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| 1 | Women are, in fact, significantly more attracted to wealthy, high-status men regardless of their own attractiveness and age. This finding holds true either in the United States, China or even "Liberal Europe".You don't know how loyal those women are. | /r/BlackPillScience | 10/11/23 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"????? Africa is not a society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?You should look into tribes that still exist in Africa. What you’ll find is a variety of systems some of which are patriarchal, some matriarchal, and some more egalitarian. Tribal life was probably a lot more diversified than modern civilization in terms of the way they structured their presocieties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?I know and I’m saying that patriarchal societies are a relatively new development in the history and prehistory of humanity therefore it shouldn’t have that big of an effect on our DNA in terms of the male-female split. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?Do you realize that anatomically modern humans have been around for 250K years and the types of civilizations you're talking about have only been around for maybe 10K years(That's kind of stretching it tbh)? Considering how new society is, I don't think it has that much of an effect on our DNA in terms of ancestry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?I was talking about percentage. I was looking for the number that I saw a couple years ago but I can’t find it. Do you know if that 14% number controls for gender and income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?I’m answering your question. Your question wasn’t if RP is a good or bad philosophy. Your question was: what do women get out of rp? I answered it with FDS. RP is broad enough that both sexes can get value out of it in their own ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?FDS is also RP. RP is about the nature of the sexes. Everything else is just built off of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:54 PM |
| 3 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?What do you mean as proven by divorce stats? Women who work divorce more than women who don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Can body neutrality towards the attractiveness of someone who likes you lead to you being body positive towards their body or level of attractiveness?There may be some variation but there are underlying patterns that are cross-cultural. Check out the Wikipedia page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness?wprov=sfti1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolNot sure. My best guess is that you’re shooting too high above your weight class. I wouldn’t be able to tell you unless you doxxed yourself and these dudes which I don’t recommend for obvious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolIt’s a minority of men that have casual sex. Most men know that casual sex isn’t even really an option for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?I don’t see why you can’t look at both differences and similarities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:05 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject himWhat does “I don’t see us as a couple” mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?Change my opinion if you think otherwise. I actually would much rather have your opinion than mine but ultimately I can only believe in what I think is true not what I think is nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?Did you know that we have twice as many female ancestors in our dna than male ancestors? Inequality is baked into evolution and you can’t believe in evolution and “there’s someone for everyone”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?What would therapy do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?Okay, then why do women cheat? Do you have an alternative explanation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 7 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?The other solution would be to give extra help to struggling men rather than tie down women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolIt’s about the percentage of people who are rejecting you. If you’re only getting rejected by 20% of the opposite gender, you can cope and pivot, if you’re getting rejected by most or all of that same population, then you’re just fucked. It’s way worse to be at the bottom of the totem pole than the middle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolExcept that women only get p&d’d by the very top percentage of men. If they traded, they’d get rejected by the average dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolIf you get hit on more, it means you don’t have to do the hitting on which means you never have to put yourself in a position to get rejected. It also means you don’t have to put in as much work to get into an LTR and it’s been shown that prolonged loneliness is equivalent to smoking 15 packs of cigarettes a day in terms of shortening your lifespan. Source: https://extension.unh.edu/blog/2022/05/prolonged-social-isolation-loneliness-are-equivalent-smoking-15-cigarettes-day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolNo, I definitely agree with you here. It’s really just a question of magnitude. How about we do a couple of thought experiments: Think back through your life and think about how many men have hit on you, do you honestly think that the average dude has a similar experience? How about you think back on your LTR’s how active of a role did you take on the whole courting process vs how much effort your bf’s put in. Is it completely equal? Now imagine yourself as a straight dude, do you really think t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolNo I don’t. I didn’t say that. Also, you’re looking at men as products here. Think about what you’re saying. “I get a lot of options but they all suck”. Those options are people lol. If you think the majority of your options(aka men) are shit, don’t you think that dating must be harder for those said men? The “easy mode” comment is a relative statement. It