WistfulMelancholic Archive

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3	Do men prefer no makeup/surgery, and should women tell when they've had surgery? Just a quick side note to anyone considering dying lashes and brows with regular hair dye. Just don't. That chemicals in them do hurt your eyes badly. The smell is most always unpleasant, often aches the eyes from just having it on your hair. Imagine what would happen if this comes in contact with delicate skin around eyebrows and especially lashes. Plus you'd throw away a lot of color each time for as you can't keep a dye for longer that is already prepped. There are better options that are esp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 10:48 AM
1	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. My personal two cents.. If my husband had asked for a test I'd be pretty hurt that he felt the need to have one. That you can trust someone 100% and still get cheated on, I am aware of. So I'd get this test, but under the circumstances of seeing a partner mediator or something for a handful of hours or so, just to be sure to stay neutral while expressing the feelings the situation ewoked and leave it behind without a bitter taste. Neither he, I nor our relationship as a whole deserves to permane…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 09:44 AM
2	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's I'm still waiting on an answer. My experience is 100% different. That doesn't make it truth, just like with your assumptions. My worldview doesn't have any place here, I'm questioning your reasoning for saying that half of married women would cheat under this circumstances. That is a bold statement and I'm asking you once again, what happened in your experiences to come to this black and white worldview. Yeah, PS: I know that. But did you realize that rape fantasies are basically not rape fantas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:42 PM
2	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's Bold assumption. And though, your argument is anecdotal and therefore unusable without any scientifically controlled base to work with. Everyone can assume and talk shit. I'm not taking that bait, American labeling for politics don't apply to every person on the planet. If you're willing to have a discussion without putting silly labels on strangers, I'm as well. So,... you've written before "No, women are highly visually aroused by very attractive men. There are in fact giga-chads and probably …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:28 PM
1	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's I see where your reasoning is coming from, but it's still based on anecdotes. Well.., it doesn’t really matter where you met them. You’ve picked these people. Look at it like this: When women say 'all my exes were abusive,' it's often blamed on them for not recognizing the red flags, being stupid etc, right? ...When men say 'all women are like this,' the same logic doesn’t seem to apply? Why is that? At the end of the day, it’s about recognizing that the people we choose to spend time with say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:56 PM
1	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's Reading is generally a form of escapism. Categories like drama, mystery, and sci-fi offer a quick and easy way to temporarily disconnect from reality. It doesn't necessarily reflect what someone actually desires in real life. For example, just because you read thrillers, it doesn't mean you're obsessed with murder — you're simply engaged in the storyline for whatever reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:25 PM
2	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's Japanese porn...,each type of porn is solely entertainment designed to stimulate fantasy, not reflect reality. It's stylized and often exaggerated, catering to specific cultural preferences. Sexuality is personal and diverse, and porn doesn't represent real-life relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:21 PM
3	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's Fantasies are just that – thoughts in our heads, created by our brains. It wouldn’t make sense to have thoughts for someone else’s pleasure if they can’t access those thoughts themselves. So, yes, all fantasies are inherently self-centered. This whole discussion distracts from the reality that both men and women face different pressures when it comes to sex and desire. That doesn’t mean one side is always right or wrong, though. It’s not about making women the victims or men the villains. The co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:18 PM
4	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's This claim is entirely unfounded and has no basis in scientific research. From a psychological standpoint, there’s no legitimate evidence to suggest that women, or any large group of people, are sexually aroused by such behavior. Zoophilia is a rare and pathological condition. Spreading these kinds of claims without scientific backing only fuels misinformation and misconceptions about human sexuality. It’s essential to approach topics like these with accuracy and responsibility, especially when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:06 PM
1	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's I already said it on another comment. This merely shows the type of women you've allowed access to your genitals so far. This tells more about you, than it does about "the monolith of all women in this world". And it's anecdotal - empty and without any evidence other than "he said she said"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:59 PM
2	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's Attraction is about so much more than just looking like a 'giga-chad' - lol - it’s about how someone makes them feel, their personality, and the context of the relationship. Reducing women’s sexual attraction to just a physical 'type' ignores the complexity of human desire in general. Where's your base for your assumption that half of women would cheat? Or that above average men (wtf does that mean, dicksize?) wouldn't do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:58 PM
3	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's Not all women are primarily driven by narratives, just as not all men are solely visually driven. Many men also find sexual excitement in emotional or narrative contexts. The assumption that men’s desires are less complex overlooks the diversity in male sexual preferences. Sexuality is not one-size-fits-all; it’s shaped by a variety of influences and experiences. If you claim to have a universal explanation for anything - proof it. It's not mine to disproof, it's your obligation to provide anyth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:55 PM
0	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's This merely shows the type of women you've allowed access to your genitals so far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:51 PM
2	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's This ridiculous analogy collapses undr scrutiny at every level. First, it ignores that locks are inanimated objects - no will, no culture, and none of the various and different complexities that humans experience. Reducing women to their genitals, and their sexuality to this objectifying metaphor strips away individuality, autonomy, and nuance. It's blatant ignorance. It isn’t just disrespectful to women; it’s also demeaning to men. It’s rooted in a fantasy of “unlocking all the vaginas in the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:49 PM
3	Why are you an ex-redpiller? You can't undo, but you can say sorry. If they welcome you saying sorry or not is on them. But saying sorry takes a lot of courage and shows your growth and understanding of what you did wrong. It will help the people who you think you hurt! Prepare to be called asshole and whatnot.. But they also have the right to process your texts and take their time, just as you needed to. You recognize what went wrong, this is the best sign of going the healthier way. You'll do it :)	/r/ExRedPill	11/10/24 02:53 PM