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| 1 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.It’s terrible. I am a bit fan of people just being their damn selves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:12 PM |
| 0 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.Imo they do something worse than not actually changing the community for men. A lot of men who have platforms in the Manosphere charge their subscribers for additional advice which I find wild. Maybe I’m missing something, but most men in the manosphere who are not famous seem to have some form of a struggle they are dealing with (examples, financial, maybe even physical I have seen men talk about how being short impacts them) I feel like a lot of the leaders of the manosphere are mean and manip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of?I wish women would stop doing the weird thing where they say no, so that a man begs for it. If you’re a woman doing the this please stop. You are helping to creating a dangerous space for other women. Before some of y’all come at me and say no woman does this. Women DO this. I have friends who say they want a man to beg for it and I’m like sis STOP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?I think we should remember that it’s also a slap in the face to start a conversation with women by wanting them to know they are vain and judge mental. Not all women think that way. Your comment to me shows two issues. You don’t understand what womens actual issue with dating in 2023 is and career growth should be something a person does regardless of their weather or not if leads to a romantic endeavor. I think a lot of the men in this tread don’t actually know what women want and when you tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?But like does it really matter if a woman understand the struggle of the average man in its totality? No. She won’t pitty fuck them to make them feel better. She won’t date them to make them feel better? no self respecting, stable person would fuck or date anybody to make them feel better.It really doesn’t matter. At the end of the day we all have struggles we feel as though others don’t understand. The truth is they probably do see the average man’s struggles and simply doesn’t give a fuck. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?Maybe they don’t care because they have to prioritize their own struggles. 🤷🏾♀️ I am a normie woman and that’s my reason. I am in a place in my life where I am finally comfortable putting myself first. I think that if your struggles are impacting you so much you cannot function normally you need therapy and then you need to form your own solution and plan to move forward. This isint an insult btw I am just a big believer in therapy and helping yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doI never claimed you did either. Very defensive. Maybe that’s your problem with understanding women is what I meant. Women don’t work that way. How would you know we find most men physically unattractive??? Where did you get this information from? Also I know… that’s why I didn’t give you advice on how to get into a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 04:07 AM |
| 0 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doI think maybe that’s your issue. Physical attraction is not enough to get a girlfriend. I don’t think most women find most men unattractive. I find most men to be handsome. However physical attraction is not enough. It all comes back to problematic behavior. Being physically attractive will not get you very far. You could get a couple dates. But you will not get a mentally healthy stable woman to love you just with your looks. In my opinion a lot of people have the same romantic energy as the gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 03:43 AM |
| 2 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doI haven’t met a lot of men whose personalities I’m attracted to but I also don’t like many people. I don’t hate them buuuuut a lot of people are insecure, and regularly engage in problematic behavior so I tend to keep my circle small. This makes dating difficult. Can I attract a date… yes. Will I like the date…. Most likely not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a man if you found out he’s paid for sex in the past?Personally… no. I also don’t support sex work or porn or any of that due to its relationship with human trafficking. I would not feel comfortable sleeping with a man who has paid for sex or feel comfortable dating them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Most people agree that there are not enough high value men for all women, but we don't agree what causes itI think it’s society’s fault. An unpopular opinion I have is that the body positive movement does not apply to real life. People think being obese and overweight doesn’t impact how attractive you are. A health condition that you have control over 1000% impacts how attractive you are. However these days what you said applies to both women and men. Once a guy with a tiny chest, beer belly and atrophied arms yelled at me because he called me hot and I ignored him.. bruh I don’t want that. I wanna d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Well I think it’s because my friends are all really into academics and are interested in men with similar values. We are also from the north east. In this area everyone values education. My state has the best public school system in America. Most of the adults you will meet at the places I go have formal education. I have two bachelors and I’m back in school and eventually want a phd. I would love to date someone who also values education. It doesn’t mean I think blue collar men are “knuckle dra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.A lot of women people I know have realistic standards. I dumped my ex because he did not wanna be a man. Not because he didn’t wanna make six figures lol. Like he legitimately did not wanna do ANYTHING normal men do. (Finish school, go to work consistently, have a life plan… be a man) and I realized I out grew him after I finished college and he didn’t. I did not dump him because he is short or because he was not instantly rich as soon as I graduated college. Reserve yourself for someone who is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.…. I date short men. I’m 5’1 lol. All they have to be is taller than me. My only friend who dosent date short men is a 5’9 woman. And most women I know would not expect you to make six figures seeing as we are recent college graduates. The most they would expect you to have is a college degree and a decent job. A lot of people are way more realistic than you think. I think a lot of people on this thread live in an echo chamber that does not accurately reflect reality. Yes dating someone with six… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareIt’s important to have your own life and routine before you get married. I could see someone who works feeling bored isolated and as though their life is repetitive too. Never let one person become the center of your universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareThank you! I will research how to keep my nursing license when I get there baby steps lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:21 PM |
| -2 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.You don’t have to leave either. You’re choosing to leave. Dating is shitty for both men and women. When I get ready to go on a date I tell myself not to get excited at all because most people tend to be very disappointing. You gotta hold that excitement in until you meet someone you vibe with and that takes a lot time. Dating is the most discouraging thing ever. I think a lot of people want instant gratification and that’s just now how dating works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareI think that depending on what your license is in, and the people you know there are definitely ways around that gap. I literally make something up and will put a family friend as a reference number if I didn’t like a job. Just let them know in advance lol. Also you can say you’re doing a career change and we’re in school or get creative. Make some shit up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:08 AM |
