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What is out of your control exactly? People are often able to grow their confidence, become more attractive, increase their incomes, and even change their social circles and what bubbles they operate in. I went from having no good options whatsoever when I was younger, to being able to get solid and decent ones through incremental change over time. Even my personality and attachment style used to be trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:51 PM
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I'm taking that comment as a compliment. 😎 Usually get told that being driven is off-putting so I take what I can get hahaha And yes, women can get dates more easily than men because men tend to pursue women who then pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:21 PM
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What are you talking about? I used to be homeless with severe acne and a near jaw surgery worthy overbite, it was like my face was both melting and bleeding simultaneously. Used to get egged in the street by men. Was bullied in school, college, and even university. I put extreme mind boggling work in to get to mid and have a normal life, over years and years. Had to literally rebuild my body and mind from scratch. Yes, really. Your tendency towards surface level comparison does you no favours. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:55 PM
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What is with this thread? I, a mundane mid woman, went to a 30s and 40s speeddating event a few weeks ago. There were multiple professionals and entrepreneurs there, some decent men, and some pretty women. Plus, there were more men than women. And now I have a second date with an ambitious guy from it. Yes, there is variability in the events, with some being better than others but that's why I make a point of going to events when they're more likely to be busy, such as around Valentines Day. To …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:06 PM
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The conspiracy theorist in me thinks that 'real feminism' (things that truly benefit women) has served its purpose and is now on the chopping block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:21 AM
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They talk about how men who foot the bill are more likely to see the interaction as transactional and assault women but.... At the same time, other studies that found that men who value their partners more ARE MORE LIKELY to buy them gifts which can include dinner. So.... I still think it is the best way forward as the dating stage often mirrors the relationship itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:18 PM
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Good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:37 PM
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Ask a potential date what their favourite Reddit sub is, if they can answer the question with a named sub they fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:31 PM
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Say something red pill or manosphere related, for example complain about your supposed friend being hypergamous and then see how they react. If they agree to the statement, or start spilling 'red pill beans' pretend you agree, don't sleep with them and write them off as an option. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:28 PM
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Possibilities: -don't date Reddit users as it will soon be a near all male cesspit -if anyone works in advertising, has a say in a company's advertising or owns their own company- try to discourage advertising on Reddit -reach out to journalists and media outlets -could create some kind of subscription service to a website as it is highly unlikely that a male lurker would pay even a tiny amount to use a message board The admins and others are queens and have already created a website. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:12 AM
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I can't believe it, it was one of my favourite subs. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:54 PM
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I've had this. "Maybe I should find a more submissive woman in the future" aka please be a doormat "I'm not sure about your tattoos" "Maybe you're too sensitive for me" aka be stop having feelings "Wouldn't it be better if you wore less makeup?" "I think you might be too feminist for me" Etc etc etc Yawn STFU I'm changing nothing for you scrotes If I push against my nature then I won't be happy and I'll be wasting my one life sacrificing my happiness for someone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:56 PM
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Thank you so much to the mods, creators and community. FDS is my favourite sub, has made a tangible difference to my life and I am eternally grateful for everything you have done. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:09 AM
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To some extent, but not always. I used to have extreme Google image search worthy acne, have an overbite so extreme I could barely close my mouth AND at one point I was both homeless and chronically ill too. At no point, was I fat and I probably never will be because of genetics as neither of my parents put on much weight with age. During the rubbish part of my life, I probably looked diseased or something and at most I would be bullied or mocked by men in the street so.... Yeah, they wouldn't e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:37 PM
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Maybe they come from an emotionally abusive background? Perhaps they compare themselves to digital fakery and have surprisingly low self esteem? Another possibility is that they were not considered pretty before puberty or when they were younger. For example, I could well be conventionally attractive now but had severe acne throughout my teens and it took a long time for my self-esteem to increase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:22 AM
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That's actually a good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:14 AM
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I don't think he did. It is quite possible that he is on track to be alone for a long long time, perhaps forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:29 AM
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Yup. He ideally wanted a woman at the age of consent. That said, he would settle for as young as he could get I.e. early to mid twenties. At the moment he is 38.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:08 PM
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I have seen this before. A guy, I am glad I left, was in his thirties and preoccupied with the "horror" of probably ending up with women in their thirties. One of his primary goals was to find an attractive woman as young as possible to be his SAHM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:20 PM
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Please! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:24 PM
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Your dad is cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:18 PM
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It's right, but the comments are a cesspit. I was thinking about this earlier and had a 'crazy idea'. My crazy idea, was that some men, or perhaps a good portion, might be inherently wired to 'short-termism'. If you think of the male sexual act, it is usually quite short lasting minutes and that's all they need to do to reproduce. You can also see this in novelty seeking and dangerous activities, including sleeping with different women, engaging in dangerous sports and more. Is it possible that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:57 AM
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This sounds evil but I almost want him to do it. In the end we all know he will get nothing and regret it while his wife will find someone else. It will be even better if he makes a post afterwards about how he ruined his whole life. (Obviously I am speaking half in jest, because that would be horrible for his children. You could argue his wife deserves better than someone obsessed with getting his dick wet though?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:36 AM
