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You keep acting like fucking someone is a mistake and a "lesson was learned" or something. Banging someone is pretty intentional. I always felt this way at my core and I think instinctually a lot of people would agree. Ive made mistakes in life certainly, but a mistake is something like speeding and getting pulled over. Its forgetting to do your homework. Its forgetting to pay a bill. It isnt banging someone. Even if youre drunk I dont think that changes who you are, youre acting how you normall…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:22 PM
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For starters, Im not divorced. I have a good relationship with my girlfriend and while she had a past before me, as I had before her she wasnt the town bicycle and didnt play games with me from the beginning. I dont abuse her, dont resent her for her past, and we do everything together. Now that thats out of the way pretending to be a traditional woman when I meet you and finding out you have a triple digit body count from college would be a red flag. Because you were willing to fuck everyone ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:32 PM
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If we were dating and I proposed to a my ex 2 months after meeting her then made you wait 10 years until I propsed you wouldnt feel the least bit concerned? And as for the whole "learning from past mistakes" thing, everyone I banged was pretty deliberate, it wasnt a mistake. I made the concious choice to sleep with them, I didnt slip and fall into bed with them. I hooked up with my current girlfriend pretty quickly and I didnt care if my girlfriend had sex with me right away, because expecting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:03 PM
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Its not a matter of not liking. As a guy I cant fall in love with someone first. It sounds great on paper but in practice if you tell a woman how you feel she's gonna feel rushed and like the relationship wasn't her decision. It's a matter of giving the woman time to decide whether or not she wants to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:46 PM
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If women dont want to sleep with men right away thats fine. But being traditonal (i.e. not sleeping with him right away) with him when you've been untraditional in the past (having one night stands, ect.) Isn't gonna help your relationship because he'll question if A. You find him attractive and B. Why you lied about who you were to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:44 PM
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I would never tell a woman how I feel about her unless she brought it up first. It may sound mean but telling women how you feel about them has a horrible track record.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:28 PM
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Because a lot of women, not all of them, want to have the best of both worlds. The fact that they want to have the same access to careers and opportunities as men do (which is totally fair, women should have the same ability to support themselves as men do) isnt the issue. The issue is they want this AND they want me to pay for dinner. They want this AND they want alimony (even though theyre perfectly capable of supporting themselves). They want this AND they want me to take them shopping. Look,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:44 PM
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"Having kids makes marriage harder. If you think having kids is gonna make your relationship easier, you're an idiot."- My mom, who has 2 sons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:08 PM
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Then sounds like FDS is perfect for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:05 PM
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Because if you start following all of their bullshit (spinning plates namely) then youre not better than the women who pull that shit. Just date one girl at a time and assume she's a hoe until proven otherwise. That way youre not being a hypocrite but youre also not gonna be dissapointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:02 PM
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The reason men are so offended by their woman making them wait for something they gave away so freely to others is 2 fold... 1. Making someone wait for sex would suggest you value it. Its something precious to you which you wont give up easily. By making someone wait and another person get it right away youre being manipulative. Youre lying about who you are, through your actions, to manipulate someone into liking you. People, men or woman, dont like being manipulated and dont like someone who i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:57 PM
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Alright so youre American. You gotta chill with this "disrespect" thing. I understand, you dont want your girlfiend to be emotionally abusive. Got it, no one does. But you dont correct that behavior by getting angry. You correct it by walking away from it. For example, my girlfriend got mad at me once, said "Why are you fucking deaf?" and hung up on me because she felt I wasn't listening to her because she called me while I was at work. I called her back and asked if she hung up on me on purpose…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:45 PM
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Yeah mine was too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:38 PM
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FDS honestly employs horrible advice. But so does TRP. Horrible advice being: fuck around with as many people you can when you are in the "talking stage" so you don't get dickmatized or ignore red flags. If a girl I was seeing did that I would immediately view her as a hoe and not want to date her. Another thing FDS does is tells women to lie to their boyfriends about their past. This is equally shitty advice, dishonesty makes people not trust you. And being untrustworthy to your significant oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:36 PM
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When you say "back home" do you mean another country or in another state?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:29 PM
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I'll put it this way. I don't mind not fucking, but I do mind not fucking if she has fucked. Basically if a woman Im interested in is saving herself for marriage and is a virgin I would still date her if I actually liked her. I'd be lying if I said a relationship was easy, but her values are respectable. Hell, Im even okay with a woman who has had nothing but LTR's (relationships lasting over a year where marriage was discussed) making me wait a little bit for sex. What I do mind is a woman who …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:58 PM
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While I would never marry a woman with a high body count, I would say that just because you took her virginity doesnt guarantee fidilety. Ive known men who married the high school sweetheart who they deflowered only for her to leave for another man because she "wanted to explore other options."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:30 AM
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I think Long John Silvers is more your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:15 PM
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Heres the thing, women want to be in a relationship with someome they can look up to. It isnt enough for a guy to be "lower" than them or even equal to them. Men on the other hand don't give a shit. We'll marry the girl who works at taco bell if she's feminine and submissive. So Im actually inclined to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:57 PM
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Lol ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:44 PM
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I disagree. If confidence was the most important factor women wouldnt find indecisiveness in men (as in hes unsure about whether or not he wants a relationship with them) attractive. The most success Ive had with women is when I simply wasnt invested in the outcome and wasnt really sure what I wanted. Isnt that the oppisite of confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:37 PM
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I think what it boils down to is a lot of women won't admit that physical attractiveness is important and theyre oftentimes just as shallow as men are. Women often say things like "Confidence is the most sexy attribute" or "Women want men who are kind and caring" but they straight up won't admit that being hot is probably one of the most important qualities when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:00 PM
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