| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 304 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack here | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | WimminCritter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:00 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 81 | Something icky to laugh about tonight. We were talking about planting grass for our cats and ofc he had to make it gross and awkward. My intuition was telling me from the start he was weird, but societal gaslighting told me to give him a chance merely bc he was giving me attention 🤷♀️. Blocked.My perfume bottle, Tom Ford black orchid, he accused me of masturbating with it. omg, it's literally not even finger sized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:21 AM |
| 18 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"Never underestimate anyone's ability to pull off a long con and always be vetting! It's very common for men to commit years of their life to gain positions of power just so they can prey on people. It doesn't take a master of manipulation to simply withhold information. It's nice to believe you're too smart to ever get blindsided, but that's not reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 40 | Men's reactions to having their lies exposedI figured his age out totally on my own and I wasn't even investigating or suspecting anything. When he sent me his natal chart, I noticed his Pluto was in Libra, which meant he couldn't have been born after 1984, and this happened in 2014. Excellent work 👏 This has the same energy as Elle Woods confronting Chutney about the ammonium thioglycolate!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?He really bragged to you about the frequency of his therapy visits? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 27 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?she literally has a lyric mentioning eating a dude's butt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:25 PM |
| 3 | 6 Secrets Of Highly Confident Women ( with men)because that's OP lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 10 | Let's take a look at the ownership of Liberal Feminist bible VICE! It includes TPG Capital (44%)- one of the main profiteers from the opiate crisis (right wing) and A&E Networks (20%) which is owned by both Hearst (which used to publish Adolph Hitler) and Walt Disney (which acquired Fox News)A&E Networks- who own Disney and Hearst! heads up, you got this part backwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 01:18 PM |
| 24 | An analyzation of age-gap relationships and overcoming pickmeism through Taylor Swift's cinematic music.Your username reminds me of how excited I am for Red to be rereleased in November! That was the first era when I started really listening to her music. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 05:20 AM |
| 42 | Guy self-invites himself to dinner at girl’s home, gets angry she never gave him a heads up (to something he invited himself to?) - this is why we stay away from LVMShe did ask him to come over, right after he invited himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:20 AM |
| 285 | What do you guys think of Botox?I recently read somewhere online that a woman asked her doctor "so how much younger will this make me look?" and the reply was "you'll look exactly like the other women your age with botox." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:23 AM |
| 76 | John Lennon was a horrible man.the only iggy pop song I have ever heard is about visiting a prostitute 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:40 AM |
| 12 | I love FDS philosophies but the hate towards pickmes is turning me away from this communityI like to laugh/cry at some of their decisions but that doesn't mean hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄I have never seen anyone criticizing Vonnegut as being for douchey bros... He's nothing like Bukowski, Tarantino, or famous woman-beater DFW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:42 AM |
| 29 | Yet another LV take: “Ryan Reynolds Revealed He ‘Begged’ Blake Lively To Sleep With Him When They First Started Dating And Admitted She’s A ‘Much Better’ Parent Than He Is”should have been voiced by Danny DeVito | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Queens Don't - Raelynn. "Every jewel on my crown you better believe I earned it; won't keep people around who don't believe I deserve it"isn't this the same person who brought us that awful "god made girls" song? SOMEBODY'S GOTTA WEAR A PRETTY SKIRT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 07:52 PM |
| 7 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒I'm a huge fan of their salads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:17 PM |
| 142 | Hypergamy is not evil, and I'm tired of pretending otherwise.Maybe we should legalize dueling again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 20 | We all know Lvm can manipulate you by faking HV traits. But some hv qualities are hard to fake and make much better vetting criteria. Here's some of mine:Early on while dating an incompetent ex, we were at a grocery store and he decided to put back a refrigerated item on a random room-temperature shelf. I had to explain to him why you don't do that. I really should have seen that as a bigger red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 6 | I’m beginning to think all dating subreddits here are anti-woman to some extentI don't think pubic lice are a disease per se. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:34 AM |
| 38 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 110 | Why do you think?male country singers can yeehaw down a well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:49 PM |
| 7 | This is for all the ladies going through a breakup with a LVM/NVMLoving those Tay references! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 8 | Movies to avoid in his Letterboxd FavouritesJoker is better than all the other capeshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 05:58 PM |
| -6 | Movies to avoid in his Letterboxd FavouritesMade by and for NVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 14 | Fapdiddler (noun)lmao the nest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:05 AM |
| 111 | I'm out of words. I was skeptical about "They won't even like you yet they will stay with you for s#x", but this has over thousand upvotes and no one judged him for this.Wherever she is, I hope she's doing okay now... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:59 AM |
| 351 | Dating a woman and ignoring the men who want me has been the best dating decision I’ve ever made.Congrats, you both deserve every happiness ✨ I need to stop being so shy with the ladies 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 232 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamI'm frequently tempted to match with couples on tinder just to say she deserves better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:30 PM |
