Witteness82 Archive

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1	What is your best advice on cold approach? Don’t worry about what you talk about. Just find something to break the ice with, introduce yourself and bounce around from there. Just normal natural conversation, light flirting and smile. It’s really as simple as that. You just need to get comfortable doing it.	/r/seduction	15/11/20 07:26 AM
2	How To Win In Game: Don't just rely on techniques, have a sexual mindset (aka demeanor) To really master seduction mastering your eye contact is one of the biggest, most important things you can do. You are correct in saying what you say isn’t nearly as important as how you say it. Seduction is IMO 95% body language and eye language. I get told all the time I’m super obvious with my flirting because of those two things. I have been doing it so long I don’t even think about it anymore and I can instead focus on what their body language is saying. In fact I asked a girl I recently sl…	/r/seduction	10/11/20 05:29 AM
2	Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To It Or we could all simply be adults and not get pissy when someone shows interest. If someone isn’t being disrespectful then there’s nothing wrong with it.	/r/seduction	12/10/20 12:40 AM
3	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? Body language. Have you ever checked out at a grocery store and been able to tell if the cashier was pissed off or irritated? What if they were happy or cheerful? How do you know those things without them specifically telling you? It’s clues you’ve picked up on throughout your various social interactions in life. Picking up women is no different. If you can have a normal conversation with them and focus on just the conversation it’s easy. You’ve already been doing it your whole life. The problem…	/r/seduction	03/10/20 08:33 PM
0	If you're shallow, and put a girl on a pedestal bc of her looks, you will be nervous and try too hard to impress her, then get rejected. If you're not shallow, but judge a girl for what is inside and not outside, your behavior and energy will be different, and your results will be much better. Yes and anyone who says otherwise isn’t telling the truth. This doesn’t really feel like a post for r/seduction. Feels like something for r/dating or r/dating_advice.	/r/seduction	03/10/20 02:57 AM
2	You should learn how to talk to guys too Fear of rejection	/r/seduction	28/09/20 03:31 PM
1	You should learn how to talk to guys too It’s really not much different. The reason a guy will like being around you is much the same as why a woman will. The only difference is there has to be attraction there to form that other type of connection people here are seeking. Other than a little bit of flirting, the basis of conversations I have with a guy and a girl aren’t fundamentally much different. What gets in the way of that is often FoR. Get past that and dating becomes so much simpler.	/r/seduction	28/09/20 06:54 AM
1	Texting is fucking my game up The thing every guy needs to understand about text game is it is completely reliant on both people. You can be funny, witty, interesting, sexy and everything else in your texts. But none of that matters if the response is always akin to ‘lol OMG!’. It’s not always your text game that is the problem. You just can’t have a conversation with someone who responds like that. You’re best bet is to get them on a phone call or on a date and see if that is better. If neither of those things is something …	/r/seduction	18/08/20 05:18 AM
183	Honesty when looking for ONS? The odds of you having that go in your favor are pretty small. If you meet a girl and in the 1st 10 minutes you’ve already said you just want to hook up, most will turn you down outright. If anything dance around the subject, flirt and start to escalate fairly quickly. A lot of girls will sleep with you on the first night, but they don’t want to feel like a slut for doing it. If you want to be blunt and only spend time on girls who want sex, dating apps will be much better suited to that.	/r/seduction	09/08/20 10:23 AM
9	I got approached. I was planning on approaching her but she did first. I know it’s going to sound oversimplified and immature, but the gossiping and fears of what she’ll say can be dismissed easily with a don’t care, still fucked mindset. Hopefully you both enjoy yourselfs but if not you still slept with her and know you could sleep with someone else just as easily.	/r/seduction	08/08/20 02:06 AM
2	Where do I go for tinder dates when there's a pandemic and its 1000 degrees outside? A walking date in the evening when the sun isn’t at its peak but it’s still bright enough to not be creepy. Somewhere not densely populated. Parks are great especially ones with walking paths around them or with ponds where you can sit on a bench or feed the ducks. It’s intimate and allows you to have that quiet one on one time to build a connection. Edit: not sure if they have them there but drive in theaters are coming back. If you have one in your area that would be a good idea as well. The o…	/r/seduction	31/07/20 09:16 PM
2	Best cologne helps seduction, girls love it on men? Their cologne ‘The One’ is very good as well.	/r/seduction	29/07/20 11:22 PM
1	Ok, let's go the opposite way and help avoid cringy situations. What are some signs a female is NOT interested? I agree. I think the above is just bad advice. Maybe if you’ve got her number and have been talking to her or been out on a date and still have to ask. When trying to get to that point though a lot of guys are going to overthink things and talk themselves out of what someone on the outside may clearly see. That’s the anxiety talking and less experienced people let that guide them. This sub is littered with comments from guys saying how they look back years and see those obvious signs they brushe…	/r/seduction	11/06/20 07:04 AM
1	Mega List of Go-To Flirting Lines You Can Use ASAP Wow, this is like an elementary level play on words that I can’t see working out for anybody outside of the top 1% of looks. The premise is fine, but the actual lines are awful. Keep it light and simple. Her ‘I like your eyes’ You ’Oh yeah what are they telling you right now?’ Her ‘How’s your day?’ You ‘much better now’ said with a sly smile.	/r/seduction	06/06/20 04:24 PM
