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It's a relief to hear you're young like me because we can pick up on these signs and find someone worthwhile eventually. Just realize you've known her for so long, think about the women out there you haven't even met yet that might be more compatible and in tune with your principles. I'm 23 for context. My ex was talking to this one dude more and more (and petty lying) and I utilized my RP knowledge to end things then and there. It was rough, but it was all worth it for what today offers me. I w…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:57 PM
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99% of guys here who had 5+ year LTRs are out of them and were probably burned badly, so this is the advice you're gonna get. There's another sub directed towards long LTR/married RP which could have what you're looking for. Someone else might be able to link it. I mean it sounds like you know the answers/red flags. If she can't be transparent about what's on her phone that's fucked up. A girl I was dating going on 3 years was guarding her phone and lied about something petty on Insta and it wen…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:36 PM
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Wow I gotta brush up on my Hindi. It helps being fair skinned in America, I can tell you that for sure, when getting with other Indian girls. They usually think I'm gore or mixed But a lot of the best guys I know running game on Indian girls aren't all fair. Don't get hung up on it too much. Can't help you on the immigration, I'm blessed my parents came to the US. I never spent a lot of time in the homeland, so I am not an expert. But besides culture shock, socially, professionally etc. everythi…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:40 PM
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Yeah that's what got me. I had no idea he had started dating her. Worst part was getting banned from my one of my favorite bars.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:32 PM
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Or worse. I used to not care about the sap getting cucked until some girl's boyfriend blindsided me at a bar. Now I like to avoid it.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:52 PM
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I had a consultation and my teeth are pretty straight but I have an irregular shape on my top four center teeth. But you’re right, I’d have to get the rest whitened to match. That’s good to hear they’re going strong
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:44 PM
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Any issues with biting down or cracking them? I'm thinking of getting four lumineers or veneers
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:49 PM
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Yeah it makes all the difference. I wasn't that close with those guys until we lived together, it was pretty spontaneous. I still connect with them every now and then after school, but I met a lot of close friends through them.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:47 PM
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Instead of trying to find people you can be friends with individually, find something you're interested in and meet people like that. Intramural sports, clubs, study groups, all help you meet new friends. Also, if you are actually extroverted and sociable, consider rushing a frat. I know plenty of guys who were by themselves pretty much until they rushed. Even ones without bids met plenty of people. If your university doesn't have any of those options, just keep an open mind. College is long tho…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:21 PM
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Calories in, calories out. All the other ectomorph, metabolism etc is bullshit unless you a have a legit thyroid issue.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:55 PM
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You wouldn't know what a lot of IOIs are until you start practicing more. Now you know when a girl looks twice she's probably interested. So it's a case of not knowing what to even look for. A lack of confidence will also make you oblivious because you would think "nah this girl can't be into me, it's a coincidence she keeps inching closer to me."
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:49 PM
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Because they moved on girls as soon as they had an IOI, and unabashedly put themselves out there, instead of performing reconnaissance missions on their mind. edit-- I met a girl a few weeks ago (21 y/o) that didn't seem like she was into even holding a conversation with a guy (where 99% of beta male population will quit before even beginning). Saw her start getting chatty at the bar and made a move in. I broke that layer away piece by piece and she's by far the biggest freak I've had sex with. …
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:50 PM
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You shouldn't be ashamed of the fact that you're broke right now. I managed an LTR for a little while in college but it was a pain in the ass, even though we went 50/50 and we were both understanding of our low funds. Things went sideways and we broke up and I fully realize part of it was because I had no time/money at the time to keep going out. I could've worked some more, cut down my personal expenses, but that would make me miserable because I wouldn't be doing it for me. I'm much happier no…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:39 PM
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That always helps me. On cable rows and sometimes on DB rows I will also place my thumb on the same side as my other fingers, so it's literally like a hook instead of a grip.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:06 PM
