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| 1 | It's not your looks. This sub will teach you that.That's probably the best I've ever seen it put. Well done. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 06:33 AM |
| 2 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.To be fair, if we're speaking in theoreticals, you could achieve the same ends by altering your own genome or epigenome. The men alive 200+ years from now will be lucky... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Given the opportunity, she's going to cheatIn Disney movies, yes, but there are some pretty alpha heroes in both contemporary and older media, fortunately. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 01:32 AM |
| 2 | The power of proper enunciation and voice projectionToastmasters man, I'm tellin ya. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Guy in /r/relationships marries a woman he thought had only been with 3 other guys, all in LTRs. Overhears her with her friends reminisce about college when they had a contest to see how many of the football players they can fuck, and how they purposely lead on then rejected nerdy beta guys.It's after-the-fact justification for wanting to sleep with high quality males which is an evolutionary drive. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Guy in /r/relationships marries a woman he thought had only been with 3 other guys, all in LTRs. Overhears her with her friends reminisce about college when they had a contest to see how many of the football players they can fuck, and how they purposely lead on then rejected nerdy beta guys.In which case, the attraction was already there from the start, and so it would've been in the guy's best interest to make a move earlier. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Do not think of yourself as the hero of your life, but rather as the villain.I think I agree with you but not with your phrasing. I mean, by that logic, even just holding and voicing an opinion makes you a villain. Everyone one of us subscribed here is a villain to the you-know-whos. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/14 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Man, Improve ThyselfYou might as well improve your social network by getting involved in things you like where you can meet like-minded people... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 05:17 AM |
| 3 | ovaries dont care about ideologiesChimps and bonobos are not the same, and it wouldn't be a big deal in this case if not for the fact that their societies are structured very differently. Bonobos are matriarchal and chimps are patriarchal. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 05:12 AM |
| 3 | To all the virgins out thereDude, what the fuck? Sex is great. It should be a motivator. It's a point of pride to be having sex with good-looking girls who also want to have sex with you and rest-assured people will judge you for it. Maybe the important part is just realizing that you're putting the work in for your own sake and not just to overcome the stigma. Hint hint: it's worth it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 09:41 PM |
| -2 | Who here is ugly?Nothing that I've said so far is out of line with our current understanding of evolutionary psychology, which is what TRP is greatly founded upon. We know that women are viscerally, primally attracted to "hot" or "sexy"-looking men. They aren't attracted to ugly men. That's life, and there are reasons for this, founded on the principles of the selfish gene, sexual selection etc. I'm not making this up. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/14 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Who here is ugly?Male modeling is done to appeal to women's sexual drives... It's not like they're separate... | /r/askTRP | 20/06/14 02:33 AM |
| -2 | Who here is ugly?They are attracted to RSD perhaps in so far as he can provide for them--he's beta. The alphas they are attracted to, the guys that they actually want to fuck and are driven to do so on a primal level, are aesthetically pleasing. From the Evo-psych perspective, this is the conclusion you arrive at. Like I said, they'll know within seconds... | /r/askTRP | 20/06/14 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Who here is ugly?Modeling is done for women... | /r/askTRP | 20/06/14 02:22 AM |
| -1 | Who here is ugly?The attraction that women have for RSD is a different kind than what they have for a very aesthetically-pleasing man, and it's an attraction an ugly guy could never hope to achieve without maybe lifting and diet, surgery, or "genetic therapy" or some shit. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/14 02:22 AM |
| 0 | Who here is ugly?Women are attracted to "hot" guys on a primal level. It's natural. You can't "fake" it. I don't understand how you can say in one paragraph that you need to be good looking to attract attractive women, and then say it's not the whole story... Yes, people will tend to pair off with people of relative equal attractiveness. You offer nothing to refute this. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/14 12:42 AM |
| 20 | Washington throws the book at 'campus rape culture'You go to Yale for the hands you shake... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 12:11 AM |
| -3 | Who here is ugly?A huge body of evo-psych (and anecdotal) evidence backs up my claim--more so than anything to do with "frame." It may be important to you as far as being comfortable with yourself goes, but it is meaningless in the scheme of things. Women know what they like within seconds of seeing it. You could spend years with a girl (as many men have) and be no more attractive to her by the end of it than you were at the start. I would go so far as to contend that we're genetic engineering a reality, you cou… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/14 12:03 AM |
