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WisdomTangoFoxtrot/r/askMRP25/04/17 08:55 PM
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Guys, she just wants feelz. My wife has said the same when I achieve success or laying down some ambition. Pressure flip- Make her feel special about something she is doing or marginally doing to keep you. (Never miss an opportunity to reinforce good behavior) Agree and amplify- Nod. "I am getting tired of keeping these other women up off me, if I leave you it's because I just couldn't take it anymore. I know you'll understand. That's why I love you." Or just bear hug her....and say "There, ther…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/19 12:17 AM
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You are in her frame. If it would cause an issue and a fight, you are in her frame. If this is bothering you, you are in her frame. You have your confirmation. She will hide it from you. Probably because you are wierd about it and it would cause an issue and a fight. You have work to do. Go lift. So you are thinking of your sore muscles instead of some dude with your wife. From forever ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/19 10:43 PM
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Agreed. A woman not fucking on the first date says more about the man than the woman. Blue pill conditioning looks for unicorns by not being fucked until some future date. Let's pretend past behavior is a good predictor of future behavior. You didn't get fucked on date 1, or date 3, or date 9. But date 10 was the key. She must have been like that with everyone else? Wrong. The single most important variable is you aren't anyone else. Present behavior is the most accurate predictor of future beha…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 03:40 AM
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Amused mastery. Sidebar. "Your crotch has a little itch? That's a wierd opener." "Oh you're cute. Are you asking me out?" "It sounds like your trying to ask me out. My reputation of spanking bad girls must precede me." Then wink at the girl you're gaming in front of her. And state "And....I just said that." Then "Let me get this door for you, <girl you're gaming>." Your frame. Not hers. Always be closing. Visualize using the HB8 as a stepping stone. Or underneath you in some imaginative form or …
/r/askTRP20/12/17 11:00 PM
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Best I can tell, she's not with anyone now, but with no trust, who can be sure? You can be sure she will take dick. Yours or someone elses. Anyone else successfully come back from something like this? I come to you to humbly ask, what the fuck should I do? If you search the sub, you'll see anecdotal evidence of relationships coming back. The key take away is...it's a lot of damn work, with very little return. But you have a bigger problem. You let people control your life for you. And her is why…
/r/askMRP15/07/17 05:16 PM
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Not sure how to handle this, except... Agreed. I will not negotiate. In any negotiation, both parties have to bring something to table that the other wants. Ok. First. Just stop this. You are not parties. You are all adults who need to set boundaries. She is setting hers...and is driving consequences. She's not bring anything to the table, except our love for her. I guess she plans to negotiate based on that. She has no money, no car, no job, no HS diploma, and no means of support, AND she's bee…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/17 07:33 PM
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I hope to keep the group to a TINY size (around 10 people) to keep conversation threads manageable. Fixed that for you. Epic smack downs are not helpful or tolerated here. Faggot.
/r/askMRP02/07/17 12:51 AM
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venison Ha. Nice. Nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 04:31 PM
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Was sure you thought I talked too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 04:04 PM
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I believe I read your critique accurately. If I was on this, I'd lead, and the parents would follow, and that would be the end of it. I've not sufficiently developed my frame with my parents to deal with this interaction. (still following) The problem, is avoidance, to maintain frame where I want to prioritize which is with my wife. (get out of the way) So yeah. Got caught being a pussy again. Fuck. Work still to be done here.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 02:54 PM
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I was merely curious how this community would interpret things I've been through. And you do have your answer. They interpret it as: "You were never alpha." Understanding it as a sex strategy frame-work really helps (none of the other posts I read put it so bluntly). Is that the end-goal of MRP, or is there something more to it? You've answered your own question. It's a framework. Frameworks are not end goals. Men who MRP journey to check off all of the boxes still find themselves highly capable…
/r/askMRP27/06/17 02:40 PM
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I get you. But familial ties have ways of playing tricks with your head.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 02:22 PM
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I'm not married, but since I've embarked on my RP improvement journey, I now get so many IoI's from married women that I have to ask this... That's just hypergamy. If you want to call it a secret sex club...ok...but... Secret: Because they don't talk about it. Sex: Because they fuck. Club: Because you and they are part of it. There is no overarching organizational structure other than hypergamy calling the shots.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 03:50 PM
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Are there any good resources on how to genuinely NGAF? Putting the hard work in and developing your own sense of abundance. Any tips? The sidebar comes to mind as being full of them.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 03:45 PM
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I was pretty alpha and she loved it No. Because...you're not leading her or yourself as evidenced here: For example, BJs are off the table. I also tried to go down on her once and she cut things off on the spot, insisting I never do that again. Is this something where I should just give up and move on or does your version of "being a man" mean setting a goal and making it a reality, no matter how much opposition you face along the way/never giving up even if the goal is highly improbable? And be…
/r/askMRP26/06/17 02:35 PM
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But this event was ahead of where I wanted it to be, but that's my doing. I went through the dread levels too quickly. I made decisions that will compromise my marriage, and I admitted to them. What a disaster. So in hindsight. Being 20/20 and all. Was the making out with HB8s worth it? What would you do differently? What would you do exactly the same?
