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And they also want to use the men for benefits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:12 AM
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In some marriages the tax benefits don’t outweigh what could be lost in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:08 AM
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Till you see a post complaining about going on dates and not finding men am wanting to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:20 AM
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This is mostly true if said men don’t listen to society telling them to make more than women and be providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:46 AM
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Stop trying to gaslight op
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:37 AM
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That last part wouldn’t really happen as women tend to seek out men that out earn them for marriage and men tend to want to be with women they out earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:43 AM
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But you want your house protected with a prenup lol. If you really do value as much as you make it seem, you would risk even your assets in it. But wisely you chose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:59 AM
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It’s not about demoralizing guys, it’s about the truth so they know where they stand.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 12:34 AM
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It’s unfair for a non virgin woman to demand commitment from a guy. She could, at the very least, offer him a one sided open relationship to even it out.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 08:33 AM
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It’s unfair for a non virgin woman to demand commitment from a guy. She could, at the very least, offer him a one sided open relationship to even it out.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 08:33 AM
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It’s unfair for a non virgin woman to demand commitment from a guy. She could, at the very least, offer him a one sided open relationship to even it out.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 08:33 AM
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Lol they finish last and get the std ridden, used up stuff too.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 08:21 AM
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You are right lol they lie a lot. Imagine this lady saying because women are graduating college and getting high earning jobs, that they don’t pursuing high earning men, when we all know that is just jot true.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 11:18 PM
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It is easier for women to get sex so it seems unfair for a man to get of his time and energy in commitment. That is such a woman is not worth such a commitment. Unless she allows him to temporarily break up in the relationship to get some on the side.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:59 PM
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Lol. This person arguing with you forgets the part where you mention women wanting men taller and stronger than themselves which doesn’t have to be biological, because some women through history have done the opposite.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:53 PM
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•Calls himself a guy with a lot of personality and wholesome, but calls some random guy he doesn’t know a gangly scrub who is apathetic and abusive, but doesn’t know why women avoid him.🤔
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:17 AM
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I never mentioned marriage either. You did mention wife in your comment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:24 AM
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Having a wife now is risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:17 AM
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It’s not like they have that many choices. There aren’t many men. Should these women all date desirable taken men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:39 AM
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How do we know she didn’t sign a prenup with him and is waiting for the next best guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:13 PM

Problem with red pill guys like you is some of you want to run through all these virgin overseas women then complain about non traditional women. Watch some guy go to Thailand (or already be in Thailand) and observe that a lot of the women are non virgin, non traditional women and the cycle continues...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:23 AM

Another problem is men get punished by the court system through child support, divorce and alimony. Its not like this in some of the countries passport bro visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:33 AM
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Fucking based
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:14 PM

That’s why dudes should cheat anyways lol. And when partners says something about it, just say it just sex or use one of the answer women like to give. And you can get an idea of how many men she slept with by asking her and then catching her in a lie later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:31 AM

That’s why you should date well off women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:26 AM

He’s not phased by a woman’s past but he is not likely to commit to said woman or any woman. Men who say they are not phased by it are more likely to pump and dump, so their opinion on the post kinda doesn’t matter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:52 AM

An issue is women who’ve had a promiscuous past asking men going forward, to commit to them and not want to explore. Men should just cheat more often to get catch up to the modern promiscuous woman and just say “it’s just sex” their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:40 AM

And women don’t normally use a low n count as part of their game plan for attracting rich men, as the rich men can’t prove them being virgins anyways. They are more likely to use things like make up and surgery to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:07 AM
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That is why some men go overseas for a woman.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 06:43 PM
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Are men on this earth to find a wife and or save women after?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/23 02:27 PM
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“Please know that poor women are capable of lying and manipulating as well and be safe” Same could apply to women from anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:13 PM
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Lol cool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:25 PM
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Right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:21 PM
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Lol you are funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:20 PM
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They are not just addressing women, they are also letting men know of their options. Some women just don’t want those men letting men know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:16 PM
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Some men just don’t want western women who’ve slept around, care too much for how much money they make, and judge them on their physical appearance. Why are you making it about colonialism?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:02 PM
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And that’s telling... What’s pretty much happening is American women, to these men, are so bad they make the “promiscuous”, “non-traditional” women of those country look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:55 PM
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This implies that even these men finding relationships by home would be preying on women. Couldn’t it just be you having issues with said men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:15 AM
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She doesn’t deny the problem going for a red herring as well? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:13 AM
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And also is she implying that men in general dating having relationship with a woman is exploitation? If it is not exploitative when a man dates a woman in the west, why call it exploitative when a man goes to do the same thing overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:11 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:35 PM
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Me think this is mostly an American women problem as American women are already conservative sexually and tend to be picky about giving it up to men, which makes it harder for men like you to sleep around in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:08 PM
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The issue isn’t men going overseas to find mom women. It’s true a lot is wrong with dating women in the west. But as this guy has found lots of success with women where he went, why has he been just sleeping around with them and not marrying them. Then complaining about western women not having “conservative culture, while the irony is western women are the only ones, being conservative by not fucking this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:48 PM
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Is it really easy to date women in Mexico or is it that it’s easier for a subset of men, that is Hispanic men? If so, it’s not fair to say almost as easy as Mexico.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:35 PM
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But you do realize that the 50 plus Thai women you supposedly slept with were not showing conservative culture by sleeping with you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:31 PM
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“It’s based on looks, chaste, feminine” But the guy who made the post is saying he went to overseas to make the women there unchaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:03 PM
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You seem to want a virgin for marriage but are out there having causal sex with the virgins? So other men in a Thailand shouldn’t have the option to date a hot virgin woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:32 PM
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But you are there converting the women to the same promiscuous women some men on here condemn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:29 PM
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Yes one of the other users did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:57 PM
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Just pointing out not all feminism waves were bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:51 PM
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Yes the idea is to do whatever it is you think men are trying to do. Your attempts to shame and gaslight won’t work as well as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:18 PM
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It’s the fact they lie so much about the personality thing too, misleading men lol. Stop with the “your personality” thing as the truth is much more appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:51 PM
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First wave feminism, yes. The other waves that appeared was about doing something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:35 PM
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If you get a woman pregnant in the US, the state governments of some states take as much as 25 percent of whatever a man makes, regardless of if it really cost that much to raise a child or not. So, some men going overseas are making a good choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:33 PM
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Don’t you understand that if they are a lot more negatives to banging an American woman than some women from one these countries? You at least don’t have to worry about the crazy amounts the government tries to take for child support, divorce or alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:29 PM
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That’s Mexico lol. What about the other 180 plus countries men could go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:05 PM
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And then is it really worth dealing with American women considering divorce, alimony, child support, accusation of rape, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:43 PM
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Yeah a lot of these passport bros guys can het women in America, but they don’t want to deal with the problems that American women bring. Guys don’t want to get taken to the cleaners by courts anymore(divorce, alimony, child support, abuse accusations, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:18 AM
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Yeah this lady is trying really hard to convince men it’s a bad idea lol. Guess the men I have seen with beautiful women from The Philippines, isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:09 AM
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Yeah some of these women try really hard to convince men that going overseas in general is a bad idea. The person above is trying to use Thailand to argue against other places, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:07 AM
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Depends on where you go. Not all foreign women are bad. A lot of foreign women, at least, do not divorce easily and take men to the cleaners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:01 AM
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But isn’t this contradicting? You said of “course not” you don’t like it when men ask you to smile, but made the same unsolicited comment towards the guy to told to smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:02 PM
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Why do some try to control what standards men have? “But why do you not get held to the same standard as the women you get into a relationship with” So should men also only date women their height, no shorter, no taller, since he is a certain height? Should men also just date women that look like men since he’s ok with the standard he has for himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:23 AM
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Or go overseas to find the virgin woman you are looking for. But when men suggest doing that, it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:46 AM
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And that women then want those men to commit to them. It wouldn’t be that much a problem if promiscuous women allowed men to have one sided open relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:43 AM
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Go overseas if you don’t want to be destroyed by western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:45 AM
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So? What else is there to talk about on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:41 AM
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Female shaming and manipulation tactics: Use male masculinity as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:37 AM
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“Most men don’t ask because they’re desperate and don’t think it’ll work out and they’re just lucky to have any woman” Even you yourself are saying this. This is so true that men put up with a lot just to be with a woman and a lot of men don’t require much self improvement from women. The whole dynamic favors women because in today’s world, women don’t need men as much as they did before and can afford to not listen to what some men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:21 PM
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Not all women though are subjected to it. A lot of men don’t ask much of women when it comes to self improvement, other than the woman watching her weight, hygiene, the home, kids and having some kind of job. Everything else is self imposed on women by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:12 PM
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Men have to do it to attract women though while women don’t, is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:38 AM
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The thing is women don’t have to do all of this, as a lot of men accept them as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:33 AM
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This might make you lean towards the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:41 PM
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A problem to consider is everyone is somehow forced to pay for the decisions of women like this (welfare, etc). So men complaining about how women choose to ‘ruin’ their lives, is of concern to men for the reason previously mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:44 AM
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Just follow the passport bro movement, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:33 AM
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If you choose to live with men who does care that you are messy, why are you complaining about women being forced to do chores? Dishonest much?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:23 AM
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The lady could just cheat on without him knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:06 AM