| 22 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareHonestly it doesn’t benefit anyone anymore. The American economy has done a 180 into a pile of shit. I feel like unless someone has a large inheritance that’s just too much pressure for one person. Getting fired from a job and coming home to a partner who makes just as much as you is stressful. Imagine getting fired and coming home to someone who doesn’t work. It would be like telling them the world is on fire and all we have in the house is gasoline. How will you pay the mortgage? How will you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareSet yourself up so that you can always choose between having a career and being a housewife. Having some sort of a license would be good for someone like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareOh wow. I didn’t perceive it that way. But it does sound like op is suggesting the man has it easier. The truth is no one has it easier in that story. America isint really designed for single parent house holds anymore. The only way this will work is if your husband is old money or some shit. I’m sure you don’t need me to explain to you why it’s sucks for both parties lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:27 AM |
| 5 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareDo you think working in an office is easy? Manual labor and corporate should never be compared and are both horrible for you in different ways. I feel like a lot of people who have never done corporate think we just sit on our bottoms and eat doughnuts. John’s work life balance probably sucks. To make a certain amount of money your often sacrificing time at home with your family. A lot of people at my last company worked from 7:00am-9:00pm. That’s HORRIBLE. It was a 9-5 lol. Also just so you kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareeven if you’re broke you have to pay. It’s unlikely that the person has absolutely positively no money. Like no job and zero dollars and zero cents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:14 AM |
| 25 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareI wanna be a house wife but you bet your ass i am getting that nursing degree and license first. You need a fucking back up plan for your back up plan these days. I don’t plan on getting divorced I wanna get married once, but marriages change. I will not be a Mary. If you are a Mary it’s okay. Maybe get an associates in nursing, dental assisting, respiratory therapy or something medical because it will guarantee you have a job when you’re done. Also they offer alot of these programs at community… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Calling an entire gender bitter for no reason is rude. If I did that about men the men on this thread would say something because it’s highly unnecessary. If I should not care enough to engage in a conversation because I would not date a passport bro why are you engaging and going back and forth with me? Would you date a passport bro? Are you a passport bro who is offended that I don’t care? Most likely not So by your logic you should not be commenting on this thread either. Your entire argument… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:02 AM |
| 0 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.I’m bitter that they calling me bitter it’s rude. Sometimes you need to tell people they are rude. Seeing as we are all different people our reactions mean different things. My response or level of activity on all of r purple pill is something I do because i find it interesting and like sharing my unpopular opinions just like everyone else. It does not mean I secretly wanna bust it open for a red pill man because I don’t. I don’t like extremists. Passport bros are extremists. So why would I care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 10:47 AM |
| 0 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.I actually really don’t give a damn. It annoys me when men assume we are all “bitter” about the passport bro situations. It’s rude. If they wanna do that then do that. Leave the country and recognize that people don’t give a fuck what you’re doing. Do you wanna date a passport bro? I don’t. So let them leave america and date another people. And I am just active on r purple pill so I thought I’d let them know that a lot of us actually don’t care lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 10:15 AM |
| 8 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Idc what the passport bros do. If you think that all women in America are that bad then go. I don’t wanna date someone who generalizes that much. I don’t think all American men are all so horrible that I need to leave america so imma just stay here and keep dating men from a culture I understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:21 AM |
| 2 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?If we aren’t dating for a long period of time there is no way on earth that I know enough about you to sleep with you. Casual sex just isint for me or my friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.…. It’s not gossip/ spreading rumors if it’s true. If you don’t want someone to talk about what you’re doing don’t do it and then run around telling everyone that you’re doing it. A lot of people in the office are very very messy and it’s important to realize that the people at work are not your friends early in your career. I personally do not engage with people from work unless it’s about work. Also me hearing something and forming conclusions about the people in my environment isint rude. It’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.I’m just respectful and mind my damn business lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:40 PM |
| 6 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.I would never feel the need to refer to someone as a hoe. Are they immoral and sneaky.. yes but a hoe??? We are using very strong offensive words buddy. Life dosent always need gender flips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:04 PM |
| 5 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?Bro if you’re a man you don’t need to explain that you’re not on birth control….. unless male birth control was released when I blinked. This is common sense. I down voted your comment because I feel as though you’re trying to gaslight me lol. Saying “I’m not on birth control” as a man is odd and usually implies gender. The gender it implies is female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:47 AM |
| 6 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?Are you okay? It sounds like you’re dealing with addiction. I’m saying this to be a bitch but you just described highly concerning behavior. Here is an article on why you should stop doing that. Just so you know some of these diseases are skin diseases and can get in your vagina with a condom on. https://www.who.int/teams/global-hiv-hepatitis-and-stis-programmes/populations/sex-workers Also stop lying about being a woman on Reddit you’re clearly a man who identifies as a man your comment history… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:33 AM |
| 10 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?That doesn’t mean she doesn’t like sex. It means that when she things or sex with strangers and the risk of getting genital warts or pregnant she decides to not have sex. She still likes sex. But is mentally mature enough to fully understand the risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:02 AM |
| 14 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?None of my friends have casual sex. I could not imagine getting an std or accidentally getting pregnant by someone I just met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:00 AM |
| 3 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?Because we wanna be loved by a man, have sex, start a family , and or get married. You need to date to end up in any of those situations. Dating is VERY dangerous but at the end of the day there are normally ways to protect yourself. One of the biggest things that’s kept me safe is trusting my intuition. If a man gives me a bad vibe at dinner or is making me uncomfortable or keeps asking if I’m going home with him I just get up and leave. If the food came I put down money get up and leave.. if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:59 AM |
