Wise-Cap5741 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Ok guys. It happened. I finally got the full reconciliation request and it’s messed my head up more than I thought. What was the event?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/26 11:20 PM
1	Men who feel the divorce came out of the blue, what kind of conversation do you wish your wife had with you and how far in advance do you wish she’d had it? I'd second marriage counseling but also share your bitterness around your first circumstance of bring it up. Refusing to attend counseling is kind of like him saying, "there's no way I could be wrong or do something better." I would listen to u/OkayJaguar5013 and set up a specific time to talk about the "future of our marriage" and I would state it just like that. Give yourself like 1-2 hours, no kid distractions, and each bring an ipad, phone, or computer. I know there is emotional labor in set…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/26 02:28 AM
2	Dating Mid 40s This "date someone 10 years younger" thing doesn't make sense if you are looking for something long term and fulfilling. What will happen if you are in a relationship for ten years with that person? Based on this logic your partner will end up doing the same thing! What the, date 20 years longer?? As alluded to above, it seems like many men and women are complicit in continuing the cycle.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/25 09:17 PM
1	I need some positivity Up - yeah it's sad at the beginning but it's about being able to continue to live your life and add new people into it. Finding Nemo / Finding Dory - just keep swimming man, you got this. Any comedy special but I would avoid Ali Wong's most recent one. She's great but the topic of this one is just a little too much. The Mummy cuz fuck it, why not? If you're into anime and superheroes My Hero Academia. School of Rock Look Who's Talking 1 & 2 Also, take the time to go outside and take a walk or sw…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/25 10:32 PM
1	How can I manage to just not give a f Crazy - thanks for sending.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/25 05:10 AM
3	How can I manage to just not give a f Can you point me to the research you make mention of? Not a gotcha thing, just want to see it for myself.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/25 04:23 PM
2	Why did you get married in the first place? Happy Birthday!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/25 02:51 AM
1	My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause) Look up PMDD, read the reddit threads of women suffers, male partners, and ESPECIALLY female (same-sex) partners based on their experiences. Same-sex couples are helpful because it makes clear that the behavior, though biological is severe, is not a simple perception/male sexism problem. When you come out of that's rabbit hole, shake your self off and do something nice for yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/25 10:46 PM