| -2 | Who here is ugly?I think, contrary to perhaps popular belief on TRP, physical appearance is the most important thing--perhaps, the only thing for all intents and purposes--and coming to terms with that reality is key. That said, you can make limited efforts to change your appearance with exercise, diet and style. Plastic surgery is an option but I question it's ability to truly make a difference. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/14 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Stop reading TRP, start using it. Red pill boot camp? Work at a restaurant.I worked as a server one summer and it was definitely taxing but I do think it was a good life experience. Between dumbass management (the owner was a super manicky chick, my managers were lazy fucks) and the bad hours and all the bullshit that comes from working in the service industry, lifting was the only thing that kept me sane and I'm ashamed to say I've gotten out of it this summer. I mean, let's be real, I'm not gonna go back to the service industry just for the hell of it, but I learned … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Be confrontationalJust don't take it to the point of everyone hating you because you can't take a joke. At least be predictable in your outbursts. Set some boundaries and confront if people cross them. I've known a few guys who were quickly prone to anger and it didn't really do them any favors from a sexual perspective when they screamed at the waiter for getting their drink order wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 04:32 PM |
| 1 | In response to the Tinder video: My attempt at being directHave you ever heard the name "Moire"--pronounced "Moi-rah"? I know someone named that and they say it's Irish but I don't believe them. | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 02:32 PM |
| 14 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectivePlease approach us. Especially during the day, this is much more flattering than when you’re hammered in a club. Even if you don’t get a number close, it gives the girl a story to tell her friends later and gives you the real life experience that is needed. This goes even more for the really gorgeous ones. Super hot chicks may intimidate guys, so you actually may have a shot with that HB. Often the only ones that approach are over-confident, alpha schmucks- this may not be the personality type t… | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Guy trolls Tinder using a male model...results are about as redpill as it gets. From our buddies at the misc.Designer babies would still use your DNA. You're simply selecting for the best possible phenotype. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Guy trolls Tinder using a male model...results are about as redpill as it gets. From our buddies at the misc.I kinda wanna try this just to see how dumb I could be and get away with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Guy trolls Tinder using a male model...results are about as redpill as it gets. From our buddies at the misc.This is why designer babies are a good idea. Soon, if you have money, you will be able to buy the gift of attractiveness for your children at least. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 12:22 PM |
| 6 | Guy trolls Tinder using a male model...results are about as redpill as it gets. From our buddies at the misc.If the attraction's not there, what difference does it make? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 12:21 PM |
| 3 | "What My Senior Self Would Like To Tell My Freshman Self," written by a sorority girl.I hope this is true for me. I can get my ass to the gym, but I just can't eat enough without getting bloated to gain weight. I'm getting stronger, have good posture and I look toned, but I'm still lanky as fuck. The cruel fact of life is that women seem to prefer fat dudes to skinnier dudes, given the choice between only those two. Maybe women assume the same is true of men? That's how they get confused. Lol | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Approaching a legitimate 10.Why was her shit living, and how did you fuck it out? | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 02:24 AM |
| -6 | Women who have nothing to offerLove is brain chemicals. I could get the same effect from drugs or exercise. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/14 11:51 AM |
| -2 | Why are we less witty with the ones we're attracted to? And seem to be a stand-up comic with the one's we're not attracted to?I think you need to do some reading on human sexual attraction. ;) | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Your GOAL should be to get rejected.Never a good idea to try to fail. Learn to live with failure, but never try for it. I don't get rejected from girls I don't approach, sure, but if I do approach, and I do get rejected as I first suspected, then what have I learned? | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 05:52 AM |
| 9 | Redpill truths surface in /r/4chan. While the top comment currently identifies with the message, predictable white-knight and misinformed responses follow.That last point is true. I liked MaleFashionAdvice until they started advising people to wear ascots and skinny jeans. James Bond isn't gonna be wearing that shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 10:03 PM |
| 3 | "You can’t know someone until you fuck them"Conversational skills have become for humans what exuberant feathers are to peacocks and big horns are to rams -- all just part of the mating dance. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 05:58 PM |
