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1

They are as much into you as a straight guys is into other guys. Like 0%.
/r/seduction29/06/12 08:21 AM
6

Yes, it's more like a giving up. I don't care because I fear failing if I try.
/r/seduction29/06/12 07:14 AM
8

That was Chad's plan from the start, my friend, if he calls, we both know where this will end...
/r/seduction29/06/12 07:10 AM
14

And even if she had other plans, if he did well she'd probably drag him along to go out with the other girl. Nothing was set in stone. She just wanted an exit if he ended up being a lame ass, I guess he solved that for her.
/r/seduction27/06/12 09:26 AM
1

Nothern Europe. It's not expected at all, and never has been an issue for me.
/r/seduction25/06/12 02:11 PM
10

It is known.
/r/seduction25/06/12 10:47 AM
1

That's why I added the question about it being a cultural thing. It's just not that common where I live. Most girls propose to pay there part and it's not expected to pay as a guy.
/r/seduction25/06/12 10:32 AM
1

There are some really stong products against sweat that work very well. You should see a doctor or go to a pharmacy and ask for it. It is NOT your typical Axe, etc. Those things don't work at all. There are products that just completely stop transpiration for a week. Well, I don't know if it exists for the head, but it does for more traditional locations.
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:16 PM
2

Is this really happening that often that it becomes a problem where we need to think about it and have strategies for it. Must be a cultural thing.
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:09 PM
6

She basicly told him she wanted to give her number.
/r/seduction22/06/12 10:40 AM
2

New passive unlocked: "Father: you loose 10 gold per second"
/r/seduction21/06/12 09:09 AM
1

dtf?
/r/seduction11/06/12 12:53 PM
1

Well 90% of r/seduction is self improvement. For you, self improvement will lead to a higher self-esteem. It's hard to feel like failure, when you have the biggest chest in the room and all the attractive girls are eying you the whole night, you see! :)
/r/seduction11/06/12 12:47 PM
1

Well you count the number of times every girl in the room blinks over a certain amount of time. It's important that you have a large enough pool of girls, and spend at least 30 minutes per girl in order to have sound blinking data. Then you ask every girl you don't want to date if they are on birth control. Now calculate the average of both groups. If things went ok there should be a 32% difference between the average number of blinks between both groups. Now if there's an error you'll need to a…
/r/seduction11/06/12 12:44 PM
1

Many young girls like older guys, however it's up to you what you feel good about. I would never date early 20's as I don't want to go through that kind of shit anymore. I'm out of shool and working and want someone who's in the same 'categorie'.
/r/seduction11/06/12 12:36 PM
1

You sir, have never been to a real gay bar.
/r/seduction11/06/12 12:32 PM
1

It's not tough when you feel good about it.
/r/seduction08/06/12 12:46 PM
1

"Hi, what's your name?" works well on bartenders.
/r/seduction08/06/12 12:38 PM
1

You should try to be less in public next time! ;)
/r/seduction08/06/12 12:29 PM
2

It's your job. You're the one who has to take the step. Just fucking do it already. She's so obvious! It's just you who can't believe it, the rest of us are thinking "dude, dude? dude!"
/r/seduction08/06/12 12:23 PM
2

S.H.E. W.A.N.T.S. Y.O.U. I spelled it out for you. :)
/r/seduction08/06/12 12:21 PM
1

Someone else getting thirsty?
/r/seduction08/06/12 12:20 PM
1

I'll ask my friend the nuclear scientist if he can check it.
/r/seduction08/06/12 12:19 PM
1

Stop giving a fuck. Be friendly because you want to be friendly, without expectations.
/r/seduction08/06/12 11:47 AM
1

They probably think: "What a friendly person." On your second round they think "wtf, another friendly person". End of the day they go inside and tell there husband "wtf, there were 5 nice people today, all saying hi to me." As long as you don't go looking through there badroom windows, noone will notice you. Be friendly to everyone, practice.
/r/seduction08/06/12 11:40 AM
1

the fuck!
/r/seduction08/06/12 11:29 AM
1

You have made such a big step just by realising you need to change yourself. I've lived a big part of my life without realising how many things I was doing wrong. You are in control of how people react to you! It's like magic! Read around these forums, start working on yourself and your attitude. Do it FOR YOURSELF, not for some girl. For me this forum is not about seduction, these are life lessons which help you become a better person.
/r/seduction08/06/12 11:29 AM
19

It's easy for women, just smile and wait... and wait.... and wait some more.........! Ha, ha, that must be... terriblel! ;)
/r/seduction08/06/12 09:49 AM
13

