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Wintamint/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:24 PM
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I strongly disagree with you. Sex and love are separate things. Almost Completely separate psychological processes. You can have either without the other, and it doesn't matter if you are a man or woman. I think you're making a logical error by trying to make a post hoc generalization based on one experience. Bummer about your friend.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 09:50 AM
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Science! Thank you! Nice job OP!
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 08:44 PM
2

You can taxonomize social groups. There's a type of lizard, I forget which specifically, that has very distinct phenotypes where each of three colors has a different mating strategy. I was wondering what criteria the op used for his categorization, but he said common sense, so it's his opinion, which is valid as such, as long as not misrepresented as being based on something else.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 08:40 AM
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Thanks for the response. I must have missed that link, I'll check it out.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 04:43 PM
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There could be. Taxonomy is a science.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 04:42 PM
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I feel like I'm going to get blasted for even asking, but is there any science behind any of this, or is this structure just your opinion? Lots of people seem to find it valuable, so it's okay if it is your opinion, but it's presented as fact, and I think that's dangerous. Edit: I'm specifically talking about the first section, I don't agree with this model for social hierarchy. Most of the rest of it seems more or less common-sense ideas. I'd still love to see some references.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 04:33 PM
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Well, it's like piano lessons, right? Better to have them on the books by the time you're an adult. Changes the way you think, changes the way your body behaves, and most importantly, young bodies and minds are more plastic, so you can make more drastic changes with less time and effort if you start young.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 09:48 PM
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Wow, you have such a strong frame. I'm totally intimidated. Besides, I didn't compare the kid to Hitler. My point is, the kid is a psychopath who did one interesting thing, it's not worth praising him.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:47 AM
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This kid is a joke. He'll end up in jail. Looking up to this guy just because he defied an authoritative woman is ridiculous. It's like looking up to Hitler because he was a vegetarian.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 12:25 AM
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If her parents are paying for it, as they traditionally should, and you, for some bizarre reason, want to get married, there's no fucking problem. Look up "dowry." Dudes used to pay to unload their daughters on a young man. Plus, weddings are fun. Well, other people's weddings. Not everything is a shit test. Women almost universally go insane when it comes to planning a wedding, but that's about them, not about the man. Now, if a woman is trying to have a wedding beyond the means of the groom, a…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 11:47 PM
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You CAN have too many muscles, body builders look ridiculous, but let's face it, if you're reading this, you're probably not a body builder. I would say if a girl doesn't want to give you head, it's totally irrelevant if she went down on her last boyfriend or not. He has nothing to do with you. If you feel you need to get head from your girlfriend and aren't getting it, that's the problem. You're a beta bux if you're constantly comparing yourself to someone who isn't part of your life. Anyhow, I…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:33 AM
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So I went out with this girl, body ten, face ten...to help her pick up guys...lol
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:07 PM
4

This is not a new concept.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 06:27 AM
-2

The true RP Response: "Who cares?"
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:49 PM
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Sure, but they have no reason to have hang ups about premarital sex. It's not really part of the religion or culture unless they're VERY religious, in which case you would't be interacting with them, since the very religious aren't even allowed to interact with men. Mormons on the other hand have huge hang ups up their virginity, so they fuck in the butt. It doesn't make sense to me, I just wanted to set the record straight.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:51 PM
2

That's not a thing. You're thinking of mormons.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:38 PM
2

That seems to be the consensus. Thank you. I'm really glad I asked.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:37 AM
1

Well, it's sort of a loaded question in LA. I've heard from friends in NY that women will point blank ask, "How much do you make?" and that the equivalent in LA is, "What do you do?" which really means, "What can you do for me?" It's hard to tell if a girl is just making conversation or if she's really asking the shit test version of that question.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:26 AM
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That's sort of the rub here. There's a lot of gray area.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:24 AM
1

