WiseGene Archive

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6	What are the best meetups to meet women? Shopping centers and supermarkets will have the widest variety of women. If you're into fitness, you can 'patrol' the health food section and keep a lookout for women in yoga pants. You can open simply by asking them if they go to your gym (Hey do you go to Golds?). Or you can ask if they do yoga, because you're looking for a good yoga class to go to. Chat for a minute, and if you feel there's a click, introduce yourself and ask for their name. Chat for a few minutes, talk about both of your fit…	/r/seduction	11/06/19 02:30 PM
1	Have A Feeling Like "She'll Know I'm Hitting on Her" That Discourages Me From Approaching Women know what's up, which is why they're suspicious AF when a guy is acting too nice. You want her to know that you're interested.	/r/seduction	11/06/19 11:14 AM
2	Still not able to close every date 2 out of 3 is very good. You're stressing too much. Even champions will lose sometimes. From my experience, you can get a good feel of how a first date will go by measuring her enthusiasm. Also, how quickly are you escalating during the date? Some dating ideas (like a picnic) are much more conducive for kissing. What kind of dates are you holding?	/r/seduction	11/06/19 10:46 AM
1	How to approach a woman at work You're walking into a minefield. It's normally bad to date a co-worker (risk of getting #MeToo'd, false allegations, gossip etc). The woman is also a single mother. Single mothers ALL have issues. Steer clear!	/r/seduction	11/06/19 10:37 AM
2	I got nothing to talk about with most women If you're more into dorky / nerdy girls, you'll probably be better off with day game. Clubs and parties tend to attract the extroverted night life types.	/r/seduction	07/06/19 11:12 AM
1	Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week later Damn, this is on point.	/r/askTRP	11/04/19 01:56 PM
1	what did you all replace Porn/Video games with? "Being a drug user will raise the average guy's SMV on the other hand." really?	/r/askTRP	09/04/19 09:06 AM
1	Why getting ghosted stings so much People ghost for a clean break. It's not personal. When I get ghosted, I feel some relief as it frees up my time to work on other things.	/r/askTRP	31/03/19 11:30 AM
3	Advice for dealing with flaky plates as well as a MGTOW tendency I wouldn't bother trying to tease or "re-approach" a woman after a flake. In my experience, it doesn't work, and comes off as desperate. If a woman genuinely flakes for a good reason, she'll explain in detail why, and move heaven and earth to reschedule. Regarding MGTOW, i was MGTOW for 2 years and ended up gaining weight. Last year (?) there was the Great Migration of incels after the incel subreddit got banned, so there's more self-destructive toxicity. Red Pill knowledge is enough. Only go MG…	/r/askTRP	27/03/19 07:02 PM
4	How do girls have it easier than guys when it comes to dating and relationships? The rule only applies to women under 30. After 30, the dynamic flips.	/r/askTRP	27/03/19 06:47 PM
3	(UK) Joining the marines as an officer or building my own business The military is the same as working in the corporate world. I havent joined the military myself, but I have a sibling who's been with the marines for 20 years. He absolutely hates his job, and only stuck around for the benefits + retirement pay (which are good). You have to work alongside assholes and under useless bosses. If you build your own online business, you have options. I know people who have moved to Thailand or Bali and live like kings while making a modest income online. You're still…	/r/askTRP	26/03/19 08:36 PM
1	How do broke guys get play? How old are the women you're trying to attract? The younger they are, the less they care about money.	/r/seduction	28/02/19 09:09 AM
1	Turning the odds in your favour(use with caution) Kudos to you.	/r/seduction	31/01/19 11:11 AM
0	No one wants to date me, but plenty of women want to cheat on their boyfriends with me. Wtf is happening? ^ this guy gets it.	/r/seduction	28/01/19 06:26 AM
1	Social media purge is hindering my game Yep! It's pretty easy to use and customize.	/r/seduction	28/01/19 06:22 AM
3	Social media purge is hindering my game If you're motivated enough, you can maintain your own personal website or blog. I keep a financial blog and people usually find it interesting and different than your usual social media. If you show particular passion or expertise on a good topic (like finance or health), it'll be dhv. In my experience, women will often talk about my blog during dates / day 2s, so maybe this alternative might be more suitable to you?	/r/seduction	27/01/19 09:55 AM