/r/askMRP25/06/17 09:59 PM
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And I'm mournful of that. But it may be for the best.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/17 03:34 AM
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Physical - After 2 weeks break (travel), I'm back on IF. BF/BMI/Weight - 16.6%/25.5/187. After tooling around Paris for a week, good God, am I a fat fuck. Was doing CC while looking at the Eiffel Tower. Ate way too many croissants. Mental - Picked up a book about the Rothschilds. Audio'ing 48 laws of power. Still learning French. Applied use of French was much more fruitful than I had hoped, doubling down. Emotional - Sullen. A death in the family has me off center. Social - Fat people make me h…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 06:11 PM
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So this plagued me for a while and it took me some time to dial it in. Lifting and increasing my DL helped immensely. This is my assessment of this: It's a shit test: They assess: Are you a man who can own their sexuality? Yes or no. What to do: A&M. "I was trying to think if I needed to put a bag over her head while I was sport fucking her." It's a comfort test: They assess: Are you checking out escape options? Yes or no. What to do: A&A. Push and pull this. Lean into the insecurity...and then …
/r/askMRP05/06/17 07:23 PM
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The next time my wife puts her dish in the sink, I'm going to tell her to put it in the dishwasher instead. Ask me about this next time, and if I haven't done it, bust my fucking balls. This is a weird boundary, but ok. And it's something she can 100% not do and control, and thus weaken your frame. Your war is psychological because... Assertiveness is my biggest weakness. It's all run through with oneitis - somewhere deep down, I'm still terrified of losing my wife....so much so that I avoid eve…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 05:10 PM
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Physical - Still doing IF. BF/BMI/Weight - 17.1%/25.6/188. No progress of note. Traveling did nothing for the scale. I simply maintained this week. However, I'm all in. After this weekend's results. Hell yeah. Mental - Reading WISNIFG. Working on 48 laws of power audible. Learning French (11% proficiency). Emotional - While visiting family, I was dealing with my parent's frame. Noticed that I didn't just tuck into being a kid around them. Kept steerage of my ship, and my parents noticed. It took…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 04:47 PM
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So I keyed off a couple of things in here, where we have very similar situations: My wife is a very strong personality. She's been on her own for a long time, never knew her biological father, hated her abusive step-father. She left home in high school and never looked back. She's worked her way up, learned to do everything herself, and has had to fight for everything she has. I respect the hell out of her for that. ...and this... Because of that history, I always thought she was a dominant pers…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 04:33 PM
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A few caveats to chase W&S's comments about not hiding things. NMMNG has some landmines in it. Like opening up to your spouse about things that maybe you have hidden prior. Instead of doing that... pause. Internalize the concepts first. Lift. Observe, orient, decide and then act. You don't seem prone to going rambo. So hopefully this will hit you well. I had lied about my N-count to my wife when we first go together and after reading NMMNG decided I need to lift the sexual shame of my whore self…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 04:51 PM
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I signed up for the gym yesterday and started SL5x5. Also diet is better regulated - down to 1 can soda a day. Still snacking junk food sometimes. No. You are still snacking on junk food all of the time. 1 can of soda a day is too much. Kill the sugar intake...and then... Goal - Drop from 22% BF to <20%, then to 15%. Will readdress changes necessary Overall goal - Drop my cholesterol to 160-180s (now 240s) NExt changes - be consistent flossing teeth everyday. I brush, but floss rarely. ...you wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 04:38 PM
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And I get it, its my responsibility and my fault for forgetting; all she Mommy had to do was remind me. Fixed that for you. But I cant handle that sort of disrespect from her over it, especially over fucking chores. I know. What a drag. Is Mom on your ass again about wiping down the counters?
/r/askMRP26/05/17 03:23 PM
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I'm just torn between the idea of just being quiet and letting her be, or still actively trying to seduce her as stage 1 dread says to do. Stage/Dread level 1 is basically- Stop being a putz about a woman's emotional bullshit. Best way to do that...is to lift and stfu. Now...there is a small to large part of your brain that is saying surely... "I need to get this one thing out." "I'll show her. I'm going to whip my cock out and rub one off in some corner." Stop it. Your body and mind are steeped…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 03:00 PM
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You may have illuminated too much when she called herself your work wife...so you would be sending mixed signals if you suddenly go HR protocol on her. Which you should have done. A cold steely reserve with women in the corporate world will go far with those who count. Careful teasing is an option, but it needs to be watercooler good time Chad talk. Which it probably is. To her (poison the beta bitch part of it): Well, so we're clear, it's in an open marriage. To others if it ever comes up (it's…
/r/askMRP26/05/17 02:13 PM
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Very good chance it has to do with "partner" feelz for her. Newbie, trying to understand the politics, wants to make a connection with someone but knows other women can be/are bitches. All can be accomplished without the (in)formal label. How about we think of it like this. In the woman jungle, men are property. This is social proofing via asset seizure. You are passively allowing her to lay claim to you in a familiar way and she is further making your claim for you. Allow her to continue her na…
/r/askMRP25/05/17 08:49 PM
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What do you want to hear when someone talks about or introduces you? This here is "VP of Awesome" or this is "Trish's work husband". I've only seen work wife/husband be used as a further entanglement and reinforcements of beta behaviors. It helps the woman in dealing with having to "work" at a job, because she feels like she has a partner. There is zero career value add.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 07:37 PM
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So you are buying another house ergo you are some sort of hot shot wheeling and dealing real estate investor with a skill set with an HGTV meth wannabe starlet wife. Am I reading this right? You both need a reality check. You're buying a house. With an agent. And a lender. You can swap out your partners like light bulbs. It's not hard. What exactly is your value add to this process? It sounds like your old habits came back. Not hers.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 03:54 PM
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On what do you base this critical assumption? Have you considered that your First Officer may be right? Have you considered if your First Officer wants to stay in the house then maybe demanding her to start contributing financially might not be a bad idea? Heh. I keyed off of this too. Yada yada yada...beta frame...wife has a shaved pussy for Chad...probably fucks his brother...sell the house on the high and wait for the coming downside...hold the phone. According to ZH a few days ago, the UMich…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 03:24 PM
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You can be carefree & observe your surroundings. Agreed. I enjoy your work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 02:59 PM