If you hire a janitor as the boss at a company but don’t want to do the job of a janitor, you are a hypocrite. See how much sense that makes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:58 PM

You should criticize women women engage in this more as they decide if men get to have sex or not (unless it’s rape and a lot of men are against this). If a man expressed interest to have sex with many women and got the “we want marriage or a ltr” response, just like it used to be in centuries past, it wouldn’t be as much a problem as it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:56 PM

Yes as it’s hard for men to have sex with women in general and men give up a lot in commitment as women have shown they can still get men even into their old age, while young women with old men are most likely there for money or benefits. That’s even more a reason why it’s difficult for men to commit to promiscuous women as said woman is saying I get to exercise my options with many men while young and into later years, but want my long term commitment partner to have built himself up, deal with…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:49 PM

She might be looking for a beta bux savior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:36 PM

They would go for the first woman for the chance to have sex with her. Show a lot of men a visual of her past, and a lot of said men would drop the woman at the first sign of an argument or minor issue. This all after sex with the beauty of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:34 PM

The “insecure” shaming tactic! Almost anything anyone does could be called insecure. Did you buy extra thing in case you run out? That’s not good planing, that’s your “INsEcuRIty”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:22 PM

True
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:18 PM
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All of a sudden she doesn’t like doing x. Well how would you know what x is like if you haven’t experienced it... oh... nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:17 PM
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Chances are she got her fill of sex, and had sex with you in the begin of the relationship to draw you in. Probably imagines her many other partners and is repulsed by you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:16 PM
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If women didn’t do this, some serious men who are monogamy minded wouldn’t be displaying what some consider “incel” behavior. Women who do this contribute to current lack of commitment in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:13 PM
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How does this play into red-pill ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:10 PM
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Because men assume women will lie about being virgins anyways so might as well go after the attractive woman. And attractive women get left, cheated on, and ghosted, just for some men to get tired of the attractive on pursue the more desirable virgin. Show a lot of men videos of his attractive woman’s past and see a lot of them leave her. That’s why a lot of women can dress in almost nothing on a beach(some even nude) but go to great length to stop a future male partner from seeing her past. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:08 PM
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What if the virgin woman isn’t attention seeking and doesn’t wear as much makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:01 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:00 PM
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What if she can’t have sex anymore later in life, when sex was one of your main decision influencers? What if she makes demands like don’t look at ass or makes demands that are excusable if she was virgin woman? Should women with a past be ok with a man wanting to step out or have an open relationship to make up for lack opportunities later found in life, since it’s harder for men to sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:00 PM
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Yeah till after they are done fucking her. Then they start a relationship just to cheat on her, keep her in rotation of women to sleep with, or just ghost her within the next couple of weeks or months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:55 PM
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Not always is the 35 year old virgin concerning. What if the 35 year old had a past at 21 but decided to space it out the years after? The 35 year old is less likely to change their beliefs as they’ve come so far. The 35 year old is more likely to work through problems that most women would break up a relationship over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:46 PM
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Men assume women lie about being virgins so they go for attractive women. A woman might give oral sex, anal or receive oral sex and claim she is a virgin. Notice how many men say the care but almost never ask women irl if she is a virgin. If they did ask, believed women would be honest and asking wasn’t looked down on in society, guys would ask more and you would see men pursing women like you(assuming you really are a virgin) more. Attractive women still getting cheated on and or have bad relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:35 PM
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Because those women might be practice for men subconsciously. You might see men want you later as more desirable when they want a more serious, long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:30 PM
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Nope. How many female porn stars do you see having long lasting relationships in which the men are committed to them? Exception to be made for their partners having been pornstar themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:26 PM
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Men sleep with the attractive women, sure. But with knowledge of both option’s history, would choose the virgin after sex with the attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:24 PM
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Then most women should avoid such men which would then lead to less men like that existing? Do women avoid such men to avoid creating this issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:58 PM
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It’s like asking why do people want to be the first ones to own a brand new car but don’t might owning multiple cars and making used cars. Because you get to experience a new person but don’t want all the negatives that come with a promiscuous woman(and more sex doesn’t always mean she’s better at sex, and beside the virgin can be taught so that’s not an issue). Men can deal with women they meet saying no to causal sex if they can eventually get a somewhat attractive virgin woman at the end of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:56 PM
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“Oh yeah we forgot everything women do is in response to the men...care about” Lol. So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:24 PM
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They won’t listen to this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:48 PM
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Yes men might do that, but do women have to do it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:47 PM