| 29 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Omg the guy who always randomly says he will never cheat on his wife is always the guy who is cheating on his wife. It’s like bro no one asked we are at work… the next week you find out he is sleeping with Tammy from accounting who isint his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 01:42 AM |
| 2 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).No bruh. They can decide what to eat. I said our brains are not developed enough to make “permanent decisions” also men’s brains aren’t developed until 25 either lol. I think that until you’re 25 you should avoid doing things like getting major cosmetic surgeries, doing drugs, getting married, and having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 01:15 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Have you ever considered that it’s because a lot of our grate grandmas, grandmas, and moms (depending on your age) actually were abused? Back in the day when women were significantly less educated and did not work they could not just up and leave. If you upped and left you were literally choosing homelessness, poverty, and struggle. My grandma is almost 100 and does not recognize how much times have changed because she is forgetting things. When someone in my family was getting married she said … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:10 PM |
| 2 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Oh no no no. I did not say with a “perfect woman” I was very specific in what I said and your ignoring the details to cling onto your argument. There are women and men in the world who are “nurturing, financially stable, and mentally stable” I was very specific. Having those three things does not make you perfect. When you acknowledge what I said in detail I will consider debating you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:54 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Because their brain is literally not developed lol. I know people who are older and tell young women not to get nose jobs or bbls because they REGRET all their surgeries. Our brains are not developed to make the best choices for ourselves until our mid twenties (specifically the part of the brain that associates consequence with your actions/decisions). That’s why I have an iud. I don’t wanna be pregnant in my early 20ies running around trying to raise a baby with my undeveloped brain. That woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:24 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).I think they are both equally important. If your financially stable as a woman and like your job, your life, and have self love why would you alter your life to be with a financially stable man who violates all of your emotional boundaries? They would not. Women need both love and stability. Women I see dating shitty men normally lack self love, need therapy, and leave the relationship even more messed up than before they were in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:22 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).No. Once she realizes the chads aren’t fun and toxic to her she will run. Extremely young women who are teens and young adults make alot of choices they regret from men all the way to irreversible plastic surgeries and tattoos because we are not mentally developed enough to make permanent decisions. This is a scientific fact. When she is a normal functioning adult in society she will want to date another normal functioning adult once she is mentally mature. That’s why I personally will not be en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Your response is super duper toxic and honestly doesn’t make any sense. Being a pump and dump has nothing to do with what we’re talking about. Let me break down why. If a woman dosent have the qualities here and the man is mentally healthy why we he even engage in sex with her? The truth is men who think like this are sex addicted and don’t value their own body, or future. You could easily get that woman who lacks mental stability, nurturing, and a good job pregnant just by sleeping with her ONC… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:01 PM |
| 2 | What’s the meanest/rudest way someone had rejected you?Some people are just fucked up and it has nothing to do with age. I have never done this to anyone at any point of my life because watching people sad does not make me happy. Fuck those girls lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women faceNo one said they wanted to point their finger and send people to jail. The assumptions. I was giving someone examples of how men often shut down women and my previous points are still valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 02:47 AM |
| 2 | What’s the meanest/rudest way someone had rejected you?I think it still happens today too but I’m also still very sorry this happened to you. The person that did that is sick. You are not and were not the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 02:20 AM |
| 3 | What’s the meanest/rudest way someone had rejected you?This is highly disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women faceA woman will say that she wants to see more male sexual predators face consequences and then men will say men get r**ed by women too to shut her up. But like the issue still exists. Or a woman will say that her husband is a cheap ass and pays for nothing and low key describe financial abuse and then a man will say that most of these women are gold diggers anyways and she sounds like she is a greedy gold digger. There are alot more things I could think of. Often times women’s struggling are dismi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Women are rude to men without consequencesWho is trp?? Can I see a video or article. I would love to know how to address this behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Women are rude to men without consequencesBecause my exboyfriend and brother told me not to say anything and my ex would get extremely upset at me when I suggested talking to his friend. It was like he thought his friend stealing from me was my fault. He would also get angry when I would be hungry open the fridge and see my food was gone and then ask him to say something. The best solution for me was dumping him. A lot of men care about their friends feelings more than their romantic partners. Women have to be very careful who they give… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Women are rude to men without consequencesMy exes name is literally chad lmfaooooooooooo also I do agree with that. Honestly my ex not addressing the stealing gave off major pussy/ bitch boy vibes. It was horrible. How are you going to let someone steal your girlfriends food??? He would not even let me address the stealing and his roommate stole my food so much it was an everyday thing. Then when I would say I don’t wanna come over (due to the stealing) he would get mad at me… like I told his roommate to rob me l. I have another ex who’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:14 AM |
| 31 | Women are rude to men without consequencesI was about to fucking say. My ex boyfriends friend/roommate used to steal his food out of the fridge and my food (part of why we broke up) and steal money from my ex. My ex NEVER addressed this. But god forbid I blinked at him wrong….. I honestly think a lot of men respond to conflict way harsher with women than they do with other men. Meanwhile the man they are ignoring is literally taking food out of their mouth and money out their pockets and calling their wife ugly. A lot of men are way mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Many women are usersThe only woman who would keep giving when the man disappoints is one with low self worth who most likely needs therapy and dosent have self love. Mentally healthy women do not keep pouring into damaged, disloyal men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:14 AM |