1	I don't know how I'm perceived but I always get rejected v She's not worth your energy, mate. Ugly people tend to have ugly personalities to match (lack of motivation to work out, research a healthy diet etc).	/r/seduction	24/01/19 02:13 PM
5	How do you not become needy when you FINALLY start to get some female attention? Do you have any projects to work on? Like starting a small online business or side hustle? You might need a bigger challenge in life than just finding a ltr. It'll make women seem insignificant in comparison.	/r/seduction	20/01/19 11:55 PM
3	I make it impossible for myself to spark something with women I like. Please help me I'm desperate. Hey man. A girlfriend should be low on your list of priorities ATM. Can you get a part time job outside of school and earn a bit of income? You can get online counselling without needing your dads approval, and its relatively cheap. But take the time to sit down, list all the problems in your life, and come up with solutions, or at least ways of minimising each item on your list. That way, it becomes more of a puzzle that your rational mind can attempt at solving.	/r/seduction	20/01/19 03:10 AM
1	At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause? Women are totally attracted to men in their 30s. If you're working a min wage job, try to find a side hustle that'll bring your total income closer to average. Being single and childless, it should be relatively easy to save up. By your mid 30s, you should be in a very stable position in life. That in itself is very attractive. Your obsession about your virginity is based on validation, which you'll outgrow over time, especially once you realise that most ppl DON'T have their shit together. Spea…	/r/seduction	27/12/18 03:02 AM
1	Asked out about 200 women in the past 4 years. Been on 80 dates. Rejected by all of them. good point	/r/seduction	24/12/18 08:28 PM
2	Was supposed to go on a first date, but girl ends up inviting her friends and family and I froze up.. Bro, I'd just bail. That was mad disrespect of your time. The only reason why a woman would bring a friend(s) to a date is so they could both dissect you to pieces and see if you're good enough. So now you have multiple people to please. Too much drama for me.	/r/seduction	24/12/18 10:22 AM
2	[Serious] I'm a 23yo brown skinned 5'9" virgin male n practically going bald. How do I possibly improve my game/success w women in the near future? How do you look with a 1mm-3mm shave?	/r/seduction	24/12/18 10:08 AM
1	Asked out about 200 women in the past 4 years. Been on 80 dates. Rejected by all of them. How physically attractive do you consider yourself? And are you giving vibes for something long-term? (women will significantly raise their standards with long-term mates). As for odds, I get at least a kiss in 40%-50% of my first dates. However, all my dates stem from day game. I imagine online dates to be far more transactional, which probably contributes to your problem.	/r/seduction	24/12/18 09:59 AM
6	Honestly? I physically feel pathetic and i want to fix that but dont know how or where to start. Jealousy of your peers is normal. Try to embrace and make it work for you. Gym bros are intensely jealous of each others gains, and that compels them to train together and compete. With regards to losing your virginity, no one is keeping score, and you can always catch up later on. If you need to build experience, visit a brothel and be direct with the woman you're seeing I.e. tell her you're a virgin who wants to be good with women. I did this when I was your age and don't regret it.	/r/seduction	24/12/18 09:54 AM
7	Guys like this are making our lives harder. The thirst is strong.	/r/MGTOW	26/11/18 06:39 AM
20	My very first number close today! Good stuff, man. I'm borrowing your opener!	/r/seduction	18/11/18 05:55 AM
1	I'm about to give up Sorry to hear that. Did you post on amiugly? Mind linking a pic? Unless you're disfigured, there are ways of looksmaxing to at least a 6.	/r/seduction	18/11/18 12:54 AM
0	Tell me how I look 1-10? No homo, so I can't give you a score. But you look normal, bro. Maybe cut your hair shorter so you look more sharp, like Don Draper. Women like masculine hair styles.	/r/seduction	15/11/18 05:32 PM
0	Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates? It's crazy-brave to ask a woman if you can kiss her, lol. I did it a few times, and received bewildered faces, followed by silence. Women don't want to appear slutty by saying "yes". That's just been my experience.	/r/seduction	15/11/18 05:14 PM
3	Whatever you become in Life, Don't be James aka Pastor Beta bux. MeToo mainly applies if you're ugly and rich. There's no money or likes to be gained from #MeToo-ing a nobody.	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/18 03:49 AM