Thanks. I guess it's better to err on the side of caution.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:23 AM
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Thanks for your response. #2 is the only helpful part of your response, but it sort of answers all my questions. Lots of snark in this sub! Let me give a more specific example: If a woman asks you, "What do you do?" or "What's your job?" is that shit test? I can't tell. It seems like normal conversation, but depending on the tone, it seems like it could be a shit test. What's your opinion? I guess that also begs the question, do you have to know if it's a shit test in order to respond properly? …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:45 PM
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I had a brain fart and thought the "duo plank challenge" was some advanced TRP strategy that I'd never heard of.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:32 PM
1

"You only want me for sex!" Best beta response? "Well, I'd settle for a BJ."
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:00 AM
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I'm glad I could help. You're very welcome. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 04:21 PM
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First, don't pick up girls at AA. It's called "the 13th step." It's a lousy thing to do for the girl's recovery and, let's face it, you're only going to pick up girls with problems that you don't need. Second, you don't have to drink to pick up girls. I've been to the UK, and enjoyed the more casual drinking culture, but it appears you may have had an alcohol problem, and no woman is worth ruining your life. My advice would be, get to enjoy club soda with lime. It looks like a vodka tonic. It's …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 04:12 PM
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I'd like to offer some advice about buying drinks to the younger members of this sub. This is my first post here, but I think it's an important tidbit. When you start the PUA stuff you hear, "Don't buy a girl drinks," and you should listen, because if you're educating yourself on picking up girls, you probably shouldn't be buying rounds. It lowers your perceived social value, empties your wallet, and basically does nothing good for you. However, there are many exceptions, times when you SHOULD b…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:03 AM
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What board game? Is it a secret board game?
/r/seduction14/02/12 08:05 PM
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Do. Not. Feed. The. Troll.
/r/seduction07/09/11 05:43 PM
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That doesn't make it anti-social, it makes it private. I don't shit in the park either, does that make my bowel movements an anti-social behavior. No it does not.
/r/seduction07/09/11 05:41 PM
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Good point.
/r/seduction07/09/11 05:29 PM
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I don't agree with anyone here. No offense. I would ignore what she said. Don't "date" her. Have something interesting to do, and invite her to "tag along". If you're in a band, invite her to a show. Ignore the shit out of her. She's probably just feeling guilty about getting to second base. Even if you were to ask her "why" she probably doesn't know why. Above all else, don't sweat it, there are other girls.
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:14 AM
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Fair enough man, that's a great response. I guess we all have our hangups. Personally, I've got some natural ability at comfort building, but never knew how to open/attract before I started studying this stuff. I guess there's some other guy out there who, for example, could open like crazy, but didn't know where to put his hands when he's kissing someone.
/r/seduction04/09/11 05:56 PM
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That's pretty creepy. Is that all really necessary? I mean, once you're making out, things just sort of...take their course. There is a weird rapey vibe to that ladder.
/r/seduction04/09/11 12:29 AM
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Own it, man. Shaving my head was the best thing I've ever done for my appearance. You either fight it, or own it. Also, being bald is manly. Not every girl is going to like the bald head, but so what? Not every girl is going to like any hairstyle, you should have something else to offer her that makes you valuable, like being an awesome person.
/r/seduction01/09/11 09:56 PM
0

I usually say "door-to-door coffin salesman, but I can only carry one at a time."
/r/seduction31/08/11 06:56 PM
2

