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Haha silly rollercoaster, I apologize. I think you have really unique and kind reasons for discussing things here. Vastly moreso than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:18 PM
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Oh! I have asked this before. A chance observation leads to meticulous research, leads to discovery of the manosphere where you've stayed out of curiosity, care and empathy!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:12 PM
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Why are you in these sections? I don't think I've asked that before
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:08 PM
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For real, I guess the two camps must be pretty widespread to make you post about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:48 PM
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I didn't even know there was a name for this move
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:35 PM
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You're really consistent Cim. It never gets old seeing someone stick to who they are lool. These approaches were never something I tried. They just seem rude and like an interruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:29 PM
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I gotcha. First and last contact with each one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:24 PM
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Can I ask what you mean by them not working?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:16 PM
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Aah, that tracks. I dunno, it's easier to socialise from a distance. For those wanting to meet and nurture the type of bond that allows sexual attraction form slowly, doing it online makes sense. The majority of experiences like yours I've heard were all online too. Sorry to pry, it's just really interesting to my psychology brain lool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:47 PM
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That's for sure 😂😂 lool I dated someone once who paid for everything. Made it a real joy to care for them in other ways. It's really sweet of yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:35 PM
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I guess your views on dating and sex. It's a really rare story that a girl lies about it or is mocked, at least where I'm from. It made me curious to know if you'd heard of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:33 PM
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Hella considerate. I guess if he suddenly became an empire-building dominant type who had to pay every time, that'd be a different story. Lool I love that you've pampered him into comfort. Might even forget his wallet sometimes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:31 PM
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Oof, you reap what you sow, of course. Do you think it's something you could allow on more occasions than just your birthday? Or is there a hard line there?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:13 PM
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This is a random question, sorry. But have you come across other women like yourself? In terms of values and life experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:10 PM
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Have you ever had someone insist on paying for the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:01 PM
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You're definitely a positive presence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:38 PM
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That's a fact. Evidently, you have a lot of support here, I've seen a lot of praise for you across the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:20 PM
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I read about this from other members. I'm really sorry it happened. "Chronically online" is a term I don't like, but this sounds like something out of that bag. Such a hurtful thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:12 AM
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You have the higher libido in your relationship, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:33 AM
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Asking the good questions as always Cim
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:44 PM
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What are some feminine traits you like in a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:15 AM
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Can I ask if you've had any treatment for it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:12 AM
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Gotta be stable, purely because the interests align. Random is great sport, the chase and the back and forth is good for the ego and stirs up tension well. But too much change. The ups and downs would irk me. A consistent partner into what I'm into? Let's go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:15 AM
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Gotta assert dominance early on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:06 AM
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It's supposed to be for the sake of having someone to snuggle up with and have some romance for the wintery months but it probably is more like that in reality 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:20 AM
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I waited later too. Definitely better that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:13 AM
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For real 😅 strange time. Aside from that. I've had babe, honey, good boy and a bunch of wordplays on my name and pop culture references. It's a somewhat versatile one 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:07 AM
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Get it, Cim 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:04 AM
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My ex called me black magic sometimes joking sometimes out of spite because she had a dream in which I took up sex work without consulting her. It was a name I threw out in a joking response. Definitely regretted that one 🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:57 AM
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This is adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:47 AM
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I've only seen guys throw this out there to undermine a woman or win an argument. I don't respect it. Maybe not the place for this question, but on a general level, do you think there's a difference in the way men and women think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:34 AM
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Aah that's understandable. Did you ever pay much mind to where you were before going to say hi?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:11 PM
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You ever approach a guy while you were single?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:52 PM
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Alright man. You got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:56 PM
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Thanks. It's an essential part of dating directly and indirectly, I think. A lot of men don't know what their personality is or are afraid to show it. It kneecaps a person, dating that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:18 AM
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I have been. Drawing classes and some fitness groups so far. My main focus is just meeting different tribes and making myself better. Apologies if it seems like I'm telling a sob story each time. More so just sharing my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:58 AM
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It's astonishing watching people close to you grow up differently. Like all the music videos, movies and media about the high life took a real hold and resonated with them. I could never be comfortable in those thrilling relationships. But I admire those who are upfront and honestly work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:56 AM
