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Question For WomenWinter_Bar_1160/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:33 AM
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gf coming over soon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:01 AM
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what does that mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:20 AM
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fine then you're not invited to mine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:49 AM
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Will I be invited to the wedding?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:40 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:39 AM
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Asian languages are hard for people who aren't from Asian countries, the linguistic rules and tones and pronunciations are completely different. Then there's honorifics and things like that. But I agree its very good to learn that to communicate with your in-laws. I wish it was easy cause my gf's family really wants me to learn their language (you've probably figured out which account this is by now)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:39 AM
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women should be banned
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:36 AM
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happy for you queen :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:35 AM
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Bro, invest your time in making a serious dating profile on hinge or something and filtering through the guys who message you. Its more productive than killing time on this shithole. Find someone who's Christian and religious and willing to wait till marriage, probably from a nonwestern background.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:26 AM
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Ah that's very fair. My long term partner is also an Asian woman so I understand how big culture and customs are. Is them learning the language also a big deal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:07 AM
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and was willing to integrate into my culture Please elaborate on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:43 AM
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all 3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:29 AM
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I read this as "redditors are usually obese broke and low status". nearly cried.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:51 AM
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They're still your children though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:49 AM
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Based chaddette.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:35 AM
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online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:15 AM
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who gives a fuck if women laugh, he'd have a lambo. do you have a lambo?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:08 AM
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so either raise another man's child or you're gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:03 AM
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I'm not worked up over it lol, it doesn't bother me, I already have the perfect partner I'm compatible with. I was just debating with her. But thanks anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:59 AM
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I think its just a status thing. Like having a ferrari or a lambo. Like even if you never drive it or functionally you get more use out of your toyota corolla, the fact that you have one and you like to show it off and let people know you have one is what counts. Same thing with having a horsecock boyfriend/husband or a huge tits wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:46 AM
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I dunno, not my business anyway. Guess its good that they're broken up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:41 AM
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thats interesting. I wouldn't like it if other guys were ogling my gf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:37 AM
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tbh I still think the main attraction of having a big dick bf is bragging rights. Like notice how women with big dick boyfriends always subtly bring it into the conversation. Its like having a trophy boyfriend. Basically a guy who's always showing off his gf with huge tits. But with women its like "oh yeah btw my bf has a huge dick"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:36 AM
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Why are you guessing that? What a bizarre thing to assume. I literally Googled "A spot orgasm" and this was one of the top relevant results. cause you pulled up a reddit post from 8 years ago? I figured how the hell would someone find that post unless they had made it. She's in the wrong for dating him in the first place if he didn't meet her preferences. not many black guys in australia tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:35 AM
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true i'm just talking in hypotheticals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:34 AM
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It is inside the vagina, but it's not the spot I'm referring to. Guessing that post is an old account of yours. There's nothing wrong with that. Honestly - I know people disagree - but even if you did have a fetish, I wouldn't think that's wrong as long as you partner with women okay with being fetishized. Everyone knows the Kardashian clan fetishizes the hell out of black guys - and they all know what they're signing up for. No harm, no foul. yeah one of my mates was dating a girl who likes bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:16 AM
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how does your husband feel about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:14 AM
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Yes. Exactly. Different women like different things. The clit is probably the most consistent, but even that has variances for how sensitive women are to what stimulation there. People go on and on about the g-spot, which is not only not pleasurable for me, but downright annoying and unpleasant. Isn't the g-spot inside the vagina? I assumed that's what you were referring to when you said only a very large penis can reach it. It can be. It depends on the reasons. But even if it were, I wouldn't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:09 AM
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What is important is working with your partner and improving the dance together, this is true no matter your experience. exactly, i agree with this so much. there could be a man who's had sex with 100 woman, but if he doesn't listen to what his wife/gf likes, doesn't pay attention to her or communicate with her, he will not be a good partner in bed. A guy who's never had sex before could still be attentive, willing to learn, and willing to improve and pay attention to what his girlfriend likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:06 AM
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I was around that age. My memory's a bit fuzzy as to the exact year. But I'm religious and had a lot of hang ups around sex. Guessing you can empathise with that. having said that, I have a very fulfilling sex life with my gf and know exactly what she likes and wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:04 AM
