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That's depends on where you live, as there's a cultural factor. But, overall, you have to keep escalating to have good results, and by that I mean you have to keep increasing the intimacy of the interaction. That can be accomplished by talking about more deep/personal topics, getting closer to her and doing physical touches. During that process, you have to watch her body language to gauge how interested/comfortable she is. It's also important that you put on a good posture before the approach, …
/r/seduction25/03/24 06:26 PM
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I think it was a smart move. Avoided the "I don't know what to do", turned her on and showed confidence. Despite saying "take control", OP showed that he was in control, since he gave the command, and she obeyed.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:27 AM
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You can start a conversation with "Hi!", and, when she respond, "Where you are headed to?", or "Which school do you go?", or simply "What's your name?". You can also talk about music she's listening, or something happening, or that happened, in the train or station. No need to be fancy or smart, just keep a positive attitude. As for the age, face masks fools everyone, so the only way is asking.
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:39 PM
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You are overthinking. Just because you made a joke that a girl didn't like, doesn't mean that you don't know how to treat women. In fact, most girls are not honest about how they want to be treated and how they want a man to behave. Also, you should not change yourself just to please one girl. If you want to improve, look at how more successful men behave instead.
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:14 AM
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Self-improvement is something you want to do for life. It's very easy to slip and acquire bad habits, so you should be always trying to do the right thing. In dating, it may take a few years to build your confidence and learn how to properly talk to women, but the last steps that you give are usually the ones that bring more benefit, so you should keep going. But, being more to the point in my response, what you can do to accelerate your progress is to put yourself in more difficult situations. …
/r/seduction23/01/22 04:51 AM
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Sometimes girls say something openly sexual to see how you react. If you fall for it and go sexual altogether, you lose. As for the opener, I would go for something like "You look like you can't handle three mimosas"or "How many mimosas before calling your parents for a ride?".
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:44 AM
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Good luck, my friend!
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:37 AM
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The easiest way is touching. Just touch his arm or bump into him while talking, it will become obvious that you are into him, and if he reciprocates you know that he is into you.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:30 AM
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Ask her out. If you text a lot with her, you can set up the date via text. Ask her to do something simple, like coffee or going for a walk, then remember to escalate. Good luck!
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:28 AM
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Yes, you should text her. Not right now, give it one or two days. Say that you enjoyed being with her and that you should go on another date. If she says something about the weird vibe of the date, acknowledge that and be honest, tell her that you were a little nervous. And when setting up the next date, try some place where she will be more comfortable.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:21 AM
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She said "next week" for a lot of reasons. Girls do this, try to set up dates later on, to analyze their options and, in the best case, to get to know you more beforehand. When you said "Monday", you stated that wouldn't give her this time, so it became a worse deal for her. What you may do now is excuse yourself, saying that Monday won't be good, and that you should set up the date later in the week. I don't know if it will solve your situation, but, in the lack of better options, is something …
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:06 AM
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Don't do it. This type of indirect communication will do you no good. Just ask her out again, to do something that will be easy and light, like going for coffee or walk on a park. The less pressure, the less likely she will be to flake.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:22 PM
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And also, for any guy wanting to date, shit tests and barriers will be routine. If a guy chooses to "move on" anytime he faces a difficulty, he will be alone forever.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:46 PM
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But she gave signs that she's interested. What kind of girl says "I cannot Thursday, but will be free on weekend"? Obviously, the interested kind. The fact is that most girls want the man to lead, so waiting for them to take action is almost always a lost cause. And that doesn't change if it's a fling or a relationship. Saying "move on" in a situation that clearly requires OP to take action is bad advice.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:44 PM
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Terrible advice. If you get butthurt and withdraw with something silly as that, you are a weak man with no capacity to lead.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:03 PM
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Confidence comes with experience. The more you do something, and the more you get positive results, the more confident you become in your abilities. But as you may know, doing something for the first time is really hard, and often the results are shitty. So, instead of trying to be confident, accept that you are not, and do the things you wanna do anyway. Embrace the shitty results that you will get as normal, take some time to reflect about what you may have done wrong, and with time and practi…
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:40 PM
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If you are going to talk to her, has to be on your terms. Also, have you thought through what you want? In what conditions will you accept her back? If you want to have this conversation, you need to be prepared.
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:55 PM
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The only way to erase the bad impression you left is acting the right way now. And since she broke up with you, the right attitude is to move on. So focus on your life and go have fun with other girls. Exes will only want you back when they see you grew into a better person and that now there are other girls wanting you.
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:48 PM
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First, you need to get comfortable starting conversations with people in general. Try making small talk with people on the streets, stores, etc. Learn how to use situational cues to open someone. Then, build it up by approaching women you don't find attractive, then women you find somewhat attractive, and finally the ones you really want to get. Cold approaching is a skill that takes time and practice to master. Good luck!
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:49 PM
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Knowing when to stop and give space is also part of the game, my friend. If you are too eager, chances are you'll scare the girls. Corey Wayne, in the 3% Man book, also said something about "two steps forward, one step back" to create anticipation and letting the girl wanting more. It's also important to build your patience, which is a great skill to have in life. Anyway, I think you are doing good. Just don't get too caught in only one girl if you aren't in a relationship.
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:37 PM
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As someone said, you are being a try hard. Give it a couple o days off, see if she comes talk to you. If she comes, great, you know she's chasing you. If she don't, no harm done, you will still be in the same situation, and can restart the conversation on another topic. Anyway, the more important thing is to not put much effort right now if she is not reciprocating.