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Indeed, I just don't engage in dating that way anymore. It's too inauthentic and overloading for my brain aha. Part of it has to be the nature of these apps too. Their only concern is attention economy and the potential for the next match. I don't think designing dating like it's online shopping marries well with people trying to be open in putting themselves out there. It encourages bullshit antics and low commitment. Been 3+ years for me, tough for guys and girls to find a happy endgame like y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:50 AM
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I can only agree. My best relationship experiences all started out with good friendships. If the goal is something long term taking your time sounds logical. Plus it's just how I'm wired. With dating these days, I often find myself in a situation where I'm having to give more than I'd like in the moment. Part of that is my own doing, but it really does feel like stepping onto a bullet train from introduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:35 AM
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So your guy treated you well, and patiently let your feelings come through, assumedly without any pressure or expectations. That's what did it for you in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:13 AM
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Looking like the average teenage anime character 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:09 AM
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What set him apart for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:07 AM
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Everything you said here is a fact. I just know people will still have something to say 🤦🏾‍♂️ Hats off to you for continuing the dialogue lool
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:59 AM
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I don't know how you are able to keep up the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:36 AM
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I think the average Adam subject comes down to this point every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:13 PM
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Why the hell not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:10 PM
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I'd argue that thinking less and interacting more creates the room for answers to be found. A lot of the topics here stop mattering once connections are formed. That's been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:08 PM
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Today I think I hit that point when mingling in a new place where you realise what everyone was talking about when they warned you about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:04 PM
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24 a ways off from the norm where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:48 PM
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What you are describing isn't reserved for any one group of people. In my day to day, I take people at their word. If actions I observe disprove what I was told then sure I'll adjust my opinions. But it doesn't seem useful to immediately assume someone is lying to me. No good discussion can come from that. Plus it just doesn't seem likely here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:45 PM
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I understand you strongly feel that way. But I can't see why your word should be taken over CimZim's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:04 PM
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Aah thought so 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:39 PM
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To flip things, could I ask what traits you think a guy would need to bring to the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:17 AM
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I think there's a shame regarding the conversation. Likely many people are cripplingly unwilling to say what they're into.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:35 PM
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I've definitely seen this at play so I know where the idea comes from. But I lost my virginity quite late and leading up to it, I came across multiple women who either didn't care and wanted to anyway or were explicitly turned on by the prospect of taking my virginity. Crazy out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:33 PM
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Definitely. Some people are really working through some stuff 😅 ahaha you're not wrong. You should write a "how to" book on it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:16 PM
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I think it's pretty accurate. The types I've seen who wear it as a mask very often show a lot of feminine behaviours. Like they'll yell out orders and assert themselves as best as you'll ever see but chilling in the office I'll join conversations about what they hope their boyfriends will plan for a date etc. Those full on with the masculine identity don't seem to switch it off. It's pretty easy to tell. With the former they'll require me to help them with a problem or solve an issue sooner or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:37 PM
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Your insights have been spot on this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:24 PM
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Oh! I like this parallel! Psychologically speaking, there are implications if a baby doesn't get a good amount of love in the first two years or so, I'd assume physical touch is key in that nurturing. Your point makes me think about possible effects of not popping one's cherry by a certain point. I wonder if certain standards of intimacy and communication are made less attainable for late bloomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:28 AM
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You're awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:58 AM
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I really liked this perspective man. Your story is a sweet one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:02 AM
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Did you feel that was going to be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:02 AM
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So generally, very little time lost when getting shit done? Me? I can focus decently. Getting better at regularly creating moments to initiate tasks. And yeah when I'm into it like a drawing or a workout, it's easier to stay the course. Overall, I think other things get in the way of me being consistent. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:58 AM
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Off topic, have you ever struggled with distraction when it comes to tasks and goal oriented activities?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:14 AM
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They're just gonna condemn you all to being unattractive the majority of your lives? This is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:53 AM
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Hmm, this makes me keen to think about what defines someone as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:17 AM
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The wall is new to me, I gather it refers to people reaching expiry, so to speak?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:57 AM
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As it should be, with a beautiful renovated home and warm meal waiting each day. That's the thing with work. Having a boss is a weird beast, they can make or break your time at a job. Ultimately too much power aha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:41 AM
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Amazing! That's such rapid growth, knowing you it'll happen in excess of your predictions. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:29 AM
