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Hahaha, I can imagine the look on her face and how, predictably, she'll be outrage that you could DARE leave her without saying a word.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 11:52 PM
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That goes with any woman, not just fat chicks.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 12:13 AM
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And yet theres still plenty of women who just manipulate their boyfriends then go after richer men. What you say is logical but yeah.....that requires logic.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:57 PM
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You think she cares what shes looks like in your eyes? Do you think she cares what you think at all? Shes a slut and likely proud of herself.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:56 PM
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I found this to be true, there are many lesbians that will get along better with men in generally then women. They may well have partners as well, but working with women or dating new women. Oh god, what a nightmare. I also have meet quite a few straight women that open hate working with other women because of all the drama. Not all women are the same, some are annoyed as well by the self absorb nature of many modern women. Theres no need to believe this women friend is lying. man, some of you g…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 05:09 AM
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Right, because your alpha as shit. Real men get laid immediately. All other men are beta cucks. Sure. *rollseyes
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 05:05 AM
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Women talk about what the think they want in a guy. Then they meet a guy that makes them have a "feeling" and it turns out they're sleeping with a guy they never thought they would. "Only sluts sleep with guys on the first date......OMG, I just did that. Why did I do that, I feel so ashamed and yet it was SO exciting." Seriously, go read boards where women talk about their sexual experiences. Whether teenagers or 40+, women think in one way, but fuck based on their feelings.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 05:00 AM
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and then you die.........life is also a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:55 AM
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Simplicity is best. If she wants another guys attention, that will cost her your attention. Let her make up her own mind. If she chooses the other guy, move on to the next girl. Sometimes girls like this will come back to you at a latter date. This behavior does naturally downgrade her to plate. Theres no point in trying to convince a girl to treat you as the center of her world. Shes will do so willing or not. Those that aren't willing are plates.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:48 AM
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Their sex life is probably great if they look decent. Plenty of white knights out there more than willing to be well trained dogs in the hopes of a reward.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:38 AM
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That could have been bullshit too. Who needs old men when she can just get boyfriends to buy her stuff. Never trust anything, especially when the girl practically out right says shes a slut.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:36 AM
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In this case its not about Hypergamy (though that might be the underlying unconscious reason). The conscious reason all those girls protected the slut is because they are all sluts too. If you know enough women you'll know that sluts and "proper" ladies don't associate with each other. Sluts and the proper think the other are scum an ostracize them from there social groups (up to getting them fired from work, seriously). If bunch of women are protecting a slut.......they are sluts. Those who thi…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:27 AM
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She might have just gotten a rise out of you by being the one to reject the man. An indirect way of getting back at previous men that rejected her. People can be petty.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:18 AM
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In short, Saving the best translates into a HUGE red flag that she is not sexually attracted to you and is only using you for beta support.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 11:55 PM
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Let me put this in another way, how many men do you know are willing to learn new skills in order to please their wives? For no other reason then to please them. You just found out you were lucky enough to have one of these men and your first instinct was to laugh at him.........
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 09:06 PM
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How about this, decide for yourself which do you want more, advancing your career or keeping a good man in your life and starting a family. Women need to learn to pick one or the other because no matter your gender, focusing on advancing your career comes at the cost of your family life. This insistence that all women should priorities their careers over good husband material is foolish. More money won't make you happy. It may leave you exhausted because with career advancement comes more respon…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 08:53 PM
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Lots of truth in this phrase. Women who actually want long term relationships and have the willpower to resist the cock carousel (or at least are getting off it) will cut off more promiscuous friends. If you think women can be cruel to men, female "friendships" can be even more manipulative.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:41 PM
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"he objectifies you, you know that right?" Everyone does that. If you view anyone sexually its objectification. It doesn't mean that a man can't also respect you. Have you looked at men with lust? Thats objectification as well. "you're like his child" (when she learned he controls our finances/"gives" me money) Someone has to be in charge of the finances in any LTR or theres going to be serious problems. Also, its a good way for a man to show dominance (showing is always better then telling). "s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 09:39 PM
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And this is the reason the first (and second) rule of fight club is don't talk about fight club. lol Explanation sounds like whining to women. Girls want a guy who just "gets it".
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 06:54 PM
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That is an excellent explanation of female social dynamics.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 04:13 AM
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Another way to put it is that they are shallow. It opens your eyes to just how many people are only thinking about themselves. Even supposed friends. Its something women have more trouble seeing then men and I think thats because men are more naturally focused on individual efforts/interests.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 04:12 AM
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TRP can oversimplify things. Women do not all secretly hate each other. However, there is a lot of sexual and social completion among women. This competition is much more subtle then that between men because of the more subtle communication style of the female gender. Theres a lot more gossip and innuendo used among women than among men. An example of this is slut shaming, women shaming other women to diminish them as sexual competition. Men might shame with overt hostility. Women are more subtl…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 04:01 AM
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People get too caught up on the whole "a woman can't love a man the way he expects it" This is only true for a man with a beta mindset. It explains the sheer shock and disbelief beta men feel when they find out their wife lied to them, cheated on them, etc. It is not meant to say women are incapable of love. Rather its meant to point out that Beta men have a very juvenile view of love. The problem with women is that for them its just natural instinct to be passive. To expect a man to do everythi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 05:54 PM
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Personally, I think its a grave mistake many men make when they think that love is somehow unconditional. The much more healthy relationships are built on mutual respect. Loving a women unconditionally is in effect beta thinking. No matter what she does, how she acts, and how badly she treats him, the man sees her as a perfect angel. His one. This is non-sense. No one should love unconditionally. Its irrational and leaves you vulnerable to abusive behavior. A man should demand respect from any w…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 11:13 AM
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Well, the tingles get a man laid. Thats not the same as being able to make an LTR last. Basically, sounds like typical hypergamy at work. She was making all the money she needed and wanted a man to give her an even better lifestyle or more exiting sexual life? This is really shallow thinking. Yes, all women have hypergamy but as with all base instincts, a woman can choose to go against them. This wife choose to be selfish. As for the husband, he needs to learn to better vet women. His wife cheat…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 10:56 AM
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A woman not making an effort to work things out is usually a sign they had weak attraction in the first place. Some women do that. Marry a guy that is a good provisions but they have weak attraction to. They think it will work itself out. It never does since desire is not something that going to increase over time. You can maintain desire in an LTR but you can't create it when none existed in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 10:50 AM
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Hahaha, I love that line from Littlefinger. Todays allies/friends can be tomorrows enemies and vice versa. A concept most people have trouble with. Once they put someone in a category they have trouble seeing them in the other. People are reluctant to consider that their "best" friends can betray them or that their worst enemies can be turned into friends.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:25 AM
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Pretty much, they are both at fault which is very often the case in any marriage/relationship that fails. If she cut off the sex, then theres likely nothing the guy could have done to save the marriage. She then decided to cheat rather than get a divorce. Thats taking advantage of someone. At that point, she didn't really love her husband anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 06:19 AM
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Hypergampy might be the rout cause but thats largely a subconscious instinct. Its not how woman think. What might have happened was that this woman married a man because he was a good provider but she wasn't quite attracted to him sexually. Either that or he became to beta once married and that killed her libido. Once she met another man she was attracted to sexually, she cut off sexual relations with her husband. Men are more willing to have sex with multiple partners but woman often will cut o…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 05:56 AM
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I'll just say this is the right attitude for women to have. The idea that love and desire are things you have to fight to maintain seems like a foreign concept to far too many in modern society. Far too often when a I hear a woman complain about sex and I ask what they are doing, the answer is nothing. How can sex be good if one partner does nothing?
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 06:04 AM
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Thats a good point, looking thirsty is creepy. lol
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 03:03 AM
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Her desire for you is the difference. If she wants you, anything you do odd is just weird but funny for her. If you fuck up and ruin the desire (or it was never there) then she'll paint the same actions as creepy. Of course, theres this some actions that are creepy. The basics of communication. Not making eye contact can be seen as creepy as well. Or you know, something ridiculous like drooling while staring at her tits the whole time (maintain eye contact).
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 01:28 AM
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You went full nerd and scared some bros. lol
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 06:23 PM
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Theres nothing weird about your fantasies. The vast majority Woman are attracted to dominance. One way that manifests is a desire to be protected or rescued.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 06:07 PM
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Washing your dick too, you don't know what else has been in that mouth (even in the same day).
