dependence where chasing women is your goal. As this becomes your goal your mind literally focuses on them and it shows in your body language.You stare more. More chatty around them.You become like a needy puppy hungry for attention with no life of your own. Turn to what you are passionate about. I wont say Im better than you bro because I'm in your shoes. Funny thing is just last week…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 01:10 PM
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So we now need to learn how to interact with women just to keep out of going to jail.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 08:08 PM
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Those words feel so good. Its easy. No pressure....."sigh".... Anyway back to the treadmill.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:24 AM
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Yes but think about it.She will cheat on you because you are not Alpha. Remember there is a difference between attraction and arousal.Attraction equates to beta qualities of provider-ship. Arousal is as a result of physical attributes of the Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 03:01 PM
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I think men are becoming more and more desperate. As a result of a scarcity mentality men become more tolerable to the infidelity of their partners past and even present. This results in women feeling resentment for these bluepill men because of their inability to stand up for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 02:53 PM
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"These are highly educated, very successful women and one after another they were saying they couldn’t find a partner. How could it be that all these amazing, attractive intelligent women were lamenting about their ability to find a partner?" So to put it simply her degree is supposed to get me hard.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 03:25 PM
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its like reading an episode of gordy shore or whatever they call that tv show.Drunk girls.Buff guys.Double crossing friends.Steroids.Beer.Beach.Clubbing.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 03:11 PM
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your problem is not the redpill community for judging you for being emotional. Your problem is the women who always expect you to perform 24/7, 7 days a week. That's how they are.Its called the burden of performance and perform you must.you decided to relax so she punished you.Mourn yes but move on.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 01:23 PM
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This is exactly where I am or was. My main setback was fap.went 4 weeks no fap and lifted heavy.something snapped (in my mind not my body).I could open but I had no IOIs.I remember one time I passed a group of girls in the street that were loudly talking to each other.so as I walk by I shush them.they retaliated of course but I was already walking away with a grin on my face.so fap is the big sticking point for me I guess.but im glad I know how to remedy it.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 11:27 PM
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Well go in.Not all of us are born with balls of titanium.Depends on the guy.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 04:16 PM
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A few pointers to note although i wont judge coz i need to go in field myself.We all should stop judging. Weed out the targets. I think its better to open targets that show some level of interest like those who establish eye contact with you while you pass them as opposed to those who look in a hurry wearing shades and have earphones on.Your SMV level will help you get the second type... Get some material so that your conversations arent interview based. Eg...Whats that in your hair.What are you…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 02:46 PM
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I would'nt go so far to say they are an addiction but I totally agree with you.This week was busy for me and I can safely say chatting up women was the last thing on my mind. Men are generally desperate and it shows that's why the world is sucking up to them. When you occupy yourself they lose their power over you. The same power they have over beta guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 10:21 PM
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Wanted to go back to the gym next week.Got sidelined the past few months and now I'm basically at zero especially with the ladies.I think I went three days without talking to any this week which is now like my high school days.I know that sounds impossible but I'm not counting old women and work mates. Work is better. Seing a lot of progress socially when talking to clients.Not nervous when it comes to picking up the phone. Made a financial milestone. Need to go back into monk mode.Hit the gym.G…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 04:24 PM
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I am terribly sorry but I am laughing. Not at you and the situation you found yourself in but just at the fact that you "FLED".You could have just walked away.Fled is a word used to describe the action of sprinting. Please no offence intended.Anyway lessons learnt from your story and my own experiences. Never tell a girl you want to sleep with that you love her. Formalizing the whole thing is just the kiss of death.Women believe in the natural progression of a relationship not the bureaucratic s…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 08:48 PM
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At least you got out of that unicorn mindset of first time should be a special moment with the person you've waited your whole life to be with. That's the rhetoric we are made to believe in, but in reality we are no different from animals mating. Our bodies are just flesh and blood but who we are on a spiritual level is something else.In my case growing up as boys we were always made to feel guilty about our sexual desires and told to wait and become worthy of the coming unicorn but some of thos…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 11:55 AM
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When I discovered the redpill I felt like I was being baptized in a pool of simmering acid.As I read every line of what was my first encounter of rollos tomassi's the rational male.It was as if i was being initiated into an exclusive club that knew what the rest of the world was ignorant of.I did not dismiss it as mere nonsense for I could relate what I was reading with my own experiences. I think thats what makes it so intriguing. Why bluepillers cannot simply walk away from the redpill especia…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 01:34 PM
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I think you are overselling the concept.Sure the IDGAF theory works but I would argue not at the level of which you present it.You say "women will swarm around you like fleas on a turd."..Really?Cumon?Its the guys who are the flies....