| 4 | [FR] My first approachDude, that's pretty serendipitous. She didn't even really reject you, assuming she's lying. That's pretty cool. Damn, there's a cute barista at I coffee shop near me. I think I will attempt an approach tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 02/02/14 03:02 AM |
| 49 | Why I as a Red Piller Love the Blue PillIs it wrong that I disagree? I have girls that I am not in any way sexually attracted to, but they are still "useful" to me. At the very least they introduce me to other women. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 01:38 AM |
| 126 | When a girl says noSeth is all around us. He's the wind that shakes the leaves on the trees. He's the fisherman's clothes lying on the beach. He's the animal hunted as well as the hunter. All hail Seth. | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Manly men and womanly womenWhat about the actor's character from Modern Family though? The show itself is pretty blue pill, but his character seems kind of alpha-male esque. Sometimes there are jokes at his expense. Other times he's the voice of reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I am tired of talking about broads. Let's talk about how to make big money.Ok wait wut? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/14 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I am tired of talking about broads. Let's talk about how to make big money.+accept | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/14 02:18 AM |
| 1 | I am tired of talking about broads. Let's talk about how to make big money.How do you invest in it though? That's my question. I'm completely lost with regards to obtaining it and keeping it safe. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Do Men Interpret Women’s Tattoos As A Sign Of Promiscuity?Maybe yes, I wouldn't say that a good tattoo is a negative though, from either a man or woman's perspective. I remember going to a fish store not too long ago and the girl that helped me was cute enough, but what really got me was that she had a really nice, detailed, colored angel fish tat on her arm with the scientific name underneath. At first, she was just another girl, but now she has the fish tattoo and works at the fish store = she has a personality and might be someone I enjoy spending t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/14 07:03 PM |
| 1 | It really is a Numbers GameHard to take that first step, though. | /r/seduction | 18/01/14 04:19 AM |
| 7 | The TRP Version of It Gets BetterThis is a half-truth. It's not that any one point in a guy's life is better for meeting and getting with women, it's where that guy is relative to his peers (and the girl, I guess) at that point. Guys on here will tell you, age is a non-factor if you come across as high-value. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/14 12:35 AM |
| 11 | Why is this working?What's the TL;DR of the book? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/13 11:04 PM |
| 2 | 13 Things Mentally Strong People DON'T DoOnly one I'm good at is #11. :\ | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 02:26 AM |
| 6 | The single most important signal that lets me know talking up a girl is going well"Ha, I don't know the meaning of the word." (He really doesn't) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How to Kill College and Earn a Kick-Ass Social Circle (Plus the under-discussed art of Bro-Game)Do you have a link to that video? | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 03:26 AM |
| 0 | The No True Alpha FallacyPerhaps being beta requires simply that you blindly follow another's morality whereas being alpha forces you to develop your own. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/13 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Aristotle: men are in their prime at age 37, women are in their prime at age 18. Sounds about right.I believe the average lifespan of human beings was so low up until very recently simply because the infant mortality rate was so high. If a man survived past age, say, six, he had a high chance of living a long life (maybe ~60+ years) in Aristotle's Greece, which was pretty tame/cultured. So I think 37 nowadays would be comparable to 37 back then. Also, because so much of male SMV has to do with accomplishments, social standing etc. I feel like it might take a man some 30+ years to develop the n… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 12:48 AM |
| 5 | How many guys here have had a noticeable improvement in women since joining TheRedPill?I agree with you, but I don't think that's what he's saying. Any man worth his salt develops confidence by way of developing networks of friends, skills, wealth, and his body. Nothing "be yourself"-esque (or easy) about any of those things. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/13 03:35 AM |
| 3 | New red piller dude. Noticing harsh side-effects.I feel you, but it can also be liberating. No longer are you confined to the [false] Disney storybook concept of love, happiness and a life well-lived. Without being overdramatic, it gives you more power over yourself--a good thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/13 07:33 PM |
| 6 | New Study: men are smarter than womenI've always heard that there is no discernible difference in the average intelligence between men and women, but that men are more concentrated at either extreme. There are more genius men, but also more idiot men. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 11:12 PM |
| 5 | How to use the hamster to your advantage. [Dale Carnegie]It's actually only "sinister" if you're leading people to ruin or something, isn't it though? Most people want to be led, and if you give them some incentive to follow you, where's the crime in that? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/13 03:24 PM |