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Makes sense. And what can I say, I likes what I likes aha. I didn't see your thoughts on the earlier post. I imagine the store would be ideal as your sole endeavour?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:21 AM
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Crap. I'm predictable, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:16 AM
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I'd love that. The women in my dating history have all been ambitious types with big plans and a love for working. I find being in the role of support to such a partner brings me joy like nothing else. Her earning more is cool too. Honestly it's a little sexy 🤣.My perspective in relationships is that we support each other however we're able. If she brings home the bread, then I maintain the home. Hypothetically speaking of course, in reality it's more like I'll cook her meals and ask to help cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:11 AM
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Apparently some findings suggest a lot of people who find themselves deep in the rabbit hole knew early on they were into their niche genres. I shudder at the implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:46 PM
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Ah so I see. That's high praise coming from you. I'm grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:25 PM
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I'm aiming for it. The plan is to make myself too good to pass up :p thanks, that's kind of you but I'm not sure what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:18 PM
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Precisely that. It describes a relationship devoid of those constraints. Purely just joy and benefit. Ugh, people are annoying haha. Glad you got it so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:02 PM
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GFE/BFE is popular here in London but that's also a service provided by many adult workers. They do fit since it literally is a pretty favourable couple experience but there are conclusions people jump to with it. I dunno. Lovers might just be the best fit. Makes it sound all hot and caring 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:45 PM
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My apologies. I know you've had to define that a lot, Cim. It's just cool to know. That's what it is to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:35 PM
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For you, FWB seems defined by not joining your lives together in those messy hard to undo ways. Aside from that boundary, it's intimacy and closeness all the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:28 PM
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Wah! Saw some truth in here that caught me off guard 😂 I resonate with this take. Matches a lot of what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:22 PM
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This cycle is indeed vicious 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:00 AM
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I've definitely seen that in my family too. Older men ask when I'll quit teaching and get a manly job. Whispers and hush tones about me being sensitive, artistic and emotional. And general disgust at the partners they've met. Agree 100%. There's definitely the air of "men can do it better" when it's not at all a choice. I would imagine the alpha displays in the media likely do more to socialise masculine men than masculine women. At the very least, it raises some men with the idea that men are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:18 AM
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Brings to mind a post I was reading on a writing sub that complained about female characters who are masculine developing into the most femme, girly existences in stories. Like they have this side that completely dwarfs and contrasts how they initially presented. Makes me wonder if people see masculine women and feminine men as secretly in line with societal norms, just waiting for them to switch back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:28 AM
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I agree 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:19 AM
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Like you said. A lot of people are just lonely. Practically speaking it's a problem since it's a debate sub, yeah. But I'm not mad at it. Some just want connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:13 AM
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I'm sorry too. I can only imagine what it's like to continuously be told your own experiences are untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:06 AM
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Yeah, it does usually end up that way when both are HL. My relationship with my first was like that. Masculine discourse requires that we take on undue guilt for that nature of things. It's a vicious cycle. Ugh, yeah. People bring a lot of pain into discussion I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:04 AM
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There's an interesting thought. I like to think it would bring about some understanding. There's been so much historical misunderstanding of female sexuality. So much violence as a result too. And these days, I think social media is doing more harm than good with misinformation and unrealistic standards. If men were multi-orgasmic, it might save everyone a lot of trouble 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:56 AM
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I had a psychology lecturer poke fun at men saying if you ask one if he wants a HL woman, he'll say "Yes, but not too high". I feel there's a lot of resistance and anxiety about women's experience on the part of men. It takes a lot of humility to listen openly and accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:50 AM
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Oh I just read about this. Interesting finding that's so often overlooked about lesbian sex. And female libido in general. Brings to mind a lot of deadbedrooms posts. Some of the women in there are suffering .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:46 AM
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I don't like the phrase big dick energy. Pushes a lot of problematic and unrealistic ideas with regard to sex. But it would fit here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:41 AM
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I'm not usually attracted to women high in stereotypically feminine traits. Appearance is fine but I guess I like atypical behaviour and personality in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:21 PM
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I wonder how many guys are successful in communicating that they like receiving romantic gestures while in the dating phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:36 AM
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Just good feels and support walking on all fours. Mine are border collies, Akitas and rottweilers. Truth. I'd never say no 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:21 AM
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Nice one. They're so great, I will definitely have a dog one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:11 AM
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Not a woman but I feel this. Seeing any kind of scene that is despairing or sad just stabs me inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:02 PM
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Oh damn, someone mentioned Literotica. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:48 PM
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Medication is such a toss up, works differently for people. Aah I see, not to quote JP but he has an interesting thing about taking on responsibility to heal oneself. Definitely a huge caveat there since work can be the antagonist sometimes. But your responsibility for your animals seems a really motivational force. Plus who doesn't love a cuddle? I don't take meds. Therapy has been a big help for me there was a loss of identity and failed feeling, still pops up now. Re-examining the past and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:50 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. Depression is a different beast. Moreso over extended periods. I've dealt with it since I was 19. Hats off for staying consistent in that mindset. Social isolation and negativity tend to take away the desire to help other people, or at least make people forget they care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:19 AM