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Great, appreciate it.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:12 PM
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How often are you sprinting? What does that routine look like? I’m trying to incorporate it more, I’ve mainly been doing long distance.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:44 PM
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I only run about 2-3 miles a few times a week along with lifting. I used to run more but I cut it back so I could bulk more easily but maintain my stamina. I would say they have their own separate benefits, but I always try to do moderate cardio. I just want to give my lungs/heart exercise while I focus on getting bigger.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:48 PM
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I'll deviate from others, can't believe there's three straight comments telling you to have no friends. Die alone with no one to trust if you wish, that's not the point of TRP. I have a solid group of 4-5 guy friends and a few of them don't like to hear about other people's successes like you're experiencing. But if these are your boys, and they're there for you in other situations, who gives a fuck? People are envious at their core. You go on LinkedIn and see some self-help guru raking in milli…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:41 PM
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Welcome to the world of women. Do what feels right for you, if you don't wanna fuck a thot then someone else well. She probably wanted to keep you in orbit or branch swing anyways. I told her I don't want to be friends with anyone I'm romantically interested in Just don't say that ever again
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:18 PM
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Overthinking. You have something to do? Then reject. If you're free then tell her you'll let her know and just push it to a time that works for you.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:14 PM
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It's always better to focus on yourself. But at the same time I just left college and everything is much dryer in the real world. I had an easy major so I had a lot of time to chase hoes. If you're still on campus you should take advantage of that. There's pussy at every corner, lmao I wish I could go back. I know dudes that juggled much harder course loads who pulled every weekend. It's not "going out of your way" if you're going out to bars, parties, etc and booking numbers and setting up plat…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:44 PM
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Wake up lights help me. My room gets bright af at 730AM and I'm forced to get up, it actually makes things easier
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:40 PM
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Lol I have a similar voice (unless yours is truly, really goofy sounding). Very low and naturally devoid of emotion. I used to get called out a lot for being monotone and now girls love my voice over the phone. Trying to change my inflection or tone didn't work (I did tweak it a little). I let it work for me now. I speak with my chest more which makes my voice carry across the room. If I'm in an interview for example, I speak slowly and people concentrate on my words more. Deep + slow, carefully…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:01 PM
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If there's some sort of history, or if you've met/talked in person, there's probably some chance she'll reach out. But the way you should handle it would be the same. Like u/redepicw said, there's nothing much you can do in this situation.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:05 PM
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I need to bag this You already lost. If you're not getting a response back then move on. With this limited info you got curved directly not indirectly, so spend your time gaming other girls and if this comes around it comes around.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 07:45 PM
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Cmon man there's no secret way to do it. Plenty of people pay rent and school at the same time. It's not easy, you might have to take less classes, delay your start date, whatever. But it's possible. At a high level look for jobs that relate to the career you want, but right now you should take anything you can find.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 07:39 PM
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It's textbook oneitis. Your mood outside of your LTR should be undisturbed by the happenings of the LTR. If you built a life you love, you wouldn't care if you're spending time apart from her. It's normal to miss someone, it's not normal to let it affect your day-to-day.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:51 PM
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Got it, that's definitely just in your head my man. You don't have to hold eye contact intensely like a serial killer, but you also don't want to avoid it. I think with practice it'll feel more natural. I had a similar problem but it's been better over time, it can be directly related to confidence when talking to a hot girl. After a while you won't be thinking about eye contact There's no real cure because every conversation is different and you have to be able to go with the flow. Look at her …
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:37 PM
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You should go over there and talk lmao. Don't play footsies with eye contact. If I notice a girl's looked over at me twice, and I want to approach her, I head over. Looking at you repeatedly is a hot girl's way of shooting their shot 9/10.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:29 PM
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UK?