How old and how tall are you lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:05 AM

The average white guys ran through landwhales and single moms (totally P&Ds) while waiting for a looks match to settle for them (see above paragraph). The brown and yellow guys continue to enjoy year+ dry spells, interspersed by brief relationships with burnt-out women who are "finally ready for a good guy". 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:00 AM

He just has to find a lady who would be interested in him. Not all women will be and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:56 PM
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Just ignore this and go the passport bro route
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:34 PM
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This is purple pill debate, so you are going to have people with different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:30 AM
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Because the redpill is the only “pill” with useful talking point? What does the blue-pill stand for if not as a foil to the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:46 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:03 PM
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Not just sexual validation, sex with a human woman is just an overall better experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:15 AM
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Because people on the sub are speaking facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:05 AM
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Which is why they should just allow men to have multiple women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 09:12 AM
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And lower the risk of stis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:58 PM
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Yeah. This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:01 AM
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Seems like it heading towards a lot of men having concubines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:40 PM
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You are correct!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:24 PM
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So shouldn’t men just be honest and say the issue they really have is that women are removing themselves from the pool by losing their virginities to the top 20% (attractive and wealthy) men? Women go for those men first because they want to get the very best they can and because they isn’t really a way to measure where they fall on the attractiveness scale and what man they should be aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:57 PM
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That 20% is mostly attractive men. It would be different if wealth alone put men in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:45 PM
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Correlation not exactly causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:27 AM
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This. Some of the women on the survey probably decided to fib to make men believe less women are having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:20 AM
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If they lie, they might be caught slipping. If you ask for more details, they will decline and there goes your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:09 AM
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What if in the process of dating around the man has kids by some of the women? What if he want to have an open relationship later to keep seeing some of those women? The problem ultimately is society wanting men give life-long commitment when they is no need for it. Who gets to determine when both partners have dated out as much as needs be? What if the man isn’t content and wants to keep dating while the woman stays committed to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:27 AM
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Add in higher chances of the woman having cervical, ovarian, uterine, endometrial cancer; it shows a lack of discipline and patience - future partner was working on building his value while she rode the carousel, only to demand commitment from him later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:21 AM
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Doing good work op. Keep up the good work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:13 AM
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Op even said he doesn’t mind a woman’s preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:10 AM
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You should re-read your comment and apply it to yourself. You missed the part where op’s post said no one should have to offer a reason other than it being a man’s preference. Don’t know why you’re arguing with someone who has this as a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:01 AM
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More like higher risk of std’s; shows the woman has low discipline and patience; higher risk of uterine, ovarian, cervical cancer that might have you paying it with commitment in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:56 AM
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And they wouldn’t want to date you either anyways lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:53 AM
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That’s because some guys are too scared to ask. If you ask her, she would either get annoyed - which is your cue to leave, say it doesn’t matter or tell you one. She would have to lie to you throughout the relationship and ppl normally don’t want to do that. So the short of it is, guys aren’t asking questions like they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:47 AM
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If you ask and they say it doesn’t matter, or get angry with you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:41 AM
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If you don’t care why are you commenting? Why the back and forth with op?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:34 AM
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Higher risks of getting with a lady at risk for uterine, cervical, ovarian cancer. Shows a lack of discipline with her then wanting you to be disciplined and show commitment later - imagine telling yourself to be faithful every time you have an opportunity to get with another woman. You end up being a sucker giving commitment to someone undeserving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:18 AM
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Be careful to vet as some women would try to represent themselves as not having been promiscuous in the past. If you ask them about it and they evade, seem angry or tell you it’s none of your business, that should be a sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:14 AM
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Roe won’t do as much as people think. Maybe, not giving women the crazy amount some get for child support would do much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:10 AM
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Not true. Pour sand into the vag and see if it cleans it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:07 PM
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Those women are at higher risks of uterine, ovarian, etc cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:00 PM
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Redpill ideology is meant to be used as a toolbox to get what is desired. Could be a good LTR or STR.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:55 PM
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It wouldn’t even be that bad if women and society openly admitted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:46 PM
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“Male sluttiness”? Small percentage of males you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:37 PM
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It also show a lack of discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:34 PM
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Not true. Some men who sleep around still cares if women sleep around. There are a lot of example of men like this in media. If men cared out of jealousy/inferiority, they could just pay to have sex. They care because it makes it harder to find women who meet standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:31 PM
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If you think many men don’t care, ask men if they would rather date the same woman with experience or without.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:10 PM
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True. The men might not be able to get a woman so he keep quiet about his preference in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:09 PM
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And if he don’t have self esteem issues so what? You’re attempting to shame a man for his preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:01 PM
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And that’s why you see a rise in men not committing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:52 PM
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Men watching porn doesn’t mean they like promiscuous women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:47 PM
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They tell other men not to put up with her because they assume she is not a virgin. She’s just trying to portray herself that way or mislead the man. They think “she didn’t make the guy she had sex with wait, so why make me wait”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:45 PM
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And part of the problem is a lot of women rate themselves as 10’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:40 PM
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Yes please do explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:38 PM
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All men aren’t out there exploring their sexuality, and they tend to want women who do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:37 PM
1

