WinTheDell Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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26	Men have no intrinsic worth If your worth comes from making stuff… that’s not intrinsic.	/r/MensRights	07/04/25 09:41 AM
7	Netflix says it has made 'Adolescence' available to all secondary schools across the UK and that a 'healthy relationships charity' will produce guides and resources for teachers, parents and carers to 'help navigate conversations' around the series The new policing and sentencing guidelines over race are good. “Minority groups are more likely to have negative outcomes in the justice system, so we need to police and sentence in a way that creates equity”. Cannot imagine them trying to do the same for men and women. Especially as they’ve already brought in the female offender strategy that uses the exact opposite logic of “men more likely to commit crime therefore need tougher sentencing”.	/r/MensRights	01/04/25 06:42 AM
6	Netflix says it has made 'Adolescence' available to all secondary schools across the UK and that a 'healthy relationships charity' will produce guides and resources for teachers, parents and carers to 'help navigate conversations' around the series It goes deeper than just the marking; the entire curriculum is set up to advantage girls and disadvantage boys. I don’t think this is intentional, just due to a general unwillingness to accept that boys and girls are different and learn differently. I was in a meeting a few months back where we were going through predicted gcse grades and when we were going through demographics the manager running us through the data said “boys are letting us down”. I was the only one who suggested that perhaps …	/r/MensRights	01/04/25 06:39 AM
13	Men's loneliness is not men's fault. Well men cannot be trusted in an unsanctioned male space. Needs feminist influence to make sure they’re discussing their feelings correctly. /s Genuinely think they reckon the patriarchy will plan something off they don’t get their elbows in.	/r/MensRights	01/02/25 03:51 PM
37	Men's loneliness is not men's fault. A key factor in loneliness is the eradication of male spaces and therefore the reduction in inter-generational male friendships. People who go to church or the boxing gym or some other social location tend not to be lonely, regardless of whether they are in a relationship or not. It is important that these places are maintained, encouraged and kept free of feminist ideology (man sheds and the like founded on the idea of men being killed by toxic masculinity).	/r/MensRights	01/02/25 11:54 AM
7	When women get together to discuss their health on a podcast it’s celebrated. When men do it, it’s the subject of jokes. The Venn Diagram of people able to treat their patients with due respect and compassion and also willing to chop people open is pretty narrow. There are tonnes of introverted, autistic spectrum disorder doctors who make great doctors, even though their bedside-manner might be a tad blunt.	/r/MensRights	30/01/25 07:08 AM
2	Taskforce to reduce number of women in prisons expected to launch next week “Ah but prison works for men, y’see; much lower rate of re-offending than women. Actually, the more men we lock up, the lower the recidivism rate!” Would be their reply!	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 09:40 PM
2	Taskforce to reduce number of women in prisons expected to launch next week We are not less likely to re-offend though, it’s just that only the worst female offenders that get locked up and they’re more likely to reoffend than the broader range of male offenders that get locked up. We need to compare the toughest 4% of female offenders (who get locked up) to the toughest 4% of male offenders who get locked up (along with loads of other men) to have any idea of who is more likely to reoffend.	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 09:28 PM
15	Taskforce to reduce number of women in prisons expected to launch next week If you lock up only a small percentage of women (the most troubled) they will have a higher concentration of mental health problems. The fewer women you lock up, the higher the concentration of problems and re-offending. It’s great! Because the “solution” makes the problem worse, so you can just keep on making the same argument! /s Edit: the only way you could compare male and female offenders, would be to compare female offenders only to the male offenders that would be locked up at the same ra…	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 08:10 PM
8	Taskforce to reduce number of women in prisons expected to launch next week There’s nothing that shows how either thick or malicious these people are than the Female Offender Strategy. I spoke to a politician about this and they trotted out the usual line of “prison is bad for women, look at the recidivism rates… female offenders re-offend at a higher rate than male offenders!” It is so obvious that if you only lock up the most hardened 5% of female offenders and the top 50% of male offenders, then recidivism will be higher for women over men. The irony is, if you want …	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 08:03 PM
76	A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit - never mind, she is in a room full of enslaved men This reminds me of a Stacey Dooley documentary where she was investigating femicide in some South American country. She sat in a hospital waiting for a woman to be wheeled in, occasionally getting excited only to realise it was another dead or dying man.	/r/MensRights	10/01/25 12:15 PM
32	Schools have a LOT of excuses for girls From the point of view of a teacher who is mindful of this, girls and boys do tend to misbehave differently. Girls do a lot more “quiet” misbehaviour that is easier to overlook for the sake of the lesson. Eg. “Oh she’s making a paper chain/oh they’re whispering and passing notes”. A lot of boys seriously just don’t have a whisper setting and that can increase the trouble the get in. Then girls respond more skillfully when you do challenge them (“I’ll just say ok and stop for 3 minutes before res…	/r/MensRights	25/10/24 03:44 AM
2	Girls are not actually smarter and Women need to stop blaming men for being paid less Bit of nature, bit of nurture. I think the behaviour from boys without male role models is quite specific and you can usually guess when there’s not going to be a dad listed in their home contact info; they are either very drawn to you or enter into power struggles with you. The development differences are visible, though; you can visibly see that girls are taller and more physically developed. Some of the 12 year old girls are pretty much already at their full adult heights and the boys won’t c…	/r/MensRights	30/08/24 06:27 AM
2	Girls are not actually smarter and Women need to stop blaming men for being paid less Yeah I disagree with their being no intellectual differences. You can see on IQ bell-curves that boys are way more varied. Girls certainly tend to be more agreeable and neurotic, personality-wise, which leads to positive student behaviour. I’m sure some of this is socialisation, but a lot of it just seems to be natural. There are general differences between the sexes.	/r/MensRights	29/08/24 12:08 PM
1	Girls are not actually smarter and Women need to stop blaming men for being paid less UK speaking, there’s definitely an ideal age for each individual to do their GCSEs. It isn’t necessarily one June when you are 15 or 16. The more mature are at a massive advantage. Girls mature very swiftly. Boys are like a fine wine, as Schopenhauer suggested.	/r/MensRights	29/08/24 10:57 AM
10	Girls are not actually smarter and Women need to stop blaming men for being paid less I’m not entirely sure it is just teacher bias. I’m a teacher and I see a few different things going on. 1) girls develop at a faster rate than boys. Exam-age girls are more mature than exam-age boys. Any attainment gap would have shrunk if exams were taken at 21. 2) girls are more consistent, boys are more varied. There are more very clever and creative boys and more idiot boys. The girls tend to be better at following instructions and doing well-enough. Average intelligence is probably about eq…	/r/MensRights	29/08/24 08:21 AM