means that dating for the median woman is easier than dating for the median man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolDating apps are just a place to meet people explicitly for dating. I also gave IRL equivalents like speed dating. My point is that it’s just much easier for women to have access to the opposite sex than the other way around. This isn’t just important for casual sex, this also increases your chances in ending up with a fulfilling partner as well simply because you have more exposure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:47 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolMen don’t commit because they don’t have to. If you want a dude to commit, just go for one without that many options. It’s really that easy. The median woman has more options than the median man. That means that women have the power, use it to your advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolOkay, I challenge you to go on any dating app, go to a speed dating event, or any other area where people are meeting up to date. I’m willing to bet that you’ll get a lot more success than a dude who has similar qualities to yourself. The thing that makes dating as a dude so much harder is that you have to be a lot more proactive to get a similar level of success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:31 PM |
| 5 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolYou actually are getting a benefit. The benefit you’re getting is more access to the opposite sex with less work required which can lead to more chances to get into a fulfilling relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:16 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolThat means that she is going to have to initiate 50 different times and get her ego torn up 50 different times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolNo matter what subgroup of woman you are, there is always some man out there who’s desperate for your attention. That’s what living on “easy mode” means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleI still don’t think it’s “on you”. You didn’t really choose to have a shy disposition. I think if we had an overall more considerate society it would be a good thing. It’s still important to be able to recognize where the real problem lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleNo one wants to be invisible. The only people who feel like that are people who don’t know how that feels like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 10 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleHave you considered that this discrimination has more to do with your introversion rather than your gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 10 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Not just some men are about looks. Most definitely are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestI doubt that women are building up their body solely through calisthenics and bands. Nobody really does that. Even most of the really popular YouTube calisthenics people built their base from lifting weights. Lifting is the most trackable way of building up your body regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 09:59 PM |
| 3 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestPlenty of men have home gyms too. I doubt the difference is so high between the genders that it makes much of a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 3 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestIn terms of fitness, all you have to do is go to any gym near you and see for yourself that it’s an overwhelming sausage fest practically all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, I definitely agree with everything you said. I still think that men kinda want the same thing that women do but just with more sex. There’s a reason this meme got so popular a year back: https://youtu.be/aSzyI93e_zY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:46 PM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s the most female answer I’ve seen on this sub lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat does the evidence indicate? That most men want harams? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIsn’t that the same for most men? I don’t know any many men who genuinely want a haram. At most, men just want to be seen as attractive to the majority of women but I think that’s the same for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat is the female reproductive fantasy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you have casual sex with men you don’t find physically attractive? If so, why? I’m seriously curious because I’ve never heard this perspective before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is because it isn’t a guarantee for men that women will find you physically attractive even if you actively go to the gym and are very healthy. It’s different for women because as long as your young and at a healthy BMI it’s pretty much guaranteed that the average dude will find you attractive. This is why men need some sort of validation that they are indeed sexually and physically attractive to their significant other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t think the numbers actually add up considering that younger generations are bigger than older generations. There are either a lot of lying/coping dudes or a lot of gay dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialIf a relationship is so fragile that having sex too early would break it, it sounds like it was a relationship that was doomed from the beginning tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:28 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialHow? Because it genuinely sounds like this girl just wasn’t that sexually attracted to this guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialBut is he wrong tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialBut you’re also being told that they don’t want to have mindless sex with you either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 02:41 PM |
| -1 | What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022?A lot of men genuinely fear women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:24 AM |