| 0 | How to use the hamster to your advantage. [Dale Carnegie]A nice synthesis of FRs in this post, but am I the only one who didn't get anything from How to Win Friends and Influence People? I felt like it was telling me the obvious and that the examples were pretty dated. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/13 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Reputable scientific studies or logical analysis supporting the theories and suggestions of TRPThe wikipedia article on physical attractiveness is well-citated. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness Lot of good evo psyche stuff concerning the basis for why humans are attracted to one-another in the first place (men and women). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/13 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Which is worse, an Alpha or a Beta? AskWomen decides in full-hamster fashion! (so funny)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UpqLhYQz28 | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/13 12:47 PM |
| 0 | Curious - Anyone here gotten plastic surgery to appear more masculine, what were the effects?I'm curious as to what you would fix? Add something to your chin or cheekbones? Get muscle implants (lol), or something like "Anchor Arms" from Spongebob? I think reconstructive surgery should be reserved for broken noses, cleft palates etc. I have an aquiline (or "Roman") nose. For the longest time I wanted to get it fixed. Now, I've begun to grow into it, and it's actually quite masculine-looking. Even if it's different, I don't care enough about my nose to fix it. I think that fact is infinit… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/13 05:59 AM |
| 9 | Visual example of what animal lust looks like in a womanNapoleon had it right, "chicks dig guys who have skills." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/13 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Who is your ideal Alpha, fictional or non-fictional? Someone you emulate.Personally, I think if TRP had a mascot, it would be this guy. Scroll down to the archetypical characteristics section and tell me that's not what TRP's all about. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/13 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on tattood women?. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/13 11:29 PM |
| 1 | My experience with antidepressants and the red pillDepression is generally over/misdiagnosed though, and there is something to be said for having a sound body/sound mind. It's been my experience that most of the angst (which may be confused for depression) that many young men experience can be "cured" with exercise and keeping busy. Obviously, it's a bit more dynamic than that, but once you start and make the effort for a few weeks, it's difficult not to see positive results. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/13 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Switching to red pill mentality - negative consequences ?Men tend to bond over activities whereas women tend to bond over conversation. That's part of the reason why, generally speaking, men more often participate in team sports and video games (I'm talking COD, Halo, TF2 etc. and sports games here) and women go on more lunch breaks with their besties. That women are probably more receptive to conversation (I don't think it would be wrong to say they are the more naturally empathetic--and certainly more emotional--of the two genders, so it makes sense… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/13 07:40 PM |
| 3 | middle income betas are no longer neededIt does not seem to me that men with STEM degrees have any better luck in the dating scene than men with no degrees at all. Are you speaking of STEM majors who are in school? Or simply of guys with STEM degrees? Because in the latter case I think you're wrong. Most doctors are "STEM" people, dude. And women don't seem to mind their supposed "nerdiness." Of course STEM majors need to hit the books harder than some other majors (but not so hard that they can't have some fun on the side even in col… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/13 01:27 AM |
| 8 | Marriage? NopePutin's only 5'5"!? Damn. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Why is /r/redpill hated more than /r/seduction and other PUA communities?/r/seduction is trying to teach men to be rockstars without teaching them music theory (or even how to sing or play an instrument). | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/13 03:13 PM |
| 12 | Marriage isn't bad...The "joys" of having kids are a biological imperative. Sometimes you guys are ridiculous. THE reason YOU exist is because someone had a kid, and YOUR BIOLOGICAL PURPOSE is to have kids. Only a religious/existentialist nincompoop would think otherwise. You can't escape your biology. The biological (i.e. only, unless you're religious) basis for your existence is to survive and reproduce. And there is actually nothing more alpha than this realization. In fact, that's why women are attracted to alph… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/13 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Tom Leykis - The Benefits of Marriage (A Red Pill Nuke)Good luck finding a 21st century Western woman who'll go along with that... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/13 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Tom Leykis - The Benefits of Marriage (A Red Pill Nuke)It's kind of important for men who wish to raise children over whom they can have some developmental influence. Shitty, but that's the way it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/13 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Red pill tips for fathers?I'm going to disagree with treating your daughter as you would any other woman. I'm assuming you aren't trying to get into your daughter's pants (that would be pretty strange) and, yet, she is still the continuation of your genes, y'know? I would implore that you treat your daughter, in the generalized sense, similar to how you would treat a son. Discipline her when she acts out. Occasionally reward her when she does well. Give her what she needs to succeed but don't be afraid take it away if sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/13 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Maybe with a sperm donor she will?Honestly, it probably has nothing to do with blue pill/red pill. It's just some bullshit to get hits on a facebook page or website--hits that can probably be parlayed into $ for adspace or something. It's stupid as fuck, but it's not bp. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/13 03:59 AM |