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Other than the obvious NEXT answers I'm going to receive No one should tell you to NEXT after reading this. I AA and say yes I want to make more money and that's absolutely disgusting. This is just a weird thing to say. Also...stop texting. You're doing it wrong. Logistics only. Read your post again and ask yourself..."Is this what Chad Thundercock would do?" Chad has ladies on tap, so he doesn't need to fap. Chad lifts. Chad doesn't dry hump with creepy fuck me eyes. Chad doesn't get excited ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 02:26 PM
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Watch for the signs. Yeah, ok. and most importantly keep your head on a swivel. Shouldn't I, technically, be watching out for someone like you? And shouldn't you be trying to not look like an aggressor? If I catch a lad like you, jacked, head on a swivel, checking for the exits...and tallying people as they enter and leave the building...shouldn't I assume you're up to shenanigans yourself? I think teaching kids to be resourceful makes sense. I think fire drills make sense. I think teaching my d…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 01:56 PM
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According to my lawyer, if she is contesting the divorce the clock restarts every time I poke her . . . at least in this state. What. How. What?! I can't even imagine.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 09:12 PM
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Physical - Still doing IF. BF/BMI/Weight - 17.1%/25.6/188. More movements into step 3, but I've slacked off the last two days. I'll be on it tonight in the hotel room. Broke through the 190s though. Caught a glimpse of myself in the full length hotel mirror...I'm like half the size of the man I used to see there. That little bitch needs more muscle. Mental - Reading WISNIFG. Working on 48 laws of power audible. Learning French (11% proficiency). Emotional - Better. Social - Social media is gone.…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 04:36 PM
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Get in the OYS thread and work on things one at a time. Flaws: Needy af. Insecure af. Not in control of your emotions. You lie. To others and yourself. And most importantly you are lazy af. You tried to shortcut nearly everything without actually putting real work in. You don't pass shit tests. Not then. Not now. You glossed over like 10 you demonstrably failed. You aren't at comfort test territory. Not then. Not now. She doesn't respect you. No one should or would follow you as you are. They ca…
/r/askMRP19/05/17 12:22 AM
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Nod. Quality time is on point. My words of affirmation are lacking...which is the primary complaint between both of us. There are nearly daily requests to write love letters or say sweet words or compliment her. But if the words are not honest....they come across as hollow to me and her. So I end up having to dig deep...but I can't keep that level up near surface area. Nor should I have to...to endlessly promote an understanding of whirl wind hollywood level romance. I can do it. I can emote it.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 11:50 PM
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are you listening to her without trying to fix her problems? do you turn off the television when she wants to talk? are you her rock? Yeah. We have regular (daily) side by side and one on one time together. Without distractions. We accomplish logistics, I don't try to solve her problems, I am rock solid and stoic af on the hurricanes that blow in and out of her life. But should that idle...she then tries to solve her problems of abandonment by appealing to me...to change me.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 05:14 PM
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Love languages shit is what got me into her frame and this mess. I'm deprogramming from the beta Christianity and re-reading things in a new light. Her love languages are words of affirmation and quality time. I may be trying to change her. Because it feels needy af and I want her to not be needy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 05:10 PM
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This is good. I've also downloaded a copy of WISNIFG, because fuck me...when I was analyzing why I was lying...it's because I don't want her to feel abandoned like she did because of her father leaving when she was young. That's not my problem. Not really. I suppose I like 'em with Daddy issues...but that's beside the point. I should be pattern recognizing the feels and maintaining the frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 04:48 PM
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See the problem with that line? Yes. I do. I'm lying to her. This is indeed the crux of the issue. In fact, she doesn't believe me. She wants to believe me, but I am unconvincing. Actually, no. She wants me to make her believe. And I hate that.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 08:13 PM
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Men want to spread their seed as far and wide as they can and woman want to get loaded up by several men to try and have a good brood of children. Hamstering and hypoagency. You're right it's not your fault your wife cheated on you. She just wants cum. Do you even lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 08:44 PM
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Is it a total lack of pride or what? When I've done this, it was pride that kept me spinning. Trying to validate that she wasn't cheating, which would somehow mean I wasn't worthless to her...I wasn't that bad...it wasn't that bad. Shooting my prideful hamster in the head was the cure. Internalizing, I am that bad. It was that bad. If the cheating did or did not happen...does not matter as much as fixing myself to never be like that again.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 08:38 PM
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Physical - Still doing IF. BF/BMI/Weight - 17.6%/26.0/191. Moving into step 3 for my movements. However, something flipped. I switched up my macros to lean heavy protein about a week or two ago. Salmon, cottage cheese, edemame, chicken. If it didn't have 14g+ of protein it didn't make the cut to get eaten. My muscles are bulging and I'm making strides on my reps. My weight loss is stalled at 191, but my BF reading is going down. My hip and waist measurements went down and I'm swimming in my new …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 07:13 PM
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He didn't trust me making good food choices so grocery shopping was his responsibility. I was told I was fat- need a beach body! I vaguely recall seeing this line of thought in an OYS a few weeks back. Sounds like "autistic rambo sprinkle some alpha on it" accountability time for someone.
/r/askMRP16/05/17 06:46 PM
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Fast forward to today. Sounds like mother's day didn't go well.... I can tell she recognizes me, but I don't know if she remembers, and with her kid there I wasn't going to do shit anyways ...so warning. This is her way of telling you she has a kid to see if that would scare you off. She has decided to open the doors to nexting her husband. Not that it should matter to you if you are plating her, but I read milfs like a book...and the kid thing is definitely not an obstacle to her using sex to o…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 06:35 PM
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The keyword is Sexual Market Value. And yes. Supply and demand and market economics are all a factor, but hypergamy rules. For example: In the country, you can be fat and rich and with a ranch...and attract beautiful women for your wife. However, your wife may fuck the studly poor ranch hands (Chads) on the side. In urban areas, you can be fat and rich and with a penthouse apartment...and are only able to attract hookers and the most hardcore of gold diggers. Beautiful women can find rich and no…
/r/askMRP16/05/17 06:18 PM
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Are you asking us what makes you feel like less of a man? This is your line to set. Some men own and rule the transparency angle. Other's keep the line at, my shit, my business. You do you. However, benevolence, perceived transparency/straightforward honesty go a long way. And if you break frame because you get butthurt about her going through your shit because of a rule you made...because that's where the line in the sand is...then you need to check your frame or your rule. You've not weaponize…
/r/askMRP16/05/17 06:07 PM
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A woman will crawl across broken glass and over barbed wire to fuck a man she's attracted to. So true.