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 06:01 PM
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So his girlfriend is his mom? Weird. It is odd how much the blue pill man is focused on "respecting" women and yet they think nothing about their woman respecting them.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 03:40 AM
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Heres an idea, I want a woman to buy me a ring. I'll think about marriage then. Somehow I think I'm more likely to win the lottery. lol
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 03:38 AM
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I still like to masturbate despite what some girls tell me. Aren't I enough? No. That said, treat masturbation like alcohol. Drink only in moderation. And no, porn is never a substitute for pounding some pussy. Get pussy first, masturbate if you still want to. Though honestly, porn is usually boring. Something any man can understand if they actually get laid. Watching pornstars go through the motion is very different than being with a woman who wants you to fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 02:16 AM
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No, I meant I liked it. I am a nerd. But nerds love graphs and bullet-lists. So no shock thats what was used. lol
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:34 AM
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Don't explain your answers. Women want truth, not detail. lol
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 11:34 PM
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This is why leonardo dicaprio is a role model. When your rich and successful never marry. When your asked why you aren't married yet, bullshit by saying you haven't found true love yet.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:27 PM
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Who was that one girl who didn't cheat? Give her an award. lol
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 01:24 AM
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Hes a nerd. What did you expect. lol
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 10:15 PM
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Anther factor to consider is that women who excel in STEM have no issue working with men in a mans environment where bluntness and meritocracy rule. Women become an problem in STEM fields when they are too easily offended to criticism.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 09:22 PM
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"What I would say is, however, that he knew from the start that I wanted more than sex and so he kind of knew that it would be a headache." That statement is ALWAYS wrong. It completely ignores your own responsibility for the relationships you get in. You did not vet this guy before becoming involved with him. "He doesnt know how magical a relationship with me would be" I'm trying to say this in a gentle way, I'm not trying to mock or judge you but this kind of thinking is arrogant. Relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 07:40 PM
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This is setting off my bi/gay alert. What other man is going to insist on living with another guy with his girl as well. What?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 07:16 PM
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That part about 16 year old girls knowing how to have sex is bullshit. Young girls/boys know nothing about sex. Forget about cowgirl riding, try missionary and doggy style. Might work for you better. While a jerk comment, your husbands 21 so likely just immature. Never insult or demean in a LTR. Also, those women on r/sex who advise caring only about your own pleasure are selfish, no man wants a wife like that. What I don't understand is why your husband is not telling you what to do? Ah, its hi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 06:52 PM
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I don't have any sap story to tell. I guess I was a natural omega, put off by most women because they were vapid, shallow, stupid, smoked, drinked, partied too much, too bitchy etc. I didn't go after women often. Oddly enough, my first girlfriend I gained because I sassed and teased her about her weight, her grades, etc. She broke up with her boyfriend and confessed to me. Needless to say I was confused. Other times I've fallen for a girl and been friend zoned, that never goes anywhere. Or I get…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 03:47 PM
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Ugh. What some people do when their bored. lol
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 03:34 PM
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So theres a little something called The Red Pill Reddit. It gives all you need to know (except first hand experience) to date women successful. You might want to try some reading, especially when its free.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 01:40 PM
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Any guy that set the curve high would be treated with the same hate. Lazy fuckers are always in the classroom.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:54 AM
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To be in STEM you have to be a nerd. So fixed on your study that it consumes your life. I got a computer science degree, I didn't have much a social life while I was focusing on my studies/career and frankly it didn't bother me. A lot of the girls want a job that allows for social contact even if it pays less. The only women that go for STEM naturally are ones that are nerds. Those woman willing to sacrifice their social lives for their STEM career. Even most nerdy girls are not interested in th…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:41 AM
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That is probably a better line to use if I wanted to try. But thats the funny thing, I'm not actually trying. I want to say something cocky (build my own confidence) while also something thats likely to fail. If I expect it to fail then there is no anxiety for me. And yet sometimes it still works. lol It really reinforces the idea that what you say is less important than how you say it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 11:21 PM
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Girl: I have a boyfriend You: You can always dump him Now, keep in my I'm a nerd that works in a STEM field. I've never bother to look or act macho. You would think this would get me shot down and boy it does. Some girls get quite pissed off. Who the fuck do I think I am, blah blah blah. However, sometimes a women gets turned on by it. I only use the line above because I genuinely don't care to woo the girl. I am more often then not just practicing talking to women, all of them, even if they see…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 11:13 PM
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What is RP besides self-help? WTF are you complaining about? lol
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 09:19 PM
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In fact, that is a great mindset to have with women. Do you have room in your life to support a child? Because that is what a lot of modern women are nowadays, children that need daddy's emotional support. Men need to learn to vet the emotional fortitude of women. They are not all the same, some are better at handling their emotions then others.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:53 PM
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Oddly enough this true no matter how much of a dork you once thought you were. Act like your king of the world in a playful way with a girl and they will eat that shit up. "Your so funny/cool". *uh, nothing I said was actually clever.........whatever. lol
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:34 PM
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"Further, befriending happens not with the aggressor, but in general. It is never directed unilaterally. Befriending and bonding in general helps them cope with stress. You can exploit this by making sure she has no friends (and so only has to befriend you and depend on you)." This is how abusive controlling men keep women trapped, by cutting off all her friends and family so the only emotional support she gets is from him. From my experience, women have two modes. Independent and submissive. Th…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:03 PM
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Women who are insecure about themselves need their man to be infallible. Modern Women are spoiled children that never grow up and never learn how to handle their emotions. If your feel depressed and anxious she will picked up on those emotions, panic, and seek comfort else where. In short, these women are weak willed. A couple living on a mountain (or other remote location) far from civilization doesn't have a choice to be so weak. There are no other men to run to nor women to comfort her. She n…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 07:58 PM
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Let me put this another way. Whatever happens to my genetics if I did reproduce are meaningless since I'll be long dead. If you want to have kids, do so because you actually want to be a parent and raise a child. Not for some foolish obligation in passing on your genes.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 03:27 AM
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You have blown my mind. :P
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 08:35 PM
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*slaps head Theres an issue with the guy if hes ignoring sex for video gaming. Addictive behavior is never healthy. He needs to put the proper time into a relationship. That is an issue people have with relationships. They get in them and then take them for granted. Relationships are a full time job, thats the mentality both genders need to have. One suggestion people are making that is a very good idea, is to have hobbies that you do together as a couple. Even exercising together, go walking in…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 07:32 PM
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The girls who are honestly exclusive with a man, do not go out to places where they can meet new men. They do not go out to party. They think less about other guys and more about keeping female competition away from their man. These girls will even go so far as to cut off their childhood friends for no other reason then they are still single. Women aren't just cold and cruel to men, they are the same with other women. A girl going out insulting her boyfriend by flirting with other men knows what…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 07:17 PM
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You are assuming a man should care if he has kids or not. Let women fret about having kids.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 07:05 PM
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In short a nerd throws a red pill soaked truth bomb. Hilarious and accurate.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 04:29 AM
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Sounds like denial. The same bullshit as a "strong independent woman who needs no man". Yeah sure, thats why you feel like somethings missing. Have you even been dominant with a woman before? And I don't mean in a blue pill, I worship women kind of way. Go see a Psychiatrist, I'm not qualified to help you.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 02:53 PM
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He had that sniper mentality where he focused sololy on one girl at time. Sure, the girl had a pretty face but so do many. This is why even if your only going to have sex with one girl at a time, you should still have 2 other girls your working on, as a reminder that your main squeeze isn't the be all end all of of women.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 02:44 PM
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Again, I'll take a contrarian position and assume you are actually submissive and not just a beta cuck. In which case good luck finding a woman who doesn't just enjoy but needs to be dominate and wants men who are submissive. Its going against the grain of gender roles. Your not going to find any help here. Though comments like "Fapping is enough for me" make this all sound like bullshit. Women are submissive and no dildo is good enough for them. They need men. If you actually were submissive ma…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:44 AM
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Let me add that the reason why women are responsible for sex is because they are the gatekeepers of sex. Whenever they say no their man must obey or its rape. His only recourse is to LEAVE. That is why denying sex to your man is so dangerous. You are telling him either to leave or to be submissive. Neither of which will make you happy. If for whatever reason you really can't have sex (your sick) then you should plan to make it up to your husband. Not because your obligated but because it puts yo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 07:36 AM
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Men are terrible at reading women and most certainly can't tell when women are faking it. Most men are confused by female emotional expression period. Everyones libido is different. Plenty of guys will be happy with 1-3/week. Sex itself is just a pleasure to a man. If any intimacy is to be apart of it, it has to be something the women helps add. Sex just for obligation (we haven't had sex for a while, we should do it) is never as fulfilling as sex from urgency, fear, anger, strong romantic respo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 03:53 AM
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Nothing to be worried about. A woman can be a boss at work all day long and yet be submissive to her man. Just keep that in mind. Don't start a fight for dominance in a relationship especially if your not going to be happy with a submissive man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 01:28 AM
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Don't spend money on women. Female friends should either split the bill (pay for themselves) or pay for YOU to hang out together. Once you have sex (or hell, any sexual tension) you are and never will be friends again. If your paying for a friend then shes using you. Your her pet boyfriend she doesn't have to fuck. Do you pay for your male friends just to hang out?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 01:21 AM
