WodeAndLoade Archive

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5	Some things I've learned in trying to find HV people (friendships and romantic relationships) Heck yes to remembering things about people - AND THE LISTENING THING!! I recently 'made friends' with somebody who is a really good fit in theory, but they rang me and just chewed my ear off for an hour, barely leaving me any space to contribute to the conversation. They actually asked me what I thought at one point and no word of a lie I got half a sentence out before they interrupted and continued. It was super weird and disorientating, because I hadn't read them to be that type of a person a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 01:20 PM
8	Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me up What IS that about? I've had the same rule for years but I don't understand why they don't like to use the word women, only females. Is it a dehumanising thing?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 12:53 PM
3	Coffee & Walk Dates Lack Chemistry BY DESIGN Ooft. Hugs. Xxx	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 12:39 PM
18	Coffee & Walk Dates Lack Chemistry BY DESIGN Oh god. Flashback to my early twenties and being invited to the local pub with a friend of my housemate. I actually invited all my housemates too because I didn't realise it was a date, and the one who was the mutual friend laughed so hard and told me the guy liked me and was trying to make a date with me. I dragged him along to make it clear it was just mates in the pub. Date-not-a-date guy was furious with mutual friend for coming and shot him daggers all night long 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 12:38 PM
2	“sUB dROp” 🤦🏾‍♀️ Is it woman punishing themselves? The women I know who are heavily into kink were convinced to get into it by an older male, often when they were questionably young. Several of the women now recognise those specific relationships as abusive, but are still into the scene. I think the manipulation of brain chemicals through extreme experiences is a powerful drug. I see it as they're hooked on the brain chemical experience.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 09:17 AM
47	Thoughts from a Former "Submissive" I thought about getting into the kink community at one point. I had friends who were very open about it, and invited me to be introduced to their world. For me in the end my decision came down to one thing. I would never want to be with somebody who took any sort of enjoyment or satisfaction from my pain or suffering. The basic concept is so fucked up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 12:26 AM
6	Murder vs. menstruation "Blowjob week" 🤢 Shut up and get me a hot water bottle, you bottom feeding snake	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 11:02 AM
1	All the emotional labor, organizing and managing being pushed on the woman, who would have known? This is why multiple partners are not beneficial for women, instead of one man baby, she now has two of them. Oh yes this! Although it's not for me I am, or at least was, fairly supportive of other people's choices to be poly. But the amount of times that they would go off on one unprompted to me about how dIsGuStInG and UnNaTuRaL monogamy is, despite knowing that it was my choice was utterly disrespectful and very much all about attack as defence 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 04:57 PM
5	Once more for those in the back! (Credit: Tumblr user Autistic Abby/Stimabby, 2015) Something that shocked me recently was stumbling upon one of those subs and the claim that we are all narcissistic gold diggers with no empathy and use men for their money (um no, the whole message of FDS is on brand with financial independence) while the incel movement is just harmless people who have depression (aka a lonely dick). It boggled my eyes that there were people who genuinely thought that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 12:35 PM
104	If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums. Once you've experienced a lover who makes sure you get yours at least once every time I promise you you'll never accept less again. Even my last cringeworthily LVM managed it. Him starting to count how many orgasms I had in one session while he had one or two is one of the red flags that finally made me leave him tbh. My last two lovers totally transformed how I feel about it. Never again will I accept unsatisfying sex. I pray to the universe to send you a skilled and generous lover soon!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:05 AM
7	Do I just accept that men are disgusting behind our backs? Whether or not he's paying when he watches abused and trafficked women be raped isn't where the line should be.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 09:21 PM