This made me laugh. Good one, sir.
/r/seduction31/08/11 06:55 PM
1

There's the Cube. That's a great one!
/r/seduction30/08/11 08:00 PM
1

My guess is....I'm a pretty big guy, I would ACTUALLY just take the guy outside and scare the shit out of him. That's more realistic. But I would want to hit him. Come on, AMOGing makes me hulk mad!
/r/seduction27/08/11 04:27 PM
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Unfortunately, yeah, it is immature. And I'm too old to be doing shit like that, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't do it. For the record, I wouldn't start a fight in the middle of a condo party, that's just bad manners. I would take him outside. I'm not an ogre, but I won't be pushed around by sleaze. If you can just brush it off when shit like that happens, good for you.
/r/seduction27/08/11 04:25 PM
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I wasn't really seriously giving you advice, your attitude is super healthy. I'm just saying that guy deserved a beating. I would have hit him for sure. You're a better man than I.
/r/seduction27/08/11 12:33 AM
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I'm mad for you. Here's the thing, if you weren't a threat, you wouldn't be AMOGed, so take that shit to heart, you're doing well. I wouldn't tolerate that shit, and as soon as his friend left, I would have taken the guy outside and beat the shit out of him. At the very least, you let him know that you're the alpha dog, and that if he fucks with your prey, there's not going to be any conviviality. Be Don Draper.
/r/seduction27/08/11 12:02 AM
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This researcher doesn't understand his subject at all. I think that's pretty obvious.
/r/seduction25/08/11 09:36 PM
1

That's correct, but too simple. Plan A: Be Awesome. Plan B: APPEAR to be awesome. Plan C: Be so-so, but appear to be slightly more valuable than HB.
/r/seduction24/08/11 07:48 PM
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Seduction is about the value differential between men and women. If you are awesome enough, you don't have to DO anything. Seduction techniques teach you how to shorten the gap by decreasing the perceived value of women, and by increasing your own perceived value. If you have a yacht and you're not getting laid, you're probably a certifiable jackass.
/r/seduction24/08/11 07:04 PM
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I agree with you in a lot of ways. I think serious scientific inquiry into PU technique and theory would be really amazing. I'd love to read a real textbook on the subject. Still, common technique and especially MM is based on theory that is very well-grounded in evolutionary psych. The whole alpha male concept is a dumbing-down of science, I readily admit that. I'm just glad it isn't anti-science, which is how I see feminism. That's where you have a conclusion first, then you look for or genera…
/r/seduction07/10/10 04:32 PM
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Beatles. Better writing, more prolific. In 100 years, no one will know who the Stones were.
/r/seduction07/10/10 03:26 AM
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I got my degree in 2004, so honestly, I'm not really up to date with ALL 21st century "feminist" literature. I also apologize for hijacking your thread, so I'll try to get back on topic.
/r/seduction07/10/10 02:28 AM
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False. That is what feminists claim for PR, but they are lying to you. I've been taught by some of the most prominent feminists of the women's lib movement, and I can tell you, they're full of shit. They believe that men naturally oppress women and society must fix this. They believe that the penis itself is an instrument of abuse. They believe that women would be better off if they reproduced by parthenogenesis and men just died. They are the sort of people who will create an argument and use t…
/r/seduction07/10/10 12:00 AM
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While this is an interesting find, I wouldn't want to be associated with feminism in any sense, nor would I want to lend legitimacy to feminism in ay context. The PUA community bases it's tenets on evolutionary psychology and real world experience, while feminism is based on pseudo-science and reactionary conjecture. A REAL feminist would have you believe there is absolutely no difference between an average man and woman except for their genitals, a foundation which modern neuroscience and socio…
/r/seduction06/10/10 10:45 PM
2

Maybe you're right, but if you whisper something like that to someone, you're golden. I wouldn't want a girl to hear it for sure. Also, reactivity is action, so if you say it with a smile, you're probably also fine. I always smile.
/r/seduction06/10/10 08:25 PM
6

"Happy Birthday!" "You too!"
/r/seduction06/10/10 06:03 PM
1

The old bar-bet is one pint on the back of each hand, down on a table. Then you take his wallet.
/r/seduction06/10/10 06:01 PM
3

I don't know about kicking his ass, but it's a good set up for a really stingy comeback like, "I view life as a series of idiots I have no time for, punk."
/r/seduction06/10/10 06:00 PM
0

::shudder::
/r/seduction05/10/10 05:08 AM
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I basically agree with Drugba, but I don't think it's a good idea to break down every interaction into a hierarchy. These guys are both alphas in context, and neither is trying to get the upper hand. The better one looks, the better the other looks. If you're going to put this in a PUA framework, this is what a wing relationship should look like. Each PUA is a different flavor, but they've all got a good frame.
/r/seduction04/10/10 01:59 AM
3