3	Why is the massive gap in gender criminal sentencing never talked about? Funny that the easiest way to decrease recidivism rates is just send loads of marginal cases to prison. Going to be funny when they eventually get to 100% female reoffending when they’re just sending 20-30 of the same women to prison. Although when that happens, they’ll just use the obvious explanation of “we’re only jailing the worst women” and not expand that out to their earlier position. It’s so frustrating!	/r/MensRights	07/04/24 05:30 PM
7	Why is the massive gap in gender criminal sentencing never talked about? It’s enshrined in the law in the UK. Here’s an extract from the 2018 Female Offender Strategy, which is an interesting read: We know that there is a higher prevalence of need amongst female offenders, such as mental health problems, and self-harm. Many experience chaotic lifestyles which are often the product of a life of abuse and trauma; almost 60% of female offenders have experienced domestic abuse. One of the main problems with these things is that people are really thick. I spoke to my MP a…	/r/MensRights	07/04/24 06:06 AM
1	Men have the Right to Opt Out of Society/Work/Women and focus on themselves. So you’re not living on welfare? You’re living on earned passive income? Obviously I missed that bit. I can imagine that to be satisfying too! I also realise that I’m very lucky to have a job I enjoy doing. EDIT: I was responding to the idea of leeching from the state.	/r/MensRights	22/03/24 07:27 AM
5	Men have the Right to Opt Out of Society/Work/Women and focus on themselves. Honestly, I’ve done both, and you feel so much happier when you’re supporting yourself and have enough money to do what you want, when you want. You can opt out of dating and corporate employment and still find enjoyable, fulfilling work.	/r/MensRights	21/03/24 11:15 PM
69	Robbed and won’t press charges on the woman Your solicitor isn’t looking to win the case? Surely them threatening to kill you and you having a reasonable fear for your life means that killing them would be reasonable force? Write to your MP. Write to friendly media figures. Martin Daubney and Mike Buchanan would be a good start. I’d really just be trying to create the biggest stink about this as possible. Even if it just means there’s media to point out to show how broken the system is.	/r/MensRights	09/03/24 01:05 PM
2	Male suicide rate has jumped in the UK None of the therapists I’ve seen pretend to give a shit. That’s not really what it’s about. You tend not to get much sympathy from them. It’s more about reframing things that can be reframed, helping to explain relationship and interaction dynamics, pointing out things that should be very obvious that you fail to see. The two good therapists that I’ve seen were incredibly skilled. One of them very quickly pointed a few things out that completely changed the way k look at things. The contrast bet…	/r/MensRights	25/02/24 05:48 PM
3	Male suicide rate has jumped in the UK I think most people go into it to help people. A lot of people don’t have the appropriate support structures around them, and therapists are a decent alternative. There are a lot of terrible therapists out there, though. Big and complex problems can benefit from someone experienced and knowledgable. I wouldn’t have felt comfortable talking about my friends suicide to the extent I wanted to with my friends and family. Therapy was a good option. They weren’t profiting off my misery. I wasn’t miser…	/r/MensRights	25/02/24 05:38 PM
14	Male suicide rate has jumped in the UK You’re right. Suicide rates among people who access psychotherapy are 25%-30% lower than those who don’t access it. It’s very helpful. I’ll happily tell anyone that I call a therapist whenever I stub my toe and would encourage people to do the same. But I’d say inter-generational male friendship has had a more positive impact on my mental health, and there are fewer and fewer spaces for this to happen. I genuinely believe the decline of the pub and the church have caused massive problems for men…	/r/MensRights	25/02/24 02:44 PM
59	Male suicide rate has jumped in the UK I think we need to step away from this “it’s ok to talk” narrative around male suicide, like emotional stoicism and lacking emotional intelligence are the main reason for male suicide. 100% talking and seeking help are important, but a majority of men who kill themselves have actually spoken and have sought help, and such a message can be isolating. I remember the CEO of CALM saying “the answer is simple: Talk about it” and I lost all respect for the (feminist-run) organisation. The answer is ac…	/r/MensRights	25/02/24 01:41 PM
9	Teacher attitude about ‘Mediocre White Boy Behavior’ Im a school teacher. A majority of my female colleagues do not like boys in the slightest. None of this story is surprising.	/r/MensRights	23/02/24 11:43 PM
2	Am I less of a man for crying? There's quite a bit of important context in this. There are plenty of circumstances where crying is appropriate. I cried in front of a class whilst reading a book last week and that felt fine and appropriate. Being moved by art and music is a sign of developed empathy. There are probably times when crying is going to be more of a hindrance than a help. Crying because you feel sorry for yourself can alienate people and have them form a negative view of you. This probably isn't the the best course…	/r/MensRights	05/02/24 09:54 PM
63	This some bullshit. Manslaughter sentencing = 100 hours if you’re female Well the benefit of killing the only witness is that you get to control the narrative somewhat. It’s why literally every woman who kills their husband is a battered wife acting in self defence.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 12:16 AM
2	I am a mother to be in three weeks to a baby boy, and I'm wondering, what is your take on circumcision as a circumcised/uncircumcised man? Excellent. I’ve heard some issues for the new generation of uncut Americans come from parents not knowing what to do and bad medical advice telling them to force retraction for a good cleaning on toddlers.	/r/MensRights	11/11/23 06:44 PM
2	I am a mother to be in three weeks to a baby boy, and I'm wondering, what is your take on circumcision as a circumcised/uncircumcised man? What special cleaning needs to take place? It’s not retractable until 5 at the earliest and you shouldn’t be trying to retract it before it is ready to do so. Certainly pre-pubescent boys don’t need to be taught any unusual cleaning rituals; the glans is an internal organ for the first decade of life and I certainly don’t try to do any invasive cleaning on my daughter’s genitals.	/r/MensRights	11/11/23 04:36 PM
7	I am a mother to be in three weeks to a baby boy, and I'm wondering, what is your take on circumcision as a circumcised/uncircumcised man? Please do not circumcise your son. If he is angry at you for not doing it, let him get it done when he is old enough to decide. Even better, put the $500 or whatever profit the medical industry makes from these procedures into a savings account; should have doubled in 18 years. Give him that and say he can have it to pay for a circumcision if he wants. There’s nothing you can do to give him his foreskin back if you take it now. Fewer people are circumcising now and it will become less strange in…	/r/MensRights	11/11/23 04:30 PM
4	2 women rob man after baiting and drugging him. Well here’s three: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=chh3-Xe0Id4 https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/woman-drugging-date-stealing-600000-jewelry-surveillance-video-miami/ https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Chz07CSuAkk Of course the media cover it.	/r/MensRights	01/10/23 08:36 AM
11	2 women rob man after baiting and drugging him. Well positioned camera, incredibly fast acting sedative, helping them remove the backpack. Is there any confirmation that this actually happened? Surely there’d be a news report?	/r/MensRights	01/10/23 04:22 AM
