Discussions of how toxic gender norms are harmful to men. Discourse that focuses on men's issue not anti feminism. I just don't think this animosity towards women does much good. I think feminism can also get a little carried away and not acknowledge the issues men face as well. Overall, I just don't think gender is working for anyone and I don't have all the answers but I think discourse is important. This doesn't have to be a pissing contest... at the end of the day feminism and men's rights s…
Well most MRAs I see online just hate women and feminism. When I don't really see any discourse that isn't just shitting on women than I get concerned about the motives of the people on this sub.... is this a men's rights sub or just an anti to feminism because a lot of you hate women? So I'll start with a question, what do you hope to achieve?
I stay because I like engaging with different ideologies and people I disagree with from time to time. I haven't replied to you likely because I haven't seen your reply. I am interested in engaging in a conversation.
Okay keep your ways I just don't think any positive work is being done. It really calls in to question the motives of a lot of you here.... do you actually care about men's rights or do you just hate women and feminism?
All I'm saying is that when I see a sub titled men's rights and the top posts are outrage porn I get a little nervous. Unfortunately, most MRAs are incels or are only trying to derail the feminist movement and I don't see many positive activism. There are certainly issues to be talked about but I don't think that posting countless false rape charges is really doing this movement or men any good.
I'm not pretending to be concerned this type of sub is genuinely problematic imo. Like I've said before I agree with the movement in principle but most of the discourse and activism I see online, like this server, is just men shitting on feminism and women. I don't see how constantly viewing outrage porn does anything for the movement. This is my first time in this sub yes, but that should really matter. I don't need to be an active member to comment here. Im just stating my opinion on the subje…
Call me what you want but a critism isn't trolling. I'm just saying that I believe the way this sub approaches men's rights is ineffective and disingenuous.
I'm sorry I'm kinda confused where you're going with this? I'm talking about how oppressive gender norms harm everyone including men. I think the solution is men coming together and finding their own space to talk about issues and talk about how certain gender norms are toxic. What I see is outrage porn, false rape allegations, direct attacks on feminism, etc. This isn't really forwarding the movement positively imo.
Most men's rights activism online is just slander towards feminism. In principal I totally support and agree with the movement I just don't like how it's being handled. The top posts being false rape allegations is really telling of what this sub is about.
This post isn't really taking about the liberation of men. Patriarchy negatively effects men and women.... it just seems like a bunch of neckbeard redditors being mad at feminism This particular example is solely posted to make you outraged about feminism and people talking about patriarchy. It's a bad take I know, but idk how posting false rape allegations, or examples of feminism not being beneficial is helping the movement....