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My spirits lifted just by reading that. That's so warm and friendly haha. But I guess you're very aware of putting those intentions out there, just being yourself. How about your masculinity? Has that ever caused friction?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:06 AM
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How often do you think guys are intimidated by you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:56 AM
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In my line of work, women are the majority and tend to dominate in terms of competence and performance. It's not at all an issue acknowledging anyone as an equal. I believe that shying away from truths like those ultimately hinders a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:53 AM
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Ughh, I apologize for asking. The back and forth aside, that's definitely an interesting story. The manosphere would make for some good reading in a day off 😂 I like how you handle yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:04 PM
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What compelled you to explore it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:00 AM
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It says a lot about the consideration and investment you gave them upfront, which was really wonderful of you. I'm sorry they squandered it. Exactly what I meant by missed opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:46 PM
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Go nuts, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:44 PM
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Haha maybe in a few years. Going my own way presently ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:16 PM
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I'm glad you've had it good since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:08 PM
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Gotcha. I mean I'm no stranger to rejection, most of it is making a genuine effort and being realistic. Is dating something you've considered?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:03 PM
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I've not hung around here too long. I'm still gathering the consensus. I'm guessing the reviews point toward high amounts of rejection and the apps being stacked against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:40 AM
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Hard to say, from the women's profiles I see, maybe 30-40% are that former time wasting type. More often than not, there's an attempt to represent themselves. And the vast majority of matches are quite open and friendly. I'd give a noticeable portion to profiles that don't represent themselves well. Not showing off but also not putting their best foot forward. Maybe 10-20%? The rest are definitely the sweet spot of positive interaction 😂 from what I hear from women, guys tend to really stack up …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:31 AM
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I think that's a little of what I'm getting at, there was an attempt to translate an accurate perception of the person through their profile. I'm in two minds with how it is now. On the one hand, it's hard to see the image carousel as anything other than preening. Especially with the ridiculous poses people like to hit. Enough to make Araki quake. Those one sentences don't help. The "follow me on insta, I don't use this" bios actively reduce my faith in people 😅. On the other hand though. I've s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:21 AM
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Okay, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:09 AM
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Gosh that would've been a landscape to behold. It's all so curated now. So hyper focused on the desirable traits and qualities. That and the rampant dick pic distributors. That's a shame. I like to think authenticity might have been a little more common at that point. You had it to a fault, Cim 😂😂 No way. More like a missed opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:08 AM
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You put that in your bio when you were dating? That's kind of adorable 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:50 AM
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I think sexual intercourse and employment are different enough to warrant separate conversations. But I understand that it's helpful to put your best foot forward in both pursuits so I'll roll with this. In this job climate, being honest about being a complete neet is not going to get you a job in most cases. At least I don't think so. As I see it, it's more so because I don't hear in your example that the person has tried to gain work experience or enrich themselves in any way. Your fix for tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:45 AM
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Sorry. I just don't see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:45 AM
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I expect good vibes and good fun. Dates will be fun and personal, and the sex will be whatever we're comfortable with. She should be however she was that got her the money to begin with, odds are that's how she's comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:51 AM
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Oh boy, could write a whole essay on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:56 AM
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There's no way to know, but I don't feel like it's rare for a guy to be honest about his experience upfront and for her to just be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:46 AM
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I saw a makeup tutorial once with a girl discussing her make-up routine with colour theory. Colour temperature, different schemes across the wheel, complementary tones. I'm not sure if this is commonplace among makeup users but it was a first for me and hearing it talked about that way was so cool. I'm a guy and an artist, I really wanted to buy some make up sit in front of a mirror and go to town 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:29 AM
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If you are a guy who really wants to send nudes, it might bother you that the demand isn't as rabid as in our camp. If not, I'd imagine there's some indifference. Personally, I've been involved with women who wanted to trade nudes and those who didn't. I'm good with either. Never had behaviour like the unsolicited move guys like to make. That shits a problem. I find nudes are only an issue between adults when unsolicited. Or used/accessed in a vindictive malicious manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:13 AM
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Compelling point, it can be underwhelming. Oh man, that story really threw me! The funny thing is their depiction of Thor looks so cool. I admire their direction so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:01 AM
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You didn't even need a 40 minute YouTube video. I applaud this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:37 AM
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The road less traveled. I would imagine there is more to gain in making life an adventure more personal than just shaping oneself to fit X expectation. I know it makes my life meaningful at the worst of times. They need to become themselves huh. It's clear to see that you relate to and draw a lot from your interactions with the men you describe. I think that's pretty rad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:35 AM
