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Good stuff, thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction15/11/21 04:46 PM
-5

Odds are only stacked against you if you unattractive and or not interesting.
/r/seduction15/11/21 04:39 PM
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Wouldn’t worry about it. Same thing has happened to me in the past. I usually say something like, hey I’ve been enjoying our conversation, would you like to hang out again. Get number. Text to try to to setup future plans and then leave it alone. Only text again to reaffirm they are still on. I go on about 1-4 new dates a week and most of the time I set up plans a week in advance and don’t hear from them until the day before asking if we are still good to go. No one needs to spend all this time …
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:42 PM
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Texting is just for setting up a date. Period. If she doesn’t agree to go on a date, she is not interested in dating you. End things here. Guys don’t understand that women will use you just for validation and this is done via you sending them texts. It tells them that you are interested in them. Never give your validation away for free (AMS taught me this in one of his videos). With OLD, texting is just used as a qualifier. Just a bit of BSing then setup a date ASAP (within the first few message…
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:30 PM
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You shouldn’t be worrying about her loosing interest or whether you see her or not for that matter. (I know, it’s easier said than done). You need to be multi dating. Spend your time with as many girls as possible. As far as texting, just send her one a few days before the date, asking her if the date is still on. Most of the times, if they really want to see you again, they will ask you. Remember this. Never get too invested with someone you just met. In todays dating landscape, you might see a…
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:09 PM
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Met girls through tinder.
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:42 PM
2

This.
/r/seduction21/10/21 12:04 PM
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Recently had sex with 8 girls over a three week period. Can honestly say I felt myself becoming more and more depressed during this time. Maybe it was from exhaustion or that im at that phase of my life where I’m just looking for that deep connection with someone that actually cares. Running through girls really isn’t all its cracked up to be.
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:36 PM
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Was going to say, why need game when you have looks and money.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:41 AM
1

I’ve found tinder has quite the variety. Just depends on what your looking for.
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:05 PM
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Can’t agree with this more. If your cheap with clothing, lifestyle, etc. your going to have a hard time attracting women. I pay for apps because it boosts my profile with tinder platinum. It may take a girl a month or so to find my profile in the vast sea of other men out there.
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:03 PM
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I use it all. Thankfully online dating works for me and I get lots of matches. But I also night game when I go out after hours. Seems like everyone says you have to do this or you have to do that. Just do whatever to get in front of any many a women as possible to score dates.
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:58 PM
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I start by putting my arm around her when walking somewhere. If she is warm to this, slide your hand down to her hand and hold it while y’all walk.
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:14 PM
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Don’t use pickup lines. Your only giving her validation.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:40 PM
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Seen guys that are 6’5’’ still screw it up. I’ve screwed it up too being 6’1’’ Height just gets your foot in the door. Still need to be able to know how to talk. Talking is what carries you.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:21 PM
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I was having this conversation the other day. I’ve felt more lonely and depressed after a having one night stand than I did before. You would figure it would have the opposite effect.
/r/seduction05/10/21 06:05 PM
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I can see that and I blame this hook up culture we live in today. Men and women are usually seeing multiple people a week. I end up having sex with some of these girls after the first or second date and just loose all interest. We meet up, talk a bit, make out, the suggest to go back to my or her place. Then that is usually the end of it…
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:27 PM
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Just glad I’m a person where online dating works for me. I could not imagine having to spend all this time going out and just doing approach after approach. Seems like that would be exhausting and potentially costly in other parts of my life where I’m already having to spend a lot of my time either working or studying up on certifications.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:16 PM
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Dating multiple women each week has been killing my pocket book. This packed with zero guarantees. There is also a cost of having to spend time with them when you could be doing things like studying up on things that could increase the size of your pocket book. I’d imagine hiring a prostitute is much cheaper for the same end goal.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:07 PM
2

Become a famous musician would be one way I’d imagine.
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:43 PM
1