2	Fellas do you guys think there's some truth to this comment? This isn’t the whole picture. Heterosexual female attraction is very consistent for the top 20%, but everything between 4-7 is really random. If you’re around average looking, there’ll be some women whose boat you float, and tonnes who don’t even notice you. I suggested this to a female friend once who at first called bullshit, but ask any woman “do you and your friends agree on who is attractive” and they’ll say no.	/r/MensRights	03/09/23 06:11 PM
8	Double Standards Between the Sheets: The Orgasm Gap “I’ve made other people cum; your c*** must be broken” - Jim Jefferies	/r/MensRights	28/08/23 01:07 PM
4	Affordable Housing in Canada Approved, But Only Women And Their Children It would be so easy just to make this scheme accessible to single parents.	/r/MensRights	25/05/23 08:26 AM
14	"‘Bromance’ classes will fight ‘toxic masculinity’ in schools: teacher" As if Macbeth is held up as a role model for anyone. The entire point of it is that he is a bad example of masculinity who is weak and corrupt. Macduff, on the other hand, responding to the murder of his family with “I shall dispute it like a man, but I must also feel it like a man” is the guy we’re supposed to look up to and admire. Scrooge is the same: an example of what you don’t want to be who becomes the sensitive family guy that you should want to be. They’ve just highlighted two character…	/r/MensRights	21/05/23 08:55 AM
3	Boys get lower grades at school for the same performance. I was talking to some of the lads on my class about this the other day. Even as someone who is aware of this, I find myself being both stricter and harsher with grades with boys. Although sensitive boys tend to get treated more like the girls. Some of it comes down to the sexism of just expecting more of boys.	/r/MensRights	15/05/23 07:02 AM
21	Utter nonsense from the mouths of feminists... Yet again... Do they want to reduce total acts of violence against women, or just reduce the proportion of violence that is perpetrated against women? Perhaps they could just campaign for more violence against men. Anyway, as a teacher in the uk, this sort of messaging is already bandied about. Funnily enough though, trying to enact group responsibility doesn’t really have much of an impact.	/r/MensRights	25/04/23 11:37 AM
19	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY This is not a quandary.	/r/MensRights	19/01/23 03:23 PM
5	England's female player of the year blames men for her menstrual cramps Has she seen how much money is spent on women’s health be men’s health?!	/r/MensRights	30/12/22 12:39 AM
1	I asked AI to write a page-long essay on how the "Kill all men" movement is harmful to men and young boy's mental well-being, and the results were actually surprising Could you get it to write a pro KAM essay as well?	/r/MensRights	16/12/22 12:46 PM
-1	I couldn't babysit because of my gender. It seems very strange leaving your child in the care of a 10yo. I don’t think it’s even legal in The UK where I am. Even with the most trustworthy 10yo on the planet, you don’t know how much hey are going to respond to a crisis. What would they do if the child chokes on something? Or if something catches fire? Or if a stranger knocks on the door? The care of another child is just too big a responsibility; it’s not fair on the 10yo if something goes wrong. If I had a 10yo kid as well as my 3yo, I…	/r/MensRights	11/12/22 06:50 PM
8	I couldn't babysit because of my gender. Is it normal where you are to have 10 yo girls babysitting? There isn’t a chance I’d be putting any 10 year old in charge of my kid. Having worked with teenagers, I’m not sure I’d be letting anyone under 20 look after my kid!	/r/MensRights	11/12/22 09:06 AM
2	Pretty sure my ex is at best a narcissist and at worst, a psychopath. I tried to kill myself 5 times during the relationship… and she hit me from time to time. She’s now playing the victim. What do I do? I was lucky that there was a good 6 years between us breaking up and it happening. I was blindsided by it because everything seemed to be going well for her after hitting rock bottom; relapse is dangerous. It was still very difficult, but it drove me towards Buddhism and fortifying myself somewhat. I still think about her everyday, but I can frame it within the context of her giving what she could to the world before moving on. Empathy is a rare and valuable skill, it’s what you do with it that …	/r/MensRights	01/12/22 08:56 PM
2	Pretty sure my ex is at best a narcissist and at worst, a psychopath. I tried to kill myself 5 times during the relationship… and she hit me from time to time. She’s now playing the victim. What do I do? Really sorry mate. My ex killed herself earlier this year and it is very difficult. If you can find a therapist you can form a good theraputic relationship with, get on it. Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Rob Glover to try and break the scripting that got you into that sort of relationship in the first place.	/r/MensRights	01/12/22 08:14 PM
2	Pretty sure my ex is at best a narcissist and at worst, a psychopath. I tried to kill myself 5 times during the relationship… and she hit me from time to time. She’s now playing the victim. What do I do? Im afraid she probably has Borderline Personality Disorder or similar. Does she swing from being very nice to this, almost like she treats you like you are two different people? One she hates and one she loves more than anything? You cannot help her. You really really really cannot fix this for her, no matter how much you want to. You need to get out. You’re probably quite addicted to the love-bombing and emotional highs of the relationship, but you have to be aware it is addiction and not go ba…	/r/MensRights	01/12/22 07:55 PM
2	UK: Woman calls for changes to family court system after handing estranged husband £50,000 in divorce settlement despite accusing him of rape I thought this was odd. Perhaps the wording has been formulated by a lawyer for when talking to the media. It’s not a claim, it’s a statement of provable fact, and perhaps that is what she is sticking to at this point.	/r/MensRights	15/11/22 05:20 PM
1	I Have A Fear Of Working With Women After This Happened To Me Firstly, I’m really sorry about your negative experience. It does happen with some regularity that you run into a workplace psycho. It’ll end up catching up with them and they’ll end up having to “do a geographic” to carry on their psychotic ways. It’s also unfortunate that when the workplace psycho is a woman, they usually get a lot more leeway and can carry on their behaviour for a bit longer Having said this, your negative experience is not the norm and you need to be careful about how this i…	/r/MensRights	12/11/22 09:00 AM
1	What exactly is toxic masculinity? The best definitions I’ve seen appear to be around the idea of excessive stoicism to the detriment of self. Nothing really wrong with tacking the problem of excessive stoicism; the problem is that it isn’t exclusively a masculine trait and treating it as such does not help excessively stoical women very much. The two most emotionally illiterate people I have met were women. One is having a massive identity crisis and the other killed herself.	/r/MensRights	29/09/22 07:57 PM
10	Awesome Yeah. I used to love the smell of the gent’s toilet before they started bringing baby changers in. It used to be all manly shits and acrid piss, but now that’s being partly obscured by talcum powder.	/r/MensRights	19/09/22 02:37 AM
5	Why are "nice guys" continuously bashed, but freeloader girls seem to be perfectly fine? Hmm. I think the “nice guy” thing goes a bit deeper than that. That which you describe is quite obvious, but the real issue is male co-dependency; that is, men who find their value in what they can offer to a woman. It’s a bit of a swizz because a lot of what young boys are told is that one of their primary purposes is to serve women, but that really isn’t what makes a successful relationship or man. You cannot fulfil the needs of others if your own needs are not met first. I think women get a s…	/r/MensRights	17/09/22 08:11 AM