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My point is that, I just don't get how having an average dick means you can't make a woman orgasm? You can still do the penetration, you can still hit the sensitive spots, you can still use your hands and mouth to do the foreplay to make her reach that point. it doesn't make sense to me but I agree to disagree with her. As someone with an average sized member, I've never had problems making my gf reach climax, or previous partners for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:01 AM
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Look I don't know about how exactly women orgasm. I know I'm probably average sized (sorry if TMI) and I have no problem making my gf orgasm pretty much every time. We both know what she likes, which buttons to press so on. I guess each women is anatomically different in terms of where the most sensitive nerves are? I appreciate your empathy. You have nothing to apologize for. But having people always attacking me for my preferences makes me that much more empathetic to men who are attacked for …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:58 AM
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yeah honestly I'm kind of asocial and introverted. All my close frirends from growing up live far away. I don't really have super close friends anymore. All I have is her. Actually the only "friends" I spend time with really are her friends. But yeah I love just spending all my time with her. We went on a 9 hour roadtrip, and you'd think driving for 9 hours is hell. But just being in a car with me and her for 9 hours with no one else and nothing else to worry about is pure bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:55 AM
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Yeah fair enough. Tbh as a man, I think I fit in more with redpillwomen than theredpill, lol. The reason is that theredpill is always like "there are no unicorns" and "no woman is good enough for marriage" and that men should just keep spinning plates for ever and fucking around and never settle down and marry. To me thats pure bullshit, thats my biggest gripe with redpill even though I agree on some of their theories on gender differences. To me, my goal in life and fulfilment is to settle down…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:50 AM
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I just don't understand why an average sized penis cannot make you reach orgasm but a large one can. In theory if the average sized one knows what you like and you're attracted to him as a person it should be perfectly possible. But if you are so adamant that that's the case, then I'll accept your stance but I'm not convinced. But for some reason, they are really invested in trying - to the point of calling me a ni****. Racial abuse and racist language is never okay. I'm sorry you've had people …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:48 AM
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explain it again please
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:45 AM
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What redpill views do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:41 AM
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what did he say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:41 AM
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This. Having a cute pretty girl who loves you and hugs you unironically makes you forget all your petty life problems and work, study, money, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:41 AM
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I don't see why not? I consider myself high libido and I was a virgin until my 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:37 AM
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Why aren't you as up-in-arms about the fact that I don't want men who have or want children, or men who don't love dogs - both also factors they can't control? Those are more related to compatibility in a relationship than having a horse cock trophy boyfriend. As to the rest of your comment, it seems you and me have a strong difference of opinion and we're not going to convince each other. All I can say is that I hope your current boyfriend fulfils your criteria and you fulfil his. At the end of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:36 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:30 AM
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So hypothetically, if a guy was an extroverted sociable party type with relationship experience, who happened to be a virgin, would you give him a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:26 AM
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I just don't buy that a woman could never be made to fall in love with a guy purely because of his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:20 AM
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Fair enough. What if a guy was a virgin but he was still willing to learn and communicate and explore? Would you still rule him out? Just cause a guy has never had sex before doesn't mean he will never be good at it, everyone was a virgin at one time. And just because someone has had a lot of sex doesn't mean he's good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:15 AM
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Okay when I say older I mean 30's to 40's. Maybe early 50's if he ages well. Not like 60's. Basically I think for any woman, a guy up to 20 years older is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:12 AM
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You can choose to date anyone you want or no one you want, its your choice. I'm not holding a gun to your head and saying you have to date someone with an average sized dick. It's your choice. This is a debate sub and I'm debating you, I'm not attacking or mansplaining you. My point is that you are wrong that average sized penises are insufficient and cannot make women orgasm. At the end of the day, its about knowing what the woman likes, and what the guy likes, and exploring each other and unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:10 AM
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I think the overwhelming majority of women could get with an older guy, they just don't know it yet. Unlocking a woman's love is not easy, but it's not impossible. If he pushes the right buttons, makes her feel warm, safe, happy, secure, in love, and to top it off he's smart, handsome, well to do, then under the right circumstances an overwhelming majority of women could love him. The only thing holding them back would be "what would society think of me dating an older guy???"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:04 AM
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fuck. Honestly we should all just become SEA expats and live it up as kings there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:53 PM
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I don't know where you got the idea that a man with an average penis cannot perform well. Statistically speaking they are the majority of men, and even people with smaller than average penises can perform well. There's many many many more aspects towards having a happy and fulfilling sex life with your partner than "hurr durr i have a massive horse cock". Lots of men with very large penises struggle sexually and struggle to perform at all. What's the correlation between having a huge member and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:52 PM
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Strong disagree. at the end of the day if you're a straight woman, and he's a man, then its possible. It's not the same as them being the opposite gender. Pretty much every woman would date an older guy if he ticks the boxes (looks, personality, money) and she loves him and he gives her that special fuzzy feeling that makes a woman feel warm and emotional towards a guy which eventually leads to sex. Any woman who says she wouldn't is either lying or doesn't understand herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:45 PM
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you must have a huge dick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:38 PM