| 1 | The Gentleman’s Guide to Modern American DatingLol. Buying Coke for himself and tap water for her. I'm gonna have to try that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Don't want to lift weights? You must not want to get laid.You don't have to be lifting for the sake of making gains. It's not like a person just walks into the gym and walks out with fifty more pounds of muscle. You could feasibly design a strength training workout that would keep you lean and leave you feeling healthy and in shape. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/13 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Have ya'll ever witnessed/ tried to rescue a crash and burn in progress?Some may say my entire life, as far as seducing women goes, is one big crash and burn and the fire just hasn't been put out yet. :P | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 12:01 AM |
| 4 | STEM major repeats line that the word "female" is now an insultYou don't ask the fish how to catch a fish, you ask the fisherman. ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/13 05:14 PM |
| 5 | My lack of will is killing.If there's one thing that /r/seduction usually gets right, it's that you need to develop a confidence in yourself and outcome independence, as well as cultivate a well-rounded lifestyle. Live with some vigor. I think both seddit and TRP will tell you not to live your life in constant, desperate search of women. It's actually the opposite. Free yourself from the "I'm worthless and girls don't like me" tripe and hit the ground running. Women (and people in general) like doers, not whiners. Be a do… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 06:35 AM |
| 9 | Daygame, because the dumbest shit will work #2: kiss close in 20 seconds flat.If you can honestly watch the clip featuring the second girl in the blue bikini who "has a boyfriend" and come to the conclusion that she's not reciting a script, you are an idiot. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/13 05:26 PM |
| 5 | There is no Red Pill MovementWell, religion does provide a model for virtuous living, I think, that complements the scientific understanding and personal experience we expose ourselves to. I personally don't accept anything to be true that strongly disagrees with scientific evidence, but as far as how I, as a conscious individual getting by, day by day, choose to behave, I think religion/philosophy plays a role. I'm Catholic, which is such a fractured church these days that it's hard to generalize about any one among our nu… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/13 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?Okay, even I'll admit that the Matrix reference is a little contrived. lol But I mean, what sort of human evidence could I give you that would convince you? I mean, I could say, "men from nearly every culture have played. this. role. while women played the other for as far back as human history allows us to look." We assume after about 200,000 years of human existence, that it's probably considered the "natural" order of things by now. And you'd say, "I'm gonna need sources supporting the claim … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?I could agree with this. I see guys come on here talking about how much a particular woman has ruined their life and now they're perpetually unhappy. Honestly, that's their fault and it's probably part of a bigger problem--not just the girl's behavior. I don't see TRP as misogynic at all. I see it as a place for straight men (mostly almost exclusively) to discuss the nature of women without the blinders of political correctness. I mean, I don't hate women. I actually kinda ;P like women. Otherwi… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?Well said. You took what I said in about six comments and put it into two. Haha | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?I don't think TRP makes any comment on whether or not male/female societal roles as determined by evolutionary pressure are judged right or wrong by some nebulous moral standard, just that they are what they are. If a man truly believes he's upholding some higher moral standard by choosing to be subservient, he's allowed. But he'd better not complain when he doesn't get any... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?Women today say they are attracted to subservient men, "nice guys." Many men behave this way and get sexually frustrated as a result. Biological and psychological evidence disproves this notion--women are looking for a certain variety of man, not the stereotypical nice guy. Society has trended toward teaching men to behave subserviently of late. Maybe it's done so without realizing how problematic it could be, creating men who are incapable of getting what they want. Regardless, that's the point… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?This Wikipedia article is well-citated, if you don't trust Wikipedia, only check the citations at the bottom directly. Go to the section on male attractiveness: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness Pay attention to the sexual dimorphism bits and consider these in the context of what they meant to our ancestors (strength, dominance etc.) But hold on 'cause I will attempt to address some of your other qualms. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?Which part? That mammalian and particularly primate males tend to play the role of drone, are built heavier, and often live in groups of one alpha male to many subordinate females? And then would it help to show you how closely linked human beings are to, say, chimpanzees? Would it help to show that women are most aesthetically attracted to men with strong jawbones, deep set eyes, and high cheekbones indicative of the model athlete AKA hunter--especially when these women are most fertile during … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?See my other post on evolutionary psychology 101 (the abridged version). :) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?Well, it's a lot of things. Which is why I advise you to look in the sidebar and at evolutionary psychology research on the differences between men and women at what they find attractive in each other. Simplified: Women are the child-bearers and the caretakers. They're generally passive. If we're talking hunter-gatherers, they're the gatherers. Their role in the perpetuation of our species is to invest themselves in taking care of offspring and to put themselves in the care of their male counter… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 02:20 AM |
| 7 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?It's just the recognition that men don't need to be ashamed to be masculine. Our instincts aren't unnatural nor should they be suppressed, it's better for society that they aren't, in fact. It's the recognition that feminists (and associated groups), by way of assorted PC movements, have sought to implement means to suppress man's (natural) masculine nature, and it's a rejection of that suppression--an expression of masculinity, if you will. It's rooted in a mix of philosophy, anecdote, sociolog… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 01:42 AM |
| 6 | How to stay alpha as a high school teacher?Honestly, you're in an interesting position. I really wished I had more male high-school and elementary school teachers growing up (as a man, that is). Teachers really can have an impact on young men. Most female teachers can't seem to discipline the "natural alphas" and instead try to reform them. Which usually fails and ends in class disruption. Meanwhile, the young betas have their behavior reinforced by the female teachers. That's why school can feel like such a prison to reserved, quiet guy… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/13 06:42 PM |
| 12 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationThat's why I don't like that example, and it's odd because I like most of what else is said. I want the girl to be comfortable with me... so I bring up Japanese porn and the "fact" that I masturbated to it when I was 13? Wut...? I feel that if I were just chatting it up with someone (male or female, sexual interest or not) and that conversation topic came up, I'd be a little weirded out by it. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Girls are surrounded by nice guys. Interesting RedPill Advice from Inedible_Strawberry. A Wakeup Call Betas Might Actually Hear. (X-post /r/bestof, from cringepics)http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/13 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Ladies love it when you say their name.... :) | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 04:36 AM |
| 6 | Harsh truth here… complaining about normal female behavior makes you sound like a loser. Stop whining about it.This. Or give your mom a call. Haha | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/13 02:12 AM |
| 7 | Ladies love it when you say their name.Everyone's favorite word to hear spoken is their name. Cocktail party effect, affirmation and all that... My name's pretty common though, so it's sorta worn off on me. Can't watch the news or read the paper without hearing/seeing my name. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Modern medicine has created an HPV vaccine for men, which used to only be available for women. I encourage young men to get it.I experienced the exact same symptoms after the first shot. It hurt like a bitch all up and down my arm (not just like a little needle prick, but like a burning sensation) and then I felt pretty dizzy such that I had to sit down for a while. Doctor really pushed for me to get it. I wasn't really aware of the need to get it at the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/13 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Modern medicine has created an HPV vaccine for men, which used to only be available for women. I encourage young men to get it.If this is the same multi-shot HPV vaccine I got a few years ago before heading off to uni, it felt like fire shooting up my arm when they gave me the first shot and I fell over in the chair due to faintness. My arm was severely sore for a few days. I didn't go back to get the next dose six weeks later. Maybe I'm just a pussy, or I forgot to eat breakfast that day or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/13 05:20 PM |
| 3 | I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My ChildrenThe biological need to sleep around is a means to the end of producing offspring. Maybe this goes against the red pill mantra, but I would (and plan on) eventually getting married for the sake of having children over whom I have close to total developmental influence. If an open relationship weren't such a faux pas, then I would definitely go for it. In this husband's case, he doesn't even know his wife is cheating, so he probably thinks he's making a good decision for the sake of "his" children… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/13 08:41 PM |