Think Mona Lisa, not used car salesman. Small, but sincere smile.
/r/seduction02/10/10 08:49 AM
1

This is easier than it sounds. You may miss a little the first time but it's not hard. Do not try to use a mirror for this, you'll be sorry if you do....do it by touch.
/r/seduction02/10/10 08:49 AM
3

Oy vey. Chillin' like a villain is something you only say in great irony.
/r/seduction01/10/10 05:48 AM
2

I've found the single most important thing in a wing is knowing not to use deprecating humor. A lot of guys will bust each other's balls, which is fine if you're just with guys, but when you're running game, you need to build up the group or everyone looks bad. Close friends who don't know the rules will often do this by accident and not realize it lowers value for the PUA and the wing. Also, everyone knows a pivot is the best wing. Get a chick to help you pick up chicks.
/r/seduction28/09/10 05:51 PM
3

I...don't believe you. I think you got the itis too. However, if that's true, that's a whole different story. I think if enough time has passed and you're a different person, you can play traditional game on someone like that. I would focus specifically on framing, it's so easy when around people from highschool, even 10 or 20 years later, to fall back into old patterns. Just hold your frame, you're the man now. And if it isn't going to happen, let it go, there's other fish in the sea.
/r/seduction27/09/10 10:13 PM
12

Move on, bro. Just move on.
/r/seduction27/09/10 05:31 PM
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"I am a rapist, but you still have your keys in the trunk! Rapists are people tooo!"
/r/seduction23/09/10 06:41 PM
3

I skimmed your post. Your self-confidence should have nothing to do with women, that's your first mistake. You need to be less co-dependent. Find something you're good at and become great at it. Work at it every day and be proud of yourself for that, and anchor your self esteem to something you do well. Then, clean yourself up and read the Mystery Method or some other method book that will teach you how to interact with women. You need to be secure in yourself before you try to attract someone e…
/r/seduction22/09/10 06:47 PM
1

So, your question is why is all the stuff he's giving you WORTH IT to him, when all he gets is sex from a cute young girl and your company? That's an excellent question. It's in the DNA, missy. Try not eating for a few days and seeing how much you want a nice meal. That's how men feel about sex with beautiful women ALL THE TIME. We desire it more than almost anything because we're programmed that way. The same way you're programmed not to care about his age as long as he provides resources and a…
/r/seduction21/09/10 07:56 PM
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Important tip: Do not open her like she's a HB9-10 even if she is. If she is shy, she probably has some self esteem issues. Go easy on the negs.
/r/seduction20/09/10 05:41 AM
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Ouch. Masturbation as beta male behavior. I'd like to think that isn't true. Unfortunately, you're right.
/r/seduction19/09/10 06:48 PM
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As long as there isn't counter-evidence, I don't see anything wrong with this. Garbage studies are used as reference all the time to support good and bad ideas. I think the OP's suggestion stands on its own merrit, but people like references, so...whatever works, man.
/r/seduction19/09/10 06:46 PM
1

Why do you want to spend time with people like that? Just move on, there are other, willing girls.
/r/seduction19/09/10 02:57 AM
3

What's worked for me in the past is to bring out a nice business card of mine, and rip it in half. You write your private number on one half and then ask for hers and hand her the other half. I'm at 100% with this one. I think Style came up with it.
/r/seduction18/09/10 04:32 AM
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That AMA teaches us a lot about fucked up female psychology, but nothing about why we should keep in the game. The previous guy wasn't a PUA, he was a sadistic, abusive jerk that found a victim. A PUA should always try to improve the lives of the women he seduces. It seems like you're suggesting we should be more like the abusive dude because it's cool to have women obsess over you. A mentally healthy woman would be more into the second guy, and wouldn't think twice about some guy who should be …
/r/seduction17/09/10 01:37 AM
1