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 01:44 PM
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This shouldn't be here.You need to post this on asktrp. Women are like garbage cans.Only good for one thing.I'm not saying that as a bitter misogynist. Im saying that because its the harsh reality.All the actions they take are done to fulfill their hypergamous intentions.To think beyond this is only detrimental. The reason I'm saying this is because you some how believe that she will complete you and your life will be pure bliss.I'm sorry but no women will ever be able to complete you.You must b…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:05 PM
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I've noticed when I'm relaxed around girls that's when the interaction goes well.( Somehow by saying that it reveals i'm no natural).When you dont have any intentions and dont care they read it off your body language and tonality. Its all coming together. Girls react to your vibe.If you are edgy then they follow suit and they feel anxious or irritated of which the natural reaction would be to find a way to get away from you.If you are relaxed and dont care they are more open and forthcoming.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 07:58 AM
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Right.....ColmM36...Read what I’m about to write here carefully because it might help you with the next girl you meet after this one.. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 03:03 PM
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But I thought AWALT.I was browsing through facebook and someone mischievously posted a video of a dog screwing some chick. Now I know this is some twisted form of porn but if a dog has enough game (lol) or some chance with a chick then frankly what "league" is there to speak of.There should be no reason why you shouldn't stand a chance.Non what so ever....
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:30 PM
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Your assumption that immigrants are "dumb" amuses me.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 08:02 AM
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GOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!
/r/askTRP17/07/16 03:31 PM
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What?
/r/askTRP17/07/16 03:29 PM
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The thing I like about the interactions was they were coming out of a place of outcome independence.(I'm guessing that's the opposite of outcome dependence).Good things can happen when you have this mindset.Go out and get rejected again.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 03:12 PM
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Wow wow wow....I can Imagine the confusion with everyone trying to help.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 03:00 PM
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What about good ol property..Flipping houses....buy to let...
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 02:50 PM
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Make more money.Gain more value.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 02:49 PM
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Seriously though.Talk about nailing your own coffin.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 02:42 PM
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Wow wow wow hold on here.Lets not even go so far as to discuss why its not ok for you to pay for those braces.The worst evil committed in broad day light here is dating a 35 y.o. post wall,probably divorced, single mother.At 26 I'd be gaming younger chicks with a super job and holidaying in Ibiza.My word.Now you have to pay $9000 cause another fart wouldn't wrap his cock and his resultant offspring has gangly teeth.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 06:29 PM
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One of the pitfalls of Mystery and mostly the PUA community is the inability to embrace the Alpha character that they display.I mean I get the importance of game.Lifting and being alpha on its own doesn't get you laid.You can lift as much as you like but as long as you dont open your mouth you will still go home alone. Trust me.I know from experience. But the major hurdle here with pick up is the inability to BE the excitement, confidence, charm, wit that you convey. Its not internalized.So when…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 04:09 PM
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I have this analogy that I like to use from time to time. I dubbed it the levels of opportunity.Level 1 is where a chick has absolutely no interest in you whatsoever.She gives you no indicators of interest (IOIs).Level 2 is she is open to you but she doesn't show it on the surface as with most chicks.You have to look for those subtle IOIs. You can get lucky at this level and your opener will settle rather well with her.Go for these chicks.There is a half chance / opportunity that these chicks wi…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:55 PM
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2.5 kids?What does that even mean.How do you get .5 of a kid. Is this some new form of slang.I must be getting old.These young wipper snappers and their fast talkin'.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 10:48 PM
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Now you have two choices here. 1. Moan about how bad it is and say women are bitches. 2. See the opportunity and enjoy the pussy that has been availed by the modern day ideals of western women. Note If you are complaining about how bad it is there is a little blue pill toddler in you who still thinks if he stomps the feet hard enough the bad meanies out there (chad thundercock) will sob and hand over your snowflake from their clutches.And we will all live happily ever after.Time to swallow the p…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:20 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOjvPOBvd9A Im moving to brazil one day.Work my ass of in my home country and live off the proceeds.A simple man with a simple plan.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 09:15 PM
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Please give us examples.It would be most informative
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 12:40 PM