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Agreed. Looks matter but up to a point. Have a style and stick to it, even if its the basic suit and tie that any man can pull off. Some women will call you ugly and some are going to eat that up and call you masculine. What matters is that you keep yourself in shape and properly groomed for your style. Another way to think about it. The style you pick is for you. Not for any woman and not to get women. You make yourself look good in the mirror and women will respond to that natural confidence t…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 12:56 AM
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I'll have the balls to be contrarian and say that yes, women do love men and quite strongly. However, with all female emotions, they can change their minds at the drop of a dime. The way the brain works is that we feel emotions through chemical reactions and then our rational brains interpret those emotions. So a woman will lose that tingly feeling in her gut and that come up with a rationalization of why she lost that "magic" feeling. This is when women will start nitpicking all the most petty …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 12:47 AM
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I never understand why people have a problem in making a theory out of TRP. We are men, its what we do. Well....some of us.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:45 PM
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I went to college and got a degree and then kept the textbooks I bought. So no. I suppose I'm old fashion but I like using textbooks to learn languages.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:13 PM
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Another thing I'll add is that reading TRP can sound awkward as hell because what works for extroverted men might not work for a nerd (who are typically introverted). Like I said, what you are (jock, nerd, drug dealer) really matters nothing at all to women. They just need masculine behavior to get wet. They get wet then they will want to fuck. That simple. All women are different. Some will reject your ass because of random reasons. Your too short, wrong race, too wild, too timid. All bullshit.…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:00 PM
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C++ is hell to learn. But all the mistakes you make will help you master programing. Learn C++ and you can learn any language because you'll learn to spot and prevent all the common mistakes. And thats because you made them constantly already by learning C++.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 10:57 PM
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C++ is programming without training wheels on. Its a good language to learn because it teaches you to spot and fix common programming errors (your going to make a lot as you learn). C# is used a lot and so is Javascript so they are good to have to get jobs. In the end, don't be afraid to apply for any job regardless of language. Its more important to demonstrate you can pick up and learn new languages on the fly then know any specific language. *I started with basic in high school. It was design…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 10:44 PM
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Betas cowtow to women to get laid (or just the hope of getting laid). A lot of Incels are omega because they are too stubborn or lazy to change themselves to get women. Even a Beta will change his behavior to get his sweet angel. My advice is your face is rarely an issue. As long as you know how to make yourself presentable with whatever style you choose, you can get laid. Some woman somewhere will say yes. Looking at your picture, theres nothing wrong with your face. You could get laid with lon…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 10:10 PM
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Ah, she asked you why you didn't call. Ok, then the massive blow to her ego was a man telling her she was the one that almost got rejected. Damn, I did read that wrong. lol
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 09:50 PM
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Best part: "After 10 minutes of sex I go soft." and what do you do? "I actually thought about denying her sex and having her as a friend, because if she was low-libido it wouldn’t work out for us. Thankfully, she was serviceable and hot in bed, so I guess I was wrong" So you go soft and you question her libido. Hahahaha well played. "Mild case of Alpha-widow, I think she’s trying to impress me or something." If she wanted to impress you she wouldn't mention an ex. She wanted to see how you measu…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:51 PM
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As one guy told me when I questioned why he was so obsessed with with a skinny flat chested/flat ass girl, pussy is pussy. My thought: The thirst is strong in this one.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:42 PM
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Long story short: Social media is for women seeking constant empty validation. Throw it out the window and do something productive with your time. You want to stare at women then do it in person. Maybe even talk to them. But don't waste your days away looking at pretty pictures of women.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:40 PM
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Most people are average in looks. So unless your especially ugly, just work with what you got and meet enough women. Some of them are going to find you attractive. Why? Who the fuck cares just know its going to happen. And it will continue to happen.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:58 PM
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Dumb fool trusts a bitch over his best friend his whole life. Don't worry, hes going to get whats coming to him when that whore cheats on him. Sigh, its stupid but it happens. Women fuck men mentally real hard.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:49 PM
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Sure sounds like this prize sleeps with multiple men at once.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:45 PM
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Silent treatment means she had no good comeback because she knows you were right.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:33 PM
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Who care if they get pissed. They rejected you. Fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:32 PM
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I found it funny. If you wish to believe everything she said was honest. Sure go ahead. So many girls exs "are abusive assholes, oh and I never did anything wrong" it all starts to sound the same.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:22 PM
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Why is she your friend if all shes doing is bitching about her life? Let women use other women as emotional tampons. Don't let her use you as one. You got better ways to spend your time.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:11 PM
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This is why I say don't hate women for the way they act. They are what they are. Its like hating the sun for making it so damn hot.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:19 PM
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This is a reddit for spreading information and answering questions.... But fuck betas man, who needs to be taught shit?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:15 PM
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"The Narcissistic shift of modern men (more like people in general)."? Shhhh, we don't talk about that. But maybe we should.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:11 PM
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Another way to think about it is to realize that how cold and cruel a women will reject a man is the same way shes going to treat you when her pussy drys up and she loses interest in you. A lot of men are shocked their loving woman could so suddenly turn cold on them. Wonder if they ever bothered to think about how these women reject men? How much you want to bet its in a cold and cruel manner?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:59 PM
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His friend took ass whooping for a good fuck (likely several good fucks) and then gets to brag about it. Hardly a punishment.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 12:55 PM
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Thats a good point. Rather than saying your too busy, actually be busy. I'm at the gym, I'm working on my hobby, I working at my job, etc. Hell, all men should have a hobby just to keep busy.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 12:36 PM
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Flip the dynamic. Tell her your too busy for her now. Let her try to grab your attention. If shes interested she will. If not, your not wasting time waiting.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:08 AM
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The church doesn't use the story as an attack on reason. The apples are from the tree of knowledge of good and evil (not reason). Humanity gained shame from eating the fruit because knowing right from wrong means being ashamed when your know you did something bad. "For Eve to pick the apple, the story turns into a "females don't like being told no" tale or how they have a magpie like nature" While the story has been used the church to demonize woman its not really about blaming women. Eve was an…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:42 AM
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Leave. There is no forgiveness for cheating. She wouldn't forgive you if you cheated but she begged for your forgiveness. If she could feel shamed for cheating she wouldn't have cheated in the first place. Note how she got jealous about you flirting just a little. As if she has a right to talk after cheating. If it was reversed, she'd be upset that your so angry when she flirted just a little. Your wife got off on the affair because it wasn't something she was suppose to do and she was getting a…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 09:29 AM
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"I don't like entertaining impulsive behavior unless it's one of those rare cases where impulsivity is the intelligent option." My first thought. How many rides on the cock carousel has this girl had? "He is the only one that has ever valued me and possessed the level of maturity I expect in a potential suitor, for lack of a better word." Translation: he makes me feel wanted but not in a way were I feel ashamed like a slut. "But then, randomly, I'll lose most of my romantic feelings for him and …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:44 AM
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Antidepressants are a symptom, not the cause. Women only love a man when they respect a man. They respect men who discipline and focus them and thereby provide stability to their turbulent emotions. Modern feminism tells women to act like men. They must shoulder all the responsibility in their lives and they simply can't handle it emotionally. The strong independent successful business woman will feel a hollow emptiness in her life and be miserable and yet not no why. Shes lonely but strong inde…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:17 AM
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Thats missing the point of the story. Women need discipline from a strong man. Adam gave her none and she did something against gods command. And what did Adam do? He ate the fucking apple Eve gave him and then blamed it all on her. Lesson 1) Women will not be loyal/obedient unless you disciplined them and only if they have a worthwhile character. Whores are whores to the bitter end. Lesson 2) Don't hate women for how they act. The majority aren't acting out of malice. Its just their nature. Eve…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:11 AM
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"As a child, I was only interested in collecting all one-hundred and twenty stars in Super Mario 64. I never thought much of her." Hehehehe. I think you had the right idea here. In all seriousness, this is a nice read on how to put knowledge learned into action. Or it could be bullshit. My question is if this girl is even worth your time? What the hell does she have to offer you? "Jessica was beautiful, intelligent, well-mannered and self-assured." So shes pretty and self absorbed. Dime a dozen …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:30 AM
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Your what? Shocked by the DNC corruption or believing the RNC doesn't act the same way. Though it was quite out in the open how against trump the RNC and fox news were against Trump until he started winning. People lie and are manipulative. Old News.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:27 AM
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Women like to demean others to inflate their own ego. They do this to other women as well. Pointing out other girls and calling them sluts (thereby making themselves feel superior). Most women have a fragile ego (because most people do). They seek ways to boost their own egos and putting down others is an age old classic. Confident women have less reason to demean others and so are more likely to put a guy down gently. Note that looks don't determine how confident a women is. There are tens that…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:15 AM
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The tactic will work if a guy only seeks out woman bellow his SMV. But it does work.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:08 AM
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Show anger has a place. But theres still not point in having a tantrum. You can be angry and yet relatively calm at the same time. I guess I need a better word than calm. Perhaps in control. Remain in control of yourself when scolding.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:01 AM