| 3 | College FR: "Hey, could you watch my things for a minute? I'll be right back."Literally was just wishing I did this the other night. Such an easy opener. :\ You can even be fun with it, like if you're sitting in a study room and the girl(s) is/are the only ones nearby, you can say, "I can trust you with my stuff, right?" and top it off with a little smirk. Oh yea. | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 05:18 AM |
| 1 | graduating college, never had gf, sex, or romantic relationships. Feeling a bit down, could use some constructive adviceTreat your social interactions a bit like a job or mission. Don't freak out, but go into them with a loosely defined goal. Read the stuff in the sidebar. I mean it seems like you are a busy, interesting person already between research, coaching, tutoring and martial arts etc. Play that up a little bit. A lot of people wish they could be so productive. Attracting people to you (cute girls or anyone else) takes work. It's like working out or studying in that it can take some practice to get good a… | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Wife cheats on guy, he decides to forgive her and try again, but is having troubles in bed doe feeling like he is competing with the lover. Blue pill advice all over the place.The desire to reproduce is pretty well-ingrained in our animal brain by this point in time. Even beasts make some concessions to their female partners in the animal kingdom. With the societal contraints we have in place, it would be very difficult to convince a woman to bear your children without the long-term commitment that marriage is meant to entail. I mean, we could do away with marriage and just have an every man for himself sort of deal, or we could just convince everyone to never have ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/13 12:25 AM |
| 2 | graduating college, never had gf, sex, or romantic relationships. Feeling a bit down, could use some constructive adviceAre you just calling yourself premed or are you legitimately competitive for/accepted to med schools? Because if you have the drive and tenacity to get into medical school, the sting of some girl's rejection shouldn't even come close to phasing you. I'm not saying being a med student or upperclass premed student (who's still in the fight) automatically makes you a sex god, but I am saying that being among those select few who can get accepted to med school should immediately give you the confide… | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 12:08 AM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I'm a skinnier, college-aged guy (roughly ~130lbs, 5'10'') and it's hard to find form-fitting clothes that are both stylistically attractive and won't make me look feminine or "twinkish" for lack of better word. What sort of clothes do you recommend? Also, it's painfully obvious that I'm an ectomorph and can only put on so much muscle without the roids. I have the build of a long-distance runner, in shape and toned but skinny as hell and even next to a grossly obese guy, I feel somewhat intimida… | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Why You Have No FriendsI can do it with people I know, but I'm not very good at just plain asking people to hang out until I myself feel comfortable around them and I'm sure they feel comfortable around me. In fact, I think my biggest problem is that I'm a "sitter" and not a "roamer/seeker" (in the sense that I'm naturally inclined to be reserved and distrusting until I'm familiar with something/someone) and it takes me a loooooooooooong time (like, months in the case of my latest roommate and I'm still not all the wa… | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Went in for the kiss with a girl I have known for a while. Rejected....but, I feel OKSage advice. People (myself included) are hesitant and lazy. Sometimes you gotta make things happen on your own. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What a lot of beginners don`t seem to understand, I know I didn't. BE the man you want to be.I totally see where you're coming from, but in my case, the problem isn't self-discipline. I work out daily and get decent grades. The problem is that I absolutely suck at holding a conversation. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 11:51 AM |
| 1 | What are you doing before you make out?You all know what this is already... | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:03 PM |
| 5 | [FR]: early 20's female- went out to a pub crawl. First night out since committing to bettering myself and social interactions through seduction techniquesInteresting perspective, but it's not really "seduction" is it? As you say, you were just out to meet friends. Would you even have number-closed with the right guy if he approached you? Edit: Also, your group of drinking buddies is like a Model UN meeting. Lol | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Here’s a story I hope will inspire you. This is my transformation. Also a BIG thank you to seddit."We're not worthy! We're not worthy!" | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 03:50 AM |
| 11 | Little Victories for a BeginnerCan you elaborate on what you mean? | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Why Americans are the Weirdest People in the world - Very interesting article that may help explain why American seduction tricks don't work as well elsewhere in the worldI wouldn't say that. There's nothing illogical about the way Americans play the game, really. It's two different cultures, concepts of fairness and greed differ. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 01:24 PM |