Why would anyone come here to talk about seducing 4's and 5's? The HB scale is subjective, you're supposed to calibrate your technique to accommodate your own internal state of physiological arousal, that's why it's there. In other words, when someone says HB10, they're either lying, have bad taste, or they mean to say "This girl would be REALLY intimidating based on her looks alone."
/r/seduction16/09/10 07:16 PM
2

At the risk of sounding dumb here, what exactly is a festival? The only one I know of is Chanukah, the festival of lights, and possibly Festivus. Oh, and Sundance. But you seem to be talking about something more general, can you please explain?
/r/seduction14/09/10 08:43 PM
1

You don't have to do shit, but your drunk friend should be allowed to take care of business. This is the same guy upon who's cheek you sharpied a penis, and you won't let him do a fat chick? There's something wrong with that.
/r/seduction23/01/10 08:16 PM
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Dude, fat chicks need love too. They're also more likely to be disease free. Let it roll.
/r/seduction23/01/10 09:18 AM
3

Club soda with a lime in it works great. Makes you not look like such a cheap asshole. Nothing against drinking, just don't drink and sarge.
/r/seduction22/01/10 10:48 PM
2

Well, Jack Burton was followed around because it was written into the script that way. I don't really think he's a role model, unless you want to screw up all the time, then get lucky and take all the credit.
/r/seduction06/01/10 07:14 PM
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LOL. My bad. Well, technically, mental sickness is created in the mind. Unless its caused by a worm or something. Then it's created in an egg, but later moves to the mind. And by mind, I mead brain. I feel dumber the longer I spend discussing this weirdo.
/r/seduction03/01/10 06:50 AM
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First, and most obviously, condoms help prevent STDs, like AIDS, so this lady is actually harming humanity with her nonsense. Moving on... She's trying to make an interesting point, I think, but is too stupid to get there. I will make the argument for her, Devil's advocate style. From an evolutionary perspective, a condom is not advantageous to a woman's survival in cases of consensual sex. In a sexual encounter, men are looking for sex, and women are looking for resources, to take care of them …
/r/seduction01/01/10 09:53 PM
3

You should check out "The last lecture." To summarize, the obstacles you have encountered are there for a reason. You either endure, or you quit. How important is the game to you? There is no right answer, just do what makes you happy. Personally, I'd stick to it, it sounds like there is real change going on in your life, and the people close to you are holding you back.
/r/seduction18/12/09 08:42 AM
2

Jewish American Princesses. You may have heard this co-opted as BAPS (Black American Princesses), but as far as I know, JAPS has been around much longer. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jewish-American_princess. I am Jewish (well, I'm an atheist, but you know...) and this is a very mild pejorative as far as I know. It was used, for example, on "the Nanny."
/r/seduction10/12/09 02:45 PM
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Uh...yeah, bitter indeed. There are still places on this planet where outer beauty isn't everything. We get a little skewed living in LA/NY where this is pretty true, but, there are lots of other kinds of women. Plenty of ugly ducklings out there that were dorky kids, but hot women. I think this post only holds true of women raised in an environment where they were considered beautiful and where beauty was the only important thing. Spoiled Russian/Persian girls and JAPS, former child beauty page…
/r/seduction09/12/09 11:56 PM
2

Did you just call me a male apologist? You have no idea who you're talking to. I'm going to digress from that and address the topic. A great PUA should be elevating everyone when he is through IMO. You can push kino, but if you pass the line and creep everyone out, you are failing BIG TIME. If you can't hook, and you leave, people should be left with a good impression, if you're doing it right. Lots of women do want forceful sex, or have rape fantasies, but if you concede to those perceived fant…
/r/seduction04/12/09 07:31 PM
0