It's about girls!
/r/seduction08/06/12 08:18 AM
1

Did they look away or did they return the eye contact?
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:28 PM
1

There is no way of knowing? Maybe it's because she's unhappy. Is this so unlikely? There are many bad couples who married for all the wrong reasons. I find it strange that you forgive the wife, because she's the victim, being used by a douchebag in her one moment of weakness. *facepalm
/r/seduction30/05/12 03:30 PM
1

Maybe the husband is the asshole douche bag from which the girl is trying to escape. You make it seem like they live in happy perfect land, and the evil third party douche bag is taking her away in her two minutes of weakness. Most of the time it's not a worst week, but a worst 5 years, and the thought of infidelity is ever present. Escape from the husband, which she's forced to live with because of children, mutual possesion and all sort of other contracts.
/r/seduction30/05/12 08:57 AM
2

It's always a risk. We guys need to take initiative. However, you can try to take the lead by taking the decision in front and not leave everything open for her to decide. So by stating an exact place and day, you make it clear to her that she can go out with you, but only at your convenience on that specific day. Now you probably think, but what if I take a day where she is busy. Doesn't this reduce my chances by a lot. Yes and no. Off course, it's always a risk, but if she says she's busy, cha…
/r/seduction30/05/12 08:32 AM
1

Who's scruffy-looking?
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:35 PM
1

Next time set the date yourself. Like: "let's meet up next... at...". If she declines and doesn't make a counter offer, just ignore her. Don't ask her when and where. Take decissions yourself. (= don't chase her, you lead)
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:33 PM
1

He's taken, sorry.
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:30 PM
1

And then she'll be dating the guys with the nice car he can't afford, and you'll be listening to her stories about how he's toxic and bad for her and how she wants a nice guy for once.
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:29 PM
1

So your arguments are: - I read Kant - You don't get it. - You missed the point.
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:22 PM
1

Twice???
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:16 PM
1

However, if she doesn't cheat with me, she'll just do it with someone else.
/r/seduction29/05/12 12:29 PM
1

and no pussy...
/r/seduction29/05/12 12:06 PM
5

PUA Yoda. Until he meets the girl that tells him: "your mind powers will not work on me, boy."
/r/seduction29/05/12 12:01 PM
1

You try to hard. You show that you want to do everything in order to match her shedule to meet up. It's obvious and you become easy to get and unintresting.
/r/seduction29/05/12 11:49 AM
1

Still, I know some people for whom it worked well.
/r/seduction29/05/12 11:33 AM
2

or overdoing it.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:36 PM
1

Oh no guys, they're catching on to our secret plan. They've finally realised we're working hard on ourselves, to become phisycally attractive and socially skilled. The end of times is near. Soon all women will be surrounded by extremely attractive guys and none of them will want to make babies. Oh nooooo!
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:30 PM
1

Do something about your looks. You say yourself you're self-conscious about them. Don't give yourself crap and lies. Whatever it is, there's always a way to improve it ten-fold or improve other parts if you have no control over it. Start working out, eat healthy, ... YOU WILL FEEL A LOT MORE CONFIDENT! By the way, that old woman would have loved nothing more than you talking to her. Every old person looses friends at an alarming number and gets isolated. They love to talk to everyone if you're c…
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:25 PM
1

The real question is: how did you end up watching this movie...
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:18 PM
1

Is there drink coming out of their noses during uncontrollable shrieks of laughter?
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:17 PM
1

Are guys really still doing this?
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:15 PM
1

You deserve it, but we'll let you pass for now.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:10 PM
1

To me the nice guys are the victims being conned by the picture our culture paints about seducing women. So by reading all this, they stop being the victim and can start to compete on equal ground with the assholes.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:09 PM
1

A lot of what she says is sound advice. Not really for r/seduction, where a lot of PUA stuff is included in the advice. This includes shortcuts for people to increase their chances, which aren't always morally sound.
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:51 PM
1

You sound like a normal girl. I don't understand why this is even under discussion. Girls always ask to split. It's up to the guy to decide if he pays the whole bill, but in the end it gets him nothing. I sometimes pay the bill and let her pay the drinks afterwards (if it's less!). Mostly because I really don't care about the money, but don't want to put them on the pedestal.
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:15 PM
1

They never propose that themselves?
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:11 PM
1

It's personal, my 10 might be your 6.
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:04 PM
1