Another way to balance the dating scene is to encourage men to go overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:06 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:55 AM
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It's not so much about hypocrisy even though one can make that point. It's about having contradictory desires in such a way that it's logically impossible to have them both. "Logically it is impossible to have both of these simultaneously. You can't have a situation where men are having casual sex with women but simultaneously women are not having casual sex with anyone”. -Except you can after a situation where it’s not the same amount of women equally having sex with the available amount of sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:55 PM
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Also those men don’t plan on committing to the woman a lot of time anyways so hooking up with them without offer them commitment is the men telling them to F off after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:42 PM
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Some of the truest words ever uttered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:39 PM
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“Men are starting to become more like what women used to be like” One difference is while women are starting to act fluke men and men like women, the women acting like men want to “ACT” like men but revert back to a feminine position when put in certain circumstances by nature(childbirth for example). You’ll hear men and women being the same till it’s time to raise kid then it’s run to the government lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:17 PM
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Not comparing, just showing an example of holding a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:04 PM
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The assumption is that everything that improvement for a man to attract a woman also aligns with general male improvements. There are always going to be improvements that are more likely to be women influenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:09 AM
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“Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).” “It seems more and more people are struggling to find relationships, and I'm not certain why. “ Then proceeds to say: “I know I've experienced constant rejection on the apps by all different types of women, like most young men” It lets me know I am not good enough and need to improve to where I have more desirable qualities, as a 22 year old who has never experience love. Why do you think there are more and more young men who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:04 AM
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They understand they just like pretending not to and gaslighting men as it benefits them to do so in many situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:30 PM
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Right? These women live that live and expect you to man up and take care of their bills and living expenses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/22 06:39 PM
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A large number of modern women are like this. The rest just hide it better. So even men of worth are going to struggle to find good, non promiscuous women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/22 06:35 PM
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And they wonder why men want younger women. Yet women goin after younger men abound.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/22 06:16 PM
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And it’s not going to make her be truly committed to said husband, because notice she wants to settle down partly because her friends are doing so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/22 06:11 PM
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“If tomorrow women insisted on commitment before sex and valued other traits such as kindness and stability among young men...” Wholly agree with this. You have average women nowadays telling you they deserve a highly sought out man, leading to hypergamy and high n count women. If women stopped being promiscuous as the gatekeepers of sex, society would go back to how it was in days past when men was commitment minded. Problem is women want the traditional commitment minded man of the past withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:27 PM
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You might be onto something!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/22 03:11 AM
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Double taxation for the child support payer?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/22 02:17 AM
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Because there is true to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:51 AM
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Because men deep down inside don’t like promiscuous women. It’s hard for men to get women in general at every age in their life. Women who have always had it easy getting sex and relationships, when they start to approach mid 20’s to their 30’s, now want men to shut out all the options they finally have coming their way as a result of either realized financial success or the women wanting to try the men they never gave a chance. Stay faithful to such a woman when she didn’t wait for her future l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:21 PM
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Because men deep down inside don’t like promiscuous women. It’s hard for men to get women in general at every age in their life. Women who have always had it easy getting sex and relationships, when they start to approach mid 20’s to their 30’s, now want men to shut out all the options they finally have coming their way as a result of either realized financial success or the women wanting to try the men they never gave a chance. Stay faithful to such a woman when she didn’t wait for her future l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:21 PM
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Re-read post. Meant to type except instead. Who is punishing good behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:22 PM
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Men get less opportunities to have sex, which makes it less likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:14 PM
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Absolutely, op.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:59 AM
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“[The red pill] is anti-healthy relationships & anti-traditional community” No the world around you this day in age is anti healthy relationships and traditional community. The red pill if anything is trying to bring this all back. Nothing about women being promiscuous, and the general way they behave is traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:57 AM
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“To suggest someone uninteresting and entitled” What does uninteresting mean to you? And why does it matter so much if the guy is interesting or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:41 AM
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It’s not just about youth. Men just don’t want women who have slept around. The closer to being a virgin she is the better. Men just use youth as a metric because it is one of the best guarantees of a woman being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:34 AM
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That’s why men should be allowed to break up with their women from time to time to get make up for the lack of sexual options they(men) had compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:31 AM
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It’s not just about looks. It’s also the risk of contacting stds goes up the more she’s “dated” or hooked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:29 AM
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That’s part of not putting women on a pedestal, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:53 AM
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Women lie and play coy because they have to. A lot of men aggressively pursue sex so why would women give men the tools to effectively use them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:46 AM
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Oh look, it’s an attempt to silence you op. Yes he said “leftovers”. They don’t understand this. Men don’t want to delay gratification, some restraint knowing the consequences of unrestrained sex, and go make something of themselves just to end up with promiscuous women. Men like this(Should just say men in general) want the best. You are less likely to get an STI as a man dealing with virgin women; less likely to get baggage or the woman cheating with an ex on the low, or a myriad of many other…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:05 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:59 PM
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Also they harp on thing that men can’t change like height and a big member in the bed room. Men needing to lose weight is a lot more normal than it is for women as men more often do physical work and more likely to consume calories which leads to being overweight. What excuse does the opposing gender have? Heck earning six figures is somewhat easier for women (look at how many onlyfans model, and women who became billionaires and millionaires through involvement with men- something that doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:47 PM
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Little do women know that doing away with female promiscuity would solve the problem. Men have been told that working hard could help accomplish almost anything they want. Except for good, virgin/very low n count, moral, non STI-infected women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:04 PM
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Don’t understand why I was down voted?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 07:48 AM
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More like it doesn’t affect as much as some guys think. It does for some certain women but it’s kinda hard to say because men aren’t really casting a wide net in search of a partner.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:46 AM
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“Hypergamy is manipulated; You’re not in competition with other men; This is not a winner take all game” And you make these assertions based on what?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:44 AM
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“Divorce is on the decline...” Maybe because less men are getting married?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:42 AM
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“Child hunger has no impact on me either” Lol, you are a funny man. Keep up the good work sir
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:08 AM
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Or give the commitment of marriage to women who’ve slept around? The guy should just keep them in an open relationship and try to get theirs in. Committing to such a woman is letting her have her fun but then get told to not have yours when you finally beginning to reach peak attractiveness (building wealth, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:59 AM
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Resist the gaslighting from these women. They will try to make you doubt your perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:55 AM
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Cuz women have an incentive to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:52 AM
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Not just perceive as promiscuous looking. Perceive as promiscuous in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:55 AM
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The thing is men are more accepting of the looks of women and they don’t deny it like women would. Women on the other hand... That’s why part of what the red pill is attempting to do. To expose these truth to men so that they could be aware. If women were more honest and open (didn’t feel bad about pursuing tall men or whatever preference they have) about what they wanted, the red pill wouldn’t be as big as it is. The red pill exist because the world is trying to gaslight men about what they ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:39 AM
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It’s true. Good look matter a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:32 AM
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Some women have spoiled this for women like you who seek something like this.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 12:57 AM
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Just try not to be promiscuous. This contributes a lot to the problems redpillers have. If you do enter a relationship and choose to carry on with the “fantasies” at least get into with a deserving, kind, great man. Women doing some of these things help alleviate the redpill ideology
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 09:34 PM
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Nope she would not. And if she does get commitment, the guy is very likely to replace her if a good opportunity comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:04 PM
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Which just means she is a commitment risk for a man and men should just hit and dash as the guy might not forever be able to do it for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:03 PM
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Another thing is it doesn’t make sense to commit to a promiscuous woman. Commitment feels like a sucker move since it is easier for women to get sex and then they want you to forgo your options when you finally acquire value(which brings women interested in you). It sounds dumb telling to another lady whose willing to have sex with you, that you are in a relationship when the person you are in a talking about exercised their sexual options; something that is very easy for women to do. Maybe men …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:01 PM
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Agree with this take. Some men would even feel, deep down inside, like they are being sucked by women into being committed when it is generally easier for women to have many sexually partners. So when the man finally works hard and builds up his value, women who exercised their sexually options in the youth, then want to restrict the guys options and force him to settle down. Relationships are one of the only places where delayed gratification is punished instead of rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:16 AM
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“Here I am basically talking about me and many 30 years old I know who don’t want kids...” You do realize a lot of the younger men you do attract will eventually leave for a woman(most likely younger their age, or younger for optimal child bearing age for women) who want to have kids. So you are probably not going to be able to keep these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:07 AM
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If true, could it be that the evangelicals don’t deceive themselves into believing they are in a marriage? Would rather just dissolve the marriage than keep others believing you are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:21 PM
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Some young girls/women are not as naive, yes. A whole lot of them would do well to get online and learn these thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:42 AM
