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Fair perspective! Honestly it's likely all down to the individual. Some men never grow up and some do in their 30s, some in their 20s. I just wasn't ever presented with that option so i went with what was available and compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:53 PM
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I was once a young woman who dated older men. I start off dating guys my age but they all either failed to want to mature as fast as i needed or were unfaithful. I saw older men as more viable because they knew what they wanted and were stable. Also felt they were better in bed but that's just an opinion and this is from a very limited pool so maybe not a rule just something i experienced. So for me, younger men meant more fun and often more attractive but ultimately unstable and couldn't often …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:31 PM
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I agree it's absurd, but i always assumed it was so there wasn't any accidental side boob touching or anything that would look inappropriate in the photo. If they can touch you, you should be able to touch them! At the appropriate level lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 07:53 PM
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I'll give you that generally men are content with less, but it's still such an over exaggeration to say women are never satisfied. There are people like that on both sides of the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 09:05 PM
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Women are literally never satisfied with anything. People are never satisfied with anything. Not specific to one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:14 PM
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I agree that the men women are attracted to at their 20's are the hot, wild kind and that we would love to keep those guys around as a more permanent thing, but at that age anymore, no one is ready to settle and tastes haven't fully developed. Typically those guys don't make good partners like OP said and usually lack the maturity she's already showing. BUT tastes change. My early 20's, i wouldn't think twice about a father playing with/taking care of his kids, but now in my late 20's it's a hug…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 07:39 PM
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Please re-read my original comment. He is that way. It is his personality. I think his personality is sexy. He is strong. He takes care of his own shit. But he does know if he needs to he can come to me he can. But that is rare. I do not encourage or discourage him being open to me. If he wants to, he will. Let me rephrase my original post a bit. My BF does this organically and it's sexy. Him not being all over me is refreshing. He is a strong, funny and a wild man but he keeps to himself inside…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:22 PM
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Being strong is a turn on? Who would have thought. Don't make the mistake thinking that I've detailed everything about my relationship on this post and that you can pull this assumption from it and judge me. We are, and have been vulnerable. It has it's place though and no, it is not sexy. Its intimate and can be scary at times. But rarely is it sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:04 PM
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I assume you mean failed to be vulnerable? Even then, still not sure what you mean. Anywho. He's not suffering, and i would never want him to hurt, let alone encourage it. Move on. You don't know of what you speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 10:18 PM
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Thank you. He hasn't shown me anything less yet. =]
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 07:54 PM
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I like it, simple and to the point =].
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:00 PM
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Could it not be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 01:29 PM
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Couldn't agree more. =)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:35 AM
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I enjoy it. Can't speak for all women, but it really drives me up a wall in the best of ways. And honestly i think some women are incapable of analyzing their relationship past the surface, or are unwilling to admit that there is some kind of trade off and not just this magical love that's been shoved down our throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:34 AM
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My BF is like this to an extent. He let slip that he feels like I'm his real shot at something lasting and solid. But his behavior is not clingy and it draws a lot of desire for attention on my side. He treats me better than anyone has, but he still holds to himself. He lets me in, but only as far as he wants me. Keeps the mystery there and makes me feel like I love him more than he does me ( while not making me feel unloved). I always feel like he could do better, but he's never shown doubt in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:07 AM
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Yes! He still mentions sometimes how it's strange, but nice, that I'm independent. I'm sure sometimes it's what the individual lady wants, to be taken care of all around. But majority of the time i feel like it's just a tradition of sorts that really needs to be broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 11:56 AM
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That's because culture has dictated this. Men pay and work to take care of the family so to demonstrate, men will pay for dates. My BF took the longest time to not have the immediate reaction to pay for everything as that's how his exs and their families wanted things. Very old school. Quality partners will not expect men to pay for everything. I pay my own way or take turns and i have a few friends who are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 10:23 AM
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Alone forever! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 10:16 AM
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Beg to differ. Attractiveness doesn't make up for being less of a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 09:53 AM
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Thank you, truly. I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:29 PM