The first guy wasn't doing bad. To be honnest she sounds kind of intrested. The second guy is terrible. He can't even handle waiting for a reaction and reacts aggresive of the bat in a second message. If he handles his business in such a way, he wont be a millionaire long. :) I don't like this kind of game, but gratz if it works for you. I just set a date and go from there.
/r/seduction24/05/12 01:52 PM
5

WTF is happening here. Just break up in person and be clear and honest about it. Don't play with people.
/r/seduction24/05/12 01:25 PM
1

Yeah, that's the idea. I would always use condoms, but 96% protection against pregnancy becomes a lot worse once you start doing it multiple times.
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:03 AM
1

People sometimes suggest to try to fail as hard as possible. You need to loose that hurting feeling when you get rejected. The best way to do this is to experience rejection and notice how it affects exactly 0 aspects of your life. The moment you care about any of that, you'll end up with the feelings you had. You already have bigger balls than 99% of all men by approaching 7 girls on a night. But you fail, because you show inconfidence, and that's probably because you fear the outcome, namely b…
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:03 PM
2

Like VMikeL says, your height is only important when you allow it to be. It's hard to overcome such things but compensate in other fields. Start doing some fitness and bulk up if needed, wear some nice clothes, learn about stuff that intrests you. Why? Not to impress, but to feel confident. It's all between the ears. You have full control of how 99% of people will see you. They'll see you like you see yourself. Meet their gaze, show confidence, smile, have fun and show it.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:53 AM
1

not on the pill
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:41 AM
2

and still you convinced everyone she did...
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:40 AM
1

my best friend wants me to date his sister :(
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:39 AM
1

Sometimes it just doesn't work out. If girls act that way, it might be because she isn't comfortable and it's up to you to make her comfortable.
/r/seduction21/05/12 10:16 AM
1

I'm actually a grandpa and this is my way to get young girls to talk to me, mwahaha!
/r/seduction21/05/12 10:13 AM
2

'I didn't get a K-close" -> It's her who's at the receiving end.
/r/seduction16/05/12 12:34 PM
2

Somehow I fear that his last phrase has never been more appropriate: "most guys can't keep the conversation going is because they don't listen, and they don't treat it like a conversation. " Are you listening and understanding what he says?
/r/seduction16/05/12 12:31 PM
1

Maybe something extra: do this with everyone, all day, not only with handsome boys in your local club. This way you learn to approach and get a natural way of doing it. Smile/look at grandma's, etc. Talk to them, say 'hi', ask the time, etc.
/r/seduction16/05/12 12:16 PM
5

Well, what if we approach a girl and she's genuinely not interested? Swallow your pride, look for next 'prey'.
/r/seduction16/05/12 12:14 PM
1

...and then her 2 kids return from the playground.
/r/seduction15/05/12 02:43 PM
1

Or just tell her what time (-1 hour) it is out of nowhere. There's no way she doesn't remember your earlier convo. She wants you.
/r/seduction15/05/12 02:31 PM
1

Are you lucky he didn't put a name in that text! Copy/paste, voila!
/r/seduction15/05/12 01:40 PM
1

Stand high, head high, shoulders back. Someone in one of the faqs described it as I did in my first post. Basicly, don't let your head hang low with eyes to the ground, back bent, arms hanging loosely from your chest. (I'm not english speaking)
/r/seduction15/05/12 01:25 PM
1

Your username :/
/r/seduction15/05/12 01:20 PM
1

Your head is hanging by a string. The totallity of your weight is hanging from there. Just by complete accident do the soles of your shoes touch the ground. (no, i don't want you to hang yourself!!)
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:58 PM
0

Second one can come over very badly.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:53 PM
1

Over here, most people aren't even dancing most of the time. It's a lot more about talking and a little dancing to fill gaps.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:49 PM
1

It is you who did it. Don't blame us for your engagement problems, you bastard! ;)
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:44 PM
1

If we're going into the basics: If she rejects you, it's also a bad idea to become very angry and call her names.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:39 PM
1

Your dancing problem is fear. Stop giving a fuck. (And don't overdo it, just have fun)
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:35 PM
3

In my opinion nothing has changed. Just don't be a chicken about it and STOP reminding everybody out of a feeling of guilt. Apologise once (SHORT!) to the people who deserve it and then hold your mouth about it. If anyone mentions it, own it and laugh at it (good friends wont mention it to strangers). Believe me, everyone who ever had fun drinking, ended up in a shitty situation once. Maybe not as bad as yours, but they're all very thankfull it was you and not them (and they all know it could as…
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:29 PM
1

