Yep. I am a huge nerd. I was never into sports, loved video games into my thirties (finally had enough), I went to school for engineering, read encyclopedias as a kid, love Wikipedia, etc. You just have to be charming in person, and develop some normal social skills. The whole world opens up.
I am not better than women in any way and have never felt that way. Women should go for the best man possible, and men for the best woman they can land.
When you described people successfully having sex. You really sold it. Not to me - I have been married for 16 years - but to a lot of redditors no doubt.