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What do you mean only 12?
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:28 PM
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Thank you man. What you said makes a lot of sense and I appreciate you taking the time. The other user who responded says i shouldn’t reach out at all. As an endorsed contributor I tend to side with you - thoughts on his comments?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:17 PM
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Fuck. I don’t want to hear that but you are right, I know it. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:54 PM
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Hey man, may you please check out my new post? Ill link it here for convenience's sake. ​ " Hey All, Last week, I made the post: "Did I end it too early?" - can't link else would. TLDR: I hard nexted a girl because she wants to go on a school exchange program in the fall. She wanted to keep trying, I said no. I was very final in my no. I realize that I want to stay with her up until that point because shes the first girl in a while (after 10+ plates in past 9 months) that is good LTR material. L…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:47 PM
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Hmm - I am definitely surprised she is not begging for me back. Thing is, I don't want to be done, so why should I? That all being said, I appreciate your advice and time. Any other thoughts people?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:45 PM
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She wants to do LDR when she goes away. I will never do LDR. So not her terms. Im just agreeing to having fun dating for (up to) next 4-5 months. You don't feel theres anyway to not lose frame? Even if I do lose a bit of frame, my frame is solid in most all other regards - it should be fine no?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:40 PM
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Anyone else agree with random? So you think I was right to tell her not to go or we would break up?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:01 AM
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First off, thank you again for the time and effort you took to reply. You make some good points. I certainly need to watch my emotional investment. I will do this no matter what happens. Very true. See #1. I have been doing that, thanks to TRP. Thats the thing, I agree and I would never cancel the trip myself - in fact I respect her resolve. Another reason why I didn't actively encourage her to. The trip would be 3.5 months, one semester. I am going to do the wait and see approach. And yes I wou…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:53 AM
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Thank you Monsieur. One detail correction: she doesn't have to confirm going on the trip for another 3.5 months, which would have had us dating for 6 months total - plus she would have had more time to get attached. But yes, your points certainly stands and I think that is part of her reasoning. ​ I think it is very likely she reaches out wanting to try to make it work in the upcoming days. I did not pressure her at all, I did that well. If she does come back on her own accord, saying she needs …
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:53 AM
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One more question - how do you even do that? She asks to get back together, I say sure but I am not exclusive anymore? She definitely wouldn't go for that... *I, morally, won't cheat.*
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:59 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:46 AM
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Familiar advice, but obviously not fully absorbed. So, in this case, I should do nothing, yes? If she comes back, great (however continue on not caring), if she doesn't I have options already lined up. LTRs are certainly TRP on hard mode - its a hard thing to not care about an LTR and not set boundaries down. Can you point me to an article on this maybe?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:43 AM
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A simple and illuminating response. Thank you. What would you suggest I do now? Although I made this mistake, there surely must be a path back? Further, in the future, should I not make it clear that I don't do LDRs? ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:38 AM
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