/r/askMRP16/05/17 05:57 PM
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Seconded. This works.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:41 PM
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Increase your opsec. Is it dishonest faggy nice guy bullshit? No. And here is why. You would do these changes regardless. You are simply offloading processing horsepower to a greater collective to bounce ideas around and hold your ass accountable. Should she or anyone have access to the information you say to a counselor? A lawyer? A priest? Same thing. Posted this elsewhere, but for opsec: Use Torbot/VPN and incognito mode for browsing Secret email accounts with no password recovery Use cashbac…
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:35 PM
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You'll have great days when you feel on top of the world, and you'll have shitty days when you feel lower than you started. So true.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 05:28 PM
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Look at her as if she was a child and don't be afraid of her. I fell into this, and hell still fall into this at times....but if you think about it from the perspective that she is acting like a woman-child, you'll be able to make fun of her when she goes hunting. Also, your opsec is causing you not to have frame: - Secret email/storage accounts (no recovery email or links to you) - Torbot/VPN services for browsing - Incognito browser for browsing - Never store anything on your devices If some f…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 04:10 PM
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Pretty sure I have sleep apnea, Yes, you do have sleep apnea. So this... Hit a new low of 240.0 ...and this... I'm 50 lbs down from my heaviest, and it is worse. All track as normal for a fat bastard who has sleep apnea. I crested at 230 at my heaviest, and I could wake the dead and would have bouts of panic'd breathing/gasping for air. When I went to primal and descended down into 207 territory my sleep apnea was still there, but it was a very soft dull roar. Anytime, I let off the gas on weigh…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 03:45 PM
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One item of note: You manage things (projects/tasks/resources) and you lead(influence/grow) people. I abhor managing people, and think upper management are a bunch of morons. You sound like a hippie. I plam on applying so I can ask the questions I need to make an educated decision. My goal would be trying to sleuth out if you will be reporting on other people doing cool things and maintaining the party line or if you will be able to be a force multiplier for doing even cooler things with a team …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 06:53 PM
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Already in progress. Passive income generation in progress. Promotion plan being implemented at work. Biggest thing I need to get under control is getting my expense reports in on time. I need a secretary. Actually...I'm going to research those online personal assistants. And a CPA.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 06:48 PM
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Physical - Still doing IF. BF/BMI/Weight - 18.7%/26.0/191. In step 2 (beginner/intermediate/progressive) of all movements. Finally broke through the weight loss stall, and started gaining traction on progressions through the movements. Started re-adding more fats to improve sex drive with a smattering of carbs based off of reading another thread. For my daily supplements added a prostrate health and an ashwagandha thing to my current regimen. Also, I am rocking a new (for me) haircut style...hig…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 06:04 PM
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Exploring more on the mother-child/father-child frame dynamic, you make interesting points that had me thinking. So, we know that a woman will never love a man like her own children. The sacrificial love dynamic is reserved only (if ever) for her children. And sometimes only for the children she has had with a high value man. Ergo, this unconditional/oneitis love is exploited by the children in the form of shit/comfort tests and ruling the household. This further cements the idea that the party …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 05:02 PM
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This sounds like a territorial thing of sorts. You could try a reset in a new place. You could try to assert your dominance on weird things like the toilet seat and the cupboards. Most women do assume that home decor and the like is their's to manage. You rearranging the cupboard ("because it needs to be done" sounds autistic) is throwing off her hamster global positioning/nesting system. But let's focus on this... I just don't care. We've shared many silent car rides recently. Sex is okay if we…
/r/askMRP08/05/17 05:41 PM
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Very insightful. Agreed. This is definitely an example of me NOT owning my shit and trying to find an out. Upon further further review, she probably isn't BPD. I've definitely been a beta-mangina...and in the historical record I should look there first and never assume I've been alpha all along and the bitch is just crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/17 08:19 PM
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I've fixed my marriage to the point where I want out. You have done next to jack shit to fix your marriage. You've failed to close with this coworker of yours and instead developed oneitis and you are setting yourself up to be ass raped by two women. You broke into the bank and stole the pens. You will get punished all the same. Now you no longer have oneitis for your wife and are getting sex from her when she wants it from you? What? The beta faggot condition, ladies and gents. Fixed that for y…
/r/askMRP05/05/17 07:45 PM
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So, funny story, if you look in my post history. I had a similar "epiphany" about my wife being BPD. But, really, no...she's just a woman. The tools for dealing with a woman/BPD/NPD are the same. Redpill. There is no way that I will ever have a fulfilling relationship with this woman. There is no way I will ever mean as much to her as her work. There is no way I will ever be admired or complimented, because that would bring her down just a bit. This is redpill 101. NMMNG and TRM provide the foun…
/r/askMRP05/05/17 07:01 PM
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My mistake. It works...was directed at the skittles paragraph and not the brunch paragraph. I understand the skittles logic.
/r/askMRP05/05/17 03:40 PM
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for some reason, treat her getting 'mad' as some kind of failure Obviously, this largely depends on how the kids are behaving and how well the captain is leading. These things fall off the rails because it seems the Dad goes passive or rambo, the kids uplevel into brats because of low blood sugar, long lines, slow delivery...and the Mom thinks "This was torturous, I just want to go home. Happy fucking mother's day. I'm signing up on Ashley Madison as soon as he goes to work tomorrow."
/r/askMRP05/05/17 03:27 PM
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Good gifting for married women seems to be more about social bragging rights. Options: Jewelry, ergo that you would be good for gold digging. Typical, that you do the mother's day dinner at the mexican or asian restaurant. Different, that you took her out for dancing and drinks or a picnic and told the kids they are on their own. Low interest but you care, so skittles...but maybe pre-open it and remove the color of skittles she doesn't like. Safe, flowers and a nice card...signed Yours Truly, Gu…
/r/askMRP05/05/17 03:12 PM
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You haven't met the other kind then. Both are learned behaviors, but the self-reliant narcissist turns off empathy as a defense mechanism and drifts towards sociopathy. (i.e. To never ever be hurt again.)