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:26 PM
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A man of the world. That sounds awesome. I'm working to achieve these levels of confidence
/r/askTRP11/11/19 10:03 PM
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How I picked up this girl in question (X) is a decent example. Had a pregame at a hotel with my boys, we invited a group of girls we know and they brought some friends incl X. I kept my options wide open but I fucked with X. Ran basic game (i.e. didn't give her too much attention, entertained everybody else + the other girls, would spit game on her occasionally, tease her). Would completely ignore her and then turn around and have her take a shot with me. I sensed IOIs. Once we made it to the ba…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:57 PM
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Not gonna sit here and lie and say my game is impeccable, it's above average at best. My looks help me the most. I have a naturally monotone demeanor that is somehow attractive. I really don't fucking know man edit- also college is game on rookie mode
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:34 PM
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Yeah that's why she's into it. Can't lie it sounds hot. I've done it on a secluded beach but yeah dressing rooms, parks, etc. sound like the best move
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:26 PM
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Thanks, great suggestions. I'll keep the hammock one in mind for sure
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:25 PM
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college. it was definitely a humble brag but more so that I never realized how vanilla the sex always was
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:24 PM
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Yessir. Things were way too easy when I was still on campus so I’m adapting to post grad life. Being apart of the real world made me drop my pride in almost every facet of life which I’m thankful for. Thanks again my man
/r/askTRP04/11/19 10:23 PM
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Just wanna say I appreciate your replies above, you gave it to me straight. I didn’t leave anything out, I think you’re right and the main thing was not hitting her back for a month. Not anything I’ll lose sleep over but I shouldn’t have been surprised it went this way. Will tweak this moving forward
/r/askTRP04/11/19 10:10 PM
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Yeah, as in she texted me saying she doesn’t want anything serious even though I’ve never indicated or said that I did. So I followed up by saying I’m not into anything serious. My bad for a convoluted telling of events, wasn’t expecting a lot of replies originally. I removed that part for clarity
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:49 PM
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Poor wording. I suppose I was asking how I could leave the door open down the line. But even then you’re right, if I’m truly just focused on myself it doesn’t matter.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:48 PM
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It's definitely a little column A and column B. On the one hand, after our first fuck sesh we got breakfast. The next few times she tried to hang again the next day but I bounced early/had things going on. Like you said, this would have stretched things out but it would've came to and end all the same. Thanks for the replies and advice.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:11 PM
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Probably a dumb question then, but what if hypothetically I was trying to make her a main plate in this situation. She wasn't of that quality, but just a question. Main plate being a girl I was fucking but also taking out and spending slightly more quality time with then another girl. You would set that tone early right? Is that equally unsustainable? Just not recommended?
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:54 PM
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That's a valid question. To be honest I thought I could keep getting lays out of it. But yeah, it ran its course.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:42 PM
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Being disconnected from the college community made me forget that she's got literally thousands of options. Soft next is the plan for sure. The reason I think saying that was a bad response, is because it was at its best when it was unspoken that I was just there to fuck her. She was cool with that but once I gave up even a little frame and practically said I liked her it went sideways.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:15 PM
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That's a level of game that I hadn't experienced. I should've realized it was not actually a comfort test to keep me around, but that she was actually seeing through me the whole time. Appreciate that insight.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:14 PM
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I plan my days Sunday since everything is pretty predictable rn. And then roll with the punches
/r/askTRP26/10/19 04:20 PM
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Hey man I was born in a similar position albeit probably less wealthy, but comfortable. I had to go through the gutters before I could really shape myself into a man (still growing everyday). I partied a bit too hard early on and it set me back, parents cut me off and I had to work to pay for my education. I changed my major and went through depression, self-doubt, hell I thought I wasn't good enough to achieve anything except the bare minimum. Taught me more than anything else ever has and I'm …
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:58 PM
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The theme of the pics are good but the vibe is off. I have one of myself dressed up with my boys at a wedding, one on vacation with girls, and a solo pic. Literal studies have shown you want a pic with your squad and not so many solo ones. Also no need to have so many pics imo
/r/askTRP21/10/19 03:12 PM
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Yeah but shit changes all the time. Like above said women don't communicate like men and need a nudge to confirm plans. It's not needy, it's just being logistically sound
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:45 PM
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Yeah, you should confirm moving forward. You took the lead with inviting her out so she was probably expecting a heads up
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:00 PM
