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He's 100% lying to you and continuing to watch porn, and that's incredibly disrespectful to you. You need to dump him and block him from your contacts and social media so he can't keep pulling you back in while treating you this way. Giving him another chance isn't a kindness to him, it's just a detriment to you. He is learning right now that he can treat you with lies and disrespect and get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:32 AM
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The reason Exodus Cry exists is because it isn't "consensual, adult media-making". Pornhub, and really it's whole parent company Mindgeek has a massive child porn problem. And not just child porn. Revenge porn, real rape videos, videos where the age and consent of the participants is unverified, extreme violence, ect. Just look at some of the lawsuits surrounding the biggest porn corporations in the world - it's heartbreaking. People who mindlessly defend porn companies must really be building s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:26 PM
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When people are consistently late to appointments with you (dinner, being picked up from school, never on time), it's as if they're stealing your time. This is incredibly frustrating and demoralizing. Good job for blocking him! Now he won't have the opportunity to steal your time in the future, and you can spend time with people who do prioritize you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:02 PM
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It's interesting she says that younger women need to be taught by older women while teaching the things that she does. I think this woman just wants patriarchal sanctioned power over other women. There's clearly some sort of control thing going on with her. She gets to guilt women into destroying their lives through religious coercion all while acting like she's just doing some ~womanly submissive honor~ to make other women as miserable as she is. Anyone else sense crabs in a bucket?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:46 PM
31

He's the immature one, good on you for staying strong and avoiding misery with that leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:28 PM
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Good on you for standing up for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:27 PM
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I am in agreement with providing women with what you listed above to assist them in leaving prostitution. I am also for removing legal legitimacy given to men who would buy and sell women for sex, which acts as a shield against those very women seeking justice in a formal court. Both can be done at once. The Nordic model, pioneered in Sweden after years of research into prostitution and trafficking, holds male buyers and sellers of women accountable legally, while providing women with housing, j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:25 AM
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Surrogacy is reproductive prostitution. It is always poor women with very little choices who end up entering surrogacy and endure rich couples paying to use their bodies like incubators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:33 AM
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I think many men are quite good at reading their partner. They just don't care about her. They only care what she can do for them. They use their readings of their partner to keep her stuck with them, make sure she never gets too fed up and leave and dry them of their supply of labor and sex. Keeping her in the dark about their activities, and guilting her for being miserable with them. Then they draw her back in with sweet words and a superficial attitude change. Claiming ignorance is usually j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:17 AM
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He said that because he wanted her to hit him so he could beat her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:09 AM
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You could write about boundary setting and saying no to people, even people who seem nice or innocuous, and how that isn't 'rude' or cold to do, but necessary. You could also write about the intense pressure directed at girls to be perfect looking, pornified, and model-like, and how that damages self esteem and distracts us from our talents and intelligence. I've never done anything like a comic before, so I don't know how useful these ideas are, but I hope this helps! Edit: I just wanted to add…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:44 PM
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He's unbelievably selfish. He's just using her as a fleshlight and is annoyed that she can't pay to be used anymore. He wants to give her nothing at all and expect her to be happy that way, what an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:50 AM
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This is incredibly helpful and a great resource, thank you for writing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 11:00 PM
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He sounds horrific, I hope you're able to leave easily and without trouble from him, you don't deserve his garbage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:15 PM
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Oh my god, a scrote trying to force legal consequences on a woman for not sleeping with him is some hardline r*pe rhetoric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:21 PM
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This is a really helpful post for putting things into perspective. Thank you for writing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:00 PM
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Building things and putting together furniture is really satisfying. I always admire female artisans and builders who can create pieces out of raw materials, cool stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:42 AM
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Such a horrific, sexist, rejection of justice in favor of destroying the victim. I hope this woman doesn't spend her life locked away for a man's crime against her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:39 AM
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If you are completely dependent on a man, it can be very difficult to set boundaries or make requests of him. Especially if he is LV. Financial independence is a basic but crucial safety net when dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:34 AM
8

Rapist admits he doesn't care about the suffering of prostituted women he buys when he can just buy their silence and compliance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:49 PM
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I have a couple of choice words for his report card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:57 AM