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The whole "I would never date an older guy" is just propaganda by women here to demoralise men out of thinking they can still get a hot young gf when they're older. Pretty much every woman would date an older guy under the right circumstances if he ticks all the boxes (looks, personality, wealth, depending on what she prioritises).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:38 PM
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No cause you have to be lesbian/bi to want a hot woman no matter how hot she is. For example you could put a hot playboy model in front of my gf and she would not even be remotely 0.000000001% dtf in a million years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:34 PM
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He's not even that old probably, some guys just lose their hair colour in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:33 PM
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The whole "I wouldn't date a virgin but men aren't allowed to want virgin women" is peak hypocrisy. I wonder if women realise this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:32 PM
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Would you fault a guy in that scenario for only wanting a virgin gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:30 PM
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Why do you keep asking this? Why is this relevant? It's another thing that tends to grind people's gears and make them upset. Do you personally see anything wrong with it? For example with me, based on my dating history, I'd say I have maybe a preference for Asian girls? This has not always gone down well with people and I've been attacked for this preference. Similarly, women who have a preference for black guys often also get nasty labels. They are not the perfect partner if they aren't who I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:27 PM
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Zilch Did not go out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:09 PM
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Wait till you find out what proof she’s been keeping that you’re an actual virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:09 PM
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You’re lucky you don’t live in australia. Just a normal night out for two people and you could end up forking over hundreds of dollars. It’s so ridiculously expensive I want to leave this country
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:08 PM
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Do you have a racial preference as well? don't "go around telling people," I bring it up when asked or it's relevant. It’s something that men have no control over. We don’t choose our dick sizes, some of us are born with average sizes and it’s not our choice. You’re giving up a relationship with someone who could be the perfect partner and love you forever over something he had no say in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:07 PM
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Why do you like being catcalled?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:00 PM
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Men get attacked for having preferences that involve age and body type as well. Going around saying you prefer big dicks us obviously gonna piss people off. Do you have a racial preference? Those also tend to grind peoples gears
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:59 PM
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All my Chinese friends insist that msg is harmless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:56 PM
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i do kind of enjoy a respectful catcall from a distance, especially as im a mom of 2 in my mid 30s. you just gave feminism a collective aneurysm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:23 PM
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i've heard all those msg rumours are a myth anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:17 PM
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It's been over one and a half years together and my gushing over her has not decreased one bit in that time. she's the most amazing human being I've ever met in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:45 PM
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Just different ways, I don't know. Sometimes she can be sulky. Or like we can be on a trip and she'd be complaining of a sore throat then we'd walk past an ice cream shop and she'd want ice cream. She's the miracle of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:21 PM
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the people doing the championing and the demonising in both cases are women. that probably explains the reason behind what you're observing. yes they're hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:09 PM
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My gf is very cute and childish, but she can also be very mature and motherlike/ladylike when the situation calls for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:07 PM
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They're just following the Jim Cow laws
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:06 PM
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Those gals look delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:05 PM
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I was at the park playing fetch with my dog yesterday and there was a group of older teens having a get-together at the pavilion nearby. One of the girls came over to get a soccer ball that had been left in the grass near me. As she walked back to the pavilion, she yelled across her shoulder to me "you're really pretty!" I thought that was nice of her and thanked her. I'm a black woman in her late 30's, and she was an older white teenager. There was almost certainly no intention of hitting on me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:04 PM
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make me, slut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:55 PM
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People always talk about appearance but honestly voice in a girl is super underrated. My gf has the cutest voice in the universe, she would voice-mog every single female on this board and then some. Her voice is like an adorable cartoon character it makes my heart melt and turns rain into sunshine and makes all my financial problems disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:43 PM
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Young man! what do you want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:40 PM
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DROMBALD DRUMPGHT HAD TWO SCOOPS!!! HE'S A CRIMINAL!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:38 PM
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based SEA expat day drinker. I remember when I was in Vietnam I'd drink with every meal. When I become a boomer I'm gonna pick an SEA country and retire there as an expat, hope the exchange rate is still advantageous by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:37 PM
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It's sexist, misogynist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, antisemitic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:36 PM
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As an Australian, I hope to one day live under a competent leader like Xi Jinping.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:35 PM
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Don't tell me how to live my life. You're not my real dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:34 PM
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Agree with OP. Do you think the stacies who date football players can name a single rule of the game he plays?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:33 PM
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I hate making posts on PPD cause then you get people responding to you with their unwanted opinions. I don't want to hear your opinions, I just want you to read mine and agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:29 PM
