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Question For WomenWinter_Bar_1160/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:33 AM
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what does that mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:20 AM
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Will I be invited to the wedding?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:40 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:39 AM
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Asian languages are hard for people who aren't from Asian countries, the linguistic rules and tones and pronunciations are completely different. Then there's honorifics and things like that. But I agree its very good to learn that to communicate with your in-laws. I wish it was easy cause my gf's family really wants me to learn their language (you've probably figured out which account this is by now)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:39 AM
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women should be banned
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:36 AM
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happy for you queen :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:35 AM
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Bro, invest your time in making a serious dating profile on hinge or something and filtering through the guys who message you. Its more productive than killing time on this shithole. Find someone who's Christian and religious and willing to wait till marriage, probably from a nonwestern background.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:26 AM
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Ah that's very fair. My long term partner is also an Asian woman so I understand how big culture and customs are. Is them learning the language also a big deal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:07 AM
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and was willing to integrate into my culture Please elaborate on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:43 AM
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all 3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:29 AM
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They're still your children though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:49 AM
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Based chaddette.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:35 AM
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online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:15 AM
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who gives a fuck if women laugh, he'd have a lambo. do you have a lambo?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:08 AM
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thats interesting. I wouldn't like it if other guys were ogling my gf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:37 AM
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true i'm just talking in hypotheticals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:34 AM
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how does your husband feel about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:14 AM
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What is important is working with your partner and improving the dance together, this is true no matter your experience. exactly, i agree with this so much. there could be a man who's had sex with 100 woman, but if he doesn't listen to what his wife/gf likes, doesn't pay attention to her or communicate with her, he will not be a good partner in bed. A guy who's never had sex before could still be attentive, willing to learn, and willing to improve and pay attention to what his girlfriend likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:06 AM
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I was around that age. My memory's a bit fuzzy as to the exact year. But I'm religious and had a lot of hang ups around sex. Guessing you can empathise with that. having said that, I have a very fulfilling sex life with my gf and know exactly what she likes and wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:04 AM
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yeah honestly I'm kind of asocial and introverted. All my close frirends from growing up live far away. I don't really have super close friends anymore. All I have is her. Actually the only "friends" I spend time with really are her friends. But yeah I love just spending all my time with her. We went on a 9 hour roadtrip, and you'd think driving for 9 hours is hell. But just being in a car with me and her for 9 hours with no one else and nothing else to worry about is pure bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:55 AM
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Yeah fair enough. Tbh as a man, I think I fit in more with redpillwomen than theredpill, lol. The reason is that theredpill is always like "there are no unicorns" and "no woman is good enough for marriage" and that men should just keep spinning plates for ever and fucking around and never settle down and marry. To me thats pure bullshit, thats my biggest gripe with redpill even though I agree on some of their theories on gender differences. To me, my goal in life and fulfilment is to settle down…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:50 AM
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explain it again please
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:45 AM
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What redpill views do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:41 AM
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what did he say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:41 AM
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This. Having a cute pretty girl who loves you and hugs you unironically makes you forget all your petty life problems and work, study, money, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:41 AM
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I don't see why not? I consider myself high libido and I was a virgin until my 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:37 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:30 AM
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So hypothetically, if a guy was an extroverted sociable party type with relationship experience, who happened to be a virgin, would you give him a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:26 AM
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I just don't buy that a woman could never be made to fall in love with a guy purely because of his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:20 AM
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Fair enough. What if a guy was a virgin but he was still willing to learn and communicate and explore? Would you still rule him out? Just cause a guy has never had sex before doesn't mean he will never be good at it, everyone was a virgin at one time. And just because someone has had a lot of sex doesn't mean he's good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:15 AM
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Okay when I say older I mean 30's to 40's. Maybe early 50's if he ages well. Not like 60's. Basically I think for any woman, a guy up to 20 years older is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:12 AM
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I think the overwhelming majority of women could get with an older guy, they just don't know it yet. Unlocking a woman's love is not easy, but it's not impossible. If he pushes the right buttons, makes her feel warm, safe, happy, secure, in love, and to top it off he's smart, handsome, well to do, then under the right circumstances an overwhelming majority of women could love him. The only thing holding them back would be "what would society think of me dating an older guy???"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:04 AM
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fuck. Honestly we should all just become SEA expats and live it up as kings there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:53 PM
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I don't know where you got the idea that a man with an average penis cannot perform well. Statistically speaking they are the majority of men, and even people with smaller than average penises can perform well. There's many many many more aspects towards having a happy and fulfilling sex life with your partner than "hurr durr i have a massive horse cock". Lots of men with very large penises struggle sexually and struggle to perform at all. What's the correlation between having a huge member and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:52 PM