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Bellesa is owned by parent company Mindgeek, which also owns pornhub. Pornhub recently faced severe legal trouble for knowingly hosting real rape videos, revenge porn, and child porn on their site. Bellesa may look more benign on the surface, but any porn site connected to Mindgeek should raise serious eyebrows. Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:40 AM
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There is a huge difference between segregation and separatism. Segregation is the work of the oppressor class, in which the oppressed class is barred from oppressor's resources and spaces. Separatism is the work of the oppressed class. In which they create a new space for themselves away from the oppressor class. The power dynamics are completely different. Men, the oppressor class, whining about women seeking safety and comfort in a space of our own, is eyeroll inducing. Especially when you con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:36 AM
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Men love the idea of two women who wouldn't want anything to do with them in real life performing sexually in lesbian porn, because that's a form of ownership. But they hate lesbians in real life, because they don't live their lives for men. The lack of control, of knowing there are women out there who want nothing sexual with them at all because they aren't even attracted to men is infuriating for them. Female independence from men at all is threatening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:04 AM
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Weaponizing women's reproductive capabilities against us is one of the most effective ways of controlling and dominating women as a class, and men know it. Just think of all the stories on this sub about scrotes trying to baby trap women so they feel trapped in the relationship. When the pill was invented it changed everything. Women could suddenly have a job and wouldn't be forced down the motherhood path for the rest of their lives. It gave us options. These laws are blatantly trying to take u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:31 AM
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So did I :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:54 PM
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This is incredible and you are a goddess, thank you for helping these women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:19 PM
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Part of the reason youth is worshipped is control. A younger, less experienced, more naive and trusting woman is easy to control than an older one who's been around the block before. It's ownership of a woman who is less likely to stand up to scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:53 PM
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Men who say rape is "worse when it happens to a man" believe that men have more humanity and dignity to be violated by being raped. They don't think it's as bad when it happens to a woman because they believe, on some level, that rape happening to a woman is more 'natural' than rape happening to a man. They don't think of women as whole people with the level of humanity a man has, so a 'lesser' is being violated. Not a 'greater'. This dynamic makes it incredibly easy to dismiss that most women a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:56 PM
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I wouldn't even bat an eye at a man who doesn't hate porn at least as much as I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:27 PM
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There is genuinely something hilarious about all the scrotes who say degrading things about women's genitals like roast beef or whatever actually permanently damaging their dicks because they can't keep their hand out of their pants. They can lie about their porn addictions all they like but their broken shrimp dicks can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:49 PM
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https://jezebel.com/how-to-kick-a-guy-in-the-balls-an-illustrated-guide-1657810297 I wish I could be more helpful to you, but I would recommend practicing a well aimed ball kick. In my self defense class, my instructor pointed out that the eyes are one of the weakest points of the body. If you happen to find yourself in physical conflict with him again, consider poking or injuring them, if you can. I don't know if it's legal to own or carry pepper spray/gel in your country, but it can be helpful…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:25 AM
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Maybe he'd feel better if he started an only fans :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:03 AM
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Countries that completely legalize pimping, sex buying, and brothel owning have astronomically higher rates of sex trafficking/slavery than countries who don't. When you 100% decriminalize prostitution, droves are women aren't necessarily lining up to be prostitutes. However, droves of men do line up to buy and sell women because no laws are stopping them anymore. To fill the gap between supply and demand, women and girls are trafficked into the sex trade. Even countries that try to provide 'ben…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:04 PM
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Your mom sounds amazing, you're so lucky to have her <3. Thank you for sharing such a sweet post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:56 PM
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I for one, cannot wait to be a single, multi-cat lady living in an ocean side villa all by myself because I spritzed myself daily with Smucker's Anti-Scrote SprayTM and focused on a career instead of settling for dollhouse with a lazy, entitlement husk of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:12 AM
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A pedestal can be as much of a cage as debasement. And men do not have a monopoly on the full range of human expression/behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:04 PM
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Pornography websites profit enormously from children visiting the site. Even better if they become addicted while young and malleable, then they will bring clicks and money in for many years to come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:34 AM
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I think journaling may be a good way to manage your emotions and put your feelings into the context of your relationship. By writing everything down, you might be able to make better sense of what happened, why your bf is making you feel this way, and vent some of that energy out of you, so you don't turn that pain against yourself. I hope you get through this and find the space to heal, you're on the path to greener grass sister <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:39 AM
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Exactly! They want women complacent and comfortable in our cage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:05 AM