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Nah don’t think that your SMV peaks now, it does later as long as you keep making progress. What I mean is in college practically anyone can get laid. As you get older it’s more finicky and you’re not consistently placed around horny, really good looking girls every single day of the week like you are in college. But I hear you, just keep practicing. It won’t necessarily click right away. First year I flirted like a moron. After I gained some confidence it all became more natural. Reading theory…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:22 AM
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Recently graduated from a huge state school. Always remember this is the easiest time in your life to get laid. I think the #1 thing that carried me above all else was my friend group/roommates. They all put down great game and could invite bad bitches to our moves. I grew my connections and SMV like this and had a rotation within a few months. I was also close with a lot of guys in fraternities. Closely tied with that is that I’m above average in looks. Now for social media, I’m with you. I don…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:33 AM
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Lmao yup.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:15 AM
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You just gotta get out there and meet/be with more girls to gain perspective. Sounds a lot like my ex, for the first few months I did think I lost out on a good thing until I realized girls that look just as good as her and are not as shitty are out there and into me. Your mind is literally just tricking you.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:12 PM
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I've been in your spot lol we all get tempted. But don't ever put stock in a girl where 1) you haven't hit yet and 2) it could mean sacrificing your friendships. Better to avoid it always.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:03 PM
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I don't fuck with a girl if there's a chance of blowback in the slightest. My guy friend relationships take utmost importance, especially when it comes to girls. If one of your good friends had a crush on a girl would you fuck her if she spread it open for you? RP might say to do it but good luck maintaining relationships if you behave that way. If you're truly able to game and get with girls then there's nothing special about this one. You probably want it more subconsciously because of the sit…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:54 PM
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I kept plates in an exclusive LTR, it isn't cool and I'm ashamed to admit it. It's weak and it lacks integrity. I'm equipped to carry that kind of guilt around but I realized that as fun as it is, you shouldn't be lying and the stress isn't worth it. I took a look around at guys who were doing the same thing and they look fucking lame. Dudes will cheat and get mad when their girl is just texting a coworker. That's hypocritical and small man frame. If you're committing to an LTR where everyone ex…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:48 PM
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I didn't live in a frat house so I'm sure your experience will be more wild but I lived with a couple friends in frats and I just had to spend a lot more time outside the apartment. A couple days ago you asked if you should join a frat? You just got a bid or what?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:28 PM
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Lol of course she's easing up bc you're taking longer to text back. You shouldn't be texting too much ahead of the date anyways, what you're doing right now is a good way to get flaked on. If a date is on Friday and it's Monday I'll be on my text game until mid-week and go radio silent until it's time to confirm Thurs night, that's worked best. You lead and she follows. edit- pretty much what's happening with you is the issue with trying to text before a date. Your situation is no big deal at al…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:19 PM
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If I were back in high school I'd get the best body possible and try to go to an even better college than I ended up at. I wouldn't even think about girls. Focus on yourself i.e. fitness, confidence, etc. Of course you're probably a horny fuck so like the other comment said, get out there and learn to get rejected. My brother is early 30s and he wishes he could get back to my age (early-mid 20s) to do the above. Always focus on yourself. Don't focus too hard on gaming theory until college becaus…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:14 PM
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My senior year was more relaxed compared to the other years. I had some catching up to do, definitely went out/reconnected with people but it was much less. Everybody I know who has a solid career now took it pretty easy their last year.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:11 PM
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Troll? But alright I see. I'll catch you on the news then Elliot
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:17 PM
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Your last paragraph is just wrong lmao. Why do you need her on your dick when you're not with her? Unless I'm missing something and you masturbate to girls double texting you.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:10 PM
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Two things that worked for me, but it takes discipline- I breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth real slow. Not obvious enough to look like a psychopath but you get it. I also remember that you can either be mad and let someone "win" by getting a reaction or you can let it go. Reflecting on the trigger and realizing you're carrying anger around are two really popular psych techniques; so good on you for using those. Working out more didn't help me or hurt me in regards to my tempe…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:41 PM
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Analysis paralysis is a form of anxiety; you can attack it head on though. Either you do or don't, right now you're stuck in limbo. It's up to you if you wanna keep thinking about doing things or actually doing them. It won't come to you, there's gonna be trial and error until you find what gets you out of bed. Best of luck. Can't find anything that would spark any joy for shit You haven't tried anything yet so of course you haven't found anything. Look man, I was like that for the entirety of 2…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:23 PM
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Break out of that mindset or you'll be going in circles for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:55 PM