2	“Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?” Have you got a source for this? I’m struggling to find any law or statute or anything that makes it a legal requirement for spousal permission to be sterilised. It seems to be down to individual doctor/hospital policy, much like spousal permission for vasectomies. Which, a quick Google will show you happens with regularity.	/r/MensRights	17/07/22 05:21 AM
2	“Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?” Erm… I didn’t bring FGM into anything. I said “don’t mutilate penises” and as usual somebody piped up with “ooooo it’s not a s bad as FGM though”. Then I just responded to that. So you’re the idiot—and a rude one at that—for failing to read the thread properly. As usual, a discussion about MGM has been derailed by someone bringing up FGM.	/r/MensRights	17/07/22 05:08 AM
1	Im tired of being a man and i just wanna die. It can take a long time to find the right therapist. I’ve always gone for male therapists as they are a safer bet and are likely to be more sympathetic; although depending on their ideology, this is not guaranteed. Also, look for someone older who specialises in male mental health. Skype and online sessions mean you do not need to limit your search to your immediate area. Please remember that suicide is a permanent solution to what is in most cases a temporary problem and every suicide is a trag…	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 08:11 AM
5	Man dubbed creep for using eliptical next to woman Yeah, it’s not normal behaviour to take the machine next to someone. It’s just like getting into a nearly empty bus and sitting next to someone. Behaviour of a fucking weirdo.	/r/MensRights	13/07/22 07:32 PM
3	Man dubbed creep for using eliptical next to woman But did you jump on it anyway? Or leave a gap?	/r/MensRights	13/07/22 04:29 PM
9	“Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?” It’s not a straw man. You’re the one that seems to feel the need to protect your right to mutilate genitalia by saying it is t as bad as FGM. So it was a genuine question. Are you ok with female genitals being mutilated just a little bit? Not even as much as removing a foreskin. Just a tiny mutilation?	/r/MensRights	05/07/22 09:55 PM
12	“Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?” Good for you! Some men do suffer lifelong complications. Anyway. They are in some ways comparable due to the reasons behind the practices and the practices themselves. The outcomes for FGM, especially in Type 2 and 3, are significantly worse. Do you support ceremonial FGM? Just a little knick or removal of labia?	/r/MensRights	05/07/22 09:52 PM
12	“Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?” Oh right. MGM is cool then. /s Why are there so many people who support MGM on the basis that it “isn’t comparable to FGM”? “We’ll punching somebody isn’t comparable to stabbing someone, so we don’t need laws against punching people.” Can you see how ridiculous your argument is? Anyway. There are perhaps more similarities than you are aware of. Initially popularised in America to control male sexuality. Spurious arguments about health and cleanliness. Religious foundation. And y’know, cutting ge…	/r/MensRights	05/07/22 09:31 PM
9	“Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?” Well protection against genital mutilation, for one. The right to abort or abandon a child. Nobody can make a woman be a parent or financially support a child (although this has been recently complicated in US, as I understand it); same cannot be said for men.	/r/MensRights	05/07/22 09:01 PM
7	“Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?” Top 3 here are big ones: 1- right to decide when to become a parent 2- genital integrity 3- shorter sentences for the same crime 4- presumption of primary care giver 5- greater access to further education with more grants and dedicated places (in spite of already being the majority) 6- housing discrimination. 7- written into law that male perps of domestic violence get longer sentences than female perps (UK - female offender strategy) 8- greater access to employment schemes, especially through s…	/r/MensRights	05/07/22 08:57 PM
7	“Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?” Ok. Name one right men have that women don’t and I will name you ten that women have that men don’t.	/r/MensRights	05/07/22 08:33 PM
13	Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last week In FGM countries like Egypt they make the same spurious medical arguments to support the practice that Americans do to support MGM.	/r/MensRights	29/06/22 06:25 AM
36	All women that said "no uterus, no opinion" and are now begging for mens support on abortion can go shove it. “If I call him unfuckable he’ll agree with me; that’s all men really care about”	/r/MensRights	25/06/22 02:45 PM
0	“The Red Pill” documentary is free on Tubi. Pass it around. Ask people you know to watch it. If you’re watching porn every time you masturbate, you’re training your brain into needing fairly unnatural stimulation. This is one of the reasons why there’s an epidemic of lads in their 20s suffering erectile dysfunction. Any attempt at self-reflection will reveal that habitual porn use is, at best, unskillful. I would recommend going a month without porn to see if you notice any difference.	/r/MensRights	04/06/22 10:35 AM
-1	“The Red Pill” documentary is free on Tubi. Pass it around. Ask people you know to watch it. Wank yourself silly! Just do it without porn.	/r/MensRights	04/06/22 08:32 AM
2	“The Red Pill” documentary is free on Tubi. Pass it around. Ask people you know to watch it. You’re of course right and I was being a bit hyperbolic. I think certainly making sure that pornography isn’t part of your routine brings positive mental health benefits.	/r/MensRights	04/06/22 08:14 AM
12	“The Red Pill” documentary is free on Tubi. Pass it around. Ask people you know to watch it. Eh? There’s plenty of stuff you could be doing instead of jacking it to porn that isn’t being a “servant of women”. It’s indescribably bad for your brain, making otherwise healthy young men lazy, depressed and impotent. Get yourself a wood-lathe or something.	/r/MensRights	04/06/22 07:31 AM
1	Man Selling His Body (NSFW) How much? Edit: Of course, you cannot say no, because then you would have to admit that there is a contextual element to how enjoyable sex is. A child being paid to have sex with an adult does not correlate with two adults voluntarily having sex. You know this and are trolling, or else you have something severely wrong with you.	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 09:55 PM
3	Man Selling His Body (NSFW) Ok cool. Can I fuck you in the ass and mouth for €50, seeing as sex feels good?	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 09:54 PM
5	Man Selling His Body (NSFW) I had the exact same feeling!	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 09:53 PM
6	Man Selling His Body (NSFW) Unbelievable how this could be downvoted.	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 09:28 PM
7	Man Selling His Body (NSFW) Yeah, but this guys story obviously never fucking happend, so there’s that.	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 09:28 PM
5	Man Selling His Body (NSFW) Right, could you fuck off? What the fuck is happening to this group where this shit is getting upvotes?	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 09:27 PM
17	Man Selling His Body (NSFW) Yeah, that is a bit confusing. Hopefully we don’t have an incoming trickle of antisemitism.	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 09:25 PM
0	Are one night-stands something to avoid? I think a lot of the advice here is a tad cautious. You obviously have to be careful. I’ve passed on ONSs when the other person has had just a couple of drinks; in hindsight this has seemed over-cautious. At your age and experience level, you really just need more to be meeting and talking to women to get your confidence up. If somebody is clearly consenting and not inebriated, then the chances of them turning around and making an accusation are incredibly slim.	/r/MensRights	24/03/22 04:04 PM
26	Australian report by feminist organisation claims support for men's rights is a "significant barrier to gender equality" The highly contested concept of freedom of speech What?! Which authoritarian dictatorship is she living in?	/r/MensRights	13/03/22 07:37 AM
