WinningCommunication Archive

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1	Turning 30 soon and absolutely clueless and sexually frustated after attempting cold approach yesterday for the upteenth time. As a 6'4" slightly nerdy black dude who has embraced the blackpill and lives with his parents, finding women into me is near impossible... In your situation I have a CRUCIAL recommendation. Focus on the process for awhile, when there is so much emotional baggage everything can feel so extreme. What I mean is, just focus on the effort you put in and being happy with it and not thinking about results at all. I would, for example, pick a TECHNICAL style of game and practice it for a pre determined amount each week. Say a few hours a few times a week or an hour everyday. Just do that and aim to forget about yourself and what everything…	/r/seduction	19/05/24 09:18 PM
0	Approached and got told to F off So, you made some major mistakes, but the mistakes are FIXABLE. Keep that in mind. You "STALLED OUT the set". This was an old school game thing. Waiting around on the train and not approaching her, then waiting till you two got off the train is going to set off loads of alarm bells. 1) When you wait and hesitate awhile it just makes it weird, unnatural or shows lack of confidence, can also be creepy. 2) The girl assumed that you followed her off the train. She has no way to know you were getting…	/r/seduction	19/05/24 09:08 PM
3	Changing my bedtime has made seduction so much easier Good stuff man. Overall having a schedule you stick to and knowing where you are going to be/what you are going to be doing at a given time - makes girls chase like crazy. The nice " hey great talking to you , I have to go to XYZ now" is really powerful. Plus aside from dating living a disciplined life is an awesome life. Jocko Willink "Discipline equals Freedom" ( anyone who has not checked him out, you must)	/r/seduction	19/05/24 04:00 PM
2	A cold approach purpose is to seduce them, not to get their number in less than 1 minute and then complain that your text game sucks. Very important reminder for most guys. Also instant dates are the best. If you change your mentality to getting to know the girl instant dates are actually really natural and easy. You are just hanging out and continue to hang out.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 04:45 PM
1	Anyone here who improved their looks and got more success? Of course, it helps. The main thing is get a cool haircut and a style that works for you. That is literally night and day. When you have a cool style overall you are basically telling women/the world "this guy gets it". People treat you totally differently based on how you dress. We could see this as "shallow" or as a great opportunity - it is something we have 100% control over, plus literal neanderthals are found in their graves with various necklaces and things with no purpose but looks/statu…	/r/seduction	16/05/24 12:29 AM
2	Good phrases for Buenos Aires women? I would just speak English if you don't speak any Spanish. Knowing like one phrase could look a little try hard and immediately shows that it is a planned pick up line. Learning some Spanish in general is a good idea, but I wouldn't make the only Spanish I know be my opening pick up line.	/r/seduction	15/05/24 07:56 PM
1	What element is missing in my personality? Teasing with a strong frame most likely. Also perhaps setting boundaries and "holding court" like being a leader. You probably have your comfort game down it sounds like and just need to add in attraction game. So look into attraction, breaking rapport etc.	/r/seduction	15/05/24 04:57 PM
7	Getting girls in clubs to dance with you I have a pretty simple process, but it is a little niche. 1) Key part is to dance and have fun yourself first. Learn to be a good dancer. So hit the dancefloor and dance 2) Chat very briefly with a few girls then LEAVE and dance more 3) Then you go back and invite the girl/girls to come dance. Works pretty well, they see you dancing yourself you talk to them a tiny bit and leave them wanting more then invite them to join you dancing. It is a pretty comfortable way to do it. This is more for like…	/r/seduction	15/05/24 04:56 PM
2	Small City Advice 1) Use indirect game NO QUESTION. My friend is in a city with like 500k but with a main downtown area and started running into the same girls using direct game. research mystery method , it does not have to be canned, but the principles of befriending everyone entertaining groups etc. - this type of game can actually improve as you know more people/see them again versus direct which can burn you out. 2) Approach but do a lot of home prep work. People stopped this but it totally works. Practice t…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 03:29 AM
0	Best cold approach openers This is actually excellent stuff. There is a reason guys who dedicated their lives to this stuff came up with opinion openers, it is not like no one had ever thought of "say anything" before that. Have not tried all of these though, but of the ones that look familiar they all look solid, I'll try some of the others out.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 03:14 AM
1	Ghosted after first date - double text advice Hmm, you really need to give more details. This is not very useful. That is also not a good text to send. Think about it, shouldn't it make sense that the details of the date matter to what may have gone wrong?	/r/seduction	13/05/24 03:32 AM