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Stop being so thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:12 AM
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And you know, a lot of men would have problems with the true but then eventually get over it and accept the true. It sucks that society works to have men doubt their observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 08:44 AM
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And changing the law men hope happens. Starting with anti abortion laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:51 PM
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How come you haven’t suggested women being less promiscuous? You know women give consent which determine if sex happens or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:38 PM
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Oh no you don’t! You don’t get to play the “responsibilities of a man” and men should act like men card right now when it’s convenient for you to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:32 PM
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Not if women made men understand that they want long term serious relationships. Some men tend to think when women are saying no to sex it’s because they are getting with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:42 AM
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Women are the final checkpoint to sex between man and woman. So yes, it’s up to women to act the part. If women all over the world stopped having sex till marriage or a serious relationship no matter what men did to sway them, do you think the fucckboy problem would be as bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:42 AM
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Just don’t complain when men don’t want to make the decision to settle with a woman who wanted to have fun, and require faithfulness from him later. It’s doesn’t make sense from an male economic value point of view, to give time and commitment to someone who easily exercised their options when they had the chance in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:37 AM
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Some guys just fuck women they see as promiscuous for fun. The way they see it, if they turn her down, some other guy would be having sex with her. So it might as well be them. If women everywhere were to close legs, shut down causal and premarital sex, men would response by trying their best to meet women’s new demands. Some men might result to rape, but will get sanctioned as society as done for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:31 AM
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Did women need to be the majority of the legislative to get Roe v. Wade passed? How about Title 9? How about not forcing women to be conscripted as part of the draft as every able bodied male 18-60 is a part of? Please stay on topic. What does Brock Turner have to do with what op wrote? And a lot of men are against Brock Turner; if not how did a system that you alluded to being male controlled, convict him? Isn’t that men holding the bad one accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:20 AM
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Instead of blaming men, let’s recognize that even if most men tried to hold other men culpable, women would still rather give themselves to these culpable men. Men could criticize a woman’s choice in men, with men pointing out that these are the men women would choose over the many other better men. More than half of sexual interactions in westernized countries are consensual. So women can’t use rape as an excuse for getting with the “asshole” men that u/CatchPhraze is suggesting the good one ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:03 AM
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Women give the green light for sex in most consensual situations. See, Men could try to be moral and noble by passing up on sex with a woman who has fallen for their game or a woman who just wants sex. But in rejecting such a woman, the woman would just go out and seek the next guy and the next after till she gets what (the sex) she thinks she should be wanting or wants. (Like why not stop there and maybe wait till the one guy you really want - who is hopefully your look-match - comes around; an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:27 AM
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The only type of lady that would have a problem with a guy not making up his mind is a lady who: A) is serious about getting into a relationship; a lady who isn’t going along for the ride and to have fun or a phrase B) a lady who doesn’t have esteem issues or issues in general that would affect her accepting a guy who isn’t making up his mind to be serious with her Now a large number of women are in the category of “Yeah I want a serious relationship but I won’t stop a high value catch of a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:31 PM
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Could be said that she is lying about being a lapsed Christian. She was breaking the rules for everyone else but not for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:48 AM
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Men are also afraid of marriage nowadays because of what the courts do to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:50 AM
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Most men would, even if it’s with reluctance, practice not sleeping with a woman on the first date; it’s just that a large amount of women are already promiscuous and have slept with other men but want to have “no sleeping too quick with guy I just met standards” when it comes to guys they want to date seriously. If more women were virgins out in the dating scene, and told men that they were waiting for long term serious relationships and didn’t want just to be used for sex, sure men would sulk …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:20 AM
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This is all on the assumption that all the women they consider their choice know of each other. They usually don’t. Here’s an example of many possible examples: A guy walks into a bar and talks to the first lady who stands for conversation with the guy. The guy gets to talking and asking questions about her to get to know her better. She gives cues that she is not interested in anything other than the free friendly convo they had just engaged in. He goes and chats up the next lady in the bar. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:28 AM
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That’s why they are temporarily keeping their options open. Their choice changes based on how the women they have as options act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:28 AM
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A small number of men whom women desire as women don’t desire every man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:27 AM
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Thank you, I don’t think op read what was posted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:19 AM
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Yes of course women want to get laid. Nowhere did I say they didn’t or argue against this. I did the opposite, in essence saying that women want to get laid but try to dress it as “we are damned if we are promiscuous, but men almost always want to have sex with us” and try to use men who want sex too early as an excuse to do what they were wanting to do anyways. And at the end of it all, try to blame men and shame men with the “damned if I do, damned if I don’t”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:11 AM
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“However, if you bring a girl home from a bar or whatever, she’s never going to seriously consider you” Not always true. Remember some women get brought home, (though one could argue that women met at a bar tend to do this less) have sex with the guy and begin to catch feelings for said guy. Catch feelings to where they begin to seriously consider guy for a relationship. So wining and dining is not always necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:57 AM
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But why can’t these women say no to the Mr. Right here and now? Them not saying no to guys like this creates problems that - and this is part of what angers a lot of men - they then in turn complain about to the ire of a lot of people who they choose to dump their complaints on (by it online, the magazines, daytime tv programs, etc). We’ve seen some women say something to the effect of: if we(women) have sex we are damned, and if we choose not to have sex, men complain. “Damned if we do, damned …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:48 AM
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If you are that worried about a woman having had more experience that you, you can just keep going on “breakup breaks” to get with someone on the side.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 06:54 PM
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But those “incels” would be more accepting of things as opposed to the ones complaining. Also wouldn’t they lean towards being black pill incels instead of redpill ones, no?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 09:39 AM
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And when one of you does something wrong, even though that person was previously a high esteemed member of the group, they get disowned and adopted into the fold by the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:43 AM
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Absolutely agree that people should have agency. If anything, it’s not the having of agency that is the issue, it’s the exercising of this agency by some women in a way that hurts and groups the monogamous seeking women who are affected by modern day dating, that is the problem. Why the exercising of this agency by just women? Because it is easier for women to get and or initiate for sex. Without them exercising this power, men would not be able in the first place, participate in the body count …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:24 AM
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Don’t mind the poster. Contrary to what a lot of men in the manosphere have said, women with low n counts in their 30’s are still valuable. Heck women in their 30’s are still desired. If not they wouldn’t be a lot of those women in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:04 AM
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But this is why some men have tried to fight against this aspect of feminism. Now a whole lot of people for whom it shouldn’t apply, are being grouped into the same category.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:01 AM
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Or admonishing feminists who fight for such things? See not all men who call for less promiscuous behavior and the like are against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:58 AM
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Is body count stupid? If it didn’t matter, then why should woman try to get a dude to commit when the guy could go on getting what was easy for her to get? Why try to get the guy to settle down after having fun from 18-30+ and then telling the guy, for who it is generally harder to get sex, to then settle? Could see some guys who never got much play asking for open relationships. It seems unfair that the lady had her fun but wants the guy to now commit, rejecting every other woman who comes his …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:55 AM
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See if all women did this, men like that would eventually double back and actually date them commit to women. It’s just that women get scared of men ghosting them on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:45 AM
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Add in that the women who pursue these guys knowing that they are already in relationships should be considered too. Women’s involvement in causing commitment issues and modern day relationship problems are very underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:27 AM
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Yes. The redditor you asked this question might not want to answer but the answer to your question, is yes. Men are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:21 AM
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Yes men just are bad partners. Never understood why women desire and tolerate men. A lot of men have a natural desire to be with a variety of women but are forced to be with one because most women don’t want to share. Which is why women being promiscuous doesn’t encourage commitment in men. Men already have to give up that desire to form relationships with many women and play the roles of protector and provider for women. And then women are proposing they settle for what they might consider a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:10 AM
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That’s true. Heck the non chads type seems to do it the most because they don’t have the option to not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:00 AM
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This is why some men have opposed some aspects of the new aged feminist movement. They pointed out that women and men aren’t the same and women who eventually want kids shouldn’t be pushing for certain things because it would ruin the structure of the old way of doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:25 AM
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Autistically bound?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:19 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:11 AM
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Which is why no one should feel sorry for guys who get cheated on by wayward women. They perpetuate the flaws in society by refusing to do what needs to be done to correct said flaws. The sycophantic men who support bad decisions women make, the ones who save promiscuous women, etc
/r/MensRights06/05/22 06:02 PM
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And that said man can have all the money in world and still not have the options the modern day average woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:15 AM
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It’s not that men cry about it. It’s that they say it out loud to avoid themselves and other me of being victims of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:06 AM
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That’s a lie. A lot of women on fds want tall men.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 09:23 PM
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“Women often don’t know why they want what they want” And that’s why some men enter into these kind of arguments. To affirm these things. But some women argue to earth’s end that it is not true. Even you seemed to argue a bit till you just came out and said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:16 PM
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Men wouldn’t care as much if the women making these claims just came out and said the truth. What you said: we want you to ask us out and pay because that’s how you show interest. If it is said as openly as this then the people on here doing so wouldn’t be trying to disprove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:11 AM
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More like they will try to claim they are that way. You know see what some men like and try to camouflage. Got to be careful out here fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:07 AM
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That’s what the argument is about. Those “girls” don’t are pretty much outliers as it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:05 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:04 AM
5