I start with, I’ve been enjoying our conversation would you be interested in meeting up one evening when you have some free time? From here I suggest a broad date - are you available later this week/weekend? From this information I then confirm the specific date/time and location.
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:38 PM
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If it were me, I’d let it go. My hard stop for getting stood up is 2.
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:19 PM
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Alpha male strategies states this best in one of his videos. These girls already have a high initial attraction to you. From this point you can either raise or lower her attraction depending on how you carry yourself. Girls that see you as a 5, you have to put some work to raise their attraction. If they see you at 4 or below, it is very rough and not worth the time or energy in my opinion. However, girls that see you as a 7 or 8 initially will make it very easy for you and put forth alot of eff…
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:46 PM
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Text to plan a date and then keep texting at a minimum until the date.
/r/seduction30/09/21 09:30 PM
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I’m the same way. You get rusty after a while. But keep at it and you will be fine.
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:36 PM
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There is graph out there which illustrates male sexual market value peaking at around 36 and then does a very slow drop.
/r/seduction29/09/21 06:13 AM
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It’s the life experience and wisdom that comes with age that seems to really keep them engaged. Plus I still look like I’m in my mid 20s so that helps as well. I’ve listened to some younger guys talk and they just want to talk about partying/drugs and have no clue what the real world is about. Makes my brain rot listening in on those conversations.
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:53 AM
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Personally, I think you messed up asking her back to your place so quickly. This screams fuckboy to women. She may have gotten turned off by this. Also, most girls won’t feel safe coming over to a strangers place without meeting up in public first. If she doesn’t respond, move on.
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:46 AM
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30-40s seem like the best for me. If your career is in full swing and you have taken care of yourself, these are your golden years. I’m 35 and date girls ranging from 23-28. Lots of girls just like older men.
/r/seduction29/09/21 04:44 AM
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This is correct too lol.. At the end of the day, we really don’t know what we 100 percent look like to other people.
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:48 PM
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A mirror is actually an inverse of what you look like and not what look like to others. Unless you have perfect symmetry. A camera is closer to what you actually look like to others. For example when you take a selfie, notice when it flips, you look different? That flip is the same orientation that people looking at you have.
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:15 PM
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Height and looks just get your foot in the door. Can still get rejected if you screw up the interaction.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:55 PM
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Tell her that is personal and something you don’t talk about. Will keep her guessing and show you won’t give into her demands. Most def a shit test. This is what I used to pass it.
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:42 AM
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I can confirm this works. I just ask what days they are free and let them set the day. we don’t even talk until then. This is why having a rotation is good. You don’t get caught up on one person and can see multiple women a week. I’ve found that with most girls you may get 1 day a week with them if that.
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:03 PM
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I’ve dated more women in my 30s than in my 20s. You got plenty of time lol. Also, most men don’t reach their sexual market prime until their mid 30s. That is only if you got your career in full swing though.
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:28 PM
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Most helpful advice I’ve ever heard was. No matter the their size, they all move the same. Best advice is to develop more confidence, work on your appearance, pursue your profession and develop meaningful hobbies. For young guys, the sexual market value is low. But once you start getting success and resources all that starts to go up. I have found that getting women has been more of a side effect of success than anything else.
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:47 PM
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Yes. Have been told that I fall into the tall dark and handsome category though.
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:01 PM
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I don’t consider myself extremely good looking but get around 3-4 matches a day. My body and height seems to closely match the description of the OP. Sounds like he would like some proof of validation so I figured trying It might give him some.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:46 PM
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I guess I just don’t understand these struggles. I’ve done pretty well over the years.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:41 PM
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I just think it really depends on where your at in life that helps with your probability. Regardless of the social size your in, woman will still test you. You had best be prepared to pass because they will pick apart your insecurities. This determines your probability with them.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:27 PM
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If you got some good pictures. Try online dating. This will tell you pretty quick if girls think that your attractive or not. Can say that it gives me a confidence boost when the matches start coming in.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:18 AM
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Still don’t think social circles increases you’re probability. Most girls today are flooded with options outside the social circle.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:08 AM
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Best thing is to keep yourself occupied with other things. Date other people and let her be the one who reaches out to make plans. If she wants to see you more, she will reach out. More than likely you did nothing wrong. No way to know what all she has going on in her life.
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:43 PM
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I can relate to this. As a guy who can be considered tall dark and handsome. If I’m not in the right headspace, girls won’t even look my way. Looks only get your foot in the door when it comes to women. Ive seen good looking 6 foot 5 guys get rejected for coming off creepy early in the interaction. I’ve learned over the years that real attraction comes from having a clear and abundance mindset. This can be built by getting into fulfilling hobbies as well as achieving personal and professional go…
/r/seduction10/09/21 08:57 PM
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Thing is, my time is way more valuable than trying to chase a girl who may or may not be using me for just validation. The girls who involve myself with have already checked all my boxes. But I use online dating for dates so it is easier for me to screen for high interest. Don’t want to spend the time nor effort to go out all day and night to cold approach.
/r/seduction10/09/21 05:00 AM
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I agree with this. While looks are important, there is far more too it than just that, it just gets your foot in the door. For me, attracting women is more of a side effect for how I have positioned myself in life. Once you get into a clear headspace and not give a damn, throw in some hobbies and professional successes, you become a more interesting person that people will want to get to know and this is what creates attraction. Also, when meeting someone new. Just start with friendly banter. Do…
/r/seduction10/09/21 04:26 AM
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I have learned this to be true from experience. I’ve planned dates a week out and no communication until then. These dates have gone far better than expected. You can only mess it up by over investing initially.
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:26 PM
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Or they are hanging out with younger women themselves.
/r/seduction09/09/21 06:47 PM
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Unfortunately, I think dating apps are the future of dating. From what I see is that more and more women that are part of these social circles will also be on these dating apps, which increases competition even more. It gives them a bigger lens into finding the most attractive mate possible even outside their current circles.
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:39 AM
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I get that. I also agree with all the other points the OP stated. It’s just I think that apps can be used as a supplement for those to at-least become accustomed to talking to more women even if it does not go anywhere. Sometimes I’ll just experiment with different conversation topics and openers to see what works and does not work. It was something that helped me become a better conversationalist in general. But I agree it works better when you get like 300 matches a month… I have found that re…
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:54 AM
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Nicely put. I have done far better in dating following these rules. Only go after the girls that have displayed high interest, things go so much smoother and connections form much easier because the girl truly wants to get to know you.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:37 AM
7

What’s wrong with dating apps? I’ve met many girls using these platforms over the few years. Have found that for me it’s takes the least amount of time and effort to get dates.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:00 AM
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This, let the females message you first.
/r/seduction08/09/21 09:36 PM
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