So how's your list at the moment?
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:19 PM
1

But don't become someone's slave. Give value on your own terms. You decide when you buy a round, you decide when it fits your shedule to help someone, ...
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:17 PM
1

That's the lie you're telling yourself. For a man, it's a lot easier to be attractive, but it takes some work. But you're probably not willing to put in the work. Everything is possible today.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:13 PM
1

I think your second paragraph is a lot more important than your first.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:08 PM
2

*postertity
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:02 PM
1

Gay guys are perfect to go out with. Just tell him you're not into guys. He'll probably still try, but you can just decline.
/r/seduction15/05/12 11:50 AM
7

The trick is hugging her from behind. Then you need to be very, very fast.
/r/seduction15/05/12 08:36 AM
2

It sounds like you're overdoing it. Just calm down. On many instances she made clear she wasn't intrested (anymore). The unresponded calls/text. The failed kiss attempt. And then you slap her on the ass in public... I think you should stop gaming her for some time (or forever).
/r/seduction04/05/12 02:18 PM
70

Guys, this guy tested it and reached 100% succes rate!
/r/seduction04/05/12 07:43 AM
1

It sound obvious, but more sleep and exercising help a lot. I was out of shape and felt tired all the time. Now, I work out a bit and run a bit and I'm jumping around cause I feel full of energy.
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:54 PM
1

Don't know. Go to your friends FB page, look at his friends and try to find her. Then send her a friend request, then send her a message. Remember her about your meeting in a first message, and tell (don't ask) her you should do this again sometime in a 2nd message (if she reacts to the first) and if she agrees set something up. Keep it short. Keep it funny. Use :) when you make a joke. Don't joke to much, but don't act to serious. If you have to wonder if she wants to meet again she probably do…
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:25 AM
1

It's probably fear of rejection. You like them, but not enough to be rejected by them. That's because you see rejection as something negative.
/r/seduction23/04/12 04:08 PM
1

Can't you find her on fb? It simplifies things if you can contact her directly.
/r/seduction23/04/12 04:07 PM
2

Reddit is full of fairly attractive, talented and well-off single guys.
/r/seduction23/04/12 04:04 PM
1

Talk to everyone, not only with those who're hard to approach.
/r/seduction23/04/12 03:53 PM
2

Someone should rewrite that tale with cookies
/r/seduction23/04/12 01:19 PM
3

Everything, but maybe not the "hey!". This can really work against you. If it was a very busy evening, many bartenders might get annoyed by this.
/r/seduction23/04/12 12:15 PM
2

Most bartenders hate it when you make signs of show impatience though. Always hold your cool, smile, try to catch their gaze and hold your wallet in sight. But overall, it's a bit of statistics. I'm pretty sure that bartenders are soo busy that they don't really care and are just doing one person after the other. Some days this can take long and other days you can get served the moment you arrive.
/r/seduction23/04/12 12:14 PM
2

Buy a matrass protective cover. It should be water proof and goes under the normal cloth matrass cover. You can wash it with the rest and your matrass stays clean.
/r/seduction20/04/12 09:09 AM
1

Most girls wont ask you out straight away. When you get in a one on one conversation, they often start conversations about dating or relationships to find out if you're the guy who's afraid to ask them out or the guy who's not intrested. I think confidence is more important than physical attractiveness to girls.
/r/seduction20/04/12 09:02 AM
1

Very logical.
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:31 PM
5

I saw a video once, and I don't remember where. To summarize. They put on a camera/eye tracking on girls head an they told them they'd be in a test. The actual test was in the waiting room 'before' the so-called test. At some moment some attractive men would enter the room. Afterwards they showed the footage and what the women were looking at and they all checked out the mens crotch. They said they didn't realise this themselves.
/r/seduction17/04/12 10:36 AM
1

And then you expect her to call you back. I think that's pretty unlikely. There's just not any advantage over a text message, but a lot of issues.
/r/seduction16/04/12 02:39 PM
1

Don't wear pants!
/r/seduction13/04/12 12:45 PM
1

But I like trolling r/seduction. :(
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:05 PM
1

Hah, now you make it seem as if HE was trolling. You troll! ;)
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:03 PM
3

Yes, escalate and fuck girl.
/r/seduction11/04/12 01:34 PM
1

Have you ever noticed, that when the discussion turns to a subject you're really interested/excited about, people suddenly seem to pay you attention? I'm sure that happened.
/r/seduction11/04/12 01:27 PM
1