| 7 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”I was reading this like… maybe he has different taste. Thic women are just as hot as skinny women. Everyone likes different shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 11:43 PM |
| 14 | Men love whoresBruh I was reading someone talk about how if we stayed virgins and married men we would get treated better and I was laughing. I literally was watching a “whore” talk about how some guy who wasn’t her man bought her a Range Rover for her birthday. I am too socially awkward to finesse… but it seems like the hoes are winning lmfaooooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Men age like wine, women age like...I feel like this is a bad example because she gained a ton of weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Some of you guys are in your mid 20s or older and haven’t even kissed a girl or been on a date. The fuck is wrong with you?Are you being sarcastic I honestly can’t tell lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:37 AM |
| 3 | How many of you never experienced a new year’s kiss?This sent me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:36 AM |
| 0 | confession, I cheated on my wife with prostitutes and it made me leave PPDBecause purple pill Reddit thread made him cheat on his wife. We beat him up, hit him with a gun and made him do it multiple times. Duuuh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:33 AM |
| 1 | A short summary of all advice given here:You’re better off not pretending or paying for sex. Pretending to be someone you’re not for love is depressing and means that you think that the person you actually are isn’t worthy of love. Paying for sex because you won’t pretend to be someone you’re not also means you’re accepting the fact that the person you are isint worthy of a genuine relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!I know it does and so does mine lol I’m not arguing with you I’m backing you up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 02:37 AM |
| 1 | My crush just hit the wallHow long did it take him to hit the wall? How long have y’all known each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:45 AM |
| 4 | Most women can get away with a lot of red flags when it comes to dating and relationships.These men need therapy. There are always going to be shitty people out there. You need to develop the confidence to avoid or cut off shitty people. This applies to more than dating it applies to friends and abusive work dynamics. People need to learn their value because if you don’t, sadly, someone will be waiting to traumatize you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!The most abusive toxic horrible man I’ve ever dated (who literally chocked me for tickling him and asking for a kiss) was the least attractive man I’ve ever dated. He had no tattoos. No criminal record that I could Google. Looked normal (not hot not ugly) and claimed to work a blue decent job and lived in a tidy three bedroom apartment with one roommate. I’m happy you agree with what I said and others do as well. This thread is ridiculous sometimes. Obviously bad men don’t look crazy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!Lol facts. I am honestly happy when people reveal they are fucked up early on in relationships or friendships because then I can run faster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:29 AM |
| 16 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!I’m pretty sure all men who are horrible don’t look crazy. Lol. I wish life were that easy. I wish fucked up people looked crazy and scary. It would be a lot easier to avoid them. Think about the ex who hurt you the most of the friend who stabbed you in the back… idk about you but for me they looked like normal people. I wish my ex and my worst friend were as googleable as Chris brown lmfao I would have never spoken to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | QFW: What do you consider "the bare minimum" in a relationship?Yeah girl no. A man used to drive through three states just to take me on a dates. My other ex lived in pa and would drive here to take me on a date every weekend he had off. Also a “sneaky link” isint a relationship. If you love someone and they love you… y’all will make a date happen. My long distance exes and I also had Skype dates very very often and would eat dinner on Skype. One man also flew all the way from California to take me on dates for a week. I think that someone not making an eff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:33 AM |
| 2 | QFW: What do you consider "the bare minimum" in a relationship?I would be I don’t understand how I’d be in a relationship with someone I’ve never been on a date with. I’m not trying to be rude but that seems delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | QFW: What do you consider "the bare minimum" in a relationship?If someone is your boyfriend or girlfriend dates aren’t the bare minimum too. Dates don’t have to be a big thing it could literally be going to the park together after work. Getting coffee together before work or going to lunch or dinner together. How would you even be in a relationship with someone if they never took you on a date??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:41 PM |
| 11 | QFW: What do you consider "the bare minimum" in a relationship?Not even entitled trash probably just bitter bitches. Imagine your man buying you flowers and being like “that’s the bare minimum” to his face. I could never imagine saying that to someone I love. You’re not entitled you’re fucking evil. Some people are just mean as fuck lol. I’m single but in my relationships I definitely wasn’t doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?You don’t get my point. On dating apps you’re playing Russian roulette with your safety. You can get a nice night out or you could get followed back to your car and assaulted. At least when you date people from your classes or people from your job you have an understanding of who they are already and had a chance to feel them out for red flags before even developing a friendship. I honestly think dating apps are for inpatient pushy people who are more likely to try and pressure you into doing th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?I feel like it’s important to remember that good and bad men and women couple up and get married in their 20ies which means good and bad men and women are still single in their 30ies. I feel like you’re more likely to meet people you have nothing in common with and would see as a shitty partner online than in your day to day life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:44 AM |
| 10 | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?They could also be in their home. Or just going to work and going home. Myself and my friends don’t use dating apps. Dating apps seem dangerous to me (F 23) I promised myself I would not use them again after my friend told me she went on a date with a guy and then he kept her in his jeep and tried to force her to do things she was not comfortable doing. He eventually let her out and nothing happened to her but that is horrific. I also have a cousin who’s close friend was murdered by a stranger i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsYes. I order those drinks on dates and with my friends as well. When I’m with my friends bar hopping we alternate who pays for what in every bar but if I’m on a dinner date the man normally pays for the date even if I offer to pay. In my culture the men offer to pay for dates. On first dates I only drink one drink though because I am short and I don’t weigh much. I don’t wanna be drunk infront of them, I just met them. In a relationship I’ll order multiple drinks if we’re out dancing or one or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsLol I’ll tell you mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsNo most people make six figures where I’m from statistically I live in one of the richest parts of America. To live here if you make less than 80k you live in a rent a room. Like hearing kids talk about swimming in their bathtub is our normal. We are well paid because of how costly it is to live here. Even my friend a new grad nurse makes six figures. It’s honestly ridiculous and I think I will retire to a cheaper part of the country but I do wanna raise a family here. If people make 50k in your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsYes it does that’s why I said it’s very very very expensive here several times. Because it’s true. My grocery’s could easily be over 100 dollars. A drink at the bar is 15-21 dollars. I honestly consider leaving this area sometimes and buying a house down south or somewhere else but I love it here maybe when I’m older I’ll retire to the south | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 05:01 PM |