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I was entitled to it as we had an understanding that we both knew everything. I was promised and told i knew everything. It was naive to believe him, there's always something. I was looking for security in knowledge because even then i didn't fully trust him. The relationship was full on toxic, emotionally abusive and physically a few times. But i held tight and tried because i thought at the core, he was a good guy, just going through something. We'd have these break downs where the bad would p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 09:22 AM
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Sounds like you've only experienced abusive and manipulative relationships. For that, i feel for you. It must be difficult. I've had my share, but with anything, it's some, not all. Some people will cheat, some won't. Some will use your weaknesses against you, some won't. I hope you find stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:21 PM
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No point in even trying to argue with someone so well put together. You've clearly got life figured out. I wish you well in your future endeavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:08 PM
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Sexuality hate comes from all angles and all sides. I get it, as a female, my sexuality is more generally accepted cause i have a vagina. Everything is looked at differently. But that also means i see the ugly side of this coin as well. No one gets away in this society free of some sexual shame or whatever you want to call it. You can't have the whole world cushioned for you. Not everyone is going to like everything you like or do. But of course, this is only from my perspective. I believe in be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:55 PM
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It's an important part for me because we had divulged every bit of our lives together, we knew each other better than anyone. Except this one bit. It was more of a betrayal than anything because i gave him the platform to be honest. I accepted everything else he threw at me. We lived together for 5 years, he popped my pimples, ive seen him shit, we talked about our biggest secrets. We were completely comfortable with each other. But for some reason i couldn't access this last bit of him. I gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:25 PM
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From my experience, for some people, yes. It's easier to be open and comfortable with yourself, by yourself, than to be completely open with someone else. Let alone finding someone you can trust to do that. Even sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 12:23 PM
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As with anything it's always more complicated. With my specific situation, he was turning away what could have been a healthy sex life in favor of what he'd been doing since before we were together and he felt he could never tell me. Even when prompted. So in my mind he was fulfilling a sexual urge that i can't compete with. It was convenient, private and habitual. Porn helps create these fetishes and they can become shameful to the person who has them. I never blamed him for being into what he …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:55 AM
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High libido
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:27 AM
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I'm a HL female who likes having an active and varied (positions,toys etc) sex life. But monogamy is important. My ex fiancee still chose porn and internet women to fulfill his cock worshipping fantasies. I asked him so many times to tell me what his fantasies are so i can try to fulfill them. Sometimes he'd divulge a kink, but he didn't become honest till i caught him messaging other women and lying to them. There's a big long story and i know why he did what he did. It was addiction to porn an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:45 PM
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I was paying most the bills in my long term relationship. At 23. =/ am female. Was/am becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:57 AM
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Its like he's in denial. I live in a large city and i can safely say idk anyone personally, male or female, who has been with more than 13 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:13 PM
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As previous fat girl, i crushed hard on pretty much anyone who showed me any interest. Ive dated some really unattractive guys because they were good to me and that in itself made them more appealing. Now that im not overweight i can pull guys that were previously out of range for me and my standards have risen. But not in appearance even though i could pull a few 'Chads'. I still don't date based on physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:46 AM
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5'5, light brown shoulder length hair. 150 lbs but i wear it very well. Face shape like erika christensen. Proud member of the itty bitty titty committee. Large hips resulting in an amazing hourglass shape, small waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:41 AM
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Am female. No clue what a female social network is. =/ feels like this is something i should have learned in female 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 03:11 AM
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Virginity doesn't seem like a big deal anymore. Least for me and the 2 i was with. If anything it feels nice that they chose me to have their first time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 02:45 PM
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Realised that right after i typed it all out. Lol this ought to be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:04 AM
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I would. Always had a lot of sympathy for guys who were a bit older and virgins. Though i know a lot of the time its due to the guy having something going on with him that prevents it, (social awkwardness, not conventionally attractive, overweight etc) i still think its unfair for them to not get to experience it yet and would find it fun to provide someone their first time. As long as there's not something really wrong like he's an ass or unclean, anything like that. I've been with 2 virgins an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 04:01 AM
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