| 2 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?I’m just having a convo on the internet lol. It’s not like it’s that much effort to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?I don’t have to take accountability for shit. I’m my own person with no real ties to any of this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 05:48 AM |
| 4 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?That’s because people who are the most angry are going to be the most vocal. There’s a lot of selection biases going on with commenters from the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:06 AM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?This is basically the stage that a lot of early red pillers go through when they realize that the love they see in romcoms and Disney movies isn’t really a thing and that relationships are a lot more transactional. Usually it’ll express itself in dumb sayings like “fEmAle nAtUre” or “all wOmEN aRE shALLOw”. It’s a dumb, destructive stage but it seems to be necessary/inevitable that most men who have been exposed to the red pill go through at one point or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:38 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?You’re talking to different people on the internet lol. You’re not seeing one person’s full journey. New dudes are being introduced to the red pill every day and so the rage stage is always going to be filled to the brim regardless of others growing out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Lol. I think we’re in agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:14 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Meh. Outside of the constant rage bait and ridiculous prescriptive statements, most of the descriptive statements of rp are pretty on point. I do acknowledge that the rp doesn’t take a very wholistic approach when it comes to analyzing the dating landscape and it could benefit from looking at things from a different perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:08 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Lol okay. People who tend to be as sure as you are tend to be the most wrong. The world is a lot more complicated than it initially seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:59 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Really? How do you know? You don’t know what you don’t know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:54 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Lol. Perfect example of you don’t know what you don’t know. This is like people who say that all plastic surgery makes people look worse because they’ve seen a few overdone/botched surgeries and think that’s the only type of plastic surgery because they don’t notice the more subtle/realistic surgeries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:53 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?That’s why he said once they’re outside the rage stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:46 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?That’s why he said once they’re outside the rage stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:46 PM |
| 3 | What n count makes someone promiscuous, in your mind? Open to all genders.That’s their point. You have to be attractive and charming to have a high n count as a dude. Not really the same as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleI didn’t say all of Africa was nightmare difficulty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleSounds like you’re bitter that you don’t have the life of a Stacy. Do you think you might’ve put a little projection into your post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 08:14 PM |
| 12 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleI think he’s saying that men overall find women more attractive than women overall find men attractive. Men are still plenty attractive to gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 08:10 PM |
| 10 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleNot nightmare difficulty. Nightmare difficulty only exists in Africa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?The interesting difference that I find between TRP and FDS is that much of the TRP(mainly PUA) has to do with getting closer to women whereas most of the FDS has to do with getting away from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 07:24 PM |
| 2 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.Another point that OP is unknowingly making is that people are going to act in whatever behaviors lead to the outcomes that they desire. So if acting in a toxicly masculine way leads to getting laid, more men will act that way. In this case, toxic masculinity would be reinforced by women and would only really change once we start rewarding some other archetype of man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.Isn’t that true for every behavior(negative or positive)? We’re all the result of our environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | What happens to men who struggle in dating?Attractive women are like 60% of women in their 20’s. It’s not exactly an exclusive group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 09:20 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?25% def wouldn’t be. The beauty standard is prob between 20-25% for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Dieting is easy as fuck. Literally just don’t eat. It’s that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Poor gigabecky, she can’t find a Chad who’s willing to be in a ltr with her. 😭😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?So basically women are the gatekeepers of relationships since they’re the ones with the choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS is less about self improvement and knowing your worth and more about getting back and every man or every woman in existenceMeh. Sucky people are abundant and evenly distributed across all ideologies since ideologies are mostly aesthetic in present day anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:26 PM |