| 2 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsI’m not giving you the specifics but I live close to New York City and that’s not the median that’s the less fortunate people who will struggle to buy a house. My friend is a nurse… a regular new grad nurse and she also makes six figures we are very well paid in this part of the country because it’s so expensive. When I got my first new grad entry lvl job I was making 85k that’s a lot of peoples starting salary. So here expecting a man to make six figures isint really as crazy as in other parts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:25 PM |
| 4 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsI don’t think that’s true I don’t wanna be rude but I think that you and your friends can’t dance so you assume all men can’t dance. Also as I said you can learn basic dance moves on YouTube. If you realize most women wanna see you dance, teach yourself to dance and get ahead of the game. Be more proactive. A proactive person is sexy. Also every one has different expectations for their romantic partners so how do you know I will have to compromise? You don’t know what I want. Women don’t have co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areI’m 23 F and I literally only care if he is taller than me and I’m 5’1 so that’s not hard. A lot of women still don’t expect every man to be 6 feet tall. I personally think red pillers project their insecurities onto us without knowing what we and the actually want or asking. I do not think most women expect men to be six feet tall. None of my friends boyfriends are six feet tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:27 PM |
| 3 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsI’m in the United States where lawyers make like 150k in my state but a lot of middle class people make that too. I wanted to be a lawyer and then I did extremely thorough research and decided to pick a career I will actually enjoy and make damn near the same amount. I’m not just an angry person making fun of lawyers lol. Also in the area I live in the United States most people make six figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:12 PM |
| 3 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsIn my culture most people can dance. Teaching someone rhythm is extremely difficult some people just can’t dance lol. Why can’t he put in the effort and learn how to dance if he realizes that’s something a lot of women want him to be able to do. YouTube tutorials are free and amazing. I decided a long time ago that I’m not captain build a man. I don’t know how to use a screw driver and that’s not my job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:04 PM |
| 9 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsA lot of people don’t Google the average salary for careers before starting them lol. They just hear lawyers are rich and have prestige and then go to law school…. From my understanding most lawyers don’t make 250k one of my friends who is a lawyer said most of them are upper middle class (which is six figures) and that it’s a very very very very miserable career for most people. So you’re right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:39 AM |
| 3 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsI actually require that my man is a good dancer I love to go out dancing and I will never be dancing alone ever again. I want a man who will dance with me and look amazing. And I’m gen Z dancing is fun life is short. Being able to dance is not an unrealistic expectation in my culture lol and 250k would be nice but that’s an unrealistic expectation for most people. However in my zip code most adults make six figures with the minimum earners making 80,000 a year. It depends on where you live and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?we are taking about your partner finding you attractive not society as a whole. And once again YOU determine how you feel about the way you look. I’m a black woman who was raised in a yt area and called ugly by complete strangers for my entire childhood because I do not fit the beauty standard of a different race (because I’m not that race) I still believe I’m beautiful and often am told I’m beautiful by strangers in more diverse areas now that I’m an adult. However as a child I thought I was th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?I’m a laaaaadyyyyyy but thank you for having my back ❤️ and you’re right that person assumed the absolute most lol. I tell all my partners I love them (because I loved them), gave them genuine compliments and tried to do things I know they like in bed and have been told it’s amazing but I would HOPE that sex with me is not what is making them feel attractive. I hope they could do that with or without me. I have told all of my exes that I want to feel wanted, not needed when I was with them. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?If you cannot validate yourself consider therapy. Therapy is healthy it’s amazing and it doesn’t mean anything is deeply wrong with you. Being able to validate yourself helps you leave relationships or stop sexual encounters with people who treat you poorly. Like a lot of the issues the men in this forum have regarding sex says they need to be dating or fucking someone else… but they’re not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:08 PM |
| -10 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?Not to be that person….. but isn’t it your own job to feel attractive. Like obviously yes your partner should compliment and appreciate you, but they are not responsible for how you perceive yourself (unless they are abusing you and actively trying to destroy your confidence) I do not think it’s healthy to allow someone else’s actions to determined how you feel about yourself. From personal experience. Edit: For those of you who do not understand what I’m saying… yes you’re partner should love, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | The whole "women want relationships, men want sex" cliché is not only a gender stereotype, but also a subtle variation of the "women are good, men are evil" narrative.Girl talk your shit!!! People could literally want a relationship because they are a bored sociopath and they want someone to destroy emotionally for no reason lol. And someone could wanna be single because they are in therapy and they wanna be a better version of themselves for when they decide to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:50 PM |