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can't play them when I'm in a relationship because it feels so wrong. this is some next level women shit my gf jokingly pretended to be jealous of tifa when she had cutesie moments with the player character (cloud) when i was playing ff7 remake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:13 PM
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so you think a game like gta where you run over and kill random people on the street makes you more likely to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:23 AM
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I did not have sexual relations with that woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:45 AM
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Why tho He’s disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:24 AM
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Does playing violent video games and watching action movies also make you violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:18 AM
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but you're saying that porn CAUSES people to be violent or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:08 AM
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Too late. Feelings hurt. Gonna cry in the corner. Can't even reach the tissue box cause its on the top shelf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:07 AM
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yes I am. And apparently not good enough for you :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:59 AM
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aren't you into liek bill clinton or am i confusing you with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:58 AM
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you're saying that short guys deserve nothing. I'm 5'9". You're saying I deserve nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:57 AM
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let me guess, you want chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:56 AM
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women onr eddit say they love consensual non consent also correlation is not causation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:56 AM
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how are they being mean and why does that excuse you being mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:53 AM
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It’s smacking, hitting, spitting, screaming, pulling, etc. i thought women love that shit. Statistics show it makes men more insecure, less likely to interfere when witnessing violence, more likely to commit violence, and more likely to have a negative perspective on dating and the opposite sex. do you know the difference between correlation and causation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:52 AM
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attractive male attention or uggo male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:52 AM
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if they've got hotter options they'll go for those
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:52 AM
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why are you being mean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:48 AM
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it does
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:48 AM
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are you both attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:45 AM
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how short we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:43 AM
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some girls are cute wholesome wife material though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:43 AM
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shame about the face though also based username
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:03 AM
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Lol so I love watching afl (Australian football) and f1 and my gf has literally not the remotest interest in those things I sometimes make her watch with me and she gets bored as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:31 AM
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so as long as its not flip flops?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:24 AM
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I'm usually not very polite I'll admit. I'm pretty caustic and biting. Which isn't the best way to debate but if someone is good faith and doesn't hate women, I suppose I could retract the claws for a bit 😆 Lol that's fair enough, though it probably doesn't help to be caustic in a debate sub!! I think I can be a bit douchey as well, I need to rein that in. Most of my friends aren't tall Chad types, but we are above average looking IMO. For the most part, we're from UMC backgrounds. Mostly slim o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:23 AM
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so how should they dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:20 AM
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So what do you demand your bf wears? A tux when he goes to the supermarket?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:13 AM
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who's your favourite pornstar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:55 AM
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Most women need to have feelings for a dude to let him stick his disgusting penis inside them. Women feel the idea of sex with a random guy is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:52 AM
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what about 3 litres of deoderant so i smell like a middle schooler
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:38 AM
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If I had to go to prison for fucking a pornstar, I would NOT pick Stormy Daniels. She has gross fake tits
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:37 AM
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ROXAAAANE!! YOU DON'T HAVE TO CUT OFF MY DICK!! No-no-no-no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:34 AM
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ROXAAAAANE!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:30 AM
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i'm sorry .... do you want to feel it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:22 AM
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or blomald blumpht
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:16 AM
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mine's still there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:16 AM
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my gf sometimes gets l and r mixed up when she talks. One time she accidentally pronounced "'barack obama" as "black obama". it was funny and cute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:15 AM
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knock knock knock knock knock on my door! knock knock knock knock knock on my door!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:14 AM
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I was playing ff7 remake with my gf watching and the scenes where cloud and tifa are cutesie with each other, my gf got jealous tifa is beautiful though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:11 AM
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that is true. I guess it depends on what guy you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:10 AM
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what if he's just annoying and pushy for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:46 AM
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so why not pick the bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:44 AM