1	How the fuck do you flirt or notice when someone is flirting?? As a man I flirt with my eyes and body language as much or more than with my words. Direct eye contact with a slight smile goes a long way in showing your attraction and seeing if it’s reciprocated. If a woman is open to it you’ll usually get the longer eye contact and a genuine smile back or a glance away with a smile. As for words it’s just a lot of double entandres or plays on words to go along with the above. Simple things like ‘how are you today?’ ‘Much better now’ go a long way. Once I gau…	/r/seduction	03/06/20 11:46 PM
1	How do you all do it? I’m gonna be honest with you man. Looks are always going to be a big factor and some things you just can’t control. Focus on the things you can though. Find a good doctor and do your best to get your skin under control. Keep a good hair cut and get in the gym if you aren’t already. Fix every aspect that you can even if you aren’t the most aesthetically pleasing face wise. It might take some time but it will be worth it in the end. Slowly you will start feeling better about yourself and even if y…	/r/seduction	21/05/20 04:13 AM
2	I just wanna ask the experts here. how to make the girl invest in your conversation You’ve got to make the conversation fun just like in person. How do you respond when somebody says hello how are you? It’s normally going to be pretty bland. Now how do you respond when someone tells you a funny or interesting story? You ask questions, you add to the story, you tell your own story. If you are having actual interesting topics and they are still being short or cold, that’s your sign to move on.	/r/seduction	14/05/20 06:43 AM
1	Really struggling with turning conversation flirty I treat flirting the same as when I’m having a conversation with friends. Those quick retorts that just come to mind are what I use almost exclusively with women. The only difference is my tone and demeanor when doing it and it’s more sexual nature. Last night I was talking to a woman and a mutual friend came up. She said the other woman was pretty and that she was thick. I disagreed and said she was a little bigger than thick. She immediately asked well what’s your definition of thick then? My …	/r/seduction	15/10/19 12:56 PM
4	Let’s settle the debate right now, How much do looks matter when picking up girls? When people say looks don’t matter I always took it to mean you can be a normal looking guy and still have success. You don’t have to be a GQ model. Let’s be honest here. If you are straight up unattractive you aren’t going to have a bunch of cold approach success. The same way most men don’t go out looking to approach a 2 or a 3, most women aren’t going to be receptive to being approached by one. That doesn’t mean you can’t date though. It just means you will likely have better success getting …	/r/seduction	13/09/19 01:02 AM
2	How do let someone know you have a crush without saying it? You’re going to have to bite the bullet and tell them. I’m going to assume you have some kind of relationship with this person since you used the word crush. Strike up a conversation, smile and use strong body language. When it feels like an appropriate time in the conversation, just ask them if they would like to go out with you on whatever day you have available. There’s not a secret recipe to get them to admit a crush on you without taking that leap.	/r/seduction	15/07/19 10:35 AM
-1	Where do you get dates? I’ve never bought into it myself. I drive city buses and work with around 300 people at my garage. We spend countless hours hanging around each other while we have splits or layover time and chemistry comes easily. We also have a high turnover rate so new faces are always coming and going. I find it incredibly hard to not ask any of the women out for drinks and have been asked out by several. Passing up on that seems counterproductive to me, but of course I understand why people feel the other w…	/r/seduction	13/07/19 08:32 PM
3	Girl cancelled twice on date, how to proceed? Going through something similar right now and in my experience it kind of depends on the girl. If you have a pretty decent idea that she is legitimately busy, aka your conversations with her feel genuine and engaging give her a few days and try to set something up again. If you get the feeling she’s just not wanting to go out with you then leaving it how you did is fine. I know the common theme here is making yourself seem valuable, but there is no do this in this situation rule that always work…	/r/seduction	12/07/19 11:37 PM
3	This is pathetic as fuck, but I got someone's number tonight and am beyond happy! I never wait. Not even as long as you do. Start the initial conversation by texting her and letting her know it’s you so she can have your number. If the conversation continues, even better. If not, then I’ll give it a day or so and try to strike up another conversation while trying to setup a date.	/r/seduction	30/06/19 08:34 PM
2	Lie about rape . . . GET 10 YEARS My wife was raped as a child, so please spare me the high and mighty talk. You spoke of at least 4 victims you know and other rapists that you’ve known. I find it highly unlikely that you personally know so many rape victims and rapists and find it much more probable that you got into a debate with someone you disagreed with and started making shit up to try and prove your point. I have no way of knowing for certain and don’t feel like continuing this chat. We’re at an impasse, so enjoy your day…	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/19 09:05 PM
1	Lie about rape . . . GET 10 YEARS Or you are making shit up to try and make a point.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/19 08:16 PM
0	Lie about rape . . . GET 10 YEARS Sounds like you know an unusually high amount of rape victims...	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/19 07:14 PM