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Hahaha. True. If you want unconditional love, get a dog.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:57 AM
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That is also true. But its requires both. You need reward and punishment. Carrot and stick. Just punishing people without offering a reward for good behavior is just abusive. We are still animals and required learning proper behavior. Its more complicated to teach a human than a dog but we require teaching in the first place because we are animals. And not say a computer that runs on logic and comes with pre-set programs. When I say humans are animals is not to be condescending to humans. Its si…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:11 AM
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"there's someone out there for you don't worry" If a woman ever tells you this, you are unable to take her (fuck her) and shes pittying you. Like a poor dumb dog that shes not going to take as a pet but hopes someone will. If she thought you were fuckable she would take her chance to get at you. This is how married men (or at least men with girlfriends) will get hit on. Hint that your available and shes on you. Because she already imagines you fucking her and whatever women is not satisfying you…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:04 AM
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Humans are animals, anyone arguing otherwise is trapped in an arrogant delusion. This advice applies to humnan relationships precisely because we are animals. Of note, theres no need to scream or otherwise act angry to a woman. Don't argue with women. A calm commanding voice works best. Save showing affection when their submissive. Any man can do this. The most timid man can turn himself into mr. dominate in the eyes of a woman. The "how" one deals with a woman is more important than anything yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 12:53 AM
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I like Rollos writing because its free of both idolizing and demonizing women. He just states how women operate and how to read them and how to handle them. Whatever you wish to do with the information is up to you. Thank you for writing these books.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 11:58 PM
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You can mix it up to really fuck with them. Your beautiful but your personality is what I love most. SAY NOTHING MORE. They will then be kept up at night wondering what about themselves sets them apart from other women. Both beautiful and personality are vague terms. Your placating her insecurities about her looks but not being specific so your also keeping her guessing. Women ALWAYS compare themselves to other women. Watch the shows your woman watches. She will inevitably make comments about ho…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 08:41 PM
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Shes immature and acting like a child. Demand she act like an adult or your leaving. She either straightens herself out or you leave. Don't waste your time trying to fix her. People can only fix themselves. "I'd love to have sex with him, he's so muscular" She disrespected you by saying that. Sure, everyone gets attracted to other people. But to just bluntly say that outloud? Disrespect that she got away with because you said nothing. A lot of guys make that mistake. Tell her not to say somethin…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 06:49 PM
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Another way to put this is fuck what women think they want. Make yourself happy, focus on your goals, and dress and act in a way that commands respect. Turns out women will come on to you when you have the bearing of someone that looks respectable. It doesnt even matter if your a buff macho guy or are a skinny nerdy guy whos just knows how to dress and act professionally. You want woman, make yourself someone who deserves and demands respect.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 06:45 PM
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That is true but TRP too often deals with a theoretical world were you can meet woman whos lives are perfect. In reality, few people have a "perfect" life. Everyone has issues and often that can be family.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 05:04 PM
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Not to be dismissive of your worries but I think this a non-issue for men. I can't think of a single instance where a guy I know dumped a girl because her family was crazy. Not one. Men don't do that. As long as your life is not a mess its not going to be a problem. "No one wants someone with a bad family" Not sure where you got this notion from but I know a whole lot of guys who are with a women despite her family not of approving or her family being a mess. Its far more important for the woman…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 01:32 PM
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Sorry, not trying to be rude but I am trying to explain that while you might not feel anything for him he might feel something for you. Men don't keep sporadic contact with women. Friends make the effort to keep in contact with each other. A friend-zone guy foolishly waiting for his turn will keep sporadic contact with a woman. Since you already keep sporadic contact with the guy, he must not be a close friend. Hence, its not a big lost to let him go and cut off contact. I think its perfectly fa…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 08:07 PM
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"Just continue on that path. Don't initiate contact. If he tries to talk to you, be cordial and find a polite excuse to end the conversation (gotta run to the grocery store or whatever)." The best way to handle guys is being direct. No need to be rude but be direct. "You should stop talking to me." Boom. Its over. Problem solved.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 07:07 PM
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"ok, i hear everyone here, but he knew since day one i've been in a serious relationship. so keeping his interest isn't even a possibility. the hookup happened at least 9 years ago. we weren't even attracted to each other, it just happened. we decided to stay friends since." Nope, your absolutely wrong. The guy is wait his turn. "We weren't even attracted to each other" This is a lie. Women who find men repulsive don't have any kind of hookup with them. If something sexual happened then there wa…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 06:59 PM
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The only way men and women can be friends is if theres NO chance of any attraction developing. That rarely so simple. Theres a reason women that get married cut off their single girlfriends. Those girls know the truth. Lets be honest. This "friend" is not a friend at all. You had something sexual happen, that means hes NOT a friend and will never be a friend. Your keeping his interest by messaging him every once in a while and that behavior is not fair to the guy your leading on. Its best that y…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 06:32 PM
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Know there's a chance that when he's 47, he'll go through a crisis and want to move to South China, or rural Minnesota, whichever is most horrifying to you. There is one way to avoid accepting his leadership and uprooting your life, which is... Don't get married in the first place. Girlfriends get to dip out at those times. If you want to be a married career woman, you have to accept that your husband might take a hard left turn at some point and throw your plans into disarray. To elaborate, som…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 05:52 PM
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"keeping rants and complaints to a minimum (don't make your husband your emotional tampon)" Number one complaint of men about women. Have girlfriends who don't mind being your emotional support. Don't treat a man like an emotional tampon. This doesn't mean never express how you feel to your man but don't burden him with rants. Thats just not how men handle their own emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 05:40 PM
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Hes not emotionless. Men are not women who prefer open displays of emotion. Judge how he feels based on his actions. "When we met again I told him I'm not going unless you tell me where we're going, then I told him I'm not free that weekend anyway. He just said "cool, enjoy your weekend", just like that, nothing else. His response took me by surprise. I asked him later what to pack and he just told me to grab this and that with this huge grin on his face. Gosh" *brofist. perfection. Men should t…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 04:39 PM
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I feel like everyone gets confused by the words submissive. A better word would be supportive and nurturing. If you want to start a family, you need to show your capable of being a good mother and want kids right now. That will attract men that want a family right now. Off topic but I'll just mention that the best way to weed out men who only want sex and will dump you afterwards is to be direct about wanting kids now. Right now. Not in a few years, right now. Men who want only sex will run guar…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 05:56 PM
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As the stay at home mom, your then one who should have the say in how much money is spent on the household upkeep (cooking, cleaning, etc). Anything extra can be spent on non-essentials. Its not responsible behavior to be buying new speakers when you need more food. You have the right to be angry but venting frustration accomplishes nothing. Planning the whole budget out for each month together is a smart move as it giving each partner an allowance for the month. Also, don't fall for any "I'm wo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 06:34 PM
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"When I met him, he was cute but chubby--not really my type." Bah, notions of type are dangerous. Getting fixated on a certain type as the only acceptable man for you is a quick way to end up alone in life. And look what happened. He worked out, got in shape and bam, suddenly hes hot to you. But I thought he wasn't your type. This is why type is deceptive. Men are either fit and maintaining themselves or not, that is how you should judge them. This man is also very wise and mature. If hes devoti…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 06:21 PM
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I dunno.. it's really strange to think about for me.. Like it seems as though in some ways men feel less entitled and are more grateful for the things they get from their woman. So a woman who fully submits like this... I mean it would REALLY make a man want to stand up and be a man, you know?! Then in return the woman ends up getting her needs met as well. Bingo. If you want a man to be a MAN, you most give him the proper motivation. Pride, honor, dignity. They are important in everything from …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 07:24 AM
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Forgive the rant but its repeated so often it needs to be corrected whenever possible. Men do not desire rape. In no part of the lizard brain does any man want to violently force themselves on others. Men desire women who want to have sex with them. Men want to be desired, respected, and to have earned that. There are plenty of lazy men who just give up on life but those men have made a choice to give up and not try to improve their lives. Men and woman who are rapist (about half of rapists ARE …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 01:38 AM
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Exactly what you said. Red Pill accounts for how the lizard brain effects how men and women behave relationships. Be we have the power to act as more than mere animals. Using red pill as an excuse to act bitter because relationships are not how you think they should be is self destructive behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 01:30 AM
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So they literally decided to submit to their man rather than having the power to deny sex. It also implys complete trust that your partner won't force unwanted sex.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 01:26 AM
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I feel like people get so got up in evolutionary explanations that they ignore the most basic and obvious explanation. When you get lazy and let yourself go and put no effort into your relationship, the attraction dies out.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 01:20 AM
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This is partly the womens fault themselves. Most women expect romance to be the man's job. Prince charming is there to sweep her off her feet. They never consider that they should take an opposite mindset. How can I seduce my man so we can get back to having great sex. Just the act of being seductive and flirt can get a women excited about sex and women need the right mindset to be interested in sex. If sex is an obligation or chore than a woman will grow to resent it. Its why romanced novels ar…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 01:02 AM
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Don't feel bad about coming off as "frigid". If standing up for the principles you believe in will lose respect from these "friends" then you need better friends. Part of the joy people get from sex is the satisfaction of pleasing your partner. Implying that your partner is not enough to satisfy you is a great way to destroy intimacy in your relationship. People tend to only realize this after the fact, when its too late. The men on redpill who do maintain polygamist or open relationships are th…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:32 AM
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People are generally manipulative, man or woman. This doesn't necessarily rise to the level of abusive behavior though. A small more timid man could act deceptively to get what he wants just as a woman whose stronger than others can just use brute force. It just so happen that most women are small than most men and so they have a life time of learning more subtle ways of getting what they want. Like most everything involving humans, its part biological and part learned social behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:23 AM