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so grape is worse than being mauled to death by a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:41 AM
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but a man alone in the woods wouldn't be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:33 AM
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I'm still picking the man tho why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:24 AM
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you agree with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:19 AM
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nup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:22 AM
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I don't feel shitty about my convictions. I just want to understand your viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:20 AM
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paying for porn lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:16 AM
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what does that have anything to do with what I said? Like if a 30 year old porn actress is getting paid lots of money to do porn, do you object to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:10 AM
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I think some women just low key hate male sexuality. They see male sexuality as inherently evil and hate anything associated with it. They hate if a video game character is slightly hot. They hate if they see a random guy they've never met flirting with a hot girl who's not them. They just hate men liking things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:08 AM
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what about professional pornstars who get paid big bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:07 AM
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You're welcome. I can be testy too, so sorry if I was more biting than what was really appropriate. Nah you're good, you've honestly been really polite, I think these gender debates can get heated cause both men and women bring their own completely different sets of life experiences and anxieties into it and clash over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:00 AM
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Honestly there's nothing wrong with watching porn if you're single. Like nothing wrong at all, I don't get why women get wound up about it. if you're in a relationship, then you need to discuss which boundaries are okay with your partner, and make sure that porn addiction isn't causing you to neglect your partner sexually, which happens too often. My gf and I have tried watching porn together, she doesn't like it, she only really likes it if its like an erotic movie with a story and stuff and oc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:55 AM
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If she chooses to make it herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:46 AM
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Which one is closest to your current partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:37 AM
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are you okay with porn that's consensual?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:32 AM
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That's fair enough. I respect that. By the way thank you for having this conversation with me, I'm sorry if we got off on the wrong foot and i was obtuse in my earlier responses. It's really interesting hearing this perspective. Can I ask, in your personal experience, have you had more success in attracting "masculine" type guys or "non-masculine" guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:28 AM
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Fair enough. So do you associate not caring about a woman's sexual past with masculinity? Like a guy who is more okay with dating promiscuous women is more masculine to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:21 AM
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Women who would classify yourself as "High N", how attractive would you say you are and how easy would you say it is for you to find a guy to sleep with? I wonder if being high N is just a result of having too many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:14 AM
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Not very.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:08 AM
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. Literally screamed at the sight of my tit "You're just like your father!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:06 AM
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Probably lots of sun exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:05 AM
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I wasn't breastfed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:02 AM
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there's nothing wrong with being a cougar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:00 AM
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He’s been seeing some of people we used to know through studies or social circle and they’ve been are they white? I remember all the aussie girls I went to high school with, they're my age now and they look nothing like they did in high school. All that feminine charm and cuteness is gone. I don't know if its genetics or just obsession with skincare and avoiding sunlight but asian girls generally age better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:59 AM
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Define masculine. What makes a man masculine to you? What other icks do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:51 AM
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What’s unmasculine and unappealing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:12 AM
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Thanks babe you too 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:11 AM
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But the men who care are probably a big majority
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:08 AM
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Cbf digging through the comment chain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:07 AM
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Yeah I think lots of guys are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:07 AM
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I’m saying that’s the only advantage to marrying one (if you’re into that)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:00 AM
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So what’s your argument? That SOME men don’t care?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:59 PM
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I have a Madonna whore complex Certain body types to me are more porn-y and certain body types are more wife-y My partner is a short petite Asian girl and that’s probably all I’d ever accept to date or marry When I watch porn I never look up petite small girls, it’s always tall busty curvy girls. But that’s not my type for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:57 PM
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Having big tits doesn’t make you a slut but I agree it makes some men and women think you’re a slut. It’s unfortunate but it is what it is. I think in general as your sluttiness goes up, pool of male suitors goes down. The only advantages to actively seeking out a slutty woman to marry is if you want to do really slutty kinky shit with your wife one day like threesomes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:54 PM
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Women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:47 PM
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The type of woman I’d watch in porn is literally NOTHING like the type I’m attracted to dating in real life. If I were to watch porn right now, I’d probably search tall curvy busty women. The type of women I like to date are small and petite and thin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:45 PM