/r/askMRP03/05/17 08:05 PM
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Yes. All of this and more is available to you. Get into the OYS thread.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 05:09 PM
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My first thought is NO. That money is set aside in the budget for those things, its not my fault if you don't take advantage of them. This is autistic. The gym membership line item is also autistic. Her point, which is valid, is that those things are for her benifit, so she should be able to choose what those monies go toward. If she doesnt want a haircut, thats her choice and she should be able to spend the money she is saving elsewhere. Now she is negotiating with your autistic frame. However,…
/r/askMRP03/05/17 03:56 PM
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You could plate her. But you have oneitis, so you can't. She has enjoyed the cock carousel and maybe it spun her off hard. She now knows fully the effectiveness of using her assets to get what she wants, and she is digging through the trash too to get some sort of fantasy back with you. You can't go back. You will have misreads and baggage and none of that will effectively help you improve. For you, it will be as if she cheated for a year, on year 13. So play the tape forward....9 years of beta …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 07:59 PM
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Likewise. I'm struggling to formulate an action item for myself in this regard. It's not the closing I'm worried about, it's keeping the plates in suspense. Grooming a cult perhaps.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 07:29 PM
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100% agree. I'm not convinced I have this right, however, there are abandonment forces in play though for my wife. To your point, I've read too many articles that basically indicate BPD was once called "Women just being women." Definitely not an excuse to offload. I was taking it more of as a challenge. The challenge may be me getting out of my own way.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 06:58 PM
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What do you want when you game women? To have fun. Refine my technique of using verbal and body language cues to further exploration of an interaction. Doing so in a subtle and interesting manner that allows for plausible deniability. Review and assess and see where I was weak or strong. I don't care if the woman is DTF or not, I just want to explore the progressions and exit with the suspense and tension still online. N-close catch and release is interesting...if that's how you are validating D…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 06:54 PM
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When I game a woman, it's because I want to fuck her. If I'm going to put in the extra time and effort to give her tingles then I want the payoff that comes with that. That feels transactional/covert contractish. I would explore this chain of thought yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 05:45 PM
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Read Day Bang, or should I read Bang first? Whether you have game or don't have game. You must read it in order. Bang and then Day Bang. I read these out of order, and I was initially woefully unimpressed with the author just reading Day Bang. I went and read Bang, and it fills out the huge gaps that Day Bang leaves...and then Day Bang makes a lot more sense as a PUA book. If you are at DL4, I would actually recommend you start or circle back to Models. It's softish and bordering on blue pill, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 05:05 PM
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Background info: Christian, Married 10y, M39/F41, w/kids (blended). Physical - 5th week of IF. BF/BMI/Weight - 19.7%/26.6/195. In step 2 (beginner/intermediate) of all movements, read about fuckarounditis, and decided to up and push my progressions. Weight loss feels stalled. This could be because I'm having a rest day to help with the anabolic/catabolic phases, and thus their is less overall BMR pressure. It could also be that I've allowed more carbs to enter into my diet based on strict calori…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 04:01 PM
2

Is that something I can ask her about? Only if you like existing in her frame or Chad's. Is it possible for a woman (or alpha widow) to be completely submissive in the bedroom and still hold back in non-sexual ways? I feel like the sidebar elucidated this point loosely as it relates to N-counts, in that a woman will not honestly expose this information because she has been trained via evolution and environment to conceal and obfuscate it. That the only way (and I can 100% confirm) to get glimmer…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 08:43 PM
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I really enjoy these articles. One commentary I would add, after chatting with a fellow believer about the feminine imperative present in the church, had to do with the fall. Genesis 1 talks about creation. Genesis 2 sets the scene...which is where I cliff note this story's chronology. In order: God gave the command to not eat from the tree of knowledge. Adam was put to asleep. Woman was created. Adam and Eve were good to go. Genesis 3 brings us gender dynamics: 6 When the woman saw that the fru…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 06:56 PM
1

“Yeah, I know. I have no honor. Really though, that sucks for you, having a husband with no honor.” This is not amused mastery. It comes across as butthurt amplified passive aggressive. This caught me though... She proceeds to say that what I have done is super shitty, that I have no honor that I am dishonorable etc. I counter with amused master and agree and amplify. ..and... “Oh yeah” she said “two can play at that game.” (WTF does that even mean?) It could mean, that she estimates her SMV hig…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:00 PM
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So, you went rambo on this. In my OYS I had a very similar goal for my relationship adjustment. I looked at providing budget options, well researched personal finance structuring, and I ended up putting that conversation on pause after solid advice from redpillers. The three majors reasons I paused were: 1) Not enough trust has been built into my married frame. 2) The budget conversation is fraught with issues of frame, because of perceptions of dominance. 3) Would not have been the most effecti…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 05:25 PM
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Upon review and observation. You are both right. I was wrong. I am also in the business of selling stories. She is spinning on how to re-apply a narrative. This needs works and frame from me. Good points.
/r/askMRP29/04/17 06:01 PM
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Ok, you two. Fine. Feel based narratives aka the story. Fine. I get you. Also...I had edited my post with a follow-up. I achieve buy-in by creating narrative based bumper lanes for people to gently bounce towards what I want. Containers to shatter for potential. Etc. The answer is yes. I'm very clued into what she wants, and now her weaknesses which are also her strengths with others, and how to use both to achieve ends. Maybe not my personal emotional ends yet, but ends. The future narrative is…
/r/askMRP28/04/17 09:45 PM
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But I fucked up. She asked me what I was reading. I told her. I didn't know about fight club yet, and frankly I wasn't convinced you guys weren't full of bullshit. A week later I've awoken something primal and hungry inside of me, and I haven't felt like this since high-school (6 years ago). How effective is this process going to be when my all my wife has to do is google "red pill" and start reading here? My cover will get blown super quick. No. You didn't. My wife and I share an Amazon account…
/r/askMRP28/04/17 06:32 PM
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I realized I'm not in the business of selling stories. I'm in the business of strategizing a life that can include her and my leadership in that will cause anxiety or not.