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100% what Rhino said. Its not that everyone is a bad person but being careful to always act professional helps avoid being used by the actual cruel people in the world. If a woman is leading men, then she should act professionally at all times, be blunt and concise and demand everyone follow suit. Men will respond well to consistency and bluntness (but not rudeness). And dont be overly nice and sweet to coworkers. You don't want to send the wrong single. Keep the love life out of the workplace.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:17 AM
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Intelligence (whether too much or too little) is less important to men than whether a woman is domineering or supportive. Be supportive to men and it doesn't really matter if your smarter than them. Being condescending is a big turn off. However, most women with advanced degrees won't even consider dating a man without a degree. So its less that men don't find intelligence attractive but rather the "smart" women don't date men they consider bellow themselves. So if your ever wondering why some m…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:02 AM
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Have you told him direct in a polite way why he questions you so much? You be surprised how often that can work. Just be polite about it. Sometimes avoiding direct confrontation makes a problem worst. But confronting your boss directly does mean you need to be rude. Now if he responds with hostility to your politeness then you have a bigger problem at hand.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 03:32 PM
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Damn......I almost got popcorn for the explosive show I thought was going to start. :P
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 03:01 PM
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"(probably not RPW) Spend "quality time" with my man, if he has days off work. Personally, this cheers me up the most." Thats still red-pill. Quality time is healthy for relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 07:25 PM
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This would also explain the oddity that men who are sleeping around tend to notice. That the women they sleep with can go from only wanting a casual fling to suddenly wanting more from the relationship. Or just getting stressed out when their flings end.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 07:13 PM
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lol, well at least you know what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:45 PM
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Thats a wiser attitude than many women today have who seem to try to replace intimate love with sex. Often that doesn't end well.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:32 PM
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That is very true. Predatory humans (male and female) look for people who seem vulnerable, lack confidence, have low self-esteem to be their targets. Speaking of which, the best defense a woman has against any kind of assault is to look confident. Rapists or abusive partners tend to target those woman that look weak, easily scared, and controlled. Because those women are easy targets and bullies are cowards by nature.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:28 PM
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Thats what I would advise. I have plenty of friends who lost their virginity as teenagers and they are either alone or have gone through divorces. Now, I'm not saying losing your virginity early dooms you to bad relationships, but I am saying that losing your virginity is no guarantee you'll make a relationship last. Ignore any social pressure to lose your virginity. A guy interested in starting a family and raising kids is not going to care your a virgin, if anything that will be a positive.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:21 PM
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I feel like people over use the terms alpha and beta. It sounds like the men you date are lacking self-esteem. Men don't exist to be exactly what pleases women. They have their own issues, if you can build up their confidence they will be more willing to act dominate. Now some men are just going to be lazy and timid and you have the right not to be with those men. On the other hand, if your naturally domineering, the guy might just avoid any arguments with you because its a waste of time or they…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:09 PM
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As a man, I don't think its productive to say any type of mutation is worst than the other. All genital mutation should be ban period. Babies can't consent to such surgeries which makes them even worse. As for women laughing about male genitals being cut off, thats more a problem with society today where its ok to demean men.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 02:53 PM
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Frankly its best not to date people that think that way. They will dump you for foolish reasons such as getting bored with sex and wanting a new partner (this kind of person is not life time partner material). If someones going to judge you for simply being a virgin then you don't want to be with them in the first place. Yes, that does significantly narrow the dating pool but you either follow the advice or learn the hard way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 02:35 PM
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As a man myself I can address this. Society expects and even demands men be the confident aggressor. Men initiate dating, men have to take the lead in relationships, Men initiate sex. Men have to be ALPHA and many women expect that in any guy they date. In reality, men are human beings and are all different. Many guys don't like all the pressure placed on them by society and women. And so these men would rather date a less attractive woman who puts no pressure or expectations at all on them. Hel…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 04:00 AM
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Most importantly this has nothing to do with how a woman dress. A total tomboy can still be feminine in the eyes of her man. Its much more about having a positive and supporting personality instead of a negative and demeaning personality.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:51 AM
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I don't think this is a situation where you need to be worried about how to be feminine and polite. This man sounds like hes abusing his authority to be a bully. Is there an HR department you can submit a complaint? If the company will do nothing or trys to punish you for complaining, then you need to strongly consider leaving this company. No job is worth enduring abuse of any kind. Also,"RPW being about submitting to one man" is not the same as allowing abuse. No one has the right to abuse you…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:46 AM
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Ironically (in a depressing way) it is not men who are afraid of commitment but many modern woman are afraid. Men who sleep around know what they are doing and are actively avoiding relationships. At the first sign of a woman getting uppity (as in wanting a deeper relationship) its time to jump ship. Pump and Dump as its called in its most accurate euphemism. Don't sleep around. Its not worth it. Sex is not the greatest thing in the world and being a virgin is not a bad thing at all. Theres too …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:41 AM
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It is so odd that I see this far too often among women. In short, these girls ARE NOT your friends. Real Friends are supportive and polite. Meet more people and make some new friends who know how to be polite. Don't be afraid to cut of "friends" who are rude or otherwise abusive to you. Yes, you can and will make more and better friends.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:28 AM
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Why do you think RPW advocates women to be dumb? Being submissive does not mean being a slave. I feel like that word has so many negative connotations that women too easily misunderstand what it means. All that the dominate-submissive dynamic in relationships says is that one partner takes the lead while the other is supportive. All human relationships are dominate-submissive. Whether is a family, a corporate board room, a group of co-workers, or a group a friends, any group of humans tend to ha…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 02:57 AM
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Think of Alpha and Beta as more personality traits a man can have. Most tend to one trait but can switch between them over time. As for your guy, he sounds introverted. A misconception about introversion is that people immediately think of a weak nerd with no social skills. That just one kind of introversion. A man can be tough, confident, direct and yet avoid social gathers because its not comfortable to him. Dealing with too many people at once is a pain or exhausting. That tough man can also …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 02:38 AM
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The best response to those with short tempers is to leave the room. Don't be in their company when they lose their temper. Teach them if they want your company, they need to remain calm.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 07:15 PM
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HAHAHA. This reminds me when one of my friends was perplex when I said I didn't fantasize about having multiple women at once. To me it sounded exhausting. lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 07:08 PM
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I'm paranoid about catching STD. Also, I'm very private man so it takes effort to be intimate with anyone. One night stands have always repulsed me. I'm not sure if thats helpful to others. lol I'm well aware I come off as a prude in this day and age but I thinks that more speaks to how overly easy it is to have sex in modern society. Note: this doesn't mean I judge people. I have friends who have had one night stands. I'm just never going to be comfortable with it. Unless I have the chance to s…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 10:20 PM
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Actually the responsibility of safe sex is on both partners. But your right in saying she needs to look after her own health instead of assuming her partner will do so.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 07:50 PM
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Shes got the right idea. Sex should mean the relationship is exclusive (f you want a monogamous relationship) and you should discuss birth control and sexual history.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 07:25 PM
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Yeah, my friends try to comfort me when I'm depressed as well. A lover should do more, like not put you at risk of catching STD. No seriously, leave this man and go get tested for STD. I'm not joking, I'm not exaggerating. You need to get tested and you need to leave this guy before he gives you an STD.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 05:03 PM
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"I asked him to use protection but he said that was hypocrite because when I slept with him, I didn't use one. He said that he would try but only if it doesn't break "the mood"." Warning sign. Leave. This man is a grave STD risk to you. Always use protection even if your on the pill. The pill does not protect against STD.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 05:00 PM
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I'll add that this is a major health risk. If he is constantly sleeping around with random women and having sex with you then your at risk of catching an STD. The guy doesn't seem to care one bit about your health which is a very strong sign he doesn't care about you at all. This is how HIV is spread. You should be very worried. A true polygamous relationship it a two way street. He would let you know about every woman he wants to sleep with and you would tell him about every man you want to sle…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 04:45 PM
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also a very good point.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 03:42 PM
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"So how is it ridiculously large trait if a woman wants a man with money so she can be a SAHM?" Sorry, I meant Traits. Plural. As in having 20+ different contradictory traits that most women want in "mr. perfect". In short, a lot of women want a perfect man to come along and sweep them off their feet. That is whats absurd. "Ridiculously large traits" for me would be trivial things like "he has to be a lawyer that volunteers at the animal shelter and does crossfit" Yes, exactly. Absolutely, a wom…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 03:21 PM
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Oh, you can wait till your schooling is over before doing anything in that case. But you can talk about it. Having long term plans helps a relationship stay together. You don't even need to make precise plans about whos going to move where and when. Instead, just talk about it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 02:45 AM
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You can see if hes willing to come over to your country and live with you. Bring it up, talk about wanting to move in together because long distance relationships don't last forever. Guys who are willing to commit make plans and follow through on them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 02:10 AM
