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Yeah I understand that one, I know I shouldn't care at all but before yesterday I was far from it, today I'm much closer, I just disagreed that I showed HER that I care.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:13 PM
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That was my mindset that I realized later, But in my words to her I really do not think I acted like I wanted her back, I might've been bitter but not hopeful in my words.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:25 AM
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Yes, I completely understand now. with everything that happened, Even if I fucked up at least I also learned something. Thank You.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:23 AM
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Yeah I get that, I kinda figured out my own hamster thing and way I did what I did, (look at the update) there's one more thing I don't understand, everyone say she came looking for validation, validation for what exactly? Did I give it to her today?
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:07 AM
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I 100% didn't know it was her, I actually thought it's my grandma haha She wrote me implying she's entitled to my time only after I ignored for a while, I know I should've kept ignoring but at least when I did give her time it was to make sure she will leave me alone. I shouldn't have explained myself though.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:05 AM
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I know I should've hung up, but i really do not understand where exactly did I come of as "come back to me"... I gave her some attention but that's after ignoring for a week and the attitude was pretty much, "fuck off, not interested, leave me alone" anyways it's a done thing now, read the update, I realized from the comments here and some thinking with myself why I acted the way I did and why I felt the way I did afterwards.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:01 AM
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Thank you so much, you really made sense to me and helped bring light to what actually going on in my mind. read the update to my post, I figured it out after reading your comment.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:40 PM
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entertain her? where did i do that, all I did is tell her to stop messaging me and move on... I know now that i should've ignored her completely but i did in no way entertain her. I didn't get into a conversation with her and falling into her frame, I didn't give her what she wanted.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:26 PM
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thank you, I do now finally got it. I do not agree though on being available for her, I ignored her texts for a week. when she called me I blew her off. I agree on showing bitterness, I should've avoided that but It's still hard for me to control those emotions. I feel like shit because that's not the respond I would've gave her if it were before TRP, I'm not used to being like that toward woman in general. if she would've reached out a few months ago, i would've been receptive and speak with he…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:24 PM
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no man, your'e getting it wrong. If i cared about her happiness i would've respond differently today.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:37 PM
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ok I get this, I do not hope for me and my ex to get back together, I moved on, i just really do not understand what was so wrong about the way I responded tonight, Yeah, maybe I should've kept ignoring but all I said is that i moved on and told her to stop messaging me, where was my frame broken? im really just trying to understand...
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:33 PM
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I have no intention to try and get her back, im well aware of the beta in me but im working on it. now, i dont care much what she thinks of me at the moment, but i dont get what was so bad about my respond, all i told her is to move on and that i do not want to speak. where did she break my frame?
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:27 PM
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do you have a girlfriend? I did not answer. i said "do not contact me anymore not her..." and yeah I've deleted the caht and number.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:40 PM
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Yeah I believe I did, even being the way I was towards her today is a huge progress for me and something I'm not used to. I don't think I showed her weakness today or at all this past week and at least now she won't message me again. There's still a part of me that wants to believe her, that she's a good person, she cares about me and she truly just want to know that I'm good, meet me and just talk like friends. but I know that i want to believe in that because It's comfortable, it's easy, and m…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 02:57 PM
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That's somewhat what I was thinking and why I replied the way I did, I know I should've not reply to her texts at all but knowing what I would've done before any of TRP stuff I'm also somewhat proud of myself. I still feel bad though, and Confused, I'm gonna go hit the gym and jsut take it all out.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 02:48 PM
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i guess youre right, It was right after she called me and I just wanted to be done with it and not have her message me again...