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Something like this happened to me.I had gotten out of a bad LTR and basically started an exciting fling with a girl I wasn't exclusive with.The regret I have is that I over calculated the situation.I over exaggerated the severity of the decline and ended up pushing her out of my life.I wasn't exclusive which was the beauty of the situation but I F'ed it up.If I were you I would let the nature of the relationship run its course. Stay off of Facebook.Use dread game(CAREFULLY!!) Keep it subtle.Hav…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 04:18 PM
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If you want to help your friend out the best thing to do is to realize where he is in the game.Obviously he is not redpill aware but the best thing to do is to lead him down the path of realization. Most of us were not born naturals.We got F'd in the A and started asking questions.Like why life didn't use a condom when it decided to F us. or why it didn't at least buy us dinner first..hahaha. But seriously.Sh*ts are going to happen and when he starts asking why its your job to give him the harsh…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:53 PM
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Well who likes a chick with balls. Hahaha.I think its kind of straight forward.Dudes are attracted to chicks and the other way round.(Chicks are attracted to DUDES).I dont think anyone would go for a a chick with a deep voice or hairy legs.She displays alpha qualitys which is a no no for me.Ordering white knights around like that. Cumon.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:15 PM
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Emilia Clarke plays sarah connor.I don't like her in game of thrones.Dont like her in Terminator as well. Side note: ok im no star trek fan but from what I got it was kind of feminized too. I thought star trek was only for nerds. For boys. I guess women can't stand male spaces so much that even boyish indulgences must come under scrutiny as well and labeled threats to the feminist movement....What did those poor guys ever do to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 07:15 PM
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Nice title.Thought dude slept with dude.I was like wooow.What's this.How do you accidentally do that.Anyway nicely played.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 09:12 AM
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Problem is he wasn't a dude at heart.I remember him saying something like you dont have to go to the gym.All you need to know is pick up.Problem with that is you will not build the testosterone prevents you from sobbing like a helpless child.In situations like that real Alphas just don't care.I had about a 6 month absence from the gym (moved to another city) and what I realized is some days I got depressed for no apparent reason.Always lift.Hold frame.Never solely rely on game.Balance RP and pic…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:48 PM
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16 commandments of poon number V. Adhere to the golden ratio Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more. When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. When she emotes, you emote less. The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold — it establishes your greater value by making her chase y…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:16 PM
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Don't think too much about it.But I think your major downfall isn't this particular encounter but the fact you have some high standards. you said and I quote " In a place where I spend far more time turning down women than even looking at them."That is your downfall right there.I doesn't matter if they are fat, ugly, got one arm,have leprosy its always a good idea to entertain all types of women for the sake of 1. Experience 2. Pre-Selection.When an opportunity like this one arises in future it …
/r/askTRP31/07/15 09:47 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren't married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. You are utterly powerless in this situation. NEVER buy a home with a girlfriend, NEVER sign a rental lease with a girlfriend. NEVER agree to move into her home and absolutely NEVER move a woman into your own established living arrangement. I'm adamantly opposed to the "shacking up" dynamic, it is a trap that far too many men allow themselves to fall into. …
/r/askTRP31/07/15 09:27 AM
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You sir, have just been cock-blocked by a chick..For interests sake try putting yourself in a similar situation and see how she reacts just to be sure.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:30 PM
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Forgive me but I think you at least must open his eyes to the redpill especially now that he is hurting.A couple of times you pointed out that you just said nothing when he made a stupid move but having said so personally I don't think I wouldn't have listened to any redpill advice in my bluepill oneitis days.But having broken up it was more of a matter of "why" for me than anything else.I think now is the right time to give him the answers he is seeking.Do it for all MANkind man..
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:21 AM
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Since we are using numbers and all (haha)..I will reply the same way 1.Your female pool of friends is a gold mine.(sorry for not highlighting this earlier) .As long as you are not too close and see them often you might try your hand and some techniques here and elsewhere and see what works for you. You have the upper hand.At least you don't have to go on the prowl and start from scratch trying to get girls numbers. Also your vast pool gives you the aura that you are attractive (see pre-selection…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:50 PM
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Ok from what I've picked up this is what's hurting your game: You are acting like a girl as you've correctly put across "I've been told that I come off as slightly feminine." As a guy you don't have a "virginity".(.."For one, she talked about taking my virginity"..) The fact that you have/had many girlfriends means you are one of the girls.That's why they find it so easy for them to tell you their secrets and whats on their mind.For example when you say "And within a month she had met another gu…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:57 PM
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