| 3 | How to Be A Gentleman: Tip #1*feign, and that's not the impression that I got, nor is it what this sub usually advises. Being seductive is about being an interesting, amiable person. And you become this person by taking genuine interest in the lives of others. People will naturally respect you for that. It's not about "tricking" people into believing your cool. It's about actually being cool. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 09:23 PM |
| 9 | How to Be A Gentleman: Tip #1I'm pretty sure he's advocating actually being interested in others' lives, not faking it. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 04:32 PM |
| 3 | How to Be A Gentleman: Tip #1Good way to build a network too. Take an active interest in other people's lives and they'll feel almost indebted to you. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 04:30 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Can a biological sister within ~5 years of age be used as a wing-woman, or is that tremendously weird? | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 09:57 PM |
| 8 | [FR] UPDATE To that Cold/Mean Girl and the first (maybe last) date.Coffee at 7 o'clock on a Wednesday night? That shit better be decaf. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 04:53 AM |
| 2 | 5 Things You Can Do to Build Your Confidence With WomenHave a coach, mentor, or someone you really trust to keep you grounded. They will help keep you on course, and keep you accountable to yourself. This is interesting, but I'm curious as to what you mean. Are we talking, like, Mickey Goldmill from Rocky, or the "bro" character from every romcom? Could it be your dad (haha)? Just some friend of yours? I know I'm phrasing this kind of silly but I am actually curious. What would be an example of a "mentor/coach" in this context? | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 01:35 AM |
| 20 | Strategy with Shy GirlsThis is actually true. Research shows that self-described introverts are better at interpreting subtle social cues, where extroverts are themselves better at being interpreted. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Do muscles matter?I didn't know lifting could grow help you grow cheek bones. ;) | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Do muscles matter?I believe there is scientific data that shows that exercise both increases testosterone production and releases endorphins. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 02:39 AM |
| 6 | College protip: know one girl in every sorority if your campus has a Greek system.Worst case, you get blackballed and humiliated. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 04:24 AM |
| -4 | College protip: know one girl in every sorority if your campus has a Greek system.LOL @ the assumption that one needs to be in the Greek system to obtain alcohol in American undergrad. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 04:23 AM |
| -2 | Say yes. Say yes to everything.Any opportunity you're given? I get what you're saying. Don't hold back. If you're young, single, and capable, find what's interesting and go for it. But saying "yes" to anything seems sort of dangerous and counterproductive, no? | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 01:46 AM |
| 11 | The Strong IntrovertDefinitely easier for an introvert to keep the focus on other people, and it's a simple technique. Ask genuine, even offbeat, questions about people to drive the conversation in a particular direction, and then when the focus circles back to you, have a witty zinger ready to get people laughing. I've had a lot of success with this. Granted, you sort of have to prepare topics beforehand, and know when to use them (usually whenever there's a lull in the convo or when one person in particular looks… | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Why Looks Don't MatterI would say game is a loosely defined "aura, attitude, a form of confidence" or some other abstraction that can be developed over time by an individual. And having it is great. But it doesn't seem like a stretch to me that sexual attraction is a least somewhat dependent on what you can see, hear, and feel. Sex exists as a method of transferring positive traits down to the next generation. Some of those traits are physical ones, and your biological desire to pass them on is what leads you (and yo… | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Why Looks Don't MatterWhat has evolution shown us about sexual attraction? I'm saying that in the spirit of natural selection, there are physical traits that are attractive and there are those that aren't. You can't win the sexual attraction of any woman on the planet even by having excellent game if you have nothing else. She has to be interested in your body as well, otherwise it's not going anywhere. You don't get to just ignore this whole aspect of it. There's a reason why you and your mark are attracted to what … | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Why Looks Don't MatterYou're trying to undermine everything evolution has shown us about sexual attraction on the basis that a rich rockstar can get laid? Women want security in a mate--true--hence why wealth, popularity, power and confidence are so important, but to say the power of sexual attraction is worthless in the face of these things is naive. And women are just as superficial as men are as far as that goes. Yes, there is some variation as to what is attractive. In fact, two very different women (or men) can … | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 12:35 AM |
| 4 | I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past?Hey, if it works it works. Maybe he read it and it made him so mad at himself for doing so, that he got up, changed his clothes, and got himself a woman. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 06:22 PM |
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