Oh dear. Take it easy fellas, no means no. Okay, if you're an AFC you're probably not progressing kino hard enough, but don't be a rapist. kthanksbye.
/r/seduction03/12/09 11:44 PM
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Now that you have secured the number, you can safely have sex with the number. Just kidding, listen to sshields. This is assuming you have anxiety about phone game, which isn't as universal as, say, approach anxiety. One more thing. When you ask her out, make sure to frame it as though she is joining your plans, not the other way around. Like "I'm going to see this awesome local band, you can tag along if you want," instead of "Why don't I pick you up and take you to see this local band." You ha…
/r/seduction01/12/09 11:13 PM
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Some would say as soon as you actually know and USE a method to pick up a girl, you're no longer an AFC. It really should be defined internally though, but if you don't feel like a chump, you're probably not a chump. MPUA status is 5/5 closes. That's Mystery's definition.
/r/seduction18/11/09 09:01 PM
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It is not irrelevant, don't play dumb, he wants to hit on this lady. It's not appropriate to hit on someone if you're married AND have a child because the child is more important than your sexual desires. Since he's single, it changes the frame of the question. I don't think its a good idea to chase tail with your kid around, but there is no reason not to casually flirt with some lady.
/r/seduction17/11/09 10:22 PM
2

It's weird how no one asks if you're married. I think it would matter very much toward the answer to your question.
/r/seduction16/11/09 06:54 AM
2

Alpha versus beta are expressly over-simplifications of male stereotypes used to teach people new to the community how to visualize themselves and their actions. It's just a model, no need to rant about how it's inaccurate if it is helpful.
/r/seduction13/11/09 10:05 PM
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Obviously. The girl is attracted to this guy for his looks, not his game. "You're the ugliest girl in the club" is not a neg, this guy was just a cunt who bulldozed a girl that was into him already before he spoke.
/r/seduction13/11/09 07:08 PM
3

More than sleeping with a bunch of girls, achieving a sense of empowerment, as a man. Knowing how to meet and seduce women changes your whole life when you're used to feeling afraid of women, and thinking that you're not good enough to approach them.
/r/seduction13/11/09 06:47 PM
2

The attraction forums. If you can use google, you can find what you're looking for.
/r/seduction08/09/09 08:03 PM
3

This is the dark side of pick up. Don't be that guy, it's way skeezy.
/r/seduction31/08/09 05:55 PM
1

This is interesting just like astrology is interesting: I don't believe in either. Here are the foods that arouse a woman: 1) Alcohol 2) Expensive foods 3) Expensive alcohol
/r/seduction28/08/09 09:09 PM
2

This is great news. I want you to really pay attention to what I'm about to say. No one in history has ever found a peak state of success because they were mildly uncomfortable. The real winners out there hit rock bottom and bounce high. You sound like you're really depressed, and it would be responsible to encourage you to see a therapist, but there is more you can do. First, it is awesome that you own everything in this post and take credit for your failures. If you understand that you are cau…
/r/seduction28/08/09 08:52 PM
2

1) Ask 2) Is it worth going to jail? If not, sleep with someone else instead and don't worry about it.
/r/seduction28/08/09 08:46 PM
2

I'm resisting the urge to just type: offer food/government aid. That would be insensitive. Pick up is pick up, play the game, not the girl.
/r/seduction24/08/09 08:54 PM
1

U:What's the name of that song? HB: that's XYZ U: Thank you! It was on the tip of my tongue! Hey did you see the fight outside? Or whatever other opener you use. The fight one has been played out IMO, but you get the drift.
/r/seduction24/08/09 08:17 PM
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I think it works great without the DQ if you say it just right. Make sure you say it very assertively and don't let your voice go up. Also, you'd better know a little about women's fashion if you're going to open with this, or at least have a good transition.
/r/seduction24/08/09 08:14 PM
1

In order to be useful, a theory must do two things: Explain the past and predict the future. We trust Mystery because we know he's done the legwork, which is the past. His theories are confirmed by followers all the time, which is the (then) future. This article seems to be just opinion, so we don't know if it is useful or not. I'll tell you what though, I certainly don't want to sleep with EVERY woman. I have plenty of female friends and I'd only sleep with, around 30% of them. It doesn't mean …
/r/seduction24/08/09 08:06 PM
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