| 4 | What is your opinion on men that read books or watch videos to get better with women?Only an idiot would actually tell you that they had to learn how to talk to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:15 PM |
| 16 | The ultimate freedom for a man is to free himself of the notions of being a "loser" or "winner"They say: “discriminatory employment practices” You say: “ Can men not get a job?” Great counter 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)Yeah, I know, but I’m pretty into fitness so I know what these different body fat percentages look like on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 02:13 PM |
| 10 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)That’s not in shape at all. 15-18% is moderately fit. That’s a fair description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Dating sucks for everyoneYou kind of can make people do things that they don’t want to do when you bring in the law and the absolute force of the state. That’s what makes divorce different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | In regards to "average women think they can lock down a hot guy who sleeps with them but they can't" - Well how do YOU know that?Good Luck. I hope you get the life that you’re looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | In regards to "average women think they can lock down a hot guy who sleeps with them but they can't" - Well how do YOU know that?As a fellow black-piller, I kind of agree. The thing is, I’ve been thinking that maybe we’ve been putting ourselves in a negative feedback loop that is keeping us from living our best lives. Perhaps pursuing love is worth all the pain and suffering that will inevitably come from that pursuit even if it ultimately ends in failure. Also maybe not. It feels like there is no perfect answer in this shitty game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | In regards to "average women think they can lock down a hot guy who sleeps with them but they can't" - Well how do YOU know that?I guess you don’t believe in love. Everything’s just transactional and zero sum. I kind of see where you’re coming from but doesn’t that perspective just feel so cold and hopeless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Using Maslow's Hierarchy as a way for men and women to empathize with each other's sexuality experience.Damn, that sucks. You were/are this guy’s friend tho so you clearly do think he had redeeming qualities. What do you see in him to be his friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeOh, I didn’t know that. That makes me feel a little better about marriage and relationships in general. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeDo the majority of people even get that anymore in their lifetimes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeBut what’s even the point if it doesn’t last? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Dating sucks for everyoneA man can’t waste any of a woman’s time unless that woman lets them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Using Maslow's Hierarchy as a way for men and women to empathize with each other's sexuality experience.If you could go back in time to try to save your friend, what advice would you give him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeRight and that’s where the super vast majority of relationships end up. I brought up marriages because obviously a lesser percentage of those will end than normal relationships and even the majority of those relationships end. It seems like the majority of people in our society will never get the type of relationship where two people respect and are devoted to each other and it feels so hopeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeMaybe a platonic kind of respect but not the type of respect that you should be getting from a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeYou clearly don’t get that much respect in a relationship if the majority of marriages(which is supposed to be the highest form of a relationship) end in divorces. I’m sure there’s a minority of relationships out there where there is an abundance of respect but I don’t think it’s the norm in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.Volcels don’t count lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeIf that’s true then why do most marriages end in divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?It’s a need from a validation standpoint. It doesn’t make sense from the female perspective because it’s so easy for women to get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.With her husband or ex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.That’s the go-to offense from everyone lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:44 AM |
| -5 | For a subreddit with so many open socialists, I still cannot fucking BELIEVE that MensLib explicitly bans discussion of "paper abortion"I’ve heard of vasectomies that could be reversed. I haven’t really looked into it as I’m a turbo virgin so it doesn’t really matter for me but you should prob look into it since it seems relevant to you. Good luck out there bro! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/21 01:52 AM |
| -12 | For a subreddit with so many open socialists, I still cannot fucking BELIEVE that MensLib explicitly bans discussion of "paper abortion"Why don’t you get a vasectomy if you never want kids? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | what do we think of this spiking story?If that’s the case, then that’s kinda dumb. I don’t really see the point in protests just to make noise with no actual call to action. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 19 | what do we think of this spiking story?This seems fine. Spiking drinks is a real fear that a lot of women share. What are the measures/solutions that they’re calling for? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How do men here feel about being the 'providers and protectors' of women?I think I’d prefer the female role but I’m also a lazy person by nature lol. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/21 01:24 AM |
