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| 2 | Is marriage dead ?Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Anyone gone through this with a pension?Stop, full stop She’s assuming, and making you believe that it’s dollar for dollar. It is not Every dollar she claims of your pension is worth about 0.65-0.80 of real actual dollar today. However you want to spin that, it’s an important note brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 12:17 AM |
| 6 | Difference in Women vs Men After DivorceAmen brother, me too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 10:04 PM |
| 4 | r/divorceIt’s an echo chamber of bitter women. Viper pit | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/25 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Shocking trends with women and divorceIt has, I’ve posted this exact thing a few times before. It’s accurate. I made the mistake of posting this in the divorce subreddit before, oh boy that was a fun day | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/25 04:19 AM |
| 42 | Shocking trends with women and divorceMarriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/25 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Moving - was there anything you got for your new place to “soften the blow”?Totally from scratch, just started following some recipes on the traeger app and kept building from there. It changed the way I cook and now I’ve added a sousvide, and a vitamix into my arsenal of cooking tools and really enjoy making food for my family and friends. Set it and forget it meals are plentiful and delicious with a traeger or sousvide. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/25 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Moving - was there anything you got for your new place to “soften the blow”?Yes, sounds like mine, garage filled with my dirt bike, street bike, tools and a workbench. Put a projector in there with my old ps4 to stream because I also bought a ps5 to go with my 70” tv I also bought a cat, because they’re easy and it’s nice to have another living thing in there when the kids aren’t home | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/25 02:07 AM |
| 9 | Moving - was there anything you got for your new place to “soften the blow”?I bought a traeger and started smoking meats | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/25 02:05 AM |
| 24 | What is your view on the reasons for modern divorce?I’ve posted this a lot before, but it’s worth repeating for those who haven’t read it Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe”… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/25 06:26 PM |
| 16 | What Is Behind the Trend of Women Initiating Breakups and Divorces?Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/25 11:11 PM |
| 10 | Just found out there was another man... you were right (Support)That what I saved my XW contact info in my phone as “someone else’s problem”. I didn’t know that iPhones paste the contact info into emails. Needless to say her dad, my ex father-in-law wasn’t impressed. Sucks to suck though because she is his problem now. Oh, and the dude she was cheating on me with who she’s married to. Same story, almost word for word Life is better now | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | House and Retirement SettlementThis is accurate, it’s a large difference in amounts | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/24 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Alimony for short-term marriage while stbx wife is dating her boyfriend and living with meHappy cake day! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 04:50 PM |
| 13 | Is it worth getting married?I’ve posted this before, but I believe it’s worth repeating. Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/24 11:21 PM |
| 3 | My Brothers, you will appreciate this one.It’s an emergency response radio code for “under the influence” It’s an abbreviation for ethyl alcohol. EtOH | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 12:10 AM |
| 25 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Lost Trust in WomenAgreed, also happy cake day | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Lost Trust in WomenAppreciate your perspective | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 04:08 AM |
| 5 | Divorce 🎁 presents for yourself?I bought a house, and a traeger for the patio. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/24 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Fuck the status quoSame same, I really don’t see any alternative | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/24 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Silver BulletI want to see the deleted comment at the end. It was most likely one of us getting censored for not sympathizing with someone living in a distorted reality of entitlement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 08:21 PM |
| 11 | Is your ex-wife better off after divorce?I don’t know, and to be honest I don’t really care. I’m doing heaps better, that’s the part I care about. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Divorced Men: With what you experienced, would you ever remarry? If you could go back, would you have ever married knowing what you know now?Correct me if I’m wrong here, but it would seem the family court system failed to protect your friend and his children. A court that upholds family and marriage laws. I’m also going to assume that there were no repercussions against his ex wife for her false allegations. The same court and same set of laws that is supposed to be unbiased and impartial to both genders. I can go on, but I think you can understand my point. It is insane for any man to want to get involved with this system, court, a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Divorced Men: With what you experienced, would you ever remarry? If you could go back, would you have ever married knowing what you know now?I have to ask, what happened to your friend for him to end up in the hospital? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/24 02:36 AM |
| 11 | Divorced Men: With what you experienced, would you ever remarry? If you could go back, would you have ever married knowing what you know now?I’ve quoted this many times before, including the regular divorce sub. Some things are worth repeating. Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 05:09 PM |
| 22 | What are some signs you saw in the beginning but ignored that later contributed to the reason to your divorceMarriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/24 12:44 AM |
| 2 | The WifeySomeone else’s problem | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | For the men who never remarried and remained single fathers, is your life more fulfilling?I wish I had 2 upvotes for you, well said | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 04:57 PM |
| 13 | The cold hard truthMarriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/23 05:26 AM |
| 27 | You can really tell who the Walk-Away Wives are on r/divorce, can't you?Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/23 05:10 AM |
| 3 | The r/ask post about "why so many dads abandon their kids" is outright nonsenseYes, I read that stupid ass post yesterday as well. My reaction was the same as yours. However, my reaction changed a bit when the op mentioned the fact that they themselves were the child of a father who abandoned the family. We don’t know the reasons, and we don’t know why. If my kid were to have written that, I’d be at blame too. In this group, and the many others like it, exist because we don’t want any of our kids to feel that way. We fight the odds. We battle the courts, the stigma, and th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 05:49 AM |