/r/askMRP28/04/17 05:39 PM
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Right. However, an employer is unlikely to accept the liability of unknowns, and hence why they don't advocate a first charge the machine gun nest approach from the accounts payable department. We can all choose differently for ourselves (as lambs or wolves), but the corporation is interested in risk mitigation. This may or may not lend itself to contracting private security forces who would look to provide the illusion of a violent deterrent or an actual capability of delivering a high order ta…
/r/askMRP28/04/17 04:20 PM
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We have workplace violence training. It's pretty simple...in order... 1) Evade and escape 2) Hide and barricade. 3) Ambush or Close on the attacker You're looking for a successful strategy of survival. Ancient Tibetan philosophy states: Don't start none, won't be none. So evade and escape. Failing that...if you are trapped and can't escape. Hide and barricade. Failing that...weapon up (grab chairs, stale crescent rolls, espresso cups, etc.) and fight for your life. Statistically...gun wounds are…
/r/askMRP27/04/17 09:22 PM
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You need to read the sidebar. What you are doing is not amused mastery, it's passive aggressive. Sidebar. You did not hold frame. Sidebar. You need to know the difference between comfort and shit tests so you can pass them. Sidebar. She is using overt communication with you because you must have a history of being dense and frustrating. Read or re-read TRM or use your blue pill therapy tools. Sidebar. Sidebar. Sidebar.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 09:02 PM
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I don't know. I don't have any data points. You don't have any data points yet. Neither does she. Slow your roll. If you were autistic with the chores, you were autistic about other crap too. Guaranteed. She doesn't know how to succeed with you, so she does shit she wants to do. You want her hamster to think "I better start showing some value around here or I'm going to have to go to the marketplace and run this con with some other faggot." She's lazy. She's not going anywhere.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 08:39 PM
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Ok, Mr. 300+ Manager. You flipped the script. Now your shitbird first officer doesn't know what to do. Except to storm past your office every 5 minutes waiting for you to be a faggot. The tension is killing her...because you should just be a faggot already. Now is the time to lead. Be an oak. And actually be someone who has something better to do, than worry about the shitbird who isn't pulling their own weight. Do you understand? You are in the middle of a re-org. You've got your plan, and you …
/r/askMRP26/04/17 08:12 PM
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I wouldn't trust you and I would set up boundaries in my life for you too. The ring, the emotional isolation, etc. are all signals of boundary setting. The confusing read you have on her is a result of the confusion you are creating in the home. Are you a man? Or are you not? Are you an oak? Or an impulsive bitch? You're all over the place in your frame and it's not a stable predictable progression. It's filled with backslide and pettiness. However, since she is a child by default, and you are a…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 05:11 PM
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Good comment. Of particular note is your point on having a developed sexual strategy, container/shatter reference and frame option selection. This hit me well. Cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 04:45 PM
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Either no reply or "We can talk about this when im back home." (then dont bring it up, she will if it still concerns her, then you comfort/A&A/fog according to the situation, as long as you dont let her drag you into faggotery again). Yup. Already attempted this via chat. Logistics. Logistics. "Sure. Let's talk when I get home." Which lead to... You keep doing you. She is afraid you might leave her since your SMV is increasing and she is hitting/hit the wall. She is afraid she will have to actua…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 09:49 PM
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Eh. Would rather not copy and paste. Half part is searching for reasons why I'm not flowing with "the words" like before. The other half is complimenting me and attempting to see me for who I am. Then there is a small mid-section from the first half that reads approximately: We're the same people. Same baggage. Same issues. We're better and worse now. Fearful that the worse is all that remains/perceived. Current state is not maintainable emotionally for her, because she keeps asking me. Backstor…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 09:28 PM
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This one time, I had just finished reading a book. "Thinking in Systems: A Primer". It seemed like the ideal way to run a relationship. We would have positive and negative feedback loops, scrum sessions, etc. I outlined my brilliant idea for our marriage management system. She would have none of it. You know why? Because women don't think this way. Put away your charts and chore list. The feedback loops are much more simple...and I'm going to state it for your managerial brain. Your wife needs t…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 04:45 PM
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In this case or any for that matter, all emails or texts of the like should be refused upon receipt. “I don’t talk about serious marriage issues over email.” Full stop. She may hamster and try to rationalize why she needs to do this, but again that’s just her controlling the means of communication and therefore controlling the message. The correct answer here is, “If you want to have big girl discussions, we will have it face to face. If it’s that important to you for me to address it I expect t…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 04:06 PM
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The term you are looking for is "The medium is the message." it was coined by Rollo Tomassi or maybe someone on his SoSauve forums back in the day. It's mentioned extensively in The Rational Male.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 03:57 PM
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Points well taken. It has been an insecurity and I was doing it to fuck with her...but...it has been insecurity and this could lead to confusion and me masking shit on my part even if subconscious. I'm killing it because it actually yielded no real value when delivered. Already on the A&A for this with modest results except instead of extreme I was doing cowardly and gingerly. Fixing that. Why not. See what happens. Correction on jacked... which I think you meant... which is I actually resent my…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 01:53 AM
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What on earth is so significant about you being in a 5 month or even a 2yo's life? These are literally the simplest creatures on the planet to score points with and it doesn't take a lot of time. You can make their day with simple things. Encourage them to play with each other, while you are playing with them. Then they go to bed. Then the sitter comes over. Then the sitter checks you out, you stud. (no homo) Then you date your wife. Then you are dreading and handling real comfort tests. "So are…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 07:32 PM
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No. This sucks. Because you are not getting the pheromones. The allure. The scent of it. The hunt. This isn't game. This is you being their outlet and not the other way around. You are being their instagram-esque emotional cum dumpster. You validate them. And apparently you are getting validated too. Are you a girl?