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"Being submissive isn't the same as being passive. Not at all! A passive person just lets things happen to them. Being submissive is about trusting your husband to make the right decisions and to lead your family in the right direction." Its also about making suggestions rather than demands (aka nagging). A women shouldn't stay silent and passively expect her husband to handle everything. Giving emotional support and suggestions is important too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 11:20 PM
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Ha, I find it funny that that a 17F understands Alpha and Beta traits more than most men. lol The power of educating yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 11:17 PM
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I feel like these are meaningless distinctions women make when judging men. All the money, material, social status in the world doesn't make people happy and a woman should never rely on a man for her own happiness (the reverse is also true). Step 1) A woman must make herself happy. Having kids, not having kids, working or being a stay at home mom. These are decisions that every woman has to make for herself. Have goals you want to accomplish in life and fulfill them. That will bring you happine…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 10:55 PM
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Bah, shit luck then. Its totally possible. You need to meet new people to meet new men. And be patient. Your still young.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 10:37 PM
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Actually its the reverse. Unicorns don't exist but society teaches women to expect "prince charming" (aka a unicorn) to come along. You don't need a perfect man. You just need a mature man and to be a mature enough women to know when you met one.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 10:34 PM
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Your religious. Guys who are not religious tend not to date women who are religious. After all, if your going to reject them for not having the same faith as you, then why would they bother? Ask yourself if your ok dating guys who don't share your beliefs. If not, your going to have to limit your search to church and areas you can meet men of the same faith as you. Also, be really honest with yourself about your SMV (sexual market value). If your overweight you need to work out until you at leas…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 06:24 AM
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"The reason this is confusing is because my husband is constantly telling me about his dates and fucking underage girls." Ewwww, thats kind of crazy to admit to. Its also a crime. Also sounds like hes lying just to hurt you. That makes him cruel and vile. "husband doesn't want the life I have to offer, would rather bang sluts." Hes stupid. Leave him. This man was using you and will continue to do so as long as you allow him. Leave him. Take a 6 month or more break from any relationships to recov…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 11:20 PM
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House work is a full time job, especially with kids. A simple thank you is powerful. Funny how so many people forget basic manners.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 09:03 PM
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Hahahahahahahahaha Oh god, you guys crack me up.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 09:01 PM
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Hahaha, I think thats how married women giving advice to single women goes far too often these days.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 06:02 PM
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I feel like this is making a big deal out of nothing. This is unimportant. The goal of dating is not to date in a precise way but rather to find someone compatable with you. What you could do is take his number and send just short and concise text to him. This will force him to take the initiative if he wants more out of you. In other words, he'll have to actively pursue you which is what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 06:55 PM
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One way a girl can make herself invaluable is exactly as Akanachan said, through being really good at reading social cues. We've had several introverted American presidents who let their wives handle social engagements. Manging all the state parties and dinners a president has to attend. Those were couples that stayed together for life because they complimented each other so well. They had more to their relationship than just sex and raising a family.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 06:50 PM
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Oh no, thats not what I meant. I meant if you have stronger romantic feelings for men than it would be easier to maintain an LTR with men. The reverse is true if you have stronger romantic feelings for women. I guess I show my own bias since I've never formed any LTR without romantic feelings involved. I tend to forget that other people do get into LTR without romantic feelings. And I'll agree that its not fair to the partner.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:14 PM
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That is a weird position to take since there are plenty of straight women who like being tomboys. It doesn't seem to interfere with them being girly in other ways. I think this might stem from a misunderstanding of human sexuality. Masculine and Feminine sexuality and sexual orientation are not the same thing. So if theres a benefit the LGBTQ community can learn from the Red Pill is how human sexuality actually works, backed up by scientific research. One can be tomboyish or even Butch and Lesbi…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:53 PM
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Thats just the way cats interact with each other. They treat you no differently than any other cat. In fact, cats tend to be more friendly to their owners than other cats. (might be because you feed them) Also, its personality based too. Some cats are more friendly than others.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 02:54 PM
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"I have observed that my fellow feminine lesbians are more balanced and seem happier with themselves on average." Thats an interesting observation. Might be a self-image issue with non-feminine lesbians. One shouldn't just take care of themselves to find a mate but just for one's own self-esteem. And having a tomboyish nature doesn't mean you have to abandon anything feminine. I wonder if these issues can even be talked openly among Lesbians? Is it taboo to talk about these issues?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 02:49 PM
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Cats don't think they are your rulers. In fact, domesticated cats are very deferential to their human owners. It just that cats socialize in a very different way from dogs. They need alone time, they need attention, they need play time and they go about getting these needs in very different ways than dogs. You can certainly bond with a cat but (outside of pure luck) it takes an understanding of cat nature and getting a kitten for this to work typically.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 02:42 PM
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Disclaimer: In no way am I claiming any of the following is True. This is just meant as food for thought to help any Lesbian readers examine the issues they face. This is something Milo Yiannopoulos has talked about though of course in his usual over the top anti-PC way. Simply put, he questioned whether many Lesbians were pure Lesbians and not perhaps just bi with a strong leaning towards Lesbian. So some questions/issues he brought up. 1) How many Lesbians are bi-woman who just gave up dealing…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:01 AM
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Actually, that is not true at all. Not even remotely. The biology of sexual attraction tends to remain the same even in Homosexuals. For the vast majority of people, their sexual attraction is either Masculine or Feminine. Lesbians relationships are hard to talk about because many will not accept that a man (or even straight women) could understand their relationships at all. Utter non-sense. Biology explains a lot about human sexuality and that applies just as well to Lesbians as to any other h…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 02:52 AM
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True enough. Everything about humans is complex. lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 02:34 AM
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As long as your SO (Significant Other) has given you no reason to think hes cheated on you then you need to turn around the perception of these women you are jealous of. After all, if your man is surround by women who are very easy and yet he chooses not to sleep with them then he literally considers you better than all those other women. Doesn't that make you feel better about yourself? I find that excess jealousy is often a result of low self-esteem. As in, you don't see yourself sexually appe…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 02:23 AM
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I would argue that a pure alpha man would never settle down with one woman and would either sleep with as many women as possible with no LTR or attempt to build a harem as large as possible. Any woman who wants a monogamous relationship does not what a pure alpha. (They tend not to be good fathers.) Instead what women want is a man whos both Alpha and Beta when appropriate. This does not exist naturally. Men are born either more alpha or more beta. Fortunately, being rational beings, men can ide…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 02:07 AM
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"Alpha men are most drawn to women who are: attractive, have a low n-count, and who are nurturing and feminine." I would change that to most men. Whether they are naturally alpha or not doesn't change what men are biologically attracted to.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 01:56 AM
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Honestly, most guy don't date multiple women at once. So while being exclusive after one date might be a bit too much, it shouldn't take too many more dates to become exclusive either. There is a danger in dating men or women with multiple partners at once. The chance of catching an STD goes up per every extra partner involved. So I would suggest that the moment you engage in sex would be the perfect time to insist the relationship be exclusive, if for no other reason than health concerns. Also,…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 01:30 AM
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Haha, you might have a point there. But what I'd suggest to you is there are a whole lot of woman who will make the same distinction I made. Some people just don't separate sex from relationships so the idea of casual sex NSA is a very foreign concept to them. The man might very well be honest but to a woman it sounds manipulative because they don't separate sex from relationships. So to the woman it sounds like dishonesty.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 01:22 AM
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Personally, cheating is far more than just a break in trust. If your partner has cheated on you and your sexually active with your partner then your at risk for STDs. So its not just a violation of trust but a complete disregard for the health of your partner. So no, I can't forgive cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 10:49 PM
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No, they are both manipulative. The keeping quite and lying by omission tactic is just more underhanded. The honest approach would be right from the start saying what you want. "I'm only into open relationships." Just out right saying you sleep with women is a tactic used to make woman jealous and compete for you. Of course, this woman has the option to just dump his ass immediately and be thankful she did not encounter a man willing to lie to her face.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 10:42 PM
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So you judge all men below you league based on one (or a few) bad dates? Jerks of all kinds exist. If a man mistreated you then you can and should dump him. But its a fallacy to then think that all men "below your league" are going to act the same. Though honestly, as a nerdy guy myself, I really don't care for overly attractive women. I like nerdy and quite activities such as reading a sci-fi book while women who know they are beautifully tend to want to "have fun" and do activities that call a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 10:26 PM
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Ah, I see what you mean. Thats is true. There does seem to be the attitude that modern women are all out to use men so don't deserve respect. That said, the only ones that can change that perception are women. Always treat any guy you date with respect. Then you can demand he treat you with respect. If he won't, move on. There are things you can do as a woman to make your guys less nervous. For example, if dressing up gets you lots of male attention and that makes your man nervous, then dress do…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 09:38 PM
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No, not as long as you have clear goals in mind. Such as: "I may live at home right now but I want a family and aim to work hard to get a nice house for said family.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 09:37 PM
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This is onesided. A "hot" girl whos nice and respectful will recieve respect in return. The key is the girl has to give respect first before she expects to receive respect. Society has women expecting "mr. right" to walk up to them and woo them. The wise women knows she needs to pick out a good man for herself. The wise women introduces herself to men who meet her criteria, knows how to respect and treat him right and then and only then demands he return said respect by being a better man. This …
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 09:07 PM