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Strong disagree. at the end of the day if you're a straight woman, and he's a man, then its possible. It's not the same as them being the opposite gender. Pretty much every woman would date an older guy if he ticks the boxes (looks, personality, money) and she loves him and he gives her that special fuzzy feeling that makes a woman feel warm and emotional towards a guy which eventually leads to sex. Any woman who says she wouldn't is either lying or doesn't understand herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:45 PM
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you must have a huge dick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:38 PM
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The whole "I would never date an older guy" is just propaganda by women here to demoralise men out of thinking they can still get a hot young gf when they're older. Pretty much every woman would date an older guy under the right circumstances if he ticks all the boxes (looks, personality, wealth, depending on what she prioritises).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:38 PM
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No cause you have to be lesbian/bi to want a hot woman no matter how hot she is. For example you could put a hot playboy model in front of my gf and she would not even be remotely 0.000000001% dtf in a million years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:34 PM
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He's not even that old probably, some guys just lose their hair colour in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:33 PM
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The whole "I wouldn't date a virgin but men aren't allowed to want virgin women" is peak hypocrisy. I wonder if women realise this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:32 PM
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Would you fault a guy in that scenario for only wanting a virgin gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:30 PM
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Why do you keep asking this? Why is this relevant? It's another thing that tends to grind people's gears and make them upset. Do you personally see anything wrong with it? For example with me, based on my dating history, I'd say I have maybe a preference for Asian girls? This has not always gone down well with people and I've been attacked for this preference. Similarly, women who have a preference for black guys often also get nasty labels. They are not the perfect partner if they aren't who I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:27 PM
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Zilch Did not go out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:09 PM
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You’re lucky you don’t live in australia. Just a normal night out for two people and you could end up forking over hundreds of dollars. It’s so ridiculously expensive I want to leave this country
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:08 PM
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Do you have a racial preference as well? don't "go around telling people," I bring it up when asked or it's relevant. It’s something that men have no control over. We don’t choose our dick sizes, some of us are born with average sizes and it’s not our choice. You’re giving up a relationship with someone who could be the perfect partner and love you forever over something he had no say in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:07 PM
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Why do you like being catcalled?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:00 PM
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Men get attacked for having preferences that involve age and body type as well. Going around saying you prefer big dicks us obviously gonna piss people off. Do you have a racial preference? Those also tend to grind peoples gears
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:59 PM
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i do kind of enjoy a respectful catcall from a distance, especially as im a mom of 2 in my mid 30s. you just gave feminism a collective aneurysm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:23 PM
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i've heard all those msg rumours are a myth anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:17 PM
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It's been over one and a half years together and my gushing over her has not decreased one bit in that time. she's the most amazing human being I've ever met in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:45 PM
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Just different ways, I don't know. Sometimes she can be sulky. Or like we can be on a trip and she'd be complaining of a sore throat then we'd walk past an ice cream shop and she'd want ice cream. She's the miracle of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:21 PM
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the people doing the championing and the demonising in both cases are women. that probably explains the reason behind what you're observing. yes they're hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:09 PM
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My gf is very cute and childish, but she can also be very mature and motherlike/ladylike when the situation calls for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:07 PM
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They're just following the Jim Cow laws
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:06 PM
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Those gals look delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:05 PM
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I was at the park playing fetch with my dog yesterday and there was a group of older teens having a get-together at the pavilion nearby. One of the girls came over to get a soccer ball that had been left in the grass near me. As she walked back to the pavilion, she yelled across her shoulder to me "you're really pretty!" I thought that was nice of her and thanked her. I'm a black woman in her late 30's, and she was an older white teenager. There was almost certainly no intention of hitting on me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:04 PM
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make me, slut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:55 PM
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People always talk about appearance but honestly voice in a girl is super underrated. My gf has the cutest voice in the universe, she would voice-mog every single female on this board and then some. Her voice is like an adorable cartoon character it makes my heart melt and turns rain into sunshine and makes all my financial problems disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:43 PM
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Young man! what do you want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:40 PM
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based SEA expat day drinker. I remember when I was in Vietnam I'd drink with every meal. When I become a boomer I'm gonna pick an SEA country and retire there as an expat, hope the exchange rate is still advantageous by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:37 PM
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It's sexist, misogynist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, antisemitic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:36 PM
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As an Australian, I hope to one day live under a competent leader like Xi Jinping.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:35 PM
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Don't tell me how to live my life. You're not my real dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:34 PM
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Agree with OP. Do you think the stacies who date football players can name a single rule of the game he plays?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:33 PM
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I hate making posts on PPD cause then you get people responding to you with their unwanted opinions. I don't want to hear your opinions, I just want you to read mine and agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:29 PM