You are on a roll here man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:02 AM
36

“It was women not men who started a liberation movement demanding the end of gender roles and pestered everyone about this shit” Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:59 AM
1

Women of days past use to participate in slut shaming is what was said. You should learn to read. And the reason you provided wasn’t the only reason why it was done. Women participated in this act because they understood that women being promiscuous put another woman’s relationship at risk. What are some words a woman who is beating another lady caught cheating with her partner, calls the lady that’s getting the beating? Is slut a possible word? Try to stay on topic. What was being discussed was…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:32 AM
1

Yeah I see what you are trying to say. A better analogy would be car insurance. But the life insurance analogy can still work here as the should be recipient of the policy is the person whose death triggers it. It’s just that this person, in anticipation of their death, pre assigns what should go to them, to go to a life recipient. So in the same way life insurance is for the planners benefit, is the same way it holds in a relationship. The planner is still the benefactor of the policy(which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:05 AM
2

You fail to realize that the average woman acts like she is deserving of an above average man. Some go so far as to completely avoid average men as they believe they deserve better. How do you think some men sleep with a lot of women if this one to one pairing you are suggesting, is a thing. Edit:Yes it was for the redditor above you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:46 AM
2

“But that doesn’t mean it wouldn’t be easy for me to get a rebound” So you are saying it would be anything but difficult for you to get a rebound? You are agreeing with u/Im_The_Daiquiri_Man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:41 AM
1

Could be them being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:38 AM
2

No, life insurance is for everybody who can afford it. And it is on behalf of the person who it is take out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:37 AM
0

Especially if she already had many sex partners in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:28 AM
1

Probably brought up for discussion purposes. Could also be a male call to action.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:27 AM
2

Do you mean immortality? You know because you can imagine the opposite of immortality and what it entails and then think of the negation of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:19 AM
3

It’s like this individual doesn’t know where they stand on in this argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:16 AM
1

Does having car insurance increase the chances of getting into a car accident?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:14 AM
1

Men can’t make dick abundant at the same rate that women make pussy abundant. Men have a natural desire not to all share in sex, the same woman. Men only result to that in situation of the woman in question being exceedingly beautiful, or not the men not having many options. Women, on the other hand, can all have sex with a small number of men, with not as strong a disinclination or same amounts of interest rejection as men. One very under-looked thing that kills relationships for women is other…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:07 AM
3

Difference is at least women get more from men like this than just sex. Women get male orbiters who would do almost anything (provide financial security, opportunity for upward mobility) for her in addition to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:50 AM
1

I like this. Way to make them question their logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:46 AM
2

Anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:44 AM
7

Are you implying that being a size 16 keeps you from options? Cuz that’s easy all you have to do is lose weight. A guy can lose weight, gain weight, and do all kinds of body modifications and still not have the same leverage that the average to below average woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:41 AM
6

The responder wasn’t even addressing your op. It like some people do everything to discredit the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:39 AM
-4

“Make no mistake, TRP is designed to keep you miserable and hopeless so you keep coming back for more advice, not escape the matrix.” Not really. TRP is meant to show you the reality of relationships. Things like: financial security matters to women; Good looks and sexual prowess matters to, not all women, but a lot of women. Which is why a lot of women use it as an insult directed at men. If TRP doesn’t have a whole lot of true to it, then how did someone like you who is so against it find and …
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 12:15 AM
3

Damn
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 06:57 AM
5

I bet she has nothing else to give. Probably in debt too
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 04:34 AM
6

The men who hold out for delayed gratification get the shitty end of the deal. He’s the one more likely to get an std
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 04:33 AM
6

“Thought he was stupid because she was a primary school teacher so he should have assumed that” Wow. I couldn’t deal with someone like that. Instead of communicating something this important(having kids), she assumes he knows.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 04:31 AM
1

What do you mean by gray person? And what is it you think men want from her if not her or her beauty? Is it sex or her money?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 04:14 AM
2

You lie too much you mean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:30 AM
1

That’s how the lying starts friends. Still can’t even see how those words of hers makes a member of the “good girl” category.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:29 AM
4

You can raise kids living with a woman without being married though?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 09:05 AM
2

“I wouldn’t even discuss n-count. Nothing good can come from it” If you can’t even be open with your partner about such a thing, you probably shouldn’t try to make a relationship work with said person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:10 AM
1

No. It’s more than just men who have problems getting causal sex. It’s also men who don’t see the point in commitment if women treat sex so causally just to force exclusivity later; especially later when some men have more options that be in a commitment relationship keeps them from pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:20 AM
2

Some guys could try not to sleep with women as a way of promoting non promiscuous behavior because they know how some male think with the whole n count thing. Hell they could even preach to her about being promiscuous and encourage her not to live life that way. Problem is, some other guy won’t pass up the chance and play a Good Samaritan if the situation presents itself. More important to consider is the woman wouldn’t hesitate to go on to the next guy after the guy before passes up the chance …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:24 PM
1

Having sex with lots of men who don’t do chore outside of marriage. Some might think why wasn’t it so big a problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:53 AM
1

And that’s a part of why men don’t commit to women who had went through that outside of marriage but wouldn’t in a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:44 AM
1

“Women’s bodies are not commodities and shouldn’t be on sale” Remember to tell that to the women who are willingly making their bodies commodities and earning money by agreeing to participate in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:08 AM
1

I liked this comment and posted mine after the very first paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:54 AM
1

But isn’t being able to delay ejaculations a good thing which allows you to orgasm many times? A man cumming takes energy away from his body, decreases strength of seed and makes him have to get his penis up again for sex; unless you two are trying for a baby. So why do so many women see this as a problem? Ejaculations as a measure of desirability? The guy having sex with you is already a sign of desirability. Please don’t say “delayed ejaculation” was part of your reasoning for breaking up with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:32 AM
1

Yeah just realized you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:56 AM
1

But why stop there in a relationship? Even two people get together in a relationship and one wants to keep one having sex with other people while the other doesn’t want that for them, why not one partner “break up” whenever they want to pursue more n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:51 AM
1

“Old people will vote to raise taxes and work the youth even harder” Are you sure? Is this even always suppose to be true? Isn’t the youth population suppose to eventually surpass the old?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:49 AM
9

Didn’t even consider this. Very true
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 04:34 PM
1

Jesus or mini Zeus? That doesn’t really say much. Like he’s enigmatic like a cult leader or he’s outspoken?
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:20 PM
1

Yes that is a hard thing to grasp indeed
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:12 PM
1

Yes is there a movie character you can compare him to?
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:07 PM
1

Don’t you want to see how developed your body can become? To test the limits of your body? All the useful things you can do with? Getting stronger to make physical labor / day to day activities easier? So many other reasons without making it about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:34 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:50 PM
1

And you sound like you are from an older generation. Current day affairs are much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:49 PM
2

The ones that lie about that also outnumber men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:41 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:39 PM
1

Because women know getting with a man who makes less puts them at risk of getting the treatment men have been getting for years of being financially raped by the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:38 PM
1

It could be said that women sacrifice their bodies in child birth but not just for man in the relationship. A lot of women would do it anyways because they want children, so it wouldn’t be fair at all to say they do this for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:33 PM
1

A girlfriend or pet can be encouraging, supporting, loving so on and so forth, is what op means. Also a lot of women expect the man to single-handedly fulfill the financial role. A lot of women wouldn’t even get with what they consider a broke man, which further takes away from the whole helping financially take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:27 PM
1

But marriage isn’t needed for a man and woman to share lives. You can do that without being married. Which brings us back to the original question: why should men get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:03 PM
1

Some do. A lot of men want their woman to be that for them but not for other men. Hypocrites? Yes. When they want to settle down a lot aren’t looking forward to being with a promiscuous woman. Women intuitively know this which is why they lie about N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:57 PM
1

Its not just men that want it though is it? Women must also want the current day liberal attitude towards sex. If not they would have fought against it just like they have everything else they truly didn’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:49 PM

So what do you suggest one do to move up to a $150,000 a year salary when all said individual knows is dirt jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:41 AM
2

Ukraine also supplies the UAE and some other countries with women hoping to make fast money or move up the financial ladder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 03:35 PM
1

In what other way does marriage benefit a otherwise would be single man if not for tax benefits and if(and a big if) the lady he is in a relationship with works to alleviate combined household expenses? Now weigh that against the cons of a divorce and realize that single men won’t suffer as much. Would by the same for divorce men except they are single men with the loss of assets. Mind you, you can still do the building of assets with a easy to get along with partner without getting married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 02:58 PM
1

Marry before you carry? Marry this day in age?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:31 PM
1

And they use that opportunity well!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 10:43 PM
2

Couldn’t it be that optimistic men have reasons to be optimists? You know like maybe having good looks or luck dating women? Knowing you have options can affect how you approach relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:55 PM
2

You are not disagree with him/her. They acknowledged some women not being too worried about sex because these women know sex is a tinder swipe away. Knowledge of which makes it easier for women to be “contentedly celibate”. Don’t know if you were attempting to add to the conversation or just commenting in disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:34 PM
2