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Don't date kids in colleges. They are not adults. They are kids. Kids just want to have fun and don't think long term. Its not that young men and women are liars when they say they want an LTR, but rather that like any teenager, if they get bored they will quickly change their mind. The best way to vet someone is if their goal oriented. Their focus is not on partying, going to clubs, bars, concerts, or other forms of the fun. Are they focusing on getting a degree and career or otherwise getting …
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 08:57 PM
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If slightly older guys are asking you out now, don't pass them up. When your in your 30s, those same guys that were asking you out will now be ignoring you in favor of younger girls. The easiest time a woman has to find a life long mate is when shes in her 20s. Don't waste it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 08:10 PM
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I hate using a number system for ranking beauty. Its terribly subjective. I'd say Lauren Southern is above average and leave it at that. As for whether shes genuinely Red Pill, sure she is. The Red Pill does say traditional values will make most women and men the most happy in a relationship. However, Red Pill theory also recommends people find whats makes them most happy for themselves. So even if someone eschews LTR for sleeping around, at least be honest (and therefore honorable) about it wit…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 11:01 PM
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The right balance is realizing that a Dominant - Submissive relationship is not about Master and slave but having clear and define roles for both partners. Cynicalhousewife has the right idea. The Submissive partner has a right not to be abused and to demand she is treated in way she proves of and has consented to. Two notes: 1) On financial dependence, not working while a mother is for the benefit of her kids. So she can be a full time mom. On the other hand, its useful for women not to be tota…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 05:31 AM
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I believe one misunderstanding many women have is the fear that taking the submissive role in a relationship equals a loss of control. Being the submissive is contingent on the Dominate taking up the responsibility of being a good leader. Its more about a setting the right boundaries/responsibilities in a relationship rather than a woman becoming a slave. Submissive does NOT equal slave. As you can see in this report, a lot of relationship issue woman run into is when they are fighting with thei…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 12:06 AM
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Its fine. Whats more important is that your able to recognize and restrain your own sexual desires. Some people (men and women) go "crazy" when they lose their virginity and start sleeping around with as many people as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 10:51 PM
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I stand corrected. LOL All good points. "There's nothing to learn from sleeping with 10 guys 10 times, that can't be learned from sleeping with 1 man 100 times" I would add that theres nothing that can't be learned about sex with one partner if your both open and honest about your desires. I did not mean to imply that losing ones virginity damaged a woman. I believe in another post here I stated that virginity is irrelevant. Your mind set about sex is whats important. Treat sex as something casu…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 10:19 PM
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Honestly, theres too much pressure these days to lose your virginity. Theres nothing magical that happens when you lose your virginity and its certainly is no sign that the relationship will last. This is not to say you should feel bad about having lost your virginity (theres nothing special about keeping your virginity either) but simply know that theres no shame in abstaining from sex. At least until your sure you want a LTR with your SO.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 10:01 PM
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Oh it is fun. Sex feels really good. You know what else feels really good. Drug use. I'm sure I don't need to complete the argument for you to see the problem. Just wait till your in your 40s and then look at your friends who enjoy sex so much and you'll see for yourself how few manage to get into stable LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 09:51 PM
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On the question of if your missing out on anything, no. Sex, if treated like a casual pastime seems to just ruin peoples ability to form LTR. Sex can form a strong emotional bond between partners but this pair-bonding ability seems much harder to form the more casual people treat sex. This goes for both men and women. You can see it in every day life, the people having the most sex are the least likely to form life long relationships. If they do get into LTR, the risk of infidelity is much highe…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 09:45 PM
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Men aren't afraid to say they just want to hook up because there are plenty of women who will say yes. Also, western society doesn't punish those that are promiscuous. Also, good instincts. Sleeping around does decrease your value. If you read the mens red pill, the common wisdom is that sluts don't make good wives. Slut being defined by any woman who can't be trusted not to sleep around (the number of sexual partners she had is irreverent). This common sense wisdom applies to men just as well. …
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 09:40 PM
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My husband was always attracted to older women considering women in his age group to generally lack scruples and play too many games Hes not the only one. Theres plenty of young guys who'd be willing to marry young. Its the women who don't want to get married. Older Men and young women attract naturally. This does give older women an advantage with getting the young men who want to settle down quickly but are surround by young women who either want to party, focus on their schooling/careers, or …
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 01:35 AM
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Its nice to see an older woman making a marriage work with a younger man. Consider how happy you are and realize that many older women would never consider dating younger men. In short, your a positive example that more women should read about. Don't limit your dating options with superficial qualities such as age. Instead, judge a man for who he is and how he acts.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 01:12 AM
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To be fair, a lot of Betas could be turned more alpha with encouragement from their women. But often the women are also passive in the relationship. For example, they will be rather still during sex and then wonder while its not satisfying. It takes two people to make a good relationship. If you want your man to be more aggressive in bed, you have got to turn on ms. seduction in your mind. Too many women are far too passive in bed. Thats part of taking the Red Pill. If you want change in your ma…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 01:04 AM
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Men cannot read minds and are terrible at reading subtle female body language. Unless you've been very obviously and directly flirting with him, he might not even have a clue that your interested. He works at a gym with plenty of fit ladies. What have you done to make yourself standout against the competition? So what if your beautiful? Hes a fitness trainer. He sees beautiful women all the time. One thing you could do would be to have the initiative to ask him out. After all, most woman never a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 12:39 AM
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Why don't you just ask him out? Whats the worst thats going to happen? He says some variation of no. In which case you can go back to the trainer/trainee dynamic knowing hes just being nice. And if your lucky, you just got a date.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 11:03 PM
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As a guy, I notice women like to keep a lot of false friends. People who are outwardly friendly but self-centered, manipulative, and abusive. Real Friends are supportive, non-judgmental, and will be happy if your happy. Meeting good friends in your local area can be tough though luckily this reddit exists so you can chat with women who are actually supportive and helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 09:15 PM
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If everyone is already an Alpha Male, why does this reddit exist? lol
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:07 PM
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http://au.reachout.com/steps-to-improve-self-esteem There are some good tips to build up your self esteem. First and foremost is exercise. Its always amazing how much an effect excise has on someones ability to be positive. Its not even about becoming more fit, just the fact that regular excise makes you feel more energetic and that feeling of having energy makes you more positive. The state of your body (what you eat, drink, and how often you excise) has a bigger impact on a persons mood than m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 05:08 PM
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Well, its hard to tell how a couple acts in private. Appearance can be deceptive. Even if a man looks like a huge beta doesn't mean he lacks control of the relationship. Woman want both Alpha and Beta traits in a man, so a good man needs to turn those traits on and off when necessary. For example, its an alpha trait to go around flirting with lots of women and sleep with them. Most women don't want that in their SO. So if he acts like a big beta in public, thats basically being a gentleman. The …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 04:58 PM
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One thing thats hard for people to accept when they take the red pill is that Feminism no longer means equality of the sexes. We have other terms for that such as egalitarian. Current Feminism is abusive not just to men but to women as well. It denies both genders the understanding necessary to form proper LTR. That said, your welcome to stick with old school feminism which was about empowering women (you can change yourself and improve your life) instead of constantly defining them as victims (…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 03:13 PM
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I would suggest focusing on developing habits and hobbies without your boyfriend that make you feel good about yourself. For example, working out to improve your physical appearance (it also improves your mood a great deal as well). Develop hobbies you enjoy, even if its as simple as crocheting or reading novels you enjoy. When you have activities that make you happy even when your by yourself, your self esteem will improve.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 03:05 PM
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"I thought men wanted a woman who was strong emotionally so they can put her on a pedestal." Thats blue pill mentality. Its the modern feminism viewpoint of relationships but its non-sense. Part of the Red Pill viewpoint is that men and women have different strengths and weaknesses and that the two genders should compliment each other in a relationship. A man should help steady his woman's emotions while a woman should support her man when hes making the tough decisions for the household. "I fee…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 02:53 PM
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As a man this sounds like hes trying too hard to be "alpha" thinking if hes a little cold to you that will keep your interest in him. Poor fool doesn't understand hes already got you. An alternative take is that hes depressed and doesn't see how you could be with him so hes giving a weak hearted attempt to push you away. You should try what I always suggest. Take what you wrote here and show it to him. If these type of comments bug you now, they will continue to bug you years latter and that wil…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 06:32 AM
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What I wrote was not clear. I meant Emotional Instability in a very abusive way. As in being a woman being cruel to her boyfriend while manipulating his emotions for no other reason than the woman was in a bad mood. If you have your own emotional problems but are able to work them out with your boyfriend that thats not an issue. You fear your boyfriend will not want to protect you because of your emotional problems but thats the exact opposite reason emotional instability is a red flag men. All …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 06:14 AM
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Materialism means nothing from a happiness standpoint. I wouldn't be surprised if there were more happy working poor marriages then there were middle class happy marriages. Learn to live frugally and you'll live a much happier life.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 02:58 AM
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Scars from self-harm are not that big an issue. Most people have had some trauma in their past. Far more important is your emotional state right now. For a guy the two big red flags are: 1) being slutty (red flag - can't be trusted) 2) emotionally unstable (red flag - could be abusive). As long as you pass those two, and since your man is with you it seems you did pass them, then your fine.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 02:52 AM
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Get better friends? No seriously. I'd say the same thing to men with "friends" that are sleeping around and saying "man, your missing the awesome single life". Time to get new friends. If your friends aren't supportive when your in a stable working relationship.....then they are not your friends. People can easily be two-faced and nasty while supposedly being "friends".