/r/askMRP20/04/17 07:03 PM
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Ass slapping is already a well established discipline...but the bear hug has been neglected and mistakenly sidelined even though subconsciously I have seen it's bizarre effectiveness. Thank you for reminding me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/17 05:42 PM
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are you insecure about your wife going through your stuff? Thank you. This was perceptive. This is in an open issue. Trust was broken by her on her tech, and it led to a bunch of shit...like her wanting me to rebuild trust with her to look through it again. This didn't work out how she had thought. It led me here. It led me to ponder the idea of her being gone and me moving on. So...through that I developed a sense of OI...and stopped looking at her crap. But it gnaws at me...because I still do …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/17 05:37 PM
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It was positive because I went a whole 12 hours before slipping frame further into fagville.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/17 03:24 PM
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This is the part I need refinement on. I did nothing wrong. But my frame folded in the morning out of sympathy and weakness. She desperately wants to know things will be ok between us...and yeah. I got it now. I need to pass this comfort/shit test differently...comfort while not losing respect. I could have said a million different things with better outcome instead of pussing out and making it easy on myself and her. "I don't fight about social media. I only take fighting interest in real thing…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/17 03:21 PM
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Background info: Christian, Married 10y, M39/F41, w/kids (blended). Physical - 3rd week of IF. BF/BMI/Weight - 20.7%/27.0/198 (first time below 200 in maybe a decade). In progression level of step 1 (going to get past these!), and beginner of step 2 in CC. 4 of 6. Haircut done. Shirts ordered. Vietnamese tailor found. Mental - Read up on SL5x5, LeanGains, Getting Serious. Still absorbing TRM. Learning French. Emotional - Trying to keep positive on progress and not down on how much more to go. So…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 04:13 PM
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Teeth: I'm going for several shades whiter on my teeth. So a steady regimen of the tooth whitening to get this upleveled. I've already made the teeth molds and have the syringes and silly blue light. Groin: Also I will make sure my downstairs is always suck ready and non-stank. Not sure if I need to worry about powders but keeping the fur trimmed 1/4" has helped a crap ton.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 03:38 PM
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Ok. So...Christian sacrifice. I used to be hamstrung by this too. My wife convinced me that sacrifice means doing whatever the hell she claimed she needed in the marriage, because if I didn't want to do it, well...that means it's a sacrifice. You love me like Christ loved the church? Right? Sacrificial love? Right? You're not super Christian husband. You're super idolizing her instead. So unless you plan on killing yourself for her...which is how Christ sacrificed...to wash away her sins...you a…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 05:34 PM
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Yes. This should have been an OYS post. This doesn't appear to fit with a FR. I've learned nothing except to be the opposite of you. This... good physical shape and diet, lifting 3 times a week for 9 months ...and this... I think we are both 5 or 6 now but I am moving up and she is moving down. ...don't go together. List your height/weight/BF....now! You need to re-prioritize. Save your autism talents of your word/speech analysis and instead apply it to your physique. Be Chad and stop trying to …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 05:08 PM
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I wish I read them and started them years ago. All you had to say. I do want to read up. I'll incorporate this into my reading/learning commitment. Cheers!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 04:22 PM
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Yeah, I just went through a bunch of your posts. Found an entirely new and functional way to navigate reddit and thus MRP. So my research has led me in a couple of directions. I've read Primal Blueprint, Body by Science, and Convict Conditioning. The main tenants I have are quality of life ergo non-injury and max-results per time. So 2+ hours of walking, a stint of sprinting, and CC. I have gotten a lot of improvement (easily averaged 2lbs per week on the scale...almost approaching 3lbs) with th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 07:32 PM
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I have a BF monitor that has me at 21.9% as of this morning. But I feel like I look closer to the 25% in the "haunches" area. http://www.builtlean.com/2012/09/24/body-fat-percentage-men-women/ 6' even. 201.8lbs this morning. I've been doing primal for at least 2 years. IF has brought about real movement on the BF monitor....where I was hovering at 23% for a long while and now at points I see variations between 20.5 and 22.5. It's been two weeks since I measured all of my bits... thighs, biceps, …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 03:44 PM
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Right. So after consuming NMMNG, I started complaining. I'm not saying don't do it, because it was a valuable step to getting my balls back. But...the gifts of amused mastery are far more effective at getting things done in the hamster...which is the end goal...and it has the consequent bonus of you sounding like Chad. Beta: "When you clip your nails in the sink and on the bathroom floor, I feel like you don't respect hygiene and my cleanliness space." Rambo: "Clean up your fucking mess!" Chad: …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 07:34 PM
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So, goal for this week? Say something about some tiny, irritating thing she does. Don't do this. This is still in her frame. I used to do this. Fuck me. I used to drag my wife into therapy so I could score points on her for some dumb shit. It got me nothing. Flip it. "I like when you do X for me." if you want something to change. Stay out of her frame. Don't pay attention to the stupid she does. My wife does stupid crap. Like clipping nails. Loudly. Next to me. All over the bathroom carpet. Go d…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 06:40 PM
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My goal is to read up on all I need to know on weight/BF maintenance. I went balls deep learning how to eat right and lose weight. But I want to know what the magic is to keep it within a range. The sort of sustainable things that allow me to lean effectively...I want to know what that looks like at end state. I already started doing IF and primal. Added in multi, ZMA, and fishoil. You know...secondary goal is to be able to get these items more effectively from my diet. That's what I want. I'm n…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 04:30 PM
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4th OYS. Background info: Christian, Married 10y, M39/F41, w/kids (blended). Physical - 2nd week of IF. BF/BMI/Weight - 21.7%/27.5/203. In progression level of step 1, and beginner of step 2 in CC. 4 of 6. I'm looking better. I've yet to make my trip to uplevel my shirts. Getting a hair cut today. It's been 2 weeks. Mental - Still absorbing TRM. I will have this done by next OYS. Finished Bang and Day Bang- Meh. Emotional - Focused. Social - Spending a lot more time working the room. Talking wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 04:26 PM