/r/askTRP04/11/17 02:38 PM
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alright, makes sense i will do that if it happen again.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 02:37 PM
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I read all of the sidebar, i picked up the phone because i didnt know it was her.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 02:32 PM
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I ignored and deleted her long before she texted me, I answered the call today not knowing shes on the other side.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 02:31 PM
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Thank you, I think i would go for the aware TRP man, there's too many emotions involved, she just texted me again, telling me that not saying anything is worse then anything i could have ever say to her... it's really hard but i just need to keep reminding myself, shes only looking for validationa nd attention... and even if shes not, the distance alone and the emotions i still have for her is something i just have to avoid... im still contemplating wheter i should just message her that i do not…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:56 AM
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Alright , I understand you now, I know you say that it's not like the movies but after being fed these ideas for years it's hard to let go of them, especially since they feed your ego and make you feel good about yourself no matter what. I understand how wrong it is. I still feel shitty for not even telling her I don't want to speak after she pretty much begged for it, but I guess that's just how it needs to be. Not replying feels powerful and having her begging for a response is something I nev…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:17 PM
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After I didn't reply to the next ew messages asking how doing, she said she's gonna be in my area for 6 weeks in 2 months, when I didn't reply to that she kept messaging begging to please just let her know if I don't want to speak with her... Am I making a mistake here and preventing myself a few weeks of fun? It feels powerful right now, not replying but with that I feel shitty, like I'm being a bad person for not even telling her I don't want to speak...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:17 PM
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Read my last message in this post, after that I ignored everything she messaged me, it came now to a point she messaged me the message I sent her minutes after we broke up saying "I appreciate what we had and that she can message me whenever she feels like it" yeah yeah I know... she message me a screenshot of that message I wrote asking what happened to this? Then again when I didn't reply she kept on begging I would say something, anything...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:00 PM
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Yeah I get what you're saying, right now I want to message her so much... she told me she's here for couple of months soon but she still has her whatsapp profile pic with her boyfriend... after I didn't reply she asked if I could just tell her I don't want to speak so she won't just wait anxiously... Should I tell her to not message me or just keep ignoring? That whole situation really fucking me up...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 01:15 PM
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Can you tell me why I won? Sure doesn't feel like that, she told me she's here in a couple of months for 6 weeks, then when I didn't reply asked if I could please just tell her so she won't just wait anxiously for a reply... I feel like I lost an opportunity for a few weeks of fun and just being a shitty person now not even telling her I don't want to speak...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 01:12 PM
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I didn't say I'm red pill, I have been working on myself and improving a lot trying to get where I want to. After I said "I'm good" she told me about her stuff and asked what I'm doing now, I didn't reply... she then continued to say she's gonna be in my area for 6 weeks in a couple of months, I didn't reply..., she now messaged me again saying she thought a lot about messaging me and she now happy she did but if I'm not happy about it and I don't wanna talk to her, "can you please just tell me …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:55 PM
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Fuckkk I seriously feel like I'm about to break, she just messaged me again saying that in couple of months she's gonna be in my area for 2 months...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:35 PM
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There it is, she just replied, telling me about school and stuff and asking what I'm doing now... I'm just gonna ignore. I hope that if I keep messaging with her everything will work out and we'll get back together. It's hopeless, I don't want her as my friend, and as more than that, distance alone is a big no no... thank you bro, you really helped me arrange my thoughts better and cut through my own imaginative bullshit...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:57 AM
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I can be pretty certain she did not, I know they're always a chance she did and she might have but I think not, not because she's special, I could tell from the way she spoke about sexual topics she's not fucking any other guys. You're right about everything else though. Thank you.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:43 AM
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Yeah I get what you're saying, that's probably the case, there's still this thought though in my mind, "we had something special, maybe she really just want to know that I'm ok" I understand it's wrong and try to shake it. I already sadly replied though, look at the edit, she said she wants to only know how I'm doing, I replied "I'm good" and nothing more, not initiating convo, if she will ask something else or try to start a conversation I will just ignore it...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:41 AM
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Already replied look at the edit, all I said though is "I'm good" I didn't ask her back or try to get the convo going...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:28 AM
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Makes perfect sense, you completely cleared the situation for me, appreciate that.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:33 PM
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She said "thank you" and smiled, The thing that bothers me with this interaction is that afterwards I felt like maybe I fell into her "trap", the way she said "you know I need to take a cab and a bus to get home every time" got me thinking that she said it for the purpose of getting a free ride home, with that it does work for me too, getting her alone with me.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:14 PM
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Yeah this I know, I don't say sorry anymore, it's just gonna be, "can't, got something to do", I'm done with explaining my actions to people. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:40 PM
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Oh, that makes so much sense, I've got a lot more work to do... thank you.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:31 PM
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How do I avoid doing that again if she asks me too? Saying no would be not reasonable as picking her up doesn't take any effort from me and she knows that. She lives right on my way there.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:19 PM
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Alright I get what you're saying, let's say I take her home today and we just have small talk, before next class she text me if I can pick her up on my way or take her back home when the class is done, how could I avoid doing that, saying no wouldn't make sense as picking her up doesn't really take any effort for me, basically 2 minutes delay and she knows that...
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:12 PM
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Yeah definitely it's not really the girl that fixed it, her husband is a computer technician so...
/r/askTRP10/08/17 12:18 PM
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I was thinking about that, but I saw here in a lot of places that it's better to not introduce people to TRP... I do think he could benefit A lot from it
/r/askTRP09/08/17 04:24 PM
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She just told him she didn't have internet that's why she didn't reply, he said alright he doesn't matter, how should he go about setting a date now? Without making her feel she controls him....
/r/askTRP09/08/17 04:27 AM
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Yeah i told him too that he's already giving her too much attention, I get what you're suggesting and why to say it but wouldn't she just reply "I don't know, you tell me"?
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:47 AM
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WOW i never thought about it like that, my life would have been pretty fucking amazing. you really changed my perspective on the whole scenario with one paragraph, thanks man.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:02 PM
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yeah I spent so much time on her, i was having fun at the time and it felt like i was making my time worth, now i see how wrong it was, with my schedule today i would actually wont have more than an half an hour to speak with her if we were together, i began to workout again, i read books, and i work on my music ALOT, my goal in life is to become a successful singer\songwriter, I never dedicated so much to it as i am now, I never dedicated so much to myself than im doing now. your reply really h…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:59 PM
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i really appreciate the detailed reply. completly agree with everything that you said and will get to reading the rationale male right away. my worst problem is the happy part, thats why i let myself down, before i met her, i worked out. i read books, i went out with friends and girls, then after meeting her everything became secondary and i put her in first place, no matter how shitty was my life as long as i had her i was "happy" I will never in my life repeat that mistake, Im gonna start putt…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:26 PM
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nah barely play video games and usually spend less than an hour a day on my computer. youre wrong with that theory. but i do understand now it was hopeless. our intention was always to meet and then see where it goes or at least thats what we told ourselves. shes actually a very active person but i understand where youre going. what we had wasnt a real relationship even though there was something there...
