WittyJoy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Anyone from Toronto? Start with complimenting people as you walk around, guys and girls. See if that helps you get more comfortable	/r/seduction	10/01/26 06:42 PM
1	Anyone from Toronto? Where do you go out in Toronto? Do any night game?	/r/seduction	09/01/26 02:41 PM
1	Getting back into the game at 45...and married I would get off the apps and meet women in real life. It's amazing what women will backwards rationalize as being ok with when there's great chemistry and attraction. On the apps with the illusion of abundance it's too easy to filter.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 05:36 PM
2	How to proceed when girl signals me in a club? Wave her over to you	/r/seduction	24/12/25 04:14 PM
3	Overcoming resistance - plenty of make outs but most dates/first encounters don't end in sex I would definitely not tell a girl that you're thinking of getting a hotel for the two of you. There is zero plausible deniability about what's going to happen if you get that hotel. If you're going to do that then say you booked a hotel in advance cause you didn't wanna drive or Uber or whatever. Bonus points if you've got some wine or drinks in the fridge... Now you're just going back just to have another drink.	/r/seduction	24/12/25 04:13 PM
3	Overcoming resistance - plenty of make outs but most dates/first encounters don't end in sex I'm someone that doesn't take girls to my house unless we've been getting together for a while (had a crazy stalker that made me absolutely paranoid) and can tell you that it can sometimes be a barrier but doesn't have to be if you make sure her logistics are good. You can also stay sober, drive, and offer her a ride back. Based on what you've written I would suggest absolutely not making out in the bar or club. Kills all the tension. In the last two years whenever I've finally kissed a girl it'…	/r/seduction	24/12/25 04:09 PM
3	Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025? I think bars are great because right off the bat it screens for people that want to go out and have a good time. I'm 41 and went out last weekend. I can echo what you're saying, lots of guys in their 20s completely clueless socially. And honestly so are the girls. Don't know if it's something to do with COVID or if it's a social media thing but girls are awkward socially, especially in their early 20s. Anyway, I just went and did my own thing, talked to anybody that was near me, guy or girl and …	/r/seduction	22/12/25 04:44 PM
2	Where would you go on a solo "vacation" if you had roughly one week (first week of November) and your goal was to give yourself the best chances for success in applying the strategies discussed here? Nashville	/r/seduction	27/10/25 09:20 PM
1	Built a daily Game trainer that gives you lessons, quests & drills I'll DM you	/r/seduction	23/10/25 08:40 PM
2	Built a daily Game trainer that gives you lessons, quests & drills That makes sense, I noticed the feedback leaned a bit that way. I think your app has a lot of potential as a feedback tool for real life interactions. I.e. listening to recordings of approaches and analysing them	/r/seduction	20/10/25 01:25 PM
10	Age gap - how to attract younger 41, In a similar situation a couple of years ago. Went through a lot of ups and downs, what worked for me is just going out there and being myself. I don't approach young looking girls (a mature looking late 20's that I mistake for 30s seems to be tendancy) but know that the age gap will be a non-negotiable for some, and a turn on for others. Women are all different, and will be different on different days. I've had it so many times now where a girl that made a show of trying to blow me out at t…	/r/seduction	20/10/25 01:22 PM
1	Built a daily Game trainer that gives you lessons, quests & drills I gave it a try, nice app. The feedback was pretty decent, curious how it'd handle different situations.	/r/seduction	19/10/25 09:34 PM
1	The best low-key places to meet women, since gym and clubs are boring. Bottomless brunch	/r/seduction	23/09/25 04:13 PM
43	Approach Women Sitting in Groups at Bars Hi everyone, I'm sorry to interrupt but I saw point to the girl you're interested in and if I didn't come say hi to her I would've regretted it later. Next step varies after their reaction -can I borrow her for a minute? -i have to join you for a minute (sit down) -etc	/r/seduction	31/08/25 02:23 AM
2	Too old at 43? Here are some ideas re: night game spots with women in their late 20's to 40's... Classic rock bars. Most cities have these, and it'll skew older. Tourist bars. If you're in a city that hosts conferences, events, etc... find out which bars are recommended by the conferences, doormen, hotel staff, etc. Not only do they skew older, but filled with people from out of town, and with hotel rooms nearby. The best nights here will be Thursdays though, not weekends. Bottomless brunch. Find a popular bot…	/r/seduction	15/06/25 02:22 PM