2	name three laws sexist towards men/women UK Female Offender Strategy. Insanity.	/r/MensRights	17/02/22 05:51 PM
2	How to deal with a College Professor (female) who call all men rapists with male privilege etc. (Alberta, Canada) Canada is one-party consent, so I assume that means you’re fine just setting your phone to record the entire lecture (audio only will be fine). Write down the time for whenever she says something outlandish. Create a compilation. You could even goad her a bit into saying some more racist things. Then just Lon up the complaints procedure at your college and follow it. Good luck!	/r/MensRights	06/02/22 09:45 AM
1	UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained' Yeah… criminals do still have rights.	/r/MensRights	23/01/22 12:45 PM
2	UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained' I realise this is a hard concept for a moron to get their head around, but breaking the law doesn’t immediately mean you give up your right to equal treatment under the law. Whilst they’ve written in unfair treatment in sentencing with the Female Offender Strategy, explicitly enforcing a law against one demographic and not another seems like something that could be challenged.	/r/MensRights	23/01/22 12:30 PM
1	UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained' I realise this is a hard concept for a moron to get their head around, but breaking the law doesn’t immediately mean you give up your right to equal treatment under the law. Whilst they’ve written in unfair treatment in sentencing with the Female Offender Strategy, explicitly enforcing a law against one demographic and not another seems like something that could be challenged.	/r/MensRights	23/01/22 12:30 PM
9	UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained' I can’t see how this is legal. I hope a few of them sue once they get here.	/r/MensRights	22/01/22 08:29 PM
9	Comically cruel At least she’s honest and has some awareness of herself. It’s much better than the usual “I want men to cry” and then for some reason going cold on their partner when they do. I also don’t think you should be crying when you injure yourself. What is the fucking point in that?	/r/MensRights	11/01/22 09:15 PM
7	This article about a pedophile who raped 2 toddlers, one boy and one girl, refers to the girl’s rape as rape, and the boy’s as sexual assault. They misspelled rape, but that’s what it meant. Because males can’t be raped. Source in comments. You don’t even know what has happened to the lad. UK defines rape as penetration with the penis of the vagina, anus or mouth without consent. It doesn’t say that the boy was buggered, so it might be perfectly accurate to say the girl was raped, the boy was assaulted.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 09:49 PM
1	Male beauty standard is killing me. Oh, sorry. It’s just that you said “chads” and “beta-bux” and seemed to be coming from a very similar angle. No offence meant.	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 09:50 PM
1	Male beauty standard is killing me. You’re right that good looks are an easy foot in the door. I’ve known plenty of very good looking men who cannot hold down a relationship due to shit confidence, though. All the incel stuff you’re into becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Be careful not to get locked into having your current perception repeatedly confirmed. There’ll be tonnes of women who view you as a 7-8 if you are objectively a 5-6, because female attraction is so subjective. It’s just meeting them is the bugger. Online dating…	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 08:48 PM
1	Male beauty standard is killing me. Just out of interest, are you a Jewish person who sees themselves as a leader, or somebody who sees themselves as a master over Jewish people? Either way, the 1488 makes you look like a prize cunt and it would be great if you could off away from the men’s movement.	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 07:49 PM
1	Male beauty standard is killing me. Not sure that this is entirely true. I saw a study that made a lot of sense to me from okCupid data that whilst women tend to agree on the top 15-20% of men and the bottom 15-20%, where you land if you’re in the middle is an absolute crapshoot. Some women will think you’re a 3, others will think you’re a 7. Female attraction seems to be a lot less consistent than male attraction. That’s only based on looks as well. I know that it sounds cliche, but there’s a lot more to being attractive than goo…	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 07:44 PM
20	Men in hard jobs complaining about the standars being lower for Women. The fact that this could get people killed (and probably aleardy did) shows how far goverment officials will go to be "progressive" The real reason to get women drafted is that it will result in the draft being abolished.	/r/MensRights	12/12/21 12:57 PM
2	My wife is leaving. Well staying in an unhappy relationship is unsustainable. The result of the separation will either be us getting back together with me being a better and happier man, or me moving on a better and happier man. So whilst it may seem like the worst thing imaginable, it’s actually the best thing to happen. Didn’t feel like it when I first found out though!	/r/MensRights	26/11/21 06:24 PM
1	My wife is leaving. This is 100% the best and most sensible comment on here. I’m going through similar and realising that I am 50% responsible for my partner’s unhappiness in the relationship has made things so much easier. I don’t feel like a victim, I don’t hate my partner and I’m genuinely feeling pretty happy.	/r/MensRights	26/11/21 06:15 PM
3	My wife is leaving. So sorry this is happening. Some good reading I love you but I’m not in love with you by Andrew Marshall My Wife Doesn’t Love Me Anymore by Andrew Marshall Husband Help Haven Website. The Husband Help Haven podcast is particularly good. Listen to the first episode ASAP to give a quick overview of what is happening and stop you making things worse! You need to make sure you have the best separation you can, so you either fix things with your wife or smash on with life in the best place you can be…	/r/MensRights	26/11/21 06:05 PM
5	Guardian article on female incels does exactly what you think it does. “Misogyny is an ideology which dictates that women should be seen as objects, without the same rights as men. Misandry is mostly a reaction to misogyny and informed by evidence. We shouldn’t put all men in the same bag, but at the same time it’s hard to criticise women who have had negative experiences.” Fucking hell, this is sinister. So any man who has been a victim of domestic violence should face no criticism for misogyny. I’ve been mugged and had my house robbed by black people, I’m allowed…	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 04:23 PM
1	Feminist GF seems unsympathetic to mens issues, sees most men as assholes. Is this a red flag to break it off? The red flag is you opening up about something personal and traumatic and her dismissing it. She is not a good person.	/r/MensRights	21/09/21 05:19 PM
1	I asked 15 women and 15 men what their thoughts on the father, or whoever will be forced to take responsibility for the child also having the ability to make the woman get an abortion, here were their responses Absolutely not. Have you even considered the logistics of forcing abortions on people? It would be beyond traumatic.	/r/MensRights	16/09/21 02:47 PM
7	Boys feel discrimination from early age Here’s what happened next: “no… you’re all wrong; there is no systemic discrimination against boys. Now let’s move quickly on.”	/r/MensRights	23/08/21 05:31 PM
29	My high school wont allow me to wear any makeup but still gives a pass for female students. As a teacher, I’m always picking my hills to die on and what to push back on. It is really tricky, but usually the school just wants to avoid a fuss. Most schools are run in a basis of not drawing attention to themselves, whether it be parents, politicians, the press or ESPECIALLY FUCKING OFSTED. Pissing off parents can trigger them writing to Ofsted, so most schools try to avoid this. If you want to die on this hill, here’s some further reading about the 2010 equalities act and how it is applie…	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 06:46 PM