I visited Australia and I don't agree. You can get in a fight there for even looking in the general direction of the wrong guy. There're some very aggresive people in Australia.
/r/seduction11/04/12 01:05 PM
1

Until she doesn't pick up, forcing you to call again to get your message accross and probably coming over as pushy.
/r/seduction11/04/12 01:00 PM
1

The keyboardsoldier never holds back from firing a few rounds of text your way.
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:03 PM
1

More like, "I know you're to old to fuck a 16 year old, but I'm legal!!!"
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:53 PM
5

Really? You think way to much about all this. She was probably just being herself when you started to confront her about her game. She doesn't know what to respond so she tells some random stuff about types of girls. Then you start calling her a bitch for no reason. (well, because you think there's some deeper gaming tactic behind her behaviour, but was there really?). So she probably feels pretty insulted and later on tries to take revenge by bitching on your clothes. And then, before the whole…
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:44 PM
2

Op shouldn't have started a confrontation. That's such a waste of time.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:34 PM
1

He should just have taken distance if he couldn't handle it, not start a big fight while everyone was staring at them. That makes no sense.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:30 PM
1

I think you gave her way to much credit. Girls don't ever have big intresting tactical game plans. I knew a girl like that. She was very insecure. It was her armor.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:27 PM
12

Best advice in my opinion: - Work on yourself! Do some bodyweight fitness or got to the gym. Start running. Work on your intelligence. Read. All easy things. Don't overdo it. Learn one fact a day and go between pushups, pullups, leg raises and squats days. Do each one time a week for a few minutes and you'll notice an improvement soon (and will feel like a god)! - Don't focus on the pretty girls. Learn to 'seduce' everyone. That old whiny tart in your block, that friendly gardener. They're much …
/r/seduction04/04/12 12:04 PM
1

She assumes she knows what she likes.
/r/seduction04/04/12 11:55 AM
-1

12) I'm not your driver.
/r/seduction04/04/12 11:55 AM
0

We already have 3,291,805,000.
/r/seduction04/04/12 11:46 AM
1

Yeah, it hurts, noone likes to be rejected. But look at it from the positive side, at least you know now. You can just start concentrating on other girls. Just don't take it personal or as something that reflects badly on you. You can't expect every girl to fall for you. We guys just have the shitty task to put ourselves out there and risk rejection. That's why you need to read seddit and become more experienced at all this! :)
/r/seduction03/04/12 11:45 AM
1

How's my comment even black and white. It's just reality. You can't accept denial and look for other reasons to rationalise it. No, she isn't shy or nervous, she's just not intrested.
/r/seduction03/04/12 11:37 AM
2

I can't be sure, but she probably did get that message. It's such typical behaviour. I learned this myself the hard way. :)
/r/seduction02/04/12 03:12 PM
2

Girls do. They're very bad at telling you they're not intrested. After some time you'll learn that this kind of behaviour often means no. Well, there might be a lot of coincidences that leads to such a mix up, but in my experience thats 1% of the time and I wouldn't be bothered with sending 5 text every time in order to be sure. If she's intrested, she'll realise it's her turn to make an effort. Just relax, don't take it personal, don't tell her how you expect her to react (being honnest). Keep …
/r/seduction02/04/12 03:10 PM
2

Does it matter? Stop looking at girls like insecure, fragile creatures. If they want it, they'll be there.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:59 PM
2

Don't take it so personal. Just remember, when she doesn't respond, it's not because of your phone. Don't go chasing her.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:58 PM
2

You shouldn't say all that stuff though. You scare girls away by doing that. Just set a time and place. She doesn't show, to bad for her. Forget about it. If she wanted to come she would be there or propose something else.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:56 PM
1

Self-improvement. Fake it before that.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:39 PM
2

On the couch?
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:38 PM
1

What would you consider a classy name?
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:30 PM
2

If you do this to often, people realise it. They probably wont call you out, at least not in your face. Don't make up stuff.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:27 PM
1

I was reading comics and writing gw-basic code. I agree. :(
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:23 PM
1

Not important, she's ripe for the picking.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:16 PM
7

But, you'll be dating the girl, knowing she had no problem cheating on her last guy. Good luck on trusting.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:15 PM
1

No, you're doing nice things for girls because you want them so badly. You're painting the image of yourself, you think they want to see. However, you're faking it, and girls are very good (inconcious) in sensing that kind of behaviour.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:08 PM
2

That doesn't work in real life. Forget everything you saw in the movies. Best thing would have been to ask her to buy you flowers.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:04 PM
1

Carry her to the item and command her to pick it up.
/r/seduction30/03/12 09:27 AM
1