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The male moderators of the 'feminism' subs are not interested in vetting to keep content feminist. They are vetting to make sure it doesn't become feminist. If any of the users share ideas of opinions that threaten male power, or are part of subs that do (like fds), they swiftly and fearfully ban you. Can't have women developing class consciousness....nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:01 AM
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Things that have been genuinely caring towards myself are: 1: limiting social media 2: spending time outside, like riding my bike or going on walks 3: doing that thing I keep procrastinating to finally get it off my plate 4: going all out in the kitchen, making great comfort foods and lattés. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:11 PM
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The overwhelming majority of prostituted women and girls killed are murdered by the very men who buy them. Radical feminists aren't going out into the world killing prostitutes. Men are. The same men who scream that feminist women who care about enslaved and raped women are 'discriminating' against them for not letting them 'work' are the very group of men who will go on to torture and kill those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:55 PM
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Yelling over mild inconveniences, yelling slurs over gaming microphones, punching holes in walls...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:25 AM
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Women and girls are groomed through social media and pornography to work against our interests and put ourselves on the chopping block for male sexual pleasure and entitlement. If men had any semblance of care or respect for us, they wouldn't even ask for nudes. The MAJORITY get sent to his friends, posted on porn sites, or never deleted. Even if you want them to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:05 AM
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My mom got pregnant with me when she was 40, the fear-mongering bioclock nonsense is just garbage to scare women into settling for dusty scrotes early in their lives if they want kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:08 PM
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This reminds me of something I read once that said men are more attracted to femininity than women themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:22 PM
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Men will dish out small, cruel comforts if you display enough submissiveness or obedience, but that isn’t respect. It’s just rewarding behavior that benefits them exclusively, regardless how it affects you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:42 PM
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I think I remember reading about that some time ago. The thought of it still breaks my heart for that poor woman. Male depravity is limitless and abundant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:08 AM
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I don’t want a single man within a 10 foot radius of my body when I die, there are an infuriating amount of cases of men raping and defiling the bodies of dead women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:29 AM
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This lazy scrote blows 30k so he pimps out his wife to cover his failure. Evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:24 AM
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He wanted a state provided, free underclass of women to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:58 PM
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Apathy and total indifference indicates a lack of control the man has over you, which is why men go apeshit to get attention when they feel you don't care about them. Owning your time and attention is just another form of owning *you* to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:54 PM
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I really think I've seen all the male depravity there is sometimes, but every single time a man references or jokes about prostituted women a little piece of my soul dies. Actual human women who are sold into sex slavery, and most men find nothing wrong with it or think it amusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:42 AM
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'The husband stitch' as it's infamously known as, has been known to cause long term complications and extreme pain for the women whom doctor's and husbands inflict it on. There are many cases of women not even being asked or informed about it before a doctor does it to them, sometimes they even ask the husband but not the woman herself, and she may never know until she's suffering for it. It's torturously cruel and an enormous violation of autonomy and informed consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:19 PM
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In countries that legalize pimping and prostitution, rates of sex trafficking/sex slavery skyrocket. This is because legalization exponentially increases demand for prostituted women, as men no longer risk facing legal consequences for seeking them out. However, the 'supply' of women willing to subject themselves to prostitution does not necessarily increase with legalization. So to fill the gap, pimps take it upon themselves to traffic poor women into the sex slave trade. In Germany, New Zealan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:16 PM
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Any place or man that offers free drinks has a vested interest in getting women inebriated, not getting to know her, not offering her some fun. Always ask: Who benefits from that? The woman who's not having fun and is stuck with a hangover? or worse? Or the men circling her like vultures, waiting until her guard is lowered. An easy way to tell what a man's intensions are in these places is if he offers to buy you a drink, ask him to buy you something non alcoholic instead. If he gets pissy or su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:38 AM
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Men are so, so violent towards prostituted women. The entitlement that literally being able to buy a woman’s body breeds is terrifying. Pure evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:58 PM
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Every time I have the displeasure of reading scrote horse shit I just imagine the guy going off in a really high pitched Alvin and the Chipmunks-esque voice and it makes the whole thing somewhat bearable and funny. This one def gave me a laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:57 AM
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This literally is rape, a drunk woman cannot consent to sex. Men know this, ask a guy if he'd be alright with another man screwing him when he's drunk or inebriated in any way, it's crystal clear that this is rape and not ethical by any stretch. This argument that men make purely defends rapists and no one else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:46 PM
