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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Should I stop going to the gym where my wife had her affair? Why are you hesitant to reveal what she has done? Do it and find closure. Also if I were you then I'd avoid that gym altogether. Forget the daycare. No service is worth mental trauma and anxiety.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/24 06:30 AM
2	Marriage counseling Marriage counselling only works if both parties are equally treated and not just because the partner wanted to vent and prove that they were in the 'right'. Won't work. If ultimate goal is not reconciliation but rather continuation of the same arguments then its not worth the time, mental stress and money. Hope you decide what's best for you OP. Take care and good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 12:10 PM
1	Happy story from the other side Happy to read from you OP. I'm glad that all's working out and you are and will stay in your happy place. Take care and good luck 👍🏼	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 01:16 PM
6	Pls help me not read too much into this After reading your story, I think you should move on. ASAP. This woman lied to you, stole from you, lied about you to anyone who'd care to listen to her...why are you still attracted to her? Your good name was dragged through the mud metaphorically via courts, legal complaints and police investigations. Also, believe that you are only a living bank account and PLAN B or even C to her. From what I've read & understood from your story is that, you are never going to be her priority and do not warr…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/23 03:59 PM
1	Ex-wife (38F) introduced kids to her new boyfriend of two months, am I (39M) wrong to be mad? You're not wrong to feel frustrated about this situation. Also, don't take the words of you're children at face value as they're still young and motorcycles & fast cars will be cool for them. Such fast cars and motorcycles are temporary in their lives. They're a new attraction to them. Now on you're ex-wife, I'd suggest you approach you're lawyer on this issue. Do try to put into place a stipulation that'll ensure that you're kids will meet the new guy(s), only after successfully dated their mum…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/23 11:03 AM
2	Need advice about dealing with jealousy seeing my ex-wife with her boyfriend. Thanks for your kind words👍🏼.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/23 10:40 AM
2	Need advice about dealing with jealousy seeing my ex-wife with her boyfriend. The situation you've described is indeed nightmarish. But you're in it now and must get out of it. Below are my suggestions - Focus on your finances and kids during your weekends. Go to the gym and become a hunk. Don't advertise or claim yourself to be a single dad. You're now a single man with children who live with ex-wife. I get that truck model has you peeved considering its significance so I'd recommend to get a better one or it's competitor if you can afford it in time. Get a hobby like co…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/23 06:34 AM

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