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Solid FR. My experience echos this. "I'm doing X, you're welcome to join me." I didn't quite arrive at this realization all at once, but had to comfort/shit test pass my way to that statement. It is empowering. Regarding the drinks and minor things, the real magic happened for me when it flipped. She was asking me if she could get me a drink and is pleased to do so. I felt much more inclined to reciprocate out of abundance on other items. Total marriage dynamic flip...but the need to remain vigi…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 03:42 PM
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Indeed. At the time it didn't "feel" empty to me. But truth be told...I've not talked to a lawyer and have done nothing pragmatic towards that end...so it is empty. And weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 03:34 PM
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Yeah. That was a bad week for me. I've re-read it several times. I wasn't being Chad. I wasn't being cool. I fucking sucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 03:17 PM
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I slip the frame, which makes the STFU harder. This is indeed my fault. Not that it matters...I was being a douche. She was asking if I came.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 03:14 PM
1

Nothing to explain. I allowed myself to be triggered and I slipped frame. My fault. You're right about fucking my wife. Thank you for that. Your's really helped last week getting my head unfucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 03:13 PM
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There is plenty of opportunity if you look for it. Lunch breaks. Elevator. Happy hour. Like he and others indicated. You don't date plates...unless you are getting something (food) yourself and it happens to work out. But why? The types of plates mentioned are ridiculously easy to open and close...no dates required. Proximity, quantity of interaction, and quality of interaction are all a factor here. I've fucked a man's wife, while he was in the other room playing video games. She wore the pants…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/17 06:44 PM
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3rd OYS. Background info: Christian, Married 10y, M39/F41, w/kids (blended). In Progress items: Physical - First week of IF with primal. Added multi-vitamin, ZMA, and fish-oil. 11 day streak in myfitnesspal. BF/BMI/Weight - 22.0%/27.7/205. In progression level of step 1, and beginner of step 2 in CC. 3 of 3. My clothes are getting baggy as hell. I'm going to have to get some things tailored and make a slight allowance for an inbetween step in clothing. Mental - Still absorbing TRM. Emotional - A…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/17 03:38 PM
1

Indeed. I'm very much treading lightly on this, almost seeking permission to discuss. Upon review, I know partly why I'm being a little bitch. I spent the first portion of our marriage, forever being made to feel guilty providing CS for my kids with my ex. Now, I no longer pay CS. But the pain of those conversations lingers. I'm still very resentful of how she approached it and how much I yielded on it. Thinking about it more from the point of view of winning first...I need to have her reacting …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/17 09:00 PM
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Yes. 35lbs ago I use to pop tums like they were candy and do regular prilosec treatments throughout the year. I've been doing Primal for a quite a bit and that is what broke me through the heartburn and the weight. Also snoring decreased by a factor of 10. Now I'm taking ZMA (after reading some IF thread around here) and this weekend I went right into REM and hardly ever hit the light snoring zone according to my wife. Redpill for life. Literally.
/r/askMRP03/04/17 03:57 PM
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Currently, on the first sets of Convict Conditioning, but I am at the progression steps and looking forward to something different. Secondary goal will be to all in on the second sets by close of 60DoD17. However, primary goal, will be to actually be in the office fitness center everyday I'm in the office doing the treadmill. Also, to not forget my stupid gym towel.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/17 03:43 PM
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My gut tells me that bringing these issues into the open just invites long-winded, emotional conversations where she defines a great big frame for me to step into and I spend a few hours dancing around the emotional minefield, trying not to DEER or start begging for her approval again. Yes, yes, yes. It does all of that. Further, it causes you to resent her for doing that and instantiates feelings of butthurt and autism because you can't un-know what you know now. At least it did with me. Then I…
/r/askMRP31/03/17 07:39 PM
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Good catch and point about trust. My abundance is not on point and is sitting on the bench. Also...as I was leaving the other day...it struck me my comment "We're fucking cheaters." I was actually honest with everyone involved. She wasn't with her ex. She had parlayed the idea of equalization early on in the relationship, based on the idea adultery is adultery. And in the eyes of God, yes. But I was an honest adulterer. I shot my abundance in the head at about this time...because she became ridi…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 06:40 PM
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It was mutual risk mitigation. Prior to her, I was married. But had opened the marriage. Was spinning plates. And divorced and married up a plate (my current wife) because "She was different." She was married and left her ex for me. Long story short, I fit the case of the Nice Guy who seems to attract and bed women who are in LTRs or married because some part of me knows they are unavailable. Note: Guys...stop producing video game/work widows...me or someone like me is/was fucking them...or rath…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 09:30 PM
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Appreciate the encouragement. I won't get into the darker parts of the fear. I'm running a bit of opsec until I get my frame in order. While I was working, I came back to the hotel so we could go to the airport. She casually mentions she grabbed some snacks from the lounge for us on our flight home while she was nursing a gin. So...we've had a rule that we wouldn't go out drinking alone. I think about it. I go back and forth about how she wouldn't tolerate this from me. I'm butthurt. So on the r…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 10:25 PM
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2nd OYS. Background info: Christian, Married 10y, M39/F41, w/kids (blended). In Progress items: Physical - Began reading sidebar on how to cut and lean. Using the myfitnesspal to autistically look at calories and carbs. Last read has me at BF/BMI/Weight 23%/28.2/207. At intermediate level of 1 step of 4/6 movements in Convict Conditioning. Goal is to be <23% by next OYS. Mental - Completed NMMNG. Also reading TRM, SGM, and Day Bang. Parking the AI bits. Emotional - No idea what I was talking abo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 09:00 PM
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Christianity at it's core is outcome independence. The most severe of outcomes...death...is taken off the table. You're free. 1 Corinithians 7 if you read it unplugged and redpill, it has some serious OI wisdom. "You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of human beings." "Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. 26 Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is. 27 Are you…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/17 03:08 PM
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What brought me here is an event (a breach of trust) in my marriage that happened about a year and a half ago that leveled me into the understanding that I am not special. Neither is she. Also, that I'm completely fucking things up. This will be my first post ever to MRP, and I need a place to look back on. Goal: I will fully captain the marriage. I will not dishonor myself for matters of appeasement or keeping the peace, nor tolerate the subsequent dishonesty I've allowed myself to produce. I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 07:07 PM
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