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:34 PM
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Your city is not that small. Anyway, a place at my university that I used to approach girls was the restaurant. If your university has a restaurant/cafeteria, just sit at the same table as the girl you want to talk, put on a smile and say "hi". If she responds well, start a conversation, ask her about her major, etc. In case she responds cold, just act normal, eat your food and mind your own business. Edit: you can also try talking to guys, or people that you are not interested, just to practice…
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:06 AM
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Yes, you are being very friendly. What you need to do to be considered more interesting is to flirt and banter more. Like, when the girl said she worked for Disney, you could have told: "which princess are you?" or "oh yeah? I don't remember seeing you in any movie". Try making more fun of the girls, they love boldness. Also, on a side note: if some girl flakes on you, don't try to set another date right away (unless she proposes to reschedule). Wait a few days, restart the conversation, make he…
/r/seduction11/01/22 09:44 AM
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To banter is to make fun of the other person. If you do it lightly, it will be very powerful in seduction and in making friends. Suppose someone said that bought a new pair of running shoes. You could say: "nice, do you like to run?", which is a normal question. Or you could banter, saying: "do you really run? With these legs?" or "how many miles before passing out?".
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:14 AM
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I just remembered that in a podcast of Tripp Kramer that I heard the other day, he said something like: "if you don't know what to say to a person, you can use that a topic of conversation 'hey, this is kind of awkward, but I don't know what to say anymore...'". And then you can wait for the other person to choose a topic.
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:08 AM
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If you are always leading, then probably the person don't have much comfort with you. In these situations, are you making small talk most of the time? If that's the case, then it's confirmed that you don't have much trust with each other. The ways of passing this point are to make deeper, more personal, questions and to banter and joke. If you start joking, and if the person likes your jokes, they will start loosing up. Also, bantering will make you seem less boring. If you are already doing tha…
/r/seduction11/01/22 12:59 AM
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That's not true, you don't have to show energy during the entire time, and people won't lose interest because of that. If you made a good first impression, you can let them lead the rest of the conversation, and they will be happy, especially because it's probably going to be topics that they like. Show energy when meeting someone, speak out and have open body language. Ask something that you know that is of their interest, and then let them do the talking. After three or four sentences, you jus…
/r/seduction11/01/22 12:36 AM
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To not be seen as boring depends more on having energy while conversing. You don't to be energetic always, but it's good that you be when you first meet someone, so the person will have a good first impression of you.
/r/seduction11/01/22 12:19 AM
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And I can relate to you. I have a friend who was in similar situation, and not mattered how much I tried to help him, he always ended in a self-pity state. The fact is that he needed to do things by himself, and I had only to trust him and give advice when he asked for. When you go out with your friend tomorrow, let him do things in his pace. For those who are beginning to approach, saying "hi" is already difficult.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:31 PM
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It seems that you are putting a lot of pressure on your friend, and that can be very detrimental for his improvement. You have to let him decide to change by himself, and remember that he needs to take little steps, otherwise he will burn out.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:17 PM
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Playing hot and cold works very well, but it's probably not a good way to start a relationship. One healthier way to achieve a similar result is just having your own thing going on and not being too available (for sex including). Also, men usually want women that reciprocate and make them feel like they are needed, but there should be a struggle to get you, your heart and caring should be won by him little by little. So, my advice to you is to keep your life going on and not being too available.…
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:13 PM
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If you are already having sex, then showing money is completely unnecessary. As someone already said, it only increases your chance of being robbed. If you are looking for more than hook-ups, then it goes beyond unnecessary and becomes detrimental, since you can spin your wheels with girls that are not worthy. Edit: a better way to show that you have money, and impress the girls you are meeting, is buying nice things for yourself and dressing nice.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:34 AM
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To chat in a friendly way is not wrong, specially if you want a relationship, you just have to balance friendly conversations with flirting conversations and banter. So don't think you did something wrong, because you didn't. As for the escalation, when you are together, you can say something like "come a little closer", then touch her arm, shoulder, hands. If she is responding ok, you put a finger under her chin and gentle pull for a kiss. Good luck!
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:09 AM
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Dude, stop giving attention to girls just because you think they are pretty. This kind of behavior is what feeds entitled women. Have some self-respect.
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:03 PM
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Start simple, something like "Hi, it's <name> from <place>". If you created a good first impression, the girl will definitely remember you, so no need to be a try hard. If she doesn't remember you, then she was probably not interest in the first place, but you can always try to banter "Can't believe you don't remember me, I thought you were already in love". Then, after she messages you back, you can talk about something she said or did during the interaction, making a little fun of her, or you …
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:50 PM
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Of course not! If you make a good first impression, girls will remember for days.
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:33 PM
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One thing that is working for me is to, a few days before the date, ask if the girl wants to have a conversation for us to get to know each other better. I take this time to create comfort with her while flirting, keeping a little of the mystery. I believe this is necessary for some girls to feel comfortable enough to go out with a stranger that she met online. The exception is when the girl is visibly horny, then I invite her right away.
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:54 AM
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Texting right after getting the number may seem kind of needy. Also, "hey beautiful" isn't a good way to start a conversation. I suggest you to wait two or three days before texting, then start the conversation more lightly to set up a date. A few days before the date may be good to have a more long conversation, to flirt and create some comfort. Also, you should bear in mind that not every girl that gives you her number is interested in dating you. That is not your fault, so it is good to learn…
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:08 AM
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I think it's good to have a conversation for getting to know her better before the date, to flirt and create confort with her. In my experience, girls will have more disposition to the date (and not flake) if you take the time to create a connection. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:10 AM
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Hi! The key is to keep a balance of showing value and creating confort with the girl. You can create value with a good profile, passing shit tests and teasing the girl, and confort you create by having more casual conversations and showing interest in her. If you are being ghosted a lot, then you're probably off balance, either trying too hard to impress or being too nice of a guy. Finding balance is really difficult, and it's different for every girl, so it will take a lot of practice. No matte…
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:47 AM
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