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I asked my gf about the man/bear thing, and she instantly said bear because a “man would rape you”. Then she asked if I’d choose woman or bear, I said women of course, she said “yeah because you want to have sex with her” Malebros, what did we do for women to have such a low opinion of us? 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:43 PM
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The only advantage to marrying a slut is if you want to one day do degenerate shit with your wife like wife sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:40 PM
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Okay let’s put it this way The sluttier you are and your history is, the lower the percentage of men who will marry you. Agree or disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:38 PM
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So you’re arguing about nothing except vague platitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:29 PM
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Because if you were in a committed LTR it would lend credence to your argument than very high N women can easily get long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:27 PM
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You can have whatever reasoning you want just like men have whatever reasoning they want The end result is the same: men without experience are unattractive and women with too much experience are undesirable as serious LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:25 PM
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vast majority of men wouldn't marry a woman who's been gangbanged
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:51 PM
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the fact that you won't answer speaks volumes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:49 PM
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that's a very vague statement that pretty much everyone can agree to a far cry from your "only losers care about sexual past" insinuation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:42 PM
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I don't think so, I don't know much about how the gay community operates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:38 PM
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It's relevant though. You're saying that you should have no problem finding a husband yet you don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:35 PM
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lol why's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:33 PM
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I mean if you have a N count in the double digits and have been bukkake'd and gangbanged, I think the vast majority of men would have second thoughts about proposing to you. But maybe like you said, it is bias on my part. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:33 PM
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I feel the same way. I'm not American, but I feel compared to the presidents that came before and after him, he's definitely been the least damaging president, in fact he's the only one that didn't start new wars. And yeah, he's gross in personal life, but meh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:27 PM
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are you in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:26 PM
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Are you in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:26 PM
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I don't look down on gay dudes. also I just assume most lesbians aren't really sexual anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:25 PM
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So as a person, you're not too impressed by him?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:24 PM
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But what do you think of the fact that he's twice divorced, cheats on his wife, fucks sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:19 PM
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Nobody can resist the temptation of the almighty penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:11 PM
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I dunno man, like look at donald trump, conservatives love him, nobody cares that he banged a hooker while his wife was pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:11 PM
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whats wrong with being gay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:59 PM
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Basically Christianity says you should hold sex until marriage. Society and human nature views men who fuck a lot as alpha chads and women who don't as cute and innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:58 PM
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so men shouldn't have preferences cause it might get people killed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:54 PM
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cause its still sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:54 PM
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why is it a catty and shallow preference? how is it more shallow than any other preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:52 PM
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i was referring to your first sentence, not the article itself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:51 PM
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Probably the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:47 PM
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Christianity values chastity in both genders, but even in very Catholic countries in Latin America, its still "machismo" for a guy to fuck around a lot and have lots of sex. Look at it this way, when people want to insult a guy, what do they call him? Inc-l. Virgin. They don't call him manslut or manwhore. when they want to insult a woman, what do they call her? Slut. Whore. They don't call her femcel or virgin. In fact, using incel or virgin as an insult against women carries no weight, same wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:44 PM
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seriously. look up pics of her naked. she's not worth that amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:38 PM
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Okay so this isn't like my personal view, but a lot of people, have a view as "fucking" being masucline, and "being fucked" as feminine. So if a guy is a top, then lots of people see that as him being masculine and not feminine, and maybe not even gay (in my view its gay, but whatever). But lots of straight men see it like, if you're topping a guy, then you're in charge, you're dominant, it's not gay, it's not feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:37 PM
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Or better yet don't throw in the towel the second your marriage hits some speedbumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:30 PM
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Dating app data routinely shows that Asian cuties are the most widely desired demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:25 PM
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its nothing to do with hating ourselves. both men and women see a person who fucks a lot as masculine, and person who fucks none as feminine. People like masculine men and feminine women. Women look down infinitely more on inexperienced men than men do on experienced women, but women don't get told off for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:24 PM
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but what’s up with “sexual innocence” being such a driver for men. why do women get so bothered about men's preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:20 PM