37	Redditors, what is the most sexist event in your school life that no one seemed to care about? Teachers love playing social engineering.	/r/MensRights	10/08/21 08:00 PM
82	Redditors, what is the most sexist event in your school life that no one seemed to care about? Well, this is quite upsetting to read. I’m an English teacher in a big department; it is unbelievable what some of the other teachers in my dept think it is alright to say about boys. I want out really badly, but I’m taking solace in the fact that whilst I’m there I can point out to the boys that they’re actually really good and get them a bit stoked about their writing.	/r/MensRights	10/08/21 07:55 PM
5	Mount docked pay for being naked in own home What about a man’s right to wank out of his window at passerby?! /s	/r/MensRights	05/08/21 07:47 PM
2	Court says ‘pedophilia does not apply’ — because perpetrator is a woman Didn’t need to read that. Fuuuuyucking hell.	/r/MensRights	05/07/21 08:14 PM
5	"Emotional labour" is the term women use when they emotionally abuse men. Good on you. Seeing a lot of frustrating shit and wondering whether everybody seems to be going collectively insane can get a bit tiring.	/r/MensRights	04/07/21 05:16 PM
7	"Emotional labour" is the term women use when they emotionally abuse men. What woke you up to all this at such a young age? Try not to get too jaded!	/r/MensRights	04/07/21 04:39 PM
1	Because I was asked. I'll post the email I got today. Other than it coming up in a couple of weeks...	/r/MensRights	05/06/21 09:10 PM
3	Because I was asked. I'll post the email I got today. Right, so why would they offer an opt out if they weren’t going to do any Mother’s Day marketing? Presumably they’re going to do some Father’s Day marketing so are offering an opt-out, as lots of companies do for both days.	/r/MensRights	05/06/21 07:16 AM
0	Because I was asked. I'll post the email I got today. Did you get Mother’s Day marketing from them?	/r/MensRights	05/06/21 06:46 AM
0	Because I was asked. I'll post the email I got today. Were you signed up to them in April/May/whenever Mother’s Day is where you are? Do they mostly focus on men’s shoes? Did you get any mother’s day marketing? Would be silly to offer opt outs if they don’t do Mother’s Day marketing.	/r/MensRights	05/06/21 02:46 AM
-1	Because I was asked. I'll post the email I got today. Erm, fairly sure there is an opt out in Mother’s Day as well.	/r/MensRights	05/06/21 02:37 AM
1	As a man, I do not know where to share my emotions safely, and feel that I am expected to be stoic at all times. Does anyone here have advice regarding this? 1 to 1 therapy with a good psychotherapist is a really good investment.	/r/MensRights	21/05/21 07:42 PM
16	So I’ve come across this on Instagram so I decided to check up on google trends for such and only record I could find was 100 searches or so all from United States but then I got curious and searched the term “kill men” and while they’re consistently around 70-100 searches worldwide I imagine it has been googled more times in the last three days than it ever has been through the expanse of history. Perhaps this was be all a ploy to get people googling it to be used as a real statistic later.	/r/MensRights	30/04/21 05:03 PM
6	More important to specify higher rates of female non-fatal suicide attempts than specifying higher suicide completions of males Parasuicidal behaviour is much more common in women and will often be recorded as a suicide attempt, even when there was no actual intent to end life. I suspect that men and women are equally competent when it is something they actually want to do. I also suspect that the different responses men and women receive to a failed suicide attempt drives the disparity in parasuicidal behaviour.	/r/MensRights	26/04/21 05:28 AM
5	Male Primary Parent called last. I’d double check with them that it isn’t just that your wife’s number is listed first on the school’s info management system. It could have been inputted wrong. Just get your wife to give the office a call and say that you are to be contacted first. There are definitely some teachers who ignore whichever order they’re listed in and just call mum though.	/r/MensRights	18/04/21 08:44 PM
1	UK: Teaching union says 'toxic laddish culture' is rife in Britain's secondary schools where male staff and boys must be taught about sexism I don’t know if it’s most, but I think it is a massive problem. If you look at rates of fatherlessness among prison inmates, there is at least a correlation. In education you can often have an educated guess about whether there is going to be a male contact on file before you look for them. There are loads both pro/against the idea if you google “importance of male role models for boys”. I won’t select any in particular so you can read up freely.	/r/MensRights	09/04/21 04:07 PM
2	UK: Teaching union says 'toxic laddish culture' is rife in Britain's secondary schools where male staff and boys must be taught about sexism Father absenteeism and a lack of men in early years care/education. There are some boys that hardly meet a man until secondary school. Those kids can be quite odd, saying very inappropriate things to the girls or trying to get into a power conflict with male teachers. It’s damaging for boys to grow up without men around.	/r/MensRights	09/04/21 03:35 PM
46	UK: Teaching union says 'toxic laddish culture' is rife in Britain's secondary schools where male staff and boys must be taught about sexism Admittedly I’ve only taught in a couple of schools, but the idea that a “lad culture” is common among male staff is fucking ridiculous. You get the odd furtive chat about football and then it’s back to Ru Paul’s Drag Race and which Shakespeare text would be best for teaching about gender fluidity. Obviously there are groups of “lads”. Tends to happen when you get 1000 boys in close proximity; a small minority will be dicks. They get watched carefully and hammered when they get caught doing anyth…	/r/MensRights	08/04/21 09:32 PM
9	Teenager here (14M), and I support the Mens Rights Movement. Agreed. It’s not our most endearing stereotype in the MRM. Let it seethe within you for a day.	/r/MensRights	08/03/21 05:49 PM
1	the 1 in 3 stat has got to be bogus I saw a video about this study. I’ll try to find it. From what I remember they were using a 1 to 5 likelihood scale where 1 to 4 was taken as a positive response. Problem with this is, when asked “would you verbally coerce somebody into sex?” the “very likely” response is treated the same as “unlikely”. It was also a really small study, with the offer of extra credit for completing it. Some people were obviously taking the piss, responding “highly unlikely” to every question apart from “would yo…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 10:04 PM
2	"Coercive control" legislation. We have his in the UK; I thought exactly the same thing and that it would backfire on them and equalise the numbers across genders. The reality is it has only been used to prosecute men (I think it was literally 1 woman in a heterosexual relationship that has even been charged) and has been used to drive up convictions against men.	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 07:44 AM
2	Feminsit Kindergarten teacher finds Legos are good for cognitive development in young children and so BANS boys from playing with them in order to "close the gender gap" - also OECD study shows teachers mark girls higher for identical work Having teachers decide GCSE grades in the UK is going to be a nightmare. They didn’t release the gender-breakdown of the 2020 results, and then quietly revealed months later that when teachers decide the grades, the gender gap gets even more massive. Also, why doesn’t that kindergarten teacher just quit and become an engineer. I bet she doesn’t spend her time outside of school building shit.	/r/MensRights	08/01/21 12:24 AM
13	'One mum called me and said her child had phoned her and asked whether it was still ok to be a boy and like rugby and rock music.' I’d love to leak some of the shit kids are being taught at my school, but it would just be so fucking obvious that it’s me and I’d become unemployable.	/r/MensRights	08/12/20 04:08 PM