| 16 | Notice the little things!I've been harassed on public transportation so I get it but banning riders seems unenforceable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 24 | We can literally never be like incels because we choose HVM or we happily choose to be single.Those poor cumbrains cannot comprehend valuing things more than sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 5 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack hereWHAT WE SPENT IN A MONTH Six American families open their doors — and their wallets — to show us how much life costs. May 18, 2021 THE DESPER & BIBBUS FAMILY SPENT $7,953 Paula, a home health aide, and Aaron, a machine operator, are raising two children, Khailn and Destyni, in Lancaster, Pa. During the pandemic, Paula has had to scramble for hours. There’s a mortgage and bills to pay — plus karate for the kids and grooming for the dogs. Paula: We’ve been together 11 years. The reason we haven’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:39 PM |
| 31 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack herethis is from this article (paywall can be avoided if you use incognito mode) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 44 | 84/100.... he thinks he’s so slick 😂 (he asked me “Netflix and chill or night out” along w other questions and I played along for the lolz)waste 👏 his 👏 time 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:34 PM |
| 18 | Self Appreciation or Gratitude: what do you love about yourself?I'm a quick wit! Yesterday two different women said I made their day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:06 PM |
| 28 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️I told a therapist I was intimidated by all the "entrepreneurs" in my local Bumble BFF scene and she was like "don't sweat it, that probably just means their dad bought them a Jimmy John's franchise or something." 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:13 PM |
| 48 | Aziz Ansari steps out of the spotlight with Season 3 of 'Master of None' (NVM gets benched for being a rapist)Perhaps it would have been a better move to do some sort of spinoff series if they want to focus on these characters... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:22 AM |
| 24 | Are you proud of yourself?I'm proud of myself for getting on disability after a long struggle with mental health! I'm at the bottom but I'm chilling and I feel very lucky that I haven't had to rely on men for financial security. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 12:40 AM |
| 113 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.He threatened to kill me when I figured it out by reciting a threatening rap song on my voicemail. Omg he probably thought that was soooo badass when it's truly just pathetic. I hope your friend is doing better now <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 11:20 PM |
| 22 | Look how empowered he is 🥰🥰😂 (Maria Casals)men with kitties 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 3 | What's the point of The Wall?I didn't know porn addiction could lead to balding! That could have been it. His dad's hair was fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:00 PM |
| 8 | What's the point of The Wall?It's a huge cope to deal with the glaring issue that is male pattern balding. It is so unfortunate. I dated a guy who started losing his hair when we were in our early 20's. I stayed longer than I should have because I felt bad for him 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Interesting TitleI am a snort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Women are choosers and it literally does not matter what men wantOr they'll be rendered completely unnecessary by technology advancement. Parthenogenesis is the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:51 PM |
| 23 | The little girl from “Matilda”, as well as a female child star from “The Never Ending Story”, BOTH had to quit acting, because GROWN MEN stalked them, and offered them MARRIAGE PROPOSALSUnlike Germany, we condemned it. I wish. Michel Foucault is still celebrated in academia here... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 39 | Pickme’s Who Choose Men over ChildrenMy sisters and I are all grown up, but my mom is still to this day adamant that her partners understand her children come first. Contrastingly, my dad moved hours away for future stepmom when we were really small. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:59 PM |
| 10 | This 👏🏻 is 👏🏻 why 👏🏻 I 👏🏻 have 👏🏻 trust issues!! Take them to the barbers on the first date. 💈 🪒I mean the post title is mocking men saying "take her swimming on the first date" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Watch until the end!virtue signaling is probably the only way he can get female attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:01 AM |
| 10 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”I'm mentally ill and do not feel hurt in any way by people calling a spade a spade. Dude clearly has a reduced capacity for empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Update: I dumped him!Lmao my ex was into that. I humored it for a while but could never quite take him seriously... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 10:48 PM |
| 13 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.Heck they don't even have to spend money on me. I am not even to worried about that. I have my own money It's not about whether you can afford your own meal. Make him pay, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 10 | how many women were in this situation?zoomer coomers are possibly the worst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 4 | I HATE the term simp, and I’m honestly so sick of it now.that's a backronym | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 09:48 PM |
| 17 | Why I almost left FDSnoooo don't ruin the PSL (pumpkin spice latte) for me 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:35 PM |
| 17 | I am officially ready to leave this accursed website after recent events, and this fictional man made story being promoted to me as funny.there truly are no limits on male depravity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 33 | Yikes, they’ve somehow found something worse than walk dates.hey baby let's take this to the gas station bathroom 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 27 | It’s called grooming :) I’m glad to see this on my For You pagewhat song is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 12:03 AM |
| 60 | I would change this to say “how to vet a guy to see if he really likes you” versus “how to get any guy to like you” (convincing someone to like you is PickMe behavior) but the overall message otherwise is in line with FDSPickbait? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:00 AM |
| 10 | Women everywhere are wondering...Why is anyone still believing them at their word? They know. They do not want you to feel good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 06:12 PM |