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See I never get into those debates because anyone who defends Isr*el is not worth talking to or even acknowledging as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:18 PM
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Average Asian girl is still way prettier than average white girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:17 PM
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Agreed. Bottom right is wife material all the way. In both cases however the Asian girl mogs the white girl. Cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:17 PM
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also for women cause you don't have a penis its probably easier to pee straight downwards in the shower. whereas with us we have to angle it towards the drain
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:08 PM
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I'm telling you as a man who talks to other men and understand men way better than you do, it does matter. If you want to convince yourself it doesn't, go ahead. But you don't understand how men think and feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:07 PM
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its a very tiny percentage of men who are okay with it like you'd probably find a bigger percentage of guys are into fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:06 PM
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if you wanna argue semantics, okay, a tiny percentage would be willing to marry a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:39 PM
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you're being intentionally obtuse they cheat on them cause they're looking for sex. These high powered guys aren't looking to start a wholesome family, they pick someone who they think will make a valuable addition to their status, a trophy wife, and then cheat on them with other hos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:38 PM
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all men care about this stuff, you're delusional if you think most men don't. how many men do you think would willingly marry a sex worker or a porn star?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:31 PM
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it's called a trophy wife. and they cheat on them like it's their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:30 PM
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And yes all men judge, it’s a biological instinct for men to avoid promiscuous women. Even women know that it’s wrong. Women also slut shame women, and we live in a sexually open society. This. The guys who are out having sex with promiscuous women are the ones who are the judgiest of all. You should hear how dudebros talk about the women they have one night stands and hook ups with. They talk about them like they are not even people. They use them for sex and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:25 PM
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I wonder why most men in the top 20% of entertainment, like music/acting/sports choose Instathots and fellow celebrities with extensive pasts instead of inexperienced naive virgins from the cornfields of Iowa. because we have madonna/whore complex. Whores grab our attention and sexual lust, but we wanna settle down with an innocent madonna.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:24 PM
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Women: "omg why can't men just accept that we don't find autistic guys sexy?? Deal with it!" Also women: "AAAARGH HOW DARE YOU NOT FIND ME ATTRACTIVE FOR HAVING AN N COUNT OF OVER 9000"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:19 PM
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define prude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:17 PM
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revealing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:17 PM
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I think they need men to inform them that said ho clothes are ho clothes. Otherwise they're like "teehee its so pretty!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:15 PM
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4chan board where essentially you get timed out if you make the same post twice. somehow became the go-to "inc-l" board for some reason, or loneliness board or whatever you wanna call it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:14 PM
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I think cheating is always bad and never okay or permissible, but its like, there are situations where you can go "yeah, I get it" but its still objectively morally wrong. I guess that is one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:08 PM
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That is true. Both genders can technically be mother-fuckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:07 PM
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I dunno maybe they get off on it. Like seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:06 PM
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Men accepted this long ago. It seems to be women that don't accept that men don't want to date younger, thinner, prettier, certain race, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:50 PM
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CAPTAIN NEEDA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:44 PM
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honestly depends on their job and how difficult/boring it is and how much they enjoy it but yeah beiing stuck at home all day would be lonely as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:43 PM
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Why are you crying? I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:39 PM
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squatting is how you're meant to shit, it makes your descending colon more vertical
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:38 PM
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Aaaaaannnddd she lost interest and ghosted me. she's probably too busy getting railed by chad and tyrone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:35 PM
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gay and proud
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:34 PM
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What's wrong with being gay you homophobic shitlord?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:32 PM
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I don't date guys, I'm not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:31 PM
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I've never seen such a pathetic sub No shit, that's the whole point of being a sub, you're meant to be pathetic A dom is meant to be the "i'm in charge here" one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:31 PM
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or donald drumpft
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:30 PM
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Is it gay to take a solid shit? You've basically got something hard in your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:26 PM
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though art maidenless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:26 PM
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AWDTSG whats taht
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:25 PM
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Handy Gandy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:24 PM
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I'm bad even when I know the people at teh parties and to answer your question, probably drink. Its free alcohol, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:23 PM
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Not just piss but sometimes liquid farts as well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:20 PM
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