3	I'm taking a girl on a "date" to an event but don't know how to start it. Your best shot would be dating her before the prom. Do you have her contact details? Get in touch her, introduce yourself as the guy who's taking her, and that it'd be awesome to meetup with her over coffee. Most women understand that 'coffee" means "mini-date", so she'll understand that you're interested in her. That's how I'd approach it anyway. The alternative is to seduce her at the party you're attending in a few days. I found parties and loud environments to be very difficult in seducing w…	/r/seduction	14/11/18 03:10 PM
0	How terrible do I look 1-10? What would you change about your face? No homo.	/r/seduction	14/11/18 09:56 AM
3	What is the biggest turn off to women? (Asking women and experience from other men) Don't explicitly ask for consent. Just look for visual and audio cues. If she's not resisting, then assume she's consenting. As an example, when moving to kiss, don't explicilty ask "Can I kiss you?" Just cup her chin with your fingers and turn her head towards you. If she complies, she wants to be kissed. If she doesn't want to be kissed, she will definitely tell you.	/r/seduction	14/11/18 09:25 AM
14	How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year? Just curious, did you catch anything? After 50 lays, the probability of sleeping with a rando with herpes is close to 100%. Condoms won't protect you.	/r/seduction	14/11/18 08:18 AM
1	Spreadsheet number close It doesn't count.	/r/seduction	13/11/18 07:50 AM
1	Taking action There's two psychological "tricks" that I use: #1) Depersonalise the situtation. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Depersonalization) Basically, treat the interaction as a dream or a simulation. If you're in a dream and see a beautiful woman and there are no consequences, what would you do? Within reason, of course. #2) Sometimes I like to think that I've died, and am reliving my past, except I now have the opportunity to change it. What would I change? Be more daring? Stop being so scared?	/r/seduction	12/11/18 01:02 PM
3	Nearly 600 daygame approaches, only 7 instadates, no lays - time for a bootcamp? 80% of cold approaches boil down to how physically attractive you are to women. How much are you focusing on improving your looks? This is probably your weakest point. After 600 approaches, I don't think a bootcamp will help. I'd put that money on gym membership or a personal trainer. You should have the basics already nailed down, and it's a matter of looksmaxing to push you over the finishing line.	/r/seduction	12/11/18 11:18 AM
2	What I’ve learnt from 3 days of daygame! Good stuff! I believe unattractive women react negatively because they don't believe you, or have low self-esteem etc. Only more reason to upgrade your taste, lol. Keep it up!	/r/seduction	11/11/18 11:39 AM
2	Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too late I'm in my mid-late 30s. As long as you're in good physical shape, it's not too late. Your "optimal" age group will be women in their 20s, although picking up 18 year olds is still very possible. Women are more likely to ignore your age the better shape you are in. It only becomes a concern when she wants to introduce you to family/friends.	/r/seduction	08/11/18 09:30 PM
6	How to txt a girl when you just got her number. If she's already interested in you, what you say won't matter much (within reason). I'd just straightup ask her what day she's free. Eg "hey this is x, it was great to meet you. what day are you free for coffee"	/r/seduction	05/11/18 11:32 AM
1	Just Tried Some Game For the First Time Ever Really Physical compliments work with women in the 6-8 range, so I wouldn't dismiss it.	/r/seduction	05/11/18 08:36 AM
1	Is the club scene supposed to feel like shit? I found night clubs very suboptimal. Maybe day game is more your thing? It's free and the pool of women is much more diverse.	/r/seduction	30/10/18 11:14 AM
2	Is it a good idea to cold approach random girls in my college cafeteria? It's no problem, but mix it up with other places, and don't do it for too long. If you confine yourself to a particular area or type of women, you'll eventually open the same woman twice, and raise the 'creepy' factor tenfold.	/r/seduction	30/10/18 10:24 AM
1	Multiple girls at work showing me iois how do I play this? The moment you start dating a co-worker, gossip will spread like wild fire, and usually not in a good way. I did it once, and never again. Since this is a seasonal job, you can try taking your favourite one out during the last week of your job. If that doesn't work, approach the next favourite etc. By the time gossip spreads, you'll be out of there anyway.	/r/seduction	09/10/18 07:53 AM