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You really just gotta jump in with both feet. Once my paycheck hit my account I really didn't wanna spend that shit on anything, even hobbies. Also, unless you're confident about a business, have a business plan in place and everything, don't waste your money on something like e-commerce bullshit. Better off saving and going in on some real estate to learn how to operate an income-producing asset. I loved photography growing up but never wanted to spring for a Leica or anything. I kept thinking …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:54 PM
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Don't look at it as so transactional. You're young, focus on school and increasing SMV through working on yourself. Don't make the mistake of taking what people say here too literally at your age. I had girls I would just study with, sure there may be underlying attraction but you just prioritize in the moment. There were other girls I was actually fucking with all the while. When the semester was over, if I thought I could plate, I would ask to go out with her/my friends. If I didn't, who cares…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:02 PM
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Definitely the discipline. It's really rough because for me my only alone time is at night so my mind goes ape shit. I'm still breaking out of that so it takes time, best of luck.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:45 PM
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As for winding down exercises meditation helps but I was lacking discipline to do it regularly, I'm trying to incorporate it more. Progressive muscle relaxation was recommended to me and it's decent. The best advice I got was the most simple- waking up at the same exact time, every single day on the dot no matter what time I fell asleep. So if you fall asleep at 2am, don't snooze for even 5 minutes, wake up exactly at 7:30am for ex. That regulated my sleep schedule the best. If you're trying all…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:39 PM
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Then meditate without your phone? If you are actually able to meditate for an hour and can't fall asleep then something's wrong with your biological clock. You're either not doing something demanding enough during the day or medically you're having issues with anxiety. Also keep in mind beginners usually can't meditate for an hour let alone 5 minutes properly.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:30 PM
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Appreciate the response, that's a great way of looking at it that I didn't consider. Overall I'm happy with them as a friend group, they've opened many doors for me socially and we mostly agree on RP theory. I think the difference is they don't put it into practice and I should spend more time surrounding myself with those who are really hustling. Most of my friends in college were highly RP and of that attractive, successful, social echelon at least from what I could observe. After graduating I…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:06 PM
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I really don't think it's a monetary issue; she's not going to necessarily feel better about the situation or about you if you pay. Like the other comments say, honestly she's right and it's a personal problem you need to fix. I'd leave her alone and use the experience to learn and fix what's wrong.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:44 PM
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Exactly, especially that last bit. LTRs provided me with a case study into how women will operate and how they'll leave you. Made me a bit jaded (what about TRP doesn't) but I'm better off. On the other hand, I've known guys in one LTR for most or all of college. I can't say that they're better off for it, especially if they break up right after graduating.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:38 PM
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This is a good point but at the same time my LTRs at a young age taught me a lot about what I want from a woman. I'm sure if I had just been single I would've figured it out too but going through those motions and the resulting bullshit made me more confident in what I should expect. I'm still young but feel like I can better sniff out red flags etc.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:32 PM
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Drink less. At least you recognize you acted like an idiot. Coming from someone who had the same problem. I don't drink like that with girls anymore cause I can turn into a fucking mongoloid
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:27 PM
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In a similar spot so I'm curious to see the responses. I'm trying to get my younger cousin (living with me, attending a prep school) to be more involved cause he's a bit beaten down about being an int'l student. He's pretty popular (so his sister says) but he's got a lot of negative self-talk. Think I'm gonna make sure he's enrolled in a sport year-round as a priority, in addition to giving him rides to his friends and shit. edit- other comment makes a good point. I was BP until my senior year H…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 03:05 PM
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My understanding is that a hard next completely cuts them out, regardless of if you told them. Like just going ghost. Don't say hi even if you see each other out etc. That's how I'd describe what happened between me and that chick. I guess I'm fumbling the definition because I ended up talking to her again, albeit after a long time. A lot of people define hard next as cutting them off for good. Pretty much what you would do with an ex. Soft next would be ghost for a shorter period of time and yo…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:46 PM
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troll
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:00 PM
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I'd say unless you're top 20% (actually like top 10%) in looks and top 10% in money, status, etc, you're not gonna have really hot girls throw themselves at you. Even then they probably won't approach. They'll give looks as a way to invite you to talk to them. They'll hover around at the bar etc., at a maximum. Having sex is almost guaranteed if you lower standards to 6.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:13 PM
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I feel this 100%. I went hard after my LTR ended and it made that void bigger, effectively worked against me. Been feeling better these days where I literally have just like two girls I text/meet with when it works for me, and the rest of my time is with my boys, sports, work, reaching my short-term goals. Having much less sex but I feel a lot better now. I can spin more plates once I'm more comfortable mentally.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:04 PM