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That's not remotely true. Often they want someone meek and subservient, who is always ready for sex, who will satisfy their kinks whilst having none of their own, complete the vast majority of domestic labour while going 50/50, and who will bear their children which is an extraordinary sacrifice while remaining exceptionally attractive. That's A LOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:28 AM
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Many comments did condemn him, but at the same time lots of NVM's want to impregnate women and are not prepared to stay when the women's bodies change. Beyond that, everything single current or former red piller I have met in real life have been absolute trash. Oddly, two them ended up turning into actual nazis in the most literal sense. I am pretty sure they are both jobless too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:39 PM
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Men hurt themselves, harassing women causes them to leave platforms, which in turn makes it harder for them to get sex and relationships. It makes for the very odds, they complain about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:21 PM
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Does anyone have links?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:28 AM
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There are so many disgusting comments. I wouldn't touch a guy who agrees with "John" with a stick. Those "men" are worthless and broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:13 PM
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I also need to know. My cornflowers died. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:56 PM
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It's grim but I am not going to quit what I enjoy because of a bunch of losers. More tattoos incoming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:32 AM
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IMO this is completely fine We want nothing to do with him and he wants nothing to do with us He is a LVM and he will never have a quality woman, or perhaps any woman ever No one will miss him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:43 AM
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LMAO 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:15 AM
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LMAO 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:15 AM
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If a woman got pregnant and complained about it, then they would tell her to close her legs..... But allowing 'paper abortions' were a man can walk away consequence free so they can get their casual sex, is okay? Staggering hypocrisy all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:31 AM
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That's actually a really good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:19 AM
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The comments on the post are horrendous. A lot guys seemingly can't think beyond their dicks, even to the point were the poor OP was put down further. Disgusting. The OP even said that she was acting in line with his primary love language, receiving gifts, and what her husband enjoyed on similar holidays. Apparently that isn't good enough because dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:00 PM
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Those comments. Pretty sure I rolled my eyes so much I am blind. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:46 PM
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LMAO I partly dumped my ex because apparently it wasn't clear that I wanted to spend time with him on Christmas 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:10 AM
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LMAO That battery comment killed me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:57 AM
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I think this sub is absolutely amazing and the mods are doing a stellar job. They have my eternal gratitude. It is so refreshing to have a supportive, and in my opinion quite rational, female space. I'm not the biggest fan of feminism as a lot of it seems to be short of the mark. I like FDS a lot better as it is practical. It also focuses on relationships and interactions with toxic men which is something just about every woman has to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:01 PM
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The definition of 'high value man' (HVM) in FDS philosophy is primarily based on how men treat their partners. Less attractive women deserve respect and good treatment in their relationships too, and therefore deserve a HVM. Also note, female value is inflated because men tend to pursue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:35 PM
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A few more issues with your comment: -most individuals message people more attractive than they are, but ultimately people tend to form relationships with people comparably attractive. (Can reference both points) -the definition of 'high value man' in FDS philosophy is such, that many men can attain it- and the primary basis of that definition is how they treat their partner -I suggest you look at the statistics on sexual harassment in a variety of contexts, harassment and poor relationships are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:31 PM
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Incorrect. Multiple studies by evolutionary theorists and psychologists show that men who are seen as 'higher mate value' engage in less controlling and abusive behaviour than men with 'lower mate value'. The theory is that men of 'lower mate value' have to resort to more negative behaviours to 'keep' their partner, in part because they have less resources so they are less likely to invest in their partner. These studies look at multiple variables when assessing 'mate value' rather than just inc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:23 PM
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I am 25 too and look better than in my teens. That said, my face is still pretty squishy. In terms of keeping my skin looking good, I like cleansing lotions that you don't wash off (cleans skin whilst hydrating it and protecting it) and The Ordinary 7% glycolic toner. I honestly feel that these two products have somehow made my skin look even younger. At the moment I can see no visible skin difference, in a negative way, compared to what I looked like as a teen. No signs of aging at all and my w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:53 PM
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This happens in monogamous relationships too. Trust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:33 PM
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I really appreciate everyone's advice and input.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:04 AM
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I am happy to do this, but I am not sure how to set it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:25 AM
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I agree. Basically if you're taking advantage of the weak, you probably haven't got a lot going for you. In contrast if you don't need to take advantage of the weak to get laid then you're probably in a better position and have the ability to sell yourself to a healthy person. You're also not a complete ****
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:26 AM
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The only one with a soul in this entire comment section. ^
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:19 AM
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So basically skip morals so he can get something at someone else's expense? classy
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:07 AM
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