Most girls don't initiate anything.
/r/seduction30/03/12 09:23 AM
1

Don't take it personal. If they don't respond, it's not because they didn't get the message or missed it, it's because they aren't intrested. It's not personal. It's easy to feel rejected and angry, but anything you do from that point on, will sound needy or insecure. Delete and forget.
/r/seduction30/03/12 09:16 AM
2

Just give it another try. She's just been divorced. Maybe she's just thinking in her head that it'll look to soon or something. She's really responsive. Keep up the escalation and try not to become friendzoned.
/r/seduction30/03/12 09:07 AM
2

Stop using it. You're not accepting your baldness. Your head is just to awesome to be hidden and your hair already accepted it.
/r/seduction30/03/12 09:03 AM
1

They can act like the toughest bitch around, but once you get close, they'll drop all the armor, and lots of insecurities will spill out.
/r/seduction30/03/12 08:58 AM
48

As long as she doesn't say "no"
/r/seduction30/03/12 07:42 AM
1

When you look at her she also plays with her hair, you know what i mean (nervous way)
/r/seduction28/03/12 02:34 PM
1

Start with loving yourself. Don't focus on what other people think. Work on yourself in very small steps. Steps that don't frighten you, but you can keep doing for the rest of your life. Then build from there.
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:47 PM
2

Must image search 'scowl' on google.
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:32 PM
1

Just be honnest and clear. Often a complete cut of communications is best for the party being rejected, because otherwise they keep attached and hopefull for a good outcome, but that's up to you. If she stops contact, don't go look for it yourself whenever you feel lonely or need a confidence boost. I'm bad at it myself, so...
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:26 PM
1

Set a date and a place. Asking for when and where just leads to endless messaging and no real plans. If she's intrested she'll come or propose another day that fits her. You don't want to propose 4 days and 4 places and have her busy all those days. It makes you look like you have no social life and want the date to bad.
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:04 PM
1

I'm sorry, I commented on you asking her on a date within 10 seconds, which sounds pretty difficult and akward. I find it easiest to ask questions that are relevant to the situation. You're in a bar and a girl next to you orders a certain drink, comment/ask/joke on it. You stand outside a restaurant and see a girl watching the menu, tell her what's good to eat or ask her about the place. Just talk about whatever you feel like talking about and don't worry if she agrees with the subject. I always…
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:00 PM
1

So you don't see her as girlfriend material. You should tell her this.
/r/seduction27/03/12 01:46 PM
2

Just ask her for a date? Asking straight away boyfriend or hookup sounds akward to me. How is she supposed to know without knowing you?
/r/seduction27/03/12 01:43 PM
1

You're actually taking the hard road, but you're doing it and that's what important.
/r/seduction27/03/12 01:24 PM
2

One thing I learned is that when a message or mail doesn't get a response it's never lost. There's just no interest. And anything you try from there will reach a cold wall. Best thing to do is take distance, and maybe in a few years you run into each other and you can start from a white sheet. However, don't wait for years, just focus on a few other girls.
/r/seduction22/03/12 02:32 PM
4

We all had Hope at some time in our lives. Wait...
/r/seduction22/03/12 01:55 PM
2

Just smile when you catch a sexy guy looking at you. You can't fail on the type of smile. Well "not idiot you" is complaining about to little attention, so stop telling yourself that. It's fear telling you to stay comfortable. Get noticed! Humans, yes, BUT do we have souls?
/r/seduction21/03/12 04:19 PM
1

I know this works for some/most people. If I do this, I always have stomach trouble the next day (I'm probably an exception, so experiment). In general I try not to do it. However, I try to eat a lot of carbs and fat before the drinking. Now I sound like the heavy drinker, while those occasions are far and few between these days. Best advice is not to drink too much. A bid of drinking can get people in the mood and help them with inhibitions, but there's an optimum, and if you keep drinking afte…
/r/seduction21/03/12 04:05 PM
1

Yes, you get dehydrated in order to break down the alcohol. The headache is your dried out brain making you pay for your neglect. Drinking 1 liter of water before sleep is optimal (source: my life), but after a long night out it's hard to convince your drunken self to do this. That's why I try to drink as much as possible and put the water next to my bed for when I wake up during the 'night'. Next day = clear head guaranteed. The stomach however...
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:35 PM
2

That does it, you women!
/r/seduction21/03/12 12:43 PM
2

I think the not giving a fuck perspective is rather for guys. Smile and eye contact is universal. It's not your job to be seducing, but you need to make them realise you're there. So stand out, dress up, smile, look around!
/r/seduction21/03/12 12:41 PM
1