| 5 | "How To Be A Heartbreaker" by 'Marina and the Diamonds' is FDS in song formShe's always been a pickme. See the song "Girls" from The Family Jewels. But she's definitely gotten worse... I like "Can't Pin Me Down" but I cringe every time I hear the "you really want me to write a feminist anthem?? I'm happy in the kitchen cooking DINNER for my HUSBAND 😤" Like yikes girl you're just embarrassing yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | HVM and HobbiesWhat about reading books? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 10:09 AM |
| 19 | Do any of you have experiences with men who completed recovery programs for porn addiction?He hadn't gotten actual help for it and probably still hasn't, but my ex identified as a sex addict. I think these people are frequently manipulative and use addiction as an excuse to avoid responsibility for their behavior. He had to be the victim. It wasn't "cheating on me." It was "relapsing." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 10:22 PM |
| 23 | Thought of this sub. Sorry if it’s a repost.I was recently invited to a "girls only" discord. They were like "we have a few dudes in there but they're chill." It only takes one to completely change the vibe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Every timeCeiling Cat would never do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:39 AM |
| 22 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherMen are so testerically competitive that they literally cannot imagine what it is like to just be chill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | TruthNever say never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:25 PM |
| 66 | Letting your man check out other women's body's is NOT how to keep him faithful.It's always awkward when a guy assumes being bisexual = wanting to hear his gross thoughts about every lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:23 PM |
| 14 | What does FDS think of feminine men? He keeps saying everyone thinks he is gay but is obsessed with saying he isnt?Been there. He's on the DL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:54 AM |
| 32 | This is honestly so disturbing, makes it so hard to trust any man.One time a man tried to set me up to say nice things about him, and I just awkwardly said "ummm, I'm not good at complimenting people." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Do not get naked on webcamYesss, I was delighted to see that because my last purchase was twice that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?This subreddit can make me feel extra embarrassed of my past behavior, but also completely accepted in spite of it <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:54 AM |
| 3 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?I love this. Now I'm mentally singing "picking myself, picking myself..." to the tune of "Feeling Myself" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Do not get naked on webcamOmg I always thought the suctiony ones were too expensive. Thank you for this valuable information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:47 AM |
| 23 | When men say “you’re cute when you’re mad.”The next dude to tell me "you're so pretty when you cry" is getting a swift kick in the 'nads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:33 AM |
| 5 | ...and nothing of value was lost - these are the men who whine about "hypergamy" and "misandry" online:😂This is true. I'm convinced that being violent and terrible at grooming is the male default state even without mental illness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:07 AM |
| -1 | ...and nothing of value was lost - these are the men who whine about "hypergamy" and "misandry" online:😂Mental illness makes you physically ugly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 05:27 AM |
| 5 | ...and nothing of value was lost - these are the men who whine about "hypergamy" and "misandry" online:😂How can so many people just not realize that they look like shit and can't decorate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 05:25 AM |
| 4 | Making fun of women for dating LVM men by saying they have "daddy issues" is blaming women for being hurt by things their abusive fathers did.oof | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.Lmao my worst LVM ex was unemployed living with his parents even after he graduated college. One time I was giving him advice on how to find employment, and he snapped back, "Easy for you to say! You have a job!" Like, uhh, yeah dude, that's how it works... I know how to successfully get a job because I have one... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Is a man saying he wants lots of kids a red flag?Something like 10% of men are pedophiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 11:30 AM |
| 23 | Here we go with some more LVM "logic". Why are they so textbook?There are numerous indicators of how many partners you might have roughly had. Did he ever explain what he means by that? It has to either be the old "roast beef" baloney, or he thinks he can read minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 01:31 AM |
| 51 | REPOST from /Tinder .... Hannah isn’t with the dumb shitI'm constantly siding with the "mean" ladies of r/tinder lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 78 | It’s still abusive.I'm lucky to have never been hit, but I've been through too much of this semi-physical abuse. A dude hitting himself in front of me, hitting the wall in front of me, throwing things past me / next to me... I've heard it said that things like that are men "showing you how much they want to hit you," and this goes to show they do totally see it as a healthy alternative to woman-beating. 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:46 AM |
| 19 | Soo settle-y and depressing. Yikes.It's an inconvenient truth but the one who cares less in a relationship has more power ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Do not go gentle into that good night...sometimes you gotta fuck around and do some ninja shit though 🐍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:26 AM |
| 9 | How Dare We Have Standards...Pathetic man can't even proofread an article. I'm actually impressed how many mistakes he managed to squeeze in there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:30 AM |
| 26 | That made me lol 😂 They are all the same no matter what language they speak. *Not my messages, got it elsewhereThat'll do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:49 AM |
| 3 | A demisexual is defined as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.” Thanks to Porn, the description of a normal healthy sexual bond is now a fringe sexual orientation instead of a given.It's weird to think that makes you special. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Empirical proof why dick pics are worthlessThe logo makes it look like there's a tiiiny bit of demand on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 09:23 PM |
| 11 | All of these men are telling OP she’s being selfish for wanting a a sexually attentive partnerSex that gives a woman pleasure?! That must be some real freaky stuff since there's not even porn of it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 09:35 AM |
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