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:21 PM
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yeah i think you got me, and I'm starting to realize that's what I've been doing, I deleted her contacts a few minutes ago. and will return to the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:18 PM
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Went out with one girl, after 3 dates "let's be friend" that was before I discovered TRP I now know what I did wrong with her and will not repeat the same mistakes next time
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:03 PM
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im already doing 1 2 3 4 5, ill add the rest now, thanks for the advice, as time go by i do see more and mroe fucked up things in my relationship. i do sometimes have those moments where i think to myself, "wtf was i doing?!?!" just gonna keep working hard till im completly over her
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:57 PM
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ohhh guess that was pretty obvious.... deleting her contacts and snapchat was something i pretty much avoided doing so far, i guess im still hoping to get a msg from her, no more though, I've just now deleted all her contacts... im already working hard on myself and i read red pill material every day, i guess its just gonna take some mroe time to actually implement those changes in my life.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:54 PM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:32 PM
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I did read it all, I might not remember everything and I might have not understood everything because I am still new to those concepts, can you please elaborate or link me to what you mean?
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:09 PM
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All I see right now is what I did wrong in the relationship, I do evaluate myself that's why I'm finding it hard to get over her, I can't find anything wrong with her behavior, and I still feel like I will never find someone as good as her...I see people coming to the red pill posting about the relationships that got them here, they've been cheated on, they had crazy exes, they were treated like shit by their girlfriends, that's not my case, in my eyes she's still perfect and that's exactly the …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:07 PM
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Read it all, also read NMMNG, and I'm starting the rationale male today... I also lift...
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:27 AM
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I do completely understand the running part, she was my escape from reality. But I still can't think of myself as beta-orbiter, I'm trying to understand it but I can't, what could she have done better? She did gave me her time and attention as well, she did kept faithful to me as far as I know. I can't find anything wrong with the way she acted and I'm trying to...all I see is mistakes I made, all I feel is that if I was better she was still with me and we were still happy and could overcome our…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:19 AM
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Would like to know aw well...
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 02:28 AM
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Will do!! I'm experiencing some changes just from listening to beige, I'm getting comments from girls I never got before, good to know beige and black Phillip are actually credible cause I wasn't really sure till now...
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 02:26 AM
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There's an app you can download from the AppStore, that's how I listen to it and it works perfectly fine.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 07:42 PM
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ok... why won't you read the first paragraph and then reply?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 06:34 PM
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Yeah well if a girl ever call me something like that I'll just pass...
/r/askTRP09/07/17 09:04 AM
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Well till now I was thinking, call me whatever the fuck you want but you're still here speaking with me...but getting into the red Pill, I'm not too fond of people not just women calling me anything but my name, especially if it's "cute" something you would call a little boy...
/r/askTRP09/07/17 09:03 AM
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Thank you, now I get where I was coming from and where I should actually be. Nmmng been sitting on my shelf for couple of months think it's time I actually read it...
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:28 AM
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Yeah seems right... been blue pilled for way too long so pretty much everything confuses me now...
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:22 AM
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Yeah I get that, nah yelling at her is something I would never do, doesn't worth the energy, was thinking about just saying "you're welcome" or something like that...
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:12 AM
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Yeah I know I'm not micro I am actually 4"5 not that it makes much difference, just gonna keep working on myself and see how it works out
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:07 PM
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That actually makes a lot of sense, thank you
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:38 AM
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I well aware of that, it's true that one finger can make a woman cum, but both of us know sex in general especially for woman is very psychological, in worried that the fact that it's my penis that's so small, will make her pity me or be embarrassed or whatever emotion she'll have that will prevent her from having fun and wanting more...
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:59 AM
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I get what you're saying and I'm really trying to believe that. But isn't the whole TRP approach is be the best option the girl have? knowing they're opportunistically "choose" who to love and be with, how could I ever be a suitable option?... I sometimes do believe in what you say but in Real life all I see and hear (movies, girls talk, radio shows...) is how much girls love big dick and how pity they feel toward less endowed guys...with all the things I hear and notice everywhere it's just har…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:46 AM
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Where did you get that info? There's no chance it's correct...
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:30 AM
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Yeah I always aimed for small petite girls, always what I liked, maybe subconsciously that was my reason...
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:03 AM
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That's what I'm trying to keep telling myself, or maybe lie to myself that it will be enough, idk...
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:00 AM
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I'm still a bit overweight but dropping quickly... not much girth either, when I say small I mean small... nothing gonna change that...
/r/askTRP28/06/17 04:59 AM
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