Smiling or saying hi is far from giving a green light. To be honest, why would a confident guys who does his own thing and is socially gracefull and elegant be intrested in a girl who's looking at the floor and doesn't smile or say hi.
/r/seduction21/03/12 12:38 PM
1

If this fails, drink a lot of water before going to bed and take a bottle with you. If you wake up during the night, you'll feel thirsty, so start drinking a lot from the bottle. This will take the headache away.
/r/seduction21/03/12 12:19 PM
1

I think he makes himself believe this, and if it helps him be confident and approach later, good for him. :)
/r/seduction21/03/12 11:01 AM
1

Every time I've been on a plane in Europe, I got a seat number.
/r/seduction21/03/12 11:00 AM
4

... while sipping from a Clover® Brewed Coffee!
/r/seduction14/03/12 08:30 AM
1

Sounds like she was intrested...
/r/seduction12/03/12 12:36 PM
2

I think he saved it afterwards with the excuse. Things went bad on the bench. I wonder if OP got nervous around that time. She was holding hands for 15 minutes so that means something.
/r/seduction12/03/12 11:12 AM
2

Only got 3 eyes. What with 4 girls?
/r/seduction12/03/12 10:59 AM
26

So what do I do with all the Falcons I've collected?
/r/seduction09/03/12 09:18 AM
2

They probably get commision on the drinks they serve so she wants people in there. Her text are bordeline boring. She's not making any effort. Not even a smile.
/r/seduction06/03/12 10:39 AM
1

Maybe drink a few then. Don't overdo it.
/r/seduction05/03/12 04:33 PM
1

Not by you in your current state. You need to stop being so negative and start laughing at life! It's all just a big playground, one game with endless possibilities.
/r/seduction05/03/12 04:29 PM
1

Maybe just start by looking and smiling at girls you pass on the street and when they look/smile back, say 'hi' and move on. That's not to hard and you don't really put yourself in the open while building confidence. Actually, do this with everyone you pass. Guys, grannies, etc.
/r/seduction05/03/12 04:22 PM
1

Just start working on yourself. You won't make it if you don't like yourself. And while you deserve respect, you need to earn it most of the time. Always keep a positive attitude. If someone calls you names, it's sort of a shit test. Their opinion of you isn't put in stone yet, you can still win them over.
/r/seduction05/03/12 04:14 PM
2

Impressed.
/r/seduction05/03/12 03:43 PM
0

9 months later...
/r/seduction02/03/12 10:07 AM
1

Work on becoming the person you want to be. You find yourself ugly? Dress better, eat better, work out. You find yourself stupid? Learn one thing a day from now on. Set small goals and stick to them. Once you improve, you'll find it alot easier to have confidence in yourself, start to value your own opinion, be happier and able to project it on others. It's not about the mindset change alone. It's about really becoming the person who believes in it.
/r/seduction02/03/12 10:01 AM
2

I've been using it for some time now. For me it's completely unclear why everyone was hating so much on Vista and loving Win7. Probably Vista's bad start, but at the moment it has become Win7 with a different UI
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:10 PM
0

Switched from Vista to Win7. I was seriously disappointed in the lack of any difference whatsoever. I agree on AVG.
/r/seduction28/02/12 03:41 PM
3

Smiling is important. There's a difference between photo's of men and social interaction. Smiling makes people feel at ease and is very important with people you don't know.
/r/seduction17/02/12 09:23 AM
1

Especially when the pride pictures are from full body shot muscled athletes, compared to the happy pictures, which are some random big grin faces.
/r/seduction17/02/12 09:21 AM
2

I didn't realise she has to return the kino. It's the fact that she doesn't pull back that's important.
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:53 PM
2

Now I want to know what was happening in the good wingman story... :(
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:39 PM
2

You're trying to hard. She's backing off, because she notices this and it probably makes you look needy. If she was intrested she would propose another day or try to find an opening. There isn't anything you can do about it, except ignoring her for now and focus on other stuff/girls. Let her contact you the next few times. Don't ask her out again for a few weeks!!! Next time you ask her out you mention something you have planned and only if she shows intrest in the activity, invite her.
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:32 PM
1