51	Has this sub gotten shadowbanned? Anything with “shadowbanned?” in it just goes straight to r/all to throw people off the scent.	/r/MensRights	05/12/20 01:50 PM
2	A teacher in my school said this.... I honestly feel so sorry for you all. English is a really good subject when it’s taught by people who actually like the books they’re teaching. Every week I sort my classes out and just wind up shaking my head and laughing at the shit I’m expected to trot out.	/r/MensRights	12/10/20 11:55 PM
23	A teacher in my school said this.... I’m an English teacher and we’ve just switched from teaching our own lessons to following each other’s schemes. Fuck me is it ridiculous. I knew that the other teachers loved levering in their own opinions, but I didn’t realise that they were just using literature as a vessel through which to preach their own ideologies. A lot of it isn’t even English, just full fucking lessons on feminism, non-binary gender and the suffragettes.	/r/MensRights	12/10/20 04:38 PM
3	Brock Turner Committed Sexual Assault at my fraternity and our consent culture changed overnight. The writer’s own sexual assault is really glossed over in this. It is interesting though that if you swap over who does the initiating, you swap over who does the sexual assaulting.	/r/MensRights	26/09/20 01:13 PM
6	Opinion \| Netflix's "Enola Holmes" offers a welcome, feminist critique of a cultural icon. Because the new world feminist world order has to prove itself superior - by just making shit up. These gender swapped things usually backfire. I remember watching the gender-swapped Frankenstein where the female dr Frankenstein battles with the decision to stay at home and be a “good woman” to her family or leave to peruse the sciences. She pursues the sciences, makes a monster and everyone fucking dies. I came out confused as to what the message was supposed to be, especially with everyone praising its feminist narrative. Seemed like a reactionary cautionary tale about the women’s Lib to m…	/r/MensRights	25/09/20 07:22 PM
17	Teacher told us women can't rape I’m afraid the laws are quite clear: a woman cannot be charged with rape in the uk	/r/MensRights	25/09/20 03:53 PM
2	Men account for 85% of suicides but when suicidal ideation is shown in media, it’s overwhelmingly women. Suicide-like behaviour without the intention to kill yourself. I saw someone drink a bottle of floor cleaner once. Did fuck-all aside from make them burp bubbles for a while. Has to be taken seriously obviously, as it is often a precursor to actual suicide.	/r/MensRights	06/09/20 12:04 PM
-8	Men account for 85% of suicides but when suicidal ideation is shown in media, it’s overwhelmingly women. To be fair, parasuicidal behaviour is way more common and women are more likely to display such behaviour.	/r/MensRights	06/09/20 07:24 AM
6	My dad believes in the wage gap is real The most convincing argument is “if you could pay women 20% less for doing the same work, corporations would only hire women, the savings would be too great for employers to act on prejudice alone”. Otherwise, buy him “Why Men Earn More” by Warren Farrell, written with a view to helping his daughters earn more, should they want to.	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 11:31 AM
5	Apparently Germany’s way of making gender equality is by making parking lots that only women can park on Most women don’t want this, most men don’t want this. The purpose of these spaces isn’t to guard against the statistically unlikely event of a stranger on stranger attack in a car park, it is to make a statement about the inherent dangers of men. It’s like putting “Warning:Look out for snakes!” signs around New York. It is possible you could get bitten by a snake in a big city, but really all the signs serve to do is make everyone worried and paranoid about snakes.	/r/MensRights	30/07/20 08:01 PM
2	Taking a paternity test without the mother's consent is illegal in france. Thus only the mother decides who the father is and no evidence to the contrary can be used. The logic behind it is that fatherhood is more socially determined than biologically determined. They see the family unit as important (which is good) and protect it by making paternity tests hard to get (which is bad) to maintain peace within families. Nothing like lingering doubt and anxiety over paternity to make you feel happy and secure in a relationship. Where paternity is contested, a father can apply to the court for a test. Not sure how it works in marriage, but I know it’s difficult an…	/r/MensRights	21/07/20 07:22 AM
1	Chris Rock vibes Lol. It is literally an opinion. It doesn’t need proof. It’s just taken from observations that anybody poly that I’ve met has been outrageously self-centred with kids on a fast-track to an attachment disorder. “You shouldn’t sacrifice your own happiness and satisfaction for the sake of children” - I think that’s the fundamental difference in our viewpoints.	/r/MensRights	16/07/20 06:10 AM
-1	Chris Rock vibes Because the focus is shifted outside of the family unit rather than inside. Raising kids is difficult and is traditionally the primary goal of the nuclear family. Even if the child isn’t fully aware, it can still have an effect on them.	/r/MensRights	15/07/20 11:45 PM
0	Chris Rock vibes “All studies...” Proceeds to cite one study taken from a questionnaire on a swingers website. Do you know who visit swinger sites? People who bloody love swinging. Believe it or not, people who are no longer engaged in the lifestyle probably aren’t visiting swinger sites, so not an unbiased source.	/r/MensRights	15/07/20 11:41 PM
1	Chris Rock vibes “Daaaaad, where’s mummy?” “Out getting ploughed, Timmy. Eat your cereal.” I dunno. I just can’t imagine a point where I could even summon the energy to be rutting about in the time i could spend with my daughter and partner. Every successful culture has independently arrived upon a monogamous norm, suggesting that it is a fairly successful family model. My view might be coloured by the fact that every polygamous person I’ve met has worn their narcissistic personality disorder quite prominently u…	/r/MensRights	15/07/20 11:36 PM
1	Chris Rock vibes Yeah, I’m not saying selfishly rutting your way through as many people as possible doesn’t have its perks. It’s just obviously shit for children.	/r/MensRights	15/07/20 07:33 PM
10	Chris Rock vibes Bit of a stretch to say that men are valued always. Take a wander to your local homeless shelter. Or the front line of any war. There are corresponding pressures in different areas. There’s definitely more pressure on women to look good.	/r/MensRights	15/07/20 01:15 PM
47	Chris Rock vibes Yeah, great for the kids as well I hear. /s	/r/MensRights	15/07/20 01:07 PM
41	Dozens of women admitting that they would rape a man, because men cannot say “no” to sex That elusive evidence of rape culture has finally arrived.	/r/MensRights	07/07/20 10:42 PM
3	MRA YouTuber just got stabbed and his throat sliced for being a white man This was my impulse. Seems a strange thing to do. Probably best for the results of the police investigation and charges to be brought before jumping in on this.	/r/MensRights	04/07/20 06:51 PM
3	Blue orange 22 assaulted Might want to wait for this to be verified before publicising it. Hate hoaxes are surprisingly common. The whole Althea Bernstein thing is going to be embarrassing for all involved when the truth comes out.	/r/MensRights	04/07/20 12:59 PM
0	Absolutely delusional. Think she’s joking.	/r/MensRights	04/07/20 12:53 PM
2	Humor mixed in with truth? Good points the middle section throws me off a bit. (Discussion) I think opening up is a good thing, but this idea that opening up TO ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE YOU KNOW will fix things is ridiculous, making things worse and causing a lot of harm. I’m a big fan of finding a good therapist. They’re hard to find but they actually know what they’re doing and your relationship isn’t going to change because of the things you say to them. Maybe if you’ve got a really good mate and your relationship is orientated that way, you can open up quite freely, but bollocks to the …	/r/MensRights	03/07/20 11:58 AM