| – | most of the men here are submissive, and the women here nag too much.I’m going to say this for everyone to hear. If you lie to someone to get them to sleep with you….. they cannot consent. If you feel like you have to keep information to yourself to get sex from someone and this is something you do often, please seek professional help. Your behavior is not healthy. Your behavior it’s concerning and dangerous. Your lies can cause someone else to have serious trauma because if they discover the truth they will most likely feel violated. Please do not do this to any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumThis is wild sauce. A lot of people tell me I’m crazy for going through peoples phones but if she went through his phone several years ago she would not have wasted so much of her life on his ass. Go through peoples phones more. Not to argue with them but to just see and know for yourself. Once my friend went through a guys phone and saw that after every time they had sex he would record her sleeping. She ran. She did not confront him, she did not argue with him, she said goodbye and kissed him … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you define as flirting?Outside. Literally just whenever I go outside. So I stay inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as flirting?I don’t deal with this issue. Men here don’t do the whole aggressive approach thing. 🤷🏾♀️ they walk up to us and try to have a normal conversation. The only time men are aggressive with me is when I’m in the hood visiting family or something. Not to be rude. That’s why I asked where you were approaching these women. The suburbs is fucking litty titty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as flirting?No girl! You’re not strange in any way. I’m going to try this the next time I go out lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as flirting?Does this work? This seems fun? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 02:06 AM |
| 5 | What do you define as flirting?It could mean she is just shy lol. Shy girls still exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 02:05 AM |
| 2 | What do you define as flirting?As a Black woman I have a question….. where are you approaching these women??? What kind of neighborhood is this??? I am not used to “aggressive approaches”. But if you ran up to me at a gas station at night I would keep it very short I would get in my car and drive away lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 02:03 AM |
| 2 | What do you define as flirting?That person is going to be irritated with you. This is what she means with learning social cues. Someone walking fast means they have somewhere to be and plans that don’t involve you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?It would depend on what their perfect ideal is lol. Some people have very low standards and any lower would be craaaaazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Women who won't see a man who's visited prostitutes, how would you even know that they have?I actually feel very similarly to the other woman and was wondering where men get the notion that women hate virgins. I’m starting to feel like the fear that women hate virgins is a projection of the man’s insecurity onto the woman. I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t dated a virgin. Sex is something that can be improved on in a relationship and usually needs improvement regardless of if you’re a virgin or not. Intimacy is individualized. Sex is not a one size fits all thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 03:58 AM |
| 13 | Ned Fulmer cheated on his wife- Final nail in the coffin for the 'Pick Better' narrativeThe online persona thing hit hard for me too. When people were like I cannot believe he cheated I was like… why do people think they know celebrities??? You really don’t. He could be a dick head and try guys can be scripted. We don’t know these people. This could also be a publicity stunt pulled to help him retire. We really don’t know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | "Men only notice attractive women". Is this really true?Boy bye. He wanted to date me but I was busy becoming valedictorian. So I guess it’s another tale of women focusing on their damn selves and doing what they want. What a salty wench | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 01:35 PM |
| 7 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?I make people get tested and show me before I sleep with them and avoid people who tell me crazy ass shit about themselves (examples “I’ve cheated on all my ex girlfriends”) (I have raw sex with strippers in strip clubs) and I also use condoms when I sleep with people throughout the entire relationship. I’m my number one priority in dating. There is alot of shit I don’t put up with because I don’t have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 05:43 AM |
| 10 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?…….. https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/frph.2022.837102/full#h2 this says otherwise about sex workers and diseases and I live somewhere where it isint legal. This article talks about have alot of them have HIV HPV HSV and a lot of other things. Good for you that you don’t care if someone sleeps with prostitutes…… but for me that makes me wonder if there is something socially wrong with the man. A lot of men talk about how they struggle to get sex on Reddit and I’m not trying to sound … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 05:26 AM |
| 15 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?Unsanitary behavior, illegal in my state, makes me question your self worth and your social skills, and since it is illegal I will silently judge the fact that you know… you would risk your freedom for an expensive night with someone who most likely has herpes and hpv (you can get both of these with a condom on). I don’t hate men who sleep with prostitutes I will just think they have very very very low self worth and no game. Or I’ll think you have zero self control. None of my thoughts on this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 05:07 AM |
| 17 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?You just made me imagine abortion banned across the country with pregnant sex workers running around. What a fucking garbage fire. What a shit show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 04:47 AM |
| 18 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?I was wondering if this was an incel thread when I read Ops post too. I was like who told men we hate them for sleeping with prostitutes? I don’t care what you do. But if you sleep with a prostitute keep that dirty peen away from me 💀💀💀. I’ll just silently think you’re nasty but I would not care enough to hate or date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Men and women, What do you think of women who "give a chance to somone" after a long time?Girl it’s annoying before their ego even swells. I went on a date with this guy who looked completely different in person then he did on Instagram and I could hear him breathing on the date and I told him it was annoying me because it was. Then I went home and blocked him after. Women are very very funny. Like it sometimes takes me time to process why I’m even pissed off. A woman who isint attracted to a man will just come off as angry for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 5 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?Thank you. I found this very helpful and interesting and will definitely be looking at that commercial test I’m a nursing student and a nerd so I really enjoyed this reading ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 04:13 AM |
| -1 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?Who says religious people don’t go to the club? Clubs are full of a lot of different kinds of people and so are churches. I don’t think any of that means shit because women are bizarre. (I’m allowed to say this as a woman.) a woman can go to a party where the entire theme of the party is hooking up and have zero intentions of having sex. We are fucking strange. Men are a lot more straight forward than women. I know women who claim to be “religious”and hook up alot more than what most people woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?…. People cannot consent to sex when they are under the influence. Remember that when you are sharing stories like this with people on the internet. What the fuck. Me and the other guy were not talking about this type of depressing shit. Stay on topic. And I bet you would not want someone making your daughter who you just swore on feel the way you made that woman feel…. It sounds like you’re using the club to take advantage of women. Being a little tipsy can completely change how you handle a si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?I actually don’t think I’m an exception. My brother said most women are not at the club looking for dick they are looking for men with dicks to buy them free margs. Do you ever wonder why women get in free. Women cause the men to come, the men buy us drinks and we don’t sleep with the men. So the smart men only buy a woman a drink if they really really really like her women get the guys to spend a ton of money on drinks for them… and most women still won’t sleep with you after you buy them drink… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:44 AM |