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You have close to a full month before you're free to meet up, I'd take it easy through text. Can always ramp it up once you're available. Focus on that exam for now, keep contact if you need to but don't even stress over that. That's how I'd handle it at least. I get that this is a vague solution but just keep it natural. I slid in DMs in a similar situation a few months ago and I was in your position, I couldn't meet up with her til about a month after I got her number. I kept it super light th…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:35 PM
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Half the time of the relationship is a decently accurate measure. But honestly it only helped once I started getting with more attractive women. Hooking up with average or less girls actually worsened my confidence and made me want her back more at the start. Once I realized I could do better I unlocked a different level
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:00 PM
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Yeah, my posture improves then and when I do back, specifically after rows. Going consistently has improved my posture in general. You're more mindful of putting your shoulders back during exercises like squats and rows, so it translates to walking around better later
/r/askTRP06/08/19 03:54 PM
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Yeah I gave a hard next and then had her back in rotation three years later lol
/r/askTRP06/08/19 03:20 PM
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I’m brown so I‘ll just go ahead and refer to myself and others as brown but thanks bruh
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:51 PM
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Other comments need to take a step back. Betting both of them are white males. I'd like to see any of you try being a girl in a traditional Muslim household and bring home a white guy. Lmao. Clowns. It doesn't affect if she marries you or if she's doing it to rebel. She can't bring you home because she'll probably never be able to talk to her parents or siblings again. In brown culture you bring someone home when you're absolutely sure you're about to marry them within a month's time, and even t…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:26 PM
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Nah man don't confront the rumors. I've been subject to player hating as well and it is what it is. You don't gain anything; fuck your pride/ego. If you know it isn't true just keep doing you. If those entrepreneurial/sociable dudes care about something like that they don't really matter anyways. I've had girls run and talk shit almost every single time (working on doing better to leave a good taste in their mouth) and the guy friends from their social circles still respect me. If they don't, th…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:00 PM
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You've gotten enough advice, if you can't follow the FAQ or get off of reddit and put things into action then I don't know why you keep asking questions on here. I don't think anyone can take you seriously at this point.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:33 PM
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Mods, his post history is a little trollish. You posted this type of question a few times, back when the ex was actually your girl and this girl thought she was ugly, then that girl "ended" your relationship with your ex, now you're asking about her again. Getting a little sus here my guy.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:25 PM
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If she wasn't clingy in the first place you probably didn't need to fabricate plans and then blow her off. You could've spent a few weeks not talking to her (which, if you were actually busy and/or talking to other girls, would've happened naturally) and it would've created the interest you were seeking. Sounds like she knew what was good, that you guys were just hooking up, and she can find other dick without needing to play your games.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:12 PM
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As far as hobbies, lifting has become a good one for me recently. It took a while to get into the mindset but now I look forward to it. I also play sports with my friends a lot. My friends and I can't always go on a big vacation so we'll spend a day or two at a place nearby- like camping, the beach, etc. This is every 3-4 months and it's pretty helpful.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 02:58 PM
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It's rough man but keep powering through. I left an LTR four months ago and it took me exactly that amount of time to get to a point where I have a few plates again. It could've been sooner, but I didn't put that kind of effort in. It is a good thing. You need to experience these lows. But don't beat yourself over the fact that you think about her- it's normal. Fill your days with activities that better yourself and keep your mind off occupied. Oh, and get laid. I do not care about your standard…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:28 PM
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Anything you like to do for fun? Possible to take a small trip or vacation soon? I have to do a hard reset sometimes if I feel like I'm getting trapped into a cycle. When I come back I can see things from a bigger picture point of view and make changes. Just keep doing your best to step out of your comfort zone and game more when you go out. Regarding your emotional difficulties I highly recommend speaking with a therapist. I have one and they've helped me immensely, even though I wasn't depress…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:17 PM
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You're probably gonna receive a lot of advice that says to tell your friend- definitely think about it harder though. I was in your position almost identically a few years ago, and if your friend is as BP as mine was, it can end up hurting your standing. The girl sounds just like the girl he was dating (and still dates smh). Highly manipulative, and even more so if he's head over heels. I found out about some shady shit she was doing, and told him a few times right when they started dating. She …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:02 PM
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Work hard, play hard. I try to stay focused/low key monk mode but I still reward myself. I have a friend like you, has taken 3-4 months off from gaming and has been no fap/all gym fully locked in, and I can see the apathy washing over him. I'm making him go on vacation with me this weekend. I'm also probably gonna set him up with the easiest girl I can find over there. This is a new life, filled with its own enjoyment and rewards in itself. Don't depress yourself because you'll end up in a cycle…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:50 PM
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