She wants to get the content of your balls out.
/r/seduction10/02/12 12:50 PM
3

Because your ideas are boring.
/r/seduction07/02/12 04:30 PM
1

So are high 5s
/r/seduction03/02/12 02:24 PM
2

The bed was made from wood?
/r/seduction03/02/12 01:37 PM
2

If you see her again, just act normal. No harm is done. You have the courage, but you need to realise you made it a lot harder on yourself. If you do it the right way, you don't need that much courage. You try to skip the whole chase and go right for the kill. The chase is the fun part of seduction.
/r/seduction03/02/12 01:08 PM
2

It's the courage you need. Eventually you need to take a leap of fate and hope she won't turn away. But still, you made it very hard on yourself. I think you need a lot of courage to do what you did. I find it a lot easier to ease her into a kiss. You start with touching her arm and find "reasons" to escalate. If she isn't intrested she will back out at some point and you have social deniability. Being with 2 alone isn't always an option.
/r/seduction03/02/12 01:01 PM
1

You wanted to be the princess I guess.
/r/seduction03/02/12 08:38 AM
1

Doesn't need to be a fun place. - Not too loud music - Drinks - Good seats: if possible 'couches/benches' (I don't know the exact word) so you can sit next to each other.
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:08 PM
3

So did it work?
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:04 PM
1

and science!
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:03 PM
4

They probably try to make him sign up for a membership.
/r/seduction01/02/12 10:31 AM
1

She gives you a chance? She's the one who should be happy to be in your wonderfull company. Tell her you'll think about it.
/r/seduction30/01/12 12:15 PM
1

Big part of being attractive as a women is laughing.
/r/seduction30/01/12 12:10 PM
2

Then read some more, because it is.
/r/seduction30/01/12 11:12 AM
0

I once told one "Guess!". She tought I was unemployerd :/
/r/seduction26/01/12 11:14 AM
1

Load bearing? How many strippers are you thinking about?
/r/seduction26/01/12 11:13 AM
1

It's often so obvious.
/r/seduction24/01/12 12:45 PM
16

Just when I thought I wasn't crazy for telling random people "you're fat". :(
/r/seduction24/01/12 09:26 AM
1

Some guys just don't get it. :(
/r/seduction20/01/12 01:04 PM
1

The answers can be self mocking just as well, like "I've never even touched a boob before." It's not about bragging or showing of or feeling better at all. It's about giving a fun reply to a boring/shitty question.
/r/seduction18/01/12 10:55 AM
1

Hot girls aren't harder, sometimes even easier.
/r/seduction16/01/12 04:37 PM
2

They always show up at the most unexpected times.
/r/seduction16/01/12 04:12 PM
1

GF is holding on to them, in case she can't get the other guys balls.
/r/seduction16/01/12 04:11 PM
1

I think the important part is that you really try to add value (not to please). In your mindset you really try to make everyone better.
/r/seduction16/01/12 04:07 PM
1

Stop thinking.
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:53 PM
3

Maybe when I'll be 90.
/r/seduction16/12/11 01:42 PM
1

Seems like you try to stay in your confort zone, by going into the deep water veeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyy slowly. Sometimes you need to jump in to realise the water wasn't that cold after all.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:22 PM
1

Took a year, but we were both virgins, so was understandable. That is if he means the actual penetration with sex. Otherwise it was like 2 weeks or something. :)
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:17 PM
1

Don't talk about boring stuff, make everything a joke, either about you or her. Boring stuff like college or work make touching inappropriate. Oh, I work from 9 to 5, so now I touch your arm = awkward. Oh you just made a joke about me, so now I give you a little poke is more natural.
/r/seduction09/12/11 03:35 PM
2

Don't run, walk first. Just start with easy things like a 'hi' when you cross someone or asking the time. Don't focus on girls you like, but do this with everyone. Men, older people. Make it an habbit to be friendly. Then it will be normal for you to do the same with girls you do like without acting needy.
/r/seduction09/12/11 03:11 PM
1

You should add the word "fuck" somewhere in your reply... No wait, the reply is perfect already.
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:26 PM
1

You have much to learn, young padawan.
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:07 PM
5

I think you need to build up to the kiss. I don't think you can hide boredom and uninterest, so she probably noticed that. I think you had a chance, but just going for the kiss, shows her you don't really want to do the work to get there.
/r/seduction16/11/11 02:24 PM
3

The problem is when you use humor, girls need the smiley to understand it's a joke. They need a reference to understand if something is funnny.
/r/seduction10/11/11 10:56 AM
2

There's nothing wrong with you. You'd be surprised how many people are virgin at that age. Find yourself a good girl you like and likes you and you'll manage just fine. No rush.
/r/seduction02/11/11 03:11 PM
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