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I think about this type of thing a lot. Are models/actors meant to stay an unattainable ideal for us to marvel at? (And inevitably scar our self worth for some people). Or should they look "average". I'd imagine the real answer has a lot more to do with money and entertainment aha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:28 AM
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So I'm learning. 😅 I don't identify with any pill myself, like I said I'm trying to do my research. But it led to me commenting more while still having no clue what's happening. It's funny to imagine that's what everyone else is doing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:19 AM
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I like this because it leaves room for guys to discover what they value in themselves and what they want outside of sex and relationships. It's tragic that many people go without nurturing that in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:16 AM
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I just read three posts breaking down what the pills are and their core ideas. The comments were just back and forth arguments about why they're right and/or wrong. Like trying to explain Kingdom Hearts 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:12 AM
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Exactly like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:00 AM
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Haha, a lot of it is culture. We grew up in different times and places and they've come around a lot on certain things. Others, just tend to be sticking points. Likely the same with the women talked about in this post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:43 PM
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My interests, my career, my beliefs or lack thereof, my emotional sensitivity to name a few. Likely my taste in partner. The usual fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:26 PM
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No surprise there. I have the same issue, there's a lot about my nature my parents would change if they had the power. I'm sure your partner doesn't see your protectiveness as weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:19 PM
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Absolutely, we all wanna see the people we're close to safe and happy. The protective urge is special though, especially for a partner, it's a real statement for what they mean to you. It strikes me as noble aha, not weird at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:06 PM
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Yeah, I would. It's a broad enough issue for sure. How noble, that's definitely all anyone could ask for! A loving response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:01 PM
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My mind automatically went to the policing of masculinity. "It's not manly, it's not strong, so the knee-jerk reaction is to be repulsed and dissuade any expression like that." But I could never know. I'd imagine it's a more nuanced cause. What would you attribute it to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:45 PM
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Can I ask what you think about the topic on the whole? Think there's any truth to women rejecting the expression of negative emotion in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:42 PM
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I'm sorry you had that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:11 AM
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I didn't lose my card till 24. I wanted it to mean something, and a lot of girls were unwilling to play the long game. It's a strange experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:29 AM
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Would it be right to say your issue is with the superficial dating attitudes they enable in some people? And not necessarily the apps themselves, but on the whole you wouldn't miss them if they were gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:04 PM
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Are you opposed to dating apps? Their general existence and usage, not necessarily for you yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:54 PM
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Very good point, especially about looking inward. It's not talked about enough how people have the capacity to compromise or change perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:49 PM
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I think there are many who would hold out for the slim to none odds on their yellow flags. Tricky business. Really interesting question CimZim. I'd never heard the name yellow flag but it makes sense. I'll be stealing it to echo the discussion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:42 PM
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I think that's totally fair. Better for both parties that you don't compromise on the lives you want. Also really cool that a church goer is a yellow. It's important to be flexible when pursuing what you want in life, at least I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:32 PM
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The biggest one I suppose is eagerness. General fast pace on the side of the partner. I've not had a ltr in a long while and I struggle to motivate myself to get out there. When I do, it's always a toss up when someone wants things to progress quickly. Specific family relationship dynamics are another one aha. Do you have any?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:28 PM
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Mad respect for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:17 PM
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Exactly that. Gives credence to the whole idea of a spectrum. How we like to act, how we present and what we're comfortable calling ourselves. Different for everyone. Personally, I look quite broad and bulky but I'm in a female dominated line of work, nurturing and love to cook. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:03 AM
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Exactly that, in dating and every day presentation. In practice tends to attract a lot of femdom and muscle girl content (likely young or lonely guys) but that's the idea. Your manner in dating lines up with that idea so I thought I'd ask. There's probably a deeper conversation about how roles are defined and labelling but that's unnecessary here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:55 AM
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I like that definition 😂 especially the last part. So crucial. Sounds like a pleasant experience all in all. Have you seen the role reversal sub by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:48 AM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:44 AM
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Aah I gotcha. It's disappointing when you see examples like that. I suppose upholding an idea could be defined by one's ability to do so when it doesn't suit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:39 AM
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What are you getting at there? Are there bad actors you've seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:31 AM
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With a dedicated fwb huh, it is what it is I guess. I have seen that sub, it's a raw deal for many. An egalitarian perspective really shines when you ponder these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:24 AM
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That about lines up with what I've seen around me too. It's interesting. And no, it's not a small amount at all. I wonder if some guys are actually just upset with the amount of sex they're having.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:10 AM
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I share those views. It's pretty bleak for those who are rejected* From your perspective, is there any truth to the majority of women dating a small percentage of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:50 AM
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What're your views/thoughts on the incel topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:40 AM
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