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Men hate fds because it gives women strategies and a platform to discuss our lives from an actual feminist standpoint, not a pseudo feminist libfem bootlicker stance, which is what men are used to nowadays. And any talk of actual feminism scares men, because they’re terrified of losing control over us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:52 PM
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This hateful, sexist, deranged loser should just suck his own dick if he's so angry over a woman not doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:15 PM
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In a strange, counter-intuitive kind of way, it's almost encouraging to see the depravity men sink to out of terror filled attempts to seize back power over us. It's like 'oh shit we're doing the right thing! He's desperate! And scared! This is where the patriarchal weak point must be.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:33 AM
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He literally thinks we’re porn animals. You have to wonder if we’re “just animals” according to him, and he was born from a woman....what exactly does that make him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:52 PM
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The actual audacity of this pompous controlling scrote bag deciding with other men in his church that his wife - who wasn't even there- would quit her job and become an obedient submissive house wife on his orders is incredible if not infuriating. I grew up in a religious environment and I actually know people who think shit like this is okay, I'm afraid this isn't even just a jehovah's witness or mormon thing, it's just a religious male thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:12 PM
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He's a monster who leeched off her body and heart for more than half her life. He used her to keep his d**k wet while he found someone else and dumped her and their 3 children to the wolves with a measly 15k. He's truly pathetic for abandoning them like that knowing his wife has no job training AND demanding half the money when she sells the house. What an absolute parasite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:20 AM
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I 100% percent believe that she's a hell of a lot smarter than he says she is and has more interests than just 'reality tv' but this smooth brained jackass just wanted to have his own personal pornstar and can't be bothered to get to know his wife as an actual person. Before and during marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:28 AM
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I relate hard to this. My dad was abusive, narcissistic, and had an explosive temper growing up. Hearing him walking or coming up the stairs was enough to make me freeze and fight off adrenaline. When my mom finally got rid of him I was shocked at how quiet and peaceful the house had become. Nowadays the sound of any man, especially in our house, is off putting and anxiety inducing. Even my cat is afraid of men, she always bristles and runs at the sound of them. I'm sorry you're living in fear r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:47 AM
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About the dentist thing, I had a male dentist who lied to me about being willing to accommodate my needle phobia somewhat by putting a numbing cream on my arm before sticking the IV in. That’s literally all I asked him for, just a numbing cream and 10 minutes to let it activate. And he promised me he’d do it. Well morning of the surgery, as soon as the IV was ready he had his assistants hold my arm and shoulders down so I couldn’t squirm and stuck it in anyways. Fucking ouch. Contrast this to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:46 PM
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Laws that target the men who buy and sell women and children who are sold in prostitution and offer services to help them exit the sex trade are often most effective at curbing prostitution, Such as the nordic model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:41 AM
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The voice in his head is male socialization and the ghost of sexist conditioning informing him that whatever empathy, guilt, care, and critical thinking he may be starting to feel in regards to women he needs to shove back down because we aren't really people. We're porn animals, decorations, and servants that exist to please men. Our brains pick up millions of signals and cues from our environment to form a picture of the world when we aren't even actively thinking about it. Advertisements, mus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:09 AM
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After my mom left my abusive, narcissistic father, her business practically doubled in size, she was much happier and relaxed, and she's now remarried to a HVM who lives on a farm, fulfilling her lifelong dream of raising chickens. Her only regret is that she didn't leave him sooner. You've got this! It's a big and possibly scary step, but you have a world of potential and happiness waiting for you! You're a queen and your kingdom awaits! <3 <3 <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:57 AM
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This 100%. You'll also notice that this never leads people to believe that men should take up the majority of childcare since they get such good results *eyeroll* . All the hard work is still put on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:15 PM
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This is horrifying and that boss is an abusive evil piece of shit. I’m so sorry you had to suffer working under him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:06 AM
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Good on you for leaving! If he won’t value your time and attention then you have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:04 PM
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These propaganda pictures really drive home that men knew women were treated like garbage, because their big fear mongering tactic was whining how men would be forced into the 'womanly' role, and how unfair and evil that would be. They just didn't (and still don't) care when women suffer the short end of sexist socialization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:59 AM
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He's readily and eagerly displaying how controlling he is. Complete lack of empathy for his wife who needs to use the bathroom frequently because she's PREGNANT with their child. This awful, shitty behavior is only going to get worse and worse as the marriage goes on. I hope she leaves him sooner rather than later. Edit: He also could have spent the energy he wasted on this nonsense to just buy a damn bidet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:54 PM
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