| 0 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?I club a lot and do not have sex after going to the club. I don’t seek sex at the club I just wanna dance with people and make friends and so do my friends. Me and all my friends always go to one of our apartments and sleep on the floor and on couches until the next morning. A lot of women don’t go to the club looking for sex. Also I have a friend who is wild as fuck sexually but I’m boring. None of these things say anything about the woman’s sex life. You like to think you know because it gives… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:38 AM |
| 8 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?I always say this to people and they look at me crazy. The people you think are having a ton of sex aren’t and the people you think are not having a ton of sex fucking like no one’s business. It’s refreshing to see a man agree with this statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:35 AM |
| 14 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?Wait, so is the diverse vaginal bacteria’s a good or a bad thing? Because my OBGYN said having a lot of different bacteria’s in your culture is good because they keep bad bacteria’s away… is she lying to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?I actually agree with this to an extent. But some people also just suck in bed. I slept with this one guy who I thought was a virgin once and he wasn’t at all and I was lost on how the peen was so trash. He was very sexually experienced and very attractive and suave six feet tall and everything… worst sex of my life. I was shocked at how bad it was. And he was far from a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:22 AM |
| -3 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?And it’s for me to decide to protect my certain aspects of my privacy in a relationship. If he does not like my response he can leave. I won’t stop him if someone is so weird that not knowing my body count will distress them into not wanting to date me they can go. That’s really a virgin question. A grown man has never asked me that before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:15 AM |
| 2 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?I have to disagree. The vagina bounces back after sex. If I had all the sex in the world my vagina would return to the same shape and tightness afterwards. Nothing changes. It’s a weird ass fantasy men have when they say non virgin pussy is loose. Some people are just naturally looser than others it has nothing to do with body count. This is a scientific fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:01 AM |
| -3 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?It’s not. Body count does not say anything about me and where I am now. If you’re asking that to find out if someone has an std it’s useless. Someone could have sex once and have an std and someone else could have sex 60 times and have no std. I just have people I’m dating go on a clinic date with me where we both get tested and show each-other the results for my sexual safety and for their comfort. (Because I know I have no diseases but it’s only fair for me to do it too if I’m asking them to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Men and women, What do you think of women who "give a chance to somone" after a long time?I respect yours too this was an interesting and peaceful talk lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Never Having Unprotected Sex (unless married)Honestly sometimes even in a long term relationship your partner could be a wild ass sneaky person doing god knows what behind your back. It’s good to keep that condom on for a while. And also both get tested before the first time you sleep with each-other and have your partner show you the results. My ex boyfriends friend had a girlfriend who was super cool I spoke to her once and then asked my ex boyfriend if she knew that the guy she was dating had herpes and hpv because she didn’t seem like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Men and women, What do you think of women who "give a chance to somone" after a long time?I only dated one person who was hot and toxic. My other exes were hot and mentally stable (and also working towards their goals) and we broke up for petty things but we were also very very very young so no regrets there. I’m still in my early 20ies so I aim for both. I have the experiences of a conventionally attractive woman when I go out and I’m educated and I have a decent amount of money for my age and my mentality is if I can do it so can a man. When you think about it most people who are “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:38 AM |
| 6 | Men and women, What do you think of women who "give a chance to somone" after a long time?Your understanding of what I’m saying is correct but it only applies to men I’m dating or sleeping with. Not my friends or family. It’s fucking weird. Any girl who says idc how he looks as long as he is funny is either ugly or lying. No one aspires to be with someone they aren’t attracted to. I thought I was the only person who thought like that until my other friend brought this up and several women agreed and then months later a girl said “never give a man you’re not attracted to a chance, eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:28 AM |
| 9 | Men and women, What do you think of women who "give a chance to somone" after a long time?I did not explain myself right. I would never give a man I’m not attracted to a chance because I would get irritated by every mistake they make and it’s toxic. I would need to be physically attracted to my partner to establish a healthy relationship with them. Most women are like this. (Or maybe me and my friends are just assholes) We don’t say it often because it’s toxic and rude. If a girl is not attracted to you everything you do will piss her off because she will feel like you need to do eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:20 AM |
| 18 | "Men only notice attractive women". Is this really true?I think it’s true. I used to be chubby with bad skin and then I lost a ton of weight and got into skin care. suddenly I was sleeping with the star football player on campus and had several different guys in my dms. Your life is a lot easier as a woman when you’re attractive. I also have alot of free nights at clubs and bars when I’m more in shape in general. Men will buy you so much shit (without you even asking) if you put effort into how you look. Pretty privilege and skinny privilege are real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:13 AM |
| 18 | Men and women, What do you think of women who "give a chance to somone" after a long time?Exactly. When you give a man you don’t like a chance everything they do annoys the shit out of you. I personally don’t give people I don’t like chances because I know every little mistake they make will piss me off and it would be toxic of me to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:07 AM |
| -7 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?I’ve been a virgin 2000 times 😉. Im kidding. But maybe im not kidding. You would never know lol. When men tell me they have only slept with virgins I laugh at them. People lie about their body count all the time it’s the dumbest thing you could ask someone. I personally don’t even answer that question I tel men to mind their business but we can both get tested and show each-other the results. Edit: For those of y’all who are confused by my humor I don’t lie about my body count I simply don’t ans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Is being married to a person you do not love anymore really that bad?I love this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:02 AM |