| 3 | She left because I was "broke". 6 months later, my income has 8x and expenses cut in half. I think she was the reason I was "broke".This hit home for me, and I agree with you. I also hear the “hit the gym” rhetoric and maybe that works for some. But like you, I focused on my financials and crushed it. I moved up the ladder with more time and energy and focus. I spent less on dumb shit, and eventually bought a house by myself. Nobody can take any of that away from me and I find it great source of pride and strength. ✊ | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/23 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Divorced at 32 - red flag?For me, whose wife cheated, and I came out of that marriage like I was shot out of a cannon. I became so much more myself. So free and clear. If anybody thinks that’s a red flag, they’re not worth my time. You’re going to crush it out there. Men age like wine. Men age like wine my friend. Focus on you and only allow girls that are worth your time in to your life. Women age like milk, don’t pick the sour ones. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Divorce papers came in todayWhat’s your podcast? I’ll give er a listen. Love real stuff from real folk | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/23 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Did you keep the engagement ring?The engagement ring and wedding band are sitting in my gun safe and have been for a few years. They’ve got bad juju. My plan is to have them smudged and melted down to make something for my daughters at some point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/23 02:06 PM |
| 2 | I got my daughter back!!!Man, fuck yes 🙌 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 05:23 AM |
| 2 | I just have to take a little moment for myself and I want to share it with you guys. I just unloaded my stuff from a Uhaul, into my own apartment. This is my victory.Man, this is exactly what I did too and it was zen af. My walls were filled with art and awards and pictures of my kids and I put all of it where I wanted it to be. I’ve never lived in a place as tidy and organized until I lived on my own with my kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Is marriage a flawed concept?I did, I’ve pasted this before and I believe that as many men as this message can reach the better. I’ve stored it in my notes on my phone, feel free to do the same | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 07:06 PM |
| 26 | Is marriage a flawed concept?Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/23 05:07 PM |
| 2 | OLDMen age like a fine wine. Women age like milk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/23 02:51 PM |
| 15 | Why do the responsible ones end up paying?Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/23 04:05 AM |
| 2 | For those that are divorcedLived with her parents upstairs, ex and I and 2 kids shared a 3 bedroom basement suite on an acreage. Title was split 4 ways. They bought me out and I bought a 3 bedroom rancher with a detached suite, big yard but not an acreage. I’m the only one on title and I’m very happy being away from her and her parents. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/23 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else think alimony is BS?Oh look, here you are again. You must have hit the wall hard eh? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/23 06:09 AM |
| 25 | CAUTION: r/Divorce is NOT friendly to men!Yo, are you for real just rolling through the posts in this sub and trolling everyone? That beard on your avatar ain’t fooling nobody. Go take a walk to somewhere else. This is a support sub for men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/23 06:06 AM |
| 2 | You guys are the fucking problemMarriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/23 02:18 AM |
| 53 | Why are women like this?Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/23 07:46 PM |
| 9 | can't move onI have this copied in my notes, so I can paste this and spread the word. You forgot the quotes tho so imma just help you out here a little. “A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband, while a man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. “ – Charles Schwab “Whoever invented marriage was creepy as hell. Like I love you so much I’m gonna get the government involved so you can’t leave.” – Jim Carrey | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage.I feel this belongs here Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/23 08:00 AM |
| 2 | She discarded me and dumped me like absolute trash.You should head on over to r/bpdlovedones | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/22 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do Women give up on their marriage more than men do?Here we go again Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man ab… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Every Young Man Needs to Know ThisI’m in Canada, this is montrous. “Throughout their relationship, the two kept separate bank accounts and never owned property in common. Nevertheless, Latner gave Climans thousands of dollars every month, a credit card, paid off her mortgage and showered her with expensive gifts. He provided her and her children with a “lavish lifestyle,” the court found.” Brutal, none of that was enough eh? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 07:53 PM |
| 35 | Every Young Man Needs to Know ThisYo, I’m posting this again to reach as wide an audience as possible Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually eve… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/22 10:54 PM |
| 11 | What's the majority take on marriage here? Just stay away?Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/22 10:59 PM |
| 7 | Fellas, how long were you single til you got into a relationship again or started dating? I feel like I rushed it because I got into a relationship after being separated. And I feel like it’s affecting the relationship I’m in now cause I never got to healI went 2 years without getting into a really meaningful relationship. I dated and slept around and was completely transparent about my motives. Some of the girls caught feelings and that’s ok but I had built a ton of walls to maintain my the happiness I’d built and found. I expected and was willing to be single forever and just focus on me and my daughters. Then I met someone, and all the work I’d done on myself was great, but being in a caring and loving relationship all of a sudden brought bac… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | 2 years post divorceYour first paragraph was all about you. How awesome you are. Indeed I’m sure it’s true, you’ve come through the fire and risen as a motherfucking Phoenix bro. Nobody can take that away from you. It’s time to go out there and meet new people. That means listening to them, their problems, their triumphs, their interest, loves, hates and all the other. That starts with focusing less on you, because you’re fucking solid, and more on connecting with others. Shut your mouth and open your ears. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | coparenting banThat’s the difference between equality and equity | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/22 07:01 AM |
| 8 | For All the men here * Please read*I agree with everything stated here. I do believe that it’s not as much women individually, but societal women as a whole. The conflict comes from the traditional values that are instilled on young women that they should seek security and home and family. However once they’ve established those things in their life, they want individuality and empowerment. Those 2 beliefs struggle to coexist. Ironically the archaic divorce laws and family court system supplement both of these narratives at the sa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Judge Judy Not Having ItHow bow da! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/17 03:18 PM |
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