| 18 | I am a woman. I am autistic. I don't see how this sub is supposedly misogynistic or hateful.Pretty much the only reason people call this sub misogynistic is that the existence of this sub breaks their narrow worldview and they aren't open-minded enough to actually listen and adapt their ideas and worldviews accordingly. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/21 01:24 AM |
| 8 | Left Wing Male Dating Advice - That actually worksYes, but because of the common left rhetoric, it pushes so many men to the right. I think that all these young men who are far-right would actually be liberal if the left was inclusive of them and their issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 14 | Left Wing Male Dating Advice - That actually worksIt’s worse than that. Feminist theory can actually be pretty nuanced and a lot of times are systemic critiques. The problem is that many feminists reduce these concepts down to men bad, women good. It seems like many feminists aren’t even equipped to understand their own theories. For instance, intersectionality is actually very inclusive of men’s problems and realizes that men and women’s problems are actually interconnected. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/09/21 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Left Wing Male Dating Advice - That actually worksThe most painful part about this particular inequality is that there is no fix to it. It’s baked into evolution/biology itself. Sexual selection is a phenomenon that is not just cross-culture but cross-species and it is always males who are under this pressure because of how much cheaper it is for males to reproduce than females. Honestly the only solution to this inequality that also doesn’t trample on anyone’s liberty is robot gf’s but that’s still a loooooooong ways away. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/09/21 08:06 PM |
| 0 | What is the difference between r/mensrights and this sub?Sure, of course. Everyone believes that. The problem is that no one knows what equal rights and a future that benefits everyone actually looks like but everyone has a little piece of the puzzle which is their perspective. That’s why you need all the separate advocacy groups, to advocate for their individual perspectives and through hashing it out hopefully we come to an amicable result. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/21 12:48 AM |
| -1 | What is the difference between r/mensrights and this sub?I believe we do because we all have our individual biased perspectives. I believe if everyone was able to speak honestly and genuinely about their own individual problems we would be able to come together and find the best solution for everyone. To represent these opposing perspectives, we need advocacy groups for each. Perhaps there can be an egalitarian group as well that can be used as a mediary but I don’t believe we can reach the best possible future with only generic advocacy groups becaus… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/21 07:04 PM |
| -2 | What is the difference between r/mensrights and this sub?Maybe hate is the wrong word. r/mensrights tend to dwell on women a lot more than here. This sub talks a lot more on what men need/don’t have than on what feminism gives women. I’m not talking about “by the traditional definition” of feminism which isn’t the traditional definition btw. What people call the trad definition is “feminism means gender equality guys!”. Whereas the real trad definition is “the advocacy of women’s rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes”. I still believe that … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/21 06:37 PM |
| -3 | What is the difference between r/mensrights and this sub?None of us hate women and we support feminism and believe that men need a movement that advocates for gender equality from men’s side like women have with feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Toward a new theory of gender: an evolutionary take on the rigidity of the male gender roleI think you misunderstood where I was coming from. I didn't mean that he wasn't welcome here or anything. I meant he should try to find some queer communities IRL since they won't be as heteronormative and he doesn't want to conform. It was just friendly advice. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/21 05:36 AM |
| -5 | Toward a new theory of gender: an evolutionary take on the rigidity of the male gender roleThat sucks to hear man. Maybe you should try to find some queer communities. I’m sure they would be more open. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/21 10:25 PM |
| 6 | Toward a new theory of gender: an evolutionary take on the rigidity of the male gender roleI wish. I feel like a lot of people(both male and female) feel a lot of genuine disgust to even the idea of a men’s rights movement. I just don’t see it taking off, especially with the bootstraps mentality that is constantly given towards us. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/21 09:38 PM |
| -1 | Toward a new theory of gender: an evolutionary take on the rigidity of the male gender role“I wanna be myself” What is “myself”? There are so many epigenetic and environmental effects that can completely change you to the point of unrecognizability. Is that still you? You are just a product of your environment and you can change that ‘you’ to be more suited towards the environment around you. I’m of the personal opinion that a “true you” is an illusion created by the stories and media told to you as a kid(similar to free will but that’s a whole different can of worms). My point is tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/21 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Toward a new theory of gender: an evolutionary take on the rigidity of the male gender roleNew here, what does MRM mean? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/21 09:19 PM |
| -4 | Toward a new theory of gender: an evolutionary take on the rigidity of the male gender roleYou can make it man! Start going to the gym and eating healthier! It’ll be a slow process(meaning years) but over time your hormonal balance will get better and you’ll naturally start to get more masculine. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/21 09:18 PM |
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