4	Pulling to hers? Start a conversation about where she lives / her logistics, etc. Find something cool about her place (the view, some random thing she has there)... Later on when it's time to leave say you'd love to go see whatever that thing was.	/r/seduction	26/04/25 03:32 PM
1	Austin TX location share Great man thanks. Can't wait to hit the streets there...	/r/seduction	27/03/25 06:37 PM
1	Austin TX location share I'm coming to Austin for the first time later this year .. so thanks for this list! Any of these spots cater to a 30s crowd?	/r/seduction	27/03/25 04:36 PM
1	Alt / goth / grunge dating apps If you're in the GTA there are so many alt bars and events every weekend, get off the apps and get out there	/r/seduction	27/03/25 04:33 PM
1	Can’t last more than 7 minutes Enjoy the tension, it means there's some chemistry. Fill it with something to build attraction. Try cold reads to get her qualifying. I.e. you seem really adventurous. I've gone on some dates lately with people that have never even left their home town, it's crazy to me ... See if she qualifies herself. Use whatever traits are important to you or that you're looking for in a partner.	/r/seduction	25/03/25 09:47 PM
2	Bar game hard for anyone else? If you have no issues engaging women and creating mutual interest, then make a conscious effort to start standing physically closer as the conversation moves forward. Make sure to keep making eye contact and look for her reactions.	/r/seduction	04/01/25 08:01 PM
1	How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women? Introduce them to eachother at the bar	/r/seduction	31/12/24 04:28 PM
1	Nothing to say/Mind going Blank Struggled with same. Best advice i can give is whatever the topic is that you feel is trailing off .. ask something about how she feels. Real life examples from recent convos: I'm an architect. -whats a project you were involved in that you would feel... so... proud... to show me. I'm in IT. -whats the most frustrating IT issue you've dealt with this week, something that made you blood boil? -show does it feel knowing that if you wanted to, you could absolutely ruin someone's day by messing with…	/r/seduction	28/12/24 06:56 PM
26	When it comes to approaching women, how many phone numbers have you got, and which places have you found the most success in? bars, restaurants, nightclubs, coffee shops, grocery stores, clothing stores, malls, or elsewhere? Don't focus on the number of numbers you get. Focus on having great interactions, being genuinely interested in someone and having them be interested in you, and building mutual chemistry. Neither will want the interaction to end, and numbers will be exchanged.	/r/seduction	23/12/24 07:56 PM
1	How did you get over approaching women at bars/clubs? (Toronto, Canada) Focus on outcome independence....approach without wanting to close. Try starting with a frame of you're bored and want to talk to someone and it happens to be a girl. You can even flat out say I'm bored and hoping you're interesting. If they're cold or put off by that then they're not interesting... Say that. They'll either be put off and immediately try and prove that they are or they don't and you go try someone else. Early on for me there were nights when i wasn't in the right frame of mind o…	/r/seduction	16/12/24 03:26 PM
2	How did you get over approaching women at bars/clubs? (Toronto, Canada) Was in the same boat as you, same city.... Eventually realised my approach anxiety was bullshit and needless. First off you have to feel like you're having fun. Feel like you're loving being out, need to have that vibe. Second just say the first thing that comes to mind when you approach, it doesn't matter what you say. I went out a couple of nights ago with a friend who's recently separated and to show him it didn't matter what your opener is I was walking up to women and pointing out what they…	/r/seduction	14/12/24 04:33 PM
6	Short infield -- a girl approached me at a bar I'll throw out the idea of her finding some other guy to buy her a drink and tell her to get me one too while she's at it. Maybe 1/4 of the time she'll actually come back with one lol	/r/seduction	16/11/24 04:07 PM
17	First date sex? Her house? You're a busy, high value guy. Hey I'll be in your area <blank> afternoon. Wanna grab a quick drink? / Go for a walk? / Grab a coffee? Escalate.	/r/seduction	27/10/24 02:45 PM
1	I'm looking for a wingman in Vaughan or North York Vaughan is a harder spot for day game, not a lot of foot traffic but been getting better in some areas... I work nearby	/r/seduction	20/10/24 09:03 PM
1	How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks? 'I only buy drinks for friends' then ask something to get her to qualify	/r/seduction	28/09/24 10:06 PM
7	How to go out alone without feeling awkward or judged? Just be honest.... 'I wanted to go out and socialize but all of my friends were staying in. I said fuck it I'm going out anyway and here I am. So who are you here with?'	/r/seduction	14/02/24 01:33 PM
2	Going to girls home vs yours I prefer hers.... If she's wanting to bring me back to her place it's a great filter for me. The intentions at that point are clear.	/r/seduction	07/02/24 09:45 PM