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 02:45 AM
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Hahaha, look at the bright side. Do you really want to be with such a woman? Shes not a woman at all. She a little girl thats never been rejected pretending to be a grown women. Just like modern western society does not teach men how to be men anymore, it fails to teach women how to be women. Are the meanings of the words tact and class lost to most women nowadays?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 01:28 AM
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I think your more red pill than you realize.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 11:33 PM
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Well, I don't bother with social media at all so this is foreign behavior to me. I would unfriend/block anyone acting in this way. They are not your friend.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 11:26 PM
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What type of harassment is this? Are these orbiters asking for sex or are they just being friendly by saying hello? Its alright to be friendly back to exs as long as they are not looking to hook-up. You might be overreacting to guys just being friendly to you. I'm of the mind that exclusivity should be asked by the 2nd or 3rd date. Asap. The sooner the better. Men who want exclusivity do not need to make a choice and therefore have no need to wait to decide. Men who sleep around don't get into L…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 10:54 PM
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If dating is feeling exhausting don't feel bad about taking a break. Abstain from any intimate relations (no sex) with men. Consider it a mental flush of your system. You could just be having bad luck right now. Also, what do you mean by a long term relationship? Are you looking for marriage but I can see a lot of guys not wanting that at all because of the state of the laws right now. But going 3 months with a girl and then not wanting an LTR is very odd. Unless your having sex too freely. I tr…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 10:44 PM
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Hmm, problematic. Where do you go to met guys to date? You might need to change how you meet new guys. One thing we all know on the Red Pill network is that doing the same thing again and again will not change your results. So you must find something you can change about your own actions or appearance and see if that has an affect.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 10:32 PM
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Men don't need 3 months to decide if they want a serious LTR. 3 dates is enough. 6 Month is more than enough to decide to marry. Men decide fast if a woman allows it. A woman decides how fast a relationship proceeds. This doesn't mean you need to get into a LTR within 3 dates but this does mean you control the pace of the relationships. Be open, honest, and upfront about what your looking for from the first date. Say you want a serious monogamous relationship and get the commitment quickly. Any …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 09:35 PM
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Thats the nature of the society we live in today which has made promiscuous behavior far too acceptable while also having a marriage system that is view as pure punishment with no benefit by men. This is why we need to make the Marriage laws fair for both genders, if that was the case then far more men would be willing to get married. After all, that was the case for the vast majority of human history.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 07:16 PM
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True, theres much more to relationships than sex but sex is still an important part of any LTR. To deny that is going against human nature. Humans are sexual beings by nature, to try to divorce sex from love is going to end disastrously for most people. But remember, women have control over sex. A woman has the right to be treated with respect and determed what she wants in a relationship before engaging in sex. You just have to be open about what you want in your relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:29 PM
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I'll second the advice to avoid trying to break your nature but rather channel it in a positive way. Focus on judging people on their actions, not their appearance.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:24 PM
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This would be why the Red Pill women reddit exists. Its certainly not wrong to think men need a good women in their life and vis versa. Men are very focused on sex (its just how our sex drive works). That can be positive or negative. Sex is the greatest tool a women has to create a deep emotional bond with their man. Men who don't get that emotional need fulfilled (or get traumatized by bad relationships) can act out in many negative ways. This holds true for women as well. I think that woman en…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:06 PM
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I agree but its not impossible. I'll give an example from the BDSM subculture. There are women there that seem to just love submissive men and even have LTR with them. The key to making that work seems to be they are far more open about their sexuality than most couples. Consent is always asked for and given before anything is done. Sometimes a partner wants to switch roles temporarily and the woman is open to that. The key is that both the women and men are openly focused on satisfying each oth…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:00 PM
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The key here is they both know their roles. If the woman is dominate than she should not belittle or humiliate her man. There needs to be mutual respect from both partners. Without respect there is no love. If the woman makes more money then she controls the finances and its her responsibility. The men still paying for dinner could be a subtle way for the man to take a masculine role during a date. Being dominate should not mean you emasculate your man. As for sex, that should never been the res…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 04:39 PM
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The Red Pill Reddit probably turns off a lot of women because its blunt and open to all ideas. However, keep in mind that no one view of relationships is held by all men on the reddit. Its open to everyone, from men who only want to "pump and dump" to those seeking long term relationships. Keep in mind that a lot of the men on the reedit don't agree with each other. Those that sleep around argue with those that still want long term relationships as just one example. The key to the red pill reddi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 04:28 PM
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In any relationship there will be a Dominant and a Submissive. Its extremely rare to have a truly equal relationship. The key is to figure out what roles each partner is most comfortable fulfilling. Career women who want to climb the corporate latter would probably be happier with letting go of control in their relationships. Let the man decided where/when your going out on dates, plan out vacations, who does what house chores, etc. But the key here is flexibility is needed to adjust roles when …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 04:20 PM
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Man giving advice: Its only good if both women openly agree to be in a polygamous relationship. Otherwise no, its not healthy. No one should feel emotionally excluded in such a relationship. From men who have written about it, its very hard to juggle the emotional needs of multiple women and works best when its completely open and honest. So no, your husband should not be looking for emotional bonds from another women before his own wife. Now your husband having male best friend can be perfectly…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 03:55 PM
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I'll say this as a guy. Sex should be a two way street. You should both be focused on pleasing each other. If its feels one way, only one partner gets what they want, thats not healthy for a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 03:51 PM
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Physical touch is very important for having intimate feelings, both in men and women. Theres nothing wrong with waiting till the 2nd and 3rd date for a kiss but I'll agree that most guys are going to assume your not attracted to them if you won't allow a kiss. If so, perhaps your just not into any guy yet.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 03:36 PM
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As a man, I say the best thing you can do is cut out the game. Be direct in what you want from a relationship. Literally say what you just wrote here. You don't like playing hard to get and that sex should mean the relationship has become serious and intimate. The men who want to settle down at a young age will appreciate such direct honesty. They are also frustrated by the games they have to play with a lot of young women who "just want to have fun, nothing serious". My own parents dated only f…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 03:18 PM
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Never hate stupid people, thank them. Stupid people destroy their lives to ensure the survival of our race. Thank them for their sacrifice. stay humble
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:22 AM
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Being funny is a sign that your not afraid to be offensive, to be foolish, to do whats not expected. Its a mans shit test. If she can't take a joke, thats your sign to go.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 08:59 PM
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And that gents is what women mean when they say they "want a funny guy." Take notes.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 09:43 AM
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This is very true. Though I reject the whole pedestal. I only date women who are willing to treat each other equally. That means everything from sharing chores to sharing the bill on a date. I will not date any woman who insists that I pay for her. I am not a whore to be used and disposed of when a woman gets bored. I also don't demand she pay for me though sometimes thats nice and yes some woman will actually do that. They seem quite proud to be able to pay for a date (its apparently taboo beca…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 08:52 AM
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