2	Humor mixed in with truth? Good points the middle section throws me off a bit. (Discussion) Omfg this is such a feminist propagated cartoon of why men kill themselves. Even CALM in the UK, a men’s anti suicide charity, forwards this shit as the answer for why men kill themselves. The premise: “If men were more emotionally intelligent, like women, then they wouldn’t kill themselves.” -Most men who kill themselves have already sought out treatment and talking therapies. Men who talk about their problems aren’t necessarily saved from them. -this attitude shifts all the blame onto the suic…	/r/MensRights	02/07/20 01:16 PM
3	a right to be informed before sex? Caveat emptor! You need to be careful about having sex with people. If you’re only finding out somebody is trans after you’ve had sex with them, you potentially didn’t know them well enough in the first place. You also might be unaware of where a vagina is supposed to be. “Rape by deception” opens the door to a lot of criminalised behaviour. If you’re dating somebody and they lie about their income, could that open them to a rape charge? Past number of sexual partners? Their vegetarianism? Their…	/r/MensRights	21/06/20 08:01 PM
-3	Men bad Google “Jessica Yaniv”, as you clearly don’t know her. A beautiful and brave woman who loves a hot-towel shave.	/r/MensRights	21/06/20 05:09 PM
0	Probation for murder I might have read a different source. The one I read said he stopped her by refusing to pay for it.	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 04:08 PM
10	Probation for murder Fortunately, the kid was just hung rather than hanged; a dad dropping their kid off saved them. Apparently it was her husband’s fault. Apparently he wouldn’t pay for her mental health treatment.	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 04:42 AM
2	AITA for making a man pay for a child he doesn't want to keep. Why is that even an option? In the UK, the child receives child benefit regardless of whether the father is involved. They would have to do without 12% of the father’s wage. You could not use the same arguments against a woman. You cannot make a woman carry a child, you cannot make a woman take financial or emotional responsibility for a child. I think it is quite right that a woman should be able to put her baby up for adoption if they do not feel capable of being a mother, the same rights should extend to men. I’d honest…	/r/MensRights	10/06/20 02:18 PM
17	AITA for making a man pay for a child he doesn't want to keep. Why is that even an option? Quite the frustrating read. I remember somebody on a chat-show saying “in the case of an accidental pregnancy, no power on earth can force a woman to be a parent; they can either abort or relinquish parenthood.” Men can’t have a say over abortion, so the closest thing to equality has to be a paper abortion.	/r/MensRights	10/06/20 05:15 AM
1	I was physically and emotionally abused by my ex girlfriend and currently struggling with post traumatic stress. When I reach out for help people end up having doubts or are skeptical as to whether I was really abused or not. I know what I went through and all of it was very real. We welcome help! Some of the biggest names in the movement are women. Erin Pizzey, Janice Fiamengo, Karen Straughan. Half the speakers at the last few conferences have been women. We say feminism sucks because of the things that feminism has done. The Duluth Model, the Female Offender Strategy etc.	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 10:07 PM
2	I was physically and emotionally abused by my ex girlfriend and currently struggling with post traumatic stress. When I reach out for help people end up having doubts or are skeptical as to whether I was really abused or not. I know what I went through and all of it was very real. “I don’t like the way your ideology has personally affected my life as a male victim of domestic violence and it is unlikely that I’ll ever get onboard” is deserving of “kill all men?” You wouldn’t ask Jews to get onboard with a “reformed” neo-nazism, you wouldn’t ask a black person to get onboard with a reformed KKK. Feminist theory has been used against men, I think it is nonsense based on ridiculous presuppositions and it is not compatible with addressing the systematic discrimination against…	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 09:57 PM
2	I was physically and emotionally abused by my ex girlfriend and currently struggling with post traumatic stress. When I reach out for help people end up having doubts or are skeptical as to whether I was really abused or not. I know what I went through and all of it was very real. Just noticed you put a link to HeForShe! That organisation has nothing to do with tackling legal discrimination against men. It’s literally called “he for she”. It’s about men pledging to support women’s fight for equality. It does do a fine line in “men should be able to express their emotions” but does nothing for: circumcision, gender sentencing gap, family court bias etc. It doesn’t even recognise the obvious legal biases against men. I’m honestly fine with societal expectations. You can cho…	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 09:28 PM
2	I was physically and emotionally abused by my ex girlfriend and currently struggling with post traumatic stress. When I reach out for help people end up having doubts or are skeptical as to whether I was really abused or not. I know what I went through and all of it was very real. They may have been forced to accept our calls to keep their funding, but the attitudes have not changed. If you believe in a tyrannical and oppressive patriarchy, you’re not just going to suddenly accept male victims. Personally, and I think I probably speak for a lot of people here, I don’t want anything to de with feminism it’s foundations are just so rotten. If it abandoned the notion of male oppression of women and had a slightly more nuanced view of history, then possibly; but it isn’t ever…	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 09:13 PM
1	I was physically and emotionally abused by my ex girlfriend and currently struggling with post traumatic stress. When I reach out for help people end up having doubts or are skeptical as to whether I was really abused or not. I know what I went through and all of it was very real. Excellent advice.	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 08:05 PM
3	I was physically and emotionally abused by my ex girlfriend and currently struggling with post traumatic stress. When I reach out for help people end up having doubts or are skeptical as to whether I was really abused or not. I know what I went through and all of it was very real. Feminist groups have done massive damage to services for male victims of DV. Firstly, the discredited Duluth Model that some charities and services still cling to describes DV as a manifestation of patriarchy and explicitly excludes male and lesbian victims. Secondly, refuge and the national DV hotline in the UK only opened backdoor channels for male victims when they were going to have their funding cut. I’ve spoken to men who were laughed off the phone by National DV helpline less than a decad…	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 08:02 PM
5	I was physically and emotionally abused by my ex girlfriend and currently struggling with post traumatic stress. When I reach out for help people end up having doubts or are skeptical as to whether I was really abused or not. I know what I went through and all of it was very real. In my experience, bypassing talking to the people around me and finding a good therapist was a very good decision as and what I advise other men in the same situation to do. I found transactional analysis most helpful, but person-centered (which is mostly what’s on offer) also helped a little bit. Where abouts are you? If you can’t access a therapist, reading about borderline personality disorder and parent/adult/child theory (best interactions are adult to adult, not parent to child like in an …	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 10:14 AM