| 2 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreWhat a dip shit. I’m 23 and work in healthcare and worked in education. Taking minors to brothels dosent happen anymore for multiple reasons that anyone with common sense could easily figure out. People get STDs with condoms on all the time. It’s actually hilarious how little men know about protecting the sex organ they like to use so much 🤦🏾♀️ also the fact that you pay for sex says a lot about your social skills so maybe your child will be a 30 year old virgin 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 12:52 AM |
| 3 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreYour son probably won’t be a 30 year old virgin. Unless you raise them to have zero social skills and they are ugly and out of shape (2/3 of these things would be your fault if they are a minor) Or unless your son just likes being alone. Taking your child to sleep with a hooker is a violation of their rights and their body. What if your son sleeps with that hooker and gets a permanent std? And then women do not want them because they have diseases. Is that still better than them being a virgin t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreOkay so you’re admitting people know it’s wrong to send male children to sleep with whores in 2022. That’s why it doesn’t happen in 2022 and that’s anyone who tries that with my child would get knocked into 2024. Ops question ignores modern day values not me. Because you could easily understand why people no longer have children sleep with diseased sex workers. Several reasons. Also your metaphor was stupid. It made no damn sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreI would beat up a grown ass man for taking my son to have sex with a sex worker because that’s fucking dirty. Especially if my child is a minor. What kind of nasty perverted weird shit is that. I’m a woman. Women protect their kids at all costs. You wanna see a sane woman act crazy? Put her child in danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 11:18 PM |
| 7 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreI agree. If someone took my future son to a brothel I would attack them. So triggered violent mothers and fathers is another logical fear. Tell me with a straight face if someone took your son to a brothel you would not try to beat their ass??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 06:17 PM |
| 10 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsExaaaactly. Ops post assumes everyone is desperate/stressed to find someone to date. Not everyone is. I’m only 23 and settling has caused me TRAUMA. I’d rather be single and wait for someone who I am actually interested in dating long term and who has similar morals and values as me even though I’m 1000 percent sure I could get a boyfriend in five days or less who will treat me like shit lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enoughAs a 23 year old who is still in school I can confirm I am definitely still studying 💀💀💀 these are facts. It’s only a red flag if they are doing nothing with their life. Not working… not going to school… not applying to schools | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?No body said that. Just a lot more than you would think. You clearly are an assumptive child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?If you think all women who have experienced abuse (which is almost all of us) are being abused by a small percent of men….. just imma pray for you. Women with nothing are targets not partners and men do value a woman’s education. Because a man who is a medical doctor does not want a wife who is a high school drop out and who cannot hold her own raising his children. Or at least not the men I’ve dated. 🤷🏾♀️ and I’m sure it’s the same for a lot of women. I feel like most of your knowledge on dati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Bruh men do not have it easier than women and women do not have it easier than men. These are not self imposed standards it’s simply the reality of being a woman. And domestic violence and abuse is a reality that a lot of women face. Men target women without any money any friends and any family to abuse because they know we cannot leave and that is one of the things women must consider while dating. You’re very very very young minded. I wish you the best of luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?But women need to be financially stable to maintain independence and safety while dating you simply don’t get it. Do you think it’s a good life plan to sit on your ass not get an education not get a job and wait for a man to marry you so that you can get financial independence and move out of your parents house? Do you think that’s smart? During a recession? That’s how you end up abused in marriage or dating and unable to leave it’s not about a man caring it’s about a woman loving herself enough… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?I’m not because your point is men have it harder than women and that’s not true women are expected to preform well financially and academically in 2022 and once again we have other problems inside and outside of dating. You have never been a woman before so you will never understand our struggles. You can keep saying it’s rare in the west and once again imma say I think it’s the women you are associating yourself with because you’re not picky. Your issue is very circular to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?I don’t know where you’re getting this information from. Maybe you need to better yourself so that you can be picky though. The women I know value education, work ethic and your kindness… but they would not date anyone who isn’t on their lvl academically or financially (especially with this recession) I want you to work on being picky because every woman you meet who is those things you listed (which are very common especially when you get into dating more educated women who have lives going for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?A lot of women are all of those things….. some of those things especially being nurturing just come with being a woman. Those are very vague terms. 😓 my brother taught me that men have very high standards for women and low standards for sex. Are you very young??? I’m not trying to be rude with this question but im sensing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?I actually love this comment I never thought of it that way. That’s amazing insight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?When you can tell me what everything else is I’ll consider that a valid response. Women have to do a lot of other things too. Despite the depressing nature of your post there is a lot more to being a woman than being pretty. Your post is actually very disrespectful to both genders. It assumes men basically have no standards and all women do a be skinny and pretty….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?It’s not. Women face different issues than men do. Women also get their own money these days or are expected to be high earning to live in this area when unmarried so consider that too. A lot of the things men have to do women also have to do to maintain their financial freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?I am here for this response. If men actually think like that it’s sad af. Op just said a-lot about themselves as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?…….. women and men both have it hard. Men just face different challenges than women. Also there are a lot of fields where you could earn six figures… with today’s economy 100,000k is not a lot of money anymore (I’m from jersey very close to New York I’m not being snooty it just won’t get you that far here unless your single with no kids.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit. Have you ever agreed to a date or gave a guy your number from cold approach?Maybe she is shy. I always told myself the day a man walks up to me and asks for my number I’m gonna say yes 😂😂😂 my ass said no every single time except once in college. Stranger danger. Imma say yes next time tho. It’s hard being shy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 07:48 PM |
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