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can't play them when I'm in a relationship because it feels so wrong. this is some next level women shit my gf jokingly pretended to be jealous of tifa when she had cutesie moments with the player character (cloud) when i was playing ff7 remake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:13 PM
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Does playing violent video games and watching action movies also make you violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:18 AM
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but you're saying that porn CAUSES people to be violent or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:08 AM
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women onr eddit say they love consensual non consent also correlation is not causation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:56 AM
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It’s smacking, hitting, spitting, screaming, pulling, etc. i thought women love that shit. Statistics show it makes men more insecure, less likely to interfere when witnessing violence, more likely to commit violence, and more likely to have a negative perspective on dating and the opposite sex. do you know the difference between correlation and causation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:52 AM
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Lol so I love watching afl (Australian football) and f1 and my gf has literally not the remotest interest in those things I sometimes make her watch with me and she gets bored as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:31 AM
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so as long as its not flip flops?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:24 AM
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so how should they dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:20 AM
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So what do you demand your bf wears? A tux when he goes to the supermarket?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:13 AM
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Most women need to have feelings for a dude to let him stick his disgusting penis inside them. Women feel the idea of sex with a random guy is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:52 AM
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I was playing ff7 remake with my gf watching and the scenes where cloud and tifa are cutesie with each other, my gf got jealous tifa is beautiful though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:11 AM
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paying for porn lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:16 AM
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what does that have anything to do with what I said? Like if a 30 year old porn actress is getting paid lots of money to do porn, do you object to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:10 AM
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I think some women just low key hate male sexuality. They see male sexuality as inherently evil and hate anything associated with it. They hate if a video game character is slightly hot. They hate if they see a random guy they've never met flirting with a hot girl who's not them. They just hate men liking things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:08 AM
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what about professional pornstars who get paid big bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:07 AM
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Honestly there's nothing wrong with watching porn if you're single. Like nothing wrong at all, I don't get why women get wound up about it. if you're in a relationship, then you need to discuss which boundaries are okay with your partner, and make sure that porn addiction isn't causing you to neglect your partner sexually, which happens too often. My gf and I have tried watching porn together, she doesn't like it, she only really likes it if its like an erotic movie with a story and stuff and oc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:55 AM
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If she chooses to make it herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:46 AM
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are you okay with porn that's consensual?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:32 AM
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Women who would classify yourself as "High N", how attractive would you say you are and how easy would you say it is for you to find a guy to sleep with? I wonder if being high N is just a result of having too many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:14 AM
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I’m saying that’s the only advantage to marrying one (if you’re into that)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:00 AM
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The only advantage to marrying a slut is if you want to one day do degenerate shit with your wife like wife sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:40 PM
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are you in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:26 PM
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I'm telling you as a man who talks to other men and understand men way better than you do, it does matter. If you want to convince yourself it doesn't, go ahead. But you don't understand how men think and feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:07 PM
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its a very tiny percentage of men who are okay with it like you'd probably find a bigger percentage of guys are into fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:06 PM
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if you wanna argue semantics, okay, a tiny percentage would be willing to marry a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:39 PM
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you're being intentionally obtuse they cheat on them cause they're looking for sex. These high powered guys aren't looking to start a wholesome family, they pick someone who they think will make a valuable addition to their status, a trophy wife, and then cheat on them with other hos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:38 PM
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all men care about this stuff, you're delusional if you think most men don't. how many men do you think would willingly marry a sex worker or a porn star?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:31 PM
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it's called a trophy wife. and they cheat on them like it's their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:30 PM
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And yes all men judge, it’s a biological instinct for men to avoid promiscuous women. Even women know that it’s wrong. Women also slut shame women, and we live in a sexually open society. This. The guys who are out having sex with promiscuous women are the ones who are the judgiest of all. You should hear how dudebros talk about the women they have one night stands and hook ups with. They talk about them like they are not even people. They use them for sex and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:25 PM
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I wonder why most men in the top 20% of entertainment, like music/acting/sports choose Instathots and fellow celebrities with extensive pasts instead of inexperienced naive virgins from the cornfields of Iowa. because we have madonna/whore complex. Whores grab our attention and sexual lust, but we wanna settle down with an innocent madonna.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:24 PM
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Women: "omg why can't men just accept that we don't find autistic guys sexy?? Deal with it!" Also women: "AAAARGH HOW DARE YOU NOT FIND ME ATTRACTIVE FOR HAVING AN N COUNT OF OVER 9000"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:19 PM
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Men accepted this long ago. It seems to be women that don't accept that men don't want to date younger, thinner, prettier, certain race, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:50 PM
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honestly depends on their job and how difficult/boring it is and how much they enjoy it but yeah beiing stuck at home all day would be lonely as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:43 PM
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