WishIWasThatClever Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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26	Remember to treat yourself every day queens 👏 Sounds like a great trip. Hawaii is so pretty. Be aware hotels currently provide single use keys to tourists as a means to enforce the two week quarantine. This means your hotel key will only work one time so you can access your room.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 02:22 AM
11	The Power of Hot and Cold Grey rock is when you reply to their attempts at drama with as little as possible. In extreme/abuse situations, it can extend to clothing choices, etc. The goal is to be intentionally boring. For example, a man tries to start a fight by saying you are gaining weight and taking less care of yourself so you simply reply with “OK” and continue whatever you were doing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/20 05:48 PM
13	Sorry if this has already been posted here before. This just resonated so hard with me. "I was just giving you a compliment. You should be happy not a bitch about it." I'm sorry but why is it ok for me to be uncomfortable, but not you to be offended? I didn't ask for your opinion. “I’m sorry but...” No reason to apologize for expecting basic human decency.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 03:09 PM
8	From one of my faves Totally agree on the good manners. I always offer to pay because I feel like it’s proper to at least offer. Plus it gives me a chance to see if he accepts and how he handles the situation, graciously or not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 07:12 PM
3	LVM disguised as HVM Learned this the hard way this weekend. Thankfully only three months invested. An adult conversation is not “the Spanish Inquisition”. He was so high value in all other ways but emotionally unavailable. Back to the chase.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/20 02:06 PM
7	Ladies, I need to know if I’m overreacting or if I should block - I feel pretty disrespected in this exchange. Maybe we both need to be more demanding. We’re worth it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 05:50 PM
12	Ladies, I need to know if I’m overreacting or if I should block - I feel pretty disrespected in this exchange. Yeah, I thought the same thing too until I realized the subtle dig of “I had nothing better to do on Sunday so you’ll do for now”. Once she called him out on it, he bailed pronto. TBH there’s so much I’m rethinking with each thread I read here...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 05:33 PM
24	Ladies, I need to know if I’m overreacting or if I should block - I feel pretty disrespected in this exchange. Had I just seen your reply (especially the use of “demanding”), I would think you overreacted. However, seeing his immediate “bye” makes me realize you have excellent instincts and that my own work amplifying and heeding my inner voice needs to continue. :-) Nice job and thanks for the inspiration.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 05:27 PM