Still women use it to manipulate men a lot of times. You don’t often hear men using the “real woman” equivalent. Imagine if men said real women should be in the kitchen? Or real women should act like this or that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:01 AM
2

It’s a lock in for some women who’ve had their fun who want men to commit and be faithful - especially when a lot of men have a non monogamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:50 AM
3

BS. Where are the stats to prove this claim that plenty of women are involuntarily virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:45 AM
1

So by what you are saying ugly women should never get partners or be able to have children either? So ugly women will pass down their undesirable genes to their children? And also men win too if women decide to have their children as kids a lot of time warm up to their dads later on in life. And men also have the choice of getting a mail order bride, so men aren’t losing as much as you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:57 PM
3

Sometimes the behavior gives clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:03 AM
-1

No, women who don’t like virgins most likely feel that way because they probably think virgins would judge non-virgin women. It almost like they are pushing you away so that you can be with a woman like yourself- which is honestly a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:33 PM
1

Just don’t be a hoe. Give him that fresh stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:24 PM
1

“Human brains aren’t made for objectivity” “The defining characteristic of humanity is being able to believe in made up shit in order to organize society and create culture” “Last time I checked redpill forums aren’t out here citing peer-reviewed studies” You have made a lot of unsubstantiated claims for someone who wants red-pilled men to cite peer reviewed studies. Is this one of the reasons men don’t believe what women say and look instead at how they behave? What does human brains aren’t mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:14 PM
1

Redpill men come in every shade, shape and form. There are redpill men who are misogynist and some who are well adjusted guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:52 PM
1

No, these men want women that are all the way prudish. Not a woman who would fuck other men then try to feign being a prude to mislead the next guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:31 PM
2

This!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:27 PM
0

RP men advise women not to be promiscuous. Some literally ask the “is she virgin” question. But like herm-dawg said women don’t listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:25 PM
1

AWALT should actually be seen as a lot of women are like that. Or some women are like that. The all that is normally used is just expressed cynicism, a waiting for someone to come along and disprove the all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:20 PM
1

Cuz you were on of the many women who actually went the other way? “Virgin and married” And your would have been red pilled husband is married and still remains so. All of this just happens to be what the redpill talks about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:10 PM
1

That why men keep playing/keep being non-committal. Why stop chasing after multiple women (even when in a relationship) when they is no point in doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:19 PM
3

Thing is a lot of men assume all women are like this. That a lot of women are not worth committing to. Even the men who say they don’t feel this way, or who don’t really feel that way on a surface level, feel that way on a very deep subconscious, ingrained level. So they is no have causal sex and then commit because they is almost no one worth committing to or they live a world were the number of people practicing commitment is very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:53 AM
1

“If you don’t want to be with a woman that’s had sex before then just don’t” That is easier said that done. A lot of women have had sex so it makes it hard to just find one that’s not. So men just accept what they can get. This probably has something to do with a lot of men being non-committal. They probably cheat because they feel a lot of women don’t deserve faithful, committed partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:35 AM
2

Those guys were not going to be serious anyways. A guy who would have been serious in a relationship would not break the relationship and would respect the woman more for holding strong to their desire to remain a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:18 AM
1

“The average woman is the reason for this pump and dump culture by chad” Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:32 PM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:11 PM
7

Unless you are attracted to them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:53 PM
4

That’s a kid though. You can’t compare kids to an of age woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:48 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:44 PM
1

How can you be so dense. Your husband falling back on you if he can’t afford groceries, is an exact example of the dual income benefits that Feisty-Saturn is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:13 AM
5

“Attractive men do have women courting them” The commenter above you said “‘MEN’ have to build their value before women give them a look”. You just spun it into attractive men have women courting them without money. It’s like you didn’t try to disprove his point as all. It’s almost as if you are acknowledging that what was said is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:57 PM
3

Wholly agree with this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:34 PM
1

Yes absolute based opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:28 PM
1

Some women just don’t want men mistakenly seeing them in an unplanned porn video. That has to be one explanation for why they have such dislike for men watching porn. Else they would have similar thoughts on women watching porn too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:57 PM
1

It’s not so much that men whine about not being able to find women. It’s more like they are not willing to settle for just any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:32 AM
1

Or anyone at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:33 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:24 PM
0

Because women are smart. Only men marry partners who have less money than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:54 PM
-1

I bet the women were saying this meaning a 26 year old male with 24 year old female. They would not complain if it were the other way around though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:59 AM
6

Women wanting high earning partners? Yeah that sounds creep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:57 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:12 PM
1

She/he is trolling you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:45 PM
1

This person could just be trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:42 PM
1

Most men not just lmv
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:32 PM
1

You are also assuming that everything men do to become HVM intersects with what gets HVW. For example: Going to the gym can improve your looks and help you become more attractive. It can be also something you do for yourself without regard for attracting a partner(a position you would agree with. Targeting some key visible muscles is really what you need to be attractive. But anyone who goes to the gym knows that you need to incorporate exercises that target other muscles for overall strength. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:01 PM
2

Someone whose handle is “pm me hairy nudes” thinks it is sad that someone was reliving sex related memories? You make it seem like your brother, if he agree with red-pillers, would do so for no reason. Have to admit, they do have a point in some small areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:40 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:08 PM
1

But some women don’t operate like regular prostitute. To even be in that situation to even interactive on that level with said women, was most likely due to the financial pre-requisite
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:57 PM
3

Stop what you are doing. It’s kinda manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:44 AM
1

Women: Rules for thee!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:40 AM
8

Problem is those guys don’t want to wait for women who wouldn’t have given them a chance to make them a last choice option
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:45 PM
1

Making the rounds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:34 PM
3

We have to note that men don’t usually get alimony, child support and other belongings in a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:17 PM
1

But who are these top women getting with? We you saying they don’t have sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:46 PM
1

Problem is you are thinking ugly and attractive instead of a range that looks fall on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:39 PM
1

“Most women aren’t interested in causal sex” Both most women would rather choose to date an attractive male or take chances with an attractive male than an unattractive one and dating at times involves sex on first few dates. So “women aren’t interested in causal sex” but they are still participating in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:03 PM
1

Perceived as attractive isn’t really the same as hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:40 PM
1

Yes please give a response to this. Why ONS then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:31 AM
2

It’s better the honesty though. So then you know what to do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 01:28 AM
3

No lol. You’ll be letting her know to deceive next dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 01:18 AM
1

Hoes? As in females?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre11/07/21 03:38 AM
1

Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 01:13 AM
1

Definitely don’t live up to standards alright. Also complains about men being unable to commit in relationship while they ride the